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2014-07-19 11:11 3018843 Anonymous (1cdb0bb0-83ef-4dbd-806a-86308f68a.jpg 300x450 149kB)
Lesbian terms are a headache. What exactly is the difference between Hard Butch and Soft Butch? I've seen girls who look plenty masculine but are still considered Soft.

1 min later 3018851 Anonymous
Are the terms (when talking about lesbians) top and bottom simply substitutes for dom and sub? Why use those words?

3 min later 3018861 Anonymous
A hard butch is harder than a soft butch, and a soft butch is softer than a hard butch.

5 min later 3018872 Anonymous
>>3018851 Topping doesn't make you dominant. This isn't some femdom thing, it just means you're the one doing most of the touching and the one who uses the strapons.

21 hours later 3022802 Anonymous
seen as we're discussing terms, Are Stems ( mix of stud and femmes characteristics ) an actual thing ?

21 hours later 3022832 Anonymous
>>3022802 No. But futches are.

21 hours later 3022838 Anonymous
>>3022832 >futches femme+butches ? stem sounds lighter, futches still sounds too much like butch

21 hours later 3022852 Anonymous
>>3018843 I'd guess a hard butch is a woman who looks masculine and a soft butch is a woman who looks masculine and is also a fatass hamplanet? That is what I'd guess from context, at least.

21 hours later 3022856 Anonymous
>>3022838 Futch is a girl who dresses femme but has a butch personality.

21 hours later 3022870 Anonymous
You can put your hand right through a soft butch just by applying gentle pressure. A hard butch has a consistency similar to concrete, or quartz.

33 hours later 3026013 Anonymous
>>3022852 soft butch is usually a bitch who wants to make themselves special

33 hours later 3026020 Senpai
I thought it was just hard butch = manly, soft butch = boyish.

33 hours later 3026076 Anonymous
Soft butch is usually a tomboy type . Sometimes they use make up or other feminine attire or jewelry. Hard butch is incredibly masculine in their gestures, how they speak and act. As close to a manly man without the penis. I love both types.

33 hours later 3026084 Anonymous
>>3026020 Apparently this person is a straight male who doesn't know what Google is.

33 hours later 3026108 Anonymous
These terms aren't that complicated, they're pretty much exactly what they sound like. A hard butch is the most masculine and a soft butch is a little more androgynous, either with their physical appearance, mannerisms or both. Or it's just a preference of how butch that person feels. Stone butch is typically a butch who doesn't like to be touched and/or who is usually the top. They might or might not be comfortable with being a female and having a female body.

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