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2016-04-12 01:16 6010640 Anonymous straight guys flirting/mixed signals (doods.jpg 2000x1000 423kB)
My straight friend and I have a bit of history - some light cuddling, a few brief kisses, etc. I think he may have been a bit confused/didn't know what he was doing, and always stopped before things went too far. He knows I'm gay now, so nothing like that really happens anymore. But occasionally we'll still play a bit of footsie when we're hanging out watching a movie or whatever, or he'll creep his legs over on the couch so they're nearly/barely touching me. It's like he used to enjoy that kind of contact, and still kind of wants it - or am I just reading too deeply? In any case, he insists he's not gay and I don't think I should expend any more effort on him romantically...but it's frustrating when he shows those tiny bits of physical attraction. I'm not sure how to handle it :/

20 min later 6010774 Anonymous
Meh, heteroflexible are worse than women, imo, lot of work with little reward. My best friend once got into bed with me, complaining his bed was not comfy, he then told me next day he was surprised i didnt try anything, like he regretted it.

1 hours later 6011064 Anonymous
>>6010774 This. The constant blue balling is just irritating. I would either ask him what he's doing or take it to the next level every time until it makes him uncomfortable or he puts out. It's way easier to just ignore people like that and get an actual hook up.

1 hours later 6011180 Anonymous
>>6010774 Why didn't you ask him "hey, wanna blowjob?"

1 hours later 6011248 Anonymous
>>6011180 Cause I think I had asked him before and he said no, and I didnt think anything of it, we were best friends, and I was sleeping. But when we were deskmates he to put my hand on his cock, but still not much more, just a tease when he was getting boners. Though he had a really big cock. Too bad.

2 hours later 6011313 Anonymous
they're a complete waste of your time. either looking to build their own confidence/vanity that they can't get from women, or they're looking to 'experiment' for god knows what reasons and then cut contact with you or forever be awkward after

2 hours later 6011524 Anonymous
>>6010640 OP here. He's one of my best friends, and it's not a big enough issue that I'll even consider cutting contact. We already had "the big talk," so I feel like we should be pretty open with each other...if he does it again I'll try to work up the courage to just flat out ask what he's doing. I'm sure he'll deny anything's happening or try to turn it around on me though...I'm definitely into him, is the problem. I guess what I should do is tell him that I still have some feelings for him and that he can't tease me like that unless he means it.

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