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2013-10-09 04:48 9035340 Anonymous Creepo In Love with Internet Man After 3 Months (longdistance.jpg 1600x716 219kB)
>tfw I only love someone who I could never be with
>meet guy online
>lives an ocean away
>tfw 26 and there will be no one else
2 min later 9035376 Anonymous
are you a grill, op?
vaginablox
6 min later 9035428 Anonymous
>>9035376
Yes, grill.
7 min later 9035434 Anonymous
>meet guy online
>in love
>3 Months
Yeah sure you are.
8 min later 9035447 Anonymous
distance can work. you just have to be lonely enough that its worth it.
9 min later 9035455 Anonymous (1377118478695.gif 300x290 1823kB)
>long distance internet relationships
>ever working out
yo move on
for real
9 min later 9035457 Anonymous
>>9035434
Wouldn't thinking I was in love be the same as actually being in love?
10 min later 9035469 Anonymous
You're 26 and think there won't be anyone else?
Calm down, bitch and find someone closer.
It's only been 3 months too.
Wow delete this thread you should be ashamed
11 min later 9035489 Anonymous
>>9035457
It's not the same at all. That's the mindset that leads to abusive relationships.
12 min later 9035501 Anonymous
>>9035469
I know I should. But I have never 'clicked' with someone so well.
I think 26 is old.
13 min later 9035503 Anonymous
Are you really that desperate, OP?
Goddamn.
13 min later 9035509 Anonymous (Pinkerton_cover.jpg 307x300 14kB)
CURSE MYSELF FOR BEING ACROSS THE SEA
WHY ARE YOU SO FAR AWAY FROM MEEEE?
16 min later 9035546 Anonymous
I know this exact feel, femanon.
It really fucking sucks.
But you're 26, neither of you are in the place to move to one another at all?
16 min later 9035551 Anonymous
>>9035501
You've chatted online with someone for an extremely short amount of time. You didn't "click" at all. You've got to spend at least a month with someone in real life before you know if you "click"
18 min later 9035574 Anonymous
>>9035546
Do you know how hard it is to get into another country?
What happened with you?
20 min later 9035598 Anonymous
>>9035551
This. I met someone online and hung out with her once.
I really liked her when we chatted online, but holy fuck was she insufferable in real life
So I guess temper your expectations
20 min later 9035603 Anonymous
>tfw met a Polish woman who I can talk to about pretty much anything
>Polish as in she lives in Poland
>I like her more than anyone I've met in my life, pretty much
>She's quirky and interesting, although kind of neurotic
>I live in the US
>I seriously think this is going to work
>It's probably not going to work.
21 min later 9035606 Anonymous (tumblr_mia3yaVFW31ra4ilso1_500.jpg 286x750 80kB)
>think I'm not stupid enough to go for a ldr
>talk to an european anon for months
>get pheelings
>start imagining a different life
>he sees a photo of me after all that time
>emails peter off and he stops replying
I deserved it for being naive enough to think someone could like me.
22 min later 9035623 Anonymous
>>9035551
Why not? Everyone I talk to in real life sucks. Online we can really get to know each other without anything superficial getting in the way. By then anything 'imperfect' wouldn't even matter.
22 min later 9035625 Anonymous
>>9035603
It's not going to work.
It never works.
22 min later 9035628 Anonymous
Was with a girl for 5 years online before she finally disappeared.
24 min later 9035658 Anonymous
>in love after 3 months
doubt
24 min later 9035662 Anonymous
>>9035606
I'm sorry to hear that. They weren't a good person. If you guys got really close then appearances shouldn't have matter. You are better off without them.
25 min later 9035676 Anonymous
>>9035625
I know!
But she's great and gentle and downright perfect. I hate it. I shouldn't feel this way, but I do.
25 min later 9035677 Anonymous
>implying you know about love
Fucking edgy faggots thinking people can't fall in love quickly. Do you seriously think you are some kind of expert authority on what qualifies as "love"? Just fuck off.
26 min later 9035694 Anonymous
>>9035677
Why are you so mad, fag?
Falling in love too quickly is dangerious
Especially to some stranger on the internet
27 min later 9035702 Anonymous
>>9035677
13 year old girl detected
stop confusing "crush" with "love" and fuck off of /r9k/
28 min later 9035712 Anonymous
>>9035677
Absolutely right. Why must there be a time limit on feelings? You can't help what you feel nor control it.
29 min later 9035723 Anonymous
>>9035469
26 is pretty much the last chance to settle down with a good man if you're a female.
Go beyond that and you've entered "where have all the good men gone" mode and may as well just start collecting cats.
29 min later 9035725 Anonymous
>>9035662
at least it fortified my distrust for people on the internet again.
30 min later 9035737 Anonymous
>>9035723
Thank you. 26 is old as fuck.
30 min later 9035741 Anonymous
>>9035723
True, but she's still totally overreaching. If she's so desperate she shouldn't get involved with over-romanticized LDRs
This shit ain't the notebook.
30 min later 9035744 Anonymous
>>9035723
>tfw 27 and my 14 yr old cat died today.
31 min later 9035760 Anonymous
>>9035741
It wasn't suppose to be a LTR. We were just friends who talked about computers, tech, and books. Then one day something just happened....
32 min later 9035773 Anonymous
Isn't there anyone else you could focus on, OP?
Because getting involved with long distance this late in the game is playing with fire
33 min later 9035778 Anonymous
>>9035760
LDR*
33 min later 9035789 Anonymous
>>9035760
Well end it ASAP.
34 min later 9035797 Anonymous
>>9035773
I've never met anyone who has the same hobbies as I do.
36 min later 9035814 Anonymous
>>9035797
>you can only love a person when they have the same exact hobbies as you
im done
im so done
37 min later 9035838 Anonymous
>>9035814
I did not say that. He is the most interesting person I have ever spoken with, plus we are interested in similar things. It is nice when you have someone to talk about Arduino projects with.
40 min later 9035870 Anonymous
Just to clarify: we are not actually boyfriend and girlfriend. We can date whomever we'd like. We know our situation is impossible and still love each other. It is sad.
41 min later 9035883 Anonymous
>>9035870
Why would anyone want to date you if you're in love with someone else?
Forget him and don't tell anyone about him.
42 min later 9035890 Anonymous
>tfw like guy that I talk to but I have a bf
>tfw might dump bf for him
42 min later 9035902 Anonymous
>>9035870
>It is sad
Not really.
It's simple, actually. Stop acting like a little girl and end it.
43 min later 9035903 Anonymous
>>9035574
I am very aware, but if you're in love I'm sure that you guys could work something out?
I met a guy online and we also live an ocean away from each other.
44 min later 9035920 Anonymous
>>9035903
Maybe one day we could work something out.
How is it working out with you and your internet guy?
45 min later 9035937 Anonymous
>>9035883
Exactly, no one.
47 min later 9035948 Anonymous
>>9035937
Right, so you could get over this guy you've only known online for three fucking months and find someone else or you could needlessly torture yourself like a 12 year old who shops at HotTopic
47 min later 9035951 Anonymous (maroon 5.jpg 300x300 77kB)
Pretty sure a girl is doing this to me now.
You aren't her, right OP?
48 min later 9035967 Anonymous
>>9035920
We're trying to set up visits. I'm planning to study abroad, he as well. Kind of shitty. We're not exclusive, but I've been in another LDR before and a bit hesitant to get into another. So that's why I'm kind of okay with it being a more casual thing at the moment.
50 min later 9036000 Anonymous
>>9035967
Why do you do it to yourself?
51 min later 9036013 Anonymous
>>9035967
>We're not exclusive
How does it feel to know he's fucking tons of other girls that aren't you?
53 min later 9036030 Anonymous
>>9036013
I don't mind. Nothing will probably come of it. But for now I've got a really good friend and I'll be able to visit a different country and stay with him if I ever want to.
59 min later 9036109 Anonymous
>>9036030
You have a great handle on the situation! It would be a great experience to visit another country for a little while. May I ask which country?
1 hours later 9036137 Anonymous
>>9036109
The UK.
I think I do only because my first LDR ended pretty tragically.
This new one is so calm and natural. I think neither of us want to get too deep into it and feel hurt if it doesn't end up working.
So tell me about yours more. How did you two meet?
1 hours later 9036150 Anonymous
>>9036109
>You have a great handle on the situation
>choosing the impossible relationship when there's probably tons of other guys interested
Yeah really great handle.
She's totally in control.
1 hours later 9036161 Anonymous
>>9036150
my jimmies ain't even rustled.
1 hours later 9036191 Anonymous
>>9036137
Mine is also from the UK! We met on an internet forum. We just started as friends we were working on a similar electronic project. We would swap pictures of our progress, discuss the latest tech stories or he would help me with some networking stuff I am doing. One day our conversation sort of turned sexual. It was never our intent. He is coming to visit me in 2 weeks. We will get 6 days together.
1 hours later 9036222 Anonymous
>girl
>there will be no one else
you really just cant grasp this concept can you?
1 hours later 9036237 Anonymous
>>9036222
Don't bother. She and the other LDRslut obviously just want to stay in their delusional fantasy land.
1 hours later 9036243 Anonymous
>>9036191
:3 I hope you two enjoy it. Jesus, I'm very jealous right now, haha.
1 hours later 9036350 Anonymous
>>9036243
It is great, but the distance is killer.
1 hours later 9036364 Anonymous
>>9036350
Yeah, it is. Is this your first time meeting?
1 hours later 9036394 Anonymous
>>9036364
YES IT IS I WILL HAVE MANY SEX WITH HIM TEE HEE
1 hours later 9036417 Anonymous
>>9036394
COME ON 3WAY PLEASE.
1 hours later 9036428 Anonymous
>>9036394
>not multiple sex
pls be kidding
1 hours later 9036432 Anonymous
>>9036417
THREESOMES SUCK
ESPECIALLY WITH THE COMPETITION.
CAN'T GET EVERYTHING YOU WANT IN LIFE NOW CAN YOU
1 hours later 9036436 Anonymous
>>9036364
Yes it will be the first time we meet.
1 hours later 9036443 Anonymous
>>9036428
yes multiple sex
back to wizchan i go
1 hours later 9036448 Anonymous
>>9036432
HOW IS THE COMPETITION?!
1 hours later 9036455 Anonymous
>>9036448
THE OTHER GUY ISN'T COMPETITION?!
PLEASE.
1 hours later 9036488 Anonymous
>>9036455
I HAD NO IDEA YOU WERE COMPETING; WHY CAN'T WE ALL WIN?
1 hours later 9036501 Anonymous
>>9036488
BECAUSE IT DOESN'T WORK LIKE THAT.
YOU CAN'T HAVE 3 PEOPLE ALL WINNING EACH OTHER.
1 hours later 9036523 Anonymous
>>9036501
YES YOU CAN. DOUBLE PENETRATION MY FRIEND.
1 hours later 9036530 Anonymous
>>9036523
YEAH WELL THAT SUCKS.
FUCK THAT.
NOT GONNA DO IT
1 hours later 9036552 Anonymous
>>9035951
Ditto maybe they're all the same girl
1 hours later 9036561 Anonymous
>>9036530
YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO.
IF NOT YOU COULD WIN ON MY FACE A DIFFERENT TIME.
1 hours later 9036567 Anonymous
For whatever reason, I just stop replying to people long distance people I meet on the internet. I don't know why I do this but I do just drop people. I hate it when I do this because I can't imagine what the people I stop talking to think.
1 hours later 9036582 Anonymous
>>9036561
I'LL WIN ON ANY PART OF YOUR BODY YOU WANT
JUST NOT WITH ANOTHER WINNER THERE.
1 hours later 9036600 Anonymous
>>9035723
>26 is pretty much the last chance to settle down with a good man if you're a female.
WTF are you talking about? Divorce rates are sky high! Literally every other 30+ adult is single.
1 hours later 9036604 Anonymous
>>9036582
MY FACE AND TONGUE.
1 hours later 9036631 Anonymous
>>9036600
This is true. Would you date someone who was divorced?
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