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2014-04-13 05:47 11309480 Anonymous (image.jpg 480x720 92kB)
Is it true that good looking men can't stay monogamous and will cheat? Do men really only not cheat when they literally can't even if they tried? plz tell me this isn't true.

0 min later 11309493 Anonymous
Both ugly and attractive guys are capable of cheating

1 min later 11309494 Anonymous
That's not true. Original comment blox

7 min later 11309564 Anonymous
Use your imagination. Say you were an extremely good looking man swimming in pussy. Would you seek out a monogamous relationship? What would be the point? "Intimacy, really getting to know someone!" That's what true friends are for.

11 min later 11309609 Anonymous
>>11309564 Well I have heaps of men that I could have sex with all I need to do is have a online dating profile and if have my pick of hundreds of men but I want a monogamous relationship and would never cheat why can't men do the same?

15 min later 11309665 Anonymous
I was married for several years, do not know if I could have cheated or not, because I didn't actually try. There was some online chatroom "sex", but no attempt to ever meet up. Does that count? I'm pretty beta and was very committed to the idea of marriage, so I assume actual normalfags probably cheat irl.

16 min later 11309671 Anonymous (1392240920218.jpg 513x540 57kB)
>>11309609 Because it's a choice for every individual to make. Some people value monogamy. I think it's an outdated concept that is fundamentally incapable with out intrinsic sexual nature as human beings. We are ALL sluts who want to fuck everyone we see that we find attractive. We should accept that, and stop falsely equating sex and/or exclusivity with love. But some gorgeous men probably do value monogamy. Great for them. I've tried monogamous relationships and they always feel sooooo fake.

19 min later 11309714 Anonymous
The girls I've dated, and really everybody I've met has called me attractive on one occasion, and I could never cheat. Then again, I'm attracted to young girls and have for the most part lost all interest in women my age. Maybe if you weren't such fucking sluts there would be more of us. >>11309671 You have autism and are incapable of any higher-level emotion, and should be promptly executed

20 min later 11309718 Anonymous
>>11309609 oh sweetie, nobody has explained this to you yet? the typical man does NOT have heaps of women he could have sex with. the only reason you have so many men slobbering over you is because men have lower standards than you do. the typical man spends at least his formative years so sex-starved that for the rest of his life he's going to see sex as a feast or famine: never ever leave sex on the table, his ingrained experiences tell him. the only men who have what you have are what r9k calls the Chads. And Chads will also cheat, because you don't get to be a Chad without some degree of sociopathy. sorry.

22 min later 11309753 Anonymous (1380604946882.gif 245x160 1006kB)
>>11309714 What higher-level emotions is it that I am demonstrably incapable of processing? My interest is genuinely piqued, as I'm open to the possibility that I have autism.

26 min later 11309803 Anonymous
>>11309753 You seem to be incapable of forming any long-term bonds, you are a broken excuse for a person.

29 min later 11309835 Anonymous
>>11309803 Well, I'm not. I've been in 2 long term relationships and have great friends. I'm even friends still with one of the girls I was with. (Would be with the other girl as well, but she choose to cut me out of her life entirely when she met a new guy. Yay monogamy and jealousy/insecurity!)

34 min later 11309884 Anonymous
>>11309835 Feigning a relationship is not having a proper relationship. You're autistic.

44 min later 11310012 Anonymous
>>11309884 Huh? Are you a troll? How did I feign a relationship?

45 min later 11310020 Anonymous
>>11309480 men settle down when they think they cant do better. are you ugly? then he's cheating on you.

47 min later 11310047 Anonymous
>>11310012 By not having genuine emotions in it. >>11310020 This is what spergs really believe.

48 min later 11310055 Anonymous
>>11309609 Sex means nothing to you because it's so easily obtainable.

52 min later 11310098 Anonymous
>>11309671 >We are ALL sluts who want to fuck everyone we see that we find attractive no that's just you, slut

58 min later 11310153 Anonymous (nf0sMxO.png 500x303 184kB)
>>11310047 >By not having genuine emotions in it. Sigh, you're obviously jumping to conclusions. I did have feelings for the girls, I love them still. I'm just emotionally mature enough to realize that sex && exclusivity != love. You can love someone and still be happy that they're having sex with others. Instead of entertaining that thought, you call me autistic. Well, have fun with that, I'm not interested in causing you any more cognitive dissonance than I already have. I'll see you when you get there, if you ever get there.

1 hours later 11310203 Anonymous
>>11309714 How old are you to not be attracted to women your age ?

1 hours later 11310208 Anonymous
>>11309480 what the fuck do you think you moron they are the top 20% that all women want. they know this and will cheat if you are not as hot as them.

1 hours later 11310213 Anonymous
>>11310020 So as long as I am hotter than the guy I'm with he won't cheat ?

1 hours later 11310229 Anonymous
>>11310153 You are autistic, or just pathetic as a sperg, to want to see your partner act like a disgusting whore. I'd beat my girl if she did that. >I love them still Lust isn't love. >>11310203 I'm 26.

1 hours later 11310232 Anonymous
>>11310208 Fuck not even 20% of men are hot I'd say more like 5%

1 hours later 11310241 Anonymous
even if they aren't incredibly good looking they will still cheat. It is rare nowadays to find someone, man or woman, who is interested in a monogamous relationship.

1 hours later 11310244 Anonymous
>>11310229 Why aren't you attracted to fellow 26 year olds ? What age to you prefer?

1 hours later 11310259 Anonymous
>>11310241 Hearing things like this makes me want to be single forever, why should I date men if they are so likely to cheat

1 hours later 11310274 Anonymous
>>11310244 They have revolting personalities, non-existent morals, and look like shit. 12-14.

1 hours later 11310293 Anonymous
>>11310274 That's pedophile shit right there , how many u king men are pedos these days? Way too fucking many

1 hours later 11310324 Anonymous
>>11310293 >adolescents >pedophilia

1 hours later 11310373 Anonymous
>>11310259 it's incredibly hard to accept it. it's really frustrating to think "why should I even bother if someone is more than likely just going to cheat on me anyway?" My last ex, cheated on me not even for sex. He said he just wanted to have a prettier girl to show off in public, and that he has never wanted to have sex with someone else because of how ours was. Like, if guys are cheating not even to get sex now, what's honestly the point in trying lol

1 hours later 11310475 Anonymous
>>11310373 Yeah, that was almost the situation I was in. I got a gf and then later came out of my shell socially and realized I had way better sexual option, so I took the options but kept the relationship. It was a really serious relationship too but that apparently didn't stop me. Ultimately, I didn't do it because I could. I did it because I'm an impulse, borderline sociopathic asshole. So if you don't want to be cheated on, stay away from assholes with options. Guys who only have one of the two probably won't do it

1 hours later 11310508 Anonymous (typicalchristiangrill.jpg 500x500 38kB)
>>11309609 >>11309480 Here's the thing honey -- you only go after guys other girls also go after. You're like Seagulls, you see one bird with a piece of bread and you all flock to it despite an entire pier of bread all around you. What do women want? >What OTHER women want. So here's the thing you only go after this guy who's already swimming in pussy. You simply being with them and being seen together makes him more attractive. And bouncing off this anon's >>11309718 gorgeous point > the typical man spends at least his formative years so sex-starved that for the rest of his life he's going to see sex as a feast or famine: never ever leave sex on the table, his ingrained experiences tell him. You're basically putting a feast in front of a starving person and asking them to just eat one dish. In fact the girls most guys cheat on with? THE GIRL is the one that starts the affair, makes the move, whatever. The girls usually doing more the seducing. And how come this girl doesn't care about monogamy like you do? How come she doesn't say "Maybe I shouldn't bang this guy who has a girlfriend and perpuate this problem all of us complain about?" Because she's only attracted to the guy because he was unavailable in the first place. He's a challenge now. He's the one guy in the room not hitting on you because he's happy where he is and now you've got to make sure everyone everywhere is attracted to you or your selfesteem would collasple so hard you vagina will become a black hole. Granted yes, there are tons of men out there that do start the affair and that's douchey but you know what? You're attracted to that bullshit. You're the one that CHOOSE this guy who can get whatever he wants because you want him to choose YOU so you're feel special. These guys have no sense of morals in a relationship because they never had to work for pussy, you just handed it to them and pray it's good enough.

1 hours later 11310542 Anonymous
>>11309480 let me spell it out for you. a good looking man is like a kid in a candy shop. but they can have all the candy they want. an ugly man will take any candy they can afford. so an average girl might be the best they can get, so they stick with them. why would you settle for one piece of candy, when you could have different kinds of candy all the time?

1 hours later 11310562 Anonymous
>>11310508 So how does this explain my fiancee who I met online who only had one real relationship before me? Girls apparently werent all over him in his past, and they arent now either. Yet here we are, more than a year together, going to to be living together soon.

1 hours later 11310575 Anonymous
>>11310562 >one relationship that you know of.

1 hours later 11310586 Anonymous
>>11309671 I've been reading a lot of antropology books lately. I'm just really interested in man's origins and transition from pure animal to volitional being. And you know what? Monogamy actually evolved out of a need to make sure you weren't raising kids that weren't your own. Chimpanzees are super promiscuous and as a result entiree troops end up killing themselves over fighting over who's fucking who. Sounds more like us than anything really. But basically the ability to be monogamous gave us an evolutionary advantage. So there's that. I think it's like half and half really, the front lobe "monkey/mammal" part of the brain wants monogamy and the reptilian physical part of the brain wants to fuck everything possible because fuck it they're just eggs and I'll eat half of them anyways. That creates the conflict we have where we feel this instinct to take care of each other and our offspring couple with an contradictory instinct to fuck everything with legs and won't use them to kick us off.

1 hours later 11310598 Anonymous
>>11310575 Well thats true, that I know of. But after knowing him and his family and few friends for over year, I think its safe to say they are all telling the truth about certain things. That or they all got together before I met them and made sure all their stories lined up.

1 hours later 11310601 Anonymous
>>11310562 >one If it was zero you would never give him a chance.

1 hours later 11310606 Anonymous
>>11310598 for what it's worth, the average guy doesnt slut around. that's more of a girl thing since "slut shaming" is seen as bad these days.

1 hours later 11310607 Anonymous
>>11310542 And I'm a kid in a candy store when it comes to men too like literally I can choose nearly any guy and have sex with him but there is a thing called self control and respect for your partner

1 hours later 11310614 Anonymous
>>11309714 >You have autism I find it amusing how this is the new "you're a hipster"

1 hours later 11310631 Anonymous
>>11310601 I didnt even know the number of relationships he had before we started dating. The most I knew was that he had met 2 girls in the last year, and they told him he was ugly on the first date. >>11310606 Men lie all the damn time about how many girls they have been with, sometimes they lie to seem cooler and say more, sometimes the lie to seem more committed and say less Many many men do this, and many men do "slut around" except its fine for them, they are the "players" and "master keys"

1 hours later 11310634 Anonymous (roof.jpg 1920x1080 554kB)
do you think girls like to cheat like guys do?

1 hours later 11310643 Anonymous
>>11309480 My fat unwashed NEET ex ended up cheating on me. They all cheat.

1 hours later 11310644 Anonymous
>>11310631 >I didnt even know the number of relationships he had before we started dating. The Hive Cunt telepathically told you.

1 hours later 11310646 Anonymous
>>11310634 What a funny story Mark!

1 hours later 11310657 Anonymous
>>11310644 Yes I remember reading about that theory. This is definite fact that I overlooked, sorry for that.

1 hours later 11310663 Anonymous
>>11310643 And I'm 1000% sure the girl he cheated on you with never would of noticed him if you weren't on his arms.

2 hours later 11310680 Anonymous
>>11310663 I do have to sort of confirm this. I dated a fat, baby faced, pizza delivery, "punk", DnD guy once. I honestly was really really into him. Then he cheated on me with his ex, and I found out because his ex told me while drunk one day that seeing me with him made her realize what mistake she made.

2 hours later 11310685 Anonymous
>>11310657 It's okay, individual thought patterns are squelched under the might quaffing of the Hive Cunt resonating through the empty space between your ears. It's all good, girl.

2 hours later 11310702 Anonymous
>>11310475 a lot of guys are really good at hiding that they're assholes. So it's hard to tell before you're emotionally invested. The only thing that makes me feel better about that whole situation, is he won't be able to have a fulfilling sexual relationship like he did with me again. He actually broke down and cried because I told him I wasn't going to be fine staying in a relationship with him but "hidden" while he does nothing intimate with another girl but shows her off to friends/family because she's prettier.

2 hours later 11310713 Anonymous
>>11310702 a lot of girls are good at hiding EVERYTHING. emotions beliefs their hair color their face with makeup off almost everything about women is a lie.

2 hours later 11310733 Anonymous
>>11310713 I am upfront about my emotions I am blunt and stubborn about what I believe in I have never dyed my hair I never wear make up In one of my earlier posts, I mentioned men and women of any sort of level of attractiveness will likely cheat now a days. There are just as many terrible, lying, cheating, manipulating women as men. I however, am not one of them.

2 hours later 11310746 Anonymous
>>11310733 well grats on being the exception to the norm

2 hours later 11310812 Anonymous
>>11310733 >Typical femanon "NOT MEE IM DIFFERENT" response. It's a rule of thumb and so fucking predictable. Girls are always the exact opposite of what you say they are as long as that has any perceived negative connotation. "Girls breath oxygen, it's so gross" "NUH UH I HAVE NEVER BREATHED IN MY ENTIRE LIFE!!!" A litmus test for a femanon shouldn't be showing her tits but rather how much she insists on defending herself when she's fucking anonymous.

2 hours later 11310867 Anonymous
>>11310812 >>11310733 Sorry for being an asshole femanon but honestly I'm just sick of every time we talk about anything girl related every girl has to step in "NOT MEEE!!!" like they have something to prove and they only then they prove is how women can't handle any negative judgement of any kind even when you're not even the one being judged.

2 hours later 11310881 Anonymous
>>11310812 I thought that's what the conversation was about? I have plenty of things about me that are negative. no one is perfect

2 hours later 11310885 Anonymous
>>11310867 > they only then they prove is how women can't handle any negative judgement of any kind even when you're not even the one being judged. Five sentences in my brain at one, should of been. "the only thing they prove is"

2 hours later 11310910 Anonymous
>>11310881 Well also the thing is too is that you don't give real answers. >"How come girls don't like math?" >"WEELLL IIIIIIIII LLLIKKKEE MMAATHHHH" Uh okay, lady you succeeded in getting attention and approval but you didn't answer the fucking question. You just made sure you were void of negative judgement. And that KILLS the conversation.

2 hours later 11310994 Anonymous
>>11310910 He didn't ask how come. Would it have been better if I addressed that? Because I don't know what sort of answer I'd give. I don't know why anyone, male or female, feels the need to hide anything. If you want someone to trust you, you have to be able to trust them right? If you're hiding things you can't ever fully trust.

2 hours later 11311052 Anonymous (nbvnfhg5645.jpg 936x780 196kB)
I'd say that I'm good looking (lots of cute and hot chicks have approached me, flirted with me and gave me compliments about my looks, I'm happy with what I see when I look in the mirror, plus I'm 6'2" and have masculine features). I wouldn't cheat. Then again, every chick who was once interested in me and I was attracted to aswell quickly changed their minds, thus I'm a 27 year old virgin and never had a girlfriend before. So if I ever did get a girlfriend, I probably wouldn't have the chance to cheat unless if it was with a landwhale.

2 hours later 11311065 Anonymous
I think good looking guys will cheat less, as they're always being gunned for either way, so they know how to deal with it through experience. Ugly guys don't have the experience and mightmake mistakes or take that once in a lifetime chance for it, because well, they're ugly.

6 hours later 11312550 Anonymous
I think that cheating is roughly equivalent between genders. However there are differences between them. More men would be willing to cheat if it were offered up on a plate, but since it is generally men who do the approaching many of those who would cheat cant due to lack of opportunity (and if they are getting the v on the regular they are less likely to go looking for more, limiting them to whatever women throw themselves at them). Women on the other hand are less likely to want to cheat, but since they still get approached regularly, those who do want to cheat can do so easily. As such the rate of cheating for each gender balances out. How is this relevant to OPs question? Attractive men are more likely to be approached, so if they fall into the degenerate category (those willing to cheat given the opportunity) then yes, them being attractive will lead to them cheating. You shouldn't let this put you off of attractive men though. At the end of the day if you think that the only reason your partner isn't cheating on you is because they are too ugly to do so, you probably shouldn't be together in the first place. People immoral enough to cheat are generally bad people in other areas of their lives. If the man who gets your panties in a twist treats others with kindness and respect (even when not obligated to), then you should trust him.

6 hours later 11312561 Anonymous
The primary reason marriage exists is so that both parties responsible for making a child will take care of it.

6 hours later 11312640 Anonymous
>tfw you just want a qt feminine virgin to be your housewife and spend your life with >tfw you'd treat her like a princess and never contemplate cheating >tfw women would rather ride Chad and Tyrone's cock carousel

9 hours later 11313539 Anonymous
I've never had a girlfriend or girls interested in me, but to be honest I think they have the right to cheat. Women all like one type of man, the alpha, no exceptions. Why shouldn't chad cheat? He should harm those stupid bitches - it's their own fault for not going for a loyal guy.

9 hours later 11313547 Anonymous
>>11311052 >if I ever did get a girlfriend, I probably wouldn't have the chance don't bet on it. once you get a gf, you WILL see chances to cheat. all the girls that snubbed you before will be all over you all of a sudden. no man should enter into a relationship without expecting to have to overcome temptation.

9 hours later 11313562 Anonymous
>>11309671 >feel sooooo fake HAHAOHUALJHqa EDFo [fihnsfa[ol agfdn I always laugh so much at fucking little sluts like you. stupid bitches who are all "muh polyamory!!! muh social construct!!!" I want you to understand something. I want you to know inside that no man will EVER love you. You fucking loud mouthed, impure, disgusting SLUT. I honestly hope you die. Nobody will ever care about you, you fucking stupid bitch. You're going to die alone.

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