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2012-12-25 10:09 4959429 Anonymous (1352935643148.gif 500x281 481kB)
Women: Do you enjoy being dominated in bed? Do you have problems with feeling respected when you are dominated and handled roughly in bed? Do you think it to be sexist?
Men: Do you enjoy being rough in bed? Do you think being rough and dominant is compatible with respecting your partner? Do you think men being rough in bed comes from hating women?
5 min later 4959475 Anonymous
>>4959429
No. I hate being dominated. That's why I'm the dom in bed.
9 min later 4959512 Anonymous
>>4959475
how many strap ons do you have?
10 min later 4959520 Anonymous
>do I enjoy being rough in bed
Thats like asking if I enjoy food.
10 min later 4959525 Anonymous
Nothing makes me come harder than a crying bitch that knows she is nothing but a whore.
11 min later 4959536 Anonymous
Mt gf loves when I'm super aggressive in bed. I personally prefer when she is the dominate one.
>tfw she holds you down and grinds on your dick until she cums hardcore on top of you.
I always try to get her super turned on first, then I stop pushing to force her to take control if she wants to cum.
When I do get aggressively dominant and rough (As rough as dragging and throwing her around to get a good position, pulling her hair, and giving her the occational slap is.), I think she is too overwhelmed to feel disrespected. Besides, she knows that I'm trying to make her cum, and I'm never disrespectful, so I think she just enjoys it.
I don't feel like its difficult to separate out bed and pulic love life.
15 min later 4959565 Anonymous
>>4959429
I like both. It depends on when and how and what mood I'm in.
When I'm dominated, it feels amazing because in real life I'm normally modest and not sexual. It's like playing pretend and I don't feel afraid because I wouldn't do it with anybody else except my partner.
It's not sexist because I'm agreeing to it and he agrees to me being dominating too.
18 min later 4959593 Anonymous
You can love, admire and respect a woman, you can put her on a pedestal and worship her. But on a regular basis you need to drag her down off that pedestal, tear her clothes off, pin her down and fuck her like an animal.
Sex is older than our species, and predates society and civilization by millions of years, it's the most ancient, primal and irrational part of our makeup. Respect is one of society's rules, and during sex it gets left on the floor along with your clothes. There's no room for respect in sex as far as I'm concerned (unless you're doing some kind of weird dom/sub stuff or whatever.)
When you're done, you put your clothes back on and you can put her right back on that pedestal and go right back to admiration and respect. But it's stupid to try to respect someone while you're in the middle of fucking her mouth.
Statisticly I'd say that most women will probably feel better about the man taking the dominant role, a few women I've been with have really liked other things like being called names, choked, spanked, etc. Some women prefer to have a more dominant role. Find what works, and find someone you're sexually compatible with.
33 min later 4959746 Anonymous
>>4959565
Are you a man or a woman?
Kind of matters for what anybody posting in here is saying.
36 min later 4959769 Anonymous
>>4959475
> Implying you're actually a girl
38 min later 4959792 Anonymous
>>4959746
Sorry about that, I'm female
41 min later 4959835 Anonymous
>>4959429
nothing better than ripping some girls clothes off.
Throwing her down
spreading her legs and going down on her
then fucking her raw.
43 min later 4959859 Anonymous
>dfw every woman I've met liked being dominated
>dfw premature ejaculation
>dfw impossible to dominate any woman ever
44 min later 4959860 Anonymous
>>4959746
What if they're a transgendered otherkin? fuck you and your cis privilege!
45 min later 4959872 Anonymous
Being quite a feminist (well, egalitarian), I've always felt quite guilty about having sub tendencies, probably because shortly after I discovered it at 16ish, I started coming on r9k, and it was all
>women enjoy being sub because they're naturally inferior in every way etc etc
I don't know, I get off to it in porn and at times try to suppress it, but if it was my boyfriend doing it, I think i'd be genuinely hurt by his actions. Fortunately enough my ex was into femdom, and my friends know that, so they think i'm into that stuff too.
I know, I know.
I wish everyone was just vanilla sometimes.
46 min later 4959887 Anonymous
My fwb enjoys me getting dominate and rough with her. She likes it when I get into a "primal" mode and treat her like a fuck toy. We have gentle love sessions also but doing that from time to time is satisfying for both of us.
At times she'll get dominate with me and devour me at her leisure. She used to wrestle in high school so pinning me and riding me like her sex slave turns her on. All in all we change roles in the bedroom frequently.
46 min later 4959891 Anonymous
>>4959872
>I wish everyone was just vanilla sometimes.
You're the worst...
47 min later 4959898 Anonymous
>tfw girlfriend is ultra-sub
>tfw begs me to dom
>treat her like a pet in bed
>treat her with equal respect and kindness when not fucking
Recipe to good sex life
47 min later 4959900 Anonymous
>>4959872
>feminist
>self loathing because of sexuality
Wow, that's something new. Sarcasm.
48 min later 4959903 feminazi mangina
>>4959872
So you feel as a sub, but you don't dare to live it?
I don't think feminism wants that!
49 min later 4959917 Anonymous
>>4959872
>vanilla sex
It's a bond between two people in a expression of affection, not a morning jog. There has to be a fire of passion and play involved.
50 min later 4959924 Anonymous
>male
I love being dominant in bed. Gets me off knowing I'm in full control of whether or not they make it off that bed alive
1 hours later 4960053 Anonymous
>have feminist gf
>lectures me when I say something sexiest
>enjoys simulated rape in the bedroom
She likes to pretended I'm a home invader who has come to rape her.
Never ask about the contradiction with her views and what we are doing because I enjoy the role play too.
1 hours later 4960113 Anonymous
>>4960053
your fetish is usually the opposite of whatever you are like in person
im beta as fuck in person but see me and the bedroom and ill choke you while spanking you
>obligatory no homo
1 hours later 4960124 feminazi mangina
>>4960113
You're implying all the punks and goths and wiggers prefer straight vanilla TV sex?
1 hours later 4960149 Anonymous
>>4960124
>usually
dont mistake that for 'all'.
1 hours later 4960151 Anonymous
>male
>love being dominat
>I can respect a girl and still dominate her
>of the 10 girls I fucked all liked rough sex: spanking, hair pulling, pinning her down, facials, slapping etc
>im ok with this
1 hours later 4960168 feminazi mangina
>>4960149
So, you're implying most of them usually do?
1 hours later 4960185 Anonymous
>>4960168
Thaaaaat's what I said
this isn't an addon sentence to evade the robot
1 hours later 4960205 Anonymous
>Do you enjoy being dominated in bed?
No.
>Do you have problems with feeling respected when you are dominated and handled roughly in bed?
I would if I was being dominated/handled roughly.
>Do you think it to be sexist?
Not at all. I just don't find it appealing or sexy at all.
1 hours later 4960240 dudebro
>Do you enjoy being rough in bed?
Depends on the mood, sometimes
>Do you think being rough and dominant is compatible with respecting your partner?
Sure
>Do you think men being rough in bed comes from hating women?
Nope
1 hours later 4960245 feminazi mangina
>>4960185
I'm surprised by your opinion. I'd thought punks like kinky shit.
1 hours later 4960263 Anonymous
I think there's quite a big difference between that gif and being dom
1 hours later 4960278 Anonymous
>>4960245
Probably. There are obviously exceptions to my opinion of course, although from knowing most of my irl guy and girl friends it's safe to say you deeply sexually enjoy things you'd otherwise hate if you were to just be thinking about it. such as the thought of your wife sleeping with another man being hot yet if you actually caught her sleeping with another guy you'd be devastated
1 hours later 4960288 Anonymous
>>4960113
this is why i prefer nerds who have dominant traits. not like ultra beta, please take care of me, but the ones who know what they want. many people can't understand it, but it seems obvious and more girls should be more accepting to males of this nature. they tend to treat you better too.
1 hours later 4960297 Anonymous (1308374586621.jpg 719x712 52kB)
>tfw switch master race
>tfw don't have to date emasculating cunts who think being a domme = being a feminist
>tfw don't have to date submissive housefrau bitches who have no self-respect
>tfw the catharsis of treating eachother like absolute shit in equal parts is the secret to happiness
1 hours later 4960298 Anonymous
I just want to eat pussy
pls help
1 hours later 4960312 Anonymous (women should be broken.gif 350x262 1011kB)
Would should be broken down and treated like a piece of fuck meat.
They deserve nothing less. They like it too.
1 hours later 4960347 Anonymous
I don't think I've ever met a woman who doesn't love being dominated.
It's inherent.
1 hours later 4960359 Anonymous (dumbslut sucks out cum from a condom.gif 275x159 1038kB)
>>4960347
Exactly. Why do you think they always go for asshole? Because they love being treated like animals.
If /r9k/ was a confident we'd be the guys girls go for. Misogynistic confident assholes.
1 hours later 4960374 Anonymous
>>4959903
Good point. r9k gave me a pretty big complex, but i'll get over it someday!
>>4959917
>>4959891
I meant more that nothing gets them off more than vanilla sex, not everyone has vanilla sex whether they like it or not.
1 hours later 4960421 Anonymous (womens rights.gif 500x268 267kB)
>tfw no gf to completely degrade and dominate
1 hours later 4960462 Anonymous
>>4959872
I know your feels, femanon. I've had similar guilt and self-loathing over my desires (I'm a switch, but a raging femdom fetishist). Am I genetically determined to be be a cuckold? Is femdom the "beta disease"? That sort of thing.
I won't dom someone unless I know beforehand that they are very conscious that it's just a fantasy, because I'm absolutely terrified of the idea that women might be "innately submissive". Girls who are dependent, clingy, and submissive in their personality scare the shit out of me for this reason. I don't want a pet, I want a partner.
The important thing is to make sure you have an open dialogue about this with your partner. Many many guys genuinely do see their girlfriend as nominally subordinate, because she's weaker, frailer, and she likes giving pleasure more than receiving, or enjoys being taken forcefully. You just need to make sure you aren't dating a scumbag. But also make sure you aren't doing the reverse and taking advantage of male subs - we're in the same boat as you.
1 hours later 4960463 feminazi mangina
>>4960374
If you led /r9k/ your sex life, you're doing it very, very wrong. If you like to be tied down and handled roughly, that's your choice, just make sure the guy's a decent guy.
1 hours later 4960471 Anonymous
Soooo, dominant/"alpha" women are the most submissive in bed?
1 hours later 4960474 Anonymous
>>4960312
>>4960359
>>4960421
have you tried craigslist? or a coworker? better yet purchase a gf through a sex trade company, that's a sure thing
1 hours later 4960483 Anonymous (1983684528.gif 450x225 1041kB)
>>4960463
>implying she isn't doing it very right.
Don't confuse she should know her place
1 hours later 4960499 Anonymous (fucking whore.gif 320x240 996kB)
>>4960474
I hooked up with a friend of a friend once who didn't like it when i got really rough and started crying when i spit her in the face, however she let me finish.
1 hours later 4960520 Anonymous
>>4960421
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otUcnfiBTLs
1 hours later 4960524 Anonymous
Women want dominant men because women are useless.
Why do you think they always want an outgoing guy?
Answer: Because they're boring as shit themselves so the guy must provide all the entertainment.
Why do they want a rich guy?
Answer: Because they're lazy as fuck.
Why do they always want the guy to lead?
Answer: Because they have no fucking clue how to do it themselves.
Why do they want a guy who is amazing in bed? Answer: Because they suck at sex too.
It's not a matter of of some obscure fetish it's just a matter of pure laziness and uselessness and that is what makes the so called submissive women pathetic.
1 hours later 4960546 feminazi mangina
>>4960524
arcanine: make everything about how much women suck (because you're not proud of yourself as a person, and are trying to tell yourself you're good just on virtue of being a man)
1 hours later 4960554 Anonymous
>>4960524
wow. you're so wrong. someone must've really hurt you before. your mother perhaps...?
1 hours later 4960582 Anonymous
>>4960524
funnily enough some of the scions of feminism would agree with this entirely
1 hours later 4960586 Anonymous
>>4960483
which facialabuse video is that?
1 hours later 4960600 Anonymous (choke the dumbslut.gif 450x225 878kB)
>>4960586
It's the one with proxy paige, if thats how you spell her name...
1 hours later 4960619 Anonymous (donkey punch.gif 450x338 922kB)
>you will never donkey punch your qt3.14 gf
2 hours later 4960650 Anonymous
>>4960600
do you know a source for steaming?
2 hours later 4960660 feminazi mangina
>>4960657
Nice, tell me more about how you're a stupid deluded idiot.
2 hours later 4960665 Anonymous
>>4960660
>feminazi
lol, look who is talking
2 hours later 4960670 Anonymous
>>4960657
Living or dead? There are a couple dead.
It's a bad state of affairs but not a necessary one.
2 hours later 4960681 Anonymous
>>4960657
maybe stop hanging out in retarded places
2 hours later 4960684 Anonymous (1693740601.gif 500x275 970kB)
>>4960650
No sorry, i don't all my porn. I'll have a look around at some streaming sites though
2 hours later 4960688 Anonymous
>>4960657
>delete post
>everyone has 4chan x
2 hours later 4960689 Anonymous
>>4960524
I've never considered myself as a sexist, in my entire life, but now looking back, I've never felt admiration for any girl as a person ... never.
2 hours later 4960700 Anonymous (spitting them in the face while they suck your cock is the proper way to treat a woman.gif 400x381 743kB)
>>4960684
>>4960684
>i don't all my porn
I mean i download all my porn. What am i saying...
You can download it off empornium.
2 hours later 4960711 Anonymous
>>4960657
Don't delete your post because malefeminist yelled at you, bro. He has replied to 80% of posts on this board for the last year, and 90% of it has him filtered.
2 hours later 4960721 Anonymous
>>4960312
>>4960359
>>4960421
>>4960483
>>4960499
>>4960600
>>4960619
>>4960684
>>4960700
>give women rights
>this is what they do with it
We're suppoused to respect them?
2 hours later 4960722 Anonymous
>>4960670
Okay, Which dead females do you admire and why?
2 hours later 4960731 Anonymous
oh my god this mistreatment of women gets my cock diamond hard wtf
2 hours later 4960737 Anonymous (strong womyn.gif 450x249 968kB)
>>4960721
>STRONG LIBERATED WOMYN
HEAR ME ROAR
2 hours later 4960743 Anonymous
>>4960721
yes
porn stars are the majority of women who live normal lives
2 hours later 4960754 Anonymous
>>4960711
I didn't delete it, I fixed. Read it above bro.
2 hours later 4960755 Anonymous
>>4959520
Do you like food?
2 hours later 4960757 Anonymous
>>4960731
it isn't mistreatment if they're into it.
its just rough sex. I used to have a gf with a rape fetish. Did stuff like this all the time.
strangely she didn't like it when I did actually rape her.
2 hours later 4960758 Anonymous
>>4960721
Believe it or not, most women aren't mimicing facialabuse scenes let alone starring in them.
2 hours later 4960762 Anonymous (She loves it.gif 500x264 1024kB)
>>4960743
>implying this isn't what the majority of women do in their bedroom with multiple partners
>>4960758
Facial abuse mimics real life not the other way around.
2 hours later 4960778 Anonymous
>>4960758
>implying all women wouldn't jump at the chance to be in one of those videos if paid enough
2 hours later 4960789 Anonymous
>>4960524
Nice post, it's all true.
Women are useless, they are only good to fuck.
2 hours later 4960800 Anonymous
I like it rough but not like humiliating and degrading.
In a proper dom/sub relationship, the submissive has all the power and can make it stop whenever they want.
Things like anal for example would not fly. I would instantly dump a guy on the spot if he tried to stick it in there to "assert dominance".
I also don't let things like face/throat fucking fly.
That being said, I like to seriously fight for dominance, and end up being strangled, cut, suffocated, stuff like that.
I'm really turned off by the typical "sexual" domination things I mentioned, though, like throatfucking, anal, facials.
2 hours later 4960814 Anonymous (this is what feminism looks like.gif 176x120 700kB)
>>4960800
What good are you then? Fucking worthless
2 hours later 4960824 Anonymous
>>4960789
i'm glad i wasn't born into a family like yours
2 hours later 4960826 Anonymous
>>4960778
>Implying all men wouldn't jump at the chance to do degrading things if paid enough.
2 hours later 4960830 Anonymous
>>4960800
Because anal and facials are anal and facials, not dominations
Choking the shit out of you is actual domination
2 hours later 4960831 Anonymous
>>4960789
Well, even that is questionable, in general latinas and black ones know how to do it, aka: don't stay in bed as a piece of dead meat making stupid faces and actually do something.
2 hours later 4960843 Anonymous (little bitch cant take it.gif 250x125 2002kB)
>>4960826
Women don't understand the concept of honor and diginity, men do.
2 hours later 4960847 Anonymous
>>4960721
Oh yes these women are paid by men to have sex with men while a man films it so he can sell it to thousands of other men to jerk off to and it's the woman making money from how pathetic males are thats not respectful.
2 hours later 4960851 Anonymous
>>4960843
FUCKING SAUCE RIGHT NOW
2 hours later 4960857 Anonymous
>>4960843
you obviously don't
2 hours later 4960858 Anonymous
I've always liked being "on top" in every way
being dominated just goes straight past the erotic part of my brain into the being abused isn't fun part of my brain
2 hours later 4960862 Anonymous
>>4960830
A lot of people consider that stuff domination.
Most of my friends with it's weird that I literally want to be choked until I nearly pass out.
2 hours later 4960870 Anonymous
>>4960778
>If paid enough
Yes, most people would do pretty much anything under the ambiguous condition that they are paid "enough"
2 hours later 4960871 Anonymous
>>4960847
I've never paid a cent fo my porn
2 hours later 4960877 Anonymous
>>4960843
Funny, because male pornstars get paid so much less then women that many of them "go gay" so that they can make more money,.
2 hours later 4960880 Anonymous (188736750.gif 200x150 323kB)
>>4960851
It's a facial abuse video but i can't remember which one.
>>4960857
Why don't you go spread your legs whore, it's all you're good for anyway.
>>4960871
I always wonder who is actually paying for all this porn?
2 hours later 4960888 Anonymous
>>4960862
my gf was like that and im kinda like that too its normal
2 hours later 4960895 Anonymous (lesbian love.gif 450x253 851kB)
>>4960877
Are you saying there is anything wrong with being with another man?
Die cis scum
2 hours later 4960904 Anonymous
>>4960778
And yet actual porn stars turn down facialabuse offers all the time.
>>4960843
No, there just isn't anyone willing to pay men enough money to do it because it doesn't sell.
2 hours later 4960908 Anonymous
>>4960880
am i getting to you? good. you're wasting your life with these meaningless hobbies when you should be in school learning about life and matter.
2 hours later 4960915 Anonymous
>>4960877
Oh shit. I saw a True Life about those dudes once. Shit was hilarious.
2 hours later 4960931 Anonymous
>>4960880
Some say that the porn industry is going to bankrupt soon ... well they sure are yelling about it now.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_9bEMjIRNC4
2 hours later 4960939 Anonymous
>>4960871
But you still jerk off to this garbage which is like saying "hey when I swim in a pool of shit I don't swallow it or anything".
2 hours later 4960950 Anonymous (2094883768.gif 500x278 759kB)
>>4960908
Getting to me? Were you trying to? I'm just looking for an excuse to post gifs.
2 hours later 4960954 Anonymous
>>4960851
lurk moar
It's from Facial Abuse.
2 hours later 4960958 Anonymous
I don't like being dominated in bed. I'm the dominant one, and I'm unable to get turned on in the position of a submissive. It makes me really, really pissed. I like to tease, make a guy beg for it, do what I tell him to do, or just hold him down and grind down and use his cock the way I want it. That doesn't mean that I'm a man-hating bitch, though. I'm always very considerate and loving towards my partner. It's just that I can only ever either have sex when it's equal/loving or me being dominant/kind of femdom-ish.
I mean, dominant guys/submissive females liking what they like isn't sexist. Sexual attitudes most often don't have much of anything to do with actual personality traits. I masturbate to the thought of brutally raping a man with a strapon, but I'd NEVER EVER DO THAT. That's horrible, and it's only ok during fantasy/roleplay.
2 hours later 4960961 Anonymous
>>4960954
>obviously
im asking for a direct link to the video
2 hours later 4960977 Anonymous
>>4960939
Hey guess what, nobody cares about a moralist cunt these days.
If you were a man you would understand our special needs, that we produce more seeds per minute than you for your entire life.
2 hours later 4960982 Anonymous
>Do you enjoy being dominated in bed?
Yes
>Do you have problems with feeling respected when you are dominated and handled roughly in bed?
No, my partner has always been respectful and has how far I wanted to go and has never violated my limits.
>Do you think it to be sexist?
It's only sexist if there is no respect. Domination can be passionate and a demonstration of trust and tenderness. It can also be a means of degradation. It all depends on the attitude that that the participants hold towards one another. I know that my partner loves and respects me, knows my boundaries and will not cross them. My partner also knows that I trust them and will allow them to be rough with me without fearing that they will harm me. The domination is mutually pleasurable and mutually respectful.
2 hours later 4960985 Some woman
>>4959429
yes
I am completely obnoxious and permanently on a high horse in real life, and then as soon as I get into bed I just want to be abused and humiliated
and then feel angry i behaved like that afterwards
???
2 hours later 4960987 Anonymous (1344741174330.jpg 1000x984 112kB)
>>4960958
>you will never be raped with a strap-on by a qt3.14 fembot
2 hours later 4960992 Anonymous (732317194.gif 500x278 477kB)
>>4960985
It's your natural female instincts, the feminists have brainwashed you to think you are a strong woman but you just a weak willed slut.
2 hours later 4960995 Anonymous
>>4960950
you're a waste of space and it's sad to see. would you have the guts to tell girls of your thoughts in real life? how would you go about trapping a girl into these fantasies of yours?
2 hours later 4961007 Anonymous
>>4960995
not him but shut the hell up and hide the thread already
2 hours later 4961016 Anonymous
>>4961007
sorry. i was truly curious
2 hours later 4961025 Anonymous
>>4961016
if you were actually curious instead of provoking him by calling him a waste of space just ask the question and leave it at that. is it that hard to not be autistic? leave
2 hours later 4961036 Anonymous (1463485880.gif 400x222 614kB)
>>4960995
I've already done it a few times, you start off soft and then get rougher and rougher until they either tell you to stop or they just accept it.
They usually accept it, sometimes they say stop.
Going to a club a picking up a really drunk chick then taking her into the bathroom and make her give you a blowjob then you spit in her face. They look so good confused and angry but they are too drunk to actually follow you as you leave the bathroom with her face full of your cum.
2 hours later 4961038 Anonymous
>>4959872
trying to suppress it only makes it more arousing, the forbidden fruit is always sweeter
2 hours later 4961071 Anonymous
I like being somewhat rough and in control, my girlfriend likes it too for the most part, so I don't think there's a problem with respecting her.
I'm on break right now and haven't seen her for a couple weeks so I'm horny as fuck. I feel like I'm gonna practically rape her next time we're alone together.
2 hours later 4961073 Anonymous
>>4961036
Your sex fantasy stories are kind of creepy
2 hours later 4961074 Anonymous
>>4961036
i'm pretty sure that's rape brah
2 hours later 4961093 Anonymous
>>4961074
Not if they secretly like it. Besides what do they expect to happen when they go into a club bathroom to blow some guy?
2 hours later 4961097 Anonymous
I think it'd be hot to spank my girlfriend, but how do I know if she likes it? Should I just try it sometime, or ask her first?
2 hours later 4961098 Anonymous (1579229171.gif 450x253 1031kB)
>>4961074
I stop if they actually say stop, not "you're being too rough" or crying.
If they say stop i usually just throw their clothes at them and tell them to leave.
2 hours later 4961099 Anonymous
>>4961025
he is a waste of space. i'm calling it what it is. i don't think i provoked him but seems i've offended you
>>4961036
you're nasty.
2 hours later 4961101 Anonymous
>>4961097
are you 13? just do it
2 hours later 4961102 Anonymous
>>4961073
>You're creepy
The last resort of an assmad femanon
2 hours later 4961128 Anonymous
>Do you enjoy being rough in bed?
No, I fucking hate it. It sucks so much to be put in the spotlight like that when you hate it too. I'm such a closet sub and nearly every girl I've met enjoys being dominated and it's so very sexually frustrating. Especially when they hold onto their fetish like its some sort of huge secret and she's just another girl into bondage and rough sex. Big whoop.
>Do you think being rough and dominant is compatible with respecting your partner?
Yeah, man. Both people have to consent to that shit and being the sub means you are in complete control of the situation 9/10 because it's your fantasy (unless your partner is a dom and you're just neutral to it, I guess). Being a dom is really selfless in that sense.
>Do you think men being rough in bed comes from hating women?
Not really. It's probably biological or something. Fuck if I know.
2 hours later 4961134 feminazi mangina
>>4961097
Don't make a thing out of it. Make it as normal as possible. Be totally assertive and self-assured. If you feel it's normal and okay, she probably will, too.
If she tells you to stop, stop, of course.
2 hours later 4961147 Anonymous
>>4961093
from at the point of being drunk, when you are close to blacking out, your mind is blank. basically if girl is so drunk at this point, she's as dumb as a doorknob
2 hours later 4961152 Anonymous
>>4960851
Her name is ellie. the video is okay since she has some kind of breakdown. Have yet to find a video from them that is better as the Kyra steele one though.
2 hours later 4961164 Anonymous (996736876.gif 500x275 584kB)
>>4961099
>you're nasty.
If the pieces of shit didn't like it they would have tried to fight me or say stop but they just let it happen, shit some of them even squirt.
My favorite girl i ever did was a girl i picked up in college, she was 16, i sent her home with her make up running and marks all over her, i bet her parents were proud. She actually game back for seconds, it was a first time too.
2 hours later 4961169 Anonymous (952614823.gif 500x275 472kB)
>>4961164
Oh yeah 16 is the legal age over here. I really want to go back to college now.
2 hours later 4961198 Anonymous (1638613148.gif 160x120 1039kB)
I believe all robots can do what i do. Especially the bitter misogynistic ones. Just act like you do on /r9k/ don't hold back. It's surprisingly effective. of course don't call her a piece of shit whore from the get go.
When you finally get her in bed making her say degrading things about her self like making her say she is a "piece of shit slut" or whatever usually makes them allow you to treat them as rough as you want. I don't know why this works but it does.
2 hours later 4961199 Anonymous (1354143533661.jpg 1200x692 45kB)
>>4959429
>Men: Do you enjoy being rough in bed? Do you think being rough and dominant is compatible with respecting your partner? Do you think men being rough in bed comes from hating women?
No I don't like to be rough in bed, after all I'm rather insecure and overall pathetic, where would I get the confidence that I'm doing the right thing and being so called, manly?
I prefer to be dominated in bed but even then in a gentle way.
Yes I know I'm a sorry excuse for even a human I just like the intimate part of sex and being close to the one I'm with rather then fly around the room like two wild animals.
I don't expect much by holding this "standard" if you will in bed since people prefer when one is dominant and one submissive rather then both submissive which means I will probably have a hard time finding anyone.
Don't worry, I'll see myself out.
2 hours later 4961211 Anonymous
>>4961198
>When you finally get her in bed making her say degrading things about her self like making her say she is a "piece of shit slut" or whatever usually makes them allow you to treat them as rough as you want. I don't know why this works but it does.
Basic psychology.
2 hours later 4961233 Anonymous
>>4961198
god i have been searching for the source of that gif for ages.
2 hours later 4961245 Anonymous
>>4961099
>you're nasty.
Are you 12?
2 hours later 4961251 Anonymous (1348321840.gif 250x203 1866kB)
Another tip, don't slap her while your dick is in her mouth. I did this once, my dick hurt for a month
>>4961233
It's from Slap Happy.
2 hours later 4961260 Anonymous
>>4961164
>My favorite girl i ever did was a girl i picked up in college, she was 16, i sent her home with her make up running and marks all over her, i bet her parents were proud. She actually game back for seconds, it was a first time too.
>first time
Now i'm fucking annoyed... how the fuck could you do that to a 16yo girl? It was her first time fuck.
2 hours later 4961271 Anonymous
>tfw guy into femdom
I know what you're going through women with a sub fetish. I hate myself each and every day for not getting turned on by the idea of roughly fucking a woman. It makes me feel like less of a man.
3 hours later 4961282 Anonymous
>>4961198
Hmm you have a point. A couple of times when I was in a bad mood I went on omegle and insulted the ever living shit out of a couple of women. Strangely enough, they didn't disconnect and one sent me nudes. I called her pathetic because I ran out of insults and disconnected.
3 hours later 4961291 Anonymous
>>4961271
Learn to switch. Even if you don't think you can. Even if you can't, then fake it. It makes being a sub a lot less dangerous. Women WILL lose respect for you if they think you're a pure sub. They don't get it. Trust me on this.
3 hours later 4961306 Anonymous
>>4961282
Shiet, I'll start doing this bro.
>tfw: all these years holding back for nothing.
3 hours later 4961311 Anonymous (qt3.14 dick slap.gif 317x229 2058kB)
>>4961260
It was incredibly easy, she was so fucking naive and dumb. I did have to make her trust me it took like a week to even get her to show me her tits. I gave her a first time she will hopefully never forget.
>>4961282
Exactly it even works on omegle. You just gotta have some confidence(i know easier said than done) and be a prick. Unless you are grooming a young girl, remember to check the legal age before you do that though. Don't want my bros going to jail.
3 hours later 4961312 Anonymous
>>4961291
I tried in my past relationship but she didn't give me enough time to make that change. Now I've fallen back into my old ways and just jack off to the most perverted shit I can find online. I really have to get a goddamn grip... ugh.
3 hours later 4961313 Anonymous
>>4961251
got a source for their videos?
3 hours later 4961323 Anonymous
>>4961291
Nah, I don't equate sex with respect, I think that's mostly a guy thing.
3 hours later 4961365 Anonymous (789752681.gif 450x252 1015kB)
>>4961323
That's just because women don't understand the concept of respect. Don't worry your pretty little head about it.
3 hours later 4961385 Anonymous
>>4961312
Present yourself as a switch from the start. Even if it's just having normal penetrative sex half the time, it's fucking better than your girlfriend ever getting that epiphany of "he's.. beneath me!" Women are very weird about this, and frankly in my experience it's an irrevocable realization, after which she can fucking cheat on you with your own father and feel like she did no wrong.
Be really really careful about airing your femdom fetish to women. Definitely don't hide or repress it - I certainly don't - but most dumbass American sluts are judgmental, awful, cruel people who will abuse it and you as a result.
/jaundice
>>4961323
More power to you, but almost every domme I've interacted with has equated sexual dominance with relationship dominance, emasculation, and being a feminism. It's why so many dommes on sites like collarme and fetlife casually mention they have a male dominant - they see their relationship with him as different, detached. Having a male sub isn't like having a boyfriend, or even a FWB, because male subs are fundamentally pathetic, tainted and emasculated in a very instinctive way.
3 hours later 4961400 Anonymous
>>4961323
My ex-gf did. She even told me she's "addicted" to big dicks etc. etc. She's basically everything /r9k/ every warned me about. I really just want to find a sexually dominant woman that'll have a regular loving relationship with me.
3 hours later 4961408 Anonymous
>>4961365
Says the guy posting gifs from boundgangbangs.com lmao.
3 hours later 4961438 Anonymous (1020629488.gif 160x110 1338kB)
>>4961400
Women love big dicks because its a sign of masculinity and it being huge with her looking up at it just exerts dominance and the pain and pleasure of it being just too big for her gets her off aswell.
3 hours later 4961447 Anonymous
>>4961385
That's exactly what my goddamn ex did. Wow. She asked for an open relationship and I accepted because why the fuck not. So she started fucking other dudes while I had sex with a couple of girls. She actually started calling me her "toy boy" and shit and told me that she thinks I'm gay and how great that one other dude especially is in bed. She also told me I'm not a real man. I'm genuinly pissed of right now haha. The funny thing is that she's trying to get back with me atm and just yesterday I told her to go fuck herself.
3 hours later 4961458 Anonymous
>>4961438
Yeah, she mentioned the masulinity thing. I still think you're generalizing a bit there though. Be careful with that broad brush mang.
3 hours later 4961463 Anonymous (2107936559.gif 248x183 2030kB)
>>4961408
I have respect for myself and other men. I don't have respect for women because they deserve none.
>>4961447
Why would you agree to an open relationship when you can clearly just fuck other girls.
Bad move.
3 hours later 4961486 Anonymous
>>4961447
>asks for open relationship
>gets mad at her for fucking other guys
ok
3 hours later 4961492 Anonymous
>>4961438
These gifs are hilarious!
3 hours later 4961500 Anonymous
>>4961311
sauce on that gif there? I have seen it many times but never thought to ask
3 hours later 4961502 Anonymous
>>4961463
Because I want an equal partnership I guess. Now, I know you think women are inferior by nature, but for some reason (you will most likely call it feminist indoctrination) I believe women can be equal to men and that such a thing as a loving partnership is possible.
3 hours later 4961504 Anonymous
>>4961447
If you're not just typing a cuckolding fapfic, it sounds like you enabled it. That's the shit you can never do with women, ever. They are the epitome of "give them an inch and they take a mile." Though it sounds like she was just especially a cunt and it wasn't even a real relationship. Bad chick.
In a way though you were lucky to encounter such an obvious piece of human garbage. Usually dommes are more subtle in the ways they lack respect for you within a relationship, and it seeps into every aspect of their thinking and their "love" for you. That's why it's so insidious.
3 hours later 4961531 Anonymous
>>4961486
She asked me. I accepted because I tend to be open to new things. I didn't get mad at her for fucking other guys, I got mad at her for telling me:
1. how much better they are in bed
2. how much bgiger their cocks are
3. how much manlier they are
4. how there are two kinds of men: bulls and providers
She's a fucking female cuckolding fetishist or some shit, I don't even know.
3 hours later 4961539 Anonymous
>>4961502
Woman and man are not equal by biological matters, not ideological ones.
3 hours later 4961541 Anonymous (932630388.gif 278x266 674kB)
>>4961492
I'm sadly almost out.
>>4961502
Yet you agreed to an open relationship, thats far from equal women don't have to do much of anything to get laid. The ratio of partners will always be skewed in her favour which gives her more leverage over you and then she hurt you with it.
3 hours later 4961549 Anonymous
>>4961531
I guess you have the right to be mad then. i'd be pretty upset too
3 hours later 4961555 Anonymous
>>4961504
I fap to cuckolding but that crap actually happened to me in real life. It was emasculating as hell and I'm still trying to recover from it somehow. Every time I confronted her about it she told me about how much she loves and respects me and how she wants to marry me etc. etc. It really fucked with my mind.
3 hours later 4961563 Anonymous
~FEMALE METHODS OF DOMINATION~
>I'll strap on a fake penis and fuck him the way he fucks me!
>I'll make him dress up in sexy women's clothing like I do every single day!
>I'll fuck tons of other guys and be a used up human Fleshlight, but HE can't fuck me, LOL!
Women: Class Acts
3 hours later 4961565 Anonymous
>>4959429
I enjoy being rough in bed. Yes, I think it's compatible. No, I don't hate women.
>tfw fucking my girlfriend with my hand around her throat and occasionally slapping her until she breaks down in tears and begs me to keep hurting her
>she cums while I'm choking her, with her tears and make up smeared all over her face
>turn her onto her stomach and start fucking her ass
>she tells me she loves it
>push her face into the pillow
>fill her with cum
>grab a glass of ice cold water for the two of us afterwards
feels thirst quenching, man.
3 hours later 4961570 Gentle
Men's sexual dominance stems from evolution, not society.
I like being rough in bed, and I want to make an analogy to singing in a choir. We sing a lot of religious music, and I don't believe in God. But when you're standing in a cathedral yelling your balls off pleading Him for salvation - for five minutes, I become spiritual. Then we walk off the podium, and I'm an atheist again.
Sex works the same way. I love and respect my partner. But in bed, during that one hour, people change. For one hour, she's a bad girl who needs discipline, and I'm the dog trainer who has to keep her by the leash, if you know what I mean.
3 hours later 4961579 Anonymous
>>4961463
>I know the concept of respect but I only respect people like me because everyone else is inherently undeserving of it.
Lol! You don't know shit about respect.
3 hours later 4961588 Anonymous
>>4961541
I agree that it is easier to get laid for women but I can't really blame the individual woman for that, you know? But anyway, I made my experiences and I won't get into any kind of relationship anytime soon. I'll just enjoy her crawling infront of me begging for my love and companionship back as long as I can. That should sustain me a while.
3 hours later 4961601 Anonymous
>>4961570
>yelling your balls off pleading Him for salvation
Obligatory no homo
3 hours later 4961604 Anonymous
>>4961579
Nice and rich argument, very ladylike!
3 hours later 4961605 Anonymous
>>4961563
What are you getting at? All BDSM shit is weird no matter who does it.
3 hours later 4961608 Anonymous
>>4961588
You let it happen you only have yourself to blame.
>>4961579
How can i respect them when they let me these things to them?
3 hours later 4961619 Anonymous
>>4961463
>I don't have respect for women because they deserve none.
>That's just because women don't understand the concept of respect.
>she was so fucking naive and dumb
>If the pieces of shit didn't like it they would have tried to fight me
I realise this is looking rather like a 'yay misogyny' derp thread. But you're just coming across pretty tryhard edgy bro. Your enthusiasm is sweet but you seem a tad naive tbh and I'm not quite sure what grounds you think you have to be advising others.
Anyone can roughly fuck a stranger on a one night stand. In my opinion Its a little more rewarding to have someone longing to submit their lives, bodies, boundaries and dignity to you entirely.
3 hours later 4961630 Anonymous
>>4961608
That relationship involved to people and as it was my first "serious" relationship I think it's fair to say that to some extent she had an advantage here. I'm not saying I wasn't a naive idiot that got played, but then I think it's wrong to paint her as being innocent.
3 hours later 4961648 Anonymous
>>4961619
>In my opinion Its a little more rewarding to have someone longing to submit their lives, bodies, boundaries and dignity to you entirely.
I think you are completely right.
>tfw no gf
3 hours later 4961653 Anonymous
>>4961563
More like;
>I'll tease him to the brink of no return and pull back, making him beg and plead for it.
>I'll make him eat me out, running my fingers through his hair while calling him a "good boy" before he gets any amount of satisfaction.
>I'll hold his arms down beside him and use his cock in the way I want it, whispering degrading things into his ear and making him whimper and groan and tell me he fucking wants it.
3 hours later 4961659 Anonymous
>>4961563
>implying men don't ASK to be dominated that way
Also
>women has sex with a bunch of people
>human fleshlight
>men has sex with a bunch of people
>not considered a dildo with legs
Haha, what a hypocrite.
3 hours later 4961687 Anonymous
>>4961653
wouldmarry/10
3 hours later 4961688 Anonymous (1354466026542.png 900x709 100kB)
>>4961659
This is why and stop asking this question every time.
3 hours later 4961717 Anonymous
>>4961688
Also, man don't get pregnant!
3 hours later 4961731 Anonymous
>>4961688
>implying humans dont have sex for pleasure far more than reproduction now aday
3 hours later 4961743 Anonymous
>>4961731
Say that to MTV teen pregnant shows, it's hilarious btw.
3 hours later 4961773 Completely Irrational
Damnit OP, making me fap.
3 hours later 4961792 Anonymous
>>4961731
pleasure/having children is a means to an end. The end is always the same.
3 hours later 4961810 Anonymous
>>4961659
>woman does something easy and lazy in exchange for money
>is disparaged
>man runs gauntlet of challenges and is triumphant
>admired
WOW I'M A FEMALE AND I DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS DURRRRRRRRRRRRR
3 hours later 4961811 Anonymous
>>4961438
>not 100,200,400,800,1up
captcha: inexcusable ommanyty
>inexcusable
3 hours later 4961833 Anonymous
>>4961688
First of all.
Humans have sex for pleasure mostly nowadays, not reproduction.
Second, that is FINE if you literally believe the slut double standard exists, and we live in a stone-age like that photo implies, however, this means it is PERFECTLY acceptable for women to virgin-shaming.
3 hours later 4961853 Anonymous
I enjoy being dominated but I won't let a dude bring that out the bedroom. If I feel like he's disrespectful we wont even get inTO the bedroom. I'll let you feel like a man but if you disrespect me, we're through.
3 hours later 4961893 Anonymous
>>4961853
No need to bring it out of the bedroom. He already made you his bitch and used you like a piece of meat so he accomplished his goal.
3 hours later 4961910 Anonymous
>>4961833
>this means it is PERFECTLY acceptable for women to virgin-shaming.
So it's no different than it is now?
3 hours later 4961914 Anonymous
>>4961893
Yup. Outside of that, though, that won't fly.
3 hours later 4961918 Anonymous
>>4961914
He wont care all you are is a piece of meat.
3 hours later 4961921 Anonymous
>>4961833
I'll feel something when you shame my virginity if you aren't a slut who fucks for attention and emotional security.
Oops.
3 hours later 4961932 Anonymous
>>4961810
We don't understand because you're literally too fucking mad to make a solid point.
Are you saying being a male dom is running a gauntlet of challenges? I suspect not, because that would imply you're working on some sort of logic and not just mad as fuck.
3 hours later 4961946 Anonymous
>>4961932
You've obviously never been a man trying to get laid.
We can't just spread our legs to get a girl.
3 hours later 4961951 Anonymous
>>4961932
dat reading comprehension
wow
3 hours later 4961953 Anonymous
>>4961921
>implying you're not clearly already very upset even though no ones shamed you
3 hours later 4961957 Anonymous
>tfw you just want to get pegged, spit on, humiliated, and sexually tortured
>tfw you could never admit this to anyone -- ever.
;_;
3 hours later 4961972 Anonymous
>>4961946
Why are you even bringing that up? We're talking about BDSM not how hard it is to get laid, but this guy is equating femdom to dating in general or something to try and lash out.
To stop you from derailing the thread anymore I here by admit that it is easier for women to get laid.
>>4961951
Try learning to express yourself.
3 hours later 4961978 Anonymous
>>4961918
Mhm. Just as long as he doesn't say rude shit or act rude, who cares.
3 hours later 4961979 Anonymous
How do you feel about traps misogyny guy? Are they as worthless as women?
3 hours later 4961980 Anonymous
>>4961972
No, that reply chain was pretty specifically about the slut double standard, bro.
3 hours later 4961984 Anonymous
>>4961979
Considering every single fucking one is an insane entitled tumblrnigger? Yes.
4 hours later 4962033 Anonymous
Haven't you figured this out yet?
Women are fundamentally submissive, and men are fundamentally dominant. Men like women who are women, and women like men who are men. You can switch roles and learn to enjoy it, but you will never truly feel at home if you do. Submissive women, don't feel bad because you like to be women, for God's sake.
And another thing. I'm sorry, you can't dismiss trends just because you think they aren't 100% absolute. It's like hiding behind a transparent curtain; generalizations are a perfectly valid guide through your life. Nature doesn't make things what you would consider "equal" just because you would feel badly otherwise. If you stop denying your nature and you'll find that you won't have to run from your ego anymore.
4 hours later 4962037 Anonymous
>>4961918
>implying he isn't just a tasty hunk of meat for pleasing my vagina
4 hours later 4962050 Gentle
to summarize
>men who are dominant with women claim that they love their partners, supported by femanons
>sub men report being treated as shit by femdoms
so, only men are capable of being dominant and respecting their partner at the same time?
4 hours later 4962117 Anonymous
I'm rough sometimes, sometimes I'm not. I don't know, I don't think about it really. I just do what I want, and usually that's nothing that extreme.
4 hours later 4962194 Anonymous
>>4962050
>men who are dominant with women claim that they love their partners, supported by femanons
lol
Did you miss half of the thread or something? >>4961311
The only guys I long to treat like shit are male doms. They truly deserve it. I just pity male subs.
>tfw you will never ravage the ass of an arrogant dom before castrating him
It's a daily torture.
4 hours later 4962209 Anonymous
>>4962050
My favorite part of being a female dom is the aftercare :3
4 hours later 4962256 Anonymous
>>4962194
>half the thread
>200+ post thread
>1 guy
Ohhh noooo! CALL THE POLICE!
5 hours later 4962649 Anonymous
>>4960462
>>4960462
Thanks anon, that's pretty good advice, I'll take it into account next time I get into anything.
5 hours later 4962657 Anonymous
>>4961810
Please, we all know it has nothing to do with how easy the sex is to attain. Women use to avoid sex because it often resulted in the birth of another human being that she didn't have enough money to suppory and inevitably became a burden on the community. Now that birth control is readibly available, there is no good reason disparage women for having lots of sex.
>but they have it easier!
So fucking what? Why does that apply to sex but little else? Take food, for example. It is relatively easy to attain food in America. All you need is $5 and you can buy a meal prepared for you. This is easy as fuck compared to people in African tribes who have to hunt, kill and prepare their meal every day and could possibly go hungry if a hunt doesn't go well. However, no one looks down on Americans for the minimal effort it takes to eat a meal whenever they're hungry. The African may be praised for his skill, but the American is not criticized for sating his hunger with the food that's available to him or expected to fast so that the African feels like things are more fair. Only men, who are whiny, little children who throw a tantrum when they can't get pussy, expect women to abstain from the sex that's available to them and criticize them when they don't (in spite of the fact that they wouldn't do the same if the situations were switched). You're all a lot of whiny hypocrites who use arbitrary distinctions to defend your bigotry.
6 hours later 4963239 Anonymous
This thread needa bump
7 hours later 4964031 Anonymous (1351993229439.jpg 511x640 29kB)
>>4963239
Seems what you tried didn't work.
7 hours later 4964248 Anonymous
>>4960931
eh, so be it, i certainly dont want to pay for any of my porn, and dont like what it funds much of the time (i like stuff thats fairly immoral, no cp tho).
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