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2015-09-30 08:03 5007446 Anonymous (CrPuHVzT.jpg 500x500 12kB)
Anybody have any experience with Grindr or any meet up kind of thing online? Curious about getting into it.

2 min later 5007452 Anonymous
I'm too much of an awkward fuck to actually make the first move so my entire experience is ignoring the 40-yo guys who go after anyone younger than them on the app. 2/10 not worth it (except for the occasional self-esteem boost)

3 min later 5007459 Anonymous
>>5007452 That's what I usually would imagine, you'd get a whole bunch of older weird guys and the ones that look as young as you are scams or some other thing.

5 min later 5007468 Anonymous
>>5007459 The most attractive ones are always bots, no exceptions. There are a couple cute guys on mine, but like I said, I'm basically autism incarnate when it comes to guys. Although, if there are no irl social options for gay dating, it's an outlet, so I suppose I wouldn't rule it out completely.

7 min later 5007474 Anonymous
>>5007468 I'd like it if I could find something legit

14 min later 5007492 Anonymous
>>5007474 You might give Tinder a try instead of Grindr, unless you're looking for anonymous sex. Tinder is popular with a younger crowd I think, since it's new and popular in the mainstream. On top of that, you have to both like each other before you can send messages to each other, which cuts out all the old horndogs. I've had a couple nice chats on Tinder, but they really didn't go anywhere (partially my fault, probably). I'm sure if you live near a big city, you'd have a lot better luck than me anyway; I live in the fuckin' boonies.

17 min later 5007501 Anonymous
>>5007492 Gonna check Tinder then, worth a shot

17 min later 5007502 Anonymous
>>5007501 Good luck!

18 min later 5007505 Anonymous
>>5007446 Grindr just seems to attract the wrong type..maybe it's just me or my area, not a fan tho.

41 min later 5007555 Anonymous
>>5007502 I got like 10 guys and 50 girls.

44 min later 5007564 Anonymous
Honestly Grindr is pretty bad unless you're just looking to have a hookup with someone older than you. I've met a few really really cute guys on there, but honestly you might as well check craigslist

45 min later 5007568 Anonymous
>>5007564 Alternatives?

46 min later 5007571 Anonymous
>>5007555 You kinda have to tell it you only want guys (if that is the case). Only ten though, that's just shitty luck... I check every now and then for new guys though, so if you're serious about this, I wouldn't give up just yet.

47 min later 5007574 Anonymous
>>5007571 Good point

4 hours later 5007978 Anonymous
Update: Met one guy on grindr who showed me several pics of himself and was about to fap and go to bed. >Fuck it Go to his house and he bottoms for about an hour.

4 hours later 5007989 Anonymous
>people still use Grindr You have to weed through 99% of the docuhebags to find a gem.

20 hours later 5011118 Anonymous
Only 2 hookups since using it but they were legendary, just two days ago was my second, ended up being banged for 2 hours straight no breaks except to change positions. I wanted a break but everytime I requested one he refused and kept going, My legs were shaking after.

21 hours later 5011436 Anonymous
>>5007446 >tfw actually went on a couple of dates with someone on grindr and it was super cute and we haven't even kissed yet :3

22 hours later 5011768 Anonymous
>>5011118 That gave me a boner. I really want to start using Grindr now.

23 hours later 5011911 Anonymous
i got a really nice guy. his cock was too big for me though. i should have listened to him when he said that. he was such a sweetie though, and fuzzy :3

32 hours later 5013222 Anonymous
>>5007555 Nice trips. Try Lavendr instead. It's almost exactly like Tinder, but it's gay guys only.

32 hours later 5013229 Anonymous
I've only met one guy off grindr and he was actually pretty great. He was cute, with beautiful eyes and a great smile. And for a small, slender little guy he had a huge cock. It was bigger than mine He stopped returning my texts one day out of the blue though :(

39 hours later 5015031 Anonymous
>>5013222 Pretty much this, any kind of gay app is what I'm looking into

41 hours later 5015396 Anonymous
>>5013229 >He stopped returning my texts one day out of the blue though :( did you poz him?

50 hours later 5017483 Anonymous (grindr-screenshot-625x625-1.png 206x364 155kB)
>>5007446 What is the distance at the bottom of the screen supposed to indicate? It never corresponds to the distance of the nearest user on the grid. The distance displayed is often very close (e.g. 12 feet away) yet the closest person on the grid might be 2 miles. (This is not my screenshot)

53 hours later 5017605 Anonymous
>>5017483 Idiot, that's your gps radius. From the point you are, with a radius of x meters/feet, they'll calculate the distance of the others.

53 hours later 5017612 Anonymous
you guys are jerks. Gerontophobic sissy jerks. Grindr is ok. Some anon said: you have to go through 99 jerks to find one gem. Well you know ehat also works just like that? Real life. My experience with grindr ocurred as follows: > 19 yo kissless virgin > install grindr > 12 hours after I'm having sex with a cute small guy some years older than me. > next week slut mode activated. Have sex (always safe) with two different guys every day to compensate for my virginity. > meet a handsome tourist called cristian > fell in love, one week of passionate romance and than goodbye. > heart broken, spent two months away from the app. Since then, all of the gay friends I met and all of my lovers were found thanks to grindr. That place can be a pain in the ass sometimes, but it's the perfect oportunity for shy introvert males with no social experience.

53 hours later 5017618 Anonymous
my experience with grindr was a bit disasterous for my already deficient self steem and self image... I don't blame the app though. I just never knew that I was that ugly. I thought I was normal, or even cute. My mother allways said I was cute. > 19 yo, never done anything gay before, despite being out of the closet since 14. > get my first smartphone. The first thing I do is look for gay related apps. > install grindr. High expectations. Fill my profile with every information, upload a (so I thought) cute face pic and wait. I felt like waiting for people to talk to me, instead of starting conversations myself. > 10 minutes pass. 1 hour. 2 hours. 10 hours. 1 day. 2 days. And no single reply. None. > get really self conscious about what exactly was going on. > decide to make a catfish profile using a handsome man amateur selfie I got on tumblr. > upload the fake profile with no info apart from the face pic and wait 30 minutes. > come back to check the results > 94 messages. > 94 messages in half and hour. More than three messages per minute. > delet the app right aeay and never come back. And that's my story of how I found out I was ugly. Never tried any dating apps ever since. I'm 25 now, still kissless virgin on my way to witchcraft and Wizardry

53 hours later 5017654 Anonymous
>>5017483 It's the accuracy of people's location. So if it says 20 it means give or take 20 feet from the persons distance from you.

53 hours later 5017668 Anonymous
>>5017654 No. It's the accuracy of your location, given a radius from the spot you are right now.

54 hours later 5017694 Anonymous
>>5017668 Literally makes no difference either way

54 hours later 5017753 Anonymous
>>5017668 What's the point of displaying this information?

54 hours later 5017770 Anonymous
>>5017753 It's useless with such small number as 12 feet, but mine gets pretty big sometimes, even as futher as 150 meters, which makes a huge diference. It means that the distance of the other men are calcullated given a 150 meters radio traced from where I am, so whem I see that the closest guy is onle 40 meters away, he can be as far as 190 meters and I think i'm sayimg too much to justify something that will matter very little but I just can't stop typimg once I've started i'm so sorry good luck.

55 hours later 5017772 Anonymous
>>5017618 >Considered fairly handsome >Don't put up a profile pic >At least one message every 10 minutes just saying "Hi" >Respond with "Hi" and dick pic >Immediately get send address for a bj :)

55 hours later 5017779 Anonymous
>>5017618 Dude... That was six years ago. Literally the year grindr came up. Things have changed by now. You should try again. I also think I'm very ugly but always find my way to something, either a nice chat or a hookup or even a relationship, on grindr. Try again.

55 hours later 5017782 Anonymous
>>5017779 Yeeeeeeah, sorry but I actually lied when I said I was 25 to inspire pitty and sympathy. I'm 20 now. That was last year...

55 hours later 5017790 Anonymous
>>5017782 Got a nice dick or ass? Just try this method, man. >>5017772

55 hours later 5017794 Anonymous
>>5017790 I think my dick is nice (pic related) but I'm sure they'll run away after I show my face.

55 hours later 5017797 Anonymous
>>5017794 I forgot this is Yotsuba. No dick pics I suppose...

55 hours later 5017798 Anonymous
>>5007555 Nigger, i get like 3 girls an 0 guys.

55 hours later 5017811 Anonymous
>>5017794 >>5017797 Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Give it a try.

55 hours later 5017813 Anonymous
>>5007452 Honestly, if you're having trouble with grindr, one of two(or both) of things are wrong: a. you're really ugly b. you're not in an urban area Seriously I'm only ok looking and if I go into DC from northern VA I get tons of messages from guys my age, most guys I see post on here are probably more attractive than me, but if you're in a densely populated area, especially one with a gay community at all, it's pretty easy. And social skills generally don't play in at all, they don't want to talk to you, they want to fuck you.

55 hours later 5017814 Anonymous
>>5017813 >they don't want to talk to you, they want to fuck you. I'm totally going to confirm this. If I can talk to you, that's a plus, but I'm really only interested in how fuckable your ass is.

55 hours later 5017822 Anonymous
>>5017814 Yeah I'm pretty awkward to I just stay quiet and ask them questions, let him talk until he's pounding my butthole

55 hours later 5017867 Anonymous
>>5017813 >you're really ugly >Sigh It's... It's not fair...

55 hours later 5017882 Anonymous
>>5017867 Life is not fair, bb. Get used to it

57 hours later 5018110 Anonymous
>>5007446 >hook up with some dude >he came after literally 10 seconds >he apologies and i leave.

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