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2013-06-11 12:15 7289694 Anonymous (image.jpg 890x4253 1105kB)
I don't understand, why are women allowed to be boring while men have to better themselves emotionally and physically just to get one?

1 min later 7289702 ThatOneGuy (TMYK.jpg 500x330 39kB)
>>7289694 Because desperate faggots are willing to settle for boring people to end their loneliness.

1 min later 7289708 Anonymous
>female privilege thread Ricky thread detected, sage

5 min later 7289768 Anonymous
women and men are fundamentally different. women (save a few) just cannot help but be too driven by emotion. men are obviously too, but not to the same degree. because of this, few women are able to truly face their insecurities and better themselves to the extent they would like to. which is why they admire men. few women can have complete confidence in themselves with no doubt, while men do have a stronger tendency to be able to build up to a point where they can have complete confidence in themselves. this is also why men must go through so much growth in order to find a woman (not FALL into a relationship, through social circle, mind you.) through a bunch of experience i've had with women, and being close with a good few that are very attractive, i've learned that they just never end up getting over their insecurities. i'm sure some exist ou there. but i have yet to meet them.

6 min later 7289780 Anonymous
>>7289702 oh, this too. my previous post only focused on why men have to grow and develop, mb.

6 min later 7289787 Anonymous
>>7289694 Because men let them get away with it. It's the same reason they do all of the stupid shit they do.

7 min later 7289793 Anonymous
Because men are generally fine with women being boring its the same reason the slut v stud double standard exists

9 min later 7289816 Anonymous
>>7289694 Women are only allowed to be boring by those who accept them being that way. Your low standards aren't their fault, and they aren't obliged to have equally low standards either.

12 min later 7289864 Anonymous
Because too many desperate and pathetic men put boring women on a pedestal. For men attraction is almost all visual, and it's real easy for women to cheat that with makeup and other types of shit. But for women, attraction is different and a little more complicated. That's why their porn is stupid stuff like romance novels such as 50 shades of grey, and why one way for men to become more attractive and successful with women is to learn PUA stuff.

12 min later 7289868 ThatOneGuy
>>7289780 I would wager because if you had your pick of the litter, you would only want the best. Why should someone who is apparently inundated with choices choose someone inferior? Would you honestly choose the; bitter, angry and likely overweight robot or the handsome, outgoing and confident chad thundercock? Since apparently these are the only 2 choices women have in the eyes of the robots, so lets ignore reality that most males fall under the category of "in between".

13 min later 7289875 Anonymous (30WTMqd.jpg 500x807 58kB)
>>7289816 >everything is men's fault >always

15 min later 7289905 Pachacutec
>>7289702 This, this so hard. Remember guys, every time you forgive girls being shitty and date them anyways, you're only lowering the bar for them. :|

16 min later 7289908 Anonymous
>>7289868 Why is there always such a false dichotomy? As if every man who's lonely is a basement-dwelling overweight neckbeard with poor hygiene, and every man who's sociable is an ultra-alpha frat faggot. To address your main argument though, the problem isn't wanting the best out of your pick of the litter, it's women always assuming they can get the 10/10, and not settling for someone within their league. That, and they're generally shallow creatures who're more interested in money and status than what a man's actually like.

19 min later 7289947 Anonymous
>>7289875 >Implying that's what I said. You are a special kind of faggot, aren't you? Raise your standards roody-poo. You can't blame women for your own actions or beliefs.

21 min later 7289971 Anonymous
>>7289793 >slut v stud double standard exists Slut and stud double standards exist only when comparing peer judgement, and what men and women prefer in long term partners. Women don't want their female friends to be promiscuous but men don't care. Men prefer not to date women with a lot of past sexual partners, but women like experienced guys more (preselection). But when it comes to flirting and propositions for casual sex the dynamics are completely flipped and it's men who have to deal with their sexuality being shamed. Women can easily be as forward as they want and get positive results from men virtually all the time but men potentially suffer severe consequences for the same behavior. That's why it pisses me off every time someone just mentions this double standard like it's somehow so unfair for women.

21 min later 7289974 ThatOneGuy
>>7289908 To address your argument then; I present to you, a hypothetical scenario. You are you, right. Everyday you wake up, put on your clothes and you have at least 10 people who throw themselves at you. Granted a few of them will be the same people but, for the sake of argument, 6 new people every day throw themselves at you. You could spend the time improving yourself and working hard OR you could just let them people dash themselves on the rocks until you inevitably find the superior choice. Which would you choose and be honest. Most people would choose the first option and that is why robots believe that -all- women have no drive to improve themselves to find a mate. The reality not withstanding that this path leads to inevitable failure and doesn't happen more frequently with women than it does with men. Though I disagree with >That, and they're generally shallow creatures who're more interested in money and status than what a man's actually like. statement.

21 min later 7289975 lowsingle
because most men prefer boring women women behave differently around other women then they do men. you dont want to hear her talk about her clothes, gossip about all of her friends, what she heard about kim kardashian etc. thing is, its much easier for a woman to say something "wrong" than say something "right", so they mostly just stay quiet until they get to know you well enough to know what they can say

22 min later 7289987 Anonymous
>>7289694 Why does the peacock have a beautiful colorful tail while the peahen is drab and brown? Evolution.

23 min later 7289999 Anonymous
>>7289947 >You can't blame women for your own actions or beliefs. I'm not. I'm blaming women for their own behavior and personalities. It's still women's fault that they are shit people, even if you want to put some of the blame on men for putting up with it.

23 min later 7290002 mystery.jpg
>>7289694 That is such a sad image. It's even sadder how it goes over most male robot's heads. ._.

23 min later 7290005 ThatOneGuy
>>7289908 Also, in regards to the false dichotomy, it would be because, in Amurrika at least, everything is black and white. There is no grey, there is only Lonely McVirgin or Chad Thundercock. Also, its much easier to make sweeping generalizations and hate on those mean ol' sluts and frat boys if they represent such a large dynamic.

23 min later 7290013 lowsingle
>>7289975 before anyone tells me im wrong do men on here fantasize about the naive quiet girl who just loves you and snuggles, or a loud opinionated "carrie bradshaw" type girl

25 min later 7290030 Anonymous
>>7289999 Your comprehension skillz are very shitty then, because blaming women for their shitty personalities is what I hinted as desirable. Just like them blaming us for our shitty personalities is also desirable. >even if you want to put some of the blame on men for putting up with it It's not the men's fault that they are boring, not at all. It's absolutely their fault if they put up with them, though.

25 min later 7290036 POOPINGONWHATYOULOVE
>>7290013 I'M PRETTY SURE EVERYONE JUST FANTASIZES ABOUT POOPING ON EVERYTHING

25 min later 7290037 Anonymous
>>7290002 >>7290002 >>7290002 Conversely, all a girl needs to do is open her arms to find a cuddle buddy.

26 min later 7290039 Anonymous
>>7290005 To think I was about to agree with you. You pretty much just proved yourself to be another retarded tripfag.

26 min later 7290047 Anonymous
>>7290013 I would prefer a loud and opinionated girl to be honest. If I got with a naive quiet girl I would try to educate her and make her opinionated, too.

26 min later 7290049 ThatOneGuy (1354816977403.jpg 326x314 57kB)
>>7290013 Of the 2, I am fond of the first choice though I would ideally want someone who is a mixture of the 2 types. I like to be sociable and have a life outside of my partner so I would drown if I was the all consuming object of my partner's world. >>7290036 >pic related >>7290039 How so?

27 min later 7290051 Anonymous
>>7289971 Im not saying it unfair for women is was just saying this >Men prefer not to date women with a lot of past sexual partners, but women like experienced guys more (preselection).

28 min later 7290066 Anonymous
>>7290049 >everything is black and white. There is no grey, there is only Lonely McVirgin or Chad Thundercock.

28 min later 7290068 Anonymous
>>7289908 >they're generally shallow creatures who're more interested in money and status than what a man's actually like. Try to think about it from their perspective though. If YOU had the power of a vagina and could potentially live like a princess and never have to do any real work in your life by just offering sex to the closest rich dude, wouldn't you at the very least entertain the thought? I am pretty sure just as many men would act the way women are acting now if the roles were suddenly reversed.

29 min later 7290082 Anonymous
>>7290005 The only person that ever stood up for me when I was bullied in school was a "slut". I can't hate our resident sluts and I wouldn't want to be living in the US, based on the stories people post here. We don't even have frats and other such cliques here. It's all so alien. Even our bullies are generally normal individuals with a few issues.

30 min later 7290092 Anonymous
Because women hold the power. Men want to have sex. Women are in the position to withhold it or grant it to the man. Thus, the men have to prove themselves. Thus, hypergamy. Etc. Same happens a lot in the animal kingdom, like male birds having to work hard building a nest or the peacock having to grow a massive, unwieldy, ridiculous bit of plumage that makes him vulnerable to predators just to impress the ugly brown peahen. The one with the limited number of eggs who bears the young for 9 months has already invested more than the man who produces millions of sperm a day and can fuck multiple women a day for his entire life. Once she's pregnant it's in her interests to breast feed and raise the child and put more resources into it, so evolutionarily speaking, females invest more in the child so have much more to lose. Men have nothing to lose from a fuck and everything to gain. This is why women get to be boring deceitful vacuous people who are masters of manipulating men, while men have to spend their whole lives proving themselves to women. Except now thanks to feminism men are not allowed to prove themselves to women because it's sexist but women still get to be boring deceitful vacuous people, only now they can sleep around as much as they want and the state will provide for them and they'll raise the child without the father, so men have been reduced to alpha fuck toys and virgin betas.

31 min later 7290103 Anonymous
Because a lot of men allow for it. I've even seen some robots say that women are instantly more interesting if they're attractive/simply show interest in them. Almost all privileges women have are typically because men propagate it and allowed for it to begin with.

32 min later 7290115 ThatOneGuy
>>7290066 Have you not seen this board? That is pretty much the view this board as a whole holds about the choices women have. At least, this is what I have taken away from the absolute myriad of "alpha leftovers, lol enjoy your used goods, baaww women only want power and status, god I hate myself, post after post about how robots are kissless virgins, posts after posts about how they want their 10/10 pure virgin waifu". The whole sentiment reeks of only 2 choices existing. lol sweeping generalizations >>7290082 From my experiences, sluts are usually very grounded people and usually make for better partners. At least, they make for better friends and exceptional lays.

33 min later 7290119 POOPINGONWHATYOULOVE
>>7290103 JUST POOP ON A WOMAN WHEN SHE MISBEHAVES AND YOU'RE GOOD IT'S EASY GUYS

34 min later 7290128 Ian
>>7289694 >I don't understand, why are women allowed to be boring They're not, not all of them sit in their room all day doing jack shit maybe one day they'll be sat in their room doing Jack Field

34 min later 7290130 Anonymous
>>7290119 Shitting on things isn't the answer to everything.

35 min later 7290137 Pachacutec
>>7290103 This. Also, remember that one guy that makes those "pls girls I don't care how you are or what you look like, pls be my gf, that's all I want" threads? That's the same guy that later in another thread will complain about girls being picky and having so many guys to choose from... y'all need some standards, m8s!

37 min later 7290144 Anonymous
>>7289975 >>7290013 You're trying to equate "boring" with "not knowing when to shut the fuck up about inane shit". If a girl was talkative and and opinionated, but also ACTUALLY FUCKING SMART AND FUNNY, that would obviously be preferable to a quiet and boring girl. The thing is though, that's just a lot less common the talkative and stupid girl, so you think men just prefer "boring" when they actually would rather just have a quiet dumb girl than a loud dumb girl.

38 min later 7290155 Anonymous
>>7289694 They're not, there are just more desperate men with no standards than there are women, so they'll settle for anything.

39 min later 7290161 Anonymous
It's not even a gender issue. It's the simple law of demand and supply. Every person is a "customer" that wants the best possible package. Because men express a demand for any woman (so they are interested in acquiring every one of them), the value of all of them rises. Each woman receives proposals for the transaction by more than one men, so it's only natural that she will enter the agreement with the best one. At the same time *because* she receives more than one proposals she doesn't need to demand anything but only supply at her discretion, which keeps male value at a minimum. So. If your standards get too low, that causes a chain reaction that leads to their standards getting too high. That's not even taking the substitution effect with vibrators in consideration.

40 min later 7290175 ThatOneGuy (1363614656519.jpg 395x450 72kB)
>>7290137 >>7290161 You 2. I like you 2.

43 min later 7290197 mystery.jpg
>>7290037 Please don't say that. A cuddle buddy doesn't replace love~~

50 min later 7290278 Anonymous
>>7290002 At least the girl in the image isn't a virgin any longer

51 min later 7290284 Anonymous
>>7289694 Because guys are the ones who pursue women and are therefore obligated to have an interesting life

55 min later 7290317 Anonymous
>>7289694 Why didn't the guy on the right just have sex with the girl on the left

57 min later 7290343 Anonymous
>>7290317 what do you think would have happened if he'd suggested it?

58 min later 7290347 mysterys biggest fan (cigar_delicious.png 343x343 170kB)
>do you wanna stick around for coffee? >mfw I'm drinking coffee right now

1 hours later 7290371 Anonymous
Women know full well that all they NEED to offer is a vagina and they'll get attention. This shit is obvious just by looking at Omegle video chat, look how many penises are on there, and all of thos guys skip past you the moment they see you're also a guy but the moment a chick is placed in front of the camera no matter how fucking ugly she is they will start asking for tits/vag. Women hav little idea what its like to have no social options because all they literally need to do is open their legs, then after they've done this and get fucked over by the asshole they doted after they start acting like they're alone in the world...while the guy is left sitting in his room, alone...no sex at all even on a basic level.

1 hours later 7290372 Anonymous
>>7290317 Each comic was made by a different person.

1 hours later 7290378 Anonymous
>>7290317 Because she'd have rejected him because he's an ugly loser.

1 hours later 7290412 mysterys biggest fan
>>7290378 no, it's b/c he's just sitting in front of his computer all summer like i'm doing

1 hours later 7290480 Anonymous
Because gender roles are bullshit.

1 hours later 7291066 VoicebehindYourEar Short bloke thread short bloke thread
Be 24 be 5 foot 6 given up on women completely thanks to my height. Be male which means I can never feel bad about this.

3 hours later 7291825 Anonymous
>>7291066 im 5'6 i have a gf im fine with my height you can too

3 hours later 7292049 Anonymous (WellThere'sYourProblem.jpg 175x175 5kB)
>why are women allowed to be boring >women Incapable of dealing with people one-on-one. >allowed External standards. >boring Unappreciative of women. >men have to better themselves emotionally and physically Excuse making. >to get one Or using women as self-improvement leverage.

3 hours later 7292119 Anonymous
>>7292049 I like your post and I like you, too

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