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2013-07-27 03:15 1020403 Anonymous (1000w.png 2016x1224 349kB)
Bi thread, gayer then gay edition. I'd greentext you a story but I don't have any good ones, so instead, a question. why is it that all the guys who show interest in me suddenly stop when I tell them I'm bi? I don't think they actually buy into the stereotype but damn, it's like some switch is flicked subconsciously and I'm magically crossed of their prospective partners list, and lest I forget the guy who was surprised when I told him I wasn't into or up for polyamory.

2 hours later 1020903 Anonymous
Is it strange that I've turned down a few guys because I don't want to lose my virginity to a guy? I just fear that no woman is ever going to love me if they find out that my first time was with another man.

3 hours later 1020960 Anonymous
>>1020903 I had a small problem with that. I was chatting to a guy and we were both getting on really well then the conversation turned to sex and I felt I should probably tell him I slept with a woman once. I really had to emphasise how confused I was at the time and how disgusting it was. Now he just uses it to take the piss out of me.

3 hours later 1020967 Anonymous
>>1020903 >I just fear that no woman is ever going to love me if they find out that my first time was with another man. Are you kidding Maybe I've been hanging out with too many fujiyoshi bitches

3 hours later 1020973 Anonymous
>>1020403 I've heard it happens, rly sucks though. Probably has to do with the tons of "bicurious-aka-i cant really pursuit a romantical relationship with another man" males(or even sex, but that's more complicated imo) So they probably get intimidated, or something like that. >>1020903 That is honestly silly.

3 hours later 1021188 Anonymous (1373752997742.jpg 1920x1200 270kB)
>>1020903 My first time was with a guy. I was his first man but he's done plenty of chicks. I asked him if he thinks I'm a virgin, since I haven't had sex with a woman yet. He says he thinks so, especially because I didn't orgasm. >living in the American South >still believe I will find a woman who accepts me I'd never pursue group sex (the idea repulses me) or try to cheat with a man, but I DO NOT want an intimate relationship with a woman who wouldn't accept me when I came out to her

4 hours later 1021243 Anonymous
I'm bi as shit. my first several times were with women. but since I came out ive been having sex with men more frequently. its weird but ive found people who like me for who I am not who ive been with. and Thats pretty cool.

4 hours later 1021360 Anonymous
>bisexual guy >wonders why gay people hate him You are either closeted gay or just a slut

5 hours later 1021610 Anonymous
Idk op, bi is a huge turn-off for me. Like, I can't even fap to pornstars who claim to be bisexual. >and lest I forget the guy who was surprised when I told him I wasn't into or up for polyamory. Well let's not forget the bi surveys threads. Most guys there are up for anything. Do you remember that guy who said something about not dating gays unless he could fuck their sisters cause he wanted biological kids?

5 hours later 1021676 Anonymous
>>1021360 go be an anti-intellectual somewhere else.

6 hours later 1021839 Anonymous
As a bicurious guy, is there really that much hate for the B people of the LGBT community?

6 hours later 1021935 Anonymous
>>1020403 >Why is it that all the guys who show interest in me suddenly stop when I tell them I'm bi? Very simple. You never know what exactly you are getting into if someone who is bi. You see how all these gays hate on us for the shit we do (leave em for grills or vice versa, cheat more, etc)? That's exactly my reason why I won't date any bi guys, and I'm bi myself. The difference is I'm more interested in guys than I am in girls and I won't get up and leave. I've ch____d before so I wouldn't want that to get done on me if I date a bi dude. >>1021839 Yup there. My ex boyfriend, who is gay, straight up shitted on my orientation when I told him I was bi. He said something along the lines of I'm gay but don't want to admit or whatever.

6 hours later 1021996 Anonymous
I guess most gay guys become insecure with bi guys because they have to compete with twice as many people. All the bi guys I've known are normally hot as fuck so its understandable that they would play with both sexes. Stop being so prude faggots and get that D.

6 hours later 1022013 Anonymous
Gay male here. I think the stigma comes from the (incorrect) belief that a person has to be one or the other - that there is no inbetween. Another theory is that a bi guy might just up and leave you for a girl. Feeling like you're not good enough is never fun, hence the biphobia.

6 hours later 1022087 Anonymous
I'm actually weirdly attracted to bisexuals. I think it's because when you're with one, it's like you're winning out over twice as many people.

7 hours later 1022117 Anonymous
>>1022087 I understand you bro. I'm weirdly attracted to underaged boys and HIV

10 hours later 1023285 Anonymous
When I tell people I'm bi, they take a laugh, and say I'm just gay. Some gay guys that I've almost hooked up with suddenly weren't interested anymore when I told them I swing both ways. First boyfriend was very paranoid about it, feared I would cheat on him with a girl. He even would've preferred I cheated on him with a guy then with a girl. I mean, what the fuck man? If I think a guy looks good, I can have sex with him. If a girl looks good, I can have sex with her. If someone has a nice personality, I can possibly fall in love with that person, wether that is a guy or a woman. Why would you hate people for that? Love is universal to me, and not just restricted to one gender.

11 hours later 1024038 Anonymous
>>1021935 cheating has nothing to do with being bi - anyone can cheat. stereotyping all bisexuals when you're bi is just... so sad. you must have low self respect if you're one of those bisexual things that can't be trusted.. fuck you make me mad.

16 hours later 1026131 Anonymous
how is it that people don't realize people cheat regardless of their sexuality? the only way to reduce your chances of being cheated on is to not date whatsoever, bisexuals are not more likely to be a cheater, they are just more likely to cheat if they are a cheater (and only marginally more likely to cheat then any straight person at that).

23 hours later 1027741 Anonymous
I think some gay guy's dislike us because they stopped dating women and still see us as straight guys.

23 hours later 1027763 Anonymous (1074867_635849663102715_137442354_o.jpg 1024x768 167kB)
When you're looking for guys do you ever feel like just saying your gay to make things a lot easier? Then you don't want to lie and doubly so because you don't want to enforce the stereotype of 'lying & cheating'.. but loads of guy that could date you don't because they see you're bi and don't want to bother trying.. but only the good gays don't run away because of stereotypes right guys?? ... g-guys? ;_;

23 hours later 1027777 Anonymous
what is the relation between bicycle and bissexual?

23 hours later 1027787 Anonymous
>>1024038 No this person's right though. I'm gay, and I've been in two serious relationships with bi guys. I never really inquired into the entirety of their sexual orientation because I didn't really care. But it turns out both of them were the "mostly straight" kind and I was their first guy. Both of them cheated on me with females (the first guy cheated on me with my best fucking friend). Not going to hate on all bis, but next time I get in a relationship with one I'm going to make sure I'm not just another experiment.

23 hours later 1027792 Anonymous
>>1027787 Also they were both sociopaths. Not trying to start something but there's definitely a fucking correlation between sociopathy and bisexualness. (not trying to say that all bisexuals are sociopaths because I know that's not the case, but moreso that most sociopaths are bisexual in my experience. gotta watch out for that shit)

23 hours later 1027793 Anonymous
>>1027763 I know that feel bro... intimately. >>1027777 gee, I don't know, maybe it's pancakes. >>1027787 yeah, it's tricky because a lot of bis lean one way or the other, it's usually best to know which one before hand, I know personally I lean more towards guys, but I could still settle and be very happy with a woman. just be sure they are bisexual and not bicurious.

24 hours later 1027807 Anonymous
>>1027792 >biased sample size of two >it must be a correlation! you sir, will never be a scientist.

24 hours later 1027812 Anonymous
I wouldn't mind marrying and settling with a "bisexual" as long as he gets castrated after 30 so he can't pull off the classic 'i'm leaving you because inability to procreate"

24 hours later 1027815 Anonymous
>>1027812 >only date if you castrate at 30 >totally reasonable expectation! as if he wouldn't leave you when he gets to 30 because you want him to cut of his balls.

24 hours later 1027819 Anonymous
>>1027807 I've already acknowledged that most bisexuals aren't sociopaths, and being bisexual is hardly an indicator of sociopathy. I'm just saying most sociopaths would be willing to fuck anyone they can take advantage of, male or female. Really wasn't trying to hatesling.

24 hours later 1027822 Anonymous
>>1027819 chill homobro, just flicking yer tits.

24 hours later 1027839 Anonymous
>>1027822 >implying I wasn't completely calm when I posted that Vaht.

24 hours later 1027849 Anonymous
>>1027839 >implying I implied you were anything other then calm and was not in fact referring to your body temperature which is understandably non-chilled due to your status as a warm-blooded animal gg.

24 hours later 1027861 Anonymous (bush_reptilian1.jpg 302x320 47kB)
>>1027849 You're wrong I'm a reptillian

24 hours later 1027867 Anonymous
>>1027861 then I concede defeat and submit to my new reptilian overlord.

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