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2013-05-21 12:47 7005105 I Hate Myself (1.jpg 1170x923 147kB)
>meet qt3.14 in class >get her number >we text for a couple weeks >she blushes sometimes when I talk to her in person >think she might like me, finally decided to ask her out >I call her, she picks up >I say hello, 15 seconds pass by >she hangs up >I text her telling her if she wanted to hangout >never heard from her again Hold me brobots, why did she do this

3 min later 7005136 Anonymous
Fuck her man, move on. She isn't worth it

4 min later 7005139 Anonymous
>>7005105 Pick yourself back up bro, you should be happy that a girl would take interest in you for that long. This means you have some decent qualities. Go and apply what you learned then and get another girl!

4 min later 7005144 Anonymous
>she blushes sometimes when I talk to her in person >think she might like me False interpretation. She probably thought you're weird or boring or pathetic and felt embarrassed when talking to you, therefore the blush.

10 min later 7005185 Anonymous
>Text for a couple of weeks I think that was your downfall. Why did you pussyfoot around for so long before asking her out? She probably got sick of waiting for you to make a move and lost interest.

23 min later 7005257 I Hate Myself
>>7005144 No dude. I know when someone is embarrassed, it's not like I'm an obese autist trying to pick up girls or anything. And she was the one to sit next to me, she would bring her chair and bring it next to me. >>7005185 Out of the 2 weeks, we texted like about 8 times. It wasn't serious texting, we talked more in person >>7005136 >>7005139 I guess you guys are right, but I just want to know why she didn't answer. I don't mind being rejected but ignoring me? That shits cruel man

24 min later 7005263 Anonymous
>>7005257 then it's even worse, two weeks is a huge time period in situations like these. next time, don't beat around the bush and just go for it.

25 min later 7005268 Anonymous
because girls lead guys they're not attracted to (not typically on looks, but personality/interests) on for attention & reassurance. It's cruel but they fool themselves into thinking they do it because they're "nice" and don't want to hurt you.

26 min later 7005275 I Hate Myself
>>7005263 We had class twice a week, which was the only time I saw her

29 min later 7005297 Anonymous
>>7005257 If she doesn't have the balls to tell u what's up. Then u don't have to go for her, u'll end up having a shitty relationship without expressing true feelings

31 min later 7005315 Anonymous
Tell her you got the impression she doesn't want to talk to you, which you think is sad, because you enjoyed talking to her. This should prompt her to explain

33 min later 7005327 Anonymous
>>7005315 no it probably won't women are cowardly. she will spin some bullshit and op will accept it but things will never go back to how they were. it'll be awkward and rigid. just cut losses and move on. say hi or w/e but don't give her your full attention if she sits with you and don't go out of your way to interact.

36 min later 7005345 Anonymous
>>7005105 Text and ask her what the fuck.

40 min later 7005360 Anonymous
>>7005327 >say hi or w/e but don't give her your full attention if she sits with you and don't go out of your way to interact Do this if you want to be alone and have no GF and few friends.

46 min later 7005392 Anonymous (1364475063911.jpg 400x400 119kB)
>>7005268 This. Has happened to me a lot. I banged one of them, but not long after that she did an Irish Goodbye.

48 min later 7005398 Anonymous
>>7005360 No, that was good advice. This girl isn't worth OP's time, evidently and continuing to try and be her friend/ bf will only lose OP dignity and respect.

1 hours later 7005466 Anonymous
>>7005398 We don't know if the girl is worth OP's time. She failed to respond on telephone + message back, which is wierd and calls for an explanation. She could be messing around with his head, but she could also be shy/wierd or have a third reason we don't know about. Either way, OP wants to know why, which is why she needs to explain. Explaining does not come about by >cut losses and move on but rather by prompting her to explain >>7005315 I'm not saying OP should > continuing to try and be her friend/ bf but just ask what the reason was like a normal person.

8 hours later 7008819 Anonymous
>>7005105 You think she blushes. puking in mouth But seriously why do you think she did this? Newsflash. Shes not into you. Move along

8 hours later 7008831 Anonymous
>>7008819 Either that or she was doing something where she couldn't be interrupted. Try again and see if the same thing happens.

8 hours later 7008859 Anonymous
Two weeks is too long? Then what is the ideal time?

8 hours later 7008896 Fitzy
>>7005105 >Yesterday >Start talking to qt German foreign exchange student I've had a crush on all year >She thinks I'm funny and we talk in German for hours >She leaves for Germany on Thursday Well fuck

9 hours later 7008956 Anonymous
>>7005105 Fucking bitches man I swear >Taking cardio class >Lifting shit like a muthafucka /fit/ as fuck >Meet and talk to qt >Apparently she had the same Psychology class >Meet up to do HW, even visit park and river >Next day doesn't talk to me never responds again Fuck you valerie

9 hours later 7008961 Anonymous
>>7005105 The rational part of me is saying maybe she was just shy or something but the r9k hivemind in me is saying she is just a whore dont talk to whores get money fuck bitchs women are sluts who just have cum on their faces so why even bother you are probably just ugly anyway

9 hours later 7009003 Anonymous
>>7005268 >mfw I'm a normalfag male who does this to fat and ugly girls all the time I'm going to hell

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