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2012-11-24 08:05 4553383 Anonymous (sirkitten.jpg 368x381 54kB)
More proof that women don't want a nice guy, no matter how much they claim they do.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U93BBNq5A64&feature=related
Seriously, watch the whole thing. I dare you.
4 min later 4553415 Anonymous
If you're trying to be nice just to get laid, you're doing it wrong.
Even if you're genuinely nice though, don't hold your breath. You'll be seen as boring by a majority of women and looked over for the more "dangerous" or "aggressive" men. That's just how it works.
11 min later 4553484 Anonymous
No way this is real.
I honestly hope there aren't any women out there this stupid.
13 min later 4553494 eeyore
Women not wanting nice guys is old news, OP.
>>4553484
All women are this stupid. It's the sad truth of the world.
14 min later 4553506 Anonymous
>>4553494
No one said it was new news. I just said it was further proof.
15 min later 4553516 Anonymous
This problem wouldn't even exist if women didn't lie to us as kids and say HURRR BE NICE TO GIRLS THEY'LL LIKE YOU
17 min later 4553536 Anonymous
I hope that most of you are kidding.
Watching a trash court tv show and
generalizing all women?
18 min later 4553538 Anonymous
>>4553506
Do you need further proof...?
This is pretty much like....
>here's further proof that the sun shines during the day
18 min later 4553543 Anonymous
>>4553415
When woman call a man "nice" they mean "boring".
If you're an interesting guy that they want to talk to. If you're a funny guy and they have a good sense of humour then they'll want to stay with you.
It's not the woman's problem if you're boring.
20 min later 4553552 eeyore
>>4553543
Thanks for that glorious insight into woman logic, whore.
21 min later 4553561 Anonymous
>>4553516
This is what I think ruined most people.
That kid that would push girls in the dirt on the playgrounds? Future alpha banging chicks 24/7.
Should've gotten on that train a long time ago.
22 min later 4553571 Anonymous
>>4553552
I'm not a woman though. I just realize that they people that complain about girls not liking 'nice guys' are probably the ones that ARE stalkerish, ARE pathetic, DON'T half confidence and ARE pussies.
Stop pitying yourselves and maybe you'll get a relationship.
Also; White women don't act like the woman in OP's video. That's a black woman. Blacks are disgusting subhumans who don't have proper brains.
23 min later 4553584 eeyore
>>4553571
Yeah dude, people who bring up the fact that women DON'T like what they CLAIM to like are your small variety of personal insults and not just realistic observers of the truth.
24 min later 4553591 Anonymous
>tv
>real life
yes, i know it's reality tv, dipshits.
26 min later 4553610 Cheshire Cat
ITT: Misogyny based on anecdotal evidence.
Enjoy not getting laid or having girlfriends.
27 min later 4553614 Anonymous
>>4553571
> I just realize that they people that complain about girls not liking 'nice guys' are probably the ones that act exactly like women taught them to act as kids
Women created "nice guys" and now they bitch about them.
You know what women should have done? They should have taught men how to ACTUALLY act to get women instead of lying to themselves and those boys and saying that niceness is the way to go. Better yet, women should teach little girls to stop being passive fucks who complain about not being CEOs and president while still being unable to so much as ask a guy out on their own (while crucifying men who can't do the same).
But obviously these things are too hard for women so more robots will continue to be born and die virgins because the only way a relationship will ever being in the modern world is for a confident, alpha man to ask a woman out.
29 min later 4553634 Cheshire Cat
>>4553614
What's to stop you from becoming confident and to ask a woman out?
You know the rest of us didn't get handed women on a platter, we went outside our comfort zones at some point and worked for it.
30 min later 4553642 Anonymous
>>4553571
>dat lack of citations
>All dem insults
31 min later 4553645 Anonymous
>>4553634
>What's to stop you from becoming confident and to ask a woman out?
Two decades of indoctrination.
>You know the rest of us didn't get handed women on a platter,
Yes, you did.
32 min later 4553648 Anonymous
>>4553538
>Do you need further proof...?
He doesn't really, it's just repetition compulsion. He likes having the thread because it brings out people who agree with him, who then agree with him again, making him feel good about his beliefs again, making him feel like he's part of a group, the Only Sane People Left (tm). He loves finding things like this and bringing them back to /r9k/. It's like a baby giggling when his mom's face reappears after she hides it behind her hands, over and over and over and over and over and over
33 min later 4553658 Anonymous
I actually felt sorry for the guy in the second part when she joked on him about his eyesight. That's one thing I can't stand about a woman. Once they've lost an argument, they go straight for personal attacks.
33 min later 4553659 Cheshire Cat
>>4553645
>two decades
I had one and a half. Not a very big difference
>Yes, you did.
No, I didn't. (But keep making claims without any knowledge of what you talk about, I'm sure it helps you out immensely in your trials)
34 min later 4553668 eeyore
>>4553658
You mean when they lose the argument since women can't argue to begin with.
38 min later 4553691 Anonymous
>>4553659
>I had one and a half. Not a very big difference
Clearly it is, because you were able to change.
>No, I didn't.
You're right. You did it all by yourself, you didn't get lucky enough to meet someone who showed you how bullshit the lies women disseminate to helpless children are before it was too late.
41 min later 4553717 Anonymous
>>4553561
I can attest to this. I babysitted a kid when I was a teenager; little bastard was the meanest, foulest hell-spawn to ever grace the Earth. He would always push and fight with the other kids, and would treat the girls like complete shit. 9 years later, he's the biggest womanizer I've ever met.
45 min later 4553755 Anonymous
>be lame beta doormat pussy
>see that girls go for cocky asshole types
>recognize this fact
>change nothing
>remain doormat virgin
Why do you do this? Why not adopt the cocky asshole persona?
48 min later 4553773 Anonymous
>>4553755
>Why not adopt the cocky asshole persona?
Because no one's going to fall for it.
49 min later 4553785 Anonymous
>>4553755
HOW DO YOU DO THIS???!!!!!!
51 min later 4553807 Anonymous
>>4553610
Women have no idea what they want. I'm surrounded by women in college and they completely confused on the idea of what a good man is or ought to be like.
51 min later 4553813 Anonymous
>>4553755
Because some people don't want to go through life being an asshole all the time. It's tiring.
51 min later 4553814 Anonymous
>>4553755
Because no one's gonna fall for an act.
You'll come off as a tryhard and will get actually mocked instead of floating by life like a ghost.
"Acting" like one of those guys never works if you aren't really like that. Stop suggesting it.
52 min later 4553826 Anonymous
I honestly believe women are incapable of loving anyone for a anything more than their physical value.
53 min later 4553837 Anonymous
>>4553807
They do know what they want, they just lie to themselves claiming they want something else.
All women want the dominant, assertive man who forces him to love her and them make her bend to his will. All women will respond positively to this sort of man, but someone of them are ashamed of it, because after all men and women are equal, right? So they lie to themselves that they want a "nice" man who's "caring" and tell men this even though they won't respond to either of those traits. And then they tell little boys this and the boys who don't know better assume they should be nice and caring too.
And that's where we end up. Men who were raised to be feminine because women were too ashamed of how their gender only wants to be fucked by masculine, dominant men.
We were sabotaged.
54 min later 4553840 eeyore
>>4553755
Morality prevents me from doing so.
57 min later 4553888 Anonymous
>>4553840
You sound like a cocky douche here. I honestly believe the fact that someone can actually punch your face in prevents you from acting like your /r9k/ persona.
58 min later 4553895 Cheshire Cat
>>4553691
>wah, I wouldn't leave my comfort zone, no one else could do so
Yeah, I did do it by myself.
Stop crying. You're worse than fat people who bitch about being fat.
58 min later 4553898 Anonymous
I don't get it. It seemed like all the women in there, including the judge, thought the defendent was evil.
1 hours later 4553918 eeyore
>>4553888
So many words that mean nothing. You are not the brightest at making sense.
1 hours later 4553921 Anonymous
>>4553898
And I bet you believe every women there threw themselves at him once he left the courtroom.
1 hours later 4553929 Anonymous
>>4553895
For lucky people, leaving the comfort zone isn't hard.
1 hours later 4553944 Anonymous
>>4553918
I mean from your posts, you don't sound like the most "moral" of people.
1 hours later 4553945 Anonymous
Dude, fake court shows and scripted talk shows are ungrateful-liberated-woman-central.
1 hours later 4553952 Anonymous
>>4553755
I don't get it. I'm not a doormat, but I am a pretty nice guy and women flock to me. I just act congruent to how I feel. I think the Book of Pook is the best way to describe it, and it resonated with me. That is, even before I read it, girls loved me when I was just myself and didn't care about what others thought. Luckily for me, myself is usually just being a funny, but nice, guy.
1 hours later 4553954 Anonymous
>>4553785
I REPEAT. HOW?!!!??!!!
1 hours later 4553955 Der Commandant
>not slowly but surely turning into a cocky asshole through repeated exposure to shitty females
1 hours later 4553957 Anonymous
>>4553895
>I'm attractive, just be attractive
That's how you sound.
1 hours later 4553965 Cheshire Cat
>>4553929
Dude what? No one likes leaving comfort behind. Some of us just did it because we were tired of the same bullshit day in and day out. Stop playing the victim.
You're worse than fat people who bitch about being fat.
>some people were born skinny hurrr
1 hours later 4553966 Anonymous
>>4553921
Would not be surprised if one around his age did. I think women want what other women want, and it seemed like a lot of women wanted him in that courthouse (including his ex at the end).
1 hours later 4553991 eeyore
>>4553944
Not sure how you figure that.
1 hours later 4553999 Cheshire Cat
>>4553957
Because that's how you look at it. You refuse to actually go past what you're comfortable doing, and choose to hate on those who have.
I didn't think I was attractive, and still don't think I'm much better than average. But I chose to make my personality something I could be proud of. Guess what, it worked.
1 hours later 4554014 Anonymous
>>4553999
You assume I do nothing but sit here in my "comfort zone" all day.
I've actually gone out and tried this thing called life. It felt like shit and I don't want to feel it again.
And that's easy for you to say, you have something to be proud of.
1 hours later 4554018 Anonymous
>>4553966
Are you fuckin' serious?
>"if you come to me, we can try to make things work."
Typical female behavior, even after she knows she's in the wrong.
1 hours later 4554026 Anonymous
>>4553991
All the blatant woman hating?
I mean, I'm not defending them, but how can you claim to really be moral when you hate anything with a vagina?
Also I'm gonna go ahead and guess you show a bit more racism than you should due to being on this site all the time.
1 hours later 4554038 Anonymous
>>4553999
It doesn't sound to me like you changed much of anything. For example, you can't explain how you changed. "Things" just changed, right? You should probably just admit that you got lucky and didn't do much of anything, because you're at a complete loss at explaining what you did. Smells like doo-doo patties in here.
1 hours later 4554040 Der Commandant
>>4553999
Aren't you like, 16 or something?
1 hours later 4554047 Cheshire Cat
>>4554014
>gone out and tried
Not
>go out and try
>And that's easy for you to say, you have something to be proud of.
What, you think I was just handed the ability to do things that I do? That I just magically could play instruments, skate, etc. I learned to make friends by going out and being social. I hated it. Then I formed common interests, which made it easier.
Don't think that those of us who have friends and get laid just magically got served it on a silver platter. Many of us have issues too. We overcome them.
1 hours later 4554063 eeyore
>>4554026
>not kissing women's asses = woman hater!
>more racism than you should
Haha what.
1 hours later 4554072 Cheshire Cat
>>4554038
I learned to play music. I went out in situations I wasn't comfortable in. I learned how to pay attention to people, and react in a way that they would respond favorably. I developed hobbies that made relationships with people with a common interest easier. Until now, no one has asked how I did it. Life begins outside your comfort zone. I got sick of staying inside all day when I got home from school, and being picked on while I was there. I learned to change that because I was tired of drowning in self misery. I made a conscious effort and it paid off, though it took years. I said it earlier: Stop playing the victim.
1 hours later 4554081 Anonymous
Well the judge is a female and she clearly does not agree with the defendants mentality. Your claim is a fallacy
1 hours later 4554083 Anonymous
>>4554072
>though it took years
We don't have years.
1 hours later 4554097 Anonymous
>>4554063
I'm not implying that though. You'd have to be dense as fuck to not think a lot of your posts are misogynistic. Not even about kissing their asses.
I'm safer assuming there are more racists on /r9k/ /b/ and /v/ than not.
1 hours later 4554115 Anonymous
>>4554072
You sound like a normalfag to me. Why are you here spreading the cult of normalfaggotry? Perhaps you were never a robot and you're just stunningly bad at being normal?
1 hours later 4554124 eeyore
>>4554097
Oh yeah I forgot! Normalfag logic dictates truthful thoughts pertaining to women is misogynistic. Sounds like normalfag logic is an equal parallel to women logic and thus not to be taken seriously at all whatsoever.
1 hours later 4554147 Cheshire Cat
>>4554083
Oh? What are you going to do the next few years? Wallow in self pity and expect people to feel sympathy for someone who isn't trying to improve their situation?
Change doesn't magically happen, you have to work for it. If you won't, you deserve what you get.
>>4554115
>Why are you here
Because I was here before /r9k/ turned into
>feel
and I'm annoyed that people who are too lazy to improve themselves bitch about it constantly, to the point where they attack anyone who isn't beta as fuck.
1 hours later 4554158 Anonymous
>>4554120
>What are you going to do the next few years?
Wait until wizardry and death.
That's all there is to do. There's no point in changing once you've reached your twenties and are still a beta.
You've missed everything.
1 hours later 4554170 Anonymous
>>4554124
So your generalizations are all totally true facts?
All women cheat
All women are whores
All women are dumb
It annoys me how you really attack me because I don't agree with your "neckbeard logic."
And besides, it's really more like 85%, stupid fuck.
1 hours later 4554183 Anonymous
>>4554147
So it causes your butt to throb with hurt whenever people talk openly about their problems. Mhm, mhm, go on.
1 hours later 4554187 eeyore
>>4554170
>accuses me of generalizations
>generalizes in the same post
It takes talent to be this hypocritical.
1 hours later 4554198 Anonymous
>>4554047
No, I just think you didn't have as much of a problem as you think you did.
Again:
>I'm attractive, and interesting. Just be attractive and interesting
This is you.
1 hours later 4554203 Cheshire Cat
>>4554158
>There's no point in changing
You reap what you sow. If you won't try, you deserve what you get.
>>4554183
Not at all, actually.
>i'm so lonely and I won't change
isn't a 'problem', it's a lazy state of mind.
1 hours later 4554209 Anonymous
>>4554187
The same kind of talent you got?
If you're talking about the 85% crack, that was a joke.
1 hours later 4554221 Anonymous
>>4554203
>You reap what you sow.
No.
You deal with the shitty hand you were dealt and realize that no one who was a shut-in in their youth can ever be happy.
You're evidently underageb7 so it's not like you understand. Your incredible "stepping from the comfort zone" is the same thing all other normalfags with normal lives did.
1 hours later 4554222 Cheshire Cat
>>4554198
Except I still don't think I'm much more than average, and I became interesting by doing interesting things. I didn't just magically get handed the 'interesting' baton and get to carry it.
News flash: Social people don't like people who don't have anything interesting to add to the group. If you aren't social, don't have any hobbies other than self pity and pining of your waifu, how can you expect anyone to give a fuck about you?
>that guy has muscles
>he didn't work for them, he just had them
This is what you sound like.
1 hours later 4554229 Anonymous
>>4554072
>I learned how to pay attention to people, and react in a way that they would respond favorably.
how?
I will wager I'm a much more successful musician than you, constnatly tryting to put myself in uncomfortable situations, can hold a conversation with most people most days, usually people like me to some extent. If I put the effort into it I have no problem making friends.
And yet success with women still seems impossible to me. All my efforts always end in failure.
So I'm not sure what's left to do at this point
1 hours later 4554235 Anonymous (1348054752707.jpg 960x540 160kB)
>>4553543
I'm sorry, but I'm a kind, educated person, that usually makes other people cry laughing with just 10 words. And I'm far from a boring person.
So, in which category do I fall ?
Nobody wants to date me, in any case...
1 hours later 4554237 Anonymous
>>4554222
Tell me then, HOW did you learn all these amazing things? O normalfag guru?
1 hours later 4554242 Cheshire Cat
>>4554221
>denial
I'm 21, and was bullied for most of my upbringing. I just got sick of it, and realized that I was the cause of it. Keep assuming, it's quite cute.
Once, I was a beta kid who got jumped for giving a girl I liked a christmas present, she thought it was creepy. Now, I have an 8/10 gf who I fuck whenever I wish. We all have problems. I just choose to try to overcome mine.
1 hours later 4554244 Anonymous
>>4554235
Boring in real life terms.
Better luck next roll.
1 hours later 4554256 Anonymous
>>4554203
Mhm, mhm, yeah. It's so astonishing to me how far you go to simplify the issue. It's as though you don't take into account things that actually pertain to what's being talked about. But that's okay because someone else is having "a lazy state of mind."
doo doo patties
1 hours later 4554263 Anonymous
>>4554242
>I'm a below average
>I have an 8/10 gf
Who are you fooling?
You're obviously a normalfag and clearly not like us, nor have you ever been like us.
1 hours later 4554274 Anonymous
>>4553645
>handed women on a platter
>yes, you did
Sorry about you're developmental disorder, but thats wrong
Heres something for the whole thread to just take in
Why don't you go off and live you're life...not caring about women. Treating them like other humans, not like weird creatures. There are way better things to experience besides
>tfw gf
Just go do better things than women. Especially if you hate them so much, why not do better things?
1 hours later 4554276 Anonymous
>Open link
>DIVORCE COURT
>NOPE
Shows like that make me angry. Jerry Springer, Maury, Jeremy Kyle, Wilkos Show. Everyone on those shows are stupid as a bag of blonde sluts. The men are stupid and so are the women.
1 hours later 4554277 Anonymous
>>4553954
HOWWWWWW???!!!!!! HOWWW!!????!!!!
1 hours later 4554284 Anonymous
>>4554277
You'll never get an answer because those people were born that way and never had to "become" it.
They just pretend they were ever like us in order to fit in.
1 hours later 4554299 Anonymous
>>4554277
hold on i'll type it up. just give me a sec
1 hours later 4554307 Cheshire Cat
>>4554229
>I will wager I'm a much more successful musician than you
This is likely. I'm not too good, I can jam and that's about it. The way you come off is a big part of it. Contrary to /r9k/ belief, girls don't want the cockiest dick out there. They just look for someone who has some self esteem and can contribute something to the conversation.
That effort you put into making friends shows you that you can get girls, you just have to learn how to talk with them.
Girls like attention, but they don't want to be completely showered in it. Give some, get some. You'll figure it out, all you can do is keep trying. I wish I could help, but everywhere/everyone is different. Trial and error are your best bets.
>>4554237
What "amazing things"?
Being social? I met people and talked to them.
Talking to girls? I talked to girls.
Having interests? Well gee, I probably did things I had an interest in.
>>4554256
>no content posting
Try again, I'd love to help/dissect some bullshit.
What we talk about is that some people have no interesting hobbies and no social skills. I've already described how to get those.
>>4554263
I never said I was below average, I feel I'm average.
>never been like us
What, a person wallowing in self pity? Sure I have. I stopped being 12 and grew up. I stopped thinking that I deserved things without having anything to give in return.
1 hours later 4554311 Anonymous
eeyore, contribute to this thread please:
>>4552847
1 hours later 4554322 eeyore
>>4554311
I don't see any reason to. What would I contribute anyway?
1 hours later 4554333 Anonymous
>>4554274
what if we do those things but are still dissatisfied by lack of a sex life?
you can pretend to not want it but it's a basic human need and masturbation alone simply isn't the same as the true intimacy that comes from being with someone, romantically and sexually.
when you've lived your entire life with little to no success and bad experiences in all your romantic ventures it begins to weigh on you constantly.
it's not a switch you can just turn off and stop thinking about. it's not as if you can go about in the world with blinders up and ignore the huge amount of couples around, who serve as a constant reminder to how you've continued to fail as a human being.
if I could just shut that feeling off and live my life and be happy I'd fucking love to.
1 hours later 4554346 Anonymous
>>4554277
Okay so to act like this. it isn't being a fucking dick, contrary to popular r9k belief.
The best persona to have is a confident, lightly cocky guy
Situation:
>girl: man this place is awesome!
>you: well I'm pretty sure I'm the sole reason for that.
don't stutter or mumble. Just live with the new fact that you're the coolest motherfucker she knows. live in that fact.
contd
1 hours later 4554352 Anonymous
>>4554307
>I'd love to help/dissect some bullshit.
Mhm, mhm. And I suppose you're going to do something about my sides being obliterated by your perceived superiority?
1 hours later 4554376 Cheshire Cat
>>4554352
>perceived superiority?
Your words, not mine. I'm becoming happy in my life, and have the vast majority of things I want. Can you say the same? If you can, than there is no reason for you to be responding to me.
>>4554346
This, fucking this, so much this.
1 hours later 4554382 Anonymous
>>4554284
Yeah, nah, yer a faggot
>>4554299
Kewl
>>4554346
Good. Good.
1 hours later 4554387 Anonymous
>>4554333
Its not easy. But there are way cooler things than fucking vaginas, jesus fuck. I'd rather take a wild tour through africa or something for a few weeks than have sex for 3 years straight. Everyone makes sex out to be this great godly thing, it really isn't. Yes emotional and physical intimacy with the ones you love is great.
no, not tending to these issues won't stop the feels.
but there are more important things than fucking girls.
You're saying all the things I say when I get the
>tfw no gf
It sucks ass sometimes. but I remember there are more important things to deal with.
1 hours later 4554420 Anonymous
>>4554382
This metaphor helped me alot with it
>treat every girl (that you want) like you're annoying little sister
Seriously. talk to her how you want, tease her, make fun of her, tell her she looks great. be playful. make fun of her then hug her tight when she acts offended(don't say you're sorry seriously, unless she's crying or genuinely upset, which she won't be, shes just acting)
live by that friend. and interaction is alot easier.
inb4 i don't have a little sister
neither do I faggot, its not hard to guess or even watch a movie to figure out what its like
1 hours later 4554427 Anonymous
>>4553383
>show itself presents being nice as an absurd reason to be disappointed in a relationship
>show is specifically produced to make you laugh and entertain absurd ideas
>mfw I've been nice to all of the girls in my life because I'm not an asshole and I don't need to act like one to get laid
>mfw I don't even want to know what kind of girls you aim for if they don't appreciate good behavior
>mfw you probably don't even aim for girls because you're sitting on your ass all day talking and thinking about them
1 hours later 4554429 Anonymous
>>4553952
>Book of Pook
I looked this up and already the first two posts are pretty fantastic.
I've browsed /r9k/ regularly since its creation, how have I never heard of it and why isn't it talked about constantly? Seems to be exactly what robots like myself need
>>4554387
no i really don't think you understand the problem. I don't want sex because i think it is going to be great and godly, I want sex because my body demands it. And why shouldn't it? I'm a 23 year old male. I should be having sex.
Emotional and physical intimacy is not just great, it's a basic human need. When it goes unfulfilled it fucks with your brain permanently.
1 hours later 4554446 Anonymous
ITT: "Hey guys, you just gotta act like that one guy to get girls to delay their decision to friendzone you! I figured it out all by myself!"
2 hours later 4554457 Anonymous
>op
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fallacy_of_composition
2 hours later 4554463 Anonymous
>>4554387
>tfw you have hormone deficiency
Wild tour through africa? Or something?
Either you just masturbated or you're pulling shit out of your ass, bro. Sex is probably the best activity I could possibly be doing at any given time, but obviously there is a balance in a healthy life and sex is just there at the end of the day to relieve stress and share an intimate moment with someone. It might not be as life defining as you think it will be as a virgin, but there's no substitute for an active sex life, especially not "important things" like touring through fucking africa
2 hours later 4554467 Anonymous
>>4554244
Guess this world is way too crazy...
If being at the pub 4 nights a week, one night of drifting in a car park, one night at the opera, and one night general recovery, is considered boring, then I don't give a fuck anymore.
Or I'll just laugh at stupid bitches when I tell them about Chopin's Sonata no. 2, op. 35 as one of my favourite music genre, and they will think it's something classy.
2 hours later 4554491 Anonymous
>>4554463
>that feel when you're retarded
Do you really think adventure is not as fun as sex?
are you really that desperate?
If you want to list something important, I have work, 2 different colleges i'm going to and hobbies. I don't have time for petty bullshit that most girls will throw in your face because they think they'll stay attractive forever.
I mean. Sex is nice. but christ man. letting it define you're life is just retarded
2 hours later 4554504 Anonymous
>>4554467
maybe you should work on you're speaking skills/storytelling skills
gotta build suspense and shit
2 hours later 4554515 Anonymous
>>4554467
Please tell me how to into your life, anon.
2 hours later 4554535 Anonymous
>>4554515
>have money
>look up events/decide to go do something
>go
thats pretty much all you do.
2 hours later 4554549 Anonymous
>>4554491
>are you really that desperate?
your posts seem to imply you've had success with women, intimacy, and sex. enough so to dismiss it as being completely unimportant. the great benefits to your ego and psyche have been so natural to you that you don't realize they're there.
you'll never be able to understand what it's like to remain a virgin well into adulthood
2 hours later 4554586 Anonymous
>>4554491
I'm saying that there's a balance in life
>that feel when you can't read, and you're actually this excited in being ironic that you ignore posts altogether to say how little you care about sex.
Those things you listed only present you as an insecure guy with no real meaningful direction. Some vague "work" and 2 nameless colleges don't cut it as something "important" on the same scale as having a strong relationship with someone. I don't have to be desperate to maintain a job I love and a girl I love, and we go on adventures together every summer. When I say there is no substitute for sex, I don't mean that you aren't allowed to "have time" for anything else, you ignorant fuck, I'm saying that realistically anyone with a healthy libido is going to be fucking miserable without a sex life.
Your version of "fun" is the same as eating one type of pizza every day for every meal. Congratulations on how different you are from the norm, but you're not going to convince people that instead of seeking a relationship they should travel to africa and look at the lions.
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>>4554515
Go to pub.
Find a free table. If you can't find one free, just ask some randoms, if you can join. Most of the people accept. After a few beers, everybody is friends with everybody.
Anyway, random tables are the best. In any case, I usually go with my own group ( university ppl mainly ), but once in a while I just join a random table, just for kicks.
As for the drifting : buy car -> buy gasoline -> drift -> save money for more gasoline, and tires.
If you don't have a car yet, ask someone who has, to go drifting in a car park large enough for every level of skill.
>>4554504
The problem is actually getting a date, after that it's pretty much straightforward. But it's as if women are repulsed by me, when I ask them out...
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>>4554535
>have money
Welp I'm out.
2 hours later 4554673 Anonymous (Post_Soul_Society_arc_Mayuri_Kurotsuchi.png 630x479 289kB)
>>4554613
you can't be that poor, so you can't afford spending 3$ in a pub, one night...
in Europe, 3$ can buy you like 2~3 low-medium quality beer...
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