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2012-10-07 01:04 4009335 Anonymous (1346819900489.jpg 440x362 75kB)
>I don't want to ruin our friendship with a relationship or sex Do people actually believe this? Are you really so emotional underdeveloped that you can't handle having sex with someone that you're friends with?

1 min later 4009345 Anonymous
>>4009335 Its a , waddya call it, excuse. They just aren't interested and or attracted to you, anon

3 min later 4009357 Anonymous
>>4009345 It didn't happen to me, I just read that from another thread. Some guy said he and a female friend didn't want to have a relationship because they were worried they'd mess up their friendship. I know it's an excuse usually, I was just wondering if people honestly believe that sometimes.

6 min later 4009367 Anonymous
It's simple really. She doesn't want sex with you, she doesn't care about maintaining the friendship. Sex doesn't ruin friendships, unless it's between two straight males.

6 min later 4009368 Anonymous
>>4009357 yes some people really are that deluded it's easier than accepting you're not good enough i suppose

7 min later 4009374 Anonymous
>>4009357 I believed it the first time I heard it, because I was a teenager. I am older now

8 min later 4009385 Anonymous
There is also this thing called friendzone. Same shit. >I was just wondering if people honestly believe that sometimes. Welcome to /r9k/ newfriend, lair of neckbeards who think they dont get sex because they are too nice.

18 min later 4009438 Anonymous
I know, right OP? It's always like "well I don't want to develop feelings for you accidentally!!!" and all of my friends who have tried the "friends with benefits" thing have ended up screwing it up when things get too deep... including myself. Went from "lets practice this shit" in high school to "lets get married" last year. It's really easier to abandon that shit and just have one night stands.

21 min later 4009447 Anonymous
>>4009335 There have been chicks I haven't asked out, because I know that if our relationship failed (likely).. That we probably couldn't continue to be friends. It happens bro

25 min later 4009472 Anonymous
>ITT: femanons. Absolutelydisgusting.jpg

25 min later 4009473 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
I've used that line some times, only a couple times was it truly true. Most times it's an excuse, and I 'friendzoned' you you can't get friendzzoned if she already friendzoned you But the other times I genuinely didn't want to do it because I know relationships can end so badly, and friendships do not. So I will take little less of your love if we can be together longer. nom sayan

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