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2014-07-18 07:32 3012342 Anonymous Versitile in need of advice (1400812134890.jpg 396x575 107kB)
My dick is too big to fit in my boyfriend. This has been a problem with every guy I've been with. Usually I don't care cause they like topping anyway. Prior to meeting me my boyfriend was exclusively bottom. But because I couldn't fit inside him he tried topping. He likes it but the problem is I don't have control of when I orgasm bottoming and he needs hours to cum when topping. So he really wants to bottom and I really want to please him yet after 8 months I still can't fit inside him. I can control when I cum topping and he gets more pleasure bottoming so he cums faster. I have yet to get him to cum yet he's got me off plenty. I don't think it's fair to him. So, how do I learn better control bottoming and/or how do I make anal easier on him?

10 min later 3012362 Anonymous
>>3012342 How big are you? Also, try not touching yourself/more foreplay to last longer.

48 min later 3012414 Anonymous
>>3012362 7 inches length and 7 inches girth. Happy that I was blessed but frustrated I don't get to use it.

49 min later 3012415 Anonymous
You'll fit in me. Come over

51 min later 3012421 Anonymous
>>3012414 That's really fucking thick, jesus christ. Well, I'd say that if you want to top, get some thicker plugs for your bf to stretch with.That's almost twice the girth of guys he'd probably be used to, so he's gonna need to work up to that. Give it a week or two of slowly working bigger and bigger plugs in, and then just take it very slowly the first few times. You'll need to work towards it.

57 min later 3012433 Anonymous
>>3012414 Jesuuus. Pics?

1 hours later 3012465 Anonymous
>>3012342 >>3012414 are you me, my dick is a similar size, and i tend to bottom because of it aswell. I'm tfw no bf though

9 hours later 3013296 Anonymous
>>3012342 just finger him more and use way more lube don't start going in until you've got like 4 fingers in there

26 hours later 3016897 Anonymous
>>3012414 >7 inches girth that is literally more than a coke can

27 hours later 3016926 Anonymous
>>3012414 I-I-I will take that?

27 hours later 3016930 Anonymous (20140719_094426.jpg 2322x4128 989kB)
>>3012421 >>3012433 >>3016897 7 inches girth is big but not huge. The average is 6, cans are over 8 inches. That you people can't tell the difference between diameter and circumference is upsetting. I doubt there is a 7 inch diameter cock in the world, thats bigger than a particularly big fist. I got my cherry popped by a 7.5 inch thick dick. OK he'd had a whole basket full of toys up me before that point but it doesn't take all that much effort and we fucked on few subsequent occasions without any issues (apart from that time I squirted douche water in his face.) Just foreplay, finger and rim him until he's ready and when you've got 3 fingers in you know you're good to go.

27 hours later 3016932 Anonymous
>>3016930 the average penis girth is 4.8 inches (12.3 cm). 6 inches girth is considered big girth, and anything above 5 inches is above average. i've got 5.8 inch girth and i have people telling me that's big 7 inches girth is literally my wrist. i've measured my shaving cream bottle to be 6.5 inches of girth. i don't think you understand what girth or circumference is, but try putting a gilette bottle into your ass/pussy. yeah, no.

27 hours later 3016942 Anonymous
>>3016932 I have before

27 hours later 3016944 Anonymous
>>3016942 i suppose you're very stretchy then, most pornstars have a girth of around 6 inches, give or take. 7 is just ridiculously huge.

27 hours later 3016946 Anonymous
>>3016944 It was the best a man could get

27 hours later 3016950 Anonymous
>>3016946 I don't really understand what you just said

27 hours later 3016954 Anonymous
>>3016932 Hmmm actually I've just gone and measured my average joe dildo and thats 5 inches girth so it looks like you're right. Don't know why I thought the average was 6. What I said about my ex FWB being 7.5 inches and managing perfectly well with adequate fingering and preparation still stands though. Hes still the thickest I've ever had by a significant way.

27 hours later 3016959 Anonymous
>>3016954 I believe you, but it's just hard to believe. According to howlongismyschlong.com, 6 inch girth is already in the 99'th percentile, and 7 inches or bigger...they just don't even make condoms for them anymore. Did you measure him? Do you have any pics? I'd really like to see that monster

27 hours later 3016972 Anonymous (image.jpg 300x202 11kB)
>>3016950

27 hours later 3016973 Anonymous
>>3016959 Yeah we really struggled trying to use condoms. It got to the stage where we considered using femidoms. In the end we just gave up and he would fuck me bareback but not cum inside. Its that issue that made me say we needed to stop having sex despite him making me feel fucking amazing, was just too risky. We're still friends though and txt often. I have plenty of pics of him and a video on my phone of me sucking him but I'm not gonna share them here without his permission.

27 hours later 3016974 Anonymous
>>3016972 ah ahah

27 hours later 3016977 Anonymous
>>3016973 >but I'm not gonna share them here without his permission. :( are you a guy or a girl?

27 hours later 3016980 Anonymous
>>3016977 A guy, whys that relevant?

27 hours later 3016984 Anonymous
>>3016980 just curious i'm a guy and have had enemes before with little tubes that are like less than 1 inch girth and it felt fucking uncomfortable i can't even get a finger in my ass, and they're skinny as fuck just interesting how someone with anatomy similar to mine manages to fit 7.5 inches of girth in their ass when I can't even fit 1...

27 hours later 3016985 Anonymous
>>3016984 Hey, I'm also super skinny and can take a fist

27 hours later 3016986 Anonymous
>>3016985 how :(((

28 hours later 3016989 Anonymous
>>3016986 Worked up to it with toys. Had some really long ass play sessions. Hours at a time of my hole getting stretched out.

28 hours later 3016990 Anonymous
>>3016984 You're doing it wrong is the short answer. http://www.nifty.org/nifty/informat ion/practicing-to-take-it But basically, relax, use lube, relax, use lube and relax!

28 hours later 3016993 Anonymous
>>3016989 can't even imagine using a toy to get in there, it's reallly tight >>3016990 thanks

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