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2013-11-09 11:10 9448542 Anonymous (0552165407.jpg 640x480 337kB)
How angry does this article make you: http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-t o-me/it-happened-to-me-i-ended-up-i n-bed-with-a-27-year-old-virgin After reading this, fembots, can you not understand why older male virgins would become bitter misogynists and PUAs who only goal is to pump and dump women and/or take great pleasure in making them feel like shit emotionally? She is an independent womyn who is boasting about her "Sex bender" after breaking up with a man she supposedly loved, and had to suppress laughter after a man was literally and emotionally naked to her. I'm sure once she is near 30 her "sex bending" days will miraculously stop and she'll start whining about how all the good men are taken.

1 min later 9448562 Anonymous
>All it takes is one person to change my entire view of the opposite sex

3 min later 9448575 Anonymous
>>9448562 Sure, and a 27 year old virgin wouldn't make many women do the same thing IRL, right? I mean a woman has to look out for herself, etc.

7 min later 9448627 Anonymous
She wasn't even that hard on the guy. She explained to him outright that she didn't want to be his first because she felt like that was a huge responsibility (because guess what? deflowering a 27 year old of either gender is kind of a huge deal), and she just wanted a casual hook up, which isn't even a big deal. She clearly admitted that she felt guilty for wanting to laugh and decided to take the high-road by playing the "caring stranger" role. Fucking read the entire article before getting your jimmies rustled. She let him down easy. You people do this to yourselves. It's your own fault your miserable, not hers, not anyone on that site.

11 min later 9448693 Anonymous
>>9448627 I read the entire article. All I saw was a soulless she-beast on a self-admitted "sex bender" to fill the hole in her harpie chest, and she made a bunch of assumptions about a guy who was incredibly honest with her from the get go instead of being a deceitful prick about it. And then she goes on about "mercy fucking" him later, perhaps. It reeks of egotism on her part. If she is simply concerned with fucking and only fucking, stop going on dates. The thing is she is totally full of shit, she is down for NSA fucking but secretly is looking to find "Mr. Perfect" in this parade of cocks. She is what I would consider human trash. I wish for nothing more than for her to be a lonely 41 year old unmarried woman with no kids, barren, and surrounded by cats and tears.

18 min later 9448807 Anonymous
>>9448693 >All I saw was a soulless she-beast on a self-admitted "sex bender" to fill the hole in her harpie chest Nothing wrong with people wanting to have sex. Sorry (not really) , find a more meaningful cause. >and she made a bunch of assumptions about a guy who was incredibly honest with her from the get go instead of being a deceitful prick about it Again, she wasn't really that hard on the guy. She commented that he was supposedly very smart, very sweet, and just a bit too shy. Fuck off with your persecution complex. People can live their lives how they want. Where is any of that whining going to get you? Nowhere. You keep sitting there at your computer, alone, getting butthurt at people living their own lives while the rest of the world goes on without you.

22 min later 9448859 Anonymous
>>9448807 I am living my own life. And part of that is to judge trashbags like her for judging honest people like him.

24 min later 9448881 Anonymous
If it were only legal to put a bullet between slut's eyes.

25 min later 9448895 Anonymous
the part that really gets me is just the "oh yea i feel like going on a sex bender" and thats just a thing women can do because they feel like it meanwhile i have to constantly fight and suffer and pour my soul into it desperately for years to maybe get a pity date from some fat girl i'm not even attracted to

25 min later 9448902 Anonymous
>>9448562 It's not just one person and you know it.

26 min later 9448906 Anonymous
Pretty angry considering HOW MANY FUCKING TIMES IT HAS BEEN REPOSTED HERE.

28 min later 9448933 Anonymous
>>9448906 It should be a sticky so that virgins over 20 are reminded of what women are like every single day.

28 min later 9448944 Anonymous
Whores gonna whore. She probably didn't even suck his dick.

30 min later 9448968 Anonymous
>>9448895 Yup. And I bet all those dates she went on (virgin included) had the man paying, even though she admits to having a good job. If you're a halfway decent looking woman, you have all the rights of a man plus: -free meals -free drinks -incredibly easy sex like tap water Meanwhile men have to: -look good -dress good -be interesting -be at the very least financially sound -pay for the dates -make the first move (at the right time) -be good in bed Damn women have it hard!

32 min later 9448994 Anonymous
>>9448902 But it's nowhere near enough to make a sweeping generalization of them.

33 min later 9449016 Anonymous
>>9448994 I think that 70 or so percent is enough to make that generalization. Women hate virgins. End of story. End of discussion.

36 min later 9449056 Anonymous
>telling a woman you're a virgin You couldn't go fuller retard if you tried

37 min later 9449064 Anonymous
>>9449016 >I've met 70% of women. Faggot, you've never even seen 1% of women, including real life, on the internet, on TV, in movies, in magazines, or heard second hand stories of them on 4chan. Associate with better people and watch the world change around you. Or maybe you're such a fucked up, self-righteous asshole that those are the only kinds of people you attract.

37 min later 9449076 Anonymous (Reaction 15.png 571x494 54kB)
>>9449016 To add to that here is a rightful /thread

37 min later 9449078 Anonymous
Was it really about hating virgins? It's more like she was looking for casual sex partner and the guy was sure to get emotionally attached. They both wanted very different things so they split. What's the big deal?

38 min later 9449087 Anonymous
>>9448994 >But it's nowhere near enough It could be a mixed bag. Chances are the majority of women in their 20s, at least in the West, are like this. They hold all the keys, they have all the power. And here is the thing: I have no illusions that plenty of older virgin men are either shitty people or have glaring mental problems that need a bit of fixing. But here is the other thing: that dude worked up the fucking courage to take her out on several dates. And then foolishly admitted he was a virgin. OK, that might be a mood killer. But this girl never even had the idea of dating him further. She was just looking for free dates and cock parade. This should have made her stop and go "Woah, maybe I'm actually hurting these men by leading them on?" You want one night stands, go to a bar with a shirt that says "Free pussy!" Don't dress it up as "Hey we're dating!" Because honestly, maybe that guy has some hang ups but he isn't some bitter NEET neckbeard. He was a competent guy who thought "OK, I finally worked up the courage to do this but I'm nervous...maybe she will understand". The least she could done would be to fuck him or give him another shot. Because NOW this guy is fucking damaged beyond belief, especially if he saw the article. He thought "Well I'll put myself out there and " NOPE. This will scar him forever. I doubt very much he will ever have sex now.

38 min later 9449090 Anonymous
>>9449064 You don't need to meet them to know how women think based on what they say online.

39 min later 9449101 Anonymous
>>9449078 She wrote a fucking article about it. So obviously she felt guilty for a reason. It's about virgin shaming. She would never have dated the guy, and she was looking for more than casual sex. Read between the lines.

41 min later 9449123 Anonymous
Why did he tell her he was a virgin?

45 min later 9449177 Anonymous
>>9449123 Because virgins are fucking retarded.

45 min later 9449179 Anonymous
>>9449123 Because he thought she wasn't a retarded whore.

46 min later 9449189 Anonymous (wink.png 403x367 95kB)
>>9449123 Because women like a guy who is honest and open

48 min later 9449212 Anonymous
>>9449123 If men have to lie about it, it proves women hate virgins.

48 min later 9449214 Anonymous
>>9449179 >not knowing that you're playing Russian Roulette by telling a girl you're a virgin How hard is it to lie until you've had sex? Then you aren't a virgin anymore.

50 min later 9449242 Anonymous (1375956486498.gif 500x271 1021kB)
Will girls react like that if I'm an 18 year old virgin?

51 min later 9449248 Anonymous
>>9449214 >>not knowing that you're playing Russian Roulette by telling a girl you're a virgin Maybe he doesn't want to fuck a retarded whore, and he was disappointed that this is the 300th retarded whore who did the same thing?

51 min later 9449252 Anonymous (1381253688751.jpg 447x447 26kB)
>>9449214 >"Y-you LIED to me! THIS RELATIONSHIP WAS LIES FROM THE START!!!!"

52 min later 9449267 Anonymous
>>9449248 And he could have cut that list short by 300 by lying about it ONCE. All that heartache, gone.

52 min later 9449270 Anonymous
>>9449087 >I doubt very much he will ever have sex now. I bet he lied with the next girl he was with. >>9449189 I have found lying in the right places and being honest everywhere else works better than being honest about everything. In this day and age honesty is worth nothing. You lie to to get what you want whether it be a job, attention, sex, ect. >>9449252 If you lie don't tell the truth ever and have the bullshit to back the lie up.

53 min later 9449285 Anonymous
>>9449242 It's about 50/50 if you're 18. Between 18 and 22 some women will not mind it. After 25 you better lie your ass off for sure or see a hooker because at that point you're basically a freak to them.

55 min later 9449298 Anonymous
>>9449270 >I have found lying in the right places and being honest everywhere else The point is why be honest anywhere? There is no incentive. In my limited experience, the women who harp about being honest all the time are usually the ones with the most secrets.

58 min later 9449333 Anonymous
>>9449298 >The point is why be honest anywhere? There is no incentive. For things that make no difference, being honest is easier. No bullshit to make up, no facts to keep straight.

59 min later 9449351 Anonymous
>>9449267 >And he could have cut that list short by 300 by lying about it ONCE. But why? Why would anyone fuck a retarded whore? Maybe he wants a proper relationship?

1 hours later 9449366 Anonymous
>After reading this, fembots, can you not understand why older male virgins would become bitter misogynists and PUAs who only goal is to pump and dump women and/or take great pleasure in making them feel like shit emotionally? No I can't. Exactly as she made ridiculous assumptions about a guy she knows nothing about, the fact that you also make sweeping generalizations about women is frankly retarded.

1 hours later 9449383 Kalur (1360678406111.jpg 298x292 22kB)
fun thing is, i'm not even a virgin yet i simply hate women for pretty much everything they do.

1 hours later 9449396 Anonymous
>>9449351 To get the virginity thing out the way so you can stop shitposting about it here.

1 hours later 9449448 Anonymous (1374867003688.jpg 681x654 82kB)
>tfw going to college (UK) after being NEET for 2 years and loser in secondary school >lot of girls suddenly interested >18 year old virgin How can I hide being a virgin when having sex?

1 hours later 9449459 Anonymous
>good looking >smart >respectable and well-paying job While her biological clock is ticking. And she dumps him? In this article, is her goal to prove her own retardedness?

1 hours later 9449489 Anonymous
>>9449448 You can't be a NEET at 16, faggot.

1 hours later 9449517 Anonymous
>>9449489 In the UK you can

1 hours later 9449628 Anonymous
From the comments, this sums it up perfectly. >When you tell somebody you won't sleep with them because of how you think they might end up feeling, you're taking away their agency and thinking for them and not letting them make decisions on their own. I have no way of knowing how a person will respond or react no matter how many partners they've had or not had, and it isn't really fair for me to think for them and make decisions like that based on my feelings about how they maybe possibly might act. It get's doubly fucked up because she's completely shifting the blame. >It's not that I don't want to have sex with you, it's because you couldn't handle it. Fuck that, it's ok to not want to sleep with a virgin, if you're turned off you're not obligated to take one for the team, but at the very least don't be a dick about it. At the time it was understandable because she was trying to let him down likely but the fact she had time to reflect and write an article about it without any sort of reflection is utterly fucked.

1 hours later 9449689 Anonymous
>>9449090 >70% of women are on the internet boasting about their hatred of virgins, rather than the same 1% (and neckbeards) spewing out the same shit over and over. Try harder, fucknut.

1 hours later 9449691 Anonymous
>>9449517 I'm from the UK =, and no you can't. Until you're old enough to realistically pay for your own shit if you wanted to, you aren't a NEET.

1 hours later 9449705 Anonymous
>losing your virginity to a female in their 20's lolno, nah, no way. Clinginess can definitely be an issue with some guys and women in their 20's just don't know how to handle that. They just wanna get laid and that's that. You wanna lose your virginity? Go after a teenage chick or a woman in her 30's or higher. Teenagers haven't entirely thought about the clinginess yet. They're finding out that they can have sex whenever and they'll have sex with you. Really, they will. Women in their 30's and above are mature enough to handle that shit and know how to put a stop to it if it gets bad, so if you're laying there and you tell them you're a virgin, her motherly instincts will kick in and she'll give you a hand with that. If it isn't great for her (which it probably wouldn't be), she'll still be comforting about it. This is all from a guy who lost his 22-year-old kissless virginity to a 19-year-old girl. She was a bit hesitant 'cause she said that she thought my first time should be special, but I straight-up said, "Do you want to fuck?" and she said yeah, so we did it. She was the clingy one, actually.

1 hours later 9449748 Anonymous
>>9449177 This. The smart move is to fuck and then afterwards say, "That was my first time," however, virgins are losers. They feel bad or guilty about things normal people don't feel bad or guilty about. After I had my first kiss, I told the chick I was with that that was my first kiss. Thankfully she understood and we ended up fucking as well. It was a dumb move on my part to tell her, but not telling her would have made me feel like shit. Shouldn't she know that she's about to have sex with a virgin? And the answer could be yes, but on the flipside, what about other situations? STD is widely agreed upon, but what if the dude's a premature ejaculator? What if he can't last long? What if he has a small penis? What if he just plain old sucks at sex? There are many guys who deal with that shit and don't tell the woman before sex and that's the right thing to do.

1 hours later 9449965 Anonymous
OP I have a similar story 24 year old virgin. Seeing a girl for about two weeks. Take her out on 4 dates I pay for all of them. She is 24. About to have sex on at the end of the 5 th data, tell I'm a virgin. She laughs and stops and say we can be friend. Now I'm a 28 year old virgin. Fuck man. Seriously, girls have a virgin radar. Thank god I have hobbies that take up a lot of time. I don't even know what I did wrong, I should have just lied.

1 hours later 9450025 Anonymous
>>9449965 Clearly her "radar" didn't pick up shit. You TOLD her. Dear lord you're an idiot.

2 hours later 9450160 Anonymous
>>9450025 That's not the point. The point is that for all the shit you see about not shaming females for their sexual experiences here it is happening to males. If a person has to lie to their partner about something in order for it to work then there's something wrong with the way women view male sexuality.

2 hours later 9450195 Anonymous
>>9450160 Women just don't want to fuck losers. Virgins are losers. I don't see anything about that that isn't just part of human nature.

2 hours later 9450218 Anonymous
>>9450160 So you have 2 choices: 1) Lie once, lose virginity. Virginity becomes a non-issue 2) Bitch about it online in the hope that double standards simple disappear Oh gee I wonder which once you should pick. Awfully tough decision.

2 hours later 9450293 Anonymous (1383585066730.jpg 645x773 57kB)
wow what a fucking bitch i seriously have no hope in this world even if youre attractive enough to get laid shell just wave you off if youre a virgin past 20. why, why is that so bad why do all women hate shy men so much

2 hours later 9450556 Anonymous
>>9449448 Just say you were really drunk for your first time and that's all the sex you've had. >I was drugged and raped for my first time so I actually did say this when I had sex again so it would make sense why I seemed bad

2 hours later 9450673 Anonymous
>>9448933 I'm pretty sure virgins already know that some women are like that, it's not a big deal.

2 hours later 9450786 Anonymous
>>9449087 >This will scar him forever. I doubt very much he will ever have sex now. Normal people aren't as emotionally fragile and easily devastated as /r9k/. They take their losses, learn from them and move on.

2 hours later 9450791 Anonymous
>>9450673 Some virgins still cling on to false hope. That hope needs to extinguished.

2 hours later 9450794 Anonymous
>>9450786 Because they get one loss to 99 wins instead of the other way around.

2 hours later 9450832 Anonymous
>>9448542 /r9k/'s obsession with virginity and self-hatred because of it is unparallelled

2 hours later 9450853 Anonymous
>>9449748 guys lie all the time about themselves to get laid. That is standard procedure.

2 hours later 9450932 Anonymous
>>9448859 If he was "honest" she would've known he was a virgin beforehand.

3 hours later 9450956 Anonymous
>>9450293 >why, why is that so bad why do all women hate shy men so much Because shyness is a very negative trait that no one likes.

3 hours later 9450962 Anonymous
The type of girls r9k are disgusted by are the ones they shouldn't even be chasing, yet they still do.

3 hours later 9451001 Anonymous
>>9450962 You act as if we have options in that regard.

3 hours later 9451012 Anonymous
>comments section is filled with people rationally discussing this and a good portion of them disagree with the author's choice Holy shit what. Am I in some kind of netherworld where logic is actually used?

3 hours later 9451022 Anonymous
>>9450962 So they should chase men instead of women then?

3 hours later 9451026 Anonymous
THAT ARTICLE MAKES ME SO FUCKING ANGRY. FUCKING BITCH.

3 hours later 9451068 Anonymous
>>9450791 Virgins are hated by everyone, not just women. And they should be hated, that is natural and proper because virginity into adulthood signifies serious personal problems/defects/inferiority, etc. If you're a virgin you should definitely not tell anyone after you've reached a certain age. You wouldn't tell people if you were a pedophile or a serial rapist, why would you tell them you're a virgin?

3 hours later 9451174 Anonymous
I think she, like anyone, is more than welcome to decide whether she'd like to have sex with someone or not or enter into a relationship with someone or not based on whatever criteria she likes. The whole incident may have been However, if she's the sort of person who would give a guy shit for not wanting to have sex or enter into a relationship with someone based on whatever criteria he has (let's say because a girl isn't a virgin), then I think the world would be a better place without her.

3 hours later 9451183 Anonymous
The ironic thing is she is actually the female equivalent of a virgin - a slut - and she admits to it. In men it is prided how many women you can sleep with, and to sleep with none is a point of shame. In women the inverse is true. It's considered a point of pride to be a virgin, and to sleep with everyone you can is a point of shame.

3 hours later 9451193 Anonymous
>>9451174 *The whole incident may have been unfortunate for the guy, but I don't think she did anything that was really wrong.

3 hours later 9451277 Anonymous
>>9448542 I'm not wasting my time reading that bullshit.

3 hours later 9451336 Anonymous (sweetbabbybrown.jpg 222x260 26kB)
>>9451068 >You wouldn't tell people if you were a pedophile or a serial rapist, why would you tell them you're a virgin?

3 hours later 9451451 Anonymous
>>9448542 nohow, this girl is probably sad and lonely and has been watching HBO's "Girls" way too much >you are a virgin and this is not a relationship, fucking me won't mean we are going to be in a relationship woah slow down cunt who said anything about a.. >all dat projection oh well, that guy's better off with his virginity than to have such horrible experience his 1st time

3 hours later 9451482 Anonymous
>>9451068 >there are people alive who actually think like this

3 hours later 9451517 Anonymous
Not angry at all? I'm not a bitter virgin though

3 hours later 9451519 Anonymous
>>9451068 akkuali mentally deranged persons are a lot more likely to seek solace in sex as a soothener and relaxant, normalfags don't need it to feel fulfilled, they are normalfags

4 hours later 9451679 Anonymous
>>9451519 I didn't say anything about being a sex addict or anything. And normal people do need sex to be fulfilled

4 hours later 9451775 Anonymous
I lost my virginity at 27 to the girl I've been with for seven months.

4 hours later 9451793 Anonymous (vagaboo.png 385x290 148kB)
Not as mad as this pic relatede

4 hours later 9451849 Anonymous
I'm so fucking glad i'm a faggot. What is wrong with women. You think this shit is bad? This is just what they say in public or on the internet. Wait until they think you're "one of them" or whatever. Jesus fuck women are scum.

4 hours later 9451913 Anonymous
>>9448807 >Fuck off with your persecution complex. Western women only want the best even the fattest of land whales beleives that they are worthy of brad pit. We have are supposed to be happy spending our youth alone and then acting as a secondary wallet

4 hours later 9451932 Anonymous
>>9449087 >shitty people or mental problems This is why I'm planning to kill myself

4 hours later 9451951 Anonymous
>>9448994 If you have the same experience with tons of people from Group-A, the only thing connecting each one of them is the group they come from the and experience you've had with them, then yes it is enough to make generalizations. It takes at least one person from Group-A doing some different to negate that generalization, and so far that hasn't happened yet has it? You have a responsibility, an opportunity to help, make someone's life better, and prove that not all people from your group are like this; yet you not only have bothered to even attempt such a feat, you refuse to, and further make your group look bad as a result.

4 hours later 9451959 HumanShaped
>>9451793 >Everything is RAPE Top fucking lel I think the most fucked up part of it is how she rationalised her thought process. She congratulated herself on not ridiculing a man that she respected which shows how detestable she thinks it really is. Then she projected her own thoughts/feelings onto him as though he doesn't have the right to decide when/ with whom he has sex. Contemplating a 'mercy-fuck' as though the guy is in need of charity just goes to show the pitiful esteem in which older virgin men are held. I'm mad that she's such a self-regarding cunt.

4 hours later 9451968 Anonymous
>>9450956 >He lack confidence he sdould kill himself

4 hours later 9451970 Anonymous
>>9450962 You imply most women aren't like OP.

4 hours later 9451972 KingHarold
>>9451959 You do realise that's a fake made by /v/?

4 hours later 9452065 Anonymous
>>9451012 I found that funny. It shows how spending so much time around robots has warped the normies on /r9k/ into something worse than regular normies. They should be ashamed of themselves for being so easily influenced.

4 hours later 9452100 Anonymous
>>9451012 >>9452065 Most of those new comments are from here, this has been reposted regularly

4 hours later 9452173 Anonymous
>>9452100 I saw this months ago and it was the same. Reasonable normal people saying that the author's reasoning was silly and it wasn't her place to decide that the guy wasn't ready. While here on /r9k/ immature normies shit on virgins because that is what they do.

4 hours later 9452213 Anonymous
>man has sex with lots of women - fucking pig rapist >man virgin in 20s - fucking creep get away from me, come back when you've banged another 20 girls

5 hours later 9452385 Anonymous
Man, lots of emotions after reading that article. Do normalfags really not realize how easy it is to be a 20+ year old virgin and how bad it hurts? At the same time she probably made the right decision. She would have fucked him and he would have become her little bitch. She doesn't deserve his virginity anyways

5 hours later 9452393 Anonymous
>>9452213 You're wrong about the first one. Men who have sex with lots of women are viewed as highly attractive by other women.

5 hours later 9452420 Anonymous
>>9449242 Just dont tell them, please dont tell them..

5 hours later 9452448 Anonymous
>>9449448 >16 >neet Get the fuck out

5 hours later 9452456 Anonymous
>smart, shy virgins are getting snapped up and dumped hard by cunts like these

5 hours later 9452465 Anonymous
>>9452456 And only /r9k/ was offended.

5 hours later 9452489 Anonymous
>>9450962 >7/10 girls lose their virginity by 19 >LOL, you're chasing the wrong girls xD lol

6 hours later 9453226 Happily married, never-had-a-problem-with-women guy
God this generation is fucked up and full of cunts. I genuinely feel sorry for anyone looking for a girlfriend/wife out of this barrel of bitches and whores.

7 hours later 9454279 Anonymous
bump for public awareness

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