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2013-07-26 08:33 1014379 Anonymous (Tear.jpg 368x400 41kB)
>get dumped by gf >year passes >tfw your family tells you that they thought you were gay your entire life with disgust in their voice >tfw not gay their attitude towards me was basically that they planned on disowning me if I turned out to be gay. >the feels Damn....I consider myself a rather tough guy, I just take care of myself and know how to dress, but this hurt soooooo goddamn bad having your own family look at you dead in the eye ready to disown you over something as meager as that....I literally have tears in my eyes as I write this heh. Just kinda shows how much I REALLY mean to them. I've grown to despise the word faggot and fag....basically because they call me this all the time. anyone else deal with this? =/

10 min later 1014474 Anonymous
I don't think my parents would disown me. My mom certainly wouldn't. But I know my dad will flip shit if I tell him I'm a tranny or that I date women and men. It seems like you're just fortunate to not be gay, with your shitty parents and all. Otherwise it's still a bad situation. Take from them what you can, while giving them bare minimum interaction and cooperation. Move the fuck away when you can, never look back. If they would disown you for being gay, they sure as hell don't care about you. They care about an asset.

15 min later 1014514 Anonymous
>>1014474 >If they would disown you for being gay, they sure as hell don't care about you. They care about an asset. thats exactly how I feel....I'm only as good as the positive light I bring to them. I think the silver lining that came from this is, I now know what gays, trans and others go through with this shit.....its fucking hard man....it hurts, and im not even going through it! The fact that someone would hate you because of who you love....wow, just.....wow.

16 min later 1014522 Anonymous
>>1014379 >anyone else deal with this? =/ I deal with it, but I'm, like, actually gay. So it's kinda shit. They don't know yet, though. Do what I plan to do. Slyly get money from them over time and use it to get the fuck away from them. Then fuck all the me- I mean women you want!

21 min later 1014550 Anonymous
>>1014522 >Then fuck all the me- I mean women you want! lol, right on I dont really "get money from them", I just go to Uni. and study. As soon as I graduate though, I'm going to grad school in another state...to get the fuck away from them.

32 min later 1014621 Anonymous (faggot.gif 500x255 520kB)
>>1014514 >acute, consummate, high, highest, intense, maximal, maximum, severe, sovereign, supreme, top, ultimate, utmost, uttermost extreme faggot detected ABORT THREAD

41 min later 1014697 banana republican
I wouldn't be surprised if my family disowned me if I ever came out. I know they love me but they are very conservative.This is a big part of the reason why I don't see myself ever transitioning.

53 min later 1014797 Anonymous
>>1014379 I can understand the feeling in that everyone at my school probably thought I was gay in 5th grade. But in truth I just had no social skills/self-awareness and said the absolute worst things at the wrong times. The fact that I'm bi now is pretty much by coincidence.

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