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2013-07-28 01:22 1023327 Anonymous (gdseries.jpg 776x768 196kB)
im coming out this week. give me some advice ^_^ btw i love you all

1 hours later 1023940 Anonymous
coming out as??

1 hours later 1023954 Anonymous
Blow a guy off in front of everyone.

1 hours later 1023962 Anonymous (gaiz.png 294x256 139kB)
>>1023954 Yeah this do this

1 hours later 1024043 Anonymous
Send all your friends images from HardBlush before telling them.

1 hours later 1024050 Anonymous
>inb4 no point in choosing when and how to tell people so it doesn't come up at an inopportune time and have an awkward, jarring effect

1 hours later 1024062 Anonymous
In the middle of a social setting or public area, do this http://www.youtube.com/watch?featur e=player_detailpage&v=1nqF0ddDc8I&t =54

1 hours later 1024075 Anonymous
>>1024050 People can just wait for the opportunity. I told one of my friends when he said that he wanted to match me with a chick. Besides, what gives everyone else the right to know about anyone's sexual orientation. Is is that much of a problem that a gay person might exist in their life and they don't know it?

1 hours later 1024195 Anonymous
Good luck with finding a place to stay.

2 hours later 1024636 Anonymous
>>1023327 This might be a little rhetorical, but does ANYONE at all know you're gay that you trust? My point is that, if they do then tell try to get ahold of them before you go all-out(so to speak) and let them know when you might do it, only so you might have a support ready in case it doesn't go off perfectly with every person you tell. I had a really good friend who was one of the, like, two people I knew I wasn't straight. I came out when I was a teen-anon, and my parents were two of the people who I was coming out to, and I just wanted to have somewhere to go in case shit went down bad. It didn't, but I've seen people get isolated as hell when it doesn't go quite there way. I don't mean to scare you, and I know I'm making a lot of assumptions, but just a thought. Pulling for you learning how freeing and awesome it is to be out, anon, you can do it!

3 hours later 1025047 Anonymous
Come out as bi first, it's easier. That's what I did

39 hours later 1035027 Anonymous
You could try to come out the way i did, i started with my closest friends, i talked with them (one by one) and told them, asked why they think and how the felt, most of them were Ok with that, there was one friend that needed time to "accept it" but after a while he was Ok and accepted me and support me, and then when i was comming out to my family i started with my brother (1 of my brothers) and then my mother (I know that the 2 of them were more "open-mind"), the point on telling your friends first is to have some support if something goes wrong with your family and is also a good way to taste the waters...

39 hours later 1035029 Anonymous
>>1025047 Don't come out as BI, they will most likely come with "That's just a fase"

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