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2019-03-27 12:06 51655706 Anonymous (whites cant be robots.jpg 1984x1115 134kB)
I never bought into /r9k/ misogyny, but how do fembots/non-misogynists explain this?: >Everyone knows it can be difficult to keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship - but research suggests that it's women who go off the boil first. >A study has found that women in relationships lasting for over a year were more likely to lose interest in sex than those who had been with their partner for a shorter period of time. >Men, on the other hand, did not lose interest over time - reporting that their sex drive was equally strong no matter how long they had been in the relationship. >Women who lived with a partner were also more at risk of having a low sex drive, and were twice as likely to report a lack of interest in sex than their male counterparts. https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/20 17/09/14/women-likely-lose-interest -sex-long-term-relationships/ So even if you DO manage to get a gf, she'll get bored of you and only get turned on by stranger-chads?

19 min later 51655817 Anonymous
>>51655706 I don't see the problem. You just leave her if it comes to this.

29 min later 51655863 Anonymous
>>51655817 And then what? Date another woman and then the same thing happens a year later? You'll never have a proper long-term relationship in that case.

31 min later 51655872 Anonymous
Also >whites cant be robots.jpg OP is full of shit.

33 min later 51655880 Anonymous
>>51655872 It's true though, they can't. Every other race wants white men.

35 min later 51655894 Anonymous
>>51655880 Even if you belong to the most desired race that still doesn't mean you can't be ugly

39 min later 51655927 Anonymous
>>51655880 >just move to another continent Imao

42 min later 51655956 Anonymous
>>51655706 It's simple: relationships are a self destructive behavior and should be avoided or done in moderation just like drugs and alcohol. Women are for being friends with and/or having non-committed sex with, but not dating.

43 min later 51655961 Anonymous
I don't understand how losing your sex drive = you hating women. I love pizza,but if I had it every week I get tired of it.

43 min later 51655964 Anonymous
Men are all shit in bed. The longer a woman is with a man, the more likely she'll is to just accept that as fact, and move on - foolishly - to another man who is also shit in bed, and the cycle continues.

43 min later 51655966 Anonymous
>>51655894 You can't be proper ugly if your race gives you a minimum attractiveness buffer. Say you're a 2/10 by white standards, you could still get a 4/10 or higher non-white. >>51655927 The majority of white countries have sizeable ethnic communities. You're making excuses to negate your privilege.

44 min later 51655969 Anonymous
>>51655706 Men don't need to be wooed or romanced to get aroused. Women do. Men stop trying to woo and romance their partners when they've been together for a long time As simple as that

45 min later 51655976 Anonymous
>>51655961 If you lose interest in having sex with your partner you're more likely to cheat

45 min later 51655981 Anonymous
>>51655964 It doesn't matter whether the women orgasm or not, they still get bored. It's not about their own satisfaction it's that they want to find a better man to please instead.

46 min later 51655990 Anonymous
>>51655966 Not true because that 4/10 non white will be chasing another 8/10

47 min later 51655997 Anonymous
>>51655976 That isn't true at all. You guys are doing that thing where you think a relationship is only about sex.

47 min later 51655998 Anonymous
>>51655863 You're forgetting how children keep people stuck together. I legitimately hated my wife when we first moved in together(inb4 ree get out normalfag) but then it went from hatred to tolerable. Then she got knocked up. Motherhood changes women. The laziest sack of shit can become wife tier with a kid. She went from basically being a talking hole to making dinner every night, trying all sorts of degenerate shit in bed, super motivated etc But it can also turn women into heartless cunts so it's a gamble. If you see a single mom either her husband is dead, he left for a good reason or she is a huge cunt. Never date a single mother. Its like writing a blank check to be a literal cuck and she'll drain you as dry as she can

48 min later 51656002 Anonymous
>>51655981 Vastly less likely to be bored though. Lesbians report the highest sexual satisfaction/orgasm count and partner fidelity/length of relationship. I'm pretty sure it's related.

48 min later 51656015 Anonymous
>>51655966 >The majority of white countries have sizeable ethnic communities So I have to compete with all the best white and ethnic males in the capital city just to have a chance to have at having a girl who can't speak the language look in my direction Thanks chief

52 min later 51656047 Anonymous
>>51655969 The literature suggests it doesn't matter how much effort the men put in, even the most romantic men get rejected by their LTRs. The statistic that changes is how likely women are to reject advances and intimacy, not how much effort the men make. In general men in LTRs DO make less effort but the striking thing is that even the men who maintain their original romancing standard are STILL rejected just as much. Your theory makes a lot of sense and I would have assumed it to be the case too, but the reality is that even the romantic husbands/boyfriends encounter the same problem. Which is understandable when you consider the fact that women don't merely get bored of sex in LTRs, they also get bored of romantic intimacy generally (though they still like emotional/supportive intimacy).

53 min later 51656058 Anonymous
>>51655997 Are you retarded? Women have a sex drive, if they lose interest in having sex with their partner they'll try to fulfill that sex drive by having sex with someone else. It's not that fucking complicated. Relationships are obviously not about sex but humans are too fucking primal to care about emotional bonds and act using their instincts

55 min later 51656075 Anonymous
>>51655706 I can only speak from experience but this has happened to me. I saved myself for what seemed like the perfect girl and now I feel trapped in a lonely nightmare I cannot awake from. The thought that it may just happen again if I left and found someone else (and how long it would take to develop a similar level of trust and experience) is paralyzing.

59 min later 51656115 Anonymous
>>51656058 >humans are primal animal Who has spent thousands of years evolving. Women in good relationships aren't going to just throw that away just because they aren't having sex. It's pretty clear you are A)projecting what you would do. B)have never been in a relationship.

59 min later 51656117 Anonymous
>>51655706 one of my friends lost intrest over time and found a new girl his now ex was deverstated had to comfort her for weeks

1 hours later 51656146 Anonymous
>>51655997 You're doing that thing where you think sex can be completely separated from what a relationship is, and then go on to stereotype anyone who disagrees as being sex-obssessed people who think relationships revolve around it. The reality is that sex is a fundamental foundation of a relationship, and that it can be both a symptom or a cause itself of relationship problems. Relationships are about establishing a harmony between all aspects of two persons, including their natural physical desires. The idea that everything else could be perfectly fine while the sex is locked away in a freezer is fanciful, as sex is connected to the rest.

1 hours later 51656165 Anonymous
>>51656115 So you tell me why people cheat, do you think every relationship is secretly abusive and the poor whomans just wants to get out of it?

1 hours later 51656166 Anonymous
>>51655990 But for that 4/10 non white a 8/10 from their own ethnicity would be equivalent to a 6/10 white. So it still applies.

1 hours later 51656179 Anonymous
>>51656166 It doesn't apply to robots, whites have an advantage in the dating scene but that's completely irrelevant for robots

1 hours later 51656182 Anonymous
>>51655880 Yeah, but they don't want me in particular.

1 hours later 51656187 Anonymous
>>51656002 What are you talking about homosexuals generally have greater incidences of bed death and relationship problems generally.

1 hours later 51656200 Anonymous
>>51656002 I'm >>51656075 and my partner gets an orgasm 99% of times. Still happened to me.

1 hours later 51656223 Anonymous
>>51655706 Probably women know they could just get another guy, so, as time goes on and they start to know more and more of their partner's flaws, that thought becomes more prominent. Men, on the other hand, know they would have a difficult time getting another chick, so they just conform to what they have. Essentially, orbiters and promiscuous men are the problem.

1 hours later 51656233 Anonymous
>>51656179 >>51656182 That's just because robots usually don't interact with minorities IRL. If they did they would have a minority harem and no longer be robots.

1 hours later 51656243 Anonymous
>>51656223 >Essentially, orbiters and promiscuous men are the problem. If only there was a way to socially discourage these behaviours.

1 hours later 51656250 Anonymous
>>51656233 Alright. I'll try interacting with minority women, and then I'll report back.

1 hours later 51656253 Anonymous
>>51656223 What about for extremely attractive guys? Couldn't they find another relationship easily? Apparently it still happens them though.

1 hours later 51656256 Anonymous
>>51655706 Id love a gf but this makes me also terribly scared if i had one

1 hours later 51656279 Anonymous
>>51656250 Kek. This will be epic.

1 hours later 51656314 Anonymous
>>51656187 Male homos desu

1 hours later 51656330 Anonymous
>>51656243 Personally, I discourage them all the time. I tell guys that orbiting and being promiscuous means you have no dignity, and are going against the interests of your sex. >>51656253 Idk, dude. Extremely attractive guys end up with extremely attractive women, and tend to be pretty selective.

1 hours later 51656340 Anonymous
>>51656233 How do I approach Muslim women without getting killed

1 hours later 51656342 Anonymous
Why do you do this fembots? Even to Chad you would do it. Despite his good looks and easy access to women, Chad still works on improving himself and thosr around him, always helping people stay positive. And then after having some fun he decided that he truly loved you, of all people! He constantly woos you no matter how long you've been together and he's still a total Adonis in bed. You know all your acquaintances think you lucked our with him! But a year in, something bores you, even about Chad! You want a different model! Why do you do this fembots?

1 hours later 51656346 Anonymous
>>51656340 Approach hindu women instead. Their father may still not approve, but you probably won't be killed.

1 hours later 51656353 Anonymous
>>51655956 >Women are for being friends with cringe

1 hours later 51656395 Anonymous
>>51655706 Is that woman even white? She looks Iranian.

1 hours later 51656409 Anonymous
>>51655817 >leave her What if you're married and get raped in court?

1 hours later 51656410 Anonymous
>>51656256 The scarier part no one mentioned is that, even during that 1st year of actually having sex, "having sex" just means the boyfriend initiates every time and sometimes doesn't get turned down. Meanwhile, the girlfriend gets insecure when they aren't complimented or romanced, yet they will never do the same in return. So the first year isn't a positive, it's just a neutral where the occasional sex cancels out all the greater amount of rejections and complete lack of compliments. That 1 year mark is just when the sex gets even more occasional and probably no longer cancels out the complete lack of affirmation of the male's worth, becomes mostly negative.

1 hours later 51656421 Anonymous
>>51656165 >every relationship is secretly abusive Do you think every women in relationship has cheated? >Why do people cheat The same reason people do hardcore drugs. Humans are greatly flawed and will cheat on their SO because it's easier than breaking up. Also,You missing the huge point relationship are based on things that aren't sex.

1 hours later 51656451 Anonymous
>>51656200 I'm sure she's told you she did. Which of course is its own problem but I imagine it's hard telling your partner he's not getting you off since so much of the male ego is tied to sexual performance even though that is usually exactly the area they are lacking in, ironically.

1 hours later 51656507 Anonymous (Pepe and Chainloli.jpg 1120x2016 288kB)
This is exactly why I prefer asexual girls, or at least ones with low libido. My last gf would complain I take too long but then she learned the magic of blowjobs and getting a lot of hand action going with it. I'm not slow to cum, she was just loose af. I'd almost rather a girl didn't cum with me anyway. Sex is something she gives me, not something I do for her benefit on top of the literally everything that I also do for her. Something has to be left sacred and purely for me.

1 hours later 51656511 Anonymous
>>51656421 >Why do people cheat Women are better liers and men are always eager to believe. What makes you think it's not more common?

1 hours later 51656530 Anonymous
>>51655927 >>just move to another continent Imao Better than having no options left.

1 hours later 51656533 Anonymous
>>51656410 fuck me this is scary accurate in my experience of a half dozen relationships

1 hours later 51656571 Anonymous
>>51656451 Male performance isnt the problem. I KNOW im good in bed and can give my gf multiple orgasms. Ive had enough sex over the last 12 years to know i use to suck but I spent the effort getting fit and better. Didnt chage the trend OP is describing though.

1 hours later 51656584 Anonymous (1550585987338.jpg 960x608 58kB)
>>51656533 If she's your gf she can't deny you sex. At that point she's just a very expensive and annoying friend. Once you understand how healthy relationships work life gets a lot easier. Just a shame you had to go through so many to get to this point. It's not as bad when a guy cheats,but it's still cheating. Your future wife deserves better than that. Treat women right and you won't have this problem.

1 hours later 51656586 Anonymous
>>51656571 So maybe you just so happen to be God's gift to womankind, doesn't change the fact that the vast majority of men are utterly trash in bed.

1 hours later 51656590 Anonymous
>>51656410 What if your with someone who doesnt do it before marriage? I dont want a gf just to Fuck and Girls who wait for that are fucking unicorns here

1 hours later 51656605 Anonymous
>>51656451 The only time she told me she did was when we first started and when i didn't realise she had already orgasmed. Since then I now know what it feels like for me when she does and I can also tell from her breathing and involuntary movements. She never had a reason fake it, its not like it was some big event or challenge for us, sex just eventually became a part of the relationship that was already intimate without any egoism on either side. A further point that suggests this to me is that a while back I let the lack of sex sadness intrude into my actual performance and it made the sex lousy and too easy for me to finish before her. It didn't happen too often but when it did I would clearly be embarrassed and sad and even back then she never pretended just to soothe my confidence, so what makes you think she would the rest of the time? The final point is that we generally don't seem to lie to each other about anything, so why would she do it over something that could easily be worked on? You assume that if a woman gets bored then the man must have never given her orgasms during sex. I'm telling you that for me, it seems to have happened despite that.

1 hours later 51656607 Anonymous
>>51656409 Just dont fucking marry anyone lmao. What the fuck is the point of marriage if you cant trust the other person anyways. Jesus.

1 hours later 51656621 Anonymous
>>51656584 But the study is saying most gfs do this after 1 year.

1 hours later 51656624 Anonymous
>>51656605 Well, then I don't know. She might have gotten bored for other reasons, she might've been unhappy, she might've just been a cunt. Sorry anon.

1 hours later 51656629 Anonymous
>nobody reading the actual study

1 hours later 51656641 Anonymous
>>51656586 I also replied to you with a similar story to his. Obviously we're just 2 people but that still leaves you without an explanation of why it happened to us.

1 hours later 51656646 Anonymous
>>51656590 Probably the same thing except the drop would obviously happen 1 year into the marriage instead of the relationship.

1 hours later 51656672 Anonymous
>>51656641 Well no, I don't know either of you or enough about it to even a venture a guess beyond what you've told me. Is talking to the girl in question a possibility?

2 hours later 51656759 Anonymous
>>51656624 I appreciate the attempts to explain it. I try to figure it out myself. My preferred conclusion is that maybe I'm just not hot/confident enough, even despite the fact she considers me slightly out of her league. At least with that explanation then any solution would be within my control (become hotter), although at this same time it's ironically demotivating to feel so inadequate and receive no validation at all. On the bright side, the sadness and rejections at least mean I no longer feel like initiating very often, so that means less put-downs in total, and it seems to have been a long time since I've let it intrude into the few times we do have sex, so I get to feel good for a short time. Maybe it's just natural that the man should STFU about his own needs and just be a comfort and rock for his gf? Things could be worse, at least I can be there for myself, in my own head.

2 hours later 51656774 Anonymous
>>51656672 >Is talking to the girl in question a possibility? Kek, can't speak for the other dude but my guess is that he also exhausted that avenue.

2 hours later 51656784 Anonymous
>>51656759 I get that that might be the best explanation but if she genuinely thought she wasn't attractive enough for you, that might've been a reason for leaving. Yes girls are that retarded trust me. Shite state of affairs.

2 hours later 51656810 Anonymous
>>51656759 >being gaslighted this hard without the slightest inkling Fucking retards, I swear.

2 hours later 51656876 Anonymous
>>51656784 By leaving do you mean her withdrawing intimacy? We're still together. I don't get why her feeling inferior would make her reject anything intimate though, wouldn't that happen in the opposite case, if she found me inferior? I have asked her about, and yes, inferior feeling have been the excuse sometimes, but so have plenty of other situational things (X isn't right, X is in the way). So my explanation still seems superior to that one excuse: if I was actually attractive, she wouldn't be distracted by or appealing to such excuses in the first place. And by "excuse" I don't mean these are trivial or illegitimate issues she cites, just that they literally function as excuses and I can't help but feel they would easily disappear if I wad more attractive. >>51656810 Who is being gaslighted? I don't get what you mean. I didn't mention any domestic abuse.

2 hours later 51656892 Anonymous
>>51656629 Oh enlighten us, wise anon man

2 hours later 51656903 Anonymous
>>51656876 Sorry, I got you confused with the other anon and thought you weren't together anymore. I meant more that she finds herself not worthy your time and that's why she'd leave but if you're still together that doesn't apply. But in related ideas, she might feel "too ugly" for you and thus not sleep with you. Again, pretty dumb and far out but not unheard of. But I'll stop now because I really don't feel qualified to give relationship advice to anybody.

2 hours later 51656967 Anonymous
Has anyone actually read the article or just done the usual incel thing of seeing buzzwords and assuming? It's not that the woman loses interests in sex with YOU, but rather her sex drive goes down.

2 hours later 51656993 Anonymous
>>51656967 Could you please shut up, we're trying to be angry at roasties

2 hours later 51657020 Anonymous
>>51655998 >he left for a good reason >or she's a huge cunt >implying that's not a good reason

2 hours later 51657071 Anonymous
>>51656774 Other dude here, talk is pretty useless in my experiences. Mostly they "dont now why they dont feel like it" and say they are sorry etc.

2 hours later 51657180 Anonymous
>>51655706 I didn't read your most likely stupid shit, but damn, that woman in the pic is ugly! ruined my lunch break

2 hours later 51657181 Anonymous
>>51656967 Do you honestly think its the drive in general rather than drive for her partner? Her drive would recover completely if a hot stranger tried to seduce her.

2 hours later 51657190 Anonymous
>>51657180 You're just mad that a brutha was able to have a chance with her. That's how hateful y'all are.

3 hours later 51657213 Anonymous
>>51656075 >I saved myself fucking lol at the level of cope you mongoloids can come up with. you saved yourself, princess? lol!

3 hours later 51657219 Anonymous
>>51657190 Not mad, man, she just ain't my thing, rubs me the wrong way

3 hours later 51657229 Anonymous
>>51657213 Don't mock my religious-moral values, pls. No bully.

3 hours later 51657236 Anonymous
>>51657219 She's a Jewish goddess.

3 hours later 51657252 Anonymous
>>51657236 I must've been a nazi in a past life, because I can't stand her fucking mug. Anyway, fuck this shit, I'm out

3 hours later 51657264 Anonymous
>>51657252 But this thread has some good shit in it.

3 hours later 51657487 Anonymous
>>51656967 >>51656629 >apologists post once, get BTFO, then go silent classic

4 hours later 51657953 Anonymous
>>51657569 How is your AGP discord relevant to this thread?

5 hours later 51658792 Anonymous
>>51656253 I've had countless offers to model and I still have had horrible interactions with women. Current gf I've been with for 5 years is the only good one I've been with. Most cheat and lie about everything.

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