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2015-09-30 11:37 5007852 Anonymous (pic related.jpg 2128x1411 1708kB)
How did everyone here come to find out you were gay? Were there any specific experiences that made you gay, or pushed you in that direction? Or did you always know that you were different than straight people? I personally had experiences with my stepfather growing up, and I sometimes wonder if had that not happened, I would have turned out straight. I think Im also into older men now because of that. Anyways... How did you get gay, /LGBT/?

1 min later 5007855 Anonymous
i found out when i began having gay dreams when i was 11. the dreams involved other boys. i'm in my 40's now......and i'm still attracted to boys.

3 min later 5007856 Anonymous
>>5007855 >i'm still attracted to boys. Thats gotta suck major balls. Luckily, that never happened to me. [I am OP] Older men all the way. Good looking ones anyway.

33 min later 5007904 Anonymous
>>5007856 thanks for your sympathy bro......i truly appreciate it. i was never molested, so it's safe to say i was born this way.

46 min later 5007939 Anonymous
>>5007852 I always knew I was different, but I pretty much ignored/neglected it until I met a femboy in my French class in high school. Guess he caught me looking when I didn't catch myself.

2 hours later 5008054 Anonymous
>>5007852 4chan

2 hours later 5008057 Anonymous
>>5007852 Began masturbating at age 5 to fat guys. Put two and two together at 14

2 hours later 5008070 Anonymous
Knew from a very young age but tried to suppress it, till one day at school when I was around 13 realised I was kidding myself, went and tracked down a boy who was a couple of years older who I knew was gay to talk to about it and ended up losing my anal virginity to him a couple of hours later in the boys toilets. After that there was no going back

2 hours later 5008072 Anonymous
When i chose to watch Magic Knight Rayearth instead of Dragonball, because Goku gave me tingly feelings as a child.

2 hours later 5008081 Anonymous
I too knew I was different. While my friends and I were looking at porn magazines (actually nudist magazines, you know for the redeeming social value) they were commenting on boobs and bush and I was concentrating on cocks. Didn't know why. In mid teens I had no interest in dating girls. Got hooked up on dates by friends but they never went anywhere. One day my brother brought a friend home from college and I fell in love with him and it hit me yeah, I'm gay.

3 hours later 5008090 Anonymous
>>5007852 >How did everyone here come to find out you were gay? I told them / they saw me with my first bf >Were there any specific experiences that made you gay, or pushed you in that direction? If there are, I've repressed them because I can't think of any. >Or did you always know that you were different than straight people? Yeah, I always did. When I was five I had the hugest crush in a boy from my class. I remember complaining about being a boy and not a girl because they 'had it easier'

5 hours later 5008346 Anonymous
>>5007852 >>5007852 Basically came out of nowhere, just started feeling attracted to a guy on the bus for a school trip. We both fell asleep and when I woke up we were leaning on each other. After that had the hugest crush for a while, before it gradually died down. Been Bi ever since, even if it is annoying at times. For example I got pretty drunk last night and started cuddling with one of my male roommates. He's not gay, even though he initiated it.Ending up lying in bed for 2 hours fantasizing about sucking him off. I'm not even attracted to this guy, I am to another roommate but not him.

5 hours later 5008397 Anonymous
>>5007852 Wanked over thoughts of boys aged 12

5 hours later 5008416 Anonymous
>>5007852 i was 16 and in denial about it until i talked to a gay dude in a chat when i was younger i used to fantasize about being a girl and fucking my best friend which when i thought about it was pretty fucking gay

5 hours later 5008423 Anonymous
I knew something was up when my friends received their straight privilege cards in the mail but mine never arrived.

5 hours later 5008465 Anonymous
In 7th grade when I found myself google image searching "naked men" and similar phrases and masturbating. I don't even know how I knew how to masturbate, I just did it.

7 hours later 5008731 Anonymous
>>5007852 It just happened and never bothered my thought. I was 13 I think? I liked looking at all the boys changing their clothes during PE class. There was something special about one of them... Sure, first crush, etc... I wasn't in big denial but I thought that this is pretty normal. I just liked him, wanted to be friends with someone like him. But as you may expect he was first of the plenty hetero guys I adored. And so I still do.

7 hours later 5008762 Anonymous
I was never molested/raped and don't have daddy issues. My father actually struggled with alcoholism for most of my life but kept it under wraps enough that I didn't know until my late teens. I started having crushes on other girls when I was in elementary school, before I even learned that homosexuality was a thing that existed. I remember having funny feelings about my best friend and thinking she was the prettiest girl in the world. "If she was a boy, I'd say I had a crush on her!"... but that was silly because girls only like boys and boys only like girls. That's just the way it was.

15 hours later 5010747 Anonymous
Fucked my best friend just to try it out

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