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2014-03-08 06:08 10892850 Anonymous (1342212692549.jpg 482x750 125kB)
So r9k,
1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
2.your feelings towards women
3.why you think youre single
4.why you think you shouldnt be.
>If I watch porn, it has to be tastfully filmed, from the title to the cinematography as a whole. The content cant be of the women being sexually abused. it turns me off.
>I love them dearly but cant trust them because they are slaves to their passions and their passions can change without notice injuring the person with faith in them
>I love too much, too fast
>I have a lot going for me, it'd be nice to hav someone else in your life who cares for you, but frankly im used to not being in a relationship that I dont care as much.
50 min later 10893253 Anonymous
1. I imagine weird shit out of the blue. Like, I never took drugs, it doesn't happen somewhere special, it's like I feel when I'm relaxed, my mind goes full sub-conscious, my imaginations can't be explained by logic or words themselves.
2. Feel like I'm kinda picky, and have empathy to those who aren't total bitches to me.
3. Insecurities, and the fact that I was grown in a community of people who had much different morals from the majority of people I meet and had handshakes (and sex as a form of impregnation) as the only appealable form of social contact.
4. I don't expect from society to owe me a gf. It's my and only mine responsibility to pursue this, something that I haven't done enough. I feel that when you think society owes you something for being the way you are, you stop trying to get that something yourself.
4 hours later 10895123 Ploft
>>10892850
1) I sometimes follow trains of thought that seem utterly alien to people around me.
2)As of now, i ignore them by default.
3)Difficulties with speech, insecure about height and penis size resulting in anxiety. Also i find it off putting when people willingly touch me without my permission, it feels threatening. Over time i just gave up and focused on more promising aspects of life.
4)Frankly, there's no reason i shouldn't be single, there is some social pressure in me finding a mate, but i don't consider it a valid reason. Whatever sexual need i have can be palcated with prostitutes.
4 hours later 10895235 Anonymous
1. I can't think of anything in particular
2. Indifference
3. Because I'm incapable of emotionally connecting with people and because I have a shitty body that I can't fix
4. I don't deserve to not be single, no more than anyone else does. Frankly I avoid any relationship opportunities anyway because even if I were successful I would feel bad that the other person isn't with someone so much, much better than me.
4 hours later 10895281 Anonymous (1348462962751.gif 800x600 831kB)
>only having one particular weirdness
wow normalfag pic related
>I hate every single one of them
>because I'm garbage
>because all the girls I like are worse garbage than me like literally the brine scrapings on the bottom of the barrel
4 hours later 10895340 Anonymous
>>10892850
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
i'm ugly
>2.your feelings towards women
i don't hate them
>3.why you think youre single
i'm ugly
>4.why you think you shouldnt be.
i deserve to be single
4 hours later 10895375 Anonymous
1. I always want "excitement" and "adventure" but am never satisfied with any of those things that I manage to get.
2. I don't feel any different towards them than I do towards any other person
3. I'm unattractive and have a bad personality
4. I think I should be single. And I don't mind, I have like zero sex drive anyway.
4 hours later 10895403 Anonymous
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses
During conversations, I tend to drop off. I say "mmhm, yes, of course" while my thoughts go off on a tangent.
>2.your feelings towards women
Bitter, I suppose I'll be honest about that. I'm too ugly and socially awkward to get laid, so women are of little value to me.
Men, I can see as friends or kin. Women, I see only for their usefulness, which is not a lot since women tend to rely on men instead of the other way around.
>3.why you think youre single
Face like a rat, body like a twig, socially awkward.
Those are the three reasons I'm single.
>4.why you think you shouldnt be.
I don't. They say about 40% of men in every generation don't reproduce - I'm one of them.
Feels bad, being genetic waste, knowing women will never like me no matter what I do or say.
4 hours later 10895415 Anonymous
1. I think, constantly. It's sometimes so intensive, that even if I concentrate on people talking to me, I can't hear them over my thoughts. People don't tend to understand what I'm thinking, even if I try to explain in detail, because it just is so distant from their normal thinking. It also brings me to depressions.
2. I'm indifferent. They're people, like you and me. If you're a cunt, it doesn't matter if you have a benis or a bagina.
3. I stay at home all the time and tend to drift away in my thoughts. I do try to atleast try to get to know different women in my age group and give it a shot.
4. There's really no reason I should be in a relationship. I was in one half a year ago. It only lasted like 2 and a half months,and she had a new boyfriend in like 3 days. If I'm bound to be alone, then so be it.
5 hours later 10895499 Anonymous
So r9k,
1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
I've got bipolar disorder...oh and I'm obsessed with maths.
2.your feelings towards women
90% are sluts and know it, and nine of the remaining ten are sluts and don't know it.
3.why you think youre single
I have a severe lack of insight into when a woman is flirting with me. Once a girl I wanted to shove my cock into starting dancing next to me for like five minutes and when I didn't show any interest she started grinding her ass off me. I didn't realise I should've made a move until like the next day.
4.why you think you shouldnt be.
I'm into male dom and like practically every woman is into that. outside of sex it's about personality and I think that's more of a compatibility issue than whether I have "good" or "bad" traits.
5 hours later 10895640 Anonymous
1.I have a thousand yard stare
2. I don't hate women, really I have no opinion of anyone based on sex, it's a person by person basis. If I was to gauge my past experiences, I'd say the women I met are often crazy as fuck and unpleasant to deal with. Maybe I'm unlucky I don't know.
3. Because I don't try nor really want to. No woman I've seen try to sell them self seemed interesting. It all feels fucking boring. The worst part is the women who have a personality/tastes of a wet carrot are the ones who tell me I'm boring.
4. I don't know. I don't justify that I shouldn't be alone. I'm not arrogant to think I deserve a girlfriend. I have my own faults, I'm a very chill person and because of it people think I'm boring. I just don't act my age and it's a nice/bad thing. I have no desire to socialize and have fun and drink and party, but because of that I'm boring and don't relate to people.
Who knows, life is a confusing thing. If I'm meant to find someone, I'm sure I will in time.
5 hours later 10895785 Anonymous
1. I love aircraft and flying. I'm a bit overweight and wear glasses, so being a pilot was out of the question, though.
2. I like women, they look nice, they sound nice, and they usually smell nice. I just find very few who mesh with my personality
3. I very, very, very, rarely meet new people. I don't think of myself as someone worth knowing, so I don't force myself on others.
4. I probably should be single. I'd end up using anyone I'm in a relationship as my sole motivation, and thats a lot of pressure to put on someone
5 hours later 10895812 Anonymous
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
I'm really antsy and hyper in public
>2.your feelings towards women
They're cool and I find them more attractive than men
>3.why you think youre single
I don't know how to turn my charm on and have trouble reading/reacting to social situations because of autism
>4.why you think you shouldnt be.
I don't care if I'm single but I wish I was able to hook up and have sex on a regular basis
5 hours later 10895822 Anonymous
>>10892850
>particular weirdness
I'm not sure i have anything that weird.
I read a lot of w40k fiction.
>Your feelings towards women
Im almost indifferent at this point, but having one of my own might be cool
>Why you think you're single
combination of not knowing enough females and not being willing to face rejection
>why you think you shouldnt be
i dont really mind, I'm happy doing my own thing, but I know that I'm an awesome bf from experience and I just want a fucking cuddle.
5 hours later 10895837 Anonymous
>>10892850
1) I'm exclusively attracted to pubescent children.
2) Women disgust me, so do men.
3) I'm not single.
4) I'm the bee's knees.
5 hours later 10895878 Anonymous
>>10895837
>I'm the bee's knees.
God you are so lameee. That phrase is lame as fuck.
5 hours later 10895883 Anonymous
>its like im high 24/7, but I'm just bored with the world(people think i'm high)
>apart from close friends, mostly annoyance or neutrality depending. They attentionwhore and cry "b-but i'm not!" and then try to bring in other girls to defend themselves by crowd. As in "wow u say ALL wimmin are attentionewhore fook u !!" when it is only directed at them.
>fat and ugly and bitter and fuck
>no. I'm fine.
5 hours later 10895928 Anonymous
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
i'm mostly into young teen girls
>2.your feelings towards women
we usually don't find each other interesting
>3.why you think youre single
i don't leave the house more than strictly necessary
>4.why you think you shouldnt be.
n/a
6 hours later 10896174 Anonymous
1. Can't think of something in particular
2. They're okay. I definitely don't share any kind of hate for them. Scared shitless of them though
3. See above. Also I'm not an interesting person. There's probably something else out there, but I'm trying to be objective
4. None
6 hours later 10896612 Anonymous
1. have a number of fetishes i'm not willing to share with ppl irl
2. get on well with them, like physical closeness (not necessarily sexual)
3. chase after girls that are either uggoes r have been friends with too long. Also I may or may not have a supeiority complex (ironically illustrated by point 4...) and have once been called arrogant by my one and only ex.
4. tall, white, blonde, athletic, helpful, friendly, disarming
7 hours later 10896868 Anonymous (1388111926407.jpg 216x233 10kB)
>>10892850
>>I love too much, too fast
7 hours later 10897061 Anonymous (1320465933485.jpg 454x384 43kB)
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
GAD, aspergers, depression, ect.
>2.your feelings towards women
They're okay, but most of them are loud, but that applies to normalfags in general.
>3.I'm actually not single right now. Though we've only started dating so it's not that serious yet.
>4.why you think you shouldn't be.
Not sure how to really answer this one because it doesn't apply. But I can say that dating her has actually helped out a bit. I'm slightly more motivated to go out and do things and I'm way better keeping a schedule.
7 hours later 10897104 Anonymous
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
I don't even know anymore
>2.your feelings towards women
better without. I hate them.
>3.why you think youre single
because too many young women are inapproachable and insane, stupid and worthless.
>4.why you think you shouldnt be.
because I deserve to have a loved one as well but women are poor material for that. Hopefully sexbots are making progress and enter the market soon
7 hours later 10897122 Anonymous
>>10895878
>doesn't know the bird is the word
pleb.
8 hours later 10897552 Anonymous
>>10892850
1. I don't know. I'm generally a bit odd, but not too weird in any one way
2. I like men. I really want to find one that complements me rather than one who relies on me too much or one who wants me to rely on him too much. I say that, but of course I've never kissed anyone and have only been on a number of one-time-only first dates, plus one second date this one time because I forced myself to do it because it would just be so nice to have someone to be with sometimes... Someone to love, you know? Someone to talk with about my ideas and someone with their own ideas that they want to share with me. We can cuddle on the sofa and just chill together. Go to the park... But I just don't enjoy being with other people that much. I want to find someone that I enjoy being around...
3. I get very shy when anyone expresses any interest in me, regardless of whether I find them attractive. It makes me look very uninterested when, in fact, I'm just so nervous. Then, even if I will myself past the shyness because someone really seems like maybe they're worth it, then I start second guessing myself and making excuses to be alone.
4. I'm not ugly, I have a good body, and I am earning a PhD right now. I also have a personality that most people like - but that few people ever seem to find sexually attractive...
I think maybe I am made to be alone. But I so badly just want to hold someone just like in pic related. It would be such an experience to just stay that physically close to a person for so long. I have never felt that
8 hours later 10897607 Anonymous
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
Social avoidance and aversion to intimacy
>2.your feelings towards women
I like em just fine. Certain things piss me off, but I don't blame the whole gender for it.
>3.why you think youre single
Because i make a terrible boyfriend, I have no desire to do 'couples' things, that and i scare off potential partners quickly once I open my mouth and start talking (I'm boring, and my small talk skills are poor)
>4.why you think you shouldnt be.
Honestly? I don't want to jerk some poor girl around, I've broken a few hearts and it not a good feeling for a person with a strong sense of conscience.
8 hours later 10897621 Anonymous
1. A lot of things but none of them that bad, so I guess the fact that I only jerk it to bondage porn?
2. Indifference. I have trouble connecting with people and it's impossible to do it with women, so I just ignore them and avoid flirting with girls or bearing any resentment for being single.
3. Autism. I struggle just to have friends, so going after girls is out of the question.
4. I have no problem being single for the rest of my life. I just want a happy lifestyle and a few casual friends to spend time with. Hopefully I'll become good friends with a girl someday and I can bypass the whole serial dating thing.
8 hours later 10897629 Anonymous
>>10892850
1. I write long magic realism layering buddhism and biblical apocrypha, I don't like people touching my chest, and I'm a general misanthrope
2. I think women and men are different, but they're not that different. There are just as many dumb sluts as there are "Chads". And there are just as many (or as few) bright kind and pretty girls as there are bright kind and handsome men.
3. Thanatos
4. I'd write poems and do little things to make her feel special.
8 hours later 10897648 Anonymous
>>10897607
you are literally me.
except I wouldnt have been able to explain myself so well.
8 hours later 10897673 Anonymous
1. I'm one missed pill away from wearing tinfoil hats again.
2. I like them a lot unless they act like bitches.
3. I'm a moron with no gaydar.
4. I should be single for now until I get control of my issues.
8 hours later 10897852 Anonymous
>>10892850
1. I carry a small hammer and a knife around with me wherever I go for protection
2. They are very superficial and petty. Nothing they say or do has a neutral charge to it,. They have an over grown sense of self. They generally have under evolved or derivative interests in films, and music, and books, and because of this, they can easily be fit into categories. Also they are never very smart, or very stupid, they are just in the middle somewhere.
3. I'm really intense and I don't really talk. Girls think i'm weird or intimidating which isn't untrue
4. I don't know, I guess i'm pretty good looking. Also I'm funny and really smart and have an evolved taste in music and movies and books
9 hours later 10898066 Anonymous
1) i can have disturbing insight into the nature of the universe on a whim, even though when i consciously think on it, it sounds like crazy bullshit, but everyone who's heard it thinks it sounds like inhuman understanding
2) indifference for the most part. IRL women do not interest me much due to being fucked up by the internet in my youth. those few females i talk to on a regular basis are just coworkers, and i hold no feelings towards them aside from mild pleasantries
3) because the internet fucked me up before i could even understand the implications of its influence. i'm emotionally stunted as a result.
4) because on the odd chance that a woman in this world values intelligence, i like to think i have insights to offer. aside from that, i'm content to stay single.
12 hours later 10900059 Anonymous
>>10892850
1. I have an odd way of thinking, I think about odd things all the time and people find me strange when I express it.
2. I love them yet hate them. I'm bitter over constant rejection and getting lead on and dumped. I was called ugly my whole life by the opposite gender. I was the last guy to not have a dance partner in my class senior year of high school, girl literally just said "Ew, God no," when I asked her. I just met an awesome girl who honestly could fit my personality just fine, but she's moving to Michigan soon so it cannot happen. One of my best friends is a woman though.
3. Because I'm weird and completely autistic around women. I can talk perfectly, but I cannot give any romantic hints and when I do, they run. I'm also very physically unappealing as well. My last girlfriend found nothing good about me physically or sexually.
4. I would love to have someone to cuddle with at night, watch movies with, go to events with etc. but sadly I feel not destined for that life. I feel bad that my DNA won't be passed on, probably the worst part.
12 hours later 10900110 Anonymous
I just don't like talking to other people
I don't care
Even if I wanted to be with someone I probably lack the social ability.
I think I should stay single.
12 hours later 10900123 Anonymous
>>10895340
wow, I relate to this feel.
let's work on not being ugly together.
12 hours later 10900131 Anonymous
>>10895375
do you drink/smoke/party or go to events like concerts etc?
I used to do some weird self-destructive shit until I realized how to "let out" the adventure impulse without hurting myself.
12 hours later 10900143 Anonymous
>>10895403
>During conversations, I tend to drop off
if i go to use a word and can't think of it, i'll stop the conversation until i can remember it or just kind of walk away strangely
couldn't think of the term shuttle loom the other day. shuttle loom
12 hours later 10900167 Anonymous
>>10900143
in what conversation did you need to think of the word "shuttle loom"?
12 hours later 10900196 Anonymous
>have autistic amounts of knowledge about guns
>should be treated as equals and no double standards should exist as part of being equals
>i hold too much to myself and would be bad at keeping interest in me
>i stay loyal under pressure and can provide comfort and protection
12 hours later 10900219 Anonymous
>>10892850
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
Sometimes I literally believe I am the king of some lost kingdom, and will rise to power once again.
Also when this happens I try using magic.
It's probably a sign of mental illness.
>2.your feelings towards women
Most of them are actually quite nice, caring people. Of course there's shitty ones, just like there are shitty men.
>3.why you think youre single
Never made any effort to get a girlfriend.
>4.why you think you shouldnt be.
I probably should to be honest. I wouldn't really want to inflict myself on a girl I cared about.
12 hours later 10900229 Anonymous
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
I'm incredibly scatterbrained. In addition, browsing 4chan has made me so into metairony that I can't maintain sincerity for longer than five minutes.
>2.your feelings towards women
I enjoy dating them, especially the cute and smart ones.
>3.why you think youre single
im not lol, im too attractive and smart for that shit
>4.why you think you shouldnt be.
see above.
12 hours later 10900232 Anonymous
>>10900167
I was explaining the difference between a shuttle loom and a projectile loom
12 hours later 10900268 Anonymous
>>10896612
i don't understand. Stop chasing uggos and friends? Ask out some randoms & I'm sure you'll get the yes.
12 hours later 10900275 Anonymous
>>10892850
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
I am profoundly impersonal
>2.your feelings towards women
I don't have a general feeling towards women, I regard them on an individual basis. I really like one, but she has a boyfriend and she probably isn't attracted to me.
3.why you think youre single
acne, no self confidence, I don't go out unless it's for class or to buy shit, I don't talk to people, I scare girls, they scare me. A laundry list of shit.
4.It's probably best for the world if I didn't pursue romantic relationships. I certainly deserve being single.
12 hours later 10900279 Anonymous (1392243707494.jpg 558x800 303kB)
1. I can't stand looking people in the eyes when talking to them. I know it sounds stupid but it feels too personal for me. Took me a long time to get over it, although I still don't like doing it. I could be having a good conversation with some one but just because I'm not looking them in the face they think I don't care about what they have to say.
2. It's easy to be angry at women on the whole when you isolate yourself on 4chan, but in the jobs I've worked I've found that most women aren't as terrible as /r9k/ and /pol/ would make them out to be, although I have met quite a few sluts in my jobs, too. Still, there's genuinely good women out there.
3. I don't like being around other people for extended periods of time and I value my independence. The thought of having to constantly do stuff with another person seems bleh. Being alone romantically has never bothered me before.
4. I don't think I will ever commit to a serious relationship. It's just not for me.
12 hours later 10900322 Anonymous
>>10892850
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses
I'm very self conscious of how my breath smells. I had a traumatizing experience as a kid that I haven't fully recovered from, and I tend to get twitchy and uncomfortable when people want to talk to me up close.
>2.your feelings towards women
Depends on the day. Sometimes I feel indifferent and just try to ignore them. Other days I feel angry because they either ignore me or are rude to me in some way or another. At the end of the day, however, I just want one to like me.
>3.why you think youre single
There are too many reasons to list. I guess I can sum it up with insecurity and low self-esteem. Even if I did somehow manage to get a gf, I wouldn't know what the fuck to do.
>4.why you think you shouldnt be.
I don't think I shouldn't be. Some people were meant to be alone, and I guess I'm just one of them.
12 hours later 10900328 Anonymous
>The worship of Norse Gods, not weird in itself but the mention of it tends to raise eyebrows.
>I trust them about as far as I can throw them. I lift, so I can throw them a wee distance, but it's not very far. I don't hate women though.
>I don't really know any women, also I have problems with buildings relationships.
>I don't think I should or should not be.
12 hours later 10900363 Anonymous (1393919913909.gif 300x147 1871kB)
1.huh?
2.like what?
3/4. I've been disillusioned toward love and happiness, you know, someone right for me. When I found out people just date I lost faith in any sort "love", I don't care for people, and when I realized all gf/bf is just "more than just friends" and there was little chance of me ever meeting someone I could truly feel emotionally attached to and fall in love with, I lost faith. A few phrases like "you can fall in love more than once" and "love isn't forever" and my favorite "IRL love isn't like a Disney fairytale" only discouraged me even more. Im disgusted at the thought of using girls/guys for "practise" or for sex, and I have no intention of "dating" anyone ever. I'll wait until the right person comes along, or die alone.
12 hours later 10900404 Anonymous (1378927411360.jpg 500x490 60kB)
>>10892850
You're actually probably single because you're a gender essentialist turd
"lel women r 2 emotional"
fuck off hemingway
12 hours later 10900506 Anonymous (1371092139483.gif 500x656 460kB)
1. i'm crazy. not gonna hurt anyone, but if people knew how i really thought they'd probably wanna lock me up.
2. there are some interesting people out there, just wish they were easier to find. so rare to see a woman with genuine passion for something.
3. i don't get out much. i can turn on the charm in social situations, but i'm not really proactive.
4. kinda off and on about this. i'm a terrible person and I don't deserve love, but I think other people are secretly just as fucked up so maybe it's okay.
13 hours later 10900577 Anonymous
1. Not sure how weird it is, but I will spend every day pacing back and forth listening to music while creating stories in my head. I never write shit though because.
2. No different than my feelings towards any other group of people
3. I don't think, I know why I am single. I have completely shit self-esteem and just can't imagine the idea of a girl liking me and so I never ask out girls I like. To make it worse, when I think the girl does like me, my mind kick in with full on "you suck go die you massive faggot". Like there is this one girl who I think likes me, and I was fine around her until I started to think that way. Now every time I see her look at me I am thinking she is laughing at me, and every time I talk to her I think she is just being nice and I am annoying her, and just every time I am around her I think I shouldn't be.
4. I think minus my self-esteem issues I am pretty okay guy. I am decent looking, funny, nice, and all that cliche shit. It just sucks when you know the reason you are single is yourself, not some universe force or divine shit, it's just you being unable to get over your own imagined shit.
13 hours later 10900611 Anonymous
>>10892850
>Just an alt dude.
>Chicks my age are in a position of sexual abundance, and I am not. I really have to make an effort to stand out and get noticed, and it's tiring. I'm beginning to think they're not worth the effort.
>I broke up a few months ago and it's the middle of winter.
>I'm usually in a relationship. I like relationships.
13 hours later 10900628 Anonymous
1. Basically the generic robot shit: I spend all day everyday obsessing about what other people think of me and imagining social interactions that I am too cowardly to have in real life.
2. They're people, which makes it difficult for me to talk to them. People are complicated, man.
3. I'm not single.
4. I probably should be.
13 hours later 10900673 Anonymous
1. I am absolutely disgusted to feces to no end. I feel sick when I see my own shit and when people make poop jokes. Just the word disgusts me. I hate saying it. I also hate the thought that girls have to do that and every time I remember that girls (even a girl I would like, for example) do that I get disgusted to a point where I'm not attracted to them anymore, at least for a time being
2. Bitches and whores, entitled fuckfaces who can't do anything worth shit
3. I don't really know, I hide my power level (see above) pretty well and am good at conversations and things. Maybe I'm just offputting in some other way.
4. I don't really care. I'm good at sex though so I guess that could be a reason
13 hours later 10900690 Anonymous
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses
Iunno, I'm a typical depressed socially anxious mess, but not actually a spaghetti monster when I'm in a situation where I feel comfortable. I love music, but I'm really uncomfortable with the social aspect of being in the "scene".
>2.your feelings towards women
They're aight. I'm too close to my sisters to hate women outright, but I'm still insanely jealous of how girls live life in easy mode and don't know if I could handle dating someone who's had more sexual partners than me (i. e. most girls my age).
>3.why you think youre single
I don't fucking meet anyone. I'd probably be okay at dating if I actually had a life, but I have no idea where to fucking start.
>4.why you think you shouldn't be
I'm not any worse of a person than every other average guy who has a girlfriend. "What does that guy have that I don't" fucking haunts me. And I guess I'm holding out hope that those girls on /adv/ and in IRL who claim to actually like shy homebodies aren't bullshitting.
13 hours later 10900811 Anonymous
>>10892850
>If I watch porn, it has to be tastfully filmed, from the title to the cinematography as a whole. The content cant be of the women being sexually abused. it turns me off.
Do you have any examples OP? I watch plenty of normal porn but I've always wanted to watch something like this but never knew what to search for.
13 hours later 10900847 Anonymous
>>10900219
you sound cute as fuck.
15 hours later 10901797 Anonymous (image.jpg 640x424 85kB)
>>10900268
I suppose, but first i need to hear fom this one person, we had a one night stand but she was reallyclose, friends for four years before that. I explained my feelings to her, but she has not responded yet (2 days ago). I suppose this is the same as rejection, but having your feelings unaknowleged is worse than rejection. I just need closure...
16 hours later 10902128 Anonymous
>>10901797
what'd you send?
>inb4 spaghetti
16 hours later 10902182 Anonymous
>>10892850
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
No so sure on this one, paranoia/schizoid might be it.
>2.your feelings towards women.
Indifferent for the most part, though I've been a bit wary of what kind of women I interact with since I have this thing for attracting the nutters.
>3.why you think you're single
Because I'm a NEET still living with my father, so I'm embarrassed to even attempt it, so I mostly chosen avoidance of certain situations that will put me in a position where I may or may not have to tell them the truth which only happened once, feels bad man, getting laughed at to hell and back
>4.why you think you shouldn't be.
To be honest, I can't even think of a good reason why.
16 hours later 10902236 Anonymous
1. Nothing I could point out.
2. Alright I guess?
3. Because I'm horribly unattractive in every way
4. I don't but it would be nice to be good enough for someone.
17 hours later 10902281 Anonymous
>>10902128
Phone conversation, no spaghetti sorry. She went home for the weekend, will see her tomorrow and confront her.
19 hours later 10903292 Anonymous
> 1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
uummmmm.. I dunno. It's kind of when I'm alone I want to be around people and when I'm around people there's an 80% chance that I wish I'd be alone again with nobody around. I guess that makes me act a little weird (overly passive) in social situations
2.your feelings towards women
Scared to death of them. For each slightly positive experience with them, there have been 10 devastating ones. For example basically begging for one goddamn kiss so that I don't feel like a total loser. I didn't get it, of course.
3.why you think youre single
see 2. I avoid females basically. Maybe my fear of them will go away in 20 or 30 more years
4.why you think you shouldnt be.
ouch..
I know I have loads and loads of love in me, I just need to find a fitting outlet
20 hours later 10903323 Anonymous
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses
I don't think I have one in particular. There are a few that kind of add up, though, and I don't get along too well with most people
>2.your feelings towards women
They're alright I guess.
>3.why you think youre single
Because I'm not really interested in dating. I don't have the time, energy or desire to do so.
>4.why you think you shouldnt be.
See above. I don't want a girlfriend.
20 hours later 10903431 Anonymous
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
I think it makes me stronger the more people talk about me. Like I have some sort of energy profile.
>2.your feelings towards women
They turn me on, when they wear certain things or have short hair. Apart from that, that's it. I have stopped talking to them about anything but mundane topics, since nothing they ever say has any sort of value.
>3.why you think youre single
Not funny enough, a little too thin, and don't go out much. I'm working on changing those things.
>4.why you think you shouldnt be.
Can't think of anything, honestly. It's alright the way it is right now.
20 hours later 10903468 Anonymous
>What's your one particular weirdness?
I don't really have just 1, I'm just a different kind of guy. I seem strange to people because I don't really care or have really different views on topics that the majority hold. Normally different in a good way though.
> Your feelings towards women
Ehh, the same as men really, bar a little anger that some women DO have it easier purely being woman, but nothing major tbh. I'm bi and prefer guys, so not really looking for a woman anyways, had enough of being messed/messing around with the ladies, they just don't fit the bill.
>Why you think you're single
Not had the chance(s) to meet the right person(s) is all I think. I'm the kind of guy that ignores people that DO show interest in me, but will chase someone that shows NO interest in me, that, and the fact that once I start to fancy somebody, it gets a bit intense and I sort of get blinded to any/every one else.
>Why I think I shouldn't be single
I'm a cool guy. Generally liked by most people, never really had/have any enemies. Been told I'm funny, friendly, talkative etc I can just be a bit aloof sometimes.
I just want a boyfriend in all honesty. Been a long time since I've been in a relationship, plus I've never been in one with a guy either, so it seems fun and exciting to think about. I was content with being single the past 3 years, but now it's sort of hitting me that I do want something more, I want some companionship and just a partner to do things with more than anything, heh.
22 hours later 10904198 Anonymous
1. There's too much creepy in my humour.
2. As a species? I love that they're here with us. I don't hold grudges, even though women often have the tendency to act like they dont owe it to anyone to be considerate about men in dating situations.
3. I drink too much and I care too much about being with someone. Plus, I don't approach women as often as I should to effectively find a date.
4. Simply because I don't want to.
24 hours later 10905394 Anonymous
>>10900131
>do you drink/smoke/party or go to events like concerts etc?
Not really. I love concerts but never get the chance to go because I don't want to go alone. Same with parties, although I dont know if I like them or not because I've never been invited to one. I smoke but only occasionally and alone.
Usually my 'adventure' consists of exploring dangerous places or doing illegal things. Or just doing shit that might get me killed. But no matter what I do, I just want more and can't be satisfied.
24 hours later 10905417 Anonymous
>>10892850
1. Short and asexual
2. They are ok i guess
3 asexual
4 I probably should be but no one ever taught me how to date so I avoid the embaresment
24 hours later 10905730 Anonymous
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
I pick my nose
>2.your feelings towards women
I like sex. But I've learned not to let myself get to attached or to far invested unless they prove themselves and even still I feel like I can never really open up entirely to a women because to lean on her the way she leans on me for emotional support wouldn't make me any stronger than her that drops my value to her and not only will she not feel as safe but she won't feel as attracted and once the attractions gone she's gone . I can still be my authentic self but relying on a women for a emotional support is asking for relationship suicide after while.
>3.why you think youre single
Because life isn't about finding that other person to complete you. I'm currently working on my future and building my value as a person being in a relationship serves no benefit to me at this current momment besides sex. But even still I like being horny and full It fuels my fire.
>4.why you think you shouldnt be.
I don;t mind being single I miss sex and cuddling and the overall feel of being with a women. But right now I have more important things to worry about than that i'm okay
24 hours later 10905786 Evil Master Vyro
>1.whats one your particular weirdnesses,
I am INCREDIBLY attracted to greasy, messy hair on a girl, to the point where girls with combed hair who smell like shampoo and perfume are a massive turn off
>2.your feelings towards women
Indifferent mostly. I'm not FULL R9K MODE because I've talked to a lot of girls in my life, and a lot of them are different from what /r9k/ says. One girl I know ONLY wants to date a virgin, and most of them are virgins, or at least have only had sex in a committed relationship
>3.why you think youre single
Because I'm only into weirdo unkempt-looking girls and they're rare as shit
>4.why you think you shouldnt be
I dunno, I don't feel entitled to a gf or anything
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