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2015-09-30 07:36 5008846 Anonymous (tumblr_lw9nfgfg4z1qjokxe.gif 225x236 430kB)
"If you like someone ask them out, the worst that could happen is that you get rejected!" I'm so fucking sick of hearing this How do I overcome my fear of approaching guys? For straight people is easy, it's normal to ask someone's number or stuff like that, but if I go and do that to a guy who's not gay the worst thing that could happen is not rejection, is a broken nose - and even if he doesn't phisycally react ina bad way, there's still the risk of being forever labeled as the "weird faggot who asks normal people out" among that circle of people Is it actually possible to meet gay guys in a normal enviroinment? I just want a fucking relationship with someone who I didn't meet online or at a gay club, but whom I got to know the way normal functional people do

3 min later 5008862 Anonymous (sad cgi frog.jpg 900x620 224kB)
are you implying any gay people meet outside clubs? every non socially hyperactive gay man ive met only had an online distance relationship where they hardly ever met

10 min later 5008886 Anonymous
I'm a gay guy. I work in a field supposedly full of other gay guys. I have never met another gay dude through means other than gay clubs or ze intehnet. Hell, if a guy asked me out or wanted my number in any other environment I'd be positively astonished. Probably enough to laugh it off, even. You just don't do that, do you?

15 min later 5008905 Anonymous (download.gif 500x383 520kB)
>>5008886 The heteros don't understand how easy they have it ;_;

16 min later 5008908 Anonymous
>>5008846 Sorry, dude. Heterosexuals are the majority and you will be seen as weird by others if you ask straight people out a lot. The only way you meet someone not through online communication or at a gay bar is by having friends willing to hook you up with the one or two gay guys they know.

16 min later 5008909 Anonymous
>>5008905 >being normal is easier no shit, retard. this is why we want to put all of you in camps. that way you'll always be among friends.

19 min later 5008927 Anonymous
>>5008905 Notice that I never said that it's hard or unfair. Bitch.

30 min later 5008963 Anonymous
I'm a straight guy. I was buying clothes once, and this gay cashier apparently asked me out. He looked up at me, glassy-eyed, smiling, and asked coyly, "So what are you doing later?" I said, "Uh...nothing." He looked down suddenly and backed off, as though he was snapping out of something. I was oblivious at the time. I didn't process the embarassment I must have caused him, let alone the fact that he was propositioning. Sorry, whoever you were.

1 hours later 5009191 Anonymous (sad tom cruise.jpg 600x400 149kB)
>>5008846 TL;DR you are fucked at life OP.

1 hours later 5009204 Anonymous (suicide.png 297x256 24kB)
This thread reminds me why I was contemplating suicide once I realized I was gay at the age of 15. And every time I remember this the idea slowly creeps into my mind again, it's like a fucking computer virus that keeps making ads pop up.

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