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2013-01-02 09:42 5067461 Anonymous
I'm conflicted, /r9k/. My gf wants me to delete the porn from my laptop (pic related). She claims I don't need it and it's disrespectful to her despite us not having sex throughout this entire relationship (nearly a year). Do I cave in, /r9k/ or stand firm. I leave this you.

2 min later 5067479 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
Delete it. I have asked all my boyfriend if they could delete their porn if I saw it. Why do you need porn if you have me? It doesn't make sense. In a relationship, I don't see why he needs to fap when he can just have sex. PLus it's just images/videos. They are replaceable.

3 min later 5067490 fuckin'op
stay fucking firm. someone on /h/ was told by his girlfriend to do this and deleted it and they broke up. hide it if you have to. fuck that cunt this is coming from a femanon, and I know my boyfriend has a shit ton of porn, and I'm not making him delete shit.

4 min later 5067498 Anonymous
save it somewhere else and show her you deleting the originals.

4 min later 5067500 Whelp
>>5067479 But he's not even getting sex from this relationship. Didn't you read it all, woman?

4 min later 5067502 Anonymous
>1 Terabyte of Feel

4 min later 5067505 Anonymous
>despite us not having sex throughout this entire relationship Why?

4 min later 5067506 Anonymous
>>5067479 >she doesnt give sex this entire relationship you are why us women have a bad name you cunt

5 min later 5067514 Anonymous
>>5067479 He said they weren't having sex Also, tell your gf to fuck off OP

6 min later 5067524 Cheshire Cat
>>5067479 >when he can have sex Shut the fuck up you retarded bitch, the OP clearly states >it's disrespectful to her despite us not having sex throughout this entire relationship Read a post you filthy whore, the whole internet isn't about you.

6 min later 5067525 Anonymous
>>5067505 She's "not ready" yet.

6 min later 5067527 Anonymous
so ummm am I getting this right, you've been together a year and never had sex

6 min later 5067532 Anonymous
>>5067479 >women aren't willing to fuck every time men want to >women won't let the man fuck them until they get off instead of expecting them to make the woman cum as well >sometimes men just want to jerk off Women are so fucking ignorant about male sexuality it's retarded.

7 min later 5067536 Anonymous
>>5067527 Yep. kill me

7 min later 5067541 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>5067506 >>5067514 >>5067524 >>5067500 oh. I didn't read that far. Sorry. >>5067525 >"" She's not ready. Respect that. Men don't take virginity or sex seriously. Stop fapping, and 'save' yourself for her. Get some fucking willpower.

8 min later 5067554 Anonymous
Fuck all you guys who get mad at women for not wanting you to watch porn, people like me want to fuck all the time. And he's the one who still chooses porn. I mean seriously, do you want your woman fantasizing about big black cocks that you'll never amount to? Why can't we just have eachother. Fuck i mad.

8 min later 5067555 Anonymous
Its your computer, tell her to fuck off.

8 min later 5067558 Cheshire Cat
>>5067541 >Stop fapping, and 'save' yourself for her. No OP, fuck that.

9 min later 5067563 Dorian Gray
If you're not having sex then she has no right to demand you delete your porn. Keep it. Or blackmail her into having sex with you by saying you'll delete it all if she does.

9 min later 5067569 Anonymous
I wanna know about the terrabyte of feel also, do what the others have been saying. Get a flash drive, store it on there. Delete the originals. I don't really understand people who don't just stream stuff though anyways.

9 min later 5067570 Anonymous
You should get the fuck out of this relationship. She does not view you as a man; in fact she is more of a man than you are since she is the one in control. Do not delete the porn -- it is giving you more than your gf is.

9 min later 5067571 Anonymous (fuck_of_cunt.jpg 483x424 61kB)
This image should help you decide. It's stupid really, it's just porn. >fuck of cunt Everytime.

9 min later 5067574 Anonymous
>>5067536 instead of dying you could get a new girlfriend who does have sex with you and lets you keep your porn.

10 min later 5067575 Anonymous
Your computer, your property. If she can't respect that, I doubt she's suitable anyway. Then again, I have no experience with this whatsoever, so I guess I can say that all too easily.

10 min later 5067583 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>5067532 There's no need to jerk off so many times. I'm willing to have sex whenever, because I rather him have it with me, then with porn or some other broad. And what's wrong with wanting an orgasm? Both parties should be happy. If you need sex more times then she is willingly to do, maybe there is something wrong with you...

10 min later 5067584 Whelp
>why watch porn when you can have me? >I'm not ready yet lol >no porn tho WOMEN

10 min later 5067585 Anonymous
Tell her you'll delete the porn when she starts putting out.

10 min later 5067586 Anonymous
Simple solution, tell her you will delete it when she is capable of satifying you sexually instead.

12 min later 5067596 Anonymous
Truecrypt volume or get an external hd. If your collection is small enough you could use an sd or micro sd. I have a 64gb micro sd card. It's one thing if she fucks you or gives you pictures, but at this point you're just friends. You could backup and then hide your stash if you wanted to be honest. If she breaks it off you just pull the box from your closet, if not then you just leave it there. Please put it in a password protected car though. I imagine shit would go down if she found it. I would be curious if I found a hidden sd card in my hypothetical girlfriend's stuff. You can say you forgot the password if she asks for it.

12 min later 5067598 Anonymous
>>5067571 >breaking up by changing your facebook status after 3 years

12 min later 5067604 Anonymous
Ignore the shitposting JLH. You have 3 options. Hide it better, delete it and be her bitch, or tell her to fuck off. I would honestly choose to tell her to fuck off, but if you really like her you could probably hide it better.

12 min later 5067605 Anonymous
>>5067583 Or maybe there's something wrong with her or the relationship.

13 min later 5067611 Anonymous Honestly...
Dump her. She will always use sex as a weapon later if you let this continue.

13 min later 5067612 Anonymous
Tell that girl your dick has feelings and either she will attend to them or they can get taken care of behind the scenes. If she wont take responsibility, she can't say anything. And this isn't coming from a chronically masturbating dude either

14 min later 5067616 Anonymous
>>5067554 > people like me want to fuck all the time. No woman has that kind of sex drive. >I'm willing to have sex whenever, because I rather him have it with me, then with porn or some other broad. You'd probably half-ass it though. Women simply can't keep up with men. Masturbation fills in the gaps.

14 min later 5067621 Anonymous
>>5067461 Upload it some place, don't delete it Put it on a flashdrive and hide the flash drive or something, just dont delete it

14 min later 5067622 Anonymous
op can you dump your collection, please?

16 min later 5067647 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>5067616 >half ass it How in any case, is masturbation better then sex with a real person? I'd rather fuck a guy who is a dead fish then a dildo or my hands. It's depressing as fuck to fap. Don't you get sad when you realize you're sitting alone, at your computer, with your fucking dick in your hand?

16 min later 5067653 Anonymous
>>5067583 >If you need sex more times then she is willingly to do, maybe there is something wrong with you.. 2/10 raged a bit

17 min later 5067659 Anonymous
>>5067622 I'm not in the mood to type captcha all day long.

17 min later 5067660 Anonymous
Sex or porn, her choice. That is the reasonable compromise solution. To be honest you shouldn't feel obligated to give up porn even if she is having sex with you, it's just that it might be a reasonable compromise at that point to make someone happy that you actually like being with. She needs to realize that looking at porn is the alternative to actually cheating on her. Your sex drive isn't going away, so the question is, if she's not ready for sex, would she rather you take care of it with porn, or other women?

18 min later 5067668 Anonymous
>>5067659 Not that other guy, but .zip and mediafire (parts of) it?

18 min later 5067670 Anonymous
>>5067647 >Don't you get sad when you realize you're sitting alone, at your computer, with your fucking dick in your hand? Nope, I keep going until I realize I'm about to cum and clean up accordingly. Then I proceed to do something else.

18 min later 5067671 Anonymous
You stand man. As long as you don't stick your dick into another person it is not her business what you do with it. Also what the fuck is her problem, shit's hot.

18 min later 5067678 Anonymous
>>5067647 >How in any case, is masturbation better then sex with a real person? Because it's easy and you know exactly how to pleasure yourself. .Don't you get sad when you realize you're sitting alone, at your computer, with your fucking dick in your hand? No, I get to work. See, women really don't understand.

19 min later 5067693 Anonymous
>>5067647 When I fap it is awesome, then afterwards I might get a little sad that it's over. I'd much rather fap than fuck someone who's not really into it and/or just laid there Not the anon you were responding to btw

19 min later 5067698 Anonymous (ohohoho.png 345x369 25kB)
Oh boy here we go. Another remember that thread a few weeks ago where the girl posted about not letting her boyfriend look at porn or risque pictures of women at all because all he needed was her? She talked about how she had the pin/password to his bank account, computer, sites, email so she knows what he's doing.

20 min later 5067701 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>5067653 Honestly, sex is something that doesn't need to happen every single day. It takes the 'specialness' out of it if it's a regular thing. Every other day is fine, or even longer. There's a point where it becomes a sexual addiction, which is unhealthy.

20 min later 5067704 Anonymous
>>5067541 Regular ejaculation lowers the risk of prostate cancer. Do you want OP to get cancer? Also stop tripping.

21 min later 5067714 Anonymous
Buy it and put it on a flashdrive, tell her you deleted it. Women wanting their boyfriends to get rid of porn is all kinds of crazy. Lie. Nobody gets hurt.

21 min later 5067717 Anonymous
>>5067647 What are you doing here? is there something fun about trolling people on /r9k/? It's funmy that you call masturbation depressing/pathetic. At least that has a point, trolling /r9k/ is pathetic but you can't even get off on it. (or maybe you do but that just makes it worse)

21 min later 5067724 Anonymous
>>5067714 Meant to say buy a flashdrive, goofed up.

22 min later 5067725 Anonymous
>>5067554 If I had a girlfriend who was up for sex all the time, and shared my kinks, then I wouldn't need porn. Otherwise, nah, fuck off.

22 min later 5067737 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>5067678 Why don't you tell your partner what pleases you? If my boyfriend is not willing to tell me what gets him off, then he has no right to complain. Your partner wants to make you happy... To me, it just seems like your rejecting me if you watch porn... >>5067704 Excessive masturbation raises the risk of prostate cancer. It says so on the TED talks thing that gets posted so many times.

22 min later 5067738 Anonymous
>>5067701 >Honestly, sex is something that doesn't need to happen every single day. It is if you're a healthy male. Women have no sex drive so of course they'd think it doesn't need to happen everyday.

23 min later 5067743 Anonymous
First off you're a complete faggot. Ok maybe if she's really good put up with a month of no sex but after a year...? No, she's being a bitch by 1) not putting out, come on it's been a year here and 2) trying to take away your sexual outlet. You keep your porn and you put it up as your desktop wallpaper and you tell the woman that unless she's willing to fulfill your sexual needs 90 percent+ of the time the porn stays because as a man you need a sexual outlet. Cheers to the femanons out there who recognize this and put bitches like this to shame.

23 min later 5067747 Anonymous
>>5067479 Don't you masturbate when you're with someone? It's just a different thing. With sex you have the physical connection and intimacy, with masturbation you can do it exactly as you like and it's calming. Plus, if it's just images/videos, why in the world would you be jealous? It's not like he can leave you for them.

23 min later 5067750 Anonymous
It depends, OP. You need to make that choice for yourself. Personally, I would never get rid of my porn, and would appreciate a guy willing to accept that (with the understanding that I do the same for his porn collection, as well.) However, not everyone is like this, and if your girlfriend isn't one of them, that means you have to compromise your enjoyment of porn for her. If she means that much to you and if it hurts her that much, yes, you should probably do it. Personally? I would just back it up on a flashdrive, put the flashdrive in a SDB, delete it off your comp, and if you broke up, just go ahead and have it ready to put back on.

23 min later 5067751 Anonymous
>>5067737 >Why don't you tell your partner what pleases you? >trusting women to actually be proactive during sex >To me, it just seems like your rejecting me if you watch porn... It means you aren't spreading your legs enough.

24 min later 5067755 Anonymous
>>5067616 Yeah which is why I'm the one who's always getting "just wait I can't get it up again for awhile" blahblah no woman is like that, even though there's 7 billion I know it's impossible. To me porn is gluttony, i give you your cake, endless supplies but you need more and more

24 min later 5067759 Anonymous
>>5067738 The typical man doesn't need to masturbate everyday, believe it or not. >Women have no sex drive so of course they'd think it doesn't need to happen everyday. Women do, but it is generally lower than men. Stop spreading poor information.

24 min later 5067760 Anonymous
What's wrong with having porn? If she's allowed to cheat with impunity, I should at least be able to have some pretty pictures.

24 min later 5067761 Anonymous
It starts with your fap folder and moves on to other things >you cannot wear these clothes >you cannot play vidya >you cannot watch action movies, watch drama with me It goes on, don't let her have this OP, she will take it as a win and start denying you more and more until you have nothing and then she dumps you because "you're not interesting" when in reality you are what she wanted you to be and it's never good enough. Besides no woman can keep up with a males libido which means you will probably restock a new secret folder if you ever get it on in bed and gets sexually frustrated when you for the 5th week is denied any relief..

25 min later 5067774 NationalistischKindje
Hide the folder, dumbfuck.

26 min later 5067785 Anonymous
>>5067461 Post the pic that's the thumbnail for the sexy woman folder please. Just the one I don't really want anything else if you can't be bothered. Although uploading the whole folder to mediafire or something and then deleting the original would be your best option seeing as she doesn't want sex. Also share the link with us if you do.

26 min later 5067786 Anonymous
Smoke crystal meth, get good porn or a girl for camsex, and get some lube. It feels better than fucking with a condom. Really. It's why lots of us methheads masturbate HOURS daily to porn and have like 100 tabs open constantly. I will not not even bother with fucking if I have to use a condom because it fucking sucks and isn't worth the effort. Ideally a girl would need to have sex 2-3x a day every single day. If you're scared of meth you can use adderall like a babby, it's not quite as good but it's at least 10x better than fapping sober.

26 min later 5067787 Anonymous
>>5067755 >To me porn is gluttony, i give you your cake, endless supplies but you need more and more No, porn is there for the times women refuse to have sex.

26 min later 5067792 Anonymous
>>5067737 >Excessive masturbation raises the risk of prostate cancer. It says so on the TED talks thing that gets posted so many times. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation#Health_and_psychol ogical_effects Gonna have to disagree, several contradictory studies with a lot of beneficial effects than harmful. Then again, r9k sits in the room all day jerking off so I doubt it's the same.

27 min later 5067801 Anonymous
>>5067701 Pretty sure you're trolling, but what makes you qualified to judge how much of a sex drive is too much? People have different sex drives, plain and simple. I won't even get into whether men have naturally higher drives than women - anecdotal evidence might suggest it but beyond that I am undecided - but the fact remains that sometimes people are just incompatible. If one person wants sex with much more frequency than the other, then that results in one of two situations: 2) one person remains sexually unsatisfied 3) one person has more sex than they want It's not fair to expect someone to remain sexually unsatisfied, and cheating to get that satisfaction is not fair to the other partner. Which means that your solutions are to go with option 2, break up due to incompatibility, or expect the unsatisifed partner to look at porn to make up the difference. To be honest I don't really get the anti-porn attitude as porn actually seems like a great compromise to let two partners with different sex drives maintain a healthy relationship without cheating or unhappiness.

28 min later 5067810 Anonymous
>>5067737 >>5067717 why did you ignore my post jlh

28 min later 5067811 Anonymous
>>5067461 Demand sex or a breakup. She is definitely just using you.

28 min later 5067814 Anonymous (Folder.jpg 478x720 129kB)
>>5067785 OP delivering that flawless ass.

29 min later 5067824 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>5067738 Biological healthy males only need to have sex once so they can impregnate his partner. Having sex for pleasure is not what it's meant for. It's meant for reproducing. Regular sex rarely happens in other animals. >>5067747 No. It's lonely. I don't like being alone and masturbating. It's weird and depressing. I like having another person there. I didn't think it was really uncommon to want a person. I'm not jealous, it's just. Why does he need those things if he has me? It makes me feel like I'm not up to par if I can't please him enough. It's not fair. >>5067751 There's a limit to where it's acceptable. most men want unrealistic exceptions of you. It's the porn generation, where everyone has stupid fetishes and wants big tits. It's ruined a generation of young minds.z >>5067810 Because it's not thread related.. And I'm not trolling. I'm just very anti-porn. Nothing wrong with that. It's my opinion...

29 min later 5067830 Anonymous
>>5067502 >>5067569 I also would like to inquire about this "Terabyte of Feel"

30 min later 5067842 Anonymous
>>5067737 http://doctor.ndtv.com/storypage/ndtv/id/1517/type/news/Ejac ulation_and_prostate_cancer_risk.html read the first sentence.

30 min later 5067844 Anonymous
>>5067824 >Why does he need those things if he has me? You probably aren't into his kinks so sex with you is boring. Also you seem to think the male sex drive is way lower than it actually is so you probably refuse to have sex more than a couple times a week.

30 min later 5067847 Anonymous (you think this is a fucking game.jpg 460x468 51kB)
>change folder name to something complicated with numbers >put inside your system files in a boring folder (like your intel folder or something) >encrypt folder >tell her you deleted it >keep your porn and keep her happy You can have your cake and eat it too.

30 min later 5067850 Anonymous
>>5067737 >It says so on the TED talks thing that gets posted so many times. From what I understand, while there is some level of TED talks for high profile scientific and academic speakers, there is also a "public" level where pretty much anybody can talk about whatever shit they want. Which is where that anti-masturbation dude came from. TED talks are no more useful than any of the other halfassed "facts" that get thrown around on this board.

32 min later 5067869 Anonymous
I never got girls who didn't let boys watch porn. Esp. this one. She can't expect you to be completely asexual. Figure out a compromise or break up.

32 min later 5067870 Anonymous
>>5067824 >having sex for pleasure is not what it's meant for You do understand that humans and their closes cousins (bonobos) use sex for much more than just reproduction, right? It's part of how we communicate, show affection, spend time. It's an integral part of our social interaction.

32 min later 5067871 Anonymous (Screen Shot 2013-01-02 at 21.13.22.png 579x322 96kB)
>>5067814 Thanks. Also how big is this folder in total size? Pic related: Mine.

32 min later 5067876 Anonymous
>>5067824 >? It makes me feel like I'm not up to par if I can't please him enough. Then get better at sex. Since women never actually do anything during sex that might be difficult.

33 min later 5067888 Anonymous
>>5067824 >Why does he need those things if he has me? It makes me feel like I'm not up to par if I can't please him enough. Mm, I guess I can understand if you don't see the use in masturbating by yourself. I think it helps that I find it a turn on. Not sure whether I can explain why, I like hedonism (or gluttony as someone called it), I find masturbation hot, I see porn as a guy knowing what he wants and likes sexually and looking after himself. >I didn't think it was really uncommon to want a person. Now I'm starting to wonder. I actually don't know but I never really thought of masturbating by yourself as depressing. I see it as giving yourself a treat, sort of like getting yourself a muffin and eating it all by yourself.

33 min later 5067893 Anonymous
>>5067814 Why does she have 2 extra asses on the back of her knees?

34 min later 5067913 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>5067842 There's a point where you don't actually care about prostate cancer, and you're using it as an excuse to masturbate... >>5067844 >kinks That's unrealistic exceptions. This generation has fetishes that no other generation have had. Internet porn has done this, offering weird shit on demand from your home. >blond, big tits, Like what the fuck. It's not fair to other women. When watching porn, it raises what you expect a real women to be. A porno whore, is not a real women... >>5067850 It seems legit though. It makes sense to me at least. >>5067870 Compared to the other billions of species that don't... We are the minority. >>5067876 I try my best, but I'm sorry. jesus. >>5067888 >mfw I feel guilty when I eat something all by myself Maybe I;m just insecure or something. I don't know.

35 min later 5067918 Anonymous
>>5067870 Humans only use sex for reproduction. We may have sex and intentionally block impregnation, but we still only fuck the kinds of men and women we want to reproduce with. Bonobos fuck anything. The 10/10 will jerk/finger a 2/10.

35 min later 5067919 Anonymous (feel.jpg 627x576 135kB)
>>5067502 >>5067830 This pic gave me the idea... >>5067871 It's around 8GB but 6 of that is video. I'm a novice...

35 min later 5067920 Anonymous
If you delete it, se will continue using sex and emotional blackmailing to mess with you; if you don't delete it, she will dump you and make sure everybody knows that you chose porn over her, thus making you a loser and a social pariah. Dude, you're fucked either way. Find a clever way to get out of this one.

35 min later 5067927 Anonymous
>>5067913 >This generation has fetishes that no other generation have had. Spoilers; your parents and grandparents were doing the things you think are so kinky and noveau.

36 min later 5067930 Anonymous
>>5067913 >mfw I feel guilty when I eat something all by myself Oh god, work on that, there are so much wonders to discover.

36 min later 5067931 Anonymous
Yester when I returned from taking a shit, my girlfriend found my 3rd fapfolder in our 3 year relationship. She always said she doesn't mind, but I just delete it anyway without really caring.

36 min later 5067937 Anonymous
>>5067913 >That's unrealistic exceptions. Except it isn't, because there are tons of women who are into kinky shit so there's no point staying with some frigid bitch who hates your sexuality. >This generation has fetishes that no other generation have had. Internet porn has done this, offering weird shit on demand from your home. I'm pretty sure Leopold von Sader-Masoch was engaging in most of my kinks long before computers even existed, let alone the internet.

36 min later 5067939 Anonymous
>gf goes on my computer >finds my porn >freaks out >demands i delete it >i delete her instead >tfw your gf was just an image

37 min later 5067942 Anonymous
>>5067913 I don't need an excuse. I do it because I enjoy it. The health benefits are merely a bonus. The point of bringing up prostate cancer was that although there are no negatives to masturbating there are negatives to complete abstinence.

37 min later 5067951 Anonymous
>>5067913 >Compared to the other billions of species that don't... We are the minority. It doesn't matter if we're the minority or the majority. What matters is that sex is not just for reproduction within our species, and to treat it as such just leads to more misunderstanding about human sexuality and biology. It's OKAY if you don't like porn. I'm not a fan of most of the porn I come across either, I prefer erotic artwork (drawings, etc.) But not liking porn, which is only the tip of the proverbial iceberg on human sexual expression, does not invalidate the fact that sex between humans is not solely for reproduction.

38 min later 5067956 Anonymous
>>5067913 >Compared to the other billions of species that don't... >We are the minority Are you really this scientifically illiterate?

38 min later 5067957 Anonymous
>>5067918 >tfw when a 2/10 human and never going to get a hot bonobo chick to jerk/finger you just for the hell of it because it's just monkey business no big deal amirite

38 min later 5067961 Anonymous
>>5067918 Your understanding of human and bonobo sexuality is disturbingly warped.

39 min later 5067971 Anonymous
>>5067927 >no other generation I take it that anon has not seen the sexual deviancy that was rampant in Victorian England?

39 min later 5067972 Anonymous
>>5067961 Just give up. These plebs have no idea.

40 min later 5067986 Anonymous
>>5067913 >>mfw I feel guilty when I eat something all by myself i'm wondering if part of the disconnect here is some kind of weird social / not social thing. Maybe you're so used to having friends and being social that you distrust a guy for having any kind of fun on his own? FYI, not going to get much sympathy from socially isolated robots on that one. Not that you've been getting much sympathy in this thread so far.

40 min later 5067988 Anonymous
>.rar it all >make password >save someplace else

40 min later 5067995 Anonymous
Wow you're a bunch of faggots. When my friend asked me to stop watching porn, because she didn't like that I watched it instead of fucking her, I told her to fuck off. Unless she can get to my room, within 5 minutes, any time I am horny, I'm going to jerk off to porn. Why would you consider listening to her?

41 min later 5068003 Anonymous
>>5067961 >Your understanding of human and bonobo sexuality is disturbingly warped. It really isn't. Unless you're going to tell me I'm wrong and people don't constantly desire to have sex with the people they find attractive (ie want to reproduce with) rather than fucking just because lol.

41 min later 5068004 Anonymous
>>5067972 They don't. I'm giving up. I'm just thoroughly aggravated, almost nearly as much as I am when someone calls a chimpanzee a "monkey".

43 min later 5068031 Anonymous (willlaren-02.jpg 500x705 107kB)
>>5067461 Why are you still with her? Fuck. I've been dating my gf for a little over 2 months now with no sex and I can barely stand it. I might leave soon if she doesn't put out. Tell her to fuck you or fuck off.

43 min later 5068040 Anonymous
>>5068004 There is a taxonomic argument for calling Great Apes monkeys actually. But I will not go into that here, lol.

44 min later 5068046 Anonymous
>>5068031 >I might leave soon if she doesn't put out. Holy fuck, I thought the guys I dated who had this attitude were a minority. How many men are actually like this?

44 min later 5068048 Anonymous
Cave in...I think porn is wrong. What is wrong with continence and sexual purity? They are beautiful virtues.

44 min later 5068052 Anonymous
>>5067918 Humans are the species who are most capable of sex and are able to use sex for pleasure and not only reproductive purposes.

46 min later 5068073 Anonymous
>>5068052 >Humans are the species who are most capable of sex and are able to use sex for pleasure and not only reproductive purposes. But we don't.

46 min later 5068075 Anonymous
>>5068040 While apes and monkeys share common ancestry, apes are not monkeys because monkeys are most notably defined by having a prehensile tail (which, while apes have tailbones or occasional vestigial tails, they do not have). There is no taxonomic argument. They are related and share plenty of similar characteristics, but are categorically distinctive.

46 min later 5068076 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>5067927 Well I'm sure they had some fetishes, there is no way they had the number of what we have today. And I doubt every male had a fetish back then, unlike today. Fetishes aren't natural.. >>5067937 If you're only with a girl because of the sex, you should leave anyway.... >>5067930 >>5067986 I know I have trust issues. I probably have a fair share of insecurity issues as well. But I think no-porn is just a simple request. Porn is not a need. You don't need it to survive. I need to fix myself someway somehow. >>5068031 That's mean. If you truly like/love her, then you should be able to wait. Sex is just a part of a relationship, not all of it...

47 min later 5068090 Anonymous
>>5068046 The vast majority of men. We don't like being treated like sexless objects.

48 min later 5068096 Anonymous
>>5068075 I agree. I don't even remember the supposed taxonomic argument in its entirety but the tails were relevant.

48 min later 5068110 Anonymous
>>5068076 >If you're only with a girl because of the sex, you should leave anyway.... >hurr if you want sex in a relationship that must be the only thing you want in a relationship

49 min later 5068115 Anonymous (tiffany.jpg 800x1200 159kB)
>>5067461 OP ignore all those little boys and girls advice. Each and every relationship are different. You might date women who watch porn or you might date women who do not watch porn. Your current girlfriend doesn't like you watching porn. She said that it disrespectful to her. I mean OP, for her porn might equal to strangulation. It's too hardcore and disgusting. If you really like watching porn and it's a big hobby of yours, then why not try and share your hobby with your girlfriend? Not all of us porn viewers (male or female) watch stuff from deepthroatdotcom. Some of us enjoy a nice erotic artsy film. Maybe for her porn is like smoking or drinking; a bad habit to get rid off. Pic related, it's my wife favorite porn studio. I used to watch porn alone, but this one night she just lay on the bed while I was on it watching x-art on my laptop. She told me I was sick, but kept watching. I just put my arm around her and casually just put my hands in her panties only to feel her pussy drenched in juice... Let me tell you sex was already good, but for some reason her watching porn made her more asservative and less shy.

49 min later 5068130 Anonymous
>>5068073 Look up evolutionary stable strategies and sexual selection, then come with an argument.

50 min later 5068136 Anonymous
>>5068046 >How many men are actually like this? All men. We don't like being emotional tampons for you and get nothing in return. You want to pour your emotions out and whine to someone, we want to pour our cum into you.

50 min later 5068154 Anonymous
>>5068115 >Tiffany Thompson My African-American brother!

51 min later 5068157 Anonymous
>>5068130 But the things you mentioning make it clear that sexuality in humans is based around reproduction.

52 min later 5068170 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>5068110 If you are leaving a relationship because she won't 'put out' that means you only care about the sex, and nothing else. Stop making these ultimatums about either having sex, or leaving. It's not fair, and it shows you don't give a fuck about her.

52 min later 5068178 Anonymous
>>5068090 >we don't like being treated like sexless objects I don't treat them like they're sexless, but guys seem to want it pretty fast. Too fast, for my taste. First guy I dated: >spend a month getting to know each other >casually tries to take my clothes off >I'm a virgin and freak out a bit, I'm not ready for this >he says either he gets sex or he goes >I told him to go. Second guy: >be together two weeks >wants sex >remember first guy, tell him to find someone else >I will never forget his WTF face Third guy: >be together two months >he wants to see my boobs >I let him >he wants to have sex twenty minutes later >I'm not ready >he pouts >over the next week and a half, pressures me to have sex >I kick him to the curb I mean, seriously! I just wanted it to happen in my own time. I wasn't against doing sexual stuff, I just needed to ease into it, and they were all about jumping right in! Fuck.

54 min later 5068208 Anonymous
>>5068136 >All men. We don't like being emotional tampons for you and get nothing in return. Wow. You guys really are just in it for the sex. Ok. That's it. I'm turned off of men for life.

55 min later 5068234 Whelp
>>5068208 >off of You don't need the 'of', dumbass.

56 min later 5068237 Anonymous
>>5068170 >find sex important >getting constantly denied sex >YOU DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT HER IF YOU'RE THINKING ABOUT BREAKING UP WITH HER tripscum pls go

56 min later 5068246 Anonymous
>>5068096 Found it: http://youtu.be/4A-dMqEbSk8

56 min later 5068256 Anonymous
>>5068208 >Wow. You guys really are just in it for the sex. We're in it for the sex because women offer nothing else. Despite what women like to pretend, you are not very good at being emotionally supportive, especially when you expect men to be stoic father figures who never talk to you about their problems. Though I eagerly await your "I'm not like other girls I'm there for my bf and don't just tell him to man up and deal with it" Maybe it's you you should be turned off of.

57 min later 5068265 Anonymous
>>5068170 It doesn't mean it's the ONLY thing he cares about, it means its an important issue. If she's refusing to have sex with him but demanding he deletes his porn it shows she doesn't care about his sexual needs or respect him enough as a person to realize he can differentiate between wanking to porn and what he has with her

57 min later 5068268 Anonymous
>>5068208 Protip: most guys don't think this way, but they do expect some kind of sexual component to a relationship. It's not selfish, it's just the way it is. I'm the nicest of nice guys and if my girlfriend didn't provide some kind of release (though she is a virgin saving it for marriage, and I respect that) I probably couldn't stay with her.

58 min later 5068279 Anonymous
>>5068256 >women offer nothing else Not that chick but man, you know some rotten women then. Not every girl is like that, some are actually sweet and fun.

58 min later 5068284 Anonymous
Put it on a disk or some shit and then show her it's gone from the laptop, then she'll probably fuck you. If she doesn't fuck you, put it back on the computer, if she does then delete it Also normal-fag please go

59 min later 5068293 Anonymous
>>5068279 >defending women on r9k It's like pissing in the ocean to change the pH.

59 min later 5068304 Anonymous
>>5068170 Youve got to be the stupidest fucking bitch on the board. For a sexual relationship to develop, there needs to be sexual interaction. A partner withholding sex means they arent emotionally ready for the relationship, and is more than enough excuse to leave.

59 min later 5068309 Anonymous
Make a zip file with a password, make it "hidden" and put it in a folder that she won't look. It's extremely easy and most likely your gf won't know how to find it.

1 hours later 5068312 Anonymous
>>5068256 >We're in it for the sex because women offer nothing else. That's not remotely true. >Despite what women like to pretend, you are not very good at being emotionally supportive Third guy I dated had a psychological breakdown when his exams ended, I baked him cookies and gave him a massage and assured him he must have done well. Fourth guy I dated but didn't mention because he didn't pressure me for sex was having a lot of family problems at home, and I listened to every single one. Many girls do give emotional support.

1 hours later 5068319 Anonymous
>>5068170 If you're missing the sex part of the relationship its not unreasonable to be unsatisfied, that's what porn is for right? To the OP, if your girlfriend's not ready for sex then she's simply not ready, nothing you can do to change it. But if she wishes to deprive YOU of any sexual release, then we have problem. Don't delete it, fucking man up.

1 hours later 5068320 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>5068256 >expect men to be stoic father figures That's because that's what men want to be. You kicked us indoors, to make bread, while you make money. You fucked yourself on that one. >>5068265 It's melodramatic. It's just porn. I don't understand why it's special. It's replaceable. What's the point of saving porn if you can just get it on the internet anyway? The relationship isn't going to be sexless. You guys make it seem like it's the end of the world, and that she won't budge. She needs time. Men hold nothing sacred. THEN OTHER TIMES, I hear guys complain about how easy girls are, opening their legs on the first date. like what. >>5068304 Some people need time. You can't honestly expect a person to be ready ina couple of weeks/months.

1 hours later 5068324 Anonymous (threesome.jpg 800x600 88kB)
>>5068154 Wut? I don't get it. I'm not black.

1 hours later 5068329 Anonymous
>>5068293 >implying I don't like pissing in the ocean I'm aware, but still, I don't really have better things to do at the moment.

1 hours later 5068331 Anonymous
>>5068170 No, because I would also leave her if I got only sex and no love. It's an AND statement, both of them must be present.

1 hours later 5068335 Anonymous
>>5068178 I don't think your reaction was unreasonable in those cases, particularly not the first one as the guy seemed pushy and unwilling to communicate. There is nothing wrong with wanting to keep sex as something that you share with someone you love, or at least really like. However, a problem you might be having is poor communication or differing expectations. Basically, both people should know what they want and what the other person wants, and know what they're getting into. It's not unreasonable to want to wait but it's also not unreasonable to want sex pretty quickly, and seeing as most guys DO want sex all the time, the nonreligious ones won't want to wait forever. Maybe make it clear when a relationship seems to be starting that you're the type who likes to wait a while until things are serious before you have sex. For some guys that's a dealbreaker, and there's nothing wrong with that, but if a guy genuinely likes you and is interested in a relationship, I think in most cases he'll have no problem waiting a few months.

1 hours later 5068347 Anonymous
>>5068279 >some are actually sweet and fun. Yeah, as long as times are good. But once you get into a bad place, guess who the first one on the lifeboat is? >>5068312 >That's not remotely true. Of course women will say "nuh-uh I have loads to offer aside from sexual release" despite not having anything. >Many girls do give emotional support. The overwhelming majority don't. They expect the man to be the emotional support while she does nothing in return. This is how most relationships work. Don't cry because you think you "aren't like most girls lol"

1 hours later 5068359 Anonymous
>>5068256 >>5068279 No, I agree with him >Despite what women like to pretend, you are not very good at being emotionally supportive, This is ABSOLUTELY true. Hell, even Norah Vincent noticed this when she decided to be a reverse trap for like a year and a half to "infiltrate manhood" or whatever. Women really aren't all that emotionally nurturing as a whole. Finding one that is is very hard. >especially when you expect men to be stoic father figures who never talk to you about their problems. This is another example that was found in that book, and that any many anywhere will confirm for you. Women don't offer much in the way of understanding since they expect every straight guy to be this unfeeling brick of a man who'll be their port in a storm, but never the other way around. Really, the only thing they offer that men don't already do better is sexual attention from someone you're "allowed" to get it from. >>5068312 >Many girls do give emotional support. But the examples you gave are things that male friends do for eachother all the time! Maybe except for the massages, because LOL NO HOMO. [/spoiler]though I have gotten/given massages from/to my dudebros, but more in greeting than as a de-stressing tactic[/spoiler]

1 hours later 5068361 Anonymous
I don't get why other women get so pissy about porn. Who fucking cares? It's not like you're having an affair with or even know whoever you're fapping to. Especially so with drawn porn. Jesus.

1 hours later 5068376 Anonymous
Never get rid of your porn. That's like losing your manhood. But don't save porn on the computer. Just watch it online without downloading it. Problem solved

1 hours later 5068379 Anonymous
>>5068320 >I hear guys complain about how easy girls are, opening their legs on the first date The men who get sex on the first date aren't the ones complaining.

1 hours later 5068382 Anonymous
>>5068320 >It's just porn. It's replaceable But it's not that simple. A guys porn is a fine collection tailored exactly to his tastes, finding the same high quality pieces is very difficult. And it's like letting go of something you put an enormous amount of time and effort into, like convincing a collector to give up what he's spent years amassing. I deleted my level 85 fully heroic raid geared paladin with ease but there's nothing I'd delete my porn for. Except maybe an Oxford admission. But I don't think they ask for that thankfully.

1 hours later 5068387 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>5068379 It seems the only ones complaining are the self professed 'nice guys'

1 hours later 5068389 Anonymous
I've gotten manssages before. Its not that gay. I put my dick into women only, so I don't worry about it

1 hours later 5068390 Anonymous
If she likes you, she will fuck you, it's that simple, if no sex, get the fuck out and find another woman.

1 hours later 5068396 Anonymous
Not to distract from the general ruckus in this thread guys, but OP doesn't really need to lock/password his files. The point is not letting his girlfriend see that he has them in the first place. Besides you know, working this out like an adult by communicating the issue with her.

1 hours later 5068402 Anonymous (1285759013030.png 1079x936 486kB)
>>5068376 I think the problem with drawn stuff is that it's often a little weird

1 hours later 5068405 Anonymous
>>5068335 Yeah. I do need a guy who's willing to go slow. I even told the third guy this, but I guess he forgot. I think lack of communication was an issue, particularly since whenever I tried to bring it up, I never felt like they were really listening. There hasn't been anyone since then. I mean, there's a fourth guy who invited me to a New Years party and I think he was hoping for something to happen, but I declined to go. I'm just sort of fed up right now, I'm not finding the guys in my area all that endearing. But maybe when I'm ready to try dating again, I'll find a way to discuss those sort of expectations early on.

1 hours later 5068419 Anonymous
>>5068382 Dude you gotta relax with your porn. That kind of emotional attachment is unhealthy as shit

1 hours later 5068430 Anonymous
>>5068335 This poster has it. It's all about communication. If you don't make it clear that you want to wait for the perfect moment, then you will be dating a lot of those type of men. Save yourself time and energy and just tell them that you want it to be a unique and timeless moment. As a guy I sometimes regret losing it after only the second date. I regret it because I had physically hurt the girl with my clumsiness and inexperience.

1 hours later 5068433 Anonymous
>>5068359 >But the examples you gave are things that male friends do for eachother all the time Well then, tell me what it is that a woman has to do to be considered "nurturing" because I was already told that cuddling and holding someone and being there to listen to their troubles and maybe help them problem-solve isn't enough! And seriously, you bake cookies for your friends?

1 hours later 5068434 Anonymous
>>5068419 Seriously? I'm on /r9k/ and you think I have a choice about my emotional attachment to my porn? I have nothing else man. Porn is my only release.

1 hours later 5068435 Anonymous
>>5068396 >relationship with woman >working things out like adults >with a woman You either give them what they want or you don't, ain't no negotiating with women

1 hours later 5068449 Anonymous
>>5068434 This, what the fuck do you think we're supposed to be attached to.

1 hours later 5068453 Anonymous
>>5068419 >Dude you gotta relax with your porn. That kind of emotional attachment is unhealthy as shit Not just him. My porn collection is finely tailored to MY tastes. You will never find this specific set of Snape porn anywhere else, especially since some of it is obscure or was deleted by the artist later on. And to find all the available stuff again would mean hours of going through the SSHG exchange masterlist.

1 hours later 5068460 Anonymous
>>5067506 >us women >FEMANON HERE You're also why women have a bad name

1 hours later 5068464 Anonymous
>>5068433 > because I was already told that cuddling and holding someone and being there to listen to their troubles and maybe help them problem-solve isn't enough! No, the problem is that doing those things doesn't make up for the fact that men serve as emotional tampons for women. Sex does.

1 hours later 5068465 Anonymous
>>5068402 It is, but its available just browsing. Plus being a porn connoisseur myself, I don't gap to the same thing twice. Keeping it on the computer saved is a mistake. How often do you go back to masturbate to the same porn?

1 hours later 5068480 Anonymous
>>5068435 Women fucking hate being given a choice or compromise. Either you keel over like a little bitch for them, or you dominate them like a man and do what you fucking want. Anything less and they'll lose respect for you

1 hours later 5068486 Anonymous
>>5068076 >And I doubt every male had a fetish back then, unlike today. Nigger, back in the day ankles were a fucking fetish

1 hours later 5068499 Anonymous
>>5068465 Of every 1000 or so saved porn images, there's maybe 5 I go back to and masturbate to on occasion. But damn those 5 are gold. There's only been one video I've ever gone back to and that was because the actress was perfectly tailored to my taste in women.

1 hours later 5068503 Anonymous
>>5068453 >>5068434 If you guys are watching or using the same porn over and over again, you need to expand. Start watching and looking at different stuff. Your tastes will evolve and it will open you up sexually.

1 hours later 5068509 Anonymous
>>5068464 >No, the problem is that doing those things doesn't make up for the fact that men serve as emotional tampons for women. I'm such a reserved individual that one argument I had with the guy I dated for two months was that I never told him anything. He complained that all we did was vidya and movies and hiking and doing puzzles and solving riddles, and that I never told him a single thing about me, and that he hadn't even known I was deaf until a month and a half after we started dating. And that was because he ran his hand through my hair and accidentally knocked it off. Yeah, I don't use guys I date as an emotional tampon. I use r9k as an emotional tampon.

1 hours later 5068518 Anonymous
>>5068465 >How often do you go back to masturbate to the same porn? I do. Quite often.

1 hours later 5068526 Anonymous (sdhrul;.png 500x560 293kB)
>85+ GB of porn >boyfriend finds it >"heh you have porn" >click, click, click >"...wow, alot of porn" >scroll, scroll, scroll >closes it in disgust >"um, lets play something" LATER >come back from the shower >he's looking through it again >"some of this makes me uncomfortable" >uh, yeah, okay. >"this is really gross X" >opens my vore folder >"will you get rid of some of the disgusting stuff" >I don't really want to but like what? >"i'll look through it and put the gross stuff in a new folder" >go for it >play on my phone for a couple hours while he looks sorts my porn >"okay I'm finished" >all my vore, bestiality, captions (not just the far out stuff) bondage, anything with blood, and countless other treasures >is it really bad enough I have to delete them? >"yeah some of this shit is pretty gross" >fine then >delete it >breaks up with me a month later citing my porn as a reason Oh god my collection still hasn't recovered. NEVER choose significant others over porn.

1 hours later 5068534 Anonymous
>>5068509 >not telling people you're deaf You do have communications issues.

1 hours later 5068539 Anonymous
>>5068503 >Start watching and looking at different stuff. I tried. Most guys in video porn are ugly, and the women are so fake. And it's just got nothing emotional about it, no kissing, no nothing.

1 hours later 5068544 Anonymous (women.jpg 1280x720 91kB)
>>5068433 >Well then, tell me what it is that a woman has to do to be considered "nurturing" It's not about being nuturing at all, it's about somehow offering more than a man. having a male friend is as easy as saying "hello", but landing a girlfriend is a lot of time and effort, and probably a pile of money too. In terms of investment, a girlfriend is not as nurturing as a male friend by how much you get out of the relationship for what you put in. It's made up for in sexual/romantic attention. >And seriously, you bake cookies for your friends? I haven't in a while out of laziness, but last christmas I totally brought in a tray of the most VIP "cookies" you'd ever seen. Chocolate cookie base, then white truffle with candy canes sprinkled on top. I put the dust from crushing the canes in the truffle so it was minty all the way through. It was rad. Earlier this year I made dessert ramen, but that was more an experiment than anything else. But I guess a girl wouldn't expect a guy to have any love for his friends, or know how to do anything girly like cook, sew or listen , right? *~*Guys Only Want One Thing*~*

1 hours later 5068549 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>5068486 I would rather date a man with a ankle fetish then a fucking scat/beast/bondage fetish.

1 hours later 5068553 Anonymous
>>5068499 Then why waste the memory on the other shit? Just keep the 5 and clear out. Then you look less weird and aren't missing out on anything

1 hours later 5068561 Anonymous
>>5068509 >he ran his hand through my hair and accidentally knocked it off. What does being deaf have to do with having a wig?

1 hours later 5068568 Anonymous
>>5067479 if theyre not looking at it, theyre probably imagining it

1 hours later 5068574 Anonymous (teacher_butt.png 580x1120 322kB)
>>5068526 Yo I would just have told him that it goes in a different folder. I can understand if it's all jumbled up so hitting shuffle will get you some cute lovey-dovey shit one image and the next is some hardcore furry shota watersports zoo porn, but if it's sorted nicely and you don't have to see it who cares

1 hours later 5068580 Anonymous
What is this idea that women are fun? They have radically different ideas of what fun is. They never want to play sports with you, or just go for a cycle for the hell of it. Four years I've been playing squash and I've never seen a male/female squash team except husband and wife pairs, and it's always the husband who drags along the wife. Face it, relationship wise, men and women are depressingly not suited to each other's needs, other than the sexual. I kind of envy homosexuals in this regard.

1 hours later 5068582 Anonymous
>>5068549 I have ankle fetish and you really don't wanna know what I would do to your ankles.

1 hours later 5068583 Anonymous
>>5068320 >Men hold nothing sacred. Neither do women

1 hours later 5068587 Anonymous
>>5068561 She probably meant a hearing aid. >>5068553 >referring to HD space as "memory" TIME TO FIGHT A NIGGA

1 hours later 5068589 Anonymous
>>5068518 Every piece or a select few? Usually you guys have like 1000 pics and only use like 10. I'm just saying trim it down so you don't look so weird

1 hours later 5068595 Anonymous
>>5068549 >implying your tripfag fetish for being the constant center of attention isn't more unsettling and horrifying than any sexual fetish

1 hours later 5068603 Anonymous
>>5068589 Oh. I only have about 350 pics, but that's because my taste is so narrow. I usually go through a favorite 50, and sometimes the others.

1 hours later 5068609 Anonymous
>>5068539 Well yes. I use pics most often tbh because of that

1 hours later 5068616 Anonymous
>>5068561 Whoops. I meant a cochlear implant. He sent my implant flying. Awkwardest moment of my life, I will never forget...

1 hours later 5068618 Anonymous
>>5068580 Not all guys want to play sports or go cycling for the hell of it. I certainly don't. What's with people here assuming everyone else is exactly the same as them in terms of sex drive, interests, etc?

1 hours later 5068619 Anonymous
>>5068549 >scat/beast/bondage fetish The only fetish I know people who actually function in society having is the bondage fetish. And you've got no right to complain about that, the top selling book in the world is basically female porn that caters to kinky and rough sex. When every woman and their mother has a copy of it, that sends a message to men that "Hey, maybe chicks really are into this"

1 hours later 5068628 Anonymous
>>5068526 Wow, you should've dumped him on the spot instead, I don't understand why some really dislike their girl/boyfriend watching porn.

1 hours later 5068632 Anonymous
>>5068553 What am I missing out on by having it? I like it knowing it's there and occasionally speed browsing through. Whether I have porn or not doesn't affect my tfw no gf. And if I got a gf and she told me to delete it, well she clearly wasn't fucking worth it if she wants to control my life and take away a collection of years. Besides I said 5 of every 1000, not just 5. And I don't look weird, only my close guy friends know about my porn folder, and they have porn folders of their own. Nearly every male on the planet does. Also it's 2013, you seriously think memory space is an issue? it fucking is, my 300gb hard drive just reached full. fuck my life.

1 hours later 5068644 Anonymous
>>5068544 >But I guess a girl wouldn't expect a guy to have any love for his friends Most guys I know wouldn't bake cookies for their friends. My dad would, he's a chef and loves to bake and instilled that love in me, but no one else I know. >it's about somehow offering more than a man Well, I can offer everything a man can. The only thing a woman can offer differently is sex, I guess. Which, now that I think about it, is kind of depressing.

1 hours later 5068645 Anonymous
>>5068619 >The only fetish I know people who actually function in society having is the bondage fetish. Are you sure? There's plenty of people into shit and/or dogs who lead functional lives. They just don't tell people about it because their lives will get a lot less functional after people find out their Disgusting Secrets

1 hours later 5068661 Anonymous
>>5068644 >Which, now that I think about it, is kind of depressing. And now you finally realize. Male friends provided all of the nonsexual benefits of a gf with almost none of the pain and frustration that comes with getting one and keeping her happy. Now do you see why sex is so important?

1 hours later 5068664 Anonymous
>>5068526 >got rid of your vore folder YOU DID WHAT? If a boyfriend asked me to get rid of that, I'd say no way in hell.

1 hours later 5068671 Anonymous
>>5068632 I'm talking about people in position where a girl is looking at their computer. Same as anime pics on your walls are usually a turn off, a massive porn library is a turn off too. If you are in a position where a girl is looking at your computer, its advisable to trim it down. Or hide it

1 hours later 5068672 Anonymous
>>5068589 >look weird If ever the day comes that someone finds my porn, it won't be the quantity that makes me look weird. It'll be the beastiality, incest, mindbreak and hentai shit that does it. I gotta get a porn buddy...

1 hours later 5068675 Anonymous
>>5068661 >Now do you see why sex is so important? Yeah. Basically, a guy only wants me for sex because he can get anything else I can offer elsewhere. Ouch. No relationships for me, then.

1 hours later 5068689 Anonymous
>>5068618 Well? have you ever found a women with the same interests as you? Before you say 'video games and anime', rewind a little - if there is a girl who likes that, is she damaged or weird? Because they generally are if they pretend to be into that stuff.

1 hours later 5068700 Anonymous
>>5068671 Refer to >>5068672 No girl will ever ever ever look through my computer unless I know for a fact she's in to the same shit as me. Even then I'd be sat next to the plug ready to yank it if something I'd forgotten about came up.

1 hours later 5068704 Anonymous
TrueCrypt that shit. Or do what I did, and upload it to a private YouTube channel.

1 hours later 5068719 Anonymous
>>5068675 Finally. And in addition, not only can he get everything you offer elsewhere, he can do it with a fuck lot less crazy girl drama and shit. This is why guys prefer frequent sex with hot random strangers, it's the sex aspect delivered without the crazy side dish.

1 hours later 5068720 Anonymous
>>5068675 Not quite, because as a woman you still derive the most benefit from being in a relationship and you will inevitably seek them out so you can leech off some guy using sex as leverage.

1 hours later 5068731 Anonymous
>>5068700 Well that's fine then. That works too.

1 hours later 5068749 Anonymous
>>5068644 >Well, I can offer everything a man can. Yes, but you cost a lot more in terms of time and effort. >The only thing a woman can offer differently is sex, I guess. Pretty much. Which is probably why people complain about "prude" girls, or girls who play hard-to-get, or other girls that just wait excessively long before having sex. If a guy wanted all that other stuff in a relationship, he'd go to someone else who isn't making him jump through hoops just to look at her. It's not that you're worthless, it's that you're worth as much as everyone else. Obviously you might have some interests or w/e that set you apart from other girls and make some guys want to hang out with you, just as some guys are set apart from other guys and that's what makes them friends. but don't delude yourself into thinking that you're special just for being a girl. You ain't. You're another friend who just happens to be sexy. having a pussy doesn't make you better than men. >>5068671 Trim by hiding. Though I shamelessly have a total furfaggy wallpaper and I DON'T GIVE A FUCK. But the actual porn can stay hidden. No one's using my PC without my permission and guidance.

1 hours later 5068776 Anonymous
>>5068719 >he can do it with a fuck lot less crazy girl drama and shit I don't do drama and shit. I'm usually pretty unresponsive to that stuff. But it doesn't matter at this point. Now I'm just depressed. >>5068720 No.

1 hours later 5068803 Anonymous
>>5068776 >using sex as leverage. Are you sure you've never done this? Flirted your way out of a situation? Talked your way into some free drinks at a bar? Don't be ashamed, I've done it too, despite my shameful maleness. Remember: You're not special for having a pussy! You're just another person. If being reduced to having "just" personhood instead of being on a marble pedestal is depressing to you, maybe you're not as great a person as you think.

1 hours later 5068814 Anonymous
>>5068776 >I don't do drama and shit. Drama and women go hand in hand. Overemotionality tends to do that. >Now I'm just depressed. Now's the perfect time to buy a new emotional tampon with sex credit, the only thing women really have to offer.

1 hours later 5068829 Anonymous
>>5068675 Keep in mind you're on /r9k/ and misogynists here will easily manipulate you or mislead you to prove their own points. A relationship between a guy and girl can be deeper than any relationship the guy gets with other guys, and has a different feeling to it than most guy/guy friendships. But - and this is where even the biased guys you're responding to sort of skirt against a valid point - there is a big reason for that. That reason is sex. A relationship without sex is basically just a friendship. With sex, it's a friendship, but deeper, more intense and personal, since you're sharing the closest connection you can make with someone. That is why most guys do not want you for "just sex", contrary to what some here claim, but at the same time the sex is kind of a necessary part of it being a relationship, as that's what separates it from friendship in the first place. It's fine to wait on sex for a while until you know you really like someone as long as both partners are on the same page, but if neither person is religious and has no hangups about it, it really doesn't make sense to avoid sex, and the relationship won't work in the long run.

1 hours later 5068849 Japanese Lettuce Hardcore
>>5068619 >>5068619 >top selling book It's not though. By a long shot. A FUCKING MINORITY of females own that book. And if we are going by sells, that all those aren't legit. Men buy those books, women buy those books for OTHER women in hopes they MIGHT like it. You are a fucking idiot if you think that means all women like bondage is because of some stupid fucking book. It means nothing. >hurr durr this book is the top selling, so that must mean you want to be surprised fucking raped

1 hours later 5068863 Anonymous
>>5068803 >Are you sure you've never done this? Flirted your way out of a situation? Talked your way into some free drinks at a bar? No. >being reduced to just a person No, I always thought of myself as "just a person". Now I realize that guys don't even see me as that. They just see me for sex, because they can get anything/everything else they need from someone else. It explains their attitude. That's what's depressing me.

1 hours later 5068880 Anonymous
>>5068814 >Drama and women go hand in hand. Overemotionality tends to do that. Again, I don't do that. >the only thing women really have to offer Yeah, yeah, I get it.

1 hours later 5068888 Anonymous
>>5068829 > A relationship between a guy and girl can be deeper than any relationship the guy gets with other guys Only because of male instincts to protect and provide for women (which is why men are more invested in relationships than women and men are better friends for men than women; women don't give a fuck about men) in the hopes of reproducing with it. And when women withhold sex to manipulate them they lose any reason to stay with them.

1 hours later 5068916 Anonymous
>>5068829 >That reason is sex. I guess. I wanted to take my time because I wanted to establish trust and real rapport first. That didn't happen, so sex didn't happen, so relationship didn't happen. That's my experience thus far, and it's why my mood's tanked like the Titanic-- it's obvious they just wanted me for my body, not myself as a person. And looking at the rest of their behavior-- how they never had time or cared about any of the things I did (puzzles, riddles, books, hiking) -- it makes sense.

1 hours later 5068956 Anonymous
>>5068888 >And when women withhold sex to manipulate them I wasn't trying to manipulate them. I just wanted time.

1 hours later 5068997 Anonymous
>>5068956 >I wasn't trying to manipulate them. >I was honest when I said I had a headache and couldn't have sex ;_; You do it subconsciously, knowing that men will do more for you if they think sex is the reward. You're only upset because a lot of the men you'd dated refused to play your game. >I just wanted time. Time to get free shit out of the relationship before having to give back.

1 hours later 5069021 Anonymous
>>5068863 >Now I realize that guys don't even see me as that. They just see me for sex, because they can get anything/everything else they need from someone else. It explains their attitude. That's what's depressing me. If they're giving you that attitude, it's because you actually don't have anything to offer. Guys are friends with eachother because they have things to offer eachother. They're people that are interesting to eachother, and can depend on eachother. It sounds predatory, but it's really not. The relationships are totally symbiotic. The problem with girls is that a lot of them consider their thing that they can offer to be just sex or sexual attention. I mean really, if you actually had something to offer other than that, maybe guys would like you as more than a fuckpillow. I have some female acquaintances who I like because they're fun, interesting people and I don't at all hang out with them because I wanna fuck them. Unfortunately, most girls aren't like them, and I'd wager that you're in that category. >>5068956 >>5068916 Nah, that's pretty manipulative. If you truly didn't want to have sex and felt nothing, fine. But there's no reason not to if both parties are down. And maybe the things you do aren't interesting to these guys you're dating? It's like having that rich friend who you don't really like, but don't really hate, so you stick around because he's rich and buys you shit. You are the rich friend. Have you considered trying to be a more interesting person, or perhaps going after guys who might be reasonably interested in the things that you do instead of just blaming men for all of your romantic problems and insisting that they're all little sluts who Only Want One Thing?

1 hours later 5069025 Anonymous
>>5068997 >I was honest when I said I had a headache and couldn't have sex ;_; No. I just honestly said I wasn't ready. See >>5068178 >time to get free shit Material gifts except on special occasions make me uncomfortable. I asked for nothing except their companionship. I wasn't playing a game. But if that's what guys think, then fuck this shit, all the more reason not to date.

1 hours later 5069043 Anonymous
>>5069025 >No. I just honestly said I wasn't ready. Then you aren't ready for relationships if you aren't ready to reciprocate. >I asked for nothing except their companionship. That is, an emotional tampon.

1 hours later 5069065 Anonymous
>>5067647 No? I mean, I've been doing it for like eight years or so now, you get used to it when you do it as often as a male can.

1 hours later 5069074 Anonymous
>>5069025 >I asked for nothing except their companionship. But is your own companionship worth anything? You keep saying it like having other friends means they don't need you, but then why would you need more than one friend ever? It sounds like you're trying to be a lover first and a friend second, and playing typical dating games to establish that you're their lover instead of just trying to be their friend.

1 hours later 5069087 Anonymous
>>5068916 >my mood's tanked You should probably get out of this thread. /r9k/ is not a good place to find out what men are like, and it's a unhealthy board for both men and women - but the guys you're responding to in this thread are predatory trolls who want to hurt you and make you feel bad about yourself. Basically, some guys want sex quick, some guys have no problem waiting, and most guys - while sex is very important to them - want to be with women for who they are. It's just a matter of finding the right guy and being open and communicative in a relationship about wants, needs, etc. In b4 I am only telling you all this because I am a whiteknight who somehow thinks you're going to happen to live near me, give me your contact info, and eventually fuck me.

2 hours later 5069115 Anonymous
>>5069021 >you don't actually have anything to offer Dunno. Right now, it feels like I have nothing to offer, other than sex, purely because guys can find people who are interested in intellectual discourse elsewhere. My preferred topic of discussion is art, poetry, virology, and bio-evolutionary anthropology. And carnivorous botany. I'm sure they can find other people interested in that, or don't care about that stuff in the first place. Maybe they really didn't find doing puzzles or having riddle competitions all that fun. And one of them flat-out hated poetry. I have a guy friend who used to have a thing for me until he discovered he thought I was too much like a sister, and we still hang out and do a lot of stuff together, so it can't possibly be that I have nothing to offer. It just might be that I'm not what those other guys wanted. Which is fine. >nah, that's pretty manipulative Wanting trust and rapport before sex is manipulative? Either way, it doesn't matter now. I'm too depressed to even think seriously about dating right now.

2 hours later 5069119 Anonymous
Listen OP, I can't imagine how crap that dilemma is. I've been going out with a girl for three years and though she hasn't felt ready for PIV sex (God dammit, now I'm using queerkin terms) but we've done everything else and I'll be honest, if she had withheld all sexual activity until the point she's ready for proper intercourse, I don't think I would have stuck around. There's a Hunter S. Thompson quote I have taken to heart - "Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex". Now, I'm sure I'll have some asexuals bitching at me about this, but since you don't have sex drives (Or shouldn't - if you do, find another sexual identity like demisexual or something) this quote isn't applicable to you. I interpret the 'sex' in that quote as romantic or sexual activity, not necessarily penetrative sex.

2 hours later 5069132 Anonymous
>>5067647 >Don't you get sad when you realize you're sitting alone, at your computer, with your fucking dick in your hand? No, because when you're horny all you think about is fapping and reaching orgasm. And even if I did, what good would it do? As a shy male I am basically consigned to permanent involuntary celibacy, so why bother worrying about it?

2 hours later 5069137 Anonymous
>>5068849 Most romance novels feature psuedo-rape and bondage. Men don't buy that shit

2 hours later 5069149 Anonymous
>>5069115 >Wanting trust and rapport before sex is manipulative? It's sex. The only reason you need "trust and rapport" before it is because of the value you place on your own vagina as a MANIPULATION TOOL. What you're saying is that you want to make sure he'll be a good doggie before you start giving him treats.

2 hours later 5069152 Anonymous
>>5069087 >You should probably get out of this thread. Yeah. I'm going to go back to working on my puzzle, that'll hopefully cheer me up. Normally I can take r9k toxicity, but today, they hit a crack in the shield. Thanks, man. I'm out.

2 hours later 5069162 Anonymous
>>5069087 >it's a unhealthy board for both men and women Only because it's honest. IMO, the best way to get at the truth is by picking shit like this down to the tiniest minutiae. >Basically, some guys want sex quick, some guys have no problem waiting, and most guys - while sex is very important to them - want to be with women for who they are. This is what we're collectively saying. There's an anon insisting that sex is all that matters, there's myself insisting that you have to be a person of value first and foremost, and there's probably some responses inbetween. What I'm saying is that if she isn't a person who gives sex frivolously but also isn't a woman who's worth being with for who she is, then she really ain't got shit.

2 hours later 5069210 Anonymous
>>5069162 >then she really ain't got shit But what if she does have something to offer? But what if what she has to offer just isn't stuff the guys she's dating care about?

2 hours later 5069214 Anonymous
>>5069115 >Right now, it feels like I have nothing to offer, other than sex, purely because guys can find people who are interested in intellectual discourse elsewhere. See, you're sounding real pretentious right now. But let's be real here; of all the people in the world to talk to, why talk to you? This is something male robots get posted at them every day when they complain about >tfw no gf. They have nothing special to them that makes girls want to date them. Why should guys date you if you aren't special in some way? Good job, you can talk about those things. If there's a guy out there who's into that, find him and talk with him instead of dating whoever looks good and complaining when they find you boring. >Maybe they really didn't find doing puzzles or having riddle competitions all that fun. lol that sounds lame as shit tho seriously, you just sound like a really boring person, so why would guys be into you for anything other than sex? Be not boring and then guys are gonna want to do shit with you.

2 hours later 5069223 Anonymous
I was with my last gf for 4 years, 2 years in she asked me to do the very same thing. I never did, we broke up and I still have it...this shit lasts longer than girlfriends, I'd only delete it if I got married...even then that doesn't even last forever...

2 hours later 5069228 Anonymous
Women tend to be pretty bad at emotional support. My first girlfriend cheated on me, told me, and was upset that I was upset. I tried to put it behind us, but she broke up with me a few weeks later for some who she'd been having an emotional affair with for a month or two. My second girlfriend was sweet, but eventually when I opened up to her, she started to cheat on me with some guy who later cheated on her. My third girlfriend pressured me into being physical far to early - I didn't even know the girl and had hardly found my bearing in my new surroundings, but she wanted us to have heavy make-out sessions in the first week. She broke up with me. My fifth girlfriend was an emotionally manipulative girl who lies about things to gain control, and she thought that every time I was opening up to her I was doing the same thing. She broke up with me. Sixth girlfriend left me because the last girl still wanted me. Gave the 5th girl another shot, but it stayed the same, and she broke up with me before I could break up with her. Dating my current girlfriend. I have supported her through all her emotional downs, however she only listens to my feelings and offers support when I'm too overwhelmed and cry. During a spat of deep depression she almost broke up with me because I didn't have to energy to do anything and couldn't feel anything. She's a perfectly sweet girl any other time, but she sucks shit at emotional support.

2 hours later 5069238 Anonymous
>>5069214 >Be not boring Yeah? What's "not boring"? Personally, I think puzzles are a lot of fun. I'm working on one right now, and I love it when other people want to join in, especially since a lot of people don't care about it/claim they don't have time for it.

2 hours later 5069256 Anonymous
>>5069210 >But what if she does have something to offer? Then she's not doing a good job of showing it? >But what if what she has to offer just isn't stuff the guys she's dating care about? Then she should stop complaining about how all men just want sex and nothing else from women, and instead find those guys who do care about the stuff she does? It's like the male robots who complain that all girls care about is money and looks. Well it's obvious that it'd look like that from a typical male robot's eyes, since they don't have anything else in their lives to be involved with! So girls who are kinda boring and don't have much value outside of their looks and pussy might see the world as if guys only want one thing, when really, it's that guys only want one thing FROM THEM.

2 hours later 5069266 Anonymous (1342320536048.gif 480x360 414kB)
>>5067704 >stop tripping >Dat double entendre mfw

2 hours later 5069267 Anonymous
>>5069149 Eh, some girls use their pussys as a man-ipulation tool, however, a lot of girls just want to make sure the guy won't pump'n'dump, which can lead to them being seen as a slut. I'm a dude, though not a current-wave feminist by any means.

2 hours later 5069275 Anonymous
>>5069228 >however she only listens to my feelings and offers support when I'm too overwhelmed and cry. This is a thing I've noticed about women. They really only do seem to care when a guy is on the verge of mental illness.

2 hours later 5069303 DeShamrock (1352411823318.jpg 292x283 70kB)
>>5067824 >males only need to have sex once >have sex once >sex >once Males are programmed to impregnate as many females as possible.

2 hours later 5069312 Anonymous (abc.jpg 310x450 16kB)
>>5069228 you are doing it all wrong. Men are not supposed to be opened with women. Ignore what they says on gosshit magazine, women don't want to hear a man"s problem. You will appear as a weakling if you do so. Men are there to be strong, independent to support and be a women's sink. The sooner you realize this the better.

2 hours later 5069328 Anonymous (norah vincent stoicism.jpg 505x530 64kB)
>>5069312 This. Pic related. A woman went reverse-trapping to see what being a man is like, and found that it's basically how /r9k/ describes it.

2 hours later 5069450 Anonymous (1345160016053.jpg 329x475 31kB)
>>5069328 the problem with modern society and feminism is the effeminate man. In the past, there were no stupid girly magazine who brainwash girls into believing that men should be more open and sharing with their partner. In the past, we call men on /r9k/ weakling and loser. Men are not there to complain. We are disposable and always will be. You are not supposed to be happy with your dream girl. It's all modern invention. Only 40% men get to pass on their genes in the past. I want us to go back /r9k/. Back to the age when an ideal men is a silent, strong, calm, and always ready to sacrifice.

2 hours later 5069467 Almagest
>>5067461 Does she have any sex toys? Do the same shit to her. She doesn't need it cause it's 'disrespectful.' Or just be the bigger man and do it. I mean, you still have the internet, so it's not like you're at a total loss if you ever need a quickie. (You could always have a hidden folder or something to keep your best stuff.)

2 hours later 5069474 Anonymous
Oh god wow http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=m EJRwIf1FF0#! This man is a genius A fucking hero of our time He truly gets it And that witty comeback, so fucking smooth I'd go homo for him in a heartbeat

2 hours later 5069505 Anonymous
>>5069450 Back then there was something worth sacrificing yourself for. I'm not going to work my ass off so Amy can fufill her dream of getting fucked by ten cocks at once.

2 hours later 5069617 Anonymous
>>5069505 Then act. You can choose. Plenty of abusive cases go unreported because women are submissive creature. You can put her in her place. This doesn't mean you have to be a wife beater. Wife beater are weak. Men who constantly beat women because of his problem are weak. But before you choose, consider this yourself. Am I man enough to accept the consequence of my action? Also, you may not have to hit hers at all. You just need to show hers your dominance. It's just like dogs. You need to show hers who is the alpha male here.

2 hours later 5069627 Anonymous
>>5069450 And here, gentlemen, we have a textbook example of a Brainwashed Male. He claims not to believe in feminism, but espouses its values concerning men at every opportunity.

2 hours later 5069656 Anonymous
>>5069474 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c3nDdlWMrAM He is our lord and saviour

2 hours later 5069672 Anonymous
>>5069627 Feminism is about equality between man and woman. That mean man can be soft and submissive while woman can be strong and dominance. What did I say relate to feminism? Naturally, we are made to be disposable. Not only to women but to other men too. I know full well if I am in a position of power, I will sacrifice the lot of you for my own glory.

2 hours later 5069688 Anonymous (1339995688736.jpg 246x251 9kB)
>>5069672 >this post bloccks

2 hours later 5069713 Anonymous
>>5069688 Are you making an argument or are you just dumping your reaction image folder?

2 hours later 5069729 Anonymous
>>5069672 Why do these sorts of LMBO MANLY MANS have such bad spelling and grammar?

2 hours later 5069748 Anonymous
>>5069729 because the internet is a fun and relaxing place that isn't meant to be taken seriously?

2 hours later 5069758 Anonymous
>>5069748 You shut your whore mouth, the internet is serious business.

2 hours later 5069764 Anonymous
>>5069748 Not taking something seriously doesn't mean you have to completely lose your grasp on the english language. Plus, it makes any arguments you make look bad.

2 hours later 5069783 Anonymous
>>5069764 But I'm not native English speaker. I hope you don't fucking go "4chan is 'Merrica forum

2 hours later 5069818 Anonymous
>>5069783 So you're from the third world, I guess? That explains your views on the sexes.

2 hours later 5069871 Anonymous
That's one of the more obnoxious, self centered, insecure, demanding, uncaring, unaware things I've heard in a while. Get out while you can. If you must continue make it clear you wont stand for that shit.

2 hours later 5069880 Anonymous
>>5069818 Yeah, but my country is not sexist. Only pig disgusting mudslime treat women like pigs. In my country we are at that phase when women have equal chance to men but they have not yet become so deluded they start seeing rapist everywhere.

3 hours later 5070134 Anonymous
If someone is so insecure that they get angry over the thought of you masturbating then they are way too insecure for their own good and will go crazy on you anyway. Those kinds of people are the ones that will ring you up every hour you are not with them thinking that you have cheated or something.

3 hours later 5070229 Anonymous
>>5069312 I know. I stopped really opening up after the 5th chick. I've only opened up to my current girlfriend three times, essentially once for every year we've been together

3 hours later 5070267 Anonymous
Men made men disposable for most of history in the name of women. However, third wave feminism arose at a time when men were finally starting to stop seeing themselves as disposable. It will take decades for men to get back on track and realize that they are worth no more or no less than women.

3 hours later 5070307 Anonymous
>>5070267 Things are only worth as much as people pay for them. Guys are still valuable to other guys, and always have been, but to women? We're worthless. Dime-a-dozen.

3 hours later 5070386 Anonymous
>>5067541 Wow, I've been coming on 4chan for the last 8 years, and I almost always just read stuff, and never post anything. But damn, this gurl is crazy. She is all that is bad in a woman. Do not listen to her, she is the reason most of u brobots are single.

3 hours later 5070446 Anonymous
>>5070386 I will take JLH over Swami any day. JLH is just silly. Swami is a fucking shit post master.

5 hours later 5072326 Anonymous
Well to the girl above who said guys just see her for sex. I'll write a TLDR 2 post thing. I honestly never really wanted a girlfriend my entire life. Never tried for one. I'm pretty self sufficient. Rarely do I get lonely. And all I wanted a girl for was to stick my cock in. Because dealing with most of you is more of a chore than fun for the vast majority. But I do enjoy talking to some women. I just simply don't click with most girls, and I won't bother trying to impress. They either like me, or thy don't. I do know one girl who is pretty much best friend. She's quite sweet to me, very caring, understanding, we like 75% of the same stuff, she used to be an addict, I still am one but shell use with me still. Both mentally ill. Both blonde and blue eyes. Both do science/math best. Both decent intelligence. My IQ is like 120, hers is 130. She's more booksmart than me by far, way better at school. But I'm more clever in a practical way and have more varied life experience than her. She's a sheltered rich girl, I sell dope. She'll listen to me bitch about issues/problems. And me hers. Will even wake up at 3 am to 'check on me' if i'm having withdrawals. If I'm having problems deciphering woman speak she'll do it for me. Used to pretend to be my sister and get dumb dealers to lower the prices since she's a very, very hot blonde. Making them think she's into them. Then we get our drugs cheap, dealer gets no pussy, and we go and get high/have sex. When she had a boyfriend, she'd make girls jealous by climbing all over me. She's amazingly hot in the face. Her body is a bit skinny, she has eating problems. When she was single though, she never would help me get a girl. Basically, she acts pretty cool and not like a bitch. I don't think we've ever really had more than 2 arguments, and it was over a misunderstanding. It's weird. Only thing she's against is guns, when I love them.

5 hours later 5072345 Anonymous
I met her when she had a boyfriend, and she was witty/clever so I kept talking to her instead of cutting contact. We became close friends over time, then pretty much best friends. Never tried to fuck her or hit on her because we mainly talked on the computer. So she kind of acted like my little sister. Besides from having a crush on her for like 1 month, I never got mad when she was with a guy since I didn't love/like her in that way. She seemed kind of like a kid since she's 5 years younger than me and 'looked up to me'. And then her friend she knew since she was 3 told me I was the only guy she trusted. Then one day we were smoking speed, and she asks me if I want to fuck her. Never really got horny talking to her since we didn't flirt or anything. But, she' looks fucking good and im comfortable around her, so I of course instantly said yes. Then aftershe asked me why I never tried to fuck her before Like 6 months later, she told me she loved me and wanted to get together. Only issue was, she cheated on her boyfriends, lots of them. And was very slutty. Sometimes 10-15 different guys in one month. So, I told her no. Because I'd pretty much hate her if she cheated. She'd be pretty much a PERFECT gf if she wasn't a habitual cheater. Still talk to her like everyday now almost. It's always more comfortable being open to her than to another man. Which is a benefit of male/female friendship. Could never get as close to a guy as I could to her. Would feel weird. And there wasn't any pissing contests really. Maybe for a few things but we didn't act competitive. Also both had the same mental illness and addictions, so neither of us fit in. Unless I got along with a girl really well like this. Why would I want to do more than fuck her? What would she offer me? All she'd do is expect me to entertain her, be there for her issues, then tell me to man up when I had any or act bored/disinterested. Nope. I'd rather fuck casually and have male friends than that.

6 hours later 5072422 Anonymous
>>5072326 >>5072345 This makes me sad somehow. sadblox

6 hours later 5072734 Anonymous
>>5067461 Dude the solution is unbelievably simple: move them to a hidden folder with a misleading name, put a fucking password on your computer, and tell her the porn is gone.

6 hours later 5072782 Anonymous
>>5067536 Fuck that, get the hell out of there. If she hasn't done it yet she never will. There are a few girls out there who are legitimately not bitches, retards, and are down to fuck. Just look really really hard.

6 hours later 5072802 Anonymous
Do not delete it. She is being irrational.

6 hours later 5072831 Anonymous
>>5067583 >If you need sex more times then she is willingly to do, maybe there is something wrong with you... No woman wants to have sex as much as any man anywhere ever. There's nothing wrong with a man who likes sex more than his girlfriend.

6 hours later 5072843 Anonymous
>2013 >not knowing how to hide your porn dis nigga

6 hours later 5072864 Anonymous
It's simple. Tell her you disagree but delete it anyway out of respect.

6 hours later 5072884 Anonymous
>>5067647 All this proves is that women don't get it.

6 hours later 5072901 Anonymous
>>5067701 0/10 I'm completely calm n shit. I actually can't get angry when I'm high.

6 hours later 5072986 Anonymous
>>5067786 Dextroamphetamine master race here. How do you like your neurotoxicity so far?

6 hours later 5073038 Anonymous
>>5072422 Why sad? Didn't intend that at all. Was just explaining to her that unless she can offer more than a male friend personality wise, like this girl did, why would we need a girlfriend? Just have casual sex instead. Then sexual and emotional needs are fulfilled with less effort and drama. There are plenty of girls who offer more than sex. And pretty much all guys ive known, wouldn't pump and dump a girl who was actually fun to be around.

6 hours later 5073072 Anonymous
>>5067461 I don't get it why is it disrespectful? I mean she isn't fucking you and if you are horny why shouldn't you have porn if it is there.

6 hours later 5073119 Anonymous
>>5072864 No. >>5072843 This. How dumb are you OP >>5067461 Bring up the fact that you have basic needs and that if she can't fulfill them you'll look elsewhere

6 hours later 5073147 Anonymous
>>5067939 I saw it coming and still laughed.

6 hours later 5073155 Anonymous
>>5067956 Look at every one of his/ her posts and you'll find that the answer is yes.

6 hours later 5073231 Anonymous
>>5068157 It's for reproduction, but it's also a tool for creating closer male-female pair bonds. Read some Desmond Morris.

7 hours later 5073332 Anonymous
>>5072345 >>5072326 AGREED. Ideal girlfriend = best friend who's down to fuck all the time It's really a shame that men and women want different things in a partner. Also a shame your friend isn't a faithful girl, girls who want to be with their guy friends are rare I think.

7 hours later 5073393 Anonymous
>>5068433 >And seriously, you bake cookies for your friends? I sometimes make edibles and share them with my bros.

7 hours later 5073441 Anonymous
>>5068549 You do realise that he'd want to ejaculate on your ankles, yes?

7 hours later 5073553 Anonymous
>>5068749 >Yes, but you cost a lot more in terms of time and effort. And money man, don't forget the fucking money it costs to maintain a girlfriend.

7 hours later 5073580 Anonymous
>>5068675 That's the same as men realising that women only want them for status/money and giving up.

7 hours later 5073617 Anonymous
>>5068829 A perfect world then would be 100% bisexual hedonists. But there would be no STDs. Or unplanned pregnancies. Fuck, now I want to live there.

7 hours later 5073715 Anonymous
>>5069115 >bio-evolutionary anthropology You mean sociobiology. If I found a girl who was legitimately interested in that and didn't have any retarded 'opinions' about it I would fuck the everliving shit out of her. That's not because I would objectify her, but because I would have found an intellectual companion and a fuckuddy all in one. Get it?

7 hours later 5073763 Anonymous
>>5069119 >demisexual That's a made up fairy tale fucking retard sexuality.

7 hours later 5073823 Anonymous
>>5067461 she's playing you. she loves the way she can just deprive you of sex to such an extent. chances are she's fucking someone else. play along. if your collection means a lot to you back up your porn and see where it gets you. chances are she's just seeing how much control she has over you though

7 hours later 5073868 Anonymous
>>5067571 This is fucking hilarious. The girl tries to force an ultimatum and eventually eats shit for it.

8 hours later 5074248 Anonymous
>>5069880 Sounds like a healthy balance.

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