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2014-05-12 01:00 11669291 Anonymous Thai GF? (thai1.jpg 720x839 109kB)
I'm a 27 year old male. Women in the US don't want anything to do with me. I've been shot down, told we should be 'just friends', ignored, passed over, etc. HUNDREDS of times. Last weekend, a girl I was pursuing publicly humiliated me at a bar and crushed whatever hope I had left. I am done. I run an internet business that makes $2500/month - meager earnings for someone who lives in the US. Average monthly income in Thailand is $400 - I could live like a tycoon over there. I'm seriously considering taking a trip to Thailand to find a GF. Has anyone else done this?

4 min later 11669326 Anonymous
Bad idea man. You don't want a Thai gf. They're all gold diggers, every one. But I do definitely suggest going and living over there still. Cheap, reasonably clean hookers and general extremely low cost of living make it an awesome place to live.

5 min later 11669340 bb
>>11669291 >thread about moving to thailand >using a picture of a girl in vegas what?

7 min later 11669361 Anonymous
>>11669326 At this point I'm so desperate for female companionship that I don't care if all they're after is money / stability / 'whitey'. As long as they don't steal from me or lie to me.

8 min later 11669380 Anonymous
>>11669340 The girl is Thai, I find her very attractive, the whole point of me going to Thailand would be to meet a Thai girl. Does is really matter where the picture was taken? Or are you just shitposting?

10 min later 11669395 Anonymous
>>11669361 >As long as they don't steal from me or lie to me Literally exactly what they'll do. Thai culture is not to date whitey. It's ingrained in them. The only ones who would know they can take your money as soon as you aren't looking.

10 min later 11669403 Anonymous
Thai women are really superficial and will probably never love you I'd suggest going to a country like Italy or France and trying to meet a religious girl. South America can be good too, just don't go to a super promiscuous country like Colombia. I also really like Turkey because it's cheap, has pretty women, etc. but it's not for everybody. It's a bit like a better version of Mexico imo

13 min later 11669427 bb
>>11669380 I think it matters, because I imagine whitewashed thai girls and actual thailand girls would be different. Why did you find a picture of some girl at a vegas day club anyways?

16 min later 11669460 Anonymous
> I've been shot down, told we should be 'just friends', ignored, passed over, etc. HUNDREDS of times. why do you think that is? socially awkard, ugly, etc?

16 min later 11669462 Anonymous
>>11669291 What kind of business do you run, OP? I'm interested.

18 min later 11669484 Anonymous
>>11669395 I've heard horror stories about guys losing their entire net worth to some Thai bar girl, but most of those guys seem like fucking idiots. If I keep only a modest amount of cash on me, what's the worst that could happen? >>11669403 France would be great but too expensive. South America seems like your best recommendation, I imagine it's cheaper living there. >>11669427 I looked up "Thai girl" in google images. If you have nothing relevant to add, please exit the thread. Thank you.

19 min later 11669496 Anonymous
>Tripfags >Not having autism. Just ignore him OP the dudes retarded.

22 min later 11669532 Anonymous
>>11669484 >I've heard horror stories about guys losing their entire net worth to some Thai bar girl, but most of those guys seem like fucking idiots. If I keep only a modest amount of cash on me, what's the worst that could happen? That's fine and all if you're banging hookers. If you have a thai gf she's going to know you have more money and will find a way to get it somehow.

24 min later 11669554 Anonymous
>>11669460 I wish I could tell you. I am tall (6'3"), have a full head of long hair, most people say I'm decently attractive. Girls seem to enjoy my company until I try to move passed 'friendship' and into 'courtship' - then they can't get away from me fast enough. One thing is I'm not current with technology, trends and pop culture. I don't have ANY social media accounts (Facebook, Twitter, etc), all the music I listen to and TV shows I watch are from the 90s. Not something most people expect from someone who runs an online business haha. >>11669462 I am a vendor on ClickBank, I create digital products.

24 min later 11669556 Anonymous
>>11669484 Why not try Turkey? If you can afford the airfare there, you can easily afford spending a week or so to test the waters. It's truly great. Only problem is that the language is crazy Altaic nonsense, but at least they use the Roman alphabet. You need to be careful with South America. Like I said, places like Colombia are really promiscuous, as are (I think) Venezuela and Brazil. Peru and Ecuador and Bolivia are really poor (though Ecuador is still sort of OK).

25 min later 11669575 Anonymous
>>11669326 What is your experience with Thailand?

27 min later 11669586 Anonymous
>>11669556 I've never looked into "Turkish girls", I guess I'll have to now. Have you been there before? What's the cost of living like?

28 min later 11669603 Anonymous
Are you a virgin OP? Just curious

33 min later 11669652 Anonymous
>>11669603 No. I had a few GFs when I was 19-20. One girl shattered my heart/ego into a million pieces, and for 2 years afterward I was depressed. From 22 til now (I'm 27) I have been 'back on the dating market' but I seem to repulse all women or don't fit the mold of what they're looking for in a modern western man.

34 min later 11669661 Anonymous
>>11669586 I've been there briefly. Turkish girls can have a bunch of different looks, because Asia minor has seen a ton of different invading groups and cultures. They can look like Italian/Spanish, Greek, Arabic, or even vaguely Asian. In general I like how they look. I can't speak too much to how they behave, but most seem pretty nice, and not like sluts. Turkey is one of the most liberal Muslim countries, so it has some of the best parts of Muslim society without some of the worst. The living is pretty cheap. Google some costs of things you'd like, and divide the cost in Turkish Lira by 2 to get how much it would cost in USD.

40 min later 11669728 Anonymous
>>11669291 I have been to Thailand and have friends that lived there for a handful of years. Basically regarding money, yeah the cost of living is low. My friend was a shit-tier English language teacher and lived comfortably (according to him he could support himself, have some left over to enjoy occasional treats). As for women in my experience they do like the cash. A rich (in their terms) white guy coming over? Prime target. They get what they want, you get what you want basically. Call my cynical but you probably wont find true love - it's well hidden in the other girls who just want your wallet. tl;dr - life in Thailand can suit some, is comfortable even with basic western salary, Thai girls will go for you (and your wallet too though).

1 hours later 11669984 Anonymous
Would you move to Thailand or bring her to the USA?

1 hours later 11670115 Anonymous
If you want to move to get a SEA gf then move the actual country and learn the language, that way you can avoid girls who just want a green card and learn to tell the difference between a bar girl and a decent girl. Also if you're living there and know the language a decent girl would see that you're not just some typical scummy expat. If you want to do it seriously commit to it, go all the way. Even if you don't get a gf living rich in a cheap country would still be fun.

1 hours later 11670154 Anonymous
>>11669291 >HUNDREDS of times Why are you even lying over the Internet? We're not gonna tell you going to Thailand is a good thing whether or not you've tried to score with that many women. why do you think women in different countries have different standards? I'm sure dirt poor American girls would gold dig you even with your small income.

1 hours later 11670164 Anonymous
>>11669728 Most of those girls want to live in a Rich country though. It's not just about salary. Can you really say you'd have a decent life in Thailand? If you have children would you want them to go to school in thailand? What about health care? What about violence?

1 hours later 11670182 Anonymous (America.jpg 359x450 45kB)
Stay the fuck over there, you piece of shit traitor. And never come back.

1 hours later 11670215 Anonymous (Capture.jpg 968x585 75kB)
Look at this. A 60 something british man with a 20 something thai wife. She can barely speak English.

1 hours later 11670255 Anonymous
I met a guy who I think did this. I'm not sure where she was from - Thailand or Singapore or Philipines. He was a geeky computer guy like OP probably and flew down there to pick her up and bring her back. She was an amazingly good girl. Vagina tight as you could ever imagine (I examined her) - ridiculously tight if anything. She was just "small" down there - smaller than any woman I'd ever examined. Anyway, she seemed lovely. Not nearly as intelligent as him, but he clearly didn't "pick" her for her intelligence. Point is they seemed legitimately happy together and were planning to have kids. So this sort of thing can work out I think. Odds are against you, but they always are in everything.

1 hours later 11670268 Anonymous
>>11670255 You fucked his wife? How did that go?

1 hours later 11670281 Anonymous
>>11670268 I didn't fuck her. I'm in health care.

1 hours later 11670292 Anonymous
>thai girls the whole thai girls are little fucking machines is a myth. you'll marry one and she'll never be honest with you. she'll tell her mother and aunts every fucking thing you ever tell her in confidence. they stop putting out not long after marriage unless they want more kids but as soon as they get whatever number they want they are cutting you off. this is just the way it is in thailand. the one good thing about them is they will look the other way when you fuck on the side. but really you can get with a sexy hispanic girl who also will and will also be loyal and fuck you to an inch of your life. talk to some thai guys. thai girls are super overated.

1 hours later 11670331 Anonymous
>>11669361 >As long as they don't steal from me or lie to me Are you familiar with what a "golddigger" actually is?

1 hours later 11670343 Anonymous
I'm brazilian, sometimes I have the urge of joining one of those mail order websites just to see what sort of man would message me.

1 hours later 11670358 Anonymous
>>11670343 I'm sure no matter what he wouldn't be good enough for you.

1 hours later 11670380 Anonymous
>>11670358 How can you know that? Over here most girls love white foreigners. Not saying that I'm one of them.

1 hours later 11670395 Anonymous
>>11670380 Who says he'd have to be white? See what I mean?

1 hours later 11670406 Anonymous
>>11670395 Most of the men who use those websites are white. I think.

1 hours later 11670415 Anonymous
>>11670395 >wahh even poor as shit girls won't marry niggers go back to your nigger feel thread

1 hours later 11670423 Anonymous
A lot of people do this. It's an accepted thing. It's known as being a "digital nomad". Tell us whatever you're comfortable disclosing about your business, please. I dream about this.

1 hours later 11670428 Anonymous
>>11670415 I'm not black or poor. Nice assumptions.

1 hours later 11670473 Anonymous
>>11670268 Not that guy but I accidentally a guy's mail order bride. > out for a co-worker's birthday > at that point in the night when alcohol is having its depressive effect > co-workers all go home, I'm still there > notice girl next to me kind of glancing at me > I buy her a drink > it turns out we live in the same apartment complex (big city so you don't meet "neighbors" at random all that often) > I kind of remember her vaguely > the night's kind of a drunken blur but I remember making out with her in the corner, I don't know who initiated it > she comes back to my place > we fuck for an hour, I sober up during this > she gets dressed and leaves because she "has to get home" > sitting in the dark and thinking about how this has never happened before > in a flash, remember who she is > doughy computer programmer with bad teeth but is always friendly to me > his hot russian wife > her tight body and big tights in tight sweaters > pushing a stroller with their kid I've seen her since then, and him since then. She's never so much as glanced at me. He's really friendly (he's a nice guy) which makes me feel awful.

1 hours later 11670497 Anonymous
>>11670473 That's sad. I always wanted a Russian mail order bride, though I'd feel pathetic for getting one.

1 hours later 11670501 Anonymous
>>11670343 Sure... I bet you'd love a gringo husband. Imagine all those dollars!

1 hours later 11670527 Anonymous
>>11670501 Wrong. If I ever got a foreigner husband it'd be only because of love, not dollars. Getting one would be a huge pain in the ass though with all the logistics problems.

1 hours later 11670541 Anonymous
>>11669380 that girl is probably thai-chinese you ignorant white faggot

1 hours later 11670556 Anonymous
This whole misconception that Asian women are somehow better and more virtuous than Western women is fucking abysmal. If anything they're worse in the East, fucking gold diggers everywhere.

1 hours later 11670567 Anonymous
sounds like a good plan to me OP, especially with your income cost of living down there is like $500 a month right? you could save a ton of money too. i wouldn't get attached to some girl though there are lots of programmers, graphic designers, accountants etc that work in countries like this simply because it's so much cheaper

1 hours later 11670594 Anonymous
>>11670556 >fucking gold diggers everywhere I don't understand. THAT'S THE ENTIRE POINT. OP is trying to use his money to get a girl. You just have to be good at putting them on an allowance and not letting them bankrupt you. If they aren't gold diggers, why would they want a foreigner? Of course they're gold diggers.

2 hours later 11670625 Anonymous
>>11670497 I've had so many cringey conversations with him. She brings her family to visit (at his expense), there's like 6 of them and he winds up renting a hotel room -- for himself. Now that she's had the anchor baby, she's not only a naturalized citizen but can leave him at any time for child support. I wonder if he'll wind up like Hans Reiser. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hans_R eiser#Marriage_to_Nina_Sharanova

2 hours later 11670633 Anonymous
>>11670625 >can leave him at any time for child support * can leave him at any time & claim child support, I should have written. And alimony for that matter.

2 hours later 11670654 Anonymous
>>11670625 Sounds like he's a horrible, horrible beta and lets her walk all over him. Of course she's cheating on him. Any woman would. That's what women do when you act like that.

2 hours later 11670794 Anonymous
>>11670527 You sound like an educated woman. Those men want a fuck toy who barely speaks English. You'd have no luck on a mail order website.

4 hours later 11672099 Anonymous
>>11670794 Not true. They just want a girl better than they can get here, because the lure of foreign money and immigration gives them higher value to a foreign chick. I know because I've thought about doing it. I would want a great girl far better than any I could get here, in all capacities.

4 hours later 11672325 Anonymous
>>11669291 You can try South America. captcha: suggest gedywg

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