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2013-01-22 01:28 14546563 Anonymous (200px-Virgin_svg.png 200x178 9kB)
there seems to be a lot of people discussing their sexual promiscuity on here. any other virgins? age/gender/reason for virginity

1 min later 14546567 Anonymous
Okay. 18/female. Virgin because I've just never tried, and too withdrawn from society for someone to have made a move on me.

8 min later 14546616 Anonymous
>>14546567 stats

9 min later 14546621 Anonymous
18/m/just never been able to get to that point with a girl even tho I've had my dick sucked.

11 min later 14546632 Anonymous
21/m/lardy, massively shy introvert. Not to say I don't want to get laid, I just find normal social situations terrifying or stressful. Also, flabby manboobs.

14 min later 14546649 Anonymous
25 male acne social anxiety

15 min later 14546652 Anonymous
19/m/ I thought of it this morning. If I would have been less of a bitch and more proactive I could allready have had sex with at least two girls. So I better start being more pro active

15 min later 14546655 Anonymous
>>14546616 Hmm?

16 min later 14546664 Anonymous
27/male I've been waiting for the right girl, and also probably for marriage or at least getting engaged.

17 min later 14546672 Anonymous
>>14546655 what do you look like

17 min later 14546673 Anonymous
I suppose i should share mine given i asked the question. 20/female Never really talked to many guys. I was really shy and withdrawn in high school. Ive been more social and made male friends at uni and i go out clubbing and stuff now. But never been asked out. Never even been kissed.

17 min later 14546675 Anonymous
>>14546567 where you from?

18 min later 14546685 Anonymous
>>14546673 pic also location

19 min later 14546692 Anonymous
>>14546675 >>14546672 I'm not here to hook up, sorry people.

23 min later 14546718 Anonymous (SAM_7685.jpg 700x525 76kB)
25/male/ I'm too much of my own person. Modern dating seems like a game and I don't understand the rules, I lost interest in looking for a girlfriend and focused on being myself.

25 min later 14546739 Anonymous
>>14546664 And you will continue to do so until you're 40, working at Best buy, and your wacky coworkers brave you unto quirky misadventures and comical calamities. All in hopes of helping you loose the love juice.

28 min later 14546752 Anonymous
>>14546739 lold hard i had a girlfriend for over a year, but half a year single now and i feel like a virgin all over again aint, fun, maaaaan. aint fun.

30 min later 14546768 Anonymous
23 Male Because I was waiting for another virgin I loved and now I feel like it's too late.

31 min later 14546771 Anonymous
>>14546718 keep telling yourself that, son.

31 min later 14546774 Anonymous
>>14546692 i dont want to hook up dont lump me in with some faggot looking for where you live

32 min later 14546779 Anonymous
>>14546718 I feel like me and you would get a lot a lot.

34 min later 14546792 Anonymous (hfhffh.jpg 480x640 75kB)
I'm shy, awkward and for me it's really hard to hold a straight conversation with someone since i have nothing intelligent to talk about

35 min later 14546803 Anonymous
>>14546779 Perhaps.

37 min later 14546822 Anonymous
>>14546673 Lauren? (Sounds identical to one of my flatmates)

42 min later 14546843 Anonymous
18, Male, decision I've made for now. By decision, I do mean I've been in situations where I could have, but didn't. Twice because no condom, and once because we got to the bedroom and she was drunk as hell, and I didn't wanna take advantage. I'm not worried about it. At this point, I'd rather it be a girlfriend, because essentially, and orgasm I can achieve on my own, but to do that, I'd rather have a bond with someone. Plus STDs yo.

44 min later 14546856 Anonymous
I think that nice waiting for the right person, or just focusing on yourself. >>14546822 No, not lauren But it nice to know theres someone else in the same predicament as me

46 min later 14546869 Anonymous (allergies.jpg 542x480 34kB)
>>14546792 pretty much exactly this

48 min later 14546878 Anonymous
>>14546792 bullshit... nothing this beautifull can be shy and akward...

53 min later 14546902 Anonymous
19 male shy as fuck usually when i do get to the point i feel conformable to talk to girls theyve already friendzoned me lately i talk and feel conformable talking to people more often now going into university in september, hopefully someone can kiss me then

55 min later 14546905 Anonymous
>>14546869 how old are you?

58 min later 14546928 Anonymous
24/m Could've lost it when I was like 18 but I'm a huge retard who can't into innuendo. Now I'm just too fucked and completely convinced that I am the most ugly being in the universe. Also I'm not fat but have manboobs which is really weird. Also, really self concious about my tiny cock.

59 min later 14546933 Anonymous
>>14546905 19, will be 20 this year ;-;

1 hours later 14546936 Anonymous
>>14546928 >Also I'm not fat but have manboobs which is really weird Bench press or push ups to turn them into pecs.

1 hours later 14546937 Anonymous
19/m Had a few chances to lose mine, but i didn't take them because i don't think its a big deal. I want to share it with someone i love, not with some fling i met a few days ago.

1 hours later 14546943 Anonymous
>>14546878 Aw thank you. Even if i don't consider myself beautiful or something close to that but yes, actually awkward seems a compliment to my situation lol

1 hours later 14546945 Anonymous
>>14546936 I think that's the reason I have them in the first place, used to work out alot a few years back.

1 hours later 14546949 Anonymous (540424_10150767188118685_1416740586_n.jpg 640x480 44kB)
19/Male/Probably my fucking ears

1 hours later 14546964 Anonymous
>>14546949 Grow your hair out so people can't notice them as much. That's what I did.

1 hours later 14546965 Anonymous
>>14546949 Nothing wrong with your ears. Very cute. Like the uniform too. Im actually suprised, all the boys who have posted pics are good looking.

1 hours later 14546967 Anonymous
>>14546965 99% of the time, these guys are virgins because of mentality. Not the way they look.

1 hours later 14546972 Anonymous
>>14546965 Well, someone needs to change that virginity of theirs, don't they?

1 hours later 14546978 Anonymous
>>14546943 Hmm... well, sorry to hear that, but on the looks department you have nothing to worry about. You really are super cute... :)

1 hours later 14547000 Anonymous
>>14546869 I want you to be my bf. we could be awkward virgins together.

1 hours later 14547034 Anonymous
>>14546981 Stop posting in your uniform. Do any of your fellow army mates know you do?

1 hours later 14547050 Anonymous
I was abused, I just post here to feel better about my looks.

1 hours later 14547117 Anonymous (image.jpg 393x960 137kB)
I'm just waiting to get married

1 hours later 14547135 Anonymous (girls_laughing.jpg 398x241 30kB)
>>14547117

1 hours later 14547153 Anonymous
>>14547117 I think thats nice. Not many people seem to be doing that anymore. Id like to wait until im engaged, not married. That way i can try before i buy

1 hours later 14547164 Anonymous
>>14547063 go home. kurt. stop fishing.

1 hours later 14547172 Anonymous (IMG_0140.jpg 480x640 128kB)
3 days I was going to lose it from my GF, she dumps me because "I only like you as a friend." COP THAT UP THE BUM!

1 hours later 14547190 Anonymous
>>14547117 Good on you.

1 hours later 14547199 Anonymous (sometimes-you-gotta-take-the-pussy1.jpg 475x562 68kB)
>>14547172

1 hours later 14547210 Anonymous
>>14547199 I know, total "bad luck brian" moment. I have tons more I could share.

1 hours later 14547220 Anonymous
>>14547172 Thats harsh. >>14547193 Whats the reason for the virginity?

1 hours later 14547221 Anonymous
>>14547210 >>14547199 get out

1 hours later 14547224 Anonymous
>>14547221 r u even a virgin omg wat r u the virgin police

1 hours later 14547228 Anonymous
>>14547221 Man, it's true. I get shat on everyday and god himself probably gives me the middle finger. (Ironically, I am an atheist)

1 hours later 14547242 Anonymous
>>14547164 what about everyone else..

1 hours later 14547248 Anonymous
21/male Never got around with it, because I was too shy and not interested in ONS bullshit during high school. Had the opportunity to lose it this NYE, but didn't go through. Will share story if wanted.

2 hours later 14547252 Anonymous
>>14547248 Go nuts hombre

2 hours later 14547257 Anonymous
>>14547164 >browse /soc/ >blame others about compliments fishing pick one

2 hours later 14547263 Anonymous
>>14547253 NO shame in it man.

2 hours later 14547274 Anonymous
>>14547253 Wow. Im suprised by that. Most of the guys i had crushes on in high school just slept lost their virginity to the slutty girls because they knew they were guaranteed. Ive never heard a story of a guy saying no to a slut

2 hours later 14547279 Anonymous
>>14547274 never had the chance to say no to a slut cause havent had any come up to me

2 hours later 14547282 Anonymous
>>14547228 >>14547224 >posts shitty 9fag memes >thinks there's nothing wrong with it >ishygddt

2 hours later 14547283 Anonymous
>>14547252 I shared it in a NYE thread already, so inb4 copypasta >be this NYE >be celebrating at home >guest list: >male; my brother, my best buddy and 3 other buddies of ours >female: my brother's gf and her brother's ex (long story short, he's a major douche, she is fun). Note: Single girl also was staying at our's for the night >be drinking and shit, yo >best buddy and I also blaze it >during the evening get physically closer to single girl >she be sitting on my lap and shit, even I in my almost aspie way could tell she majorly wanted the D. >didn't go for it yet because company and no privacy in this goddamn house Skip to 3 am, party dissolves, brother and his gf already went to bed, only people left is me and single girl. >be going to my room >start talking, look for signs if she still wants the D >don't see them (she moved away when I sat down beside her on my bed, seemed more distant than before) >let it slide, talk until 6 am, go to be Later on I got told by my brother's gf that single girl had wished for "more" to happen. Dammit woman, why be distant then?

2 hours later 14547303 Anonymous
21 female. dunno why im just too scared

2 hours later 14547306 Anonymous
18/Female I only want to have sex with one person and marry that person. Call me lame but it's what I honestly want.

2 hours later 14547311 Anonymous
>>14547306 Nothing wrong with that.

2 hours later 14547315 Anonymous
>>14547306 >I only want to have sex with one person Iktf.

2 hours later 14547316 Anonymous (stock.jpg 900x1200 171kB)
26 not been proactive/fear of rejection/fear that i'll be bad at sex

2 hours later 14547317 Anonymous (VIRGINIT.jpg 612x454 85kB)
Virginity does not get bad until you get into your mid-20s. After 25, you are considered an old virgin. Involuntarily celibate persons (nice way of referring to us) see very little change in numbers after 30. Once you hit wizard, you will likely never have sex. 3% of males will make wizard. 4% of females will do it. At my age, we are outnumbered by left handed people, blue eyed people, and Asians (us population). a 125 iq is more common than virgin male 28 or older. It gets so bad that psychologists actually hire whores for us if we seek therapy. They call them sex surrogates.

2 hours later 14547319 Anonymous
>>14547280 Nice to know there are decent guys.

2 hours later 14547322 Anonymous
20/M Only had bad experiences of getting sloppy blowjobs stone drunk. If the sex is going to be the same then it's not worth wasting my time and passion until I meet someone I like.

2 hours later 14547325 Anonymous
>>14547282 >thinks bad luck brian is from 9fag >doesn't realise not over using memes is still condoned by 4 chan >being an all around dick nice bro. 10/10

2 hours later 14547336 Anonymous
>>14547316 Yeah. Im scared shitless im gonna be bad at it. Im freaked out that whoever i date is going to expect experience aive never even kissed a guy

2 hours later 14547341 Anonymous
>>14547336 1. go to /r9k/ 2. be called waifu material 3. ????? 4. PROFIT! Just kinnding though. /r9k/ is mysogeny incarnate.

2 hours later 14547342 Anonymous
17/male/i live in a fucking islamic country

2 hours later 14547345 Anonymous
>>14547341 *kidding

2 hours later 14547360 Anonymous (Photo_00002.jpg 480x480 50kB)
I'm pretty much just undesirable. No job, average looks, few redeeming qualities, very specific tastes in women. >what woman wouldn't want all of this?

2 hours later 14547366 Anonymous
>>14547341 Also, they're just stupid. Even if they weren't compensating like crazy, they would STILL be the shittiest board on 4chan.

2 hours later 14547369 Anonymous
19 Male Get the jitters every time it's about to go down. I just kinda get nervous. I guess it's karmic payback for the all the years I've said I've gotten laid.

2 hours later 14547380 Anonymous
>>14547360 Have more confidence. Your cute. And quit it with the self-pity. "what woman would want this". Ive been there. Those thoughts only lead to depression.

2 hours later 14547392 Anonymous (theyreloss.png 1000x1003 1068kB)
>>14546718

2 hours later 14547394 Anonymous
>>14547380 Well it was the sarcastic "Wouldn't". It's not like I haven't tried being "confident", but I'm incredibly awkward, so I end up botching it. Since every time I've tried to talk to a girl, I end up being disliked, and rejected, it's hard to be confident, since confidence is only gained by success. You begin to doubt yourself more and more each time you fail.

2 hours later 14547410 Anonymous
24/m Girls who've had dicks in them are sluts in my eyes and virgins are a major turn-off.

2 hours later 14547411 Anonymous
>>14547253 Sorry i read it wrong. I was just trying to help and give advice on what ive experienced.

2 hours later 14547420 Anonymous
>>14547394 Sorry the above comment was for you

3 hours later 14547425 Anonymous
i'm 18 and i've had sex with 2 girls, but i'm blown away by how closely i relate to most of you explaining why you haven't had sex. i was always (and still am) very awkward with girls, particularly when it comes to approaching intimacy. i simply can't, so both girls have pressured me right into sex. the first time with this second girl, i actually declined her one night and she came back the next ready to go for real. i don't know what i'm doing right or what you're doing wrong. i'm not outstandingly good looking. i was never even into sex... i thought i was asexual for the last 3 years of my life... will detail scenarios if anyone wants.

3 hours later 14547429 Anonymous
20/M My anxiety goes through the roof when I attempt to talk to women, even if it didnt I'd have no clue what to say NO GAME, even if that wasnt a problem I'm terrible at picking up social ques and reading body language. I'm looking at dying alone.

3 hours later 14547431 Anonymous
20/male Was fat in highschool now i'm not fat i'm just shit with women

3 hours later 14547433 Anonymous
>>14547431 Same problem. Opposite gender.

3 hours later 14547438 Anonymous
>>14547433 Least your not fat anymore

3 hours later 14547449 Anonymous
>>14547420 Well, just saying to be confident isn't really much advice, and it won't stop me from being rejected. I know I'm being a downer, but I can't help that.

3 hours later 14547455 Anonymous
>>14547438 True. At least i can now go to the beach in a bikini without getting insulted and verbally abused constantly. I certainly dont miss assholes yelling out 'fat bitch' and 'look its a beached whale'. Lmao, at least i can laugh about it now.

3 hours later 14547459 Anonymous
im a girl and virgin because i wait for the right guy for me and marriage.

3 hours later 14547476 Anonymous
>>14547459 That's nice. I do like girls being chaste. As depressed as I am about not having sex, it has a lot more to do with the fact that I haven't found a girl, and haven't gotten married.

3 hours later 14547479 Anonymous
23/gay male litle motivation, all my friends are straight

3 hours later 14547484 Anonymous
>>14547455 Least now i can take my shirt off at the beach to Wanna get married and never let our kids be fat?

3 hours later 14547499 Anonymous
>>14547449 Permit me to disagree, but i think confidence is good advice. If at first you dont succeed try, and try again. Thats confidence. Not giving a fuck if you fail or get rejected. Dont get down about it, just say "well fuck that didnt work out, or fuck her anyways" and try again

3 hours later 14547515 Anonymous
>>14547499 Yes, but doing the same thing expecting a different result is the definition of madness.

3 hours later 14547532 Anonymous
>>14546563 18/M I'm gay, and only want to have sex with someone I actually love. And I'm somewhat socially retarded, and don't have many friends. I don't know any gay/bi people either.

3 hours later 14547548 Anonymous
>>14547515 If your going to liken asking women out to a science experiment. Then no its not madness. Because every woman can be categorised as a different variable because every woman is different. Its not repeating the same thing over and over again with the same result. Eventually one is going to like you.

3 hours later 14547549 Anonymous
24/m Saving myself for marriage. It has lead to me being cheated on more than once but such is life.

3 hours later 14547563 Anonymous
>>14547484 Hahaha. Yeah sure.

3 hours later 14547573 Anonymous
>>14547563 And that kids is how i met your mother/lost my virginity

3 hours later 14547579 Anonymous (explrn.gif 705x453 10kB)
>>14547515 You're not doing the same thing you fuck, unless you, as a human being, are incapable of learning. Every time you talk to a woman and get shut down you learn what doesn't work. You then change you approach and try again. People like you are the reason I get taught how to do self reflection in every other university course. Fuck you.

3 hours later 14547588 Anonymous
>>14547573 Haha. I should warn you though i am a ginger. That i couldnt change. Lol.

3 hours later 14547591 Anonymous
>>14547588 Thats cool with me i'm not ginger, the kids can be half an half

3 hours later 14547605 Anonymous
>>14547591 Actually it seems to skip a generation in my family. Theres 4 gingers out of about 20. Everyone else is blonde. So grandkids would probably be the gingers.

3 hours later 14547631 Anonymous
>>14547605 Well i'm blonde anyway so its all good, where are you from

3 hours later 14547637 Anonymous (em.jpg 534x960 53kB)
18/f/austria It sucks being disabled.

3 hours later 14547639 Anonymous
>>14547637 what is your disability?

3 hours later 14547641 Anonymous
>>14547631 Sydney. You?

3 hours later 14547646 Anonymous
18 / m / All females are stupid whores and a waste of time. Talking to them is a chore. They have nothing interesting to share except STDs.

3 hours later 14547649 Anonymous
>>14547641 other side of the planet unfortunately and by time i get to Sydney you'll have already lost your virginity

4 hours later 14547655 Anonymous
>>14547646 >>>r/9k/ I believe you wanted to post there.

4 hours later 14547656 Anonymous
>>14547639 Poor motor skills (very clumsy), incontinence and I'm quickly tired.

4 hours later 14547664 Anonymous
24/m/choice I somehow bought into the idea that I should save myself or some bullshit like that. I've had three relationships, each of which lasted 2-3 years. I finally felt comfortable with doing it during my third relationship, but we broke up right after I jumped through that mental hoop, so we still didn't do it. Jesus Christ I'm a faggot. I ended up breaking up with my second gf because she wanted to fuck but I didn't. ohgodwhy. On the plus side though, I'd like to think I'm very good at eating girls out by now.

4 hours later 14547676 Anonymous
>>14547656 I know that feel. Although it's not really a disability. I could never drive. I did go-karting once and hated it.

4 hours later 14547679 Anonymous
>>14547649 Ohh, thats a cruel twist of fate. My email is mizzannthropic@gmail.com If you wanna chat some more, your funny and im finding this good practice for talking to guys. Its 3:30am here, so ive got to get some sleep. Goodnight.

4 hours later 14547686 Anonymous
28/male I can make girls laugh, I'm not totally ugly, I can hold a conversation. I have no idea how to appropriately show my interest in a non-creepy way, because i'm so preoccupied by sex / permenantly horny, so instead I just make girls laugh and have conversation. :( foreveralone.jpg

4 hours later 14547687 Anonymous (Realizing I'm spending new years on MEG.jpg 256x318 18kB)
19/f/Australia Because I don't have a pretty face/as well as being overweight. Oh and did I mention horribly shy? Yeah I've got lots going for me.

4 hours later 14547691 Anonymous
>>14547676 I probably won't be able to drive either. Thinks are getting better though, now that I have notebook I can finally text.

4 hours later 14547692 Anonymous
>>14546567 >>14546567 best advice i can give you is don't hook up with any guy on /soc/ lose it when your ready and with the right person >>14546774 >>14546672 obviously the shit bucket here wants to bust a nutt in you

4 hours later 14547694 Anonymous (CAM00032.jpg 1920x2560 588kB)
29 - Kissless virgin Long story with many factors but it mostly boils down to being too concerned about my looks and what other people think of me. Elaboration upon request.

4 hours later 14547699 Anonymous
I was a virgin until this weekend Pros: Lost my virginity Cons: Didn't get fully erect due to alcohol, penetration was with semi, didn't come

4 hours later 14547718 Anonymous
>>14547694 You remind me of a Dwarf. It's very sexy.

4 hours later 14547719 Anonymous
>>14547316 >>14547336 be honest with you 2 the more you worry about it, the more it'll effect you. If you want to overcome this boundary learn how to turn her on and get her going with out your cock first, finger her pick up oral learn a variety of other techniques to get her off make sure she cums first, that way you when you do it, you've already got her off.

4 hours later 14547733 Anonymous
>>14547637 As a girl there is still someone willing, you're not even bad looking

4 hours later 14547755 Anonymous
21/m/terrified that I'll laughably underperform due to lack of experience, never get beyond makeout. It's a vicious circle.

4 hours later 14547768 Anonymous
>>14547686 Would love some advice....? If we're having fun and I think you are into me, how do I show you, do I just ask you for your number, do I whip my cock out? Do I ask you to dinner, I just don't get it?

4 hours later 14547769 Anonymous
23/m Some of it's about choice. When I was young, I decided I wouldn't have sex with someone unless there was a sincere emotional basis. Since then, I've had a girlfriend and a few minor crushes, but have had difficulty actually building an emotionally healthy romantic relationship. It's a weird boat. And at this point, I'm a little worried that my prolonged virginity is going to be such a weird thing that women will be put off by it. I don't think I'd be clingy or needy about it, I just want it to be honest, and that's a difficult thing to convey to people.

4 hours later 14547772 Anonymous
Obsessing over sex is for mindless plebes. While you're all chasing it, I'm pursuing my other desires. Enjoy working for me you apes.

4 hours later 14547784 Anonymous
>>14547679 will drop an email in 10 mins

4 hours later 14547789 Anonymous
>>14547772 Indeed. All the guys who did nothing but get laid are now poorfags who can barely afford the car they're trying to buy.... from me. I'm an F&I guy at a large dealer. I see so many familiar names come across me desk, I run the numbers... deny... deny... Most had outstanding grades in highschool and college - yet they have so little income. Military are even worse - hence they have their own gov sponsored incentives.

4 hours later 14547880 Anonymous
18/m Dunno. Not like I haven't tried...

4 hours later 14547898 Anonymous
>>14547718 I'm 5'6" so dwarf sounds about right, except that I'm slim. >>14547731 Alright then. Looks: I have a large nose which caused a lot ridicule throughout my life, especially while attending an all black middle school. I'm all shorter than average; 5'6". Now these wouldn't be a problem if it wasn't for the next factor coming up... Mentality: I'm (well WAS) overly concerned about how others think of me. I was too afraid of rejection, being embarrassed, and all that to where I would avoid most social interactions. So talking with pretty girls was a no go. There is also this delusion I had where I believed that if anything good, like really good, were to happen to me (ex. getting a pretty girlfriend) something utterly bad would happen as a result (prtty gf getting raped/murdered). Stupid shit like that. I believe they call it self-sabotage.

4 hours later 14547941 Anonymous
25/lozer i don't want to make my hand jealous like i could have all the pussy i want but i don't need it

4 hours later 14547974 Anonymous
19/M Beta as fuck

5 hours later 14548096 Anonymous
>>14547637 if i get you right, your willing to lose it, in this case, i can offer you mine virginity in favor(23yo, decent looking, skinny and clumsy too)

5 hours later 14548124 Anonymous
18/m Lack of socialising in younger life leaves me in a position where not many opportunities arise. I'm in the process of fixing myself up for when I go to university. I'm more friendly and adept and I'm improving my appearance and whatnot.

5 hours later 14548134 Anonymous
>>14548124 Also a general increase in my own self awareness is helping a fair bit.

5 hours later 14548156 Anonymous
>>14547692 No he just wanted to know how she looks like because she says nobody makes a move on her and i´m pretty sure that just means shes below average or average at best >>14546567

5 hours later 14548174 Anonymous
22/M Have no desire for a relationship/long term courtship. Can't follow through on one night stands, for some reason.

5 hours later 14548176 Anonymous
19 Female Extra points for being kissless.

5 hours later 14548194 Anonymous
>>14548176 >kissless virgin high five

5 hours later 14548216 Anonymous
21/m/I never lived in a good place to meet people either bad n area's or out in the middle of nowhere I tired dating sites but for some reason every girl I talked to was underage or just looking for a friend and I refuse to give in and get a Hooker

5 hours later 14548241 Anonymous
21, female. Been overweight all my life, never bothered to find someone who's okay with it lol.

5 hours later 14548275 Anonymous
i get off on the idea that women want to sleep with me more than i would if i acutally sleep with them. mainly because most of the women i go for are in long term relationships/married. i dont wanna ruin their relationships it just feels good to know that its in my ability t and that she is putting her faith in loyalty between my legs. >captcha :hard mhosat

5 hours later 14548320 Anonymous
>>14548241 How overweight?

5 hours later 14548337 Anonymous
20/m/queer The only gay guy I've ever talked to was really obnoxious and drunk.

5 hours later 14548361 Anonymous
Guys. I've had sex with two people in my life. Neither was I consenting. And I mean not like I regretted it after, one was my father, and one was my boyfriends friend. Am I allowed to call myself a virgin still? I feel like shit...

5 hours later 14548364 Anonymous
19 Male I'm a virgin because I just can't meet any girls! (appearance and personality are not an issue)

5 hours later 14548404 Anonymous
>>14548320 Don't even know, dude. Enough to be unattractive to 90% of the popilation I guess.

5 hours later 14548405 Anonymous
>>14548361 You really found yourself a decent boyfriend.

5 hours later 14548418 Anonymous (248488_10150194299212024_639674_n.jpg 439x452 41kB)
Honestly, considering how easy it is to get laid. I'm surprised some of you here saying "IDK why", don't know why. Just takes a bit of effort. <-- I got laid while looking like this for a period of my life. No excuses.

5 hours later 14548424 Anonymous
>>14548381 Oh ok. I guess /r9k/ has polluted my mind too much. I don't even know if I should tell my future boyfriend about my abuse. >>14548405 Stupid teenage girls, will do stupid teenage girl things. I..I know this sounds bad, but I completely accept that it was my fault that his friend raped me because I put my self in a situtation where there was drugs and I didn't have a cellphone.

6 hours later 14548459 Anonymous
>>14547063 such a cutie pie <3

6 hours later 14548472 Anonymous
>>14548275 forgot the info, 20/m

6 hours later 14548512 Anonymous
>>14548361 Eh, the way we treat virginity is mostly about mental state. It's an emotional quality we attach to a physical action, but really, there's no structural difference between who you were before and after. This is particularly true in men. In women, you can nitpick about hymens, but honestly, it's possible to stretch or break the hymen without intercourse, and in those cases, you couldn't credibly argue that there's a loss of virginity. Are you a virgin? No. But don't put a lot of stock in that distinction.

6 hours later 14548591 Anonymous
>>14548302 Thanks. I'm actually rather passive shy, well back then I was shy, and the aggressiveness is mostly internal (anger and frustration over past events). Talking to women has gotten easier over the years but I still get edgy and nervous around the pretty ones. But at my age there is no excuse. Well maybe a few... >>14548364 What is the issue? Location?

6 hours later 14548602 Anonymous
>>14548591 *passive AND shy ...sorry

6 hours later 14548610 Anonymous
24/M/Closet homosexual, possibly asexual. I care more about my job than I do fucking people. Also, I can't get an erection anymore. I'm broken.

6 hours later 14548617 Anonymous (picture141.jpg 1280x720 171kB)
Hey

6 hours later 14548626 Anonymous
20 m IL Tried with my last gf multiple times she was a virgin as well....but she was too tight and apparently it hurt too much to continue...so...freaking...close

6 hours later 14548638 Anonymous
Virgin. 18. Losing it next month to my girlfriend for our year anniversary. We tried once before but I got condom anxiety and lost my shit.

6 hours later 14548647 Anonymous
19/f it's going to be painful

6 hours later 14548650 Anonymous
>>14548626 Eh, I'd class that as loss of virginity in a sense. I mean, you did get someone in a position where they were very willing to have sex with you and that's what counts really.

6 hours later 14548652 Anonymous
>>14548617 You're a virgin because you pose and take pictures like this.

6 hours later 14548657 Anonymous
>>14548591 I'm a sophomore in college. The "issue" would probably be me friend-zoning girls in the past, and friend zoning myself a lot. Except nowadays I don't meet too many new girls so I don't have much to work with. And I also never go out. I've never asked a girl out. Always been asked out by girls tired of waiting on me haha. Pretty oblivious to advances and stuff but I'm not an idiot. I've only ever hooked up twice. I'm a lot more confident than I used to be after starting working out/other stuff except I can't meet any girls that I like because I don't have any friends really at my university so there's no way to meet them.

6 hours later 14548671 Anonymous
>>14548650 Never got my head in man that doesn't count to me and I'm sure it doesn't count to a lot of people. Just because someone is willing to have sex with you doesn't mean that you lost your virginity.

6 hours later 14548695 Anonymous
>>14548671 Ok fine, in the technical sense no but you got the part with any actual social bearing done. I mean the main reason that virginity is looked down upon by some people is because it implies that you can't get anyone to have sex with you. Those are my thoughts on the matter.

6 hours later 14548702 Anonymous
>>14548647 Only if you want it to be.

6 hours later 14548707 Anonymous
>>14548657 oh and I'm also really paranoid about having sex with a non-virgin

6 hours later 14548708 Anonymous (249754_190725624310138_2929316_n.jpg 640x480 46kB)
>>14548652 wat Am not a virgin in FL. Am in KY, I am.

6 hours later 14548714 Anonymous
27/m I don't "socialize"(bars/clubs/etc.) and have had little luck with "dating sites"(okcupid). Kind of hard to get laid when 90% of your waking hours is spent staring at a computer monitor.

6 hours later 14548718 Anonymous
>>14548702 It's going to hurt regardless of what I want

6 hours later 14548728 Anonymous (1351227646685.gif 500x275 781kB)
19/m/ never even kissed a girl! though people(including women) do consider me "attractive" i've havent yet encountered a mutual attraction with a someone

6 hours later 14548732 Anonymous
>>14548695 I understand that but it doesn't really count because well I have little experience in the field and since no penetration was done that, like you said, technically makes me a virgin. Most girls (on the internet anyway cause I'm not the most social person) frown upon that for some strange reason.

6 hours later 14548736 Anonymous
>>14548718 I'm assuming you mean hurt physically? If you take things slow and use lots of lube...basically don't rush it. It might hurt a tiny bit for a few moments. Unless you have some sort of extraordinary circumstance. Or are you completely pain averse?

6 hours later 14548742 Anonymous
>>14548732 I guess sexual experience would be another factor yeah. Half virgin then?

6 hours later 14548774 Anonymous
someone have sex with me D:

6 hours later 14548775 Anonymous
>>14548742 Well I'm experienced in everything but penetration so I guess if you want to call it that?

6 hours later 14548778 Anonymous
>>14547117 You NEED to have sex at least while engaged. What if your husband turns out to be horrible in bed, and on top of it, won't talk about it, or is selfish, and you have to suffer some premature ejaculator fucking idiot for the rest of your married life. Sorry hun, but love does not conquer all. Eventually, it will get old, and it will make you miserable. Not to mention, you will have missed out of the best years of your young life. You're beautiful, and your commitment to that goal is charming, but, you need to be realistic. Virginity at marriage, is a holdover from nomadic times, when marriage was really a contract between parties, not for love and happiness, which is more of a Victoria (18/19th century construct). Good Luck.

6 hours later 14548785 Anonymous
>>14547172 Idiot, she's not your GF, until you have sex with her a few times, and decide to escalate from there.

6 hours later 14548786 Anonymous
>>14548657 Ah. I have the same problem except I'm a high school dropout. That and I work nights and have no car. Having my unemployed mom live with me in a one bedroom apartment doesn't help, either.

6 hours later 14548794 Anonymous
>>14548736 Yes, obviously It's still going to hurt no matter how slow and I don't want that

6 hours later 14548798 Anonymous (IMG_0238.jpg 640x480 127kB)
18/male Seriously shy, don't know to have decent conversation with a girl. I also consider myself don't very attractive really, but that propably has something to do with my low self esteem.

6 hours later 14548817 Anonymous
>>14548794 But only a little bit and briefly if done right? Do you plan on staying a virgin the rest of your life as a result?

6 hours later 14548825 Anonymous
>>14547694 So man the fuck up and groom yourself properly. The viking look like that, is NOT, I repeat NOT attractive to quality women. Christ man. Trim that beard, be need and tidy, shower, and just talk to women and enjoy yourself. Escalate sexually. Done deal

6 hours later 14548839 Anonymous
>>14548817 Maaaaybe

6 hours later 14548840 Anonymous
>>14547637 If your story is true, and I ever head to Vienna for a trip (I live in London), I would sex you good. But, you gotta make sure you learn to get yourself off with a dildo, on your own time first. Because there would be no point, if you didn't enjoy it, due to not being familiar with your body. I'm not a virgin, but I feel for your situation, hopefully advances in medicine help.

7 hours later 14548849 Anonymous
>>14548839 Aw, that's sad. Maybe you should just get really drunk first?

7 hours later 14548851 Anonymous
>>14548849 That does not sound appealing at all.

7 hours later 14548856 Anonymous
>>14548849 >/soc/ in charge of sex advice

7 hours later 14548863 Anonymous
>>14547637 what youve said about your disability, no guy should say no to you cause you are pretty

7 hours later 14548865 Anonymous
>>14548856 Hey...it should help with both the fear and the pain I would think. It seems that this fear of it is crippling.

7 hours later 14548870 Anonymous
>>14548863 I agree with this person

7 hours later 14548884 Anonymous
>>14548825 You know...you're right. The viking look has run it's course. Thanks bro.

7 hours later 14548930 Anonymous
>>14546563 18/female/dunno

7 hours later 14548935 Anonymous
20/female/ugly as sin

7 hours later 14548939 Anonymous
>>14548930 Is it circumstance or choice?

7 hours later 14548942 Anonymous
>>14548935 Post a pic.

7 hours later 14548946 Anonymous
>>14548939 a bit of both i guess

7 hours later 14548964 Anonymous
>>14548935 lolno. i'm very dark, have a huge nose, am not in very good shape so pretty difficult to attract mates.

7 hours later 14548968 Anonymous
>>14548946 Are you actively looking to lose it or if it happens then it happens?

7 hours later 14548972 Anonymous
>>14548964 i meant to quote >>14548942

7 hours later 14548975 Anonymous
>>14548935 I agree with >>14548942 because we may think otherwise

7 hours later 14548993 Anonymous
>>14548968 if it happens, then it happens. it's a bit sad, i guess

7 hours later 14548999 Anonymous
>>14548975 don't really want to as i'm sure a fair few guys from my course visit 4chan. i assure you that i am ugly, though :D

7 hours later 14549010 Anonymous
>>14548999 I still don't believe you there is beauty in everything

7 hours later 14549013 Anonymous
>>14548993 Not necessarily. You don't seem happy with the cirumstance?

7 hours later 14549031 Anonymous
>>14549010 meh, my total inability to pull, even in clubs, would suggest otherwise

7 hours later 14549032 Anonymous (IMG_9989-580x870.jpg 580x870 114kB)
>>14548884 Sorry I'm not trying to be a dick man. But here, this guy looks similar to you, and will allow you to keep the beard. You have a manly face, so compliment it with manly style. You're short, that sucks, but go for short girls, shouldn't be too hard. Check these two posts: http://tsbmen.com/4875/how-to-wear-man-j ewelry-featuring-philip-crangi/ And http://tsbmen.com/6592/how-to-wear-man-j ewelry-featuring-philip-crangi-part-ii/ Start with some menswear casual basics. Get comfortable then more to something more formal.

7 hours later 14549034 Anonymous
>>14549013 It's just id wanted to happen with someone that mathers, and i have no one in my life like that for some years now

7 hours later 14549059 Anonymous
>>14549034 I am sorry to hear that.

7 hours later 14549077 Anonymous
>>14549034 Stop thinking this way. It's just sex. Find someone, if you guys are somewhat attracted to each other, have sex. Make sure it is fun, and that you're open and honest to each other. Just do it. You need the confidence to take things to the next step. The world will not end, just because you had sex with someone you weren't in love with. If you're a guy, it's even better that way sometimes, you won't be as worried about sexual performance, and thus will last longer. If you manage to get her off (no reason why you shouldn't, with proper knowledge, and training wanking) your confidence will soar, and you will feel great, regardless. Don't risk disease or drunken alleyway sex, but do it, in a relaxed comfortable setting. It's only awkward if you make it awkward.

7 hours later 14549079 Anonymous
>>14549059 thanks for your time, anyway

7 hours later 14549098 Anonymous
>>14549077 its not that easy, i'm a bit socially awkward and im a "bro" girl -.-

7 hours later 14549101 Anonymous
>>14549032 It's cool. Thanks for the help..

7 hours later 14549102 Anonymous
>>14549031 Please? And finding a guy in a club? Clubs are filled with douchebags why would you want one of those?

7 hours later 14549108 Anonymous
20/F I don't avoid it, but I don't seek it. If I'm horny, I masturbate and I'm satisfied with that. I've never been in a serious relationship and if I'm going to have sex with someone I want there to be at least some emotional connection. Not "saving myself", but who knows, maybe the guy I have sex with first will like that he's my first. Or maybe he won't care, I sure don't.

7 hours later 14549125 Anonymous
>>14549108 personally being a virgin myself I always somewhat wanted a girl who was also a virgin. Being 20 years old and a lot of the girls I know arn't It's kind of hard to find so this isn't a must have with me but it would be nice to find someone

7 hours later 14549137 Anonymous
>>14549102 i'm not saying i would want to get with them, but that even drunk pricks who shag almost indiscriminately rarely try to pull me

7 hours later 14549180 Anonymous
>>14549125 Yeah I get that. I sort of gave up hoping I would find a guy who was like me because that sounds nicer than being coached or whatever my first time, but it would be nice if it all worked out so I found someone with as little experience as me.

7 hours later 14549185 Anonymous
>>14549108 I want to share my first time with someone else who's also having their first. It seems like it would be an incredibly special experience. But not only do I want to be a girls' first, I want to be her only. So I wouldn't have sex with a girl if I wasn't prepared to marry her as well. And since I've always been rejected and will probably never meet that girl, I'll probably end up a virgin for the rest of my life.

7 hours later 14549198 Anonymous
>>14549098 What is a "bro" girl? I'm a dude btw. >>14549101 I didn't lose it until like 22. However, it was really just because I had basically no game, and never bothered to escalate sexually. However, the sad fact is, that for guys, you WILL have to change to get women. The old notion of "be yourself" is utterly moronic bullshit. You will need to dress well, learn to succeed in social situation (even if it means going out by yourself to fail, or hitting on fucking cashiers or old ladies). Only after you make a concerted effort, will anything happen. This is especially true for guys. Inaction will only make things worse, you need to take control of your life. To the girls, you just need to be more aggressive, period. Stop sticking to these ridiculous "gender roles" and other such nonsense. If a guy isn't a complete idiot, he will clue in. However, it's always fine to be blunt and direct, some guys need it. And never make your pussy some sort of "goal" for a guy, that will just drive him away. Sex isn't "giving a guy sex", it's two people doing something enjoyable together, for each other, or just because. It isn't as sacrosanct as the judaeo-christian upbringing leads you to believe. Just use common sense, and have the decency to not use people.You make life how you want it, to the best that our physical universe allows.

7 hours later 14549214 Anonymous
>>14549198 its being a girl dat has many male friends that are all like brothers and consider u one as well

7 hours later 14549248 Anonymous
>>14549137 Maybe you are just so intimidating? That's my guess

7 hours later 14549254 Anonymous
>>14549185 I think it's possible. Truth is deep down, I'm a hopeless romantic, but I do my best to bury all of that since it doesn't do much good when I'm not with someone who appreciates that sort of thing. I think it would be wonderful to be with a guy and know he's the only one I'll ever be with and vice-versa. I just try not to hope for that because I understand the low chances of that happening.

7 hours later 14549264 Anonymous
>>14549214 So socialize with women more, and make it known to men that you're interested in sex with men. Also, quit friendzoning men. Really it's all your fault...

7 hours later 14549280 Anonymous
>>14549248 hmm, interesting point. what makes a woman intimidating looking? i'm 5'3" and fairly smiley btw

7 hours later 14549282 Anonymous
>>14549185 This to me is the cutest thing ever. It's hard to find someone who have the same mentality. You'll find your one even though it will take some time.

7 hours later 14549285 Anonymous
>>14549264 my fault u say? i dont know how is dat possible really -.- What if i told they were the ones firendzoning me?

7 hours later 14549291 Anonymous
>>14549264 >quit friendzoning men This is a bit retarded

7 hours later 14549300 Anonymous
i was going to post but then i remembered i've had sex

8 hours later 14549309 Anonymous
>>14549291 indeed

8 hours later 14549388 Anonymous
>>14549280 Well usually extremely good looking assertive women I would really like to see a pic of you though if you don't mind maybe by email?

8 hours later 14549398 Anonymous
>>14549282 Well I appreciate a response like that instead of the usual "hurrdurr betafag lifes not a fairytale hire a hooker" bullshit. It's not like I even expect my first time having sex to be "magical", just a new, and probably awkward experience. But getting to do something the first time, even though you have no idea what you're doing is really incredible. Like, just to be a nerd here, the first time I played the Elder Scrolls 3: Morrowind, and stepped off the boat for the first time in Seyda Neen. I had no idea what I was doing, where I was going, or anything about this new world I had stepped into, but that was what was so incredible about it. So I just think of sex as something like that, only you'll get to share that experience with someone you love. >>14549254 I just don't want to grow up in that aspect. Even though it might be a childish way to look at things, I don't want to lose the romance of it. I'm cynical and pessimistic as fuck, but as far as love goes, I want to stay childish.

8 hours later 14549432 Anonymous
>>14549388 hahaha i possess neither of those qualities, so i don't think looking intimidating is the problem. anyway, i just posted in the ugly thread so you might as well see it: >>14549117

8 hours later 14549437 Anonymous (image.jpg 640x480 128kB)
It's because I'm hideous.

8 hours later 14549451 Anonymous
>>14549398 Again you're failing to think critically, and logically. Who says you ought to, or will have no idea what you're doing? That's just stupid. Sex isn't complicated, read, ask, learn, do. Your example simply screams that you need outside, real like experience. GET out, away from the computer, and just do it. It will be much more thrilling than your silly fantasy. First time sex likely won't be amazing, and you will end up being like, "is that it?" Trust me. Sex with a good partner, who you know well, and care about, when you're both experienced, and used to each other, is on the other hand, fucking amazing. So get out there, get it over with, and start having real fun. Leave fantasy land behind you, it's shit in comparison. Sorry but if you're in disagreement here, you're in denial, and wrong; there's probably no helping that sort of idiocy.

8 hours later 14549467 Anonymous
>>14549398 I have tremendous amounts of respect for you because of that. I didn't intend to come off in my response as trying to convince you to grow up, I wish I had the guts to stand strong on what I want like you do. I sincerely hope you find who you're looking for.

8 hours later 14549468 Anonymous
>>14549432 I don't think you are ugly at all although you do look quite pissed in that picture lol

8 hours later 14549485 Anonymous
>>14549451 Are you illiterate, you fucktarded, mongoloid, homonculus troglodyte?

8 hours later 14549499 Anonymous
>>14549468 i was a bit sad because i was taking a photo to post in a thread for ugly people

8 hours later 14549510 Anonymous
>>14549485 Enjoy staying a virgin you ignorant ass. You inability to even consider a new idea, shows how stupid you are. Sad pathetic shitstain.

8 hours later 14549512 Anonymous
>>14549499 understandable but I don't think you should have posted there honestly. But anyway I need to get off if you are interested in talking more email me amb2292@aim.com if not hope you have a good life!

8 hours later 14549529 Anonymous
>>14549510 "It's not like I even expect my first time having sex to be "magical", just a new, and probably awkward experience." Enjoy being a slack-jawed, mouth-breathing, knuckle-dragging, mongoloid, homonculus troglodyte.

8 hours later 14549594 Anonymous
>>14549451 I think the is that for done people the emotional bond that comes with having sex with someone you care about is more important than great sex. Not true for everyone, and I'm not saying it should be. But for some it's the idea of exploring it together, laying together after that first time and assuring each other it was good because both of you were so nervous and discovering together what you like and what you don't like. It doesn't have to be mind-blowing, crazy sex, it has to be part of a loving relationship.

8 hours later 14549611 Anonymous
>>14549451 It might not be logical to you but it's probably logical to him. Don't rain on his parade. If he wants a fantasy he can make it one. Some people wait until they have that "one" so they can have sex that they can enjoy even if they lack experience. You can be at ease with the idea and be more comfortable in general. Let it be. >>14549398

8 hours later 14549625 Anonymous
>>14549611 He didn't even actually read what I said, because he's illiterate. If he were capable of reading, he would have read that I know my first time won't be amazing.

8 hours later 14549632 Anonymous
Plus oxytocin is released in a great concentration in women's brains whenever they do have sex that emotionally bonds them to that person. It will always be there. It isn't like that for men. If you end up marrying that person it will be extremely intimate.

8 hours later 14549649 Anonymous
weeeeellllllp, it looks like this thread has devolved into the inevitable flame war.

8 hours later 14549739 Anonymous
18/male/kissless virgin worked up the courage to ask my crush out in 8th grade, got rejected, no courage ever again

8 hours later 14549755 Anonymous
21/M All of them(including my parents) ignore me.

8 hours later 14549808 Anonymous
22/male. virgin because never tried; never felt strong enough about a crush to flirt, never hugged, never held hands. honestly i'm a happy individual. i do lots of fun things and enjoy my life. i'm sure that sexual healthiness would top it all off, but i'm not dying over here. i've even been the subject of a few situations where i could have lost my virginity... to some drunken freshman at a kegger, or some whorish girl my friends keep around for who-knows-why. i think i'd prefer intimacy, and passion.

9 hours later 14549840 Anonymous
>>14546902 THIS them feels...

9 hours later 14549850 Anonymous
18/m It's a lot of stuff. A big part of it is that I'm a socially awkward person. Another part of it is that I don't really want to sleep with somebody unless if I'm actually in love with them. Otherwise it just seems like an empty gesture. I don't feel like I need to be in love, either. Plus, from what I've seen approaching a relationship head-on with an intent for anything specific doesn't seem to work out very well. I mean, I've flirted, I've gone to a few bars and I've been mildly successful but I haven't met anybody that I really like that much.

9 hours later 14549860 Anonymous
18/male Kissless too, even though actually pretty good with girls. I was a little desperate, but seeing my friends being so desperate to get laid has made me realize how stupid and unattractive it is. Now I couldn't really give less of a fuck. Pretty sure everyone thinks I am gay. Couldn't really give less of a fuck about that either.

9 hours later 14549892 Anonymous
i'm not a virgin but i feel like i might as well should be. i wish i still was. the last time i felt sexual was when i was 16 and with my first boyfriend. when we finally had sex, i never liked it. the boys i've been with after, i am not into it. i even cried once. not sure what's wrong with me since i have been attracted to them and felt an emotional connection to them. i guess i must be embarrassed about not enjoying it.

9 hours later 14549900 Anonymous
>>14549892 It sounds like they're doing it wrong.

9 hours later 14550005 Anonymous
23/M Not really a virgin just havent had good sex that I would talk about.

9 hours later 14550014 Anonymous
Guys' if you ever figure out what pretty dick means, let me know!

9 hours later 14550023 Anonymous
20 Male / I've fucked my brain up too much on drugs to have a conversation in most situations; that or I'm schizoid. Also, closeted homosexual

9 hours later 14550081 Anonymous
>>14549991 i dunno why your pretty handsome dude

10 hours later 14551006 Anonymous (me.jpg 924x1049 63kB)
I just don't know what I'm doing wrong!

11 hours later 14551043 Anonymous
>>14546718 you're weird looking thats why

11 hours later 14551068 Anonymous
20 m I just don't have a strong enough desire to engage in sex, like fuck I want too but just not to the point where I go looking for dem dirty bitches

11 hours later 14551117 Anonymous (gifpal-20130121211322.gif 320x240 520kB)
18/M/I'm a fucking loser.

11 hours later 14551134 Anonymous (assburger.jpg 953x937 289kB)
23 1. Nobody wants me. 2. I don't care enough to make effort to lose it.

11 hours later 14551220 Anonymous
33/m I dunno...lost interest....maybe never had any to start... might be gay....but I dont know the reason really...

11 hours later 14551236 Anonymous
>>14551117 You from Britain?

11 hours later 14551251 Anonymous
>>14551068 wow you basically just described me also, you wouldn't happen to be me would you?

11 hours later 14551257 Anonymous
>>14551236 Fuck, what gave me away?

11 hours later 14551267 Anonymous
>>14551257 Just your facial structure. captcha: erlsoutm Nelson

11 hours later 14551281 Anonymous
>>14551267 Makes sense. That captcha has nothing to do with anything, Nelson.

11 hours later 14551509 Anonymous (skanker.jpg 528x960 68kB)
On left. I just don't feel the need to have sex yet. I think you should have sex when you love somebody, and have for a very long time, and I just haven't had that love yet.

11 hours later 14551539 Anonymous
>>14551509 Raised Mormon right?

11 hours later 14551591 Anonymous
>>14546718 sounds fine to me >>14546792 I would never think, you''re very handsome! >>14546869 see above >>14546949 I hate the popo >>14547063 so you must believe in reptilians eh? >>14547193 i refuse to believe it >>14547637 how so >>14549451 >fighting >on 4chan >>14549801 haven't laughed yet, try harded

11 hours later 14551609 Anonymous
>>14551539 haha no my family was at the very least religious, never been to church, never baptized, my mum was atheist and my dad was agnostic. We still celebrated Christmas though.

11 hours later 14551658 Anonymous
I'm 22, I was a kissless until october. Demotivated, terribly melanchonic, unsuccessful, unattractive for the girls around here, unlucky, i guess, extremely socially awkward when it comes to talk with girls, terribly afraid of getting rejected. >>14551509 you're very cute. i would date you.

11 hours later 14551674 Anonymous (Picture 239.jpg 640x480 96kB)
>>14551658 and this is my face.

11 hours later 14551693 Anonymous
>>14551674 steve?

11 hours later 14551695 Anonymous (picture092.jpg 648x486 101kB)
>>14551658 Perhaps I'll meet someone this year. Got to second base on new years eve, only took me 21 years lol...

11 hours later 14551710 Anonymous
>>14551134 Holy crap, SADGUY IS BACK!

11 hours later 14551748 Anonymous
21, male introverted, ridiculously short, asexual, don't ever think about sex

11 hours later 14551756 Anonymous
>>14551693 steve indeed. >>14551695 maybe i will too, but i'm not sure i like her...best of luck to you anyway.

12 hours later 14551893 Anonymous
>>14551756 I want to ask the girl from the other night out but feel like it'd be too sudden. That and I can't figure out what I'd even take her out to do.

12 hours later 14551954 Anonymous
>>14551893 mmh. if you have some places where you and your mates go during weekends you can invite her but focus your attentions on her of course. The girl who i kissed did that with me -__-

12 hours later 14551957 Anonymous
>>14551941 Contact info and location? I'll up the nervousness on purpose, just for you, sweet pea.

12 hours later 14551991 Anonymous
>>14551954 Maybe one of my friends will have a party, though that could easily backfire and she could end up with someone else. I guess if that happens I'll know I've got no chance and can move on.

12 hours later 14551998 Anonymous
>>14551941 agreed I think everyone in this thread needs someone like you

12 hours later 14552018 Anonymous
19/m/Social anxiety and being unattractive, I guess I've started working on looking better by losing weight and dressing better, but I'm still so self conscious about my lack of experience

12 hours later 14552044 Anonymous
>>14551991 well you can invite her but making her understand that you're interested, maybe by telling something like "i really would like if you could come too, WE could have some fun together".. stuff like that. I guess that if she's smart enough she will understand your intentions. But i don't know her, maybe she likes guys who get to the point easily...

12 hours later 14552070 Anonymous
24/m virgin Semi-choice I suppose. There were some girls interesting in having sex with me but only because I was a virgin and I turned them down, I don't need or want pity sex. I've been on a few dates, even some with attractive women but it never worked out. I simply don't relate to women very well, I don't understand them, I know how men tick and I have a ton of guy friends who enjoy my company but I have never been able to make it work with a women. I've basically given up for the moment. I'm working on self-improvement before I seriously attempt any further dating. Maybe getting in shape and a new car with help my confidence, that's what I'm hoping at least. I'm definitely physically attracted to women but I don't know if I actually like them, my exposure to women has been limited but virtually all negative experiences. I don't trust them and I find the vast majority uninteresting. I'm lost, I don't know, some days I just wish I was gay because I think it would be so much easier.

12 hours later 14552079 Anonymous
>>14552044 Maybe, I've never really asked anyone out so I have no idea how forward I'm supposed to be.

12 hours later 14552109 Anonymous
>>14552079 do you know anybody who dated her and can give you some advice?

12 hours later 14552156 Anonymous
>>14552109 No I only met her twice, on new years eve and on Sunday at my party. I hope I'm not being too assumptive. We flirted on NYE enough, though I got taken from that party by my roommate before I could talk to her more. The other night she was hanging on me a lot and were hugging a lot because we went on a 7 game streak on the pong table.

12 hours later 14552240 Anonymous
>>14552156 physical contact is a very good sign! how about offering her a ol' fashioned coffee?

12 hours later 14552308 Anonymous
>>14548785 For me, a relationship isn't about sex. So yeah, she was my GF

13 hours later 14552955 Anonymous
>>14552240 Maybe, I don't really drink coffee too much but might be worth a shot. Maybe if I see her on campus I'll have to do that.

13 hours later 14553071 Anonymous
Most people who have posted pictures saying they are not very attractive etc are not even that bad. What you are missing is confidence and going outside and socialising. I'm worse than most of these guys and i've fucked 3. Inb4 all landwhales or hideous, only one was both of those things. The rest were quite attractive and chubby-slim

13 hours later 14553083 Anonymous
I'm a virgin because my bf and I keep trying but his FREAKING DICK WON'T FIT IN. I don't know if I'm too tight or he's too big or some combo of the two but he can't get it in and it hurts for him to even try. Kill me.

13 hours later 14553087 Anonymous
>>14553071 >confidence I hate the fact that the only time I appear to be confident, I'm blackout drunk and don't remember a thing.

13 hours later 14553103 Anonymous
>>14553083 I dont count that as a virgin

13 hours later 14553124 Anonymous
>>14553103 Well I mean we've never really had sex...but we have tried and have done other things so yeah I guess you can take that as you will.

13 hours later 14553126 Anonymous
>>14547656 You are very attractive, you wouldn't understand how men would not care for those when you are attractive. If you was man, it would probably suck

14 hours later 14553167 Anonymous
>>14553087 then pretend you have confidence. I'm not very confident but i pretend to have the world at my feet. I know telling someone to act confident is a bit of contradiction but you'd never guess how many insecure unconfident men are getting laid left right and centre by pretending. TBH If most men were for real, human population wouldn't be so huge. Pretending to have confidence helps alot more than just finding women

14 hours later 14553194 Anonymous
>>14547316 No man is good at sex the first time

14 hours later 14553202 Anonymous (mh23sdDpIi1qb33w0o1_400.jpg 400x300 43kB)
rumor went around I had herpes and what do you know, people believed it

14 hours later 14553586 Anonymous
22/M Christfag saving it for marriage. Have broken up with girls who begged me for sex, cancelled hotel reservations girlfriend have made, girl tried to blow me at a party and had to psychically pull her away. And finally girl who I was dating said she wanted to take my virginity and was willing for it to be a threesome so it would be "even more memorable" All in all declined five girls advances. I do not demand my wife be a virgin, I am staying chaste because it is important to me.

14 hours later 14553629 Anonymous (image.jpg 80x80 5kB)
23/m/USA No idea. I don't think about it that much. I had chances but never took them because I was too much of a social retard to notice them when they were offered.

15 hours later 14553733 Anonymous
18/M I've just been very unlucky with girls. I've been close a few times but the girls make a complete heel turn and just don't suddenly like me like that anymore

15 hours later 14553771 Anonymous (full2.jpg 145x101 4kB)
Im a virgin. its because Im too socially awkward, cross eyed army.of.bruce is my skype

15 hours later 14553783 Anonymous (100_3264.jpg 498x581 335kB)
18/M I screw up every opportunity for romance and relationships every chance I get, which isn't very often. >Also my face and lack of confidence.

15 hours later 14553824 Anonymous (1283829392371.jpg 588x418 38kB)
Almost 28/M Don't meet a whole lot of women, and those I do meet are usually already in relationships. I'm not particularly outgoing, and not particularly attractive. I'm not opposed to a one-night-stand, but I'm 1) a terrible flirt and 2) as I said before, not that attractive. I'm also broke and living with my mom, and probably will be for the next 2 years. I am employed though (retail) I'd much rather be in a relationship with someone I like. Cuddling and watching movies with someone seems more enjoyable than sex right now (or maybe I'm just lonely, I don't know). Not that I don't want sex, quite the opposite really, but that closeness of having a girlfriend seems much more sublime than climaxing. I guess from my ramble you can tell why I'm a virgin.

15 hours later 14553827 Anonymous
28/m crippling social anxiety live alone and work from home, so very few friends or social interaction

15 hours later 14553889 Anonymous (IMG_20121209_145545.jpg 2048x1536 1053kB)
21/ Male I am a virgin because I haven't met anyone yet that I really wanted to fuck.

17 hours later 14555376 Anonymous (IMG_0367.jpg 480x640 111kB)
19/m/ never had the chance to sleep with any of my past girlfriends. Haven't had a girlfriend since high school. I just can't find anyone that's single and wants to mingle. I'm not bad looking am I?

17 hours later 14555425 Anonymous (1357496338136.gif 515x500 131kB)
>>14551591 >so you must believe in reptilians eh? obviously

17 hours later 14555428 Anonymous (IluvU.jpg 419x481 130kB)
Female/18/Sex is for people who don't have a blog

17 hours later 14555465 Anonymous
>>14555447 Then why ain't u fukkin, boy?

17 hours later 14555522 Anonymous
>>14555477 Nice dubs, just fuck sluts brah

17 hours later 14555583 Anonymous
>>14555531 ok goreyhaim.tumblr.com

17 hours later 14555653 Anonymous
>>14555634 thanks bruv! xox

17 hours later 14555654 Anonymous
>>14555428 lol.

17 hours later 14555693 Anonymous
>>14555428 You're a filthy skank.

17 hours later 14555711 Anonymous
>>14555693 YOU CAN'T POST HERE YOU'RE NOT A VIRGENNNNNNN

18 hours later 14555723 Anonymous
>>14555711 I'm doing what I want and you can't stop me.

18 hours later 14555740 Anonymous
>>14555723 Fuck you I'll never karaoke night again.

22 hours later 14557997 Anonymous
>>14551134 What's the rest of you look like? Seriously, if you're built in any way shape or form I know chicks who'd fawn over you. Or is it not your looks you're worried about?

27 hours later 14559238 Anonymous
>>14546563 Why not. 20 (turning 21 soon), male and the reason is that I'm just fucking fat. I had some chances to lose it, but back then I was to socially retarded to get the signs those girls threw at me. Fuck my life.

30 hours later 14560815 Anonymous
>>14555376 You're not bad looking, not amazing but defintely not ugly. Again confidence (fake or real) and force yourself to socialise more

30 hours later 14560848 Anonymous
>>14553586 ................*facepalm* >lamememe.gif

34 hours later 14563284 Anonymous
I've had sex once but I feel like I should post here anyway. I honestly wish I was a virgin again.. I just don't care about sex that much.. Like, I'd have to have some other way to get it out of my system but sex really wouldn't be a big thing unless the girl really wanted it..

35 hours later 14563429 Anonymous
18/M I'm a virgin partially because I'm gay, and in the closet for the most part. I'm only out to my friends. My acne is impossible to get rid of, I'm a dumbass who dropped out to get my GED, no job, no goals, no future. I have no self confidence. Fuck sex. I just want love.

37 hours later 14564703 Anonymous
>>14551674 You are adorable! I'd fuck.

39 hours later 14566131 Anonymous
21/male Lacking confidence, always lagged behind everyone else socially + emotionally. By emotionally I mean the feels required to connect and understand another person. Not like a physcopath, just highly "guarded" individual, never given my self permission to let others in. Missed all the signals from chicks who were interested. Friends I did have from school drifted away, haven't made the effort to meet/socialise with new people. Anxiety doesn't help in this respect... Wow, I summed that up surprisingly easily. Self reflection time, thx /soc!

39 hours later 14566172 Anonymous
20/F/kissless virgin High standards, awkward, scared of fucking shit up, etc

39 hours later 14566193 Anonymous
>>14564703 y-you too. >>14566172 awww, welcome to the club!

39 hours later 14566359 Anonymous
30/ M/ socially retarded basement dweller I don't even have friends, so yeah...

39 hours later 14566382 Anonymous
19/M/kissless virgin Partly by choice, mostly by low self-esteem

40 hours later 14566417 Anonymous
>>14552070 I believed the same thing. Now I'm 30 and still haven't got laid lol

40 hours later 14566419 Anonymous
I don't like people. 19. M. 160 lbs and 6'.

40 hours later 14566424 Anonymous
21 male Never really tried in getting a girl or getting to know them, even though I knew of a couple of girls crushing on me. I've thought of it this way. I was shown that women complain about guys that just fuck them and leave, so I just said, "Hey I wont be part of the problem." This is what I get for making that decision and putting my morals before my dick. Whatever. Also, I don't really share much of my emotions and socializing is not a strong point for me unless it's something interesting. Small talk is kinda boring to be honest. Anyway! Why we obsess over virginity doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me unlike when I was younger. To me, I'll choose to lose it when I want to on my terms with someone that I like.

40 hours later 14566501 Anonymous
24/male Cause every single part of being that close to a person is undesirable to me. At least at this point in life. Seems to be an on going theme so i'll just roll with it.

40 hours later 14566578 Anonymous
>>14566172 Nothing wrong with having high standards. Although being "scared of fucking shit up" sets an unconscious expectation that that is going to be the outcome of a relationship before it even begins. Does worrying about the that serve you? Enjoy the moment, the now, the experience and hope there will be much more of "that now" to enjoy in the future.

40 hours later 14566846 Anonymous
>>14566501 I feel you man, exactly. I also need to nurture some kind of stable relationship with myself before I try to forge one with someone else.

41 hours later 14567408 Anonymous
>>14547532 This is my life, haha. Same age and everything. ~

41 hours later 14567533 Anonymous
18/M I don't share any similarities with others, and I'm generally not attractive. Plus, I have Glanular Hypospadias, so any attempt at sex would be ended swiftly at the sight of my defected cock.

41 hours later 14567832 Anonymous (IMG_0373.jpg 480x640 74kB)
I use to be shy, socially awkward and a really fat fuck through all of highschool and I'm still pretty unconfident even with the weight loss.

42 hours later 14567940 Anonymous
23/male Had a girlfriend once but wanted to wait till marriage but after 2 years we broke up and it changed me and started developed social anxiety and kinda stopped trying

49 hours later 14570701 Anonymous (catlady.gif 330x330 339kB)
21/female Never had sex, kissed, dated, never been hit on. Ugly as fuck, mentally ill, socially retarded, boring, bizarre fetishes. I have 100% given up. Some people just are doomed to die alone.

49 hours later 14570713 Anonymous
>>14570701 Contact

49 hours later 14570721 Anonymous (1358078494492.jpg 515x403 117kB)
>>14570701 ugly or fat? I'm sure someone here will at least take your virginity. >mfw posting in virgin thread and not a virgin

50 hours later 14570852 Anonymous
>>14547283 She was distant because you weren't taking charge of the situation. Most women aren't going to initiate a one night stand. YOU GOTTA WORK FOR IT. You have to see this girl again. You might have a chance with her if you man up and start making out and feeling her up and shit.

50 hours later 14570872 Anonymous
>>14570852 Not so much about one night stands, but what's a good way to initiate without coming off as pushy?

50 hours later 14570972 Anonymous
>>14547360 >No job. That's a big problem. >>14547410 Pls die. >>14547479 You poor baby. >>14547532 Adorbl. >>14548798 You're not ugly. >>14548856 LOL >>14551117 Would fuck. >>14553202 My best friend has herpes and all the guys that she's told are totally okay with it and still wanna fuck her. This is no excuse. Also, you must be in a pretty childish group of friends. >wah wah rumorz wah dramaaaa >>14553824 >employed You're one step closer, tho. >>14553889 You must live in a shit place. >>14555428 Must be troll. >>14563429 >dropped out >no job >no goals This is your major problem. >>14566359 You sound like my neighbor in 5 years. That's sad. >>14570701 Unless you're horribly disfigured, if you have a pussy you can get laid. Especially if you talk about fetishes. The rest can be endearing to some weird neckbeard.

50 hours later 14571003 Anonymous
21/male/thinking about sex makes me really nervous I really wish I could find a girl I feel comfortable with, I just started working at disney world so who knows, maybe I'll meet my princess soon.

50 hours later 14571017 Anonymous
>>14570972 Not a troll, just optimistic and avoidant. Also I don't leave the house. And I like being sexless (but everyone told me that was wronggggggg).

50 hours later 14571026 Anonymous
20's M Ottawa is a cold and terrible place. Skype anyone?

51 hours later 14571192 Anonymous
25/M Molested as a child. Someone just touching me sends me into a panic attack.

51 hours later 14571231 Anonymous
>>14571003 Hnngh Adorable

51 hours later 14571239 Anonymous (dsfd.jpg 640x480 124kB)
only fucked 2 girls still feel like a virgin, feels bad man

51 hours later 14571247 Anonymous
>>14571003 >I just started working at disney world so who knows, maybe I'll meet my princess soon. D'awww.

51 hours later 14571263 Anonymous
>>14571239 What do you mean bro?

51 hours later 14571308 Anonymous
>>14571263 Im depressed, hadn't had sex in over half a year I have zero sex life :)

51 hours later 14571319 Anonymous (1286039426748s.jpg 113x126 2kB)
>mfw people worrying about not having sex

51 hours later 14571322 Anonymous
>>14571308 Oh well, i'm sorry about depression but at least you have fucked..

51 hours later 14571344 Anonymous
21 Male Not really sure. Probably the fact that my social antennae have never been completely in sync with normalcy and normal people, albeit that's getting better, like a lot. But I still sometimes come off as being in my own world or at least perceiving things differently than others, I'll wager. Though I have 3 chicks I could get to ride my dick, I think. One lives in cali, though, and is kind of only a step down from a landwhale. Nice girl though, weeabootaku, but not to an annoying degree. The next lives somewhere else in the US, and she's promised that she'll ride my dick if we ever meet. She, too, is a landwhale - although also pretty nice, if a bit narrow-minded. Oh and she broke off an engagement with one of my bros, so balancing friendships with both is somewhat tricky. The third one actually lives where I do. Well, 50 minutes or so drive. Problem is, I don't have my license yet, nor a car. She's just turned 16, but that's okay, that's the age of consent here. She's got very low self-esteem, so she eats it up when I compliment her and stuff. Believe it or not, she isn't a landwhale. I met with her...around last fall or so I can't remember, and we fooled around and I might've hit a homerun, but when I reached third base she found it pertinent to tell me she was riding the red sea. No sex that day. Would go visit her again, but another friend of mine used to date her when she was like 12 (yes, he's a sick fuck), and he scarred both her and her parents, so they don't want her having older guys visiting, and said guy lives where I do, so she's deathly afraid of coming here. Oh yeah also, I can't afford the bus to go to the town outside where she lives and meet her there, because I'm broke and on top of that, currently a NEET. That, and we've never had much of a romantic spark going, and I figure I'll do good in not being clingy, so we've not talked in quite some time. But that's not necessarily something that means the chance is gone. This went too long.

51 hours later 14571353 Anonymous
>>14553586 How to fail logically, right here guys. Irrational thinking at its finest. >>14552308 Well relationship notions like that will ensure a virgin you remain, idiot. >>14553202 Excuses, dumbass. Only moronic retards in high school would believe such nonsense. If all else fails, pull off your pants and spread legs for a guy you're interested in, and prove the lack of herpes. Needless to say, everyone would be screaming for it. Definitely post nudes here first, though ;) >>14553783 Make your own chances. >>14555376 Not GF unless you have sex. >>14566131 Stop giving a fuck what morons think. >>14566359 So why don't you solve the brutally obvious problem you fucking ass? Get out of the basement, maybe? Get a life? >>14567940 Caused your own problem, no sympathy for your dumb ass. No sex = relationship fails, period. >>14570701 made up fetishes due to knowing nothing about sex, idiot.

51 hours later 14571367 Anonymous
18/F I look average, and I've been messing around with some guys, but I've never gone all the way. I'm very petite, so I guess part of it is because I feel that my body would be a huge disappointment for the guys who sees it (I feel that I look like a child). The other part is because I don't want to sleep with someone unless I know I can trust them, and I rarely do, so.

51 hours later 14571384 Anonymous
>>14571367 >Petite >Implying I would not tap that And hell, if you do look like a child, you could always just go to /b/, little girls make them feel so good pedobear.png

51 hours later 14571402 Anonymous
>>14571367 >petite You really have no idea.

52 hours later 14571430 Anonymous
>>14547050 i know that feel... i know that feel.

52 hours later 14571450 Anonymous
>>14571384 Well, there's always that option. My face will probably look a bit too old for them though, but I suppose they could just cover my head with a bag or such.

52 hours later 14571471 Anonymous
>>14571402 By petite, I meant being 155 cms tall and having close to no curves. Probably someone shorter than me though.

52 hours later 14571472 Anonymous (1285516122581.jpg 500x475 34kB)
>>14571450

52 hours later 14571497 Anonymous
>>14571472 (It was a joke.)

52 hours later 14571517 Anonymous
>>14571450 post a pic of your face then.

52 hours later 14571533 Anonymous (1358542216081.jpg 344x345 12kB)
>>14548156 I get hit on alot, online at least. What I meant is that I never leave the house. >>14547692 Picture related >Also dat ID change, whatever.

52 hours later 14571536 Anonymous
18/ m Never found a girl that was interested in me enough to have sex. Hoping to lose it before boot camp. Also really skinny.

52 hours later 14571552 Anonymous (1285938679879.png 170x236 5kB)
>>14571471 Not everyone wants curves. A lot of guys like short girls. >mfw every petite girl I've met is either retarded or does drugs

52 hours later 14571570 Anonymous
>>14571192 That's hot/cute.

52 hours later 14571584 Anonymous (Snapshot_20130122_29.jpg 640x480 41kB)
18/m, never had anyone willing to. also to socially awkward to make a normal conversation with a woman

52 hours later 14571589 Anonymous
>>14571552 I like short girls, but I want curves. Girls like Colette Marquise are physical perfection.

52 hours later 14571601 Anonymous
>>14571552 I know that, but I've yet to find anyone like that around here. I can't say anything on the retarded part, but what I can say is that I've never used, or will use drugs.

52 hours later 14571660 Anonymous (images (5).jpg 228x221 9kB)
>>14571589 I googled that name. No please, that's not curvy... >>14571601 I'm not sure if you are new here, but you will find that as long as it moves, someone will tap it. I assume you aren't after that though, which I respect. I have that in common with you. Post in one of the ideal mate threads, you might get lucky.

52 hours later 14571728 Anonymous
>>14571660 Ah, yes. To put it simply, I don't want to get laid just to have it done. I like the idea of the ideal mate threads, but I've never heard of any successful stories so far. One never knows, though!

52 hours later 14571759 Anonymous
>>14571728 I don't bother with them personally. But if you live in EU or US you might have some luck. +1rep

52 hours later 14571788 Anonymous
>>14571660 Sorry, I like them that curvy. 51-33-53BWH? 40H Cup? Pure Love.

52 hours later 14571793 Anonymous
>>14571759 In the US perhaps, not in the EU though. UK maybe.

53 hours later 14571837 Anonymous
>>14571793 I live above the arctic circle, in Norway, so there wasn't much to hope for from the start of. Oh well!

53 hours later 14571854 Anonymous
ITT a lot of excuses. There are two reasons not to want to get laid: 1. You are asexual; 2. You haven't impressed any other person yet. 1 is extremely unusual. The chances are that it applies to no-one in this thread.

53 hours later 14571877 Anonymous
>>14571837 Sort of funny that we yurofags tend to socialise better on an American imageboard instead of local sites or going out.

53 hours later 14571890 Anonymous
22(monday)/male/haven't really tried and can't into conversations with people. Let alone be all, ey you want some fuck? However I'm perfectly fine doing it online gah

53 hours later 14571893 Anonymous (cat smile.jpg 500x343 26kB)
>>14571837 You can always try local dating sites. >>14571854 >mfw it doesn't interest me enough to actively seek just sex +I don't want cool beans STDs I assume others are similar

53 hours later 14571906 Anonymous
>>14571877 Indeed! There aren't many local sites for us, though. At least not that I know of. (And, well. If I were to walk outside, I would be walking around in about 1 m of snow, so I prefer staying inside.)

53 hours later 14571908 Anonymous
28/m/ i live in a town of 22 people and everyone is pretty much already related

53 hours later 14571937 Anonymous (0.jpg 480x360 14kB)
>>14571877 >>14571893 shit I copied you.

53 hours later 14571971 Anonymous
>>14571890 also being in japan doesn't help

53 hours later 14571973 Anonymous
>>14571937 Well, I feel flattered. >>14571906 True. Either there aren't any sites or we've just distanced ourselves too far from our own local communities to know anything about them. Sometimes I wonder what life would be like if I was American or at least lived there.

53 hours later 14571996 Anonymous
>>14571908 what about the farm animals? theyre not good enough?

53 hours later 14571999 Anonymous
>>14571893 >mfw it doesn't interest me enough to actively seek just sex never needed to actively seek it >+I don't want cool beans STDs no skanks; condom

53 hours later 14572006 Anonymous
>>14546563 ive only had sex once. going on seven years ago. Does that count?

53 hours later 14572013 Anonymous
>>14571973 Yep, same here. However, I like Europe a bit too much to move away from it. Would be nice to move to a more civilized area though.

53 hours later 14572044 Anonymous
>>14572013 What do you consider a more civilised area? A bigger city in Norway?

53 hours later 14572048 Anonymous (Fuck you Thomas Moore. Fuck you Tommaso Campanella. Fuck you Francis Bacon.gif 320x240 951kB)
18/m/Meh, waiting for the right girl mostly. I crush very often on girls but I loose interest in them very easily too. Also, I'm not considered very attractive here by many people, and girls are all plain and boring.

53 hours later 14572062 Anonymous
>>14571996 what farm animals?

53 hours later 14572066 Anonymous
>>14572048 >my qualities are low and my standards are high

53 hours later 14572156 Anonymous
>>14572048 I KNEW YOU WERE A VIRGIN!!!

53 hours later 14572180 Anonymous
The "waiting for mr/ms right" excuse is like saying "well I haven't found the perfect meal yet so I don't eat".

53 hours later 14572261 Anonymous
>>14572180 Except eating is necessary tomsurvive and sex isn't. If I didn't need to eat, I'd wait for the perfect meal.

54 hours later 14572345 Anonymous
>>14572261 Well, ingestion is necessary. *Eating* isn't. Anyway, survival is not interesting - only living.

54 hours later 14572389 Anonymous
>>14572044 Basically, something where the bus goes regularly, where trains/subs exist and where I won't have to cross half a country to get what I need. So, as long as it has those things above, I'm pleased!

54 hours later 14572430 Anonymous
18/Male My main reason is just not finding the right person yet. I don't just want a casual fuck as nice as that would be. I've got trust issues, anxiety and I'm pretty cut off/introverted other than my large group of online friends. I've been permanently scarred by previous relationships/family events which has scared me to get into that sort of thing since I can't trust anyone. Anyone that takes an interest in me somewhere down the line makes me fall for them too and then destroys me/betrays me.

54 hours later 14572466 Anonymous
>>14572389 I suppose that shouldn't be much of a problem once you go to a university.

54 hours later 14572791 Anonymous
23/m/ Was in a car accident at 15, kidneys failed from it missed the last 3 years of high school, was home schooled after the car accident. Ended up depressed never been able to bounce back from it.

54 hours later 14572809 Anonymous
>>14572261 >I'd wait for the perfect meal shit was poetic just now

54 hours later 14572868 Anonymous
19/male I suck with girls when it comes to flirting. Really badly. But I have my first date ever with this girl that's really hot (she gets hit on by about 10 different guys every time she goes out). It's on sunday. It will be shit.

59 hours later 14575991 Anonymous
>>14572868 Have confidence, otherwise you'll mess it up, if she is that hot then you don't want to miss that bus

59 hours later 14576084 Anonymous
>>14547303 you require a leap of faith pardon my britishness but man up

60 hours later 14577003 Anonymous
28 Male I'm asexual, almost never felt any real compulsion to have sex or get a gf in my life, otherwise normal.

60 hours later 14577046 Anonymous
>>14571367 >socially retarded Believe me honey, petite is a plus!

60 hours later 14577064 Anonymous
>>14571471 I'm interested to see a pic lol

60 hours later 14577080 Anonymous
>>14547117 I'd love to f-I mean tenderly love you. Skype please.

60 hours later 14577440 Anonymous
>>14572389 Skype me: newtosoc

61 hours later 14577520 Anonymous
18/m I haven't ever really tried to ask a girl out or anything. I'm a pretty quiet person so even when I have a chance to talk to some of the more nerdy girls (my type) I just don't.

61 hours later 14577607 Anonymous
>>14577520 The added bonus, I've shot down the two girls that have ever asked me out. Idk why

61 hours later 14577741 Anonymous
That feel when you're a 29-year-old virgin and Justin Bieber is not.

61 hours later 14578340 Anonymous
>>14572791 27m here, somewhat similar situation; issues during formative years...haven't been able to resolve them, let alone somehow catch up. I don't really care about the virgin thing, I'd just like to not be so lonely. Very shy + embarrassing medical issue + depression/recovering from mental breakdown isn't a fun combo. For me the part that gives me hope while also feels bad is that its all my mind really. Plenty of girls had crushes on me in school before all this. Since the mental collapse, being a shut-in has cut that off...although the few times my sister has dragged me out usually end with her blocking a friend of hers from getting too close ('she's not good enough for you', 'you need someone to take care of you', etc.). Hell, my sister has (somewhat creepily) spent the past half decade trying to find someone like me (similar humor, hair-type, size, sometimes same first name, etc.). Meeting a new boyfriend of hers is like seeing an alt-universe version of myself that is slightly less broken. If someone likes me that much, there likely are plenty of others who would but...after being out of society for so long (and already was extremely shy among new people) I can't see myself overcoming it.

61 hours later 14578355 Anonymous
21/F I have a girlfriend, but I want to be able to support us both financially before the fun happens. Otherwise, it'd feel like I don't deserve a person like her.

61 hours later 14578381 Anonymous
>>14577607 You were probably just afraid, hell back in highschool I turned down a girl I had an absolute massive crush on for a year...just out of some kneejerk fear that it had to be some practical joke a friend of mine put on. It was a while later that I realized that was irrational, but I still have a hard time understanding how someone could like me.

61 hours later 14578385 Anonymous
I recently discovered that if I try to even think about realistically doing anything sexual with another person, I shake uncontrollably. Feels bad, man. I guess my only option is to become a wizard. I'm bisexual and 20 years old... ...kisslesshandholdlessvirgin ;_;

61 hours later 14578433 Anonymous (hooka.jpg 830x830 82kB)
Not religious reasons, I just think you should have sex when you love someone and have for quite some time. I'm 18, just turned 3 months ago.

62 hours later 14578450 Anonymous
>>14578433 I just realized I already posted in this thread.....I need to sleep.

67 hours later 14582098 Anonymous
18 m does briefly raping someone count as losing one's virginity luckily for me they determined that they did in fact want it.

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