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2015-02-20 01:58 4009757 Anonymous Question to chasers: FTM edition (transflagwithmalesymbol.png 800x400 17kB)
I'm ftm and after the transgirl/mtf version of this thread went on for awhile, I wondered what the answers would be from people who like transguys. Hearing from y'all would be interesting, male or female. The original: >>4001370 >So question to chasers (and anybody else more inclined to transgirls) I guess. What makes us more appealing than assigned female at birth women? I'm curious if there's reason beyond the whole "shemale" fetish thing. Flip this instead to be about transguys/ftms, share your reasons and thoughts if you're someone who's into us.

4 min later 4009775 Anonymous
I've always found Transmen to be a lot nicer to me, as a transgirl, whenever we speak or do anything together. I feel like all the cisguys I have spoken to gloss over what I say and only pay attention to the parts that interest them (usually sex related bits). Both times I've dated a transman I feel like he really payed attention to what I had to say and listed to me. And I like the mildly more feminine facial features transmen have. Very attractive.

45 min later 4009887 Anonymous
>>4009757 Straight MTF here, I would be inclined to date a FTM because they're generally a lot nicer and thoughtful, and generally more open about themselves than cis guys from my experience. He is on the opposite side of the spectrum that I'm on and I know that we would connect well in that aspect, and I'd actually treat him as a man and not a dyke too. Sex would be awkward though, and I wouldn't know how to handle going about it other than snuggling and caressing, and he'd have to have a strap-on, like every time.

52 min later 4009899 Anonymous
I'm a trans girl and I'd probably be a lot more inclined to date a cute trans guy than almost any cis guy. Cis guys can be awful dense, and I feel like anyone who's experienced life as a female is probably a whole lot more aware of the ways that the world can be shitty and unfair to women. So I guess it would be emotionally comforting knowing that I'd be a lot less likely to be secretly dating a misogynist or heteronormative weirdo.

53 min later 4009905 Anonymous
>>4009899 Also, PIV doesn't bother me too much. It did, but I warmed up to it with my current girlfriend. So I'd be cool with it if he was.

2 hours later 4010198 Anonymous
>>4009887 >I'd actually treat him as a man and not a dyke too Thank you. That's typically the reason I don't date cis girls (I'm biscum). Because all they do is treat me like a butch instead of a guy.

3 hours later 4010234 Anonymous
>>4010198 That always seemed kinda weird to me that a lot of really hard line lesbians have no qualms with dating trans guys, but would never date a trans girl ever. Like gay men might not wanna date a trans guy of they're too thirsty for the D, but a gay guy would never date a trans girl.

3 hours later 4010271 Anonymous
I'm OP if the MtF thread and I'm honored to have my thread reversed! But ah, I gotta say I do have a bit of a thing for FtM's too, though I can't really say. Being trans is one thing we can relate on, and I guess a tall girl with a short guy is kinda cute. I've never really dated an FtM though, and I don't know many (and the one I do know is like, ALWAYS ANGRY ALL THE TIME), so this is all based on physical stuff and trans reasons. I guess sharing pre-transition stories would be cool too since we both experienced life on both sides in a way (well, depending on when they transitioned).

4 hours later 4010447 Anonymous
I'm no chaser (asexual MtF), but I feel like I could only date another girl (trans or cis) or a trans guy. I couldn't date a cis guy. In my experience, trans guys (at least the ones I've met) are less sex-obsessed and more interested in talking about feelings and cuddling and such. Cis guys bother me because of how sex-driven they are and how they just tune you out if you're not saying something that makes them happy (usually sex-related).

25 hours later 4014447 Anonymous
>>4010234 where are you meeting these lesbians? >>4010198 maybe it's just the cis chicks you've been around? in my experience they usually have no problem treating me like a guy...it tends to just end up being the dynamic between me and them naturally... and i've had a lot of straight cis chicks eventually tell me they were in love with me... >>4010447 you sure about that? i can't speak for all transguys , but if i'm listening to a girl talk about her feelings often i either feel stuck or i'd probably sleep with them... even if i don't make a move it's a matter of being shy, but it's in the back of my head that sticking around and doing all that could lead to sex... i'm bi, but oddly enough guys don't bring that out in me...

25 hours later 4014485 Anonymous
>>4010447 MtFs bother me because of how self centered they are and how they tune you out if you aren't talking about how hard life is for them and how pretty they are and how much you want to express your feelings for them.

26 hours later 4014596 Anonymous
>>4009757 I came around to mtfs, but mostly date cis girls, I think pre-T ftm's are super adorable, I could definitely treat them like men, my mind really has no roadblocks there, but yah I'd probably lose all interest after 5-6 months on T, which wouldn't be fair to them.

26 hours later 4014630 Anonymous
Bi cis male here. I would like to date a ftm guy for several reasons. I would expect that they would be more in touch with their feelings than most guys, and be more accepting of my own less conforming gender expression. I think that going through transition is a struggle that builds character and allows a wider view of the world. Also, I like shorter guys and am interested in having a husband who could bear our biological children (even though most couldn't or wouldn't).

31 hours later 4015357 Anonymous (robotthumbs.png 342x216 164kB)
>>4009757 Wouldn't say I'm a chaser (Cis Bi Dude here.) but I'd want to date someone trans out of interest really, see how they tick, and how to be better aware of their troubles and what not. Of course saying "I'd like to date you for the experience" isn't much better than "I'd like to date you for my fetish" but hey, sorry.

31 hours later 4015382 Anonymous
>>4014485 I'm sorry about your shitty experience with MtFs. I promise we're not all like that. I just want normal interactions with interesting people.

31 hours later 4015383 Anonymous
I'm mtf and I'd defiitelly date a transguy. My friend recently came out to me as a transman and I'm so proud of them. Doesn't help that I've had a crush on him for a while. Even if sex is a bit weird, I'd still love to cuddle and love him.

32 hours later 4015427 Anonymous
>>4009757 Straight cis guy here. I've always had a thing for tomboys, and then butch lesbians. Sort of grew out of it and even dislike them a bit. Till my boy's girlfriend forced us to watch boys don't cry. All I felt was a complete and utter overwhelming to rape mercilessly and tenderly till there was nothing left of them but a broken raw and sleeping soundly person then fall asleep inside of them. I have no idea where that came from. And what keeps that feeling going, but it's there. Maybe it's some need to dominate and protect and maybe it's just the vague idea of having a bro but who becomes instant fuckmeat with a tight slit then it's back to being bros. The whole being gay sounds like a great idea, if it wasn't for the having sex and a relationship with a penised and masculine individual and never being with someone soft and feminine part. Full on FtMs like buck angel and the guys in that Passing FtMs thread basically kills it for me. And I'm happy, but I occasonally stumble upon someone like... Anyway, I'm going to just stay here and lurk and one day find an FtM in the local craigslist to fuck mercilessly brutally and get a beer with later.

32 hours later 4015459 Anonymous
>>4015427 lol, straight guys really are just a bunch of raping animals.

32 hours later 4015524 Minty (image.jpg 900x800 108kB)
I'm MtF but here have feels

32 hours later 4015545 Anonymous
>>4015515 >be bi, leaning towards women thanks for confirming men = pointless I'll just be gay from now on.

34 hours later 4016065 Anonymous
I'm MtF, not really a chaser but I'd still like dating a trans guy because I think it would be nice to have someone with similar experiences who could understand me better. The only thing that bothers me is the [spoiler]no penis[/spoiler], sorry fellas ;_; a lot of you are still really cute in spite of that though

42 hours later 4017667 Anonymous
>>4015357 I don't see it as fetish-y. I think it's kinda cute. In my opinion I view it as like a "hey black guys are hot I don't wanna go out seeking one like a freak with a bbc fetish, but if the opportunity arises I'm all in" kind of thing. That being said I'm glad I see a lot of cis bi guys in here saying that they wouldn't mind a ftm. It makes me feel kind of wanted in a way, I guess. >>4015383 Rooting for you to get with him. ftm/mtf relationships tend to be really cute to me, especially if they're transitioning at the same time.

44 hours later 4018026 Anonymous (ketchup-bottle.gif 360x240 2683kB)
>Almost everyone into FtMs wants them sensitive, short and submissive Fuck shit.

54 hours later 4019438 Anonymous
>>4018026 I would rather a ftm tie me down and top me piv all rape-like

63 hours later 4021551 Anonymous
OP of the thread and was away awhile, checking it out to see stuff :D >>4009775 >>4009899 I get it. >>4014630 this response is cool, I'd date you probably >>4015427 >>4015427 >The whole being gay sounds like a great idea, if it wasn't for the having sex and a relationship with a penised and masculine individual and never being with someone soft and feminine part. >fucking and also being bros. See, this kind of sounds nice. But >maybe it's just the vague idea of having a bro but who becomes instant fuckmeat with a tight slit then it's back to being bros. >instant fuckmeat I would never date someone who saw me as fuckmeat, this is gross. you'd be good for ftms to have some one night stands with but your whole attitude there is kinda gross and offputting af lol bye >>4016065 I mean, strapons exist, a transguy could use one on you, and also guys who've had phallo exist (and it's not as frankendick as people say it is since i've actually looked up results and they can be good), but if that still wasn't someone's cup of tea and they wanted cisguy dick then hey, i get it. different people want different things >>4018026 iktf >>4019438 lol well there's a twist. what gender are you?

63 hours later 4021636 Anonymous
(Bi cis male) I want someone I can cuddle with but also enjoy wild crazy sex with. The cis women and men I've hooked up with/dated fulfilled one or the other but never both. I have a few transdude friends too but have always been incredibly intimidated by them as they're both incredibly attractive and radically, militantly queer. I feel like as a straight-looking cis dude, I'd have exactly zero chance.

63 hours later 4021663 Anonymous
>>4021551 >I mean, strapons exist, a transguy could use one on you, and also guys who've had phallo exist (and it's not as frankendick as people say it is since i've actually looked up results and they can be good), but if that still wasn't someone's cup of tea and they wanted cisguy dick then hey, i get it. different people want different things Yeah it isn't a dealbreaker or anything, I just prefer a real dick to any of the alternatives.

63 hours later 4021668 Anonymous
>>4021636 Aw, that's kinda sweet though >I feel like as a straight-looking cis dude, I'd have exactly zero chance. Why's that?

64 hours later 4021754 Anonymous
>>4021668 It's been a struggling justifying my non-hetro...-ness to both myself and others. Definitely hooked up with guys I had no business being more than friends with because I felt I had to "prove" I'm not some hetroscum. (And if that's not an indication of my social circle, I don't know what is.) Current crush is FTM level: Judith Butler. The fuck business do I have hitting on him?

64 hours later 4021866 Anonymous
>>4021754 >FTM level: Judith Butler. ???? >The fuck business do I have hitting on him? idk, the fuck business do you have NOT hitting on him? if he's not interested he'll let you know, if he is interested he'll respond positively. i don't see why not go for it. I get the whole >incredibly intimidated by them as they're incredibly attractive thing, but still, yeah, just try hitting on a transguy if you like him, i don't see why not. also do you mean like, you feel like they wouldn't want to go out with a straight-passing guy because they're so ultra-queer-dedicated or something?

64 hours later 4021869 Anonymous
>>4009757 MtF dating FtM, 2nd anniversary in 2 days I happen to think trans guys are better than cis guys in almost all ways. the no penis and dysphoria thing is the only downside, but strapons exist. personally, dating transguys is great because we understand each others general problems and feelings, but can also point out how silly our individual worries are. Also we can help each other with gender-specific stuff we might not already know they know all the stuff girls go through and how silly some of the expectations are. they also know all the perfect things to do in a straight relatonship, if they dated a guy before transition all of the trans guys I've met (granted thats like 6) have been super chill and nice they are normally more in touch with their emotions, and transitioning teaches them not to give a fuck about trivial things

64 hours later 4021882 Anonymous (Bingo.jpg 350x340 39kB)
>>4021866 >you feel like they wouldn't want to go out with a straight-passing guy because they're so ultra-queer-dedicated or something?

64 hours later 4021915 Anonymous
>>4021882 Yeah, well, idk. Just go for it, like I said. If they reject you then well, that hurts whenever someone does, if they don't then cool. I think you've got more of a chance than you think and you're being a little pessimistic about whether you'll be able to find one who likes you.

65 hours later 4022063 Anonymous
MtF I would feel more secure with an FtM guy. I'm not really sure why. I have no preference in terms of masculinity/femininity, I have drooled at both otter and andromode FtMs. I might also enjoy piv, mostly as a passive partner.

66 hours later 4022160 Anonymous
I come here and pretend to be transexual, I wonder how many of you are doing the same...

66 hours later 4022182 Anonymous
>>4022160 on the slim off chance this post itself isn't just a joke...how sad a life do you have to have to impersonate trans people on a shitty 4chan board..........

79 hours later 4023999 Anonymous
Bump

79 hours later 4024182 Anonymous
Cis gay guy here. Im 100% top and have no desire to be penetrated ever. This is usually a problem for other guys ive met.. Which is understandable, but i cant deny the attraction of being with a guy with no penis who wont get annoyed that i dont like anal

91 hours later 4026392 Anonymous
>>4010198 i dont understand this at all? what does it mean to treat someone like a butch?

91 hours later 4026418 Anonymous
I'm MtF and have an unhealthy curiosity about FtMs and wanted to sit in on their inner circle at my support group instead of sitting with all the 60+ yr old transitioners Also I'm guilty of finding FtMs really cute due to their rosy cheeks, it makes me feel bad because my friend always reminds me I'm supposed to find them manly, not cute

98 hours later 4027090 OP
>>4026418 >curiosity about FtMs and wanted to sit in on their inner circle at my support group instead of sitting with all the 60+ yr old transitioners Haha, Iktf. I do not feel anywhere near at home with those folks either. They're all either straight dude to female or else non-trans "sissy cd" hons who for some reason want a community for that. >my friend always reminds me I'm supposed to find them manly, not cute Eh, the more manly-man straight ftm guys are the ones who are more troubled by ever being seen as cute or androgynous or having any feminine features (see >>4009775 ), but there are ftms who wouldn't mind it as much, and are more into cultivating a twinky look anyway. I guess the main problem would be if you saw them as not-a-man because of their cuteness, and that's probably what your friend is trying to warn you against. If you can find them cute and still see them as dudes and all that then you're probably in the clear without much to worry about...?

99 hours later 4027222 Anonymous
>>4026418 >>4027090 Meh. Straight ftm here, I'm masculine personality-wise but I know I'll have a hard time ever looking handsome or manly due to my bone structure and facial features. Though I probably wouldn't date a trans girl (not into D or penetration of any sort so how would one even sex) I wouldn't mind if a chick liked me for my 'rosy cheeks' or whatever as long as she still saw me as male. Anything else just seems like setting your standards too high/being unrealistic...

99 hours later 4027295 Anonymous
>>4027222 >I probably wouldn't date a trans girl (not into D or penetration of any sort so how would one even sex) I mean, you could do it the other way and use a strapon and top her, if you weren't interested in penetration where you received. She'd have to be into that, though, some mtfs probably are more into cis dick than strapons (or phalloplasty dick). But if she's into ftms anyway, then that kind of implies that she's already ok with the whole not born with a dick thing, and that maybe she'd be cool with strapons too, if you were dating and wanted to do that, that is. Just would take some communication and asking her.

100 hours later 4027510 Anonymous
>>4027295 I guess strap ons are a thing, but considering a packer made me feel more dysphoric instead of less I don't know how that'd go.

101 hours later 4027694 Anonymous
>>4026392 To act like someone is a butch lesbian rather than a trans man, I suppose.

101 hours later 4027764 Anonymous (193485765968.png 539x274 113kB)
>>4026392

114 hours later 4030946 Anonymous
I target FtMs all the time when I'm on Fetlife because 90% of the ones I've met who have listed themselves as FtM were just cute short-haired dykes who liked dressing as men and being dominant. I cannot find a "WORKS FOR ME" big enough for that combination. Seriously, in my experience, people who list themselves as FtM are just tomboys who want to fuck my face. I will chase that to the ends of the earth.

114 hours later 4030997 Anonymous
>>4030946 >>4027764

115 hours later 4031035 Anonymous
>>4009757 Not a chaser, but how do you feel about being expected to make the first move/plan stuff/do stuff? Has the whole thing about hyperagency come up for you? Also, I am not sure how to phrase this question, but a while ago I knew a nice ftm dude. I was attracted to him, but I think part of it was because I couldn't quite see him as a man the same way I view other men. There was an inbetweenness that appealed to me, but I am pretty sure that if I'd said that, it would have hurt his feelings, so I never said anything and kept things platonic. I'm not really sure how to describe the identity I am attracted to. I like androgynous bodies, female plumbing, masculine personality, would be cool if they had been partially socialized as a female while younger, but this ain't about me. I guess my question is, even though you are a man, do you classify yourself strictly as a man, or do you lean towards an identity of trans-man in a way that carries a sort of inbetweenness? I feel like not having been socialized as a man from an early age can greatly impact the way you present, but I am asking about the way you view yourself. Would you be offended if someone had trouble viewing you in that way in certain contexts?

115 hours later 4031113 Anonymous
>>4031035 I think of myself as a guy completely with parents who tried to turn me into a girl, kinda like that one dude who got his dick in an accident at a young age and parents tried to make him a girl, I started identify as male at a younger age though, some people don't really figure that out which is why they may consider themselves in-between. I pretty much pass as a guy now anyway and have been since a young age, so I don't really know much about how females are treated etc. I'm offended mostly by women(cis les and transbians mostly) who think of me as one of them because of my genitals. I'm also gay so I don't like when people assume I am a butch woman who likes women or something. I guess a lot of newly-out trans people or genderqueer/non-binary people would appeal to you since they're more in-between.

115 hours later 4031121 Anonymous
>>4027764 Wow, I've only ever experienced FtMs who see me as a femboy and not the other way around.

119 hours later 4031629 Anonymous
I'm not really sure where I stand on it My best friend IRL is an FtM and I have feelings for him, and when I see FtMs online I'm usually attracted to them just because of the androgyny but I don't consider myself a chaser because it's not like they're a fetish for me or something They're just cool people and pretty hot so yeah Also, any gay FtMs here, thoughts on dating a bear-like guy? Do you prefer larger guys (I mean like L, not 3XL or some shit)? Is it not relevant to your attraction to someone?

119 hours later 4031678 Anonymous
>>4031629 >Also, any gay FtMs here, thoughts on dating a bear-like guy? Do you prefer larger guys (I mean like L, not 3XL or some shit)? Is it not relevant to your attraction to someone? I'm actually very into manly guys, I have a few gay FtM friends and that seems to be a common thing from what I've observed. But I guess it's just a matter of personal preference. Imo the bigger the better, lol This being said I like more androgynous-looking guys too because I can use a strap-on on them without feeling like it's out of place

119 hours later 4031684 Anonymous
>>4031035 >would be cool if they had been partially socialized as a female while younger what does this mean

120 hours later 4031779 Anonymous
My ideal relationship is with a FtM or MtF. I think I'm more inclined towards MtFs but idk, I feel like the relationship dynamic would be better for me with a FtM. I'm submissive, both socially and sexually and I feel like out of the two, a FtM is more likely to compliment that. Putting two subs together can be a pretty boring relationship dynamic (and like 99% of MtFs are subs). My motivations are not sexual or even aesthetic, although I will admit I love how cute most FtMs are. I just want someone who gets me. I'm MtF and I primarily go for cis guys right now, but I don't feel like any of them truly make an effort to sympathize or even understand what being trans is like. In other words I'm tired of being used as a gay experiment. I want someone who knows how dysphoria feels so that we can just hold each other when things get bad.

126 hours later 4032754 Anonymous
>>4031035 Eh. I mean, I see myself as more androgynous and in-between, who's transitioning with hormones because dysphoria, but this is not a common sentiment for trans guys and most simply see themselves as any other dude, and would not be into someone who saw them as an in-between. Can I ask what gender you are? >>4031629 >>4031678 I'm sure there are, totally, but personally I'm not as into super masc guys, myself. >>4031779 Now see this is adorable and would probably make a sweet relationship.

127 hours later 4032864 Anonymous
>>4031779 >and like 99% of MtFs are subs I've found (IRL) only me for that, and even i'm a switchy kitty. others have been almost perfect switch or switch-leaning-domme.

127 hours later 4032885 Anonymous
>>4032864 Really? Maybe I just haven't met the right mtfs then. The ones who are dom are certainly much less vocal on here.. in fact every time I see another mtf talking about being dom/doing something dom in /mtfg/ they get ridiculed lol. I think I mislabeled myself, I'm not a pure sub.. I guess I'm more of a switch leaning sub. I'd be content with a switch partner. I'm mainly in it for the cuddles anyway.

127 hours later 4032893 Anonymous
>>4009757 A straight, cis friend of mine isn't someone I'd consider a chaser, but she dated two trans guys in a row, then got back with the first one and they're still together. Pros she told me were that the dildos they used were in ways better than real dicks (varying shapes and sizes, never went soft, can't get you pregnant), they were generally more relaxed about gender stuff (though in my opinion her ex was an overcompensating shit), and they were very masculine without being le fedora about it.

130 hours later 4033549 Anonymous
>>4032754 Bump bc they didn't answer my question and still kinda curious.

132 hours later 4033817 Anonymous
>>4009887 >>4009899 >>4010447 >Trans men are liek so in touch with their feeling gais!~ I'm not sure where people get this notion. From my own experience as a transman I would say I'm fairly emotionally blunted. When I do feel emotions they are often so vague to me that I can't even articulate what I'm feeling. I am also a horrible listener because I have trouble maintaining interest in peoples inane daily blitherings. Also I remember reading a study somewhere which compared the four demographics (FTM, MTF and normalscum) and found the FTMs had the highest rates of autism, with MTFs following close behind. So that might explain some things.

132 hours later 4033840 Anonymous
>>4033817 >being contrary for the sake of it

133 hours later 4033937 Anonymous
>>4033840 Or maybe it's simply unfounded. I'm ftm too and I can echo everything he said.

136 hours later 4034763 Anonymous
>>4033817 Yeah, a lot of this applies to me (ftm) too. I'm gay, though, and guys don't tend to talk about feelings much, so it works out. Honestly when I was younger (teens, I guess?) I listened to others' problems so much that now I'm sick of it and really don't give a shit about emotional conversations. Maybe that's terrible of me but again, don't care much. I want a partner who's relaxing to hang out with and not too touchy feely.

136 hours later 4034797 Anonymous
I'm FtM and you fine folks are giving me hope that I will someday get laid again so thank you from the bottom of my gross horny heart.

136 hours later 4034903 Anonymous
>>4033817 >So that might explain some things. none of the things you listed have actually anything to do with autism, fyi

137 hours later 4034933 Anonymous
>>4034797 (op of the thread) haha, no problem.

137 hours later 4034951 Anonymous
>>4034903 Autism and low EQ are related.

137 hours later 4034979 Anonymous
Somewhat recently started dating a ftm, wasn't really pre-meditated. I feel we hit it off well in terms of interests, personality and attitudes before he came out. I was backpacking around Europe for almost 6 months and when I came back he had recently come out. We spent some time catching up and ended up in a relationship. I'm male, biological, wouldnt really consider myself gay or bi, obviously I may have to rethink that label, particularly as time goes on. As a female she was a bit of a sloppy dressing tomboy, so I wonder if his recent sartorial interest has the opposite effect to what he'd hope. Maybe I still see him as a cute tomboy? Not sure I do, but I do wonder about my motives On the other hand, maybe a no-bullshit outdoorsy boyfriend is exactly what I want. I remember a firend of a friend of mine replying to a christian fellow social worker who said being gay was just a choice "m8, if it was a choice I'd be gay". Anyway, sorry for the blogpost but had a few glasses of wine and wanted to dump. It's an odd fucking situation for me. Fuck

137 hours later 4035024 Anonymous
>>4034979 Yeah. I figure your label will adjust as your relationship with this guy goes on. As it is, I feel like if you can be attracted to a trans guy you're clearly not 100% straight, heh. But don't get too caught up in labels, probably, just enjoy each other's company and be chill boyfriends and stuff and have fun with it, heh. It'll all work itself out in time. No worries about the "blogpost/dump." And yeah, adjusting from seeing yourself as definitely-straight is an odd situation and adjustment to anyone who has it happen.

137 hours later 4035146 Anonymous
>>4034951 >EQ lmao

138 hours later 4035282 Anonymous
>>4035146 What's funny about facts?

138 hours later 4035311 Anonymous
>tfw no pervy MtF chaser FtM hitting on me

138 hours later 4035318 Anonymous
>>4035311 >>4001370

138 hours later 4035397 Anonymous
>>4035311 >tfw no pervy MtF chaser FtM hitting on me I can fix that, lol. or just check the thread >>4035318 rec'd or do some dating site hunting. good luck~

138 hours later 4035425 Anonymous
Whenever I find out that a guy I like is trans, he instantly becomes 5x hotter to me. If, however, I am not attracted to a guy and they turn out to be trans, I'm still unattracted to them. I generally find trans men to almost always be attractive though.

138 hours later 4035426 Anonymous
>>4018026 Straight gray-ace cis dude here, wasn't going to reply to the thread. But like, you made me imagine a fucking masculine as hell, compensating-like-fuck short fiery ftm dude and well, instant boner. I dunno where that came from, but apparently i'm gay for aggressive ftm guys. Who knew. Every other situation i'm in, straight or not, I pretty much top like a motherfucker. Fiery angry aggressive ftm dude? I'd be getting fucked and loving it.

139 hours later 4035450 Anonymous
>>4035425 what gender/orientation/w/e are you? >>4035426 lol, nice. i'm more of a switch than total top, would top a guy like that tbh

139 hours later 4035454 Anonymous
>>4035450 Gay male

139 hours later 4035455 Anonymous
>>4035397 fix it pls

139 hours later 4035463 Anonymous
>>4035454 Hm cool. what about them adds the appeal that makes them hotter? or is it just kinda a thing, and you don't really know why? >>4035455 haha idk if that's possible, depending. where are you from?

139 hours later 4035482 Anonymous
>>4035450 Yeah, kind of a surprise. Still a bit what the fuck over that, but y'know, still feelsgood thinking about it. Man, I might need to turn this into a reality. Do transguys actually have trouble finding people into them topping?

139 hours later 4035494 Anonymous
>>4035482 >feelsgood thinking about it. >Man, I might need to turn this into a reality. Go for it, tbh. if you went looking or posted an ad or something you could probably find one. >Do transguys actually have trouble finding people into them topping? No clue.

139 hours later 4035529 Anonymous
>>4035463 I really don't know why.. I guess it's just that I've seen so many trans guys that I thought were attractive that I've associated attraction with trans guys or something? I have no idea. I just know I like them.

139 hours later 4035568 Anonymous
>>4035463 northwest US you can creep on me on skype if you want

147 hours later 4036477 Anonymous
I went to sleep, so, replies >>4035529 Yeah. it makes sense. there doesn't always have to be a why, people just...like certain types of people. Though I guess some posters in the mtf version of this thread were really insistent that folks into them needed to have a "why" for their attraction. But yeah. >>4035568 creep on you, lol?

152 hours later 4037396 Anonymous (stars n stripes.jpg 600x276 108kB)
>>4017667 You are wanted anon. This reply is late as fuck, but yeah. Thanks for not seeing it as a bad thing. Short time to live, wanna learn and experience as much as I can.

159 hours later 4039080 Anonymous
>>4024182 cis gay bottom here, fuck this thread, please date me

159 hours later 4039101 Anonymous
>>4034763 >I listened to others' problems so much that now I'm sick of it and really don't give a shit This. I can't bring myself to care about anyone's problems unless they affect me.

159 hours later 4039152 Anonymous
>>4035568 >>4036477 Bumping for the skype exchange thing >>4039080 rock on, find yourself a transguy to date if that's your thing, lol

159 hours later 4039159 Anonymous
>>4039152 >Bumping for the skype exchange thing post email or something idk

159 hours later 4039189 Anonymous
>>4039159 are you the same mtf from before or...?

159 hours later 4039192 Anonymous
>>4039189 yup

160 hours later 4039221 Anonymous
>>4039192 K. here you go 12ksgc+9lw5fuaquhwuo@grr.la it's a side email, since this is 4chins, heh.

160 hours later 4039269 Anonymous
>>4039221 well I sent something

160 hours later 4039279 Anonymous
>>4039269 I replied back with my real email, did you get that?

160 hours later 4039367 Anonymous (1411889471302.jpg 640x445 23kB)
So, this can be a contact swap thread now?

161 hours later 4039409 Anonymous
>>4039367 Covertly Rick Roll'd. Nice.

161 hours later 4039425 Anonymous
I'm tempted to drop my skype in here for the hell of it but I'm afraid of not getting back to anyone in quite a while. I posted in /soc/ the other day and now my skype is clogged with invites from peeps wanting to talk. Would it be wrong of me for leaving it here and seeing what comes of it? (mtf who likes ftms)

161 hours later 4039501 Anonymous
Straight male here. I have dated FTMS, because they are almost always more enjoyable then cis women. FTMs are best. Cool bros, and almost always horny. Sex can be a bit complex, first ftm I dated was a top, so we just wrestled and never had sex... Second one like being penetrated. I love ftms.

162 hours later 4039547 Anonymous (bub-ool.jpg 320x296 32kB)
>>4039425 Do it. Do it for the snuggly little owl.

162 hours later 4039620 Anonymous
>>4039547 Fine... Skype: slc984 Mtf interested in ftms Expect a possible lengthy delay in inital response due to backlog. I feel like such a whore...

162 hours later 4039626 Anonymous (1424377095051.gif 320x250 1927kB)
>>4009757 I WANNA FUCK YOUR BOYPUSSY.

163 hours later 4039662 Anonymous
@ Straight men who find FTMs hot Could you be attracted to a FTM who had phalloplasty? Could you be attracted to a FTM with no feminine appearance traits except the pussy? Could you be attracted to a cis guy with a pussy if such a thing existed?

163 hours later 4039683 Anonymous
>>4039662 if you're attracted to dudes, you're fucking bi or gay, deal with it if you're dating a ftm and think you're straight, you're saying they're a chick not a dude, and you're undermining their gender identity and messing with someone's psychological treatment of an illness (dysphoria), or, you're a closeted retard who can't even sexuality basically fuck right off

163 hours later 4039718 Anonymous
>>4039501 >straight >likes ftms Dude, I have some news for you...

164 hours later 4039776 Anonymous
>>4009757 I actually don't know the answer.I just feel like a trans woman would love me more.I've also met one who was in terrible pain, because people treated her like shit.I want to show her that not all people are assholes.I honestly wish I understood the appeal, but I'm at a loss for words.

164 hours later 4039789 Anonymous
>>4039776 FTM edition you doofus

182 hours later 4042894 Anonymous
>>4035024 Cheers. The thought of telling family and friends is a bit confronting, I'm isolated from that for a while by living interstate from my family and old friends but if things get serious then I would have to introduce him at some point. Our /out/ interests would probably take us passed where my family live at some point at which point I'd have to suck it up and introduce him. I suppose I'm overthinking this, I suppose all this takes some time, like, I wouldn't be considering a shotgun marriage this early in a relationship. Still, it is difficult thinking of somebody relatable I know outside of the relationship that I can communicate my, I dunno, anxieties to, which adds to the whole strangeness of it.

187 hours later 4043743 Anonymous
>>4042894 >Still, it is difficult thinking of somebody relatable I know outside of the relationship that I can communicate my, I dunno, anxieties to, which adds to the whole strangeness of it. Like someone you know irl? I can't help you there, obvs, but idk, you could talk to some folks online about it clearly. It's not really the same as face-to-face though, if you prefer that kind of talk.

187 hours later 4043747 Anonymous
>>4030946 this response gave me a lol

188 hours later 4043880 Anonymous
>>4039718 I am well aware haha. I am totally gay for FTMs. I love fooling around with them, in a respectful way of course. :) Beautiful ftm boys are my weakness.

200 hours later 4045384 Anonymous
>>4043743 Might try the student union's alphabet soup officer or somebody in the queer society. I should already be on their mailing list, they put on a good film festival.

204 hours later 4046109 Anonymous
>>4045384 >alphabet soup lol. it's true, there's getting to be a ridiculous amount of letters....lgbt is enough.

212 hours later 4047627 Anonymous
Where do you find FTMs? The guys I met were from online dating services/apps. What would you recommend?

212 hours later 4047666 Anonymous
>>4047627 Unless you live in somewhere like Seattle or SF the apps and services are probably your best bet. I think some guy mentioned fetlife but he found "ftms" who were really just kinky butch chicks. Grindr had a trans tribe i think?

226 hours later 4050749 Anonymous
>>4047666 >I think some guy mentioned fetlife but he found "ftms" who were really just kinky butch chicks. It sounds more to me like that guy doesn't understand the whole hormones thing. He probably hooked up with some pre-T ftms and thought "these guys aren't ftms at all! just butch chicks!" because they were pre-T and didn't look like guys to him or look like what he expected an FTM to look like...heh.

248 hours later 4055694 Anonymous
bump

249 hours later 4056036 Anonymous
....This thread is actually cheering me up a bit... I usually feel so unwanted as a transguy. Maybe thereĀ“s hope after all. So cute that many transgirls seem to like transguys, I would never have exprected that!

257 hours later 4057822 Anonymous
>>4056036 Glad to hear it. :) Transguys are so hot to me. There is hope for you buddy. Just got to find where chasers such as us hang out.

257 hours later 4057952 Anonymous
>>4057822 And where do you hang out?

258 hours later 4058000 Sendaddy (adorable manlet.jpg 500x281 29kB)
I have a huge boner for scruffy, baby-faced manlets, which seems to accurately describe a lot of trans dudes Obligatory Oliver related

260 hours later 4058312 Anonymous
>>4057952 I met some of my ftm friends online. I met others at pride events. I don't go to gay bars unless I am with my trans friends.

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