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2013-03-26 02:52 6230460 Anonymous (image.jpg 300x220 25kB)
What do women think of men who had tons of past sexual partners? How many is too many?
I have had sex with 57 different women during my school years and some girls I've slept with thought it was hot but that they would never date me. Whats up with that?
2 min later 6230490 Anonymous
>>6230460
you are a piece of shit manwhore and only a slut would love you
3 min later 6230497 >TDW
>>6230490
i thought sluts couldn't love anybody, though?
3 min later 6230498 Anonymous
>>6230490
dont hate the player
hate the game breh
3 min later 6230500 Anonymous (pineapple is ok.jpg 430x394 27kB)
My boyfriend has slept with 100+ women, like i dont fetishize it or anything but its not a bad thing either.
4 min later 6230505 Anonymous
Because it talks about your inability to compromise and to be in a committed relationship with another person.
4 min later 6230510 Anonymous
>>6230497
i thought all women were sluts
5 min later 6230527 Anonymous
You're used goods. Your penis has been tainted by sluts and is too dirty for my virginal body.
6 min later 6230529 >TDW
>>6230510
using our weird brand of love-shy.com logic here that is compatible with my statement
it's just the first time i've heard someone imply that sluts will find meaningful companionship in their lives
6 min later 6230536 Anonymous
I aspire to be you (if it's true of course).
The sad truth is that the sexual cycle of society is fucked up and a small fraction of men get most of the sex. I can't change this so I try to benefit from it.
6 min later 6230543 Anonymous
I have a pretty big crush on a girl-crazy guy. I'll call him a qt, because you really have to be hot as fuck to be a male slut, but I wouldn't ever in my life let him near my mouth or genitals, out of fear of corrosion.
8 min later 6230556 Anonymous
I was a little upset when I learned that my bf fucked some 40 year old milf i hate, but I guess I'm over it now...at least he only had sex with her and the 19 year old he lost his virginity to.
Honestly, if a guy runs through a bunch of women, he has relationship problems and not even worth a fuck.
8 min later 6230557 Anonymous
>>6230543
But it is so worth it. You get a +30 moodlet when you have sex with him.
9 min later 6230562 Anonymous
you are a used up whore whose diseased and rotting dick is completely disgusting to everyone
11 min later 6230585 Anonymous
>>6230562
My dick has no STDs. Try again prude squad.
14 min later 6230612 Anonymous
>>6230606
Why should I lie if they don't care
17 min later 6230640 Anonymous
I'd prefer zero.
My problems with a sexually active partner:
>STD risk
>Baby mama drama risk
>Lingering physiological, psychological, and/or emotional connection to other women
>Weak will to resist physical desires
>Likely to be accepting of society's bullshit expectations of the "manly alpha male"
>Everything he does sexually, he probably learned from or practiced on someone else which is mentally and physically bothersome
>Comparing my performance to some contortionist or porn star
>Every swipe of the tongue or swivel of the hips has toughed another woman
One or two is possibly okay if they were youthful-passion-gone-out-of-contro l-now-I'm-abstinent things.
Three would be absolutely too many for me at this age (21). Maybe if he's late twenties or in his thirties three would be okay though. It really is very risky though as all three women probably wouldn't have been virgins themselves, refer to #1 on my list of problems with non virgin men.
20 min later 6230676 >TDW
oh hey and for what it's worth, op, i don't think i'd care too much
if you were a nympho that would bother me
if you had an STD that would DEFINITELY bother me
if you had a mindset where you valued your sexual conquests to the point that it affected your personality, that would also bother me
but just having sex with people is whatever
21 min later 6230684 Anonymous
>tfw lesbion best friend
>tfw she likes straight women
>tfw we tag team and be wing man out on the prowl
>tfw we have threesomes and foursome orgies with females
>tfw she is a great wing woman because she knows what women like
22 min later 6230698 Anonymous
>>6230663
why would they use those tactics if they want me and know i'm a loose slut?
22 min later 6230704 Anonymous
>>6230460
That's a pretty high number, I wouldn't say anything. I don't think yo uhave to be explicit about how many partners you've had. If you told me your number I'd judge you hard, and i wouldn't be able to help it. I'd rather not know.
Says the 30 year old who has only ever fucked my spouse
23 min later 6230710 Anonymous
I would literally kill myself if I had 57 different partners. Like wtf guys. Is this normal or am I just low libido?
24 min later 6230717 Anonymous
What do women think of men with no previous experience on dating/never had a gf?
24 min later 6230722 Anonymous
>>6230710
I have a high libedo and have a sex addiction. I get off on being a dirty slut.
25 min later 6230730 Anonymous
>>6230717
everyone already knows
>>6230710
most guys don't have anywhere close to that number
26 min later 6230736 Anonymous
>>6230717
I'd imagine they don't care for awhile, but getting into your twenties is strange. I would just not mention it. Hope they don't notice with sex.
27 min later 6230746 Anonymous
>>6230557
But I'd feel like shit when he'd just put his dick on some other girl. Being a slut hurts everyone.
28 min later 6230760 Anonymous
>>6230717
I actually prefer it.
see
>>6230640
29 min later 6230774 >TDW
>>6230717
this also wouldn't bother me. i would like for my first time to be with someone who's actually good at sex, not as incompetent as i would be though
29 min later 6230777 Anonymous
personally i'd be horrified/disgusted to find a guy I was with has been with 10+ girls, but i've only been with one guy so i'm behind the average 23 year old lady and i'm very sexually vanilla
>nothing sexual you do together would be new/exciting/special to him
>thinking about his penis in so many frog holes when he wants to put it in my mouth
>dat shit isn't going in my vagina either
>would probably only be able to bear giving him a hand job
>statistically guaranteed he has at least one std, condoms don't protect against several stds
>having more sexual partners makes you more likely to divorce and have unhappy relationships in the future
31 min later 6230804 Anonymous
>>6230640
Someone who is sexually active should be getting tested regularly, preferrably every 3 months. It's been a while since my last test but I've only had sex once since then. The only one I'm concerned about is HIV, everything else is either curable or I would know with symptoms.
32 min later 6230808 Anonymous
>>6230746
Except the slut himself. He's just having a good time.
34 min later 6230831 Anonymous
>>6230777
That's why a guy would never tell you. I've had girls interested in me ask me my number and I refuse to tell them. Also, gives some air of mystery to me.
It's 13. The number is 13.
38 min later 6230858 Anonymous
>>6230831
at the same time it's pretty easy to tell if a guy has been with more than a few girls, especially if he won't say, that would probably creep me out a bit
38 min later 6230860 Anonymous (hypocrite2damax.jpg 878x1127 259kB)
Don't worry about what they think.
40 min later 6230882 Anonymous
>>6230858
how is it easy so that i can fake people out
42 min later 6230894 Anonymous
>>6230878
asking a potential partner of their sexual history is perfectly normal, male or female
43 min later 6230907 Anonymous
>>6230894
yeah if you are a sexist cis scum white male who is a pedophile
43 min later 6230911 Anonymous
>>6230858
I think I would be just as likely to withhold that info if I had been with 0-1 people.
Also, sex is not reflective. I've done everything but with plenty of chicks. Probably around 3:1 with my sex number
47 min later 6230938 Anonymous
>>6230860
You know, I am not usually one to defend a woman, but for Christ sake you cherry picked the shit out of that thing. If you finish the paragraph about the pictures she said she feels super bad about, wishes she had not done it, and was bullied into doing it.
So she doesn't want a man whore and she has made some mistakes in the past. Sounds like a true fembot to me.
48 min later 6230948 Anonymous
>>6230882
his confidence, how quickly he will get sexual, his skill, his general aura... I know men on either sides of the spectrum and they are a day and night difference, it's amazing how much of a difference getting sex regularly makes with men
>>6230907
if I am honest about my sexual past then when I ask him back and he says something like "why does it matter" or "you don't want to know", i'm not going near his cock
48 min later 6230954 Anonymous
>>6230938
>So she doesn't want a man whore and she has made some mistakes in the past. Sounds like a true fembot to me.
>like a true fembot
so....like a hypocrite, yeah
50 min later 6230977 Anonymous
57? Jesus christ. I wouldn't be all that bothered by 10 women but 57? That's unappealing...STDs or not. You have to be pretty fucking obsessed with hitting and quitting girls to get that number, and obviously don't have many long term relationships...
Also you most likely slept with slutty girls, I don't want a dick that's been in contact with that inside me.
50 min later 6230979 Anonymous
>>6230948
I was pretty good my first time. Lasted for a long time, and stayed hard for all of it. The older someone is, the more likely they are to seem experienced when they lose their virginity (I was 18)
51 min later 6230988 Anonymous
>>6230954
Everyone makes mistakes, especially when they are bullied into by guilt from their peers. You're being harsh because you have never felt the touch of a woman. If you ever do want the feel of a woman, you need to lighten up and not be so judgmental.
51 min later 6230997 Anonymous
>>6230988
0/10
you gotta at least try a little
51 min later 6231000 Anonymous
>>6230954
A male prostitute does not equal sending flirty pictures which she regrets.
52 min later 6231006 Anonymous
>>6231000
Yeah at least the guy is getting paid for being a whore LOL XD
53 min later 6231011 Anonymous
>>6230997
Not trolling, totally serious. Women are people too.
53 min later 6231023 Anonymous
>>6231000
Manslut *
55 min later 6231040 Anonymous
>>6230988
I don't blame him for being judgmental as fuck considering women are the most judgmental individuals on the planet.
55 min later 6231042 Anonymous
I am a good looking, /fit/ 20 year old virgin male, completely untainted. Get at me ladies.
55 min later 6231045 Anonymous
>>6230460
I dislike them. They're disgusting. That's why I can relate to the attitude of robots towards promiscuous women
56 min later 6231057 Anonymous
>>6230948
Alright, tons of girls flirt with me and I flirt back. I have that confident outlook on life and make witty sexual jokes in conversations. I dress quite slutty too (deep v's, three buttons unbuttoned shirt, short shorts, skinny jeans).
Though I'm still a virgin but I give off that bad boy persona. Do girls know my secret or have I fooled them into thinking I am getting laid all the time?
57 min later 6231067 Anonymous (post-hot-guy.jpg 300x400 19kB)
>>6230684
ITS LIKE SUPERHEROS
59 min later 6231092 Anonymous
Because it says something about your ability to settle down, as well a how good you are at getting women to sleep with you. There's an inherent fear of you cheating. Also, girls may be afraid of you comparing them to past sexual partners, which also gives you no inducement not to cheat.
59 min later 6231104 Anonymous
>>6230684
Holy shit that sounds amazing.
59 min later 6231105 Anonymous
>>6230938
>friends
>bullied
>still friends with person who bullied her
Yeah, go whiteknight more faggit.
1 hours later 6231116 Anonymous
It's complicated, it's weird but at the same time the best guys are the ones who get with the most women, for obvious reasons. You can't have the best of both worlds.
1 hours later 6231122 Anonymous
>>6231057
believe me, you don't give off a bad boy persona (and don't write that off as a negative thing)
1 hours later 6231156 Anonymous
>>6231099
I have no reason to lie, and if the guy knew me well enough for us to start dating he would probably know i'm telling the truth... a socially retarded girl with no friends and never goes out except for work has only been with one guy at 23, surprise surprise
1 hours later 6231171 Anonymous
>>6230988
You're saying, because she feels bad about it, it means shes allowed to be a hypocrite and that we can't call her out on it?
The point of regretting something is that you know what you did and acknowledge it. You don't go right ahead and after saying you want virgin men who are pure and not have sexual relations with people, and then just forget that you did something similar. You acknowledge you did it, and acknowledge that its something people do, instead of being a prude asshole about it when other people do it(because of the guilt?).
1 hours later 6231182 Anonymous
>tfw my girlfriend lasted a minute in bed
>tfw she says she is too sore for any more sex
>tfw blue balls
>tfw i was angry at her for getting off so quickly
>tfw i storm off into the night while she is crying after me
>tfw i called up some girl and fucked her brains out that night and came all over her face and inside her with no condom
>tfw i drove back to cuddle with my crying girlfriend
>tfw i told her i went out for a cigarette and some taco bell
1 hours later 6231194 Anonymous
>>6231105
I'm not saying she isn't retarded, if she is still friends with the ones who treat her like shit then she is. What is more pathetic than that is people whining and wallowing in their own self pity on a message board because they refuse to realize that women are not some all powerful being that withhold sex because they are all "Bitches and Whores". As I said before women are people too, there are stupid ones, smart ones, pretty ones, ugly ones, mean ones, and nice ones etc. You are just too blinded by your own self hatred and loathing for them to realize that they aren't any more powerful then you are and/or the power you give to them.
1 hours later 6231196 Anonymous
>>6231122
what makes you say that. people assume i have wild sex and do hard drugs
1 hours later 6231214 Anonymous
>>6231194
Where did you take all of that from? I know there are different types of people, but that picture is the post of a hypocritical stupid one. She doesn't represent the whole, as you seem to think I'm thinking.
1 hours later 6231228 Anonymous
>>6231171
Let me try to break this down for you
> You kill someone
> You feel bad about
> But, you don't want to be with a murder and want another chance to prove you aren't a horrible person.
Did she not acknowledge it ?
1 hours later 6231238 Anonymous
>>6231196
Okay this particular one is stupid, I guess we can agree upon that.
1 hours later 6231250 Anonymous
You're a slut, that's "what's up with that"
1 hours later 6231254 Anonymous
>>6231228
> You kill someone
> You feel bad about
> But, you don't want to be with a murder and want another chance to prove you aren't a horrible person.
>Then someone on Fox news went on a killing spree
>You go onto forums to express just how horrible that person is, and how he deserves death himself.
Is more exact. Hypocrite, yes?
1 hours later 6231268 Anonymous
>some girls I've slept with thought it was hot but that they would never date me
i've had this problem multiple times and i'm not even hot. i'm a fat piece of shit. it's like... so... you're just using me for my body and my body is LITERALLY my worst aspect
bitches
1 hours later 6231272 Anonymous
>Whats up with that
You're clearly a manwhore who is most likely incapable of handling a proper relationship. Also risk of STDs, cheating, etc.
1 hours later 6231280 Anonymous
>>6231116
Finally, one girl actually tells the truth.
1 hours later 6231298 Anonymous
On the flip side, would women not want to go near you if you're a good-looking 25 year old virgin?
1 hours later 6231320 Anonymous
>>6231298
We already know the answer to this, bro.
1 hours later 6231345 Anonymous
>>6231298
just don't tell them you're a virgin. better if they just simply think you're inexperienced.
1 hours later 6231348 Anonymous
>>6230640
No one actually compares people.
i had sex with my 15th girl a couple of nights ago (not too many girls i know) but i don't think i've ever compared girls sexually.
There was one girl with a loose vagina and the rest have been pretty tight.
If anything i compare relationships much more that i ever would or could a one night stand.
1 hours later 6231353 Anonymous
>>6231182
alphaasfuck/10
1 hours later 6231380 Anonymous
>>6231298
No, they wouldn't.
Women want high counts only.
1 hours later 6231390 Anonymous
Women love it.
I'm 26 and I've been dating my now wife since I was 16. She's very good looking and I love her but I've cheated on her with 21 different women. They all knew I was with someone and they all knew I was this sort of man.
Don't be fooled.
1 hours later 6231398 Anonymous
G'damn. I only had sex with one girl because I felt that I want a girl who I'd love would prefer a partner with less sexual partners.
Fuck this shit, I'm just gonna do it with any girls >5/10 and not sluts
2 hours later 6231841 Anonymous
>>6231228
>>6231228
There are instances all over through every barrier where people will acknowledge[at that time and only that time]] they did something wrong to either: get away from a situation(apology), or pretend to be an all knowing sage(I am so experienced mang).
There are indeed people who do acknowledge what they've done, but that girl certainly hasn't from her post.
Example: Someone steals from Walmart. They are caught. They apologize and say "I shouldn't have stolen I'm sorry, I did the wrong thing" and such. The security lets him off scott-free. This someone now just moves onto a new Walmart, instead of the one he previously stole from. He [briefly] acknowledged it, does it mean he learned from it? No.
She hasn't learned from it. And she's still preaching about purity with your partner. Ridiculous.
2 hours later 6231869 Anonymous
FACT: Men are more insecure than women. The minute a man tells a woman he's slept with a ton of women in the past, she'll brush it off. The minute a woman tells a man she's slept with 3 guys in the past, he'll hold a burning grudge of distrust towards her from henceforth.
Fucking weak male faggots.
2 hours later 6231885 Anonymous
>>6231869
To be fair, the system at the current moment benefits women, more than it benefits men.
2 hours later 6231898 Anonymous
Dealbreakers:
>ever had casual sex
>ever had gay sex
>ever been in a threesome
>fucked more than 3 girls in relationships
>ever cheated
>would ever want a threesome
>has ever fucked a nonwhite girl
>inb4 buttdamage/insults
Stay angry, whores.
2 hours later 6232216 Anonymous
>>6231228
Also GJ on being a bitch and defending someone you don't even know for the sole basis of VAGINAS ARMIGAWD.
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