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2014-07-18 05:48 3013396 Anonymous Crossdressing fetish? (image.jpg 300x296 21kB)
Shit, I think I want to crossdress and suck off another guy. The idea of "becoming the woman" really turns me on, but I'm also really scared that this one fetish could define me as a person if people found out about it. Any guys in the same boat? Did you act out your fantasy?

6 min later 3013418 Anonymous
I did it with my bf cause i thought it might be hot but i ended up just liking the exposure to femininity and sex was the same.

6 min later 3013419 Anonymous
>>3013396 Sorta. I'm a straight man (at least I think I am) but I really want my partner to dress somewhat like a man and blow me

12 min later 3013435 Anonymous
Every Halloween or drag night at the local gay bar I take the opportunity too. I like keeping myself shaved and moisturized and have grown out my hair so I can braid it or put it up in pigtails or something. Wouldn't say I have a sexual diaspora, I am fine being male, just enjoy the dress up.

14 min later 3013439 Anonymous (1398723969766.png 606x753 108kB)
I wear PVC stockings and armlets and suck off the guy I'm dating. I don't know if that counts as crossdressing but holy shit I love dressing like a slut and then rather than whore out just be an affectionate cuddler >apologies on the fur, no good irl image to show my look

16 min later 3013443 Anonymous
Bi guy here, initially I thought that my love of crossdressing/femininity might be signs that I could be trans but after really thinking about it, it's nothing more than a kink. I think it's easy to feel guilty about having this fetish, but that's all it is, a fetish, don't worry about it so much and just do you.

17 min later 3013450 Anonymous
Shit son, I dress like a girl and suck off guys all the time. I'm hella gay, though, so it's a bit different.

18 min later 3013452 Anonymous
>>3013443 Hey, >>3013439 here. I feel the same way. Since I was 14 I loved wearing cute undergarments, but only for sexualization. I love being a guy, I love my penis and I can't see myself as a woman in public. It's just a quirky kink.

18 min later 3013453 Anonymous
>>3013443 For some people this "kink" is literally their entire sexuality, and they have never had an orgasm in their life that didn't involve a feminization fantasy. That's when it's much more than a kink.

19 min later 3013455 Anonymous (image.jpg 367x450 43kB)
>>3013439 That's pretty hot. I'm like 95% straight, but I've developed a fetish for sucking cock. It's like I'm able to release all of my stress by being very submissive to a guy and pleasing him. When I'm having sex with a woman, it is either about love or feels like a challenge. When I'm sucking a guy, I can just relax. It's like sucking cock allows me to "take off" the manly exterior the world wants from me and be submissive and feminine.

21 min later 3013459 Anonymous
>>3013455 When I submit to my bf like that, either by cuddling or taking on bottom duties, I feel the same way. I'm not attracted to women myself, though, but I'm not attracted to my bf's body either. He makes up for it in personality and how fucking amazing he is in bed, though

33 min later 3013488 Anonymous
I've experimented with womens clothes and things forbas long as I can rember. When I was in middle school I remember wanting to be a girl strongly. Now Im 21 and know I'm gay and I love dressing up. I have two friends who know and are very supportive, its so much better then worring I was a freak because I like dressing up. But I dont feel the need to transition since I do like been being a man as well as doing "womens" things

35 min later 3013491 Anonymous
>>3013488 Sorry for the typos, Im not the best at using my phones keyboard

47 min later 3013517 Anonymous
>>3013450 Don't you feel disgusting with all the feminine clothes highlighting how manish and masculine your body is though?

52 min later 3013531 Anonymous
Im so confused by you guys. How could you feel good wearing womens clothes when it just highlights that you are a man. Its not being feminine. Its like an adult wearing a diaper, it doesn't make him seem like a little baby.

54 min later 3013539 Anonymous
>>3013531 This is why crossdressers often have simultaneous feelings of enjoyment and disappointment when wearing women's clothing. They like wearing it, yet it just underscores how unlike women they are.

1 hours later 3013569 Anonymous
>>3013539 But if they like being men why would they care if they don't look like a woman.

1 hours later 3013574 Anonymous
>>3013569 it's the excitement of the camouflage, I suppose. It's about achieving the aesthetic, and for me, to also to demean oneself below the partner

2 hours later 3013775 Anonymous
>>3013569 Maybe they don't like being men.

2 hours later 3013804 Anonymous
>>3013455 hahaha fucking tranny

2 hours later 3013834 Anonymous
told this before... >be hooking up with older guy >always have sex in his daughter's room (she's away at college) >one night discussing fantasies >he tells me his is to fuck his daughter (we have sex in her room because he can smell her) >Weird but whatever >asks if I'd wear some of her panties when we have sex. I'm OK with it >daughter comes home for weekend and leaves pile of worn clothes >guy asks me to dress in them while we have sex >becomes routine. I get to his house, go into daughter's room, get dressed in her clothes, he fucks me as if I was his daughter >even hang around his house dressed in daughter's clothes >bought me a wig that looks like his daughter's hair

3 hours later 3014057 Anonymous
>>3013834 Sounds kinda creepy and degenerate

3 hours later 3014110 Anonymous
are there any girls here who want to crossdress as a man?

3 hours later 3014206 Anonymous
>>3013396 Crossdressing is definitely my fetish

3 hours later 3014226 Anonymous
>>3013531 I'm honestly not sure, but personally I enjoy it most when it's a VERY masculine guy crossdressing. Like a /fit/ success story in a schoolgirl uniform drives me crazy

5 hours later 3014776 Anonymous (Man-question-mark.jpg 196x242 3kB)
I like stuff like long striped socks\gloves. Does that even count?

8 hours later 3015339 Anonymous
>>3014057 Well at least he didn't fuck the daughter. He took a good compromise

8 hours later 3015375 Anonymous
>>3013453 That's called repressed gender dysphoria.

8 hours later 3015396 Anonymous
i own stocking, a skirt, a dress, and some other stuff. i love jacking off with them on. i am gay tho

10 hours later 3015725 Anonymous
>>3013775 Maybe they should transition if they are passable enough?

10 hours later 3015735 Anonymous
>>3015375 I would call it autogynephilia.

10 hours later 3015873 Anonymous
>>3015735 End of day, isn't AGP a kind of gender dysphoria? Maybe AGP is just milder gender dysphoria.

27 hours later 3018272 Anonymous
>>3013834 >>3014057 I wonder if in these cases maybe she's not his. Maybe her wife slept with another man or something. Cuz I don't think our species is one where the males are attracted to their daughters right?

27 hours later 3018390 Anonymous
I feel the same way. I'm very masculine and manly but the idea of taking care of myself, using drag queen magic and being submissive to a big male turns me on, massively. I'm comfortable being a male, I like women, I like my genitalia but this is a major fetish for me and I'm not sure how I can fit this into my life. I think either way I'm fucked on my decisions.

28 hours later 3018552 Anonymous
>>3015339 >Well at least he didn't fuck the daughter. He took a good compromise He told me he'd never fuck her. It was just a fantasy and I helped him with it.

28 hours later 3018765 SadDana
>>3013396 i started taking horomones

29 hours later 3018873 Anonymous
>>3015873 AGP is a paraphilia that can lead to gender dysphoria. The dysphoria is real and legitimate, but it's there for a different reason than other transsexuals. It's not a milder form, it's just a different one.

29 hours later 3018916 Anonymous
>>3018873 I don't think that the evidence is there to say whether AGP can cause gender dysphoria or if AGP and gender dysphoria (as a general syndrome which may or may not have the same causes as gender dysphoria in non-AGP populations) are co-morbid due to a shared underlying cause. [Your interpretation may very well be right, it isn't ruled out at least; I just don't think there is enough evidence to authoritatively make such a statement yet.]

30 hours later 3019103 Anonymous
>>3018916 Personally I think the evidence that AGP causes dysphoria is pretty compelling. A lot of other MtFs dont have it, and the ones who do tend to not really be feminine in any way except for their desire to be women. AGPs also tend to transition at an older age than other transsexuals, which makes sense given that it takes time for a female identity to develop from AGP. I suppose the two sides are basically "AGP causes gender dysphoria" or "AGP is a symptom of transsexualism". To me the former makes more sense.

31 hours later 3019387 Anonymous
>>3019103 Define" be feminine". I need examples.

31 hours later 3019393 Anonymous
>>3019387 Don't be unfeminine.

31 hours later 3019400 Anonymous
>>3019103 >A lot of other MtFs dont have it, and the ones who do tend to not really be feminine in any way except for their desire to be women. That seems highly similar to butch lesbians then.

31 hours later 3019416 Anonymous
>>3019103 I don't seem to understand how the former can make sense without loads of a posteriori rationalization similar to how people would attribute natural disasters and other misfortune to displeased gods.

31 hours later 3019488 Anonymous
>>3019387 It's difficult to talk about concepts such as masculinity and femininity without being accused of sticking to dated gender roles. But in general, AGPs tend to have the same behavior traits are normal heterosexual men - same interests, same temperaments. It's a marked contrast from non-AGP transsexuals who were much more feminine in childhood >>3019416 To me, saying that AGP causes dysphoria makes more sense than saying he's a woman in a man's body. That seems like a far bigger leap to me

31 hours later 3019549 Anonymous
>>3019416 It makes sense when you consider that not all transsexuals have autogynephilia. So how can AGP merely be a sympton of transsexualism? Probably more accurate to say there are different types of transsexuals who feel dysphoria for completely different reasons.

33 hours later 3019939 Anonymous (1391141479102.jpg 1440x810 316kB)
tfw no crossdressing bf i just want a crossdressing cutie who i can give everything to

48 hours later 3022227 Anonymous
>>3014110 I strongly doubt it as women can wear what they want to anyway. For males it can be the taboo despite having the desire to wear female clothes that makes it hot.

48 hours later 3022243 Anonymous
>>3013396 Tried wearing pantyhoses and ordered striped stockings, a pantyhose and panties once I moved out. Was very exciting at the beginning and I basically wore these things every time I masturbated for a week, but after that the novelty wore off. Now I seldomly wear them. Only did so for arousal anyway and took them off after ejaculating. I still like certain patterns and things girls can wear that men in normal settings can't such as boots. I feel happy as a guy though, just a little excentric when it comes to fashion in general. What I found most exciting was the feel of thefabric on the skin and the way it covered my legs and feet as I am very much into the form of girls' legs and feet for some reason.

48 hours later 3022259 Anonymous
How ok are gay guys you've talked to about this with this? I'd certainly like to try crossdressing and being the submissive one during sex, but gays aren't into feminine appearel are they?

48 hours later 3022272 Anonymous
>>3022259 >guys who like fucking a guy with women's clothes >not gay you mean they're 'straight' guys with a cd fetish?

48 hours later 3022282 Anonymous
>>3022272 I mean gay guys would be into guy clothes and not female stuff like stockings? Can't really judge that as I would consider myself bi-curious and can understand female attraction.

48 hours later 3022308 Anonymous
I've crossdressed before (not for a while) Although I'm happy and comfortable as a guy I enjoyed it and it was one of those things I did purely as impulse. If you wanna do it, embrace it.

49 hours later 3022384 Anonymous
>>3022259 >How ok are gay guys you've talked to about this with this? I'd certainly like to try crossdressing and being the submissive one during sex, but gays aren't into feminine appearel are they? More than likely bisexual.

49 hours later 3022446 Anonymous
>>3019488 I was somewhat masculine as a child but am 95% into guys so what am i.

51 hours later 3022921 Anonymous
>>3013396 I completely understand OP. I'm a straight man but I am turned on so much by men dressed as women. I almost prefer feminine looking men in skirts and dresses more than actual genetic women. I go online and talk to people who dress and meet up with them. I'm in college right now and I'm terribly afraid that if a potential employer were to find out or if my school found out that I talk to these men, I'd lose my scholarship or lose employment opportunities for reflecting poor character or something.

52 hours later 3023265 Anonymous
>>3013396 Fetishes don't always have to define you. It's well known that one of my friends has a foot fetish, but we don't define him by that. He's not the "foot fetish guy", it's just a footnote (Pun intended).

52 hours later 3023274 Anonymous
>>3013834 >not recognising the warning flags

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