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2019-06-21 01:40 53004210 Anonymous (1487250000495.png 708x602 358kB)
How do you get over the trauma of being bullied?

1 min later 53004235 Anonymous
it's natural be a man, grow up and defend yourself fag

3 min later 53004255 Anonymous
Join a martial art, learn to beat the shit out of other men. That's what I did. I'll never be intimidated by a man again because I know I can beat the shit out of most guys just because I've trained myself and other men like to hug and wrestle when they fight.

3 min later 53004256 Anonymous
>>53004210 You stand up to the bully, earn his respect, and then join his crew in bullying other people that actually are wusses.

4 min later 53004261 Anonymous
>>53004235 some truth to this. if someone fucks with you, just fuck back. even if you're a manlet most actual bullies don't want the trouble. getting hit hurts even if it's some 5'6" faggot who has to jump in the air to reach your nose. some psychopathic fucks probably do want to kill you, though, so don't fuck with strangers

6 min later 53004287 Anonymous
>>53004255 which martial art did you do? I've noticed that's where most martial artists fail in the stupid street fight videos I watch -- they don't know how to respond to getting grappled in any way

10 min later 53004314 Anonymous
What a faggot. How about you grow up first? You won't get over it, get over it. If you can't become the bully and make sure that something like that never happens to you again then you might as well kill yourself.

11 min later 53004327 Anonymous
>>53004287 That's because they train retarded bullshit. Join an mma gym.

11 min later 53004328 Anonymous
>>53004287 Boxing. Most guys don't know how to properly grapple so that's a non issue. Just don't get into a fight with a mixed martial artist.

18 min later 53004409 Anonymous (Chronic_Traumatic_Encephalopathy.png 784x455 362kB)
OP here. How do I learn to fight without giving myself brain damage?

19 min later 53004411 Anonymous
>>53004261 >>53004235 >>53004255 >>53004256 If you can say something like this, you have't experienced bullying at an inner city american public school. If you fight back, you're getting jumped by all of the bully's cronies and beat bloody. And you're getting jumped again the next day too. The worst part? Even if you, against all odds, win the fight, someone's gonna tell a teacher you were the aggressor and the teacher is going to listen to them over you, as they have better social skills and there are more of them+ will have the support of any witnesses. Once you get in trouble for it, it's game over for you. You'll be lucky if they let you finish high school. The BEST case scenario is it going on your record and you kissing any chance of going to college goodbye (this happened to me). Trust me, your best move is to just change schools or literally fucking hide from them (in the restroom if you have to).

22 min later 53004444 Anonymous
>>53004411 >If you can say something like this, you have't experienced bullying at an inner city american public school. If you fight back, you're getting jumped by all of the bully's cronies and beat bloody. And you're getting jumped again the next day too. The worst part? Even if you, against all odds, win the fight, someone's gonna tell a teacher you were the aggressor and the teacher is going to listen to them over you, as they have better social skills and there are more of them+ will have the support of any witnesses. Once you get in trouble for it, it's game over for you. You'll be lucky if they let you finish high school. The BEST case scenario is it going on your record and you kissing any chance of going to college goodbye (this happened to me). Trust me, your best move is to just change schools or literally fucking hide from them (in the restroom if you have to). what a fucking bitch you are. jesus christ, find your balls

26 min later 53004486 Anonymous
>>53004409 First you can stop acting like a bitch. You're more than likely not going to become some professional fighter who fights for years against other professional athletes who have spent their entire lives training. You'll usually wear head protection.

28 min later 53004499 Anonymous
>>53004411 that's actually probably true. I was thinking about scrapping with ordinary meatheads. idk how to get over the trauma anon. luckily it sounds like most of the US isn't like that outside of prison

28 min later 53004504 Anonymous
>>53004444 I'm sorry for actually giving reasonable advice in this thread instead of acting like a toughguy/edgelord in order to cope. If you actually ever beat your bully's ass instead of fantasizing about it jerking yourself off for being a tough guy you'd know full well what actually happens.

29 min later 53004515 Anonymous
>>53004411 I grew up around gang members anon. Everyone in the hood fucking boxed, are you kidding me? The gang members are the guys who got me interested in boxing in the first place, the cholos from OCTX3. If you don't fight back, you're a fucking victim. I learned that the hard way. Same rules apply in prison. You let someone take your biscuit, everyone takes your biscuit. In the hood, if you let someone punk you, everyone is going to come outside punking you. >Once you get in trouble for it, it's game over for you. You'll be lucky if they let you finish high school Fuck off, you get a goddamn 2 day suspension for fighting where I'm from. What a huge fucking bitch you are, no wonder everyone kicked your ass.

33 min later 53004551 Anonymous
>>53004504 please tell me what will happen when a bully tries to fight me and gets a 8 inch kabar blade right in their abdomen what happens next?

35 min later 53004583 Anonymous (E6841939-2BB0-4059-80F4-CB651CE4E042.jpg 710x953 759kB)
>>53004411 >j-j-just don't fight back anon! >d-d-don't be a man, just h-h-hide in the restrooms! >oh shit, is that Tyrone??! Act like a fucking man for once in your goddamned life.

35 min later 53004584 Anonymous
he a gud pitbul he walkin hisself around town he sniffer flourers poleece brootalitee

36 min later 53004596 Anonymous
>>53004551 all the stacies are like "holy shit did you hear anon is a psycho?? gross!!!" and you get expelled and have to go to a special school for retards. t. expelled to retard school

39 min later 53004638 Anonymous
>>53004515 There's a clear dichotomy between people deciding to throw hands and getting bullied. If someone fight over some shit, then yeah, the best course of action is to just fight. If a group of guys repeatedly harass you when you have no beef at all, just for shits and giggles or to fuck with you (past the first month or so of school), its different. Then, it's actually bullying, and you'll get the reaction described. Not sure where the whole 2 day suspension thing comes from. From where I went to school (Ohio), you would either get off 100% scot free or you were more or less iced. From what I can gather from your post you're from the southwest?

42 min later 53004661 Anonymous
>>53004583 You can make whatever decisions you want anon. I tried the fighting route and things didn't work out for me even though I won the fight (which you would know if you didn't have nigger tier reading comprehension). Whether or not I'm the exception or the rule, who knows? The only advice I can give is from experience.

44 min later 53004688 Anonymous
>>53004661 look dipship, if several people attempt to beat you up, you have the full weight of the law to use lethal force to defend yourself. at that point you are fighting for your life. i dont know what your point is other than explaining how much of a bitch you are

44 min later 53004689 Anonymous
>>53004638 >If a group of guys repeatedly harass you when you have no beef at all, just for shits and giggles or to fuck with you (past the first month or so of school), its different. Then, it's actually bullying, and you'll get the reaction described Never happened like that with me. You call out one of the guys and throw them hoes. If you're lucky, like I was, you'll end up becoming acquainted with some of the gang members and they won't let you get jumped, which probably won't happen. >From what I can gather from your post you're from the southwest? Close. Dallas TX, considered the South. >>53004661 >which you would know if you didn't have nigger tier reading comprehension No, I saw that. But I'm insulting you because you're seriously suggesting that people hide in the fucking bathrooms. Fighting back will save your self image and self esteem. Hiding will solidify the fact that you're a huge bitch in your own head. I've seen some of my friendliest homeboys fight their bullies and they never got fucked with again. Maybe you were dealing with a particularly violent bunch but most bullies fuck with people they know they can make victims out of. If you don't make yourself an easy lick, they'll leave you alone.

59 min later 53004840 Anonymous
>>53004210 Oh my god yes! TRUE STORY TIME! >be me sophomore year >dating girl whos older brother was the biggest bitch in the world! >her brother is 6 years older than her and has been to prison >dresses like a wannabe gangbanger >acts like a spick and or nigger all the time >hes white as can be >listens to rap and has a real Im a big man mentality >when ever he visited her and I was around he would act like a fucking asshole and tell me if we were in the pen he would have stomped me >find out a little while later from her oldest brother he was beaten hard for talking shit his first week and was punked out the rest of his 3 year sentence If you dont know what punked out means it means he was fucked and the made someones bitch >big black dude and his buddies fucking this skinny white guy anytime they want >he called his big brother crying telling them what happened but since it was only word of mouth they couldnt do anything Pretty much could never look at him the same way and for the last year of our relationship anytime I saw this dude I would fucking laugh hard and he never could make me upset again

1 hours later 53005314 Anonymous
>>53004551 the bully dies and you win at life that's the only thing that could happen

1 hours later 53005330 Anonymous (1560128245096.webm 500x500 2002kB)
>>53004210 You become the bully Oreg

1 hours later 53005336 Anonymous
>>53004411 >If you fight back, you're getting jumped by all of the bully's cronies and beat bloody. Or better yet: if you fight back, suddenly you're the bully, and not them.

3 hours later 53006212 Anonymous
If you try to fight back like all those keyboard warriors say you'll get raped according to experience

3 hours later 53006256 Anonymous
>>53006212 So your bullies had sex with you?

3 hours later 53006319 Anonymous
>>53004210 >got bullied >became one for a bit >now I just dont care to bother with anyone and bite back if I have to I know, I cant compete with the likes of Coldsteel, but fuck it I will take it if it means I dont have to listen to a bunch of mouth breathers blab on. >>53004411 Helps to be on the rifle team and be known as that gun guy. Everyone is a hardass until the heaters come out :^) also fuck the cucks who support that bullshit system, whoever decided that just lying down and taking it up the ass with no lube was a good idea should be beaten with a cinder block. >>53004638 I can tell you firsthand that if you just sit down and take it it would only get worse. At the very least call them a bunch of gay lovers or some shit, something that would bite back but not sound completely autistic, you will look like you have some balls. And who gives a shit what a bunch of whores think, they are literally walking examples of groupthink anyways.

3 hours later 53006345 Anonymous
>>53004261 I have always hid sharp things on my body for protection for years. If someone gets stabbed they usually stop fighting as hard. Don't wanna be stabbed don't touch people, not my fault I don't play the social game I don't care about fairness or honor or respect, I only care about myself and will defend myself from any aggression as though it means my life. didn't stop verbal bullying, oh it's easy to bully the bigger kid because he's scary when angry, fuck you I didnt ask for shit, its the worlds fault im this way, action reaction, how the fuck was i supposed to react god damn it, I dont like being fucking touched it was his fucking fault not mine his his his and he knows that now. fuck you

3 hours later 53006393 Anonymous
>>53004210 Do kids actually seriously get beat up by bullies? Is it like an american thing? I thought that just happened in movies. I felt i got bullied super hard but that just boiled down to social austrication and being relentlessly made fun off.

3 hours later 53006409 Anonymous
>>53006393 Ive had bullies get physical for me, and we get in fights. I've never seen someone just walk up to someone and punch them or something like that

3 hours later 53006464 Anonymous
>>53006345 based, fuck others feelings just protect yourselves in this world bros

3 hours later 53006495 Anonymous
>>53004688 his point is you can win the fight and then get expelled for it. You consider that a victory?

3 hours later 53006513 Anonymous
>>53006495 Apparently it depends on where you are. In Texas, it's two days out of school. So yeah its worth it.

3 hours later 53006533 Anonymous
>>53006513 >>53006495 And actually, after googling, it's very rare that a student gets expelled for fighting since it's such a common occurrence. You'd have to get into fights regularly to get expelled.

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