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2013-02-03 05:14 5514816 Anonymous (5f58778931eeaed131e4a61ce6b9f1f2.jpg 650x655 246kB)
My girlfriend and I want to will til marriage for sex. She's smart, beautiful, and a very kind person. She's a devoted woman and has expressed great enthusiasm at the thought of bearing my children. She is family centered like me and we have good relationships with our parents. We are both used to taking care of children. She has a stern but loving father who guided her to the right paths in her life. It was only proper for me to get his approval and blessing to date and marry her. She'll be leaving her full time job to prepare for being a wife and mother. She will take a less stressful, lower paying job to make time for family.

1 min later 5514826 Anonymous
She will divorce you leaving you with no woman, no kid and no money either. Not like this story is real.

1 min later 5514829 Anonymous
Too bad she's already cheating on you.

2 min later 5514839 Anonymous
shes getting some dick on the side OP, while she uses you for emotional support

5 min later 5514872 Anonymous
>she will take a less stressful job to take care of the family >a smart woman So you took her dreams and career away from her but are unable to fully support her. Good luck when she realizes she made a mistake and is now your and your childrens maid while also working part time

8 min later 5514893 Anonymous
>want to will til marriage for sex Huh?

11 min later 5514914 Anonymous
>>5514816 >My girlfriend and I want to will til marriage for sex Fuck everyone talking about divorce, what I'm concerned for is your sex life. Your wife should give you the most satisfying, gratifying, amazing sex you've ever had. You can't know that she will unless you two try it out first.

15 min later 5514935 Anonymous
>>5514914 NOPE. I don't subscribe to "modern" ideas of what a relationship is. Treat a lady like a lady. you are too focused on sex too.

15 min later 5514936 Anonymous
Is that your gf in the picture OP?

16 min later 5514945 Pachacutec
You're both great people and I hope nothing but the best for you. c:

16 min later 5514949 Anonymous
>>5514935 You're infected with love. Have fun with arguments and divorce after 3 years. Have fun having to pay 50% of your payment to her from whatever work you got. The kids part? Have fun.

17 min later 5514952 Anonymous
this thread is strong in patriarchy

18 min later 5514960 Anonymous
>>5514826 >every marriage breaks down jesus christ do you even leave the house?

18 min later 5514967 Anonymous
>>5514816 you're doing a good thing OP, ignore these bitter neckbeards they no absolutely nothing about real life.

18 min later 5514971 Anonymous
>>5514949 We've been dating for 5 years already. We've worked through our differences and we had fights but we worked it out like adults. It strengthened our commitment to each other.

19 min later 5514974 Anonymous
Is this you, OP? >>5514431

20 min later 5514982 Anonymous
>>5514960 not him, but of course, it's possible to win the lottery too.

23 min later 5515004 Anonymous
>>5514982 haha you assume I live in the feminist plagued west. I live in a place where male and female sexuality is not frowned upon. Women are feminine and men are masculine.

24 min later 5515013 Anonymous
Marriage is a waste of time. Why show to the world that you are a happy couple and waste money to make a big party? That doesn't make sense to me... Your wife is smart? Then why is she wasting her life with a "low stress job" just to take care of her family while you are the family boss? Or she isn't that smart after all... You want kids? Why not adopt? Do you think you are so special to the point you must have kids? Your genes probably are not that good. You and your wife are just another cliche couple.

25 min later 5515021 Anonymous
>>5515013 7 fucking billion people in the world and people still want to make more...Godammit.

26 min later 5515029 Anonymous
>I'm going to marry a woman with absolutely no knowledge of sexual chemistry who is going to quit her job and ostensibly work part time but in reality just become a housewife. >What why are all you virgin neckbeards claiming that asymmetrical, traditional marriage is a failed institution which usually fails and screws over the man given modern culture and mores? The statistics don't apply to me we are in LOVE. Ok op. Have fun with that.

28 min later 5515041 Anonymous
>>5515029 you assume again that I live in the states where marriage laws are fucked up. >>5515013 yeah go ahead and insult my girl for having class and accepting her role as a woman instead of hating on it.

30 min later 5515063 Anonymous
good on you OP. Apparently to many people a relationship without sex isn't a relationship at all even if you go through your problems like adults and work it out.

31 min later 5515070 Anonymous
>>5515041 Europe is just as bad. Indian/east asian culture the marriage might last as an economic/cultural institution even if you don't love each other, I guess. Where do you live?

35 min later 5515107 Anonymous
>>5515070 philippines South East Asia. Some really nice girls here and feminism is weak here because girls can see the BS it spouts.

39 min later 5515141 Anonymous
>>5515041 You kinda said it in a wrong way. Her role in your society. Because in other cultures men is the submissive gender. >inb4 hurr women is always the bitch

40 min later 5515149 Anonymous
>>5515013 kid, just stop, you have no idea how retarded you sound.

40 min later 5515152 Anonymous
>>5514971 Good for you! Don't let those liberal scum weigh you down. This is how a gentlemen does it.

41 min later 5515158 Anonymous (marriagepartnernumber.jpg 500x519 59kB)
is she a virgin? no? then there's really no point in waiting pic related

42 min later 5515170 Anonymous
>>5514935 I wrote that and I am a lady. Or at least, I have a vagina. My boyfriend is into feet and assplay and while he's satisfied without either, it would cause problems in a life-long relationship. He'd look at ass porn, I'd feel bad about myself because he had to turn to someone/something else, and the downward cycle of low self-esteem and resentment would begin. Or, flip side, I'm into rape-play and really rough sex. If he was one of those "I can never hit a woman" gentlemanly types that I'm sometimes attracted to outside the bedroom, I know I wouldn't be able to have a satisfying, long-term sexual relationship with him. I'd start to seek that domination elsewhere, and end up breaking up with him before I inevitably cheated. Think about it.

43 min later 5515175 Anonymous
>>5515149 and why? blo0x

43 min later 5515180 Anonymous
>>5515029 this chart is also directed at you >>5515158 >implying sexual promiscuity is a good thing >implying women aren't most happy and fulfilled taking a motherly role

43 min later 5515181 Anonymous
>>5515158 she's a virgin and 24 years old. I'm 27 and I'm a virgin too

47 min later 5515212 Anonymous
>>5515141 Which cultures are these?

51 min later 5515244 Stacks
I'm pretty darn gelatinous over this... ;_____;

51 min later 5515245 Anonymous
>>5515212 backwards matriarchal societies which already run on feminist ideals even before the west thought of it. http://news.nationalgeographic.com/ news/2009/06/090619-fathers-day-200 9-no-fathers.html

52 min later 5515262 Anonymous
>>5515212 Arapesh- no diference between men and women. Both sweet among each other. Mundugunos- same thing but both are agressive. Chambuli- men is the bitch. I guess that's all I can remember.

55 min later 5515281 Anonymous
>>5515181 I don't believe that but good luck anyway

56 min later 5515291 Jaded
>Inb4 she gets drunk and fucks an alpha and OP is back here in a couple of months saying bitches and whores.

56 min later 5515294 Anonymous
>>5515262 exceptions are not the rule

57 min later 5515306 Anonymous
>>5514816 You conservatards are so cute when being so proud of your silly backwards ways.

57 min later 5515309 Anonymous
>>5515294 I'm sorry, sunshine. So yeah, the women's role is being submissive. >inb4 feminist

58 min later 5515316 Anonymous
>turn out to be sexually incompatible >she fucks an alpha cock >gets addicted to alpha cock >she turns into a whore begging for cocks like my own >OP will be back screaming bitches and whores Yup.

59 min later 5515320 Anonymous
Dear men of 4chan; If you want a relationship like this... a) stop thinking it needs to happen right away. It won't b) don't look for sex/ casual relationships. Good girls exist but if you sleep around then they won't like you. c) stop being disgusting creatures who watch abusive porn. Just stop watching porn in general

1 hours later 5515337 Anonymous
>>5515306 go cry about your used up cheating whore and how you'll never find anyone worthwhile to commit to

1 hours later 5515338 Anonymous
>>5515181 SEE HOW OP IS A 27 YEAR OLD VIRGIN AND NOT EXTREMELY DEPRESSED AND ANGRY???? THAT'S WHAT YOU GUYS NEED TO DO. YOU IDIOTS DON'T UNDERSTAND THAT BEING A VIRGIN PAST 20 IS A GOOD THING - IT MEANS YOU AREN'T TRASH

1 hours later 5515357 Anonymous
>>5515212 why should we adopt some backwards tribe culture who probably also practice superstition and cannibalism face it, every first world high progress country was built on the traditional nuclear family and you call us backwards

1 hours later 5515358 Anonymous
>>5515337 Did I make the babby mad? I can just imagine you foaming at your stupid neanderthal mouth while calling for Jesus or Allah or whatever stupid shit you subscribe to.

1 hours later 5515383 Anonymous
>>5515357 >>5515357 >implying changes are not good

1 hours later 5515384 Anonymous
>>5515170 So you subscribe to the bitches and whore theory

1 hours later 5515391 Anonymous
>>5515384 >bitches and whore theory explain

1 hours later 5515411 Anonymous
>>5515170 I am a woman and you are an idiot for sticking things in your butthole and enjoying abuse fantasies. You could become diaper bound and are prolly a psychological mess.

1 hours later 5515423 Anonymous
>>5515383 >cannot prove its change for the better >just change for the sake of change bet you voted for Obama because he's black too

1 hours later 5515448 Anonymous
>>5515411 To each their own, different strokes for different folks, etc etc. For pure honesty's sake I'm not into assplay and only worked myself up to letting him put it in my pooper yesterday morn.

1 hours later 5515449 Anonymous
>>5515358 >U MAD?! OHHH HE MADDD HE JUST MAD Why would I be mad when all of r9k makes the same shit threads all day about misogyny, cheating girlfriends, how women cannot be trusted and shit? I have the whole board to testify to your hypocritical bullshit libfag. Cry moar.

1 hours later 5515499 Anonymous
You people are so fucking easy to troll, man.

1 hours later 5515527 Anonymous (plnO6.jpg 500x380 77kB)
>>5515499 oh you so fahhnnnyy

1 hours later 5515544 Anonymous
>>5515158 This chart makes no sense What is it based on? Worldwide? USA? The west? Judging by the fact there is no label, I'm going to assume worldwide If it's worldwide, you have to take into account countries like India and countries with arranged marriages where divorce rates are low because it is socially unacceptable to divorce, you are literally shunned by your family for it. Most of those people are not in happy marriages and are only together because they have to be. Most people do not marry as virgins in the western world so I don't think the west plays a huge part in the first result. Again I'd take countries with arranged marriages as the majority but even then they're only together for convenience/social pressures, it's probably the only reasons why they don't divorce. Seriously, I'm so damn tired of seeing this thing and the people who don't think about factors like that.

1 hours later 5515600 Anonymous
>>5515544 You know what I'm more tired of? I'm more damn tired with you sexually liberalized demons in the western world with this supposedly "successful" formula for getting mates yet all of you here complain about >tfw when no gf >tfw 28 yr old virgin arranged marriages fixes all of that

1 hours later 5515667 Anonymous (11432462342.jpg 358x191 18kB)
>>5514816 I've seen this happen multiple times: despite men being told about how marriage nowadays isn't worth it, and how untrustworthy the average woman is, they still go ahead and get married anyway. Every man thinks that HIS woman is different. "She wouldn't cheat on me, she wouldn't divorce me!" I'll tell you something right now: hypergamy is a very real phenomenon, and it is only getting worse. The family unit was carefully built and preserved for thousands of years, and it only took a few decades to completely destroy it with feminism. Only when you have your children and assets taken from you, and your heart shattered, will you realize your sorry mistakes. But by then, it will be too late.

1 hours later 5515686 Anonymous
>>5515667 Thus spoke Schopy.

1 hours later 5515687 Anonymous
>>5515667 OP does not live in a feminist plagued society

1 hours later 5515722 Anonymous
>>5515544 >If it's worldwide, you have to take into account countries like India and countries with arranged marriages where divorce rates are low because it is socially unacceptable to divorce, you are literally shunned by your family for it. Most of those people are not in happy marriages and are only together because they have to be. where is your source for this? no, you're liberal show about struggling Indian girl in NY getting an arranged marriage doesn't count.

1 hours later 5515785 Anonymous
>>5515722 gah,read as your*

2 hours later 5515958 Anonymous
>>5515544 It's from a survey done by the Centers for Disease Control of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. Things like religion and wealth are taken into account.

2 hours later 5515972 Anonymous
>>5515544 >Most of those people are not in happy marriages and are only together because they have to be. Source? >I don't think the west plays a huge part in the first result. Source? >it's probably the only reasons why they don't divorce. Source?

2 hours later 5515993 Anonymous
>>5515316 >sexually incompatible The only time this might be a thing is with people with scat or necrophilia or another extreme fetish.

3 hours later 5516815 Anonymous
>>5515013 >2013 >confusing weddings with marriage You do know weddings aren't necessary for marriage, right? They're purely a social construct.

6 hours later 5518489 Anonymous
>hurr durr sexual compatibility God forbid you just talk about it before getting married.

6 hours later 5518520 Anonymous
>>5516815 I kinda have the excuse that english is not my first language. Now I know the diference. Thanks (no sarcasm)

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