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2015-02-21 04:52 4012820 Anonymous (9780141182490.jpg 764x1173 220kB)
How do I meet gay people? I'm a gay guy and I live in an extremely liberal city but I still have no gay friends. I know how to find hookups but how do I actually make gay friends IRL? pic unrelated

1 min later 4012827 Anonymous
just talk to people on grindr.

5 min later 4012844 Anonymous
>>4012820 Buy a flare gun, a set of flares in multiple colors, then shoot them up into the air in the order of the rainbow. All gays know this is the "lonely gay" emergency code.

15 hours later 4015158 Anonymous
What city are you in OP?

16 hours later 4015252 Anonymous
>>4015158 Montreal

61 hours later 4023255 Anonymous
>>4015252 Ya same, here anon Montreal is super liberal and gay and I've yet to find any gay friends here even though I've lived here all my life

61 hours later 4023399 Anonymous
Visit gay bars during the day and get talking to people, many offer board games that you can play with others. The one where I used to live even had a board game night. Other than this you can chat to guys on Grindr and invite them out for hobbies that you enjoy.

61 hours later 4023417 Anonymous
I just want a gay friend that doesn't want to rape me.

63 hours later 4023727 Anonymous
>>4023399 Th-They are open during the day? Or is this an American thing?

63 hours later 4023880 Anonymous
Same deal here in Copenhagen, I don't have any LGBT friends. Going out could help, but I still feel too young to go out(I'm 18 y/o).

63 hours later 4023916 Anonymous
>>4023880 I'd just feel weird going out alone. ;_;

63 hours later 4023927 Anonymous
>>4023916 Bring friends who don't have a problem going to some place where you're comfortable.

64 hours later 4024076 Anonymous
>>4023927 I don't have them.

64 hours later 4024092 Anonymous
>>4024076 Then you'll have to make do with yourself.

77 hours later 4026580 Anonymous
>>4023727 I'm British. Most actual bars and pubs are open during the day, it's just clubs that are only open at night.

111 hours later 4032618 Anonymous
>>4023880 Copenhagen gay here. The gay community (at least the lesbian one) is fucking bullshit and I don't wanna be a part of it. What do we do, my fellow lonely gay?

134 hours later 4036617 Anonymous
>>4032618 Hook up and start your counter-gay revolution.

164 hours later 4041974 Anonymous
>>4023727 it's also done in US I think it's done anywhere also man just google your city + gay scene if you're really stumped. Like fuck I just did it for montreal and this popped up: montreal.gaycities.com I know that's how I figured out how to make gay friends in pittsburgh, and even joined a neat volunteer gay group that just builds houses and helps random homeless people and gets together and throws random parties for fundraising. It's neat. Just cold as balls up there.

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