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2020-09-23 02:32 22855749 Anonymous (OjbF4oU.jpg 1024x1120 260kB)
>be 33 >spend my adult life working to buy my house and keeping healthy >feels like I'm ready to start dating seriously and find a family >everyone keeps acting like it's creepy to date 18-25 year old women in this day and age wtf man, y'all niggas lied to me, I thought my 30s was when I was when everything was supposed to fall in place but my family and friends keep teasing me like I'm some creep because girls I have been dating are in their early 20s

2 min later 22855751 Anonymous
I'd reccomend not dating teenagers, that's actually pretty creepy, but 23+ doesn't seem that bad. Are the girls your dating short, or something?

2 min later 22855752 Anonymous
If they can't tell your age and you don't fucking tell then nobody gives a fuck

4 min later 22855753 Anonymous
>>22855749 there's nothing wrong dating women in the early 20s when you are 33. Baby boomers were marrying women 20 years their junior and nobody gave a fuck.

4 min later 22855756 Anonymous
>>22855749 >giving a shit You're a pussy, by now you should realize people are shit and they're opinions are worthless

4 min later 22855758 Anonymous
>>22855749 >but my family and friends keep teasing me like I'm some creep because girls I have been dating are in their early 20s because you are a creep...

7 min later 22855763 Anonymous
>>22855749 Wait youre with the woman though? What the fuck is the point of this thread?

7 min later 22855764 Anonymous
>>22855749 Only in America, white women be like "oh no help me I'm 24 years old and my boyfriend is 28 I'm being groomed this is so creepy omg". But also you're kind of retarded to only start dating when you're nearly middle aged and falling for the incel meme that women will just appear in your life once you hit X Y Z financial goals and get a house like it's a animal crossing game. >>22855751 >that's actually pretty creepy there's that word again

11 min later 22855769 Anonymous
>>22855764 I dont know which part of america because its definitely okay in my region though we actually care about love here.

15 min later 22855772 Anonymous
>>22855769 >I dont know which part of america Most of it, though yeah America is a big place but even on 4chan where mostly everyone is a incel coomer people are still all "ewwwww is that two consenting adults not born on the exact same year? That's creepy!"

18 min later 22855778 Anonymous
>>22855772 Thats fucking stupid. I say let people be happy. Hell older people are good for those have been treated like shit in past relationships since theyre usually kinder.

18 min later 22855780 Anonymous
No judgement but why not date someone your age?

19 min later 22855783 Anonymous
>>22855780 Because life doesnt work on a fucking checklist

23 min later 22855792 Anonymous
>>22855780 Not him but because 33 year old women are either happily married with kids or they're single and crazy and live with 8 cats & resent men. There might be single divorced moms I guess, but hooray to that amiright

23 min later 22855793 Anonymous
>>22855783 What does that even mean?

23 min later 22855794 Anonymous
>>22855780 Women above 30 become ugly and gross and are usually insane or have kids

24 min later 22855799 Anonymous
>>22855793 >you should only date people if they have this this and this Attraction doesnt work that way now fuck off

26 min later 22855808 Anonymous
>>22855792 >>22855794 I guess it depends where you live. I know a lot of women 30 plus who are attractive and don't have kids. Have any of you tried dating or did you browse the first page of okc and give up?

27 min later 22855809 Anonymous
>>22855780 a) I want a functional womb b) if a girl isn't married or at least in a long term relationship by my age there is usually a reason for it. more of a red flag if she is attractive too. c) they usually have a have a lot of consumer/credit card debt. d) girls in their 20s are generally more attractive

28 min later 22855811 Anonymous
>>22855799 I'm not that guy but you literally put words into his mouth. I say if you can get a 18-25 y/o who's up for dating you then do it. Fuck everyone's opinion.

31 min later 22855822 Anonymous
>>22855809 People in the 20s tend to be incredibly immature too. Like over grown teenagers at that point. >I want a functional womb You don't actually want kids, you just want an excuse to fuck people younger than you. Have fun with a lifetime of debt so you can bust a nut.

31 min later 22855824 Anonymous
>>22855808 >I know a lot of women 30 plus who are attractive and don't have kids. maybe you idea of attractive is much different from mine >>22855809 Also this, if kids are something you want, you don't want some dry pussy whose ovaries are looking like a couple of california raisins

33 min later 22855829 Anonymous
>>22855822 >People in the 20s tend to be incredibly immature too. Like over grown teenagers at that point. That's a meme, there's 40 year olds that have temper tantrum over video games or still collect disney princess shit and act like everyday is prom or act a fool after having just a few drinks

34 min later 22855834 Anonymous
>>22855829 wasn't there a thing where gen-z kids were mocking millennials for being obsessed with shit like Harry potter

40 min later 22855856 Anonymous (zip zoom zoomer.gif 931x682 435kB)
>>22855834 Yeah I do remember something like that, but they're the ones who made shit like fortnite and tik tok popular so pot calling the kettle cringe

48 min later 22855880 Anonymous
>>22855824 Just admit your a creep who prowls college dorms.

1 hours later 22855939 Anonymous
Op if this is that important to you then why start sooner? The older the father the more likely the changes are of having a kid with autism. Also imagine bsome girl who's life is finally starting, only to throw it all away for some old coomer.

1 hours later 22855940 Anonymous
>>22855811 Oh okay good. Nah its that date your own age shit.

1 hours later 22856003 Anonymous
People telling you to date your own age are trying to cope. It's genuinely always said out of jealousy, or mindless groupthink. If you are dating adult women there's literally nothing wrong with it, just retarded recent societal programming. It's all the fucking feminism going out of hand looking for patriarchal conspiracies in all men/women dynamics. Older women want to raise their value and the way to do that is to call you a creep.

1 hours later 22856012 Anonymous
>>22855749 Ya youngest i will go is a woman who is at least 23 if I wanted something serious.

1 hours later 22856022 Anonymous
>>22855749 >everyone keeps acting like it's creepy to date 18-25 year old women in this day and age No, only women over the age of 25 feel this way. Bitches will literally date dudes 50 years older than them, but in the same breath say that no one should date a girl younger than them. Any male saying that is just a bitch.

1 hours later 22856029 Anonymous
im 31 abd ive fucked 18 year olds but i would never date them. i only date people i believe have the potential for long term compatibility. i have literally nothing in common with an 18 year old both maturity wise etc. the lowest i would go is 23. old enough for her to have graduated college, to be past the novelty of getting trashed every night around 21, to be living on her own and to have started her career.

1 hours later 22856045 Anonymous
>>22855880 college girls don't deserve any respect, they are jumping on every cock, might as well be yours t. college goer

1 hours later 22856063 Anonymous
>>22855749 >You guys told me... Nobody ever told you to worry about what motherfuckers think.

11 hours later 22857553 Anonymous
>>22856003 >>22856045 This. Women are whores who will jump on any degenerates dick if they look good or are considered popular. If OP is 33 and in shape with a good financial situation, he can litterally fuck ANY bitch he wants to over the age of 18. In fact if I had a daughter I would rather her be with an older guy with a good career and his life in order than some retard who just graduated college and has no idea what he is doing still living at home. Anyone with an age gap issue like this is a vapid feminist angry cunt. Or a cuck who is angry that his life isn't in order

11 hours later 22857637 Anonymous
>>22855749 The more I look at this picture the more weird things I notice.

11 hours later 22857657 Anonymous
>>22855749 Ignore friends Ignore family Date girl in early 20s All seems well.

11 hours later 22857688 Anonymous
>>22855749 >teasing me It's probably just banter, I wouldn't pay any attention to that. Keep it up, you're still a better partner to an early 20s girl than her mentally ill, effeminate and autistic peers. Good luck

11 hours later 22857698 Anonymous
>>22855749 All of my wife's coworkers (RNs in their mid 20s) are married to dudes in their 30s who already had a house when they started dating It's fine

11 hours later 22857720 Anonymous
frankly, if you had a daughter who was 18, id much rather her marry and settle down with a 30 year old with a house a good job a man like you who has got his shit together has a good future trustable shit like that than her to fuck around with mansluts until shes 28 OP, please my sister is 19 take her il let you if you treat her right

11 hours later 22857731 Anonymous
>>22857720 based

11 hours later 22857738 Anonymous
>>22855749 It isn't. My gf was 16 when we started dating and I was 25. It's always better to date a young virgin than and old cumdump. Also women look old the minute when they hit 23.

13 hours later 22857947 Anonymous
>>22855749 Early 20s a perfectly fine. I wouldn't marry someone that young, though.

13 hours later 22857955 Anonymous
Why you keep npc bugpeople in your life

13 hours later 22857994 Anonymous
>>22855749 >be 29 >don't have any girlfriend, still khv >don't have a great career, dead end job >don't have any goals in life >depressed all the time >been alone so long started to hate other human beings It's over for me. I hope there's a way to reset my life so i can start all over.

13 hours later 22858090 Married Oldfag
>>22855749 My 33 year old pal just got engaged to a 23 year old he dated for a year. It is acceptable in religious circles

14 hours later 22858148 Anonymous
>>22858090 the thing is that this was the norm for most of human history until rampant feminism started. It was always preferred if an older man married a younger woman. And it makes sense.

15 hours later 22858365 Anonymous
>>22855749 >my family and friends keep teasing me like I'm some creep because girls I have been dating are in their early 20s pffft. Misery loves company but hates that which is not also miserable. They're just mad that you have the liberty to date young qts while they're all crumbling inside their "super serious grown up" relationships. Tell em young poon just tastes better and you can do what the fuck you want.

17 hours later 22858669 Anonymous
>>22855808 Or he can just date who he wants to date. Faggot.

17 hours later 22858704 Anonymous
>>22858669 probably an angry post wall roastie "WAAAAAH YOU CANT HECKIN JUST DATE YOUNGER WOMEN WAAAAAAH, WHAT ABOUT US CAT MOM WINE AUNTS WHO FUCKED OUR WAY TO THE WALL"

17 hours later 22858729 Anonymous
>>22858704 Yea, I really don't understand this stigma of older men dating grown ass women that are younger then them. But bitchs like madonna are celebrated for riding young dick.

17 hours later 22858742 Anonymous
>>22855749 Stop swallowing roastie foid propaganda, they tell you this so you don’t take the good option and have to settle for their sorry meaty asses once they’ve hit the wall. If you are early,30s and can bag an early 20s girl go fucking nuts. I’ve been mentally competent since I was 18. I wouldn’t go for actual 18 year olds because there is a maturity issue but 20s girls are more than capable of making decisions. When you were younger all the girls went for older mature guys who were more settled with more money. Now you are older. Why would you settle for some second marriage hag? Use your position to your advantage

19 hours later 22859055 Anonymous
Anyone who gives you shit for dating a younger woman is either jealous or concerned that they might not stick around for too long. Sounds like you're in a pretty healthy position and frankly you'd be wise to ignore the dissenting opinions of others when it comes to things they will never fully understand.

19 hours later 22859138 Anonymous
>>22858729 What you are doing by dating younger women is the NORMAL thing to do. But we are in clown world. So fuck these cunts and their opinions. People HATE to see independent guys doing well for themselves

19 hours later 22859196 Anonymous (1600654130584.jpg 1440x849 173kB)
>>22855749 >>22855749 There's nothing wrong with being a normal human and dating at a healthy age. Don't listen to those NPC subhuman borg """"females"""" that threw their entire lifetime at debt, slaving away at their job and getting used as a decaying fuckpie by a cyclone of single serve promiscuous men instead of having healthy early romance and a family like they should. If you really had the audacity to turn down a life and world of boundless charity and companionship for hollow and exhausting workplace slavery and repetitive emotional abuse then you get to enjoy the fruits of you descision. I hope it tastes like printer ink you dumb bitch. OP date the correct way and don't listen to these idiots. They are imprisoned in the hell they built for themselves and they are envious of your freedom and health.

27 hours later 22860951 Anonymous
You’ve stowed all the joys of dating away in hopes of a more stable future, which you’ve finally achieved, I feel like you should feel empowered to fuck anyone you want(18+) without any shame, it’s what you deserve anyway. People who say you are a creep have their own unresolved issues towards the matter so don’t mind them NIGGA

32 hours later 22861797 Anonymous (1578983988869.jpg 1024x1004 125kB)
>>22855749 >everyone keeps acting like it's creepy to date 18-25 year old women in this day and age >everyone Stop hanging around with bitter old roasties and their soiboi white knights.

33 hours later 22861821 Anonymous
>>22855749 Why are you falling for females shaming tactics? As long they are 18+ you are doing fine! Men listening to females advices is the stupidest thing ever!

33 hours later 22861839 Anonymous
>>22855880 Get a lot of this faggot! Your options are showing btw! >I would rather date a 30+ females then being able to fuck younger females Said no men ever

34 hours later 22861970 Anonymous
the biggest issue with dating a 18-23yo is going to be the relate gap, you've gone through so many more things than she has, it naturally becomes a very father-daughter like relationship and that's not healthy for you, even if it benefits her you want someone who can challenge you a bit, keep you on your toes and humble... date in the 23-27 range

34 hours later 22861986 Anonymous
>>22856003 I'd personally be worried that the woman is with me because she's a gold-digger.

34 hours later 22861989 Anonymous
>hes going to date a 18yo spend all his money on her frivolous wants while she doesnt take the relationship seriously bc hes old and leaves him or MeeToos him for sweet settlement cash

34 hours later 22861994 Anonymous (7FmbP2d.jpg 750x733 125kB)
>be 31 >be home owner too >gf has a mini meltdown/freakout when she discovered that I sleep on a single size bed in the spare room when she doesn't stay over is it really that wrong to sleep on a single size bed?

39 hours later 22862734 Anonymous (30 PLUS.png 664x363 64kB)
>>22861970 >and that's not healthy for you, even if it benefits her Lool its better for you to marry 30+ hag watch her kick you out of your own house and force you to pay her via alimony. Is it any wonder, what you describe is what most men would die to go back to. it was the standard for pre 1945 societies. Men love a girl who looks up to them, girls who want him to her things. A man who takes over from the fathers role and carry on the familys legacy to the next generation. I would not expect larping roastie to understand this though

39 hours later 22862759 Anonymous
>>22855749 >family and friends keep teasing me like I'm some creep They are jealous My first wife was 6 years older than me. She was a terrible wife, mother and person. My second wife is 10 years younger than me. I was 35, she was 25 when we started dating. She is excellent. No being younger does not make her a better person, but when you find a better person, date and then marry her, even if she's younger.

39 hours later 22862770 Anonymous
>>22855758 >you are a creep... Not OP but they are grown ass women, not little girls. Guys like you say this out of pure envy. That's all it is OP, envy, plain and simple, every man on earth wishes he could have the young babes, but they don't, and here you are showing them it's possible. They accepted it's impossible and chose to live that way. But for you OP, it's possible. It hurts them. It's envy.

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