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2012-10-07 08:14 4007485 Anonymous (6234324.jpg 507x841 127kB)
Do trully forever alone women exist? Have you guys ever met one?
I'm talking about never getting any attention from the opposite gender, not the "I'm forever alone my boyfriend is out of town" and "I'm forever alone I've been single for 2 weeks" you hear so many women say.
I don't think I've ever met one.
2 min later 4007508 Anonymous
im a kissless virgin femanon who is 24 years old
ive never been asked out by a guy and embarrassed myself by trying to ask them out myself
apparently im too weird or something, im not even fat and i dont think im that horrible looking
i feel so alone and i think i should end it because there is clearly something wrong with me
4 min later 4007517 Anonymous
>>4007508
where do you live, anon? let's get coffee! i'm semi-functionally eccentric and if you're in the bay area wouldn't mind talking to someone new
4 min later 4007524 Anonymous
is foreveralone related to your options or is it just a state?
i could have friends, boyfriends, and even a husband
they could be fairly attractive, too
i just have little motivation to go outside or keep up conversations
5 min later 4007532 Anonymous
>>4007508
Pics or nope
5 min later 4007533 Anonymous
My friend's sister is. She's not super ugly, she's a little mousy (looks a bit like Adrian from Rocky 1, before she got hot) but I've done worse. She spends her days watching anime, drawing anime (poorly) and working retail. She rents a room from her brother and he says she's never had a friend over male or female and she never goes anywhere. Just stays in her room with the door closed.
She seems happy though. He's tried to set her up with guys and she just scares them off. She swears she's not gay, just "no men understand me".
6 min later 4007539 Anonymous
>>4007524
>i could have friends, boyfriends, and even a husband
Then you're not foreveralone. Stop trying to redefine it to suit your easy-mode life.
6 min later 4007544 Anonymous
>>4007517
sorry anon, i live in new york...
plus ive become somewhat of a shut in and now i've let myself get socially retarded and i'd probably spaghetti all over the place
i am really flattered by the offer though
7 min later 4007549 Anonymous
>>4007544
oh, well that's a shame. keep your chin up, anon, things'll work out for you in the end
10 min later 4007567 Anonymous (foreveralone.jpg 557x645 82kB)
>>4007533
Took me awhile but I found a picture of her saved on my laptop. IIRC this was on a dating website that I stumbled across by accident. She took it down like RIGHT after I ran across it so I guess she didn't find what she was looking for.
10 min later 4007568 Anonymous
>>4007539
>Stop trying to redefine it to suit your easy-mode life.
don't get uppity
i explicitly asked if it was related to your options
since OP is even asking about such a thing, i can only guess he doesn't think it is, no female and very few males are foreveralone if one's options are related
10 min later 4007571 Anonymous
I've never gotten attention from guys who I wanted attention from in my life. And when I say that I mean all I've ever gotten was sexually harassed by homeless men. It's probably personality defects.
11 min later 4007578 Anonymous
>>4007533
I know that girl (Rio), she's not forever alone.
12 min later 4007592 Anonymous
I don't but I don't blame guys. I think that guys want to avoid the chick who goes on week long drinking binges without eating.
I'd avoid that guy too.
13 min later 4007598 Anonymous
>>4007578
oh and I have her nudes if you want them bro.
14 min later 4007605 Anonymous
>>4007578
That's not her name and she doesn't live in Rio, she's from a suburb of San Diego.
14 min later 4007612 Anonymous
>>4007567
I'd rail that into oblivion.
15 min later 4007623 Anonymous
Plenty of shy women. Never seen one who didn't get attention from males though. Some don't realize it or don't care though.
16 min later 4007629 Anonymous
>>4007608
you're actually pretty cute
is that the sort of outfit you wear all the time? If so I'd advise you to buy some cuter clothes.
16 min later 4007630 Anonymous
>>4007608
Huh. That is pretty strange, robot. You look kinda like an ice queen though, try smiling?
16 min later 4007634 Anonymous
>>4007608
1) Clean your room. You obviously don't expect people over. Even in a shot that I can barely see anything of your room, the place looks filthy.
2) Cut your hair or style it. You are attractive. Not OMG SO HOT DATE ME GURL but you're attractive. Your hair is a rats nest though.
3) Makeup. Wear it.
You don't look fat either. There's nothing wrong with you on the surface. You might be a bitch but even then you'd get some first contact.
16 min later 4007636 Anonymous
>>4007608
um. you could get in my bed if you want. it's a more comfortable environment for discussing tips in greater detail
17 min later 4007639 Anonymous
>>4007608
1. nosejob
i've wanted one myself for a while, but then i watched a video of the actual procedure and read about the healing process
anyway, there's not much you can do, you honestly look pretty good already
maybe try not to pluck the inner parts of your eyebrows too much (assuming that's not their natural shape)
also, squats make every girl hotter
17 min later 4007643 Anonymous
>>4007608
heyy asl?
17 min later 4007644 Anonymous
>>4007634
I disagree, I wish I had hair like hers. Don't cut it OP it looks fine.
17 min later 4007646 Anonymous
>>4007598
Post one, maybe miraculously it's the same person.
17 min later 4007647 Anonymous
>>4007605
I'm aware of where she's from, I've talked to her on okcupid and anonidate.
She goes by Rio online.
18 min later 4007649 Anonymous
>>4007608
And here comes the attention whores, as always.
>saged hidden reported called the cops.
19 min later 4007661 Anonymous
>>4007629
yeah i have self confidence issues so most of my wardrobe is baggy t shirts and jeans at this point
>>4007630
idk it just doesnt feel right if i smile, it looks so fake and i dont like it
>>4007634
what kind of haircut should i get?
also i have make up i just rarely wear it because i feel like i have no reason to
20 min later 4007666 Anonymous
>>4007608
Not much. You're pretty cute. Try moving.
21 min later 4007669 Anonymous
>>4007608
You're actually attractive, to me anyway. But dear lord, clean that goddamn room.
21 min later 4007672 Anonymous
>>4007608
>tfw robot dream girl
21 min later 4007673 Anonymous
>>4007608
Get a haircut Lovecraft, those unkempt locks aren't becoming of your long, eldritch face and lantern jaw
23 min later 4007689 Anonymous
Yes I have met one. Her and I are so similar its kind of scary (I'm also foreveralone).
We got drunk a few weeks ago and she told me about her foreveraloneness and seemed ashamed.
She's not even ugly or fat. Definitely not 'conventionally' attractive but definitely not ugly whatsoever.
23 min later 4007690 Anonymous
I'm a 20 year old kissless virgin. When I went into college I thought finally I would get everything I've ever wanted, friends, my first boyfriend, and I would be happier but it went completely opposite.
I moved out of my dorm and back hom because I couldn't stand being around so many loud, obnoxious, and stupid people. Basically this makes my day look something like; wake up, go to class, go home, tumblr, 4chan, drink by myself, get high by myself, pass out, over and over again.
There are no situations in my life that I can potientially meet a guy unless its in class, and people don't usually look pay too much attention. Even if I did meet someone I would just cut it off the moment I thought it was getting serious because I think I'm absolutely hideous and I hate myself and can't imagine a guy could touch me without being disgusted. Basically I don't get life or why I have it.
23 min later 4007692 Anonymous
>>4007608
You are a pretty girl. Take this from me, a femanon. You don't have to get all girl-ified, just get used to bringing some *life* into your eyes (open them up, practice showing expression with only your eyes) and you're set. I bet you look crazy beautiful with a smile on your face.
25 min later 4007703 Anonymous
As a trully forever alone woman I really hate attention whores like >>4007608
>I'm not really forever alone, actually I lost my virginity at 15 and had multiple boyfriends, but I guess I'll just pretend I'm forever alone in this thread to feed my endless need of attention
Fuck you
26 min later 4007708 Anonymous
>>4007690
Are you fat?
If so, then it doesn't count; you're just lazy.
Are you an ice bitch?
If so, then it doesn't count, you're just stubborn.
Are you actually ugly?
If so, I am truly sorry, robot. I really am. That is a fate I wouldn't wish on my most hated enemies.
26 min later 4007714 Anonymous
>>4007703
You, I like you. You sound bitter enough to be my friend.
28 min later 4007722 Anonymous
>>4007703
>truly forever alone
fuck off.
32 min later 4007742 Anonymous
>>4007608
b-b-but why? I mean I've never kissed anyone but that's because I'm 18 years old, shy and kind of picky ( almost got laid by a whore)
BUT YOU?
I don't mean to put you in a pedestal but you look fine, heck you are my type entirely, If this were real life I'd be hitting on you right now
even with that completely neutral I hate everything face, your lips are cute your eyes and that hair color
(fuck you internet for not having meetup machines)
now I'll just wait to be called white knight or deperate for expressing my honest opinions on an annonymous board
32 min later 4007744 Anonymous (1349591371657.jpg 715x533 105kB)
What goes on the internet, stays on the internet.
32 min later 4007745 Anonymous
>>4007661
>>4007661
>>4007661
>>4007661
If you're SoCal, I'd buy you a meal just to hear your deal.
Men generally follow the "don't stick your dick in crazy" rule, or maybe you're just offensive. I'll give you my opinion, as I have nothing to lose.
33 min later 4007749 Anonymous
>>4007703
What makes you truly forever alone? I used to say such things about myself, but my standards have lowered over time. I *really* need a guy to look fucking presentable in public though and have good posture. A guy agreed to go out with me, he's not the most attractive and is pretty nerdy inside and out, but I am supremely worried about how he dresses in public. And nerdy/shy guys are almost always stiff and have poor posture, I can't stand that. I wouldn't call it a high standard, just one of very few that I've retained over the years. There are just some things we can't get over....
34 min later 4007760 Anonymous
>>4007744
to the girl from that picture
DON'T LISTEN TO R9K, YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL
and I don't mean it in a "you look bad but I want to make you feel better" I mean it in a "I'm a guy that would totally watch movies with you cuddle and kiss you because you're adorable then fuck
35 min later 4007768 Anonymous (wendy2.jpg 348x343 27kB)
>>4007744
W-what the...
36 min later 4007771 Anonymous
>>4007760
Fucking faggot.
36 min later 4007772 Anonymous
>>4007749
>What makes you truly forever alone?
I'm really fucking ugly.
36 min later 4007775 Anonymous
>>4007760
No pick me! I'm the white knight for you!
37 min later 4007780 Anonymous
I don't think I'm foreveralone but I am kissless virgin at almost 20. Guys i like never show interest in me. By that I mean I do get sexually harassed by douchebags driving down the street once in a while.
I think my biggest problem is my weight. At 150 and 5'7" do you guys agree I should lose some? I have an ok personality I think. I am just very shy b
38 min later 4007790 Anonymous
>>4007771
you're right WOMYNN ARE WHOREESS... I ONLY FUCK VIRGINS THAT ARE ASIANS AND START CONVERSATIONS ABOUT ANIMU WITH ME AND THEY ALSO HAVE TO ALMOST FORCEFULLY KISS ME LIKE IN THE ANIMUS I WATCH
EVEN THOUGH I'M FAT SEVERLY DEFORMED UNINTERESTING AND REATARDED
39 min later 4007797 Anonymous
>>4007780
>>4007780
I have no idea, I didn't try and figure it out from your numbers, but if you have to ask you Already know the answer. Just TRY diet and exercise, for a little bit, just to see what it's like.
39 min later 4007799 Anonymous
>>4007744
Maybe you'd get a boyfriend if you weren't horrendously ugly. The fuck's up with that hat? Wear something decent or not at all.
39 min later 4007801 Anonymous
>>4007772
What do you look for in a guy? I know this is anecdotal but I'm sure you as well as I have seen "ugly" women with bf's
40 min later 4007806 Anonymous
>>4007775
I knew this would happen, noone can fuck you over the internet, it's just that I lost a girl years ago, she killed herself and she trully was cute... wouldn't want that to happen with a girl that deserves at least a 6/10 bf or gf
41 min later 4007812 Anonymous
>>4007806
>She killed herself
baww alpha won't fuck me ;_;
Good, we don't need the cunt in our gene pool anyways.
41 min later 4007814 Anonymous
Suicide is sad, way to be a downer, anonfag.
41 min later 4007821 Anonymous
>>4007799
shut up neckbeard... plus the hat looks cool
>implying you're not severely deformed
also I'm the guy white knighting her not because I believe she'll fuck me or whatever but because I really miss that friend that killed herself over depression and she kind of reminds me of her
43 min later 4007830 Anonymous
>>4007821
This girl isn't her.
The girl you loved is dead.
Dead.
Not coming back.
Dead.
Appearance and similar situations =/= the same person.
Dead.
Rotting in the ground.
Dead.
Bones and dirt.
Dead.
Dead.
43 min later 4007836 Anonymous
>>4007821
Because we go on 4chan to hear depressing stories of suicidefags. Fag off.
(Do I fit in yet?)
43 min later 4007839 Anonymous
>>4007812
actually her mother died when she was little her father hated her, she used to have one of those stereotypical douchy popular guys as a boyfriend but she didn't like him at all
also
>implying we need your shitty retarded mysogynistic genes
45 min later 4007851 Anonymous
>>4007830
why did that hit me so bad
45 min later 4007852 Anonymous
I get "attention" but I've never had a guy who was romantically interested in me. I've had one who wanted to have sex with me, and two who are trying to get me laid, not sure if that counts, as I'd rather avoid sex for as long as possible.
Doesn't help that I look about fourteen, don't wear makeup, and have an unpleasant voice.
46 min later 4007855 Anonymous
>>4007839
>she used to have one of those stereotypical douchy popular guys as a boyfriend but she didn't like him at all
Lol. I'd say "women logic" but it'd just be redundant.
46 min later 4007856 Anonymous
>>4007839
>but she didn't like him at all
Why was she with him then.
46 min later 4007859 Anonymous
>>4007839
>she used to have one of those stereotypical douchy popular guys as a boyfriend but she didn't like him at all
Do I even have to say it
Do I even have to
I'm glad she's gone
48 min later 4007868 Anonymous
>>4007852
How is your voice unpleasant? Vocaroo link?
48 min later 4007870 Anonymous
>>4007856
Probably the same reason I dated every girl I dated in high school. It was weird to me that a girl actually liked me and having a girlfriend in high school and being able to go to dances made you cool so I never said no. Actually I think to this day I've never said no to a girl. I dated a hambeast (5'6" 240) for awhile just because she was interested. We had nothing in common, she repulsed me but fuck it, it beats being alone; having someone call my cell was a novelty for awhile.
48 min later 4007872 Anonymous
>>4007744
to the girl in that picture
7/10 would bang
49 min later 4007881 Anonymous
So many whiteknight betas in this thread.
Thanks a lot, attention whoring cunt.
50 min later 4007891 Anonymous
>>4007868
Don't have a mic, sorry. It's a bit rough and masculine, sounds a bit young. If I had to compare it to someone, I'd say I sound like Ash Ketchum.
51 min later 4007896 Anonymous
>all these dumb, thin teeny-boppers think they're foreveralone because they don't have 30 boys climbing in their bedroom window every night.
What a cute little group of idiots.
I'm a real foreveralone, and trust me, if you actually knew what being a foreveralone woman was like, you wouldn't co-opt the label for yourself.
52 min later 4007911 Anonymous
>>4007870
this, plus she had issues... I blame myself sometimes for it since she told me she wanted to talk to me, she wanted us to escape to another state (at the age of 15)
then she sent me a message with what I now know is a quote from a song "love is watching someone die"
of course next morning, we all realized she had OD'd on vodka,vicodin,aspirin and other shit
53 min later 4007918 Anonymous
>used to be ugly and fat as fuck
>either ignored or mocked at school
>decided to take care of myself
>now constantly being hit on by guys wherever I go
>turn every offer down
feels kinda nice man
54 min later 4007924 Anonymous
Most people who use the term "forever alone" aren't even truly forever alone themselves.
Also people use the term because memes.
I'm not really a troll, that doesn't mean I can't troll people because I'm human.
57 min later 4007936 Anonymous
>>4007918
You fucking bitch, turning down guys who never would have had any interest until you were hot.
57 min later 4007939 Anonymous
My best friend is asexual. She is foreveralone in the way you described, although not lamentably. Yes, they exist.
57 min later 4007944 Anonymous
I'm mostly disgusted by how ugly OP's pic is, not fat.
1 hours later 4007965 Anonymous
>>4007485
I've met one. And she was actually pretty cute.
>a little chubby, but not by much
>no confidence
>no self-esteem
>sorta quiet
>very fun & sarcastic when you get to know her
>didn't take too much pride in the way she looked, so most dudes sorta ignore her
>One of those types of girls who look beautiful without their glasses on, but are pretty much invisible with them on to everyone else
Of course, I ended up befriending her because she likes vidya, and ended up becoming her first kiss (it was like this summer) and we're now friends with benefits.
I'm actually chilling with her this weekend, so I'm hoping to further things and at least bust a nut somehow haha.
1 hours later 4007984 Anonymous
>>4007965
>met a forever alone girl
>she's dating now
I don't think you know what forever alone means.
1 hours later 4008004 Anonymous
>>4007984
Well, she WAS forever alone until I met her.
1 hours later 4008010 Anonymous
>>4008004
Met her and got with her, I mean.
1 hours later 4008014 Anonymous
>>4008004
>was
>forever
Beda Ptednapa
1 hours later 4008016 Anonymous
>>4008004
Sounds more like every below average shy girl ever.
1 hours later 4008019 Anonymous
>>4008004
you don't understand the meaning of forever right?
quit using memes that now belong to 9fag
1 hours later 4008068 Anonymous
>>4008014
Well come on, no one on this board knows that they will be alone forever. I tell you what, the only *truly* forever alones are severely mentally challenged people. The deformed may get a pity partner that wants to be admired for dating a freak and the incredibly fat have fetishits. Nobody else is really forever alone, you just have to be willing to lower your standards. It doesn't happen overnight, you just have to really appreciate people being interested in you more than what they look like.
1 hours later 4008086 Anonymous
>>4008068
That's true for women, for men I'm pretty sure most of the guys who consider themselves forever alone in here are probably going to die without ever getting with a woman.
1 hours later 4008110 Anonymous
Sure. There's a girl I know who, despite having a lovely personality, is so desperate for a boyfriend she drives everyone to despair, and scares guys off.
It does not help she is overweight, either.
There's another one who is severely emotionally damaged from molestation that she can only be in a relationship if it is completive hidden from the outside world.
In reality though, so long as they aren't fat or deformed a woman can find a man.
1 hours later 4008134 Anonymous
>>4008086
Bull fucking shit. Every robot has ridiculous standards. There is some girl out there they ignored and is just too fucking snooty to ask her out because she's not a 5'2 skinny hipster gaemr gurl with adhd
1 hours later 4008149 Anonymous
>>4007485
If one existed they'd have to be hideous.
1 hours later 4008151 Anonymous
>>4008134
Not really, women don't really feel attracted to 20 something inexperienced virgins like men do with women.
1 hours later 4008156 Anonymous
>>4008086
You underestimate the immensity of the world.
They will not get what >>4008134 implies they want physically, but they will find someone who pulls the psychological strings they find attractive.
1 hours later 4008182 Anonymous
>>4008156
>You underestimate the immensity of the world.
It's like you're saying that a 70yo homeless bum can still be rich because he can win the lottery. Yes, there are a bunch of women out there, but our chances are still very very small.
1 hours later 4008192 Anonymous
>>4008151
maybe you're wrong, there are girls who do have a thing for lack of experience
there was this girl (18 years old) who would get with 15-16 year old boys because she loved the idea of corrupting virgin teens, unfortunately I am her age and I'm one of those I look 4 years older guy but still I can confirm there are some girls who love the lack of experience
1 hours later 4008205 Anonymous
>>4008192
But that doesn't apply to robots.
1 hours later 4008215 Anonymous
>>4007852
I know this feel. Only ever been approached by random people on the street that I doubt I'd have anything in common with.
1 hours later 4008234 Anonymous
>>4008151
Nah, if a girl likes a guy she won't care about his virginity. But really, just as men want to have flings with sluts, the only women that *really* care about experience just want a fuck as well or have low priorities for a relationship.
1 hours later 4008238 Anonymous
>>4008086
yes, because they're defeatists
a woman can also be a defeatist, but you'll just say it doesn't count because she has potential
the truth is even most of r9k isn't really foreveralone for any reason other than their comfortable defeatism
1 hours later 4008246 Anonymous
>>4008234
She won't end up liking the guy in the first place because love doesn't happen in an instant.
1 hours later 4008256 Anonymous
>>4008205
why so?
this chick didn't like the idea of guys being younger but just the idea of them being innocent
(I know this because I was friendzoned as fuck and I wanted to hook up with her cousin)
1 hours later 4008262 Anonymous
>>4008256
Because most of robots are 15yo teens, or atleast I hope they aren't.
1 hours later 4008263 Anonymous
Show me a pretty, single woman, and I'll show you a guy who is tired of her shit.
1 hours later 4008270 Anonymous
>>4008238
They don't realize the best way to prove that they're foreveralone would b. By actively trying their hardest not to be, but it goes against their rationalizations.
1 hours later 4008283 Anonymous
>>4008263
is that because of her friendzoning him?
because that'd be very common
1 hours later 4008285 Anonymous
>>4008182
You do, of course, need to put the effort in. There are a few chances for passive people.
The problem with many robots is that they have made no effort to change the things that make them unattractive. Don't liek being chubby? Gym. Don't like that you are not ascending some ladder? Study or quit your job and find a better one. Don't have money to spend? Do what my boyfriend did.
He quit his job, sold his servers and became homeless. Sometimes it just takes a seed of thought. I never realised how unattractive stagnation was until people around me changed.
1 hours later 4008291 Anonymous
>>4008246
Uhhh what? Unless the first thing you say when you meet a girl is "I'm a virgin", it's totally up to the social situation and yall's chemistry for her to like you. Nothing to do with virginity at that point.
1 hours later 4008315 Anonymous
>>4008285
My point is that for many guys in here, their chances are way behind them, they're too fucked up now.
It can happen, but it'd take an amount of determination that 99% just don't have anymore.
1 hours later 4008327 Anonymous
>>4008315
That's stagnation talking. Humans are, by definition, fucking flexible. If they do not have the determination, then let them go, they are clearly too immature to take responsibility for what needs to happen for them to change.
1 hours later 4008335 Anonymous
>>4008283
Because she's bitchy or something equivalent. On the surface she looks fine, but deep down there's a problem.
When I see an extremely attractive girl on OKcupid or Facebook as single, I avoid them like smallpox.
1 hours later 4008343 Anonymous
>meet girl online
>she is shy as fuck and socially awkward like me
>loves anime, videogames, and is not a stereotypical weaboo or gurl gamer
>thinks the same way I do about life
>want to confess to her but I know it wont work since she lives states away from me and I'm sure she's gonna confess to someone else instead
I dunno what to do either, she is always on my mind too. She is perfect in any way and I don't want to lose her.
1 hours later 4008354 Anonymous
>>4008343
Do it faggot.
>not even normalfag
1 hours later 4008357 Anonymous
>>4008327
Have you ever been in their shoes to judge them like that? I don't think so.
1 hours later 4008365 Anonymous
>>4008343
She's not forever alone.
1 hours later 4008366 Anonymous
>>4008343
meet-up with her unless you are a bitch nigga
1 hours later 4008372 Anonymous
>>4008285
>became homeless
sounds like good advice and great boyfriend material to me!
1 hours later 4008390 Anonymous
Yes. Hello there.
for fuck's sake, I'm so lonely
1 hours later 4008409 Anonymous
>>4007872
That's easily an 8.
Gawd, /r9k/'s standards.
1 hours later 4008412 Anonymous
>>4008390
What's the matter with you?
1 hours later 4008414 Anonymous
>>4008390
Rating out of ten?
And reasoning as well
1 hours later 4008420 Anonymous
>>4008343
Neither is he by that logic. but the distance may be a dealbreaker.
1 hours later 4008430 Anonymous
>>4007744
Your hair is hnnnnng tier.
2 hours later 4008443 Anonymous
>>4008409
Not really. Perhaps for murriclaps girls, but here she's more like a 6.5, 7 if she could dress well. Still, out of my league, lol.
2 hours later 4008444 Anonymous
>>4007567
Yeah, this comment is 100 replies away, but still.
She's not even remotely ugly. Do Americans have ridiculously high standards or something?
2 hours later 4008448 Anonymous
>>4008390
I'm pretty sure you're lonely by choice.
2 hours later 4008455 Anonymous
>>4008444
where are you from? Because, from what I've seen here, murriclaps actually have low standards.
2 hours later 4008503 Anonymous
I'm not attractive (I'd say a little below the average) or have any personality whatsoever besides being ubershy and equally socially awkward. I don't have many hobbies, I do have crippling "deppression" but I'm not obese and I have the lowest standards possible,
So maybe there'd be a minute chance of finding some individual desperate enough to form a relationship if not for the fact that I'm constantly stuck in nearly all-girls enviroments. Even the guys with massive neckbeard potential get moderately pretty, popular girls' attention because the ratio makes it impossible for these girls to stay picky.
I have no idea why the demographics here are so fucked up. I'm pretty sure the uni course I'm taking classifies as based STEM but it's still 80% female.
2 hours later 4008518 Anonymous
>>4008335
three legs of the stool:
>pretty
>single
>sane
No girl is ever all three, whereas I know a few good-looking guys with their shit together and they can't keep a relationship. Our society has been raising generations of female sociopaths, and we wonder why society is collapsing...
2 hours later 4008523 Anonymous
>>4008503
What course are you taking?
>ornmran says
2 hours later 4008528 Anonymous
>>4008503
Please be an ausbot
2 hours later 4008531 Anonymous
I'm definitely forever alone, I'm a kissless virgin with asperger's, anorexia and agoraphobia, no one meets me since the only people I've talked to irl in the last 7 years are my parents.
2 hours later 4008533 Anonymous
>>4008503
Tell me where you study, sounds like a complete fucking paradise.
2 hours later 4008536 Anonymous
>>4008531
>anorexia
HNNNNNNNNNNNG
2 hours later 4008538 Anonymous
>>4008518
>doesnt want to date sociopaths
normalfag detected
2 hours later 4008541 Anonymous
>>4008531
Sometimes I wonder how fucked up I am for seeing these as desirable traits in a girl.
2 hours later 4008545 Anonymous
>>4008523
Biochemistry.
What's funny is that biophysics got exactly the same deal. Physics has a similar situation going on as well.
2 hours later 4008547 Anonymous
>>4008541
It's ok, she seems like the kind of girl who wouldn't really cheat on you (since she has trouble getting a bf in the first place), she's not fat and will actually like to stay at home.
2 hours later 4008570 Anonymous
>>4008531
I would at least consider dating you.
2 hours later 4008577 Anonymous
>>4008545
It's not surprising, it's what happens when 70% of college students are female.
2 hours later 4008579 Anonymous
>tfw no cute, shy, aspie girlfriend who likes vidya and good books, who's also a model
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vQ4L_HYPTYw&feature=plcp
2 hours later 4008580 Anonymous
what I don't understand is
>girl doesn't have ridiculously fat legs
>wears baggy pants
>not skinny jeans
skinny jeans are so fucking sexy that I want to wear them myself since I'm basically a white Kenichi Matsuyama
2 hours later 4008583 Anonymous
>>4008577
>that feel when despite that statistic, there are no girls in your class
2 hours later 4008587 Anonymous
What people fail to see here is that, except for the girl who admitted to be very fucking ugly (and I'm truly sorry, really it must be the worst of faiths for a female, I hope things get better) the other ones are "forever alones" by choice. They COULD just easily go out, get fucked, start a relationship. It's just that they don't wanna; They don't really have to do shit like us (going to the gym, get /fit and /fa/, moneyz and shit), they just gotta give one guy a chance. They could, it's easy as fuck, they just don't wanna.
With the exception of the ugly fembot, you're all just whiny picky bitches.
2 hours later 4008590 Anonymous
>Never had any guy hit on me
>Wouldn't know what to do in that situation
>See women who look like manatees in dresses with boyfriends
What's wrong with me?
2 hours later 4008594 Anonymous
>>4008590
Post a pic and find out
2 hours later 4008596 Anonymous
>>4008579
>tfw no matter how hard you work out or how much money you get, you'll never be in a loving relationship with a woman of that caliber.
2 hours later 4008598 Anonymous
>>4008579
>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vQ4L_HYPTYw&feature=plcp
>this is why robots think they're "forever alone"
2 hours later 4008599 Anonymous
>>4008590
You're uglier than they are.
Or you're pretending the guys hitting on you are just trying to be friends.
2 hours later 4008602 Anonymous
>>4008590
Ahhhhh I know that feel all too well ;~;
2 hours later 4008608 Anonymous
>>4008528
Sorry, nope.
>>4008533
The country itself is pretty shit. We have technical universities in addition to the regular ones, I think that might the main factor.
2 hours later 4008611 Anonymous
>>4008598
Not really. She's seriously way out of my league, but like wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy out. I'd gladly date a 3 or 4 if they had good personalities (being a 4, perhaps a 4.5 if well dressed, myself). In fact, I've done it in the past.
2 hours later 4008617 Anonymous
>>4008611
She's only out of your league because of her looks. Her personality is robot as fuck and if nobody knows her, she's a tripfag on /cgl/ who's also done runways for Fashion Week
2 hours later 4008618 Anonymous
>>4008583
That's what you get for doing engineering.
2 hours later 4008619 Anonymous
>>4008602
>never had a girl accepted to date me.
>not even the kinda chubby/ugly ones.
This feel is at least 4 times worst. I actually have to try and face rejection, you do nothing at all.
2 hours later 4008620 Anonymous
>>4008594
What if I don't want to?
>>4008599
I'm most def not uglier than them, I mean shit I would probably never leave my house.
2 hours later 4008621 Anonymous
>>4008618
I'm a music major
2 hours later 4008623 Anonymous
>>4008617
Well, of course it's because of her looks. What else could it be? Out of my league because her personality is "really cool"? Lol.
2 hours later 4008626 Anonymous
>>4008621
>Music major
DO I EVEN HAVE TO SAY IT?
2 hours later 4008628 Anonymous
>>4008617
>because of her looks.
That is what "out of league" means.
2 hours later 4008629 Anonymous
>>4008620
>doesn't know what off putting about her
>refuses to engage in a constructive discussion that could be beneficial
2 hours later 4008631 Anonymous
>>4008626
>that feel when I don't even enjoy it anymore
I don't know why I did this, but the rests solely upon me.
2 hours later 4008632 Anonymous
>>4008628
I usually consider a 'league' to be consisting of both looks, personality, hobbies etc. Pretty much the whole package.
Some 9/10 easy slut wouldn't be in any high league.
2 hours later 4008634 Anonymous
>a bloo bloo bloo forever alone gurl
>immediate "pics pls," "contact info pls"
the life of a slut, so hard
2 hours later 4008635 Anonymous
>>4007485
askjfkashjhajfkhal
2 hours later 4008637 Anonymous
>>4008631
blame*
bloxoshame
2 hours later 4008642 Anonymous
>>4008632
ARE YOU RETARDED?
Dammmn son, 6/10, you got me posting twice and got kinda mad, nicely done.
2 hours later 4008643 Anonymous
>>4008629
>doesn't want to post picture on 4Chan because it's 4Chan.
2 hours later 4008645 Anonymous
>>4008634
Despite either being a troll or an obscenely bitter robot, this poster has answered the thread.
2 hours later 4008648 Anonymous
>>4008631
It's ok, most people don't enjoy what they do anyways. That's life, you have to do shit you don't like in order to get shit you want, like moneyz and bitches. :3
2 hours later 4008649 Anonymous
>>4008632
You are such a real-life noob.
2 hours later 4008651 Anonymous
>>4008642
What? Are you seriously judging people just by their looks?
2 hours later 4008657 Anonymous
>>4008645
Indeed it has. Don' even care if it's a girl, a robot or moot, he's right. And I blame us. I wish I could just kill the libido of every single men in the planet just so we could free ourselves from the pussy.
2 hours later 4008661 Anonymous
>>4008611
post a picture of a 4 anon, pretty please. And a one of a 3 and a 5 if that's not too much of a hassle.
I'd like to see what's your scale like.
2 hours later 4008667 Anonymous
>>4008648
Thanks for the kind words but...
>That's life, you have to do shit you don't like in order to get shit you want, like moneyz and bitches. :3
>money
>music degree
and
>bitches
see >>4008583
I would just switch to a different degree but quite frankly theres nothing I really want to do
polite sage for off topic
2 hours later 4008669 Anonymous
>>4008651
the fact that you're an obvious troll aside
only women judge men by how much social worth they can leech off of
2 hours later 4008671 Anonymous
>>4008651
In woman, it's their biggest factor. Nothing is more important than that and their beauty or lack of it give them their value for years to come, with personality playing a minor, almost dishable role. Are you new here? Are you new in life?
2 hours later 4008681 Anonymous
>>4008631
I'm the biochem one, I've got the same problem.
2 hours later 4008689 Anonymous
>>4008651
The only thing besides appearance that determines ones "league" is social class. None of that personality shit.
2 hours later 4008690 Anonymous
>>4008632
I like your approach a lot.
2 hours later 4008692 Anonymous
I guess it depends on what you consider a forever alone..
I'm a kissless virgin, 20 y.o. I'm a bit ugly and I do have really bad anxiety and depression and what not but unlike what robots might think that's not cute or attractive, it's really annoying. I'm working on hopefully fixing myself so I can be a better person one day, but progress is going very slowly.
As far as sex goes I think any girl can get it fairly easy from -someone- out there, unlike guys, even if you have to hook up with drunk people. But I also don't think that would help with the loneliness much, just like having sex with a hooker probably wouldn't help you guys feel any less lonely.. so I don't know if that counts as "forever alone". I hope not.. I dream that one day I'll be able to fix myself and get into a relationship with a nice kind hearted guy, but so far.. outlook not so good.
2 hours later 4008721 Anonymous
>>4008692
>I dream that one day I'll be able to fix myself and get into a relationship with a nice kind hearted guy
this.
2 hours later 4008744 Anonymous
Without a doubt they do.
As with guys, many would be great if only they would socialize a bit more (lack of socialization means lack of friends which means lack of social\cultural 'pulse' which means lack of social skills which means self-pity, which means a lack of socialization, etc).
2 hours later 4008755 Anonymous
>>4008692
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=375vwVZ7uAs
We need more women like you. You just came off as totally not bitchy. Good luck femanon, may the force be with ya.
2 hours later 4008757 Anonymous
>>4007485
I know a chick like that. She's 19, has severe insecurity issues. Used to take the D all the time from different dudes, but recently she's packed on weight and stopped taking care of hygiene and whatnot, so she looks atrocious. I talk to her from time to time, but all she ever does is complain and whine about how awful her life is. It gets old after a while, but eh, it makes me feel better about my life by comparison.
2 hours later 4008764 Anonymous
>>4008692
I applaud your honesty, with yourself if not us. Take heart. You're young. Socialize a bit, chat with people off and on with no expectation that you ever talk to them again. This can help break your "bubble," so to speak, help you socialize easier with people whom you may see again and help to establish a better connection with them. Your goal is to stand for yourself; relationships of all sort usually bud off from this. ;)
3 hours later 4008768 Anonymous
>>4008661
I did a whole collage of pictures to post here and the robot keeps fucking me over. ;_;
3 hours later 4008775 Anonymous
>>4008692
<3
First time I've heard a girl taking the blame for not being able to find a guy, instead of saying it's our fault, that men have no balls and shit like that. 10/10 would happily marry.
3 hours later 4008798 Anonymous
Someone in my college is forever alone. She just runs around with huge glasses and braces, greasy hair and skinny as hell. To put a picture on it; the classic geek girl. Nobody talks to her and she doesn't talk to no one. Pretty sad actually.
3 hours later 4008805 Anonymous
>>4008775
"Applaud your honesty" guy here. I second the notion- it's very refreshing to hear. Not that guys don't play the blame game a HELL of a lot, hearing anyone bear their own crosses is awesome. Means you're FAR AND AWAY further in recovering from your issues than most.
3 hours later 4008811 Anonymous
>mass upload for the bf
>mass upload
>uploading her mass
I loled.
3 hours later 4008823 Anonymous
>>4008811
That day, the internet crashed. The tubes were clogged.
3 hours later 4008850 Anonymous (6cY.jpg 3008x2000 1570kB)
>>4008531
>tfw depressed shut-in male with anorexia.
3 hours later 4008858 Anonymous
>>4008805
Shrug, I don't know about that..
I said progress was slow but I'm not really sure if there has been any. I've been at the "acknowledge your problem" part for a while but I'm kinda stuck here.. I feel like at some point in my life I got chained to a fairly heavy rock and instead of my struggling over time helping to whittle the chain away, it has only made me weaker and unable to fight any more. I'm currently nearing the stage where I just sit back against the rock and wait for the vultures, but there's still some fight in me. I need to figure out a plan very quickly but I'm not sure if I can do it.. but I'll find out eventually I guess.
Anyway, thanks for being nice to me.. it feels good to hear (read) some kind words sometimes.
3 hours later 4008879 Anonymous
this is another shitty soc/meetup thread
3 hours later 4008884 Anonymous
>>4008768
dang it.
I appreciate the effort.
Do try to upload.
3 hours later 4008892 Anonymous
>>4008879
usually turns into one as soon as the first "forever alone female" (read: not forever alone female) posts
3 hours later 4008919 Anonymous
most girls think im hot but i dont have any friends because i feel weird around people. girls don't approach me
i dont mind. i can get high and sit on my laptop every night and feel fulfilled
3 hours later 4008925 Anonymous
Fuck this thread. Talk about an excuse to say "life is sooo unfair and mine is so much worse than yours please give me pity."
"Truly Alone?" What bullshit. I can say the same thing and say you can't be truly sad because you're not an African who has lived without food for two weeks. But that's a bullshit cop out argument. It's all relative. Girls, even if they've had a boyfriend, can feel just as lonely as you. Do you also exclude guys who have hugged girls before (as if they don't have the ability to be lonely)?
Get a grip dude. You aren't the saddest person in the world even if you cry yourself to sleep all the time. Either accept that you're an ugly piece of shit who can't get laid and focus on something else, or step it up.
3 hours later 4008959 Anonymous
>>4008925
buttpain/10
keep worshipping pussy bro
3 hours later 4008971 Anonymous
>>4008959
You got it backwards. Everyone here is worshiping the pussy like is the meaning of life, the key to happiness, and the thing that separates good men from bad.
3 hours later 4008977 Anonymous
>>4008971
>Everyone here is worshiping the pussy
People repeat this over and over as if it will somehow make it true.
4 hours later 4009208 Anonymous
>>4008977
The main goal of /r9k/ is to get laid. Why are there so many "lonely" threads.
And why would you assume that I'm worshiping the pussy just because I'm asking for people to be treated equally.
4 hours later 4009227 Anonymous
>>4008357
Came back to find this thread still alive, or at least bumped.
Yes I have actually, r9k would have hated me anyway (lolfat) but I have been through the bad and worse and came out OK.
Like I said, so few people who are in these threads want to find the time and energy to change. Once the effort to change comes, everything else will, slowly, begin to begrudgingly come around to you.
4 hours later 4009347 Anonymous
>>4007768
that was my first thought as well
aloneblox
4 hours later 4009380 Anonymous
>Never got any attention from opposite gender
>I'm mostly seen more like a bro
>Awkward, shy
I'm not fat.. and i'm not deformed.. Something is obviously wrong with me.
Some randomer once told me I have a very good aura (whatever that means) but maybe it's clear I have no self-esteem and confidence.
5 hours later 4009402 Anonymous
>>4009227
all a chick has to do is not be fat, and even that's not even 100% necessary
spewing slogans with life on easy mode, my sides
5 hours later 4009413 Anonymous
>>4009380
Pictures help us diagnos.
5 hours later 4009416 Anonymous
>>4009402
you'd be surprised, but I have actually repeated that to several girls who make my life hell with their constant whingeing of "does that boy like me?"
Life has never been easy mode for me, but if you want to believe I can't stop you.
5 hours later 4009419 Anonymous
>>4009413
I've never put my picture up on any boards and never will. I know many who lurk.
5 hours later 4009423 Anonymous
>>4009380
>seem like a bro
>no attention from opposite gender
Only one of these can be true.
5 hours later 4009429 Anonymous
>>4009380
Do you have any male friends?
Because if you're not fat and ugly, it's virtually impossible that none of them want you.
5 hours later 4009432 Anonymous
>>4009419
do these people not know that you're forever alone? Would you have that much of a problem with them knowing?
5 hours later 4009436 Anonymous
I've seen a few over the years. They are not forever alone as in have zero friends but as far as BFs go none. One that springs to mind was a bit simple in the head and not the greatest looking at all. She was actually quite friendly but in a childish kind of way.
5 hours later 4009437 Anonymous
>>4009423
Then you misunderstood.
I have never got attention as anything other than a friend.
5 hours later 4009440 Anonymous
>>4009380
Pick the single male friend you like the most
voila, you have a boyfriend
Dumbass
5 hours later 4009446 Anonymous
>>4009429
I lost many of my friends quite a while ago. I see some of them from time to time.
>>4009432
They are well aware that I have always been alone. I've been hassled many times by them over the years on it.
5 hours later 4009448 Anonymous
>>4009440
Dude, you have... absolutely no idea.
5 hours later 4009452 Anonymous
>>4009437
Fair enough.
Still more than some other men here but alright.
5 hours later 4009456 Anonymous
>>4009446
why not post a pic then?
5 hours later 4009461 Anonymous
>>4009448
Don't call me "dude", that is a male word.
And do as I say. In fact, immediately message/call the guy you are thinking about and ask him to have lunch with you
5 hours later 4009463 Anonymous
Anyone can find a partner. It's all about your standards. If you have no standards, you will always find a partner. This is a fact for both genders. Don't believe me? Then explain how the fuck deformed people still can find sex/love?
Being ugly/awkward/poor/some other brand of loser is not the problem. The problem is not wanting to date other losers.
And really, why would you? Ugly people for example are just like everyone else in the sense that they have the same biological preferences for looks. If ugly people dated other ugly people looks wouldn't matter in dating at all and there wouldn't even be a concept of ugly vs good looking.
I'm ugly, socially retarded, drop out, weirdo and yes, a female kissless virgin foreveralone. I'm fully aware of the fact that I could find some 60 years old hobo to fuck me behind a dumpster but I don't want that. I want an average looking guy which is my biggest issue (I don't mind lack of social skills or other stuff - looks are the biggest problem). I can't be attracted to an ugly man even though I know I'm very ugly myself.
5 hours later 4009465 Anonymous
>>4009446
If you're not fat/ugly and don't have a terrible personality, then you could at the very least land a robot, perhaps even one of the good ones.
5 hours later 4009467 Anonymous
>>4009456
Thought I explained that? No way.
5 hours later 4009478 Anonymous
They probably do, I mean it would be impossible for at least one woman not to be a "forever alone", but thinking about it now... it's probably pretty rare for a girl, no matter how she looks, that doesn't have a disability or something to not have any friends or to never have any sexual/romantic attention from someone.
Like me, I think I'm pretty fuck ugly, but I've managed to bag guys and girls. The ugliest girl I know has had at least one boyfriend. A few women I've known over the years (one comes to mind, she was my neighbor when I was a kid and she was pretty ugly - but nice - and a recluse and a hoarder and suicidal who still lives with her mom now at 34) who you would think are basically untouchable have had boyfriends at some point.
5 hours later 4009482 Anonymous
>>4009461
Y'know, a lot of males here couldn't do that without spaghetti. It's the same with me.
5 hours later 4009485 Anonymous
>>4009463
this chick makes some good points
5 hours later 4009488 Anonymous
>>4009478
Jeez, don't know whats wrong with me then.
5 hours later 4009509 Anonymous
>>4009482
Messages this exactly
"Are you free this week? I want to have coffee with you"
5 hours later 4009520 Anonymous
>>4009509
Also, I hardly talk to any of my former friends anymore. I only talk to my best friend mainly and he is a gay hipster.
5 hours later 4009527 Anonymous
>>4009509
I really want to ask the guy I like in this manner.
But I don't know if he likes me and teases me, or hates me and teases me.
5 hours later 4009529 Anonymous
>>4009478
>lol guys i'm soo ugly xD
>*waits for whiteknights*
5 hours later 4009537 Anonymous
>>4009527
If he teases you he likes you, go ahead.
5 hours later 4009542 Anonymous
>>4009529
meh, meant to comment on
>>4009463
5 hours later 4009548 Anonymous
>>4009520
Just fucking message one of them. Worst case scenario is you get a friend back
>>4009527
He likes you. Retard. So go ahead and use my oh so unique and amazing pick up line
5 hours later 4009549 Anonymous
>>4009529
What? I was just making a comment I thought was relevant to my post, but okay.
5 hours later 4009555 Anonymous
>>4009537
Are you sure?
He's got a whole list of things he does, from the funny yet cringeworthy (I, for unknown reasons, kept a condom in my wallet so when I wasn't looking he put it on my phone), to the fucking annoying (shooting me with a nerf gun) to the "what the fuck?" (constantly calling me a lesbian).
No, I don't know why I like him.
5 hours later 4009558 Anonymous
>>4009463
Honest enough. Good.
Whoring or long-term-loving-relationships?
5 hours later 4009567 Anonymous
>>4009555
I don't even care, stop bothering me with that shit.
Is he single? BAM. Organise a date and kiss him
5 hours later 4009569 Anonymous
>>4009555
If he didn't like you he wouldn't talk to yet, let alone make excuses to talk when hes completely run out of things to say (hence the stupid bullshit).
5 hours later 4009592 Anonymous
>>4009463
Love your honesty. Sadly, your position is the same as probably 70 percent of r9k. You kinda get the feels.
5 hours later 4009611 Anonymous
>>4009567
this. Unless you're completely ugly or a hambeast, he will not reject you. Guys are like that, we fap to anime ffs, at least you're 3D.He will like it, do it.
5 hours later 4009636 Anonymous
>>4009611
>wanting 3DPD
0/10. Shitty troll
5 hours later 4009644 Anonymous
>>4009611
not other poster, but what constitutes hambeast?
5 hours later 4009646 Anonymous
>>4009644
Post your height and weight
5 hours later 4009647 Anonymous (sleep-edgy-vomit-chan disapproves.jpg 680x600 90kB)
>>4009611
>saying 3d like its a good thing
5 hours later 4009663 Anonymous
>>4009646
5'7 180
dealia placerssah
5 hours later 4009667 Anonymous
There was a girl I met through my friend, she was really small and cute, but dropped spaghetti absolutely everywhere, to the point where it kind of annoyed me, and apparently has never been with a guy.
I met one at a bar once, she wasn't bad looking but couldn't converse for shit, usually I try to keep up the conversation but I was just getting one word responses, at first I took this as a signal that she didn't want to talk so I took out my phone to respond to a text, then she said "why would you take out your phone, we're talking!". ugh.
5 hours later 4009671 Anonymous
>>4009663
I'm pretty sure that qualifies, I'm 5'2 and weigh 98 pounds.
5 hours later 4009676 Anonymous
>>4009644
Well, if you're a short girl, probably over 65 kg, if you're a tall one, after 80 kg.
5 hours later 4009682 Anonymous
>>4009667
Shit, that really rustled my jimbos. Though I'd probably just confronted her right there, but still social retards make it hard for us to like them.
5 hours later 4009683 Anonymous
>>4009663
180 is a bit much. I'd say you would be a bit fat if you were male (unless you are /fit/).
You overweight. I can't tell if you pull it off with just your stats, but you are overweight.
5 hours later 4009687 Anonymous
>>4009667
The first is fine, the second is rude
5 hours later 4009688 Anonymous
>>4009663
What. I'm trying to cut, already got buffed, and weight almost the same. Tell me you're a guy... please?
5 hours later 4009696 Anonymous
>>4009687
You had to have been there, I thought she just didn't want to talk to me tbh
5 hours later 4009697 Anonymous
>>4009688
Fraid not. I do go to the gym and I've managed to lose a shitload of weight from my starting (250), but I have no clue when people's perception changes.
5 hours later 4009700 Anonymous
>>4009683
If she's a girl, she's already in the murriclap level, double chin and all of that. If it's a guy, well, its kinda ok I guess if he goes to the gym and shit.
5 hours later 4009702 Anonymous
>>4009688
lol what, you are shocked that people can be fat?
5 hours later 4009707 Anonymous
>>4009667
>not learning to love spaghetti
It's an acquired taste. But goddamn I'm really starting to like when I and others lose our shit.
5 hours later 4009711 Anonymous
>>4009697
Well, I guess that at 20 percent body fat for women. At least you're trying, and already made a lot of improvements, congratulations! I've lost 6 kg in the last month, feels good maaang. Wish you the best, femanon :D
5 hours later 4009715 Anonymous
>>4009697
You shouldn't weigh more than me, a 6'2" male.
Fatty fatty boombah. You need to lose another 50 pounds
5 hours later 4009720 Anonymous
>>4009702
I'm fat, am 6 kg overweight. But thats kinda wrong, didn't think lots of robots would be fat, thought they would be kinda skinny or anorexic and shit. But its ok, everybody's got their problems I guess.
5 hours later 4009728 Anonymous
>>4009463
You're probably going to have to learn to like ugly guys cause men care a lot about looks. Its a war you won't win, even if you get some desperate guy he will snap out of it once his loneliness disappears.
5 hours later 4009733 Anonymous
>>4009728
Perhaps she could get him to love her by being super cute and cooking/treating him well and shit. Besides, men are horny as fuck, of course some not so ugly but kinda lonely guy will wanna fuck her. Dry spells do that to ya.
5 hours later 4009734 Anonymous
My best friend. She isn't literally foreveralone in the sense that I think she'll never find a boyfriend, but she's never had one and doesn't get attention, either.
She's not even fat or ugly, she's average (the kind that probably looks meh to some and cute to others), but she is REALLY paranoid towards all other people and isn't even really aware of it. She snaps at new people she meets and is very hostile, because she's afraid to let anyone get close to her. Her parents took good care of her but never gave her warmth or affection, I don't think she's hugged anyone in years. And her father is autistic so that doesn't help things.
5 hours later 4009741 Anonymous
Why do misogynists want girlfriends anyway? You all hate women, what could you get from them that you can't get from a hooker?
5 hours later 4009747 Anonymous
It depends on how you view "forever alone."
Sure, there have been options for me, but I have way too many mental issues and such a low self esteem that I refuse to accept any of them. These issues stem from a horribly abusive home life, as well as years of social isolation.
So I just fester in my bad feels, and they get intensified when I reject someone I really care for, and it winds up being an awful circle of self hatred. I'll probably kill myself one of these days.
5 hours later 4009750 Anonymous
>>4009734
Why don't you date her then?
5 hours later 4009771 Anonymous
>>4009741
We don't hate women. We hate womyn, what the majority of the western world women have become. There are some ladies out there who still deserve the best a man can give them, but sadly they are probably the last 10 of 15 percent, a dying species.
5 hours later 4009779 Anonymous
>>4009741
I'm not a misogynist. I doubt very many people are.
I hate myself, not anyone else
5 hours later 4009780 Anonymous
>>4009747
Don't do it femanon!
First suck muh dick, then you can do whatever the hell you want :D
5 hours later 4009782 Anonymous
>>4009750
Because I'm not a lesbian, sadly... should note that she did get asked out (sort of, they'd meet up but weren't really friends so it was more or less a date I assume) when she was 15, but beforehand she became so nervous she threw up and cancelled and never talked to him again. That was frustrating to hear about.
5 hours later 4009789 Anonymous
>>4009733
>Dry spells do that to ya.
Not necessarily. There comes a time when its been that long you pretty much accept it ain't happening and stop giving a fuck about it and your self. If you find a guy in that state his first thought is "is she trolling me". It will take some time to prove your genuine.
5 hours later 4009790 Anonymous (apples.jpg 688x1434 188kB)
>>4009741
Love? Girlfriend material girls are better than the standard whore.
5 hours later 4009791 Anonymous
>>4009782
Find a "nice guy" to be her friend. It might take half a year but sounds like she needs to be friends with someone first
6 hours later 4009800 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>4007485
>tfw I've been forever alone for 4ish months
It's worse to have felt and lost, then to never have felt it.
My standards are probably ridiculously high, but I think I deserve something more then an assholefaggot.
6 hours later 4009808 Anonymous
>>4009800
Please don't respond, just ignore, this is a troll trip
Hide that message and this message. Please do not reply
6 hours later 4009809 Anonymous
Look at this fucking /soc/ thread.
I wish that the people on here weren't so desperate/supportive.
It's not like people that have serious emotional problems are going to read a post on here and turn their lives around.
I saw a couple of people in here that look like the real deal.
I wish all the posts in here were like >>4007690
To reiterate: It doesn't matter if I'm ugly or model-hot; my brain is fucked up.
Even retarded people with derpy torsos and bulgy heads can get laid.
6 hours later 4009813 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>4009808
>discouraging OC and discussion
>any opinion that isn't yours is being a troll
Looky here, an idiot.
6 hours later 4009816 Anonymous
>>4009800
No, you don't. Not because you're ugly or anything, which I assume you're not. Its just that you're a bitch. Sadly, I'm sure you'll get guys other non bitchy girls won't, just because you're prettier or easier. I'm guess that's life. You don't deserve nothing more than another one like you, a dumb, empty headed asshole bf.
6 hours later 4009823 Anonymous
>>4009747
My life story. I used to have four or five friends. Now I only talk to my mom and someone I met in middle school.
I'm having a lot of trouble getting back to my new therapist. I feel bad for wasting her time :/
6 hours later 4009826 Anonymous
>>4009816
Please don't reply to trolls. Its a male not a female.
It is a troll, please just hide this message and his messages
6 hours later 4009827 Anonymous
>>4009791
Believe me, I tried, problem is we live in different cities (45 minutes apart, different universities) so I don't know the people in her classes. And because she's been alone so much (I am also her only real friend) she is very afraid of letting new people get close, so she's supercritical to try and avoid getting attached to people. The use of a wrong word or phrase can send her running.
However I am going to a lecture with her in a week, there will be people she knows superficially, so I'll definitely be trying to spot someone that might be a good match for her.
6 hours later 4009829 Anonymous
requesting pic from >>4007608
6 hours later 4009830 Anonymous
>>4009809
Go get checked then, get a brain scan or something dood.
6 hours later 4009837 Anonymous
>>4009826
sorry, I failed, promise I won't reply again.
6 hours later 4009838 Anonymous
>>4009827
She sounds like a more skittish version of MY best friend.
Try someone who is persistent, but doesn't take offense easily/at all. Someone who smiles a lot but who isn't demanding or dangerous
6 hours later 4009840 Anonymous
>>4009827
Use the raw power of the internet. Chat up some people yourself. If you figure someone is nice enough then put them in internet contact with your friend. Nice and safe, if she trusts your judgment.
6 hours later 4009842 Anonymous
>>4009840
Creepy and fucked up/10
Don't do that, thats weird. Stick to people you know IRL
6 hours later 4009851 Anonymous
>>4009838
I am going to, the problem is that to her nothing is scarier than someone showing possible interest in her. It makes her feel trapped and uncomfortable.
Luckily she's been feeling more lonely lately, which has prompted her to reconsider the whole thing so I do think she's more open for new friendships/relationships now.
Good to know there are more people like that, I guess. It's a shame because she's an amazingly interesting person: she's bubbly and funny, has a crazy sense of adventure, is very intelligent and ambitious... she just shuts down completely around strangers.
6 hours later 4009859 Anonymous
>>4009842
Creepy? Nah. Some great people out there. Good practice, too.
6 hours later 4009867 Anonymous
>>4009851
Sounds like something traumatic happened to her.
6 hours later 4009871 Anonymous
>>4009851
>shuts down completely
Haha, my friend probably should shut down instead of what she does. She doesn't know how to act socially, so when confronted with strangers she usually says/does inappropriate or rude things, without realizing she shouldn't.
Does she have any old friends she might be more comfortable with? Could reintroduce them
6 hours later 4009873 Anonymous
>>4009867
Not everything is dramatic, anon.
Some people are just born this way
6 hours later 4009880 Anonymous
>>4009750
Is her name Alex?
6 hours later 4009885 Anonymous
>>4009867
Well, she's been bullied, but rather than something traumatic I think it's never fitting in and always being excluded, combined with natural paranoia. She's not autistic at all but I do think she has some of the things from her dad, she has an insane memory for the tiniest details and can act really "weird" around people (insulting them harshly, for example) without seeing (or believing afterwards) the way she comes across. But she's a pretty solitary person by nature.
>>4009871
Wow, that sounds exactly like my friend. She also feels offended by strangers weirdly easily (she never gets offended if I joke around with her), always feels attacked etc. This causes her to strike back full force as soon as someone playfully jabs at her.
Sadly, no, no male ones... I don't think she's ever been close to a guy.
6 hours later 4009887 Anonymous
>>4009873
>she became so nervous she threw up and >cancelled and never talked to him again.
Maybe a little more than innate shyness.
Trauma or not, that sounds like an anxiety disorder.
Maybe she's agorafabulous.
6 hours later 4009889 Anonymous
>>4009880
No, it's not, I'm not English/American, either.
6 hours later 4009890 Anonymous
>tfw would like a forever alone girl to cuddy and talk with but overall I am very content with being forever alone myself
It gets bad when I look in the mirror, I pretty much am in perma cocoon mode. So I look amazing from all the time I have passed from training, I can't hold all this time so when I'm not doing that I just read and learn about stuff whilst making strange bleeps and running a small independent label from home. Sometimes the homely looking girl at the post office smiles at me when I sending out a bunch of orders but apart from that I don't know any females, I don't know anyone.
6 hours later 4009896 Anonymous
>>4009889
Strange, you have literally describe every experience a girl I know to a T. She even had the same experience of vomiting and cancelling on a guy at 15, and an autistic father. I am surprised.
6 hours later 4009900 Anonymous
>>4009887
Mm, not sure... she can cope with the people she has to cope with due to her education. She doesn't like it, sure, but she manages, I don't think she's ever had panic attacks or anything like that... and to be fair she was a lot younger and more insecure back then (now 19), I don't think it would be *that* bad if it happened to her now.
6 hours later 4009907 Anonymous
>>4009890
What kind of music do you make?
6 hours later 4009910 Anonymous
>>4009885
Well, don't give up hope on her. My friend didn't get a boyfriend until she was 20.
6 hours later 4009924 Anonymous
>>4009900
>(now 19)
How the fuck is everyone fucking 19?! Goddamn. Everyone is either 19 or 24 on /r9k/. What the fuck is going on?!
Ahem. That is quite irrelevant to your point and this thread so Imma sage myself.
6 hours later 4009926 Anonymous
>>4009910
Oh, I don't, I just really hope that once she gets a boyfriend he manages to loosen her up a bit and make her more trustworthy. And cuddles her all the time because seriously who can go without hugs.
6 hours later 4009928 Anonymous
>>4009926
>who can go without hugs.
Me
6 hours later 4009952 Anonymous
>>4007744
just beautiful
6 hours later 4009964 Anonymous
>>4009928
But what about your parents? I mean I've never had a relationship but my parents are affectionate as fuck, the idea of parents not hugging their kids seems so cold to me.
6 hours later 4009967 Anonymous
>>4009964
No, I don't hug my parents
6 hours later 4009969 Anonymous
>>4009907
Just weird braindance for the most part, occasionally some ambient stuff, I started making it in 2006 so I had some good music to listen to, it didn't get good for a few years though hahaha but I got hooked on the creation process.
Years ago I used to make strange stuff with all these odd arabic instruments that my distant relatives (grandfather married a well-off arabic woman) sent me as a child and during my early teens I wanted to start making recordings and I basically found you can do some cool stuff with DAWs and softsynths as well. After a while I basically just started using the computer to make all the sounds.
I don't really make anything commercial like EDM or electro house as there would be no point seeings how there is thousands of hours worth of that stuff just waiting to be listened to so what would be the point in making more of it? I kinda got bored of the same sounds so that made me experiment with strange stuff more and more.
6 hours later 4009975 Anonymous
>>4009964
i have hugged my parents once it was when they came to visit me at university and i was 19, and even then it was only my mum and we never did it again
6 hours later 4009978 Anonymous
>>4009967
That's too bad. I'd hug you but virtual hugs are pretty disappointing compared to the real thing. Become of a vegetarian and celebrate "hug a vegetarian day". It's a thing.
6 hours later 4009981 Anonymous
>>4009975
I'm sorry. That sounds so sad.
6 hours later 4009982 Anonymous
>>4009978
I want a hug from someone that wants to hug me because they care about me
6 hours later 4009993 Anonymous
>>4009982
Yeah I understand. I know that's not exactly of much use to you but I hope you'll get it soon.
6 hours later 4010006 Anonymous
>>4008608
>The country itself is pretty shit.
>We have technical universities in addition to the regular ones
You must be from Finland, right?
>fry.jpg
11 hours later 4012392 Anonymous
>>4007485
>Mass upload for bf
That picture always cracks me up, especially the mass part.
11 hours later 4012449 Anonymous (1313509317305.jpg 200x300 25kB)
>>4009926
>I just really hope that once she gets a boyfriend he manages to loosen her up a bit
11 hours later 4012506 Anonymous
>>4009978
That sounds extremely stupid.
I don't see the value in hugs. They offer no practical benefit. There is something wrong with you.
11 hours later 4012548 Anonymous
I just want a sugar baby that I can give money and the essentials in exchange for monogamous sex.
Forget that relationshit business.
11 hours later 4012569 Anonymous
>>4012506
You probably literally have autism if you don't understand why people hug.
12 hours later 4012607 Anonymous
>>4012569
Can you not read? Because that's not what I said, moron.
12 hours later 4012624 Anonymous
>>4009880
Mfw I'm a fucked up foreveralone girl and I'm called Alex too.
12 hours later 4012732 Anonymous
i just want a tee total schizoid virgin girl who is broken inside just like me
> tfw no-one like this in Devon, England
12 hours later 4012767 Anonymous
>>4007533
i know lots of girls like this, and every time i get near them they reject me, because honestly alot of people have prince charming syndrome
12 hours later 4012888 Anonymous
>>4009667
I wish I could meet somebody who was as adamantly against texting during conversations. 10 years ago that shit wouldn't fly
12 hours later 4013039 Anonymous
I know a forever alone woman.
She basically looks like OP's image, but with a better face, better hair, and far, far bigger tits. Here's the thing, though; she's forever alone purely because she chooses to be. I know at least 5 guys, plus myself, who would jump at the chance to fuck her (seriously, her tits absolutely mesmerizing), but none of us ever will because... wait for it....
Unless you have your own place, a car, and money to spare, she thinks you're fucking dirt. This from a woman who failed university and is stuck working an entry level position for $12.50 an hour.
Despite the fact that she's a complete fucking failure as far as money and career goes, (still lives with her parents at age 27, can't afford to move out) she seriously believes that she's worth nothing less than a fully independent male.
If her forever alone status changes, which I imagine it eventually will, it will be due to one of two things;
A: She meets a wizard who aced college and has a good job, but has never touched a girl in his life and will thus bend over backwards to please her.
B: She lowers her standards and hooks up with one of the half dozen guys who would happily fuck the shit out of her fat ass.
12 hours later 4013169 Anonymous
I'm a foreveralone female.
I never had a single friend or boyfriend. The only sex I ever had was when I was raped as a child.
I'm thin and I don't think I'm unattractive, but no one wants me because of my emotional issues and because I don't want/can't have sex (it still hurts because of the rape).
I stay at home most of the time and I'm a NEET.
13 hours later 4013221 Anonymous
I haven't as much as held hands with a guy for my entire life. I have male friends, but they all choose to discuss attractive women with me (they all know I'm straight, though). Something's missing in me that guys want in a girlfriend and I don't know what it is.
13 hours later 4013334 Anonymous
My life is pretty cool and i have lots of friends (mostly males because i find womens to be pretty boring).
I don't think i'm horribly ugly, definitely not fat and getting some genetics, but i don't do anything to work on it. I dress like a guy, jeans and t shirt erryday, don't wear make up and run a ponytail.
I think i could get a bf if i wanted to waste 1h a day working on my look but this is just boring. I never got attention from anyone, no one asked me out and obviously kissless virgin, but i'm cool with it.
I honestly don't feel the need to be in a relationship. Kissing grosse me out at the sight and sex, well, seems nice but i'm not this interested.
So if you consider an aromantic/asexual lifestyle as forever alone, then I am, and will probably get into wizard mode.
But i do have friends, thou. Could'nt live without them.
(And no, i m not that "friendzoning bitch". I don't see how someone could possibly want to engage in relationship with me, way to fucked up in the head and they know it)
13 hours later 4013360 Anonymous
>>4009734
This is similar to one of my friends. She isn't fat and ugly either. She's actually really cute. Short, glasses, frizzy hair she's insecure about and always keeps up, pale. Soft voice, writes fantasy stories all the time, every robot's dream. Problem is she's a bit dull and doesn't stand out at all. She's pretty much invisible to the world, and is kind of depressed. She's been "in love" (it's probably infatuation) with a guy she's barely spoken to for 3-4 years. Almost no romantic male attention, hasn't ever had a boyfriend. It's kind of saddening just looking at her... she's look so alone. I want to hook her up with that guy but she's way too shy to ever go up and talk to him. And she won't even tell me who he is so I can't do anything.
13 hours later 4013387 Anonymous
>>4013360
>And she won't even tell me who he is so I can't do anything.
yfw it's you.
13 hours later 4013410 Anonymous
>>4013387
>mfw I'm a girl
Pretty sure she isn't a lesbian either.
13 hours later 4013458 Anonymous
I read these threads hoping someone would be kind enough to post their Skype, but then I remember I'm from Australia and there are no robots here, let alone female forever alones
13 hours later 4013463 Anonymous
>>4007896
How ugly are you?
of course this wasn't an original comment.
13 hours later 4013512 Anonymous
>>4007744
Filthy room and has the face of a Jewish horse.
13 hours later 4013526 Anonymous
>never get romantic attention from male
>all of them see me as one of the guys, if they get past dealing with my spaghetti
>get called pretty by other girls
>If I could have a dollar for every time someone has asked me if I was a lesbian, I would be able to pay myself through university
Should I just become gay? It would be so much easier..
13 hours later 4013564 Anonymous
>>4013526
No madam, allow me to love you
13 hours later 4013583 Anonymous
>>4013526
Did you get friendzoned by those guys? You should probably try to meet men outside of that circle. If you're not ugly try being more forward and obvious to guys on dates.
14 hours later 4013916 Anonymous
>>4007485
im friends with a girl that looks just like this... but a little fatter. was at her wedding 2 years ago, she got married to a pretty nice guy. no male model but a good guy all around. she classified herself as a forever alone type but she still dated around (lol match.com).
i also met a girl thru a friend who was 24, a virgin and a little awkward. at first she was pretty plain looking and seemed dull but after i talked to her a while she was a pretty cool chick. if i wasn't a social retard back then i would have asked her out fo sure.
>>4007544
NJ here, im pretty resistant to spaghetti
14 hours later 4014125 Anonymous
>>4012506
You shut the fuck up, hugs are better than kissing in my book. Not better than sex though
15 hours later 4014525 Anonymous
single moms are the true female forever alones
15 hours later 4014552 Anonymous
There's one girl I went to high school with who never had a boyfriend and is still a virgin in her 20s.
She was always really quiet, had a scared look on her face, and apparently has some kind of personality disorder that makes her want to avoid strangers and large crowds.
She always posts facebook status updates about being friendzoned and makes "letters to people who will never read them" type posts about boys she crushes/crushed on.
So yeah they do exist but they're a lot rarer than the male variety.
15 hours later 4014603 Anonymous
I'm forever alone but it's by choice.
I hate male attention.
I purposefully carry about 50lbs of extra bodyweight. I dress in an "unflattering" fashion. I hate men and feel no need to impress them by doing anything to seem provocative.
I fucking hate whores and I fucking hate tumblr. I'm not a feminist. I think they're all trying to "smash patriarchy" by showing their goddamned breasts and it's ass backwards.
I occasionally get some semi-physically-attractive fetishist who was clearly breastfed until he was 17 who comes along and tries to throw me some patronizing bout of "what's wrong? I'll be your friend!"
If I wanted friends I would grow back some hair and smile at people.
15 hours later 4014737 Anonymous
>>4008110
>There's another one who is severely emotionally damaged from molestation that she can only be in a relationship if it is completive hidden from the outside world.
Actually that just means you're too ugly/poor to be seen with her in public champ.
15 hours later 4014782 Anonymous
>>4008587
>With the exception of the ugly fembot, you're all just whiny picky bitches.
Actually I'd marry the ugly fembot and love her forever, so I don't see why you singled her out. There are millions of men who don't care how a woman looks like at all, and just want someone with a half-decent personality.
Oh right but we're not in the upper 5% of men so not even that ugly fembot is attracted to us, right? Gotta hit that gym trololololo.
15 hours later 4014838 Anonymous
I know this one female forever alone. I've known her for over 12 years now, and she is about 33 years old. She's somewhat outgoing and smart. Maybe a 3/10 but I don't think she's ever made effort to look better. Her downfall is that she publicly blogs about her crushes for months and months on end. It creeps them out and they never talk to her.
15 hours later 4014871 Anonymous
>>4014782
>There are millions of men who don't care how a woman looks like at all
HA
HAHAHAHAHA
Good one.
15 hours later 4014878 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>4014871
A few million men is nothing compared to 4 billion.
I wouldn't be surprised if there is more
All though I do wish all men didn't care.
15 hours later 4014903 Anonymous
>>4014871
There's about 90% of us, the upper 5% of douchetards, and the lower 5% who try to emulate them and fail miserably (most of 4chan) not included.
16 hours later 4014968 Anonymous
>any girls that don't get male attention?
>yeah, blabla, i'm a girl and i'm lonely
>instant male attention
this thread is reducing the number of truly forever alone females
16 hours later 4015047 Anonymous
>>4014838
blogging
would punch that bitch in her mouth.
would force her to dig up potatoes
would force her to work in a factory
she has too much time on her hands
16 hours later 4015412 Anonymous
>>4014878
Says the girl who only cares about looks when it comes to guys. You girls are much more shallow than we are.
16 hours later 4015416 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>4015412
Are you implying I only care about looks?
Because that simply isn't true.
All though it is rather high in my priorities
But everyone is allowed to have their own personal preferences.
16 hours later 4015453 Anonymous
i knew this chick that was actually kind of cute but she hardly ever said anything. and when she did, she was incredibly quiet.
nobody really talked to her, i imagine that she may be forever alone.
17 hours later 4015647 Anonymous
I'm fat, have gross skin, and teeth and I'm not even smart so I'll be alone forever.
17 hours later 4015693 Anonymous
>>4015647
I'm potentially interested, a/s/l?
17 hours later 4015972 Anonymous
>>4014878
oh you would. ever since traveled to another country?
there are much more men who don't care about your fat. i traveled to midle asia and eastern europe. all i can say. women who live there are more happy and are definitely not forever alone like in western europe. because if you live there you take what you get. also women and men in poor countries are not messed up by porn, pop-culture and shitty philosophers.
young women in europe alienated themselves. they don't want marry, don't want to have kids, even hate kids. i seen this so often. as a male i ask myself: "why i should live with that woman? i don't want to watch tv and eating ice cream with her till i'm 65." just sitting there consuming doing nothing. if a man does nothing, don't have a job, he is useless, non existent for the society. the same goes with females who are not willing to have kids.
the other thing is that men of my generation became a bunch of androgynous metrosexual cyborgs, they don't join army, they don't have any self-discipline, they don't like women, they have no respect for women. all they care about is self entertainment, clothes and looks. haha and women think gay men are a good thing.
a lot of dont's.
i don't do this i don't do that.
just fuck people!
17 hours later 4015995 Anonymous
>>4015647
>>4015693
the essence of /r9k/ and why "forever alone" women are to be laughed at and nothing else
17 hours later 4016141 Anonymous
>>4009926
>seriously who can go without hugs.
half this board, apparently
17 hours later 4016205 Anonymous
>>4014525
obviously not, since they got fucked and had a kid
>mfw retards don't know the meaning of the phrase
"forever" means literally forever, past, present, future
18 hours later 4016482 Anonymous
>>4007508
>I've never been asked out by a guy
>no man actively pursues me, so I have no chance at romance
>I am a fucking quadriplegic and cannot get up and ask someone out myself
the worst part is, you've probably been asked out by a couple guys you consider out-of-the-question, and you're neglecting to mention it.
18 hours later 4016522 Anonymous
>>4008444
>do americans have ridiculously high standards
HAHAHAHAHAH
AHAHAHA
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
HAHAHAHAH
at least SOME foreigners don't know we're ugly "melting pot" fatties. thank god I live in California.
the U.S. is a disgusting country, California is about on par with the worst area of western europe you can think of (wales?) sadly, it's our best state, except it's infested with leftists. we're all fatties, especially our huge population of niggers and spics.
18 hours later 4016732 Anonymous
>>4016205
that lack of life experience
no, you don't get it, kid. you never dated a single mom and heard them complaining about being alone all these years. forever also means: no men toched me since i gave birth to my child. could be 5 years, could be even longer. single moms complain and weep like immature 16 yo boys. but i won't judge them because being a single mom fucking sucks.
18 hours later 4016748 Anonymous
yes they do exist, try women who are older than 28
18 hours later 4016775 Anonymous
>>4008444
No, just /r9k/ in general. Any girl that doesn't fit their very specific standards of attractiveness = ugly.
18 hours later 4016889 Anonymous
>>4016775
because they are young and stupid and have absolutely no clue what they're talking about.
guess what "men". because she looks beautiful don't mean she is amazing in bed and would do everything for you. just forget that.
18 hours later 4016935 Anonymous
>>4016732
That's not at all what forever is, retard.
19 hours later 4016947 Anonymous
>>4016748
please don't say that. i'm eight years away and i'm scared.
19 hours later 4016958 Anonymous
>>4016748
complete horseshit, any single woman over 28 may be, at absolute worst, a fucked-and-chucked shell of a slut, but they were certainly not "alone" their whole lives
19 hours later 4016980 Anonymous
>>4016958
it's better to not know of the good things than experience and lose them
19 hours later 4017020 Anonymous
>>4016980
typical grass-is-greener shit, and absolutely incorrect
19 hours later 4017035 Anonymous
>>4017020
okay you're right, dwelling on the past and clinging to memories is a much better way to live
23 hours later 4019444 Anonymous
>>4015972
>also women and men in poor countries are not messed up by porn, pop-culture and shitty philosophers.
Eastern Eurofag here, oh yes they are. EVERYONE gets your media nowadays dude, even fucking Cambodians.
23 hours later 4019540 Anonymous
I think I was well on my way to being one, till I took control and started asking men out myself. Took a bit, but I finally got one who would date me.
I had never been hit on throughout all of high school, absolutely never asked out, never been complimented, absolutely no attention from guys at all. I acted like a crazed person and had no friends, so it's not really their fault for being repulsed. I wasn't overweight or unhygienic, but very bad fashion sense (rainbow skirts, oversized housecoats, hair purposefully cut uneven), constantly reading books and sketching and having absolutely no shame in doing whatever I felt like (walking around on tiptoes, speaking made-up languages, animal noises) cemented my status as being the crazy girl no one ever talked to. Plus people liked spreading rumors that I was going to shoot up the school or put bombs in it - someone said I had a "little black book" and kept people's names in it. And that made people even more scared of associating with me.
It took a lot of cleaning up for me to stop getting rejected. I had to more or less change my entire outward personalty. I really only probably wasn't rejected by the guy I'm still with because he was fairly desperate at the time.
23 hours later 4019548 Anonymous
>>4019540
>It took a lot of cleaning up for me to stop getting rejected.
You mean by 10/10 alpha retards. I would have dated you in a rainbow skirt.
23 hours later 4019584 Anonymous
>>4019548
But anon, you aren't hot and confident. You don't count...
23 hours later 4019600 Anonymous
>>4019584
Well obviously.
23 hours later 4019630 Anonymous
>>4019548
Yeah, no. I was never asking out 10/10 alpha retards. I was using anonidate for quite a while, and those are 4channers and goons and anime lovers. I tried joining the anime club and the D&D club in high school - the guys there weren't 10/10 alphas by any means. They would mock me till I quit, or just leave me out of everything to where it was basically like I wasn't there anyway.
The guy that I finally pulled had only had sex once before - with a drunken 500lbs hambeast. He doesn't have social anxiety, but he's not what anyone would call an alpha. His friends have a joke about him being "violently mediocre."
23 hours later 4019665 Anonymous
>>4019630
>high school
Oh, I thought you were a real person, nevermind.
23 hours later 4019688 Anonymous
>>4019665
Huh? I already mentioned in my first post that all this was going on during high school. After I graduated, I dedicated many months to improving myself and started trying to ask guys out. I'm way past high school now, but I'm also not on my way to being foreveralone now. I was just describing the bits relevant to the thread.
23 hours later 4019694 Anonymous
i can't join the ronery club because i've been hit on and asked out by various people and had no idea what to do, i guess. but i haven't made a friend by myself ever. i've never been bullied or had anything traumatic happen to me. i'm not fat and do try to look nice and neat and put together on the outside, at least, but after high school (i am going to uni, what for i don't know however) i'm past the point of caring.
i guess i'm just boring and lazy. i'm probably more boring than most robots. at least you guys play vidya or listen to cool music. and i have spent more time on 4chan or the internet than i have outside socializing...
24 hours later 4019726 Anonymous
>>4019688
High school doesn't count for any dating problems or being foreveralone or anything, I don't know if this shithole is so filled with kids who can't see how insignificant it is or what. And dedicated many MONTHS? Fuck you, easymode whiner.
24 hours later 4019738 Anonymous
Sure, we exist. The thing is that guys will always fancy girls who are pretty and exciting before girls who are sensible and boring. Not saying that pretty girls can't be sensible.
Girls (at least, I) tend to fancy guys based on character, compatibility, etc. but those guys usually end up talking about how gorgeous some other girl is.
And then this lack of experience snowballs and nobody wants to touch you because if a GIRL can't get a date all through high school, there must be something very wrong with her. Girls are supposed to get dates without any effort at all.
Such is life.
24 hours later 4019755 Anonymous
>>4019738
>The thing is that guys will always fancy girls who are pretty and exciting before girls who are sensible and boring
No, they never will, it's exactly the other way around. Oh right you're talking about the upper 5% of guys you're only interested in.
24 hours later 4019772 Anonymous
I am. I'm 19, and a kissless virgin. I used to think it was because I was fat, but then I lost 70lbs and exercised a crap ton, and I still get 0 male attention. And it doesn't help that I have VERY small breast (that are misshapen and as saggy as small breast can be from the weight loss to top it off). So I've come to the conclusion that I'm just ugly, there's nothing I can do about it, and will most likely die alone.... My only hope is plastic surgery when I have a full time job and can afford it.
24 hours later 4019779 Anonymous
>>4019755
Don't try to tell me that there are guys who actually like boring, vanilla relationships.
24 hours later 4019786 Anonymous
>>4019772
I'll have sex and possibly marry you, contact info? Although I'd prefer if you gained a bit back.
24 hours later 4019791 Anonymous
>>4019779
Yeah, there totally aren't, we all want a lying cheating slut who reels us in and leads us on an emotional rollercoaster and ruins our lives.
Go to hell.
24 hours later 4019796 Anonymous
>>4019726
Yeah, months. They were months when I was doing absolutely nothing else but trying to make myself into something other than a creepy shithead - I said "dedicated." I continued improving myself, and still am, but I do other shit too. That was just a minor cocoon mode type thing I put myself through.
And I wasn't saying that I was only asking out guys for months - that was years before I finally got a non-rejection. I probably ended up asking about 10 guys a week out (3/4 of which said no immediately, some gave me a chance to talk and then escaped). I did stop every now and then, when self-esteem had dropped so low that just my asking guys out was starting scenes in public (I was thrown out of several stores). Because I guess I was freaking people out.
24 hours later 4019797 Anonymous
>>4019779
>Don't try to tell me that there are guys who actually like boring, vanilla relationships.
Not one. Except that 95% of course but they're not really men, they're just humanoid blobs in your peripheral vision.
24 hours later 4019799 Anonymous
>>4019796
You sound batshit insane, glad to know there's someone for clinically crazy people too. By people I mean women.
24 hours later 4019800 Anonymous
>>4019791
Look, I'm sorry. I was just feeling a little bitter tonight.
In my defense, that really comprises most of what I see from the guys around me.
24 hours later 4019812 Anonymous
>>4019797
What kind of guy do you think I'm attracted to, anon? I think we're misunderstanding each other.
24 hours later 4019815 Anonymous
>>4019800
You'd feel less bitter if you stopped contributing to making the majority of men in the world bitter, but that would go against your programming matrix wouldn't it.
24 hours later 4019816 Anonymous
>>4019738
You might like this song. don't blame me if it hits you right in the feels.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QCGEdXAWTgs
24 hours later 4019821 Anonymous
I am terrified of the opposite sex
I can't even look a guy in the eyes and if it happens by chance I feel like throwing up due to the paranoia that they might come over and try to talk to me
I couldn't even imagine trying to speak to a male unless it was through text, and even then if it was a private conversation I would feel uncomfortable
I was homeschooled for most of my life and only went to public school when I had to take tests, which would cause me boatloads of anxiety.
Though deep down I still wonder what it would be like to be able to have a real conversation with a guy, sometimes I think about what kind of boyfriend I'd want if I ever got over my fear
I've talked to my mom about therapy but she never really followed through
She's also a psychologist herself but she said it's against practice to see a family member as a patient
Is there anything I can do to get over this?
I feel like i am forever alone but I don't want to be like this forever.
Please help.
24 hours later 4019828 Anonymous
>>4019816
And by clever boys of course they mean rich attractive clever boys, silly ^_~
24 hours later 4019830 Anonymous
Do you people put youselves out there?
Sometimes after going weeks without human interaction I get very depressed with this loneliness thing but then take a shower and wear my best clothes and go outside and I have people being nice and complimenting my looks and stuff like that.
24 hours later 4019832 Anonymous
I was just thinking about this thread after what I saw today. Really fat girl, below average face, stringy hair and damn near balding, big horrible clothes...with a boyfriend. And nah, he wasn't hot, but he was 6'3", skinnyfat and only slightly unkempt. Lots of potential to be attractive. I mean what the actual fuck? I renounced everything I felt about forever alone females when I saw that. If a literal female neckbeard can have a tall skinnyfat bf then I think we need to try a little harder ladies.
24 hours later 4019834 Anonymous
>>4019816
Haha, this song is hilarious! I'm not particularly clever, but I enjoyed it anyway. Thanks :)
24 hours later 4019838 Anonymous
>>4019799
It's not like I was professing my undying love to complete strangers in public. I just often ended up asking multiple guys out in the same building or store. And some of them complained, and then it started getting suspicious, then I get thrown out. I only really "caused scenes" by asking out guys who were in smaller cafes/coffee shops, because I guess I was mistaking geek hipster types for real geeks sometimes (even the ones with bad acne? somehow). And those were guys who would /freak/ out if a non-Zoe Deschanel girl comes up to them. I seriously had one tell me he was about to call the police because I asked if I could sit near him.
24 hours later 4019840 Anonymous
>>4019832
You don't need to try at all, you just have to say yes once in a while.
Or ask someone out once in a while if your social life is so non-existent that you never get asked out.
24 hours later 4019845 Anonymous
>>4019838
Don't you think it's been enough of this trolling, you shat up half of the thread already.
24 hours later 4019852 Anonymous
>>4019812
>What kind of guy do you think I'm attracted to, anon? I think we're misunderstanding each other.
Dunno. You tell me.
24 hours later 4019859 Anonymous
>>4019828
I personally find the classic nerd look very cute, i get weird feelings down there when i see you scrawny little pimply bespectacled fellows around. but hey, different strokes.
>>4019834
You're welcome :)
24 hours later 4019862 Anonymous
>>4019852
Well, they certainly aren't the 5% of anything (at least, I'd hope not).
24 hours later 4019868 Anonymous
>>4019821
Let's enchange emails, I won't ask for your picture or where you live or any of your personal info, we can just talk about our daily lives and feelings(if you think you can). That might help you feel a bit more comfortable.
24 hours later 4019871 Anonymous
>>4019859
>I personally find the classic nerd look very cute
Really? You love fat balding guys with long hair and random band shirts and trenchcoats?
>you scrawny little pimply bespectacled fellows
Oh you mean hipsters.
24 hours later 4019874 Anonymous
>>4019840
Well personally I've been rejected a lot but whatevs
24 hours later 4019880 Anonymous
>>4019862
How do you know? You people think 80% of men are below average, scientifically proven. Describe this man and yourself. Not just looks but in general too.
24 hours later 4019883 Anonymous
>>4019859
I know you are just a guy trolling, but on the off-chance that you are a 3D woman, fuck off. Your kind are not welcome here.
24 hours later 4019903 Anonymous
>>4019871
>Oh you mean hipsters.
No, I mean were you an extra in revenge of the nerds? nerds. intellectual nerds.Not neck beardy guys.
>>4019883
Whatever, you and I both know you wouldn't want me any way. It's okay.
24 hours later 4019906 Anonymous
This thread make me hopeful that I will finally run into a girl that will be receptive of my advances.
24 hours later 4019914 Anonymous
>>4019880
>scientifically proven
With the entirety of the Earth's female population being used as a sample group? That sounds like quite a difficult study to conduct.
> Describe this man and yourself.
Me: physically and mentally healthy, hygienic/clean, openminded, kind, communicates well
Him: physically and mentally healthy, hygienic/clean, openminded, kind, communicates well, genuinely likes me because I can make him happy.
Please don't tell me I'm cutting out 80% of men.
24 hours later 4019916 Anonymous (step1.jpg 720x960 147kB)
>>4019845
ugh, I'm not even trolling. Is it that hard to believe there's some girl out there who has been rejected repeatedly by men? It's not like I ever managed to normalize myself. I probably was still coming off as mostly batshit when asking them out in public, because that's how I acted for the majority of my life.
Sorry for discussing relevant shit in the thread. I realize this isn't much for proof, since I can't retroactively give it a timestamp, but this is the sort of shit I was wearing every day. That repulsed people.
24 hours later 4019918 Anonymous
>>4019903
Oh, and you measure how intellectual someone is, by how skinny they are?
24 hours later 4019921 Anonymous
>>4019914
Ok, sounds good, let's get married.
24 hours later 4019932 Anonymous
>>4019921
Fine, assuming that I can actually make you happy.
24 hours later 4019936 Anonymous
>>4019914
Unless you are, you'd be in a happy relationship right now. There's something you're not telling us. Most likely ridiculous physical, economical, or social standards.
24 hours later 4019951 Anonymous
>>4019916
Homeless chic! I like it!
24 hours later 4019953 Anonymous
>>4019936
Maybe I'm too nice? All the guys I know end up talking to me about how much they like other girls. They all know I'm straight, too.
Maybe things will improve when I go to college.
24 hours later 4019960 Anonymous
>>4019918
Okay, you don't have a physical preference of any kind?
I'm talking about a general stereotype here. I know saying I like "nerdy" guys on /r9k/ is just about the biggest troll bait there is on here, but I said it anyway. Sue me, it's a preference I have.
24 hours later 4019968 Anonymous
>>4019951
You know, it took your comment just now to make me realize maybe they all thought I was a homeless drug addict. That would make the police calls make more sense.
24 hours later 4019975 Anonymous
>>4019953
>Maybe things will improve when I go to college.
...
I don't know what to say. Why don't you children understand that this is not real life? College isn't real life either.
I wish /r9k/ had a mandatory age field like flags on /int/.
24 hours later 4019981 Anonymous
>>4019960
>Okay, you don't have a physical preference of any kind?
Nope, not exclusive.
24 hours later 4019986 Anonymous
>>4019975
So things won't change until grad school? I'm sorry if I've offended you.
24 hours later 4019995 Anonymous
>>4019968
Haha I can't believe you didn't know. I mean, some of your accessories are too stylish and clean to just say 'you look homeless' but yeah, homeless people dress similarly to that :/ big, layered clothes and shit...
24 hours later 4020002 Anonymous
>>4019986
I don't understand why you would even think that anyone is supposed to be capable of normal relationships in their formative years in the western (or west-influenced) world? What are you expecting, to marry some dude when you're 14 and stay with him until you croak?
24 hours later 4020031 Anonymous
>>4020002
>I don't understand why you would even think that anyone is supposed to be capable of normal relationships in their formative years in the western (or west-influenced) world?
I dunno, it seems like everyone else is dating/has dated. I just feel a little left behind in the dust.
>What are you expecting, to marry some dude when you're 14 and stay with him until you croak?
You mean I can't do this? No, I'm joking. I'd just like to have a boyfriend that I could make happy.
24 hours later 4020032 Anonymous
>>4019981
Great! I don't have any "exclusive" physical preferences either. I knew we could find something we have in common!
24 hours later 4020041 Anonymous
>>4020031
Why would you like to have a limited-time boyfriend that isn't to build a life with? Are you that horny and slutty?
24 hours later 4020053 Anonymous
>>4020032
Ok, so you'd date a 600lbs dude, cool. Should I pick you up? The other way around might not be the best idea.
24 hours later 4020059 Anonymous
>>4020041
>Why would you like to have a limited-time boyfriend that isn't to build a life with?
I don't want something that I know is going to be temporary, but you're telling me that I'll have to keep being lonely until I'm in my mid twenties.
>Are you that horny and slutty?
Sorry, I didn't mean to come off this way (not that there's anything wrong with wanting sex).
24 hours later 4020083 Anonymous
>>4020059
>you're telling me that I'll have to keep being lonely until I'm in my mid twenties.
And? Why are you so weak? If you were male, you'd be lonely forever.
24 hours later 4020085 Anonymous
>>4020053
Can people still walk and drive at 600lbs? Maybe I should just stop by your place with 10 pizzas? What are your favorite toppings?
24 hours later 4020089 Anonymous
They must be seriously pig disgusting, like 2/10. People in OPs pic will get hit on, especially online.
24 hours later 4020094 Anonymous
>>4020083
>And? Why are you so weak?
I don't want to be lonely...?
>If you were male, you'd be lonely forever.
Yes, I have no redeeming qualities whatsoever, thanks for reminding me.
24 hours later 4020110 Anonymous
>>4020085
Sure can. No pizzas for me though, I'm on a diet.
24 hours later 4020123 Anonymous
>>4020094
>>And? Why are you so weak?
>I don't want to be lonely...?
And I don't want to be ugly, or poor, or guess what, lonely, either. Not like I can do anything about it. Unlike you.
You'll whore yourself out sooner or later anyway. You people are so incredibly weak, it's tragic.
24 hours later 4020136 Anonymous
>>4020094
Learn to cook and get a job, and you can finance my existence as an artist. Well, you could if you were 10 years older, I don't want to deal with college crazy.
24 hours later 4020137 Anonymous
>>4019868
I apologize for the long wait in my reply.
I am not sure how comfortable I feel with that just yet.
Some mental exercises or "food for thought" might be of better use for me.
I would like to have a life jacket before I stick my feet in the water, so to speak.
24 hours later 4020141 Anonymous
>>4020123
Again, I'm sorry if I've offended you. I hope your life gets better, honestly.
24 hours later 4020145 Anonymous
Kissless virgin 18-year-old.
I don't know if I count as forever alone yet because of my age, but like I said, kissless virgin, never had a boyfriend, etc.
I just have one question for you guys:
Does it scare or intimidate you when you find girls with similar hobbies? (4chan, vidya, anime, computers, etc.) Or perhaps, do you just prefer it when girls just don't have those kinds of hobbies?
A few weeks ago, a guy in one of my classes started hitting on me, and then he found out that watch anime/play vidya, gave me one of those "she knows to much" kind of looks, and now he ignores me completely. This is the second time that's happened to me and the third time a guy has ever hit on me.
24 hours later 4020148 Anonymous
>>4020136
I can get a job, but the cooking might take a while before it becomes edible. What kind of art do you do?
24 hours later 4020153 Anonymous
>>4020110
A diet of what? Loneliness? lord knows what it's don't to my waistline ;_;
24 hours later 4020167 Anonymous
>>4020145
Guys prefer girls who share their hobbies. You were just unlucky.
24 hours later 4020181 Anonymous
>>4020145
It's mostly because all women who are into that are retarded whores who fuck their dogs on cam for internet strangers.
24 hours later 4020187 Anonymous
>>4020137
Not a problem, anon. If you ever feel you're ready to talk, feel free to send me a message.
24 hours later 4020189 Anonymous
>>4020141
I hope I die in my sleep, but thanks.
24 hours later 4020195 Anonymous
>>4020145
I think it's a turn on, and don't entirely understand why. Then again, I'm not normal except by 4chan standards, but I find it very interesting when a girl shares interests. My lifelong dream is to find a girl who tolerates my video game and card tournaments
24 hours later 4020200 Anonymous
>>4020189
Don't be that way. Do you want to talk about anything that's bothering you?
24 hours later 4020202 Anonymous
You guys should read this blog by a 34yo virgin woman.
http://lapenseuse.wordpress.com/
24 hours later 4020207 Anonymous
>>4020148
It doesn't matter, I can cook. I can do everything you can. But better. It's just to let you have something to strive to contribute to.
And you wouldn't understand my art anyway.
24 hours later 4020219 Anonymous
>>4020187
Thank you for the kind offer
I appreciate your kindness and have saved your email for later.
25 hours later 4020228 Anonymous
>>4020202
The first post is how she had some guy wanting to fuck her but she refused.
Fuck you to hell and back.
25 hours later 4020231 Anonymous
>>4020207
That made me laugh, thanks :)
25 hours later 4020250 Anonymous
>>4020228
Some much older married man. What a catch.
25 hours later 4020261 Anonymous
>>4020202
Why is she a virgin? What does she look like?
25 hours later 4020268 Anonymous
>>4020250
Yeah, not a perfect Edward "Stark" Clooney CEO of DeBeers paraglider and serial killer with a heart of gold, how dare he.
25 hours later 4020272 Anonymous
>>4020261
Because she doesn't want to have sex with anyone but >>4020268
25 hours later 4020288 Anonymous
>>4020261
From what I read, she's asian and not pretty.
>>4020268
Do you really think some 60yo married man is a valid choice?
25 hours later 4020295 Anonymous (913615949fullimg.Doom[1].jpg 730x646 147kB)
>>4020231
>implying my tragic existence is something to laugh at
25 hours later 4020301 Anonymous
>>4020288
>Do you really think some 60yo married man is a valid choice?
Why not? The option is there. An average foreveralone guy doesn't have that option and never will.
25 hours later 4020309 Anonymous
>>4020288
ignore >>4020268 >>4020301 he is obviously trolling or extremely bitter.
25 hours later 4020311 Anonymous
>>4020200
With someone who's going to grow out of any existential issues because her life will improve, and I'll still be right here? No thanks, been there done that.
25 hours later 4020316 Anonymous
>>4020301
I'm sure they have the option of dating some 400lb black single mom if they want.
25 hours later 4020317 Anonymous
>>4020309
>trolling or extremely bitter
Yeah, stating obvious facts must mean exactly that.
25 hours later 4020318 Anonymous
>>4020295
Hahaha! I'm sorry.
25 hours later 4020320 Anonymous
>>4020288
Where does she live? I'd ask her out for curiosity's sake if she lives nearby.
25 hours later 4020331 Anonymous
>>4020316
>I'm sure they have the option of dating some 400lb black single mom if they want.
Yeah, you would be sure, since you have no concept of anything.
They do not have this option.
25 hours later 4020336 Anonymous
>>4020311
I wouldn't be so optimistic about my life (nor so pessimistic about yours). I'll listen, I promise.
25 hours later 4020342 Anonymous
>>4020320
She lives in Canada, dunno where.
Also she's really bitter, not much different from /r9k/
Have you ever considered that maybe the loneliness is what's driven me to the point of being bitter and miserable? Have you considered that, when you face rejection time and time again and have had your self-confidence stripped off over the years and you're clinically depressed and lonely that you're not going to be optimistic and cheerful? Have you also considered that this is my blog and that this is meant to be my forum for venting?
25 hours later 4020354 Anonymous
>>4020331
Yes they do. If you aim really low you can get someone.
25 hours later 4020367 Anonymous
>>4020342
>Canada
Well, there goes my shot at a date.
25 hours later 4020381 Anonymous
>>4020354
>Yes they do. If you aim really low you can get someone.
A 0/10 female will still only accept 5/10+ guys, you seriously don't know how this shit works at all.
25 hours later 4020390 Anonymous
>>4020342
>rejection
>the very top post rejects advances from a guy she deemed ineligible
>rejection
Bitches and whores.
25 hours later 4020396 Anonymous
>>4020336
I don't need listening, I need help. You won't help. Drop it please. Thanks.
25 hours later 4020398 Anonymous (1261191529999.jpg 523x606 101kB)
>>4020381
Are you sure of that?
mqmk
25 hours later 4020414 Anonymous
>>4020396
Okay, anon. I hope you get the help you need soon. Take care! :)
I'm off to bed now, so good night, everyone, and thanks for all your help.
25 hours later 4020419 Anonymous
>>4020301
Shut up faggot. You wouldn't fuck a fat chick.
25 hours later 4020435 Anonymous
>>4020419
No, a fat chick wouldn't fuck me. Have you ever been to any fat-related boards? Like fat forums, or bbw chan or shit? They all have above average boyfriends who finance their lifestyles of camwhoring and fucking niggers.
25 hours later 4020477 Anonymous
>>4020435
Yes, because that is the norm. Self-defeatist as fuck. Kill yourself.
25 hours later 4020495 Anonymous
>>4020477
Ok, what is the norm then chief?
25 hours later 4020496 Anonymous
>>4020435
Since you like anecdotal evidence, here you go.
I was on a fat dating site once and I only got two emails from dudes that literally lived in Africa. I was either ignored or given what amounted to pity replies that went nowhere from guys I messaged first.
25 hours later 4020512 Anonymous
>>4020496
a/s/l? Eurofag here, so I can't exactly promise an actual tangible thing if you're on the other side of the world, but still.
25 hours later 4020560 Anonymous
>>4020495
I was being sarcastic. The "norm" is that fat women, while some may not have really low standards, will have lower standards in general and would fuck guys like you to at least affirm some degree of desirability.
25 hours later 4020570 Anonymous
>>4020477
>Yes, because that is the norm.
Actually, he's not far off from what I've seen. Fat girls want a trophy boy and it doesn't take psychoanalysis to figure out why. Ironically, he could just go befriend and eventually form and LTR with a girl who is actually attractive. Attractive girls have shockingly low physical standards, because they're far less insecure.
25 hours later 4020580 Anonymous
>>4020512
I'm 26 and in California.
I dunno if I could deal with a long distance thing. Seems like I would just get more depressed from it.
I'll be your penpal if you want though.
25 hours later 4020598 Anonymous
>kissless virgin fembot
>not a hambeast
>can't into social situations
>"Hey can I buy you a coffee"
>stammers and they walk away god fucking damn it every time
>See threads like these and read reactions like "Haha women just need to go outside and guys will just throw money at them 2unfair4me fuck those whores"
Maaaaaaaan fuck the world indoors is easier
25 hours later 4020618 Anonymous
>>4020570
>Ironically, he could just go befriend and eventually form and LTR with a girl who is actually attractive.
Been there a long time ago when I didn't look like shit yet, she just wanted a nerd betafag to manipulate and to ruin his life. Wouldn't recommend.
25 hours later 4020624 Anonymous
>>4020580
How are you fat and in California. I mean seriously, isn't literally everyone there a bulimic plastic surgery addict?
(but then again you probably think everyone here is a Russian terrorist)
25 hours later 4020627 Anonymous
>>4020624
How bout them stereotypes, eh?
25 hours later 4020647 Anonymous
>>4020624
I'm in amerifat remember? Plenty of fatties here.
I would think you might be a nationalist type dude.
25 hours later 4020656 Anonymous
>>4020647
Well, your media tells us that California is nothing but an endless beach party with surfers and aspiring actresses and all drugs known the man. Also everyone drives a classic convertible. Blame it on propaganda!
25 hours later 4020666 Anonymous
>>4020618
>I didn't look like shit yet
That really does not matter. Women are not as judgmental when it comes to basic appearance.
>she just wanted a nerd betafag to manipulate and to ruin his life
Sometimes, you run into a sociopath. Most people are not like that.
>>4020656
Sounds pretty accurate. Filthy West Coast scum. They're not even real Americans.
25 hours later 4020675 Anonymous
>>4020666
>Women are not as judgmental when it comes to basic appearance.
Indeed, this is why they rate 80% of men as below average and undateable.
26 hours later 4020681 Anonymous
>>4020666
>Sometimes, you run into a sociopath. Most people are not like that.
I sure as hell don't know how to find a non-sociopathic woman then. Four relationships, all made my life worse than it was before them. And all with a different stereotype/level of attractiveness/general station in life.
26 hours later 4020699 Anonymous
>>4020656
All that stuff is more related to the Los Angeles area.
>>4020666
It's because you hate that Katie Perry song, isn't it?
26 hours later 4020710 Anonymous
>>4020699
Wait, there's more to California than the Los Angeles area?
>mfw I just looked it up and you have the trannytown there too
26 hours later 4020718 Anonymous
>>4020710
>the trannytown
I have no idea what you're going on about now.
26 hours later 4020729 Anonymous
I'm 19 and I've only ever had online boyfriends.
Do I count?
26 hours later 4020730 Anonymous
>>4020718
Uh, San Francisco, where all the gay people and trannies and whatchamacall'em go to catch aids?
26 hours later 4020752 Anonymous
>>4020730
Ah, castro in SF. I get you now.
>>4020729
I would say not quite. But this is coming from a 26 yr old that broke her hymen with a dildo the other night.
26 hours later 4020754 Anonymous
>>4020681
>I sure as hell don't know how to find a non-sociopathic woman then.
Observe her behavior towards her dog. If she does not have a dog. stay away. If she has a non-mammalian pet, get the fuck out of there because she's fucking crazy.
>>4020699
>It's because you hate that Katie Perry song, isn't it?
No, it's also your democrats, your complete lack of culture, your anti-gun rhetoric, your fucked up courts, Hollywood, the porn industry, and so many other things. Katy Perry is only a minor annoyance to be honest.
26 hours later 4020778 Anonymous
>>4020752
>from a 26 yr old that broke her hymen with a dildo the other night.
Holy fuck, nice trolling, would've actually given you my email before reading this. Glad I dodged that shit.
26 hours later 4020787 Anonymous
>>4020754
>If she does not have a dog. stay away.
Wait what? What does having a dog have to do with anything? If anything, I find women with dogs to be incredibly promiscuous.
26 hours later 4020798 Anonymous
>21 year old lesbian living in redneck central virginia
>never been exactly social, moreso with women
>I'm just the awkward nerd with no friends who'd want to date her
>Even men don't try to pick me up
brb, becoming an old maid
26 hours later 4020804 Anonymous
>>4020778
Everyone thinks I'm trolling constantly when I share shit like that or identify as a female. What's new.
26 hours later 4020818 Anonymous noko
sigh. I'm sitting in class writing this with my fucking undersized trousers looking like a fucking tool. I'm sitting alone in the corner of the class because I have an inability to speak to anyone unless I'm with other friends.
From ratings, I've been called 7-8/10, and I do get girls calling me hot on Omegle and stuff, but I just don't know anyone. 18 and almost kissless (if it wasn't for one of my friends getting extremely drunk and then forcing her on my mouth at a party).
I can't make friends by myself unless someone starts a convo with me first. I literally feel autistic... I want to go out but most of my friends are in uni now (I'm resitting because I didn't have a group to work with last year).
Tl;dr life sucks atm.
26 hours later 4020819 Anonymous
>>4020804
It's hard as a man such as myself who has a penis and testes and all that junk going on in between my legs to accept women into my perceived online community because of the solidarity seen in bitching about people of the female persuasion with their bitch tits never looking twice at me women don't get that just go to a bar and find an alpha male dumbass who isn't good enough for you though and get off of my /r9k/ what a bitch fuck i love you though ;-;
26 hours later 4020828 Anonymous
>>4020804
Well, let's analyze it.
First of all, if you were that ugly/mentally ill that you couldn't get a boyfriend until 26 (which is practically unheard of, you'd be a statistical anomaly), you'd masturbate and penetrate yourself way sooner.
Second, if you were a shy "nice" girl you wouldn't feel the need to tell everyone on the internet you did it.
Third, if you were a decent person you wouldn't spoil yourself like that, you'd wait for me goddamnit.
My hopes and dreams are crushed.
26 hours later 4020849 Anonymous
>>4020828
What? That's stupid, she could have just given up on the idea of having someone take her virginity recently I still haven't because hymens are still seen as some sort of currency or some shit. Masturbating also doesn't require breaking hymens duder. Being shy in real life means nothing online. I act differently online. I'm sure you do.
26 hours later 4020865 Anonymous
>>4020828
>you'd masturbate and penetrate yourself way sooner.
I have, only with fingers though. I honestly thought that thing would have deteriorated by now.
everything else is basically what this anon said. >>4020849
26 hours later 4020889 Anonymous
>>4020818
Fuck sake. Fucking sick of this. Walked past girl in one of my classes while in the LRC getting some work.
She smiled at me and I walked past and turned my head as if I was ignoring her. Only realised It wad her after I walked past.
FOR FUCK SAKE WHY THE FUCK ISZ EVERYTHING SO FUCKING BAD. MY GOD...
26 hours later 4020898 Anonymous
>>4020787
>I find women with dogs to be incredibly promiscuous.
Nearly ALL women are promiscuous. The thing is, women usually feel the need to love and nurture something. A beloved pet is a good indicator of psychological health. Sociopathic or cold women will not usually have pets.
26 hours later 4020899 Anonymous
>>4020865
So what's your life like in general? I mean, surely you realize you're the dream wife of a lot of people here by what you've disclosed (or invented) so far, right?
26 hours later 4020905 Anonymous
>>4020898
>A beloved pet is a good indicator of psychological health.
Or of not being able to form meaningful emotional relationships with actual people.
26 hours later 4020948 Anonymous
>>4020899
I've basically been a neet for the last 3.5 years or so. Fat, mixed race, I live with my disabled mom and a few younger relatives. Went to college. Was a general loser/outcast growing up. I still have a few strained friendships.
I really don't think I'm anywhere near the typical idealized girl you guys gush over. I'm just really settling into my future as a spinster at this point. I'm just sad I became allergic to cats in my teens so I can't be a cat lady when I'm old.
26 hours later 4020970 Anonymous
>>4020948
>I really don't think I'm anywhere near the typical idealized girl you guys gush over.
I don't mean a perfect anime waifu that breaks you out of your shell, I meant more along the lines of an actual female in a similar life situation, who may possibly not be a replicant. But you're probably just fishing for people to contact you so you can throw pig blood at them and shit.
27 hours later 4021035 Anonymous
>>4020899
>implying any woman would ever want someone desperate for a "dream wife"
27 hours later 4021041 Anonymous
>>4020948
The worst thing is waking up and realising you have more cats than friends. You have a biological deterrent, friend. Celebrate and I can't wait to see your knitting patterns
27 hours later 4021051 Anonymous
>>4020948
>mixed race
Which races? If one of them is not black, you're fine.
27 hours later 4021053 Anonymous
>>4021041
>The worst thing is waking up and realising you have more cats than friends.
I have one cat.
Welp.
27 hours later 4021064 Anonymous
>>4020970
>throw pig blood at them and shit
Did PETA move up to shit throwing too?
They say that, but that doesn't change that they spend their time pining over girls that are nothing like me.
>>4021035
I think most people have "dream mates"
>>4021041
I've been knitting since I was 8 or so :/
I also have a cat that I got when I was 14 that I love too much to get rid of.
>>4021051
I'm part black.
Oh noes! Someone on the internet hates blacks? How surprising!
27 hours later 4021085 Anonymous (carrie-pigs-blood[1].jpg 264x239 36kB)
>>4021064
>They say that, but that doesn't change that they spend their time pining over girls that are nothing like me.
And fat black foreveralone virgin women spend their time pining over men that are nothing like me. Such is life in the zone.
>I think most people have "dream mates"
So what's yours?
Btw your cat will die soon. So will mine.
27 hours later 4021109 Anonymous
>>4021085
I mostly imagine they being really kind and magnanimous, that's really the most important part for me. Physically I've had crushes across the board. I just ask for not stinky and willing to go for hikes sometimes.
27 hours later 4021128 Anonymous
>>4021109
>really kind and magnanimous
What does that entail in practice? On paper it seems to be a pretty basic quality of a decent human being?
27 hours later 4021165 Anonymous
>>4021128
It seems kinda hard to find actual decent people. look at all the crazy girlfriend threads. I have friends that actually have dated a normal amount and it really just seems that people are usually cruel and/or selfish overall.
Maybe that is all I really want, a basic good human. I don't have any first hand real world relationship experience to go off of obviously.
27 hours later 4021206 Anonymous
>>4021165
Go neoliberal capitalism!
Imagine when you actually find that basic good human, and then you're all happy and whatnot, and suddenly everyone and everything around you starts convincing you that you're too good for him and you should aim higher and you can't be happy with what/who you have.
That's how it starts usually. And there is no escape.
28 hours later 4021272 Anonymous
>>4020381
Bullshit, there are rare exceptions.
28 hours later 4021308 Anonymous
>>4021206
I'm not really a greedy person. I mean, I didn't even have a personal computer to use for three years until this June. And I know this is one of your guys fears about women. Trust me that women fear the same thing.
I'm pretty sure my friend's and family would just be surprised that I actually am not a lesbian after all and expect me to start making babbies and get married and all that. They already talk to me about that all the time.
Honestly, I barely even get crushes. My last one was in college. I'm not really a "the grass is always greener" type of person.
28 hours later 4021390 Anonymous
>>4021308
You're completely baffling to me. Are you sure you haven't just convinced yourself you can't get a proper partner and you're just going with that so you're oblivious to the world treating you better than you think it is?
Also what the hell did you do without a computer for three years. HOW.
28 hours later 4021483 Anonymous
>>4021390
There was a computer in the house, but I barely used it during that time since I usually like to watch tv and internet. I just checked email and all that mostly. I put in maybe three hours a week during that time. Like I said, i have a disabled/sick mom and kids that I have to help out with. That kills a good amount of free time for me.
Anyway, Ive tried, online, offline, I'm pretty much a failure at menz. I did get hit on by two lesbians a couple of months ago when I refused to dance the whole night at my friend's favorite gaybar. Before that about a year ago a really drunk friend of a friend hit on me at a house party and then puked/blacked out/passed out 20 mins later. So, yeah. I dunno, I guess I should have listened to kid me and became a mountain hermit because trying to have a normal life doesn't seem to work for me.
I'm going to bed now, but I'm going to leave this song for /r9k/ because I feels like it.
http://youtu.be/L9P-fIgVzY0
28 hours later 4021502 Anonymous
>>4021483
Do you have an OKC acc or any sort of non-personally-identifying way to contact you?
(in before crickets)
29 hours later 4021578 Anonymous
>>4021502
lucky I was listening to some more stuff on youtube and checked here one more time. Here is an email address.
And here is more jojo because I love him.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Fzc_NeWPKc&feature=g-hist
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