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2020-03-18 06:26 22004674 Anonymous (1584478843177m.jpg 1024x768 46kB)
I can make my gf orgasm with my fingers fucking her and stimulating her clit, but I cant fuck her with my cock and make her have a vaginal orgasm. Please dont quote some dumb buzzfeed article that says on 1% of women have vaginal orgasms. Just tell me the secret. My hands get tired of doing the same shit just to make her cum. I wish i could feel her squeeze my penis with her orgasming vagina. :(

2 min later 22004678 Anonymous
how many fingers are you putting in her? more than the girth of your dick? if not, then you need to work on your technique. if so, then it's a size thing and she should do kegels

3 min later 22004682 Anonymous
>>22004674 Have her get on top and ride you. Works real well for me.

11 min later 22004695 Anonymous
OP I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that a lot of women cannot orgasm from vaginal penetration and it is usually because of a mental block that they have. It isn't you dude. I have had sex with a lot of women and I have discussed the topic with even more and the consensus is that clitoral stim is your best bet. If you can somehow work with your partner and get them in the headspace needed to have a vaginal orgasm then great but that isn't even a guarantee because there are some women (a small percent mind you) that no matter what cannot have an orgasm this way. So.. Yeah. Don't over think it.

19 min later 22004707 Anonymous (e31.png 671x665 199kB)
>>22004678 I put 2 fingers in her. It is the same girth as me. >>22004682 I just had her do this. I told her to treat my cock like its her very own toy and make herself cum. But she couldn't. Also she will not touch herself. She says that is for me to do and that she thinks it is cheating. Even though I need all the help i can get. >>22004695 I think she does have a mental block. But there has to be away around it. Im currently having sex at my parents house. Maybe shes afraid of getting caught.

24 min later 22004724 Anonymous
>>22004707 Okay so you're both young and she seems immature based on the "I won't masturbate because I see it as cheating". The only thing that is going to snap her out of that is life experience my dude.

25 min later 22004728 Anonymous
>OP has a very, very common problem: the thread

29 min later 22004742 Anonymous (1584020139365.jpg 1080x1080 180kB)
>>22004724 She is 21 dumbass. Shes japanese not an american whore kill yourself. Its culture, not being immature.

32 min later 22004750 Anonymous
>>22004742 >having sex before married >not a whore Keep lying to yourself froggo.

34 min later 22004756 Anonymous
>>22004750 I've been in a relationship with her since she was 16 years old Yeah, /adv/ is literally r.eddit 2. Shoudve known Have a great day.

43 min later 22004788 Anonymous
This is why we need anatomy classes. The Gspot is a part of the inner clitoral structure that's around an inch or so deep in the pussy. The clit you see on the outside is a small part of the organ responsible for orgasms. Males have a similar structure called the corpus cavernosa. It's not your performance or size its basic anatomy. Also she should touch herself wtf how is that cheating

47 min later 22004801 Anonymous
Context, buildup, and prep-work, sex for girls is mostly in the mind. Best sex I ever had was on an extraordinarily well-crafted valentine's day, with delicious food, an immaculately crafted, cleaned, scented, and bachelor-style bedroom, good mood music, perfect temperature, and hours of teasing, foreplay, and lead-in. I basically decided >you know those movie moments in which there girl's dating the perfect guy? I'm gonna reverse engineer one of those, do it better and put it on for her, in real life The only catch is setting up a moment like that is extremely time consuming. I encourage you to try it at least once, just to see how it feels, real life ahegao is some top shit.

52 min later 22004818 Anonymous
When I first met my gf, she could only fit 2 fingers, and could make her orgasm just from sex every time. I basically introduced her to 3 and sometimes 4 since the past few times we’ve had sex, and I haven’t made her orgasm from sex alone anymore, and she needs my fingers to finish (2 and 3). Have I fucked up?

1 hours later 22004938 Anonymous
>>22004674 The explosively viral myth that most girls cant orgasm from PIV intercourse is one of the worst things for sexual health. It just serves to reinforce worry and doubt in a relationship. Women who cannot orgasm from sex are like men with death grip syndrome. That said, your best pet is missionary, just move your hips in a fashion to maximize stimulous to the clit with your pelvis.

2 hours later 22005083 Anonymous
>>22004756 Yes because reddit is known for it's strong support of traditional gender expectations

3 hours later 22005226 Anonymous
>>22004818 Plz help. I’m in a similar situation as OP

3 hours later 22005280 Anonymous
>>22004674 Make her cum like 3 times w mouth/hand stuff before you stick it, spreading her a little more w each orgasm tell her your getting her ready for your cock. Then keep angle in mind, you wanna get the same one as you do with your hands, kinda upward like you're trying to aim for her bellybutton from the inside. Keep a steady stroke game till she begs for more then speed it up while steady and keep going till she's cumming. If that doesn't work fuck it. Put a vibe on her clit while she orgasms. This is my experience as a lesbian though. Been told I got good stroke game. Used to fuck straight girls and they said I was the only one to make them cum just from penetration. Myself I can only cum from just penetration if I've already orgasmed a couple times right before. Different positions help too. Some girls cum their brains out only if you hit it from the back, others if you turn them kinda sideways and push their legs together and up, I love my legs folded up to my head personally, fucked a girl that could only orgasm fucking standing up. One last tip my hand game got better when I stopped being a little bitch when my arms got tired and started thinking of it as a work out building muscle. And started going to the gym on top of that.

4 hours later 22005382 Anonymous
>>22004742 No, not touching yourself because "its cheating" is retarded and immature it's not culture its being prude and guess what 21 year olds are immature

4 hours later 22005400 Anonymous
>>22004674 Use fingers while using dick Finger her ass or bite her neck or something

13 hours later 22006477 Anonymous
>>22004742 based literal autistic retard

14 hours later 22006551 Anonymous
The first few weeks after meeting my LDR ex, she came so much from penetration that we needed towels to soak it all up. Then she became so reserved and hesitant that she told me to stop each time because it was hurting her. Some food for thought. Maybe you have unresolved relationship problems.

14 hours later 22006572 Anonymous
You fuck her how she wants to be fucked during sex, not how you want to fuck to bust a nut. You hear her moan or go "deeper" when you hit a certain spot, KEEP DOING THAT SAME THING YOU WERE DOING. I swear so many men go into jackhammer mode automatically, no matter how many times you fucking TELL THEM to LISTEN. Maybe I could cum on his cock if he's use an ounce of finesse, jesus fucking Christ, I shouldn't be racing against your orgasm to get mine. Also, bullet vibrator against her clit or a vibrating cock ring for each thrust you grind against her pussy. Both of them feel awesome. Plus, with a vibrator against my clit during sex, I clamp down on the cock more and it feels better for him, too. The first time I ever came with a dick inside me was using this method. >but that's just a clitoral orgasm Do you want her to cum on your cock or not? I'm just saying things that work

14 hours later 22006617 Anonymous
>>22004674 1. Try different positions. I knew one woman who could only get there doggy style and another who had to be on top. 2. Give her one by hand and then go in. The second can be easier to achieve than the first. 3. If all else fails, stop trying. Sometimes that can take the pressure off her and free up the mental block if there is one

21 hours later 22007358 Anonymous
>>22004938 I will try doing that without moving my cock too fast >>22005280 When she asks me to speed up its very uncomfortable for me because I cant feel anything on my dick but I feel like im going to cum. >>22005382 Okay 15 year old >>22006572 Sorry but thats my problem. She wants me to jackhammer and I cant. She loves it for some reason. Also get the fuck off 4chan(nel). Since americans circumcised me when i was born i cant last that long in her favorite position (missionary) because it makes me feel like im about to come in like 5 seconds but it doesnt even feel good. I dont know how to describe it. I can last a long time in other positions (around 20 minutes) but missionary is impossible for me.

23 hours later 22007528 Anonymous
>>22007358 >When she asks me to speed up its very uncomfortable for me because I cant feel anything on my dick but I feel like im going to cum. Stop being a lil bitch that cums over nothing then. If you can't jackhammer fuck her till she cums over and over just give me her number and I'll fuck her for you. Jackhammer isn't even a complicated move to keep up she's not even asking for a lot with that shit. I bet it's just that you're a bit tubby and it's hard exercise for you to keep up. Also quit blaming Jews and shit out of your control, no girl wants to hear some pathetic poltard excuse for why you suck at fucking. Your excuse is drying up her pussy more than your weak stroke game. There's plenty of dudes with dicks like yours that can fuck fine. You sound like you're just out of shape. Wahwah your arm gets tired so you stop fingering here and wahwah now fucking the shit out of her is too hard your weak penis can't keep up.

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