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2013-03-10 02:25 6005706 Anonymous (1331777913052.png 680x535 47kB)
For the first time ever a qurl I like likes me back and all I have to do to get her is ask her out. But I'm afraid I'll be terrible at it and mess it all up. I'm not sure what to do. HelP me /r9k/

1 min later 6005730 Anonymous (a5.png 390x480 169kB)
>tfw in the same situation >tfw she is a 8/10 >tfw constantly wonder why she is interested if I am a piece of shit I too, am asking for help.

3 min later 6005766 Anonymous
Go big or go home nigga.

5 min later 6005785 Anonymous
>>6005706 sorry, but what's there to be unsure of? you know she likes you, and a qt gf is just a conversation away what's eatin' you, op?

5 min later 6005793 Anonymous
>girl I like >she likes me >she's moving away at the end of the summer why do I even bother

7 min later 6005819 0P
>>6005785 I have no experience in the art of relationshits

7 min later 6005825 Anonymous
>>6005730 similar situation here what i do is just continue to become closer to her until i have an indicator as how she feels in my situation, she just asked me to prom. as friends, granted, but it's something, right?

9 min later 6005850 Anonymous
>>6005819 been there, man. it's really not as hard as you think. as long as the girl in question doesn't turn out to be an uppity insane superskank, you'll probably find that it comes naturally. any questions in particular that you have?

12 min later 6005884 0P
>>6005850 The problem is that I don't know how to do things naturally. Like, how will I know when to put my arms around her or kiss her or anything like that

16 min later 6005930 Anonymous
>>6005884 Just do it unless she makes a clear indication that she *doesn't* want you to do it.

18 min later 6005953 Anonymous
>>6005884 ah. well, i guarantee you it'll be kind of awkward at first. but hey, that's forgivable when it comes to first relationships. when you're sitting side by side, that's a good time to put your arm around her. it's a fairly innocent gesture so don't sweat it. but don't try to do it while you're both walking. that feels awkward if youre not used to it as for kissing, once the first one is out of the way, you'll find they happen a lot more frequently and naturally. remember, if she agreed to be your girlfriend, she wont have a problem with you kissing her. just make sure you do it at the right times. do: kiss her during quiet moments alone, romantic moments, and eventually when you say hello and goodbye. don't: kiss her in front of her friends unless she provokes it. otherwise you come off as awkward and posessive

21 min later 6005986 Anonymous
OPs gonna get friendzoned because he didnt act fast enough and then hes gonna make another thread bawwing about how he is forever alone

31 min later 6006094 0P (blox.jpg 126x126 5kB)
>>6005953 Alright, that makes sense. But she also has some problems such as but not limited to eating disorders and a tendency to self harm. Any advice on how to deal with that?

35 min later 6006142 Anonymous
>>6006094 >But she also has some problems such as but not limited to eating disorders and a tendency to self harm. Tell her to stop posting on Tumblr.

38 min later 6006186 0P
>>6006142 But she made me make one

44 min later 6006264 Anonymous
>>6006094 Dump her now. Don't get into that shit.

55 min later 6006387 0P
>>6006264 But I want to get into it

57 min later 6006431 Anonymous
Best thing you can do is just drop the whole thing, it will end badly.

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