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2013-07-26 03:01 1012632 Anonymous (germany_munich_two_business_men_fighting_in_office_close-up_LDF00657.jpg 650x453 38kB)
Gay male here. 20 years old. I've been living with my significantly older boyfriend for about a year and a half now. I moved 3 hours away from my hometown to be with him. I left behind my family and my friends. Initially things were great but then cracks began to appear - I found out he had quite a major gambling problem and despite his promises to change, he's failed to and we're pretty much in financial ruin. As well as this, his personality has changed. He's a very difficult person to live with and be around. He's very possessive, aggressive and doesn't really let me have any friends. I feel like a prisoner, stuck at home day in day out. I'm miserable and want out but honestly don't know what to do. I have kind of a part time job that brings me in a little bit of cash, but he's the main breadwinner. There's no way I can afford to move out alone, and I'm cut off from most of my friends and family so that's not an option either. I need a fresh start, I want some of my independence back, but how should I go about it? I feel trapped and I don't know what to do :(

1 hours later 1013024 Anonymous
Anyone? :(

1 hours later 1013038 Anonymous
>>1013024 Man the fuck up you sissy. Figure out a solution to your problem and do it. Stop being a faggot who can't handle his own problems and be a faggot who can actually cope with what life throws at him.

1 hours later 1013039 Anonymous
>>1012632 I think you knew this was the answer but you just needed to hear it from someone else. You need to leave him immediately and don't look back. You're only 20. There are still lots of options for you, and the most obvious one is your family. I know that you, like all young gays, have some degree of angst towards your family. However, I guarantee they are more willing to take you back than you think. And if they don't want to, just explain your situation to them. There's no way they'd refuse to help you if you are actually in danger (which you are). Suck it up and call your parents.

1 hours later 1013048 Anonymous
Id go find another old man to fuck for a place to stay.

1 hours later 1013062 Anonymous
>>1013038 That's not a solution, you're just telling him to change his attitude. If you were in the same situation you probably wouldn't feel so macho.

3 hours later 1013794 Anonymous
Id try to get back in contact with your family. He'll even if you have to lie and say it was just a phase to get them to accept you again it's better than what you currently have or being homeless. Either that or if you're a student there's loans, even regular loans aren't so horrible. But try and find a full time job for sure.

4 hours later 1013842 Anonymous (downie2.png 603x428 521kB)
>>1013048 I know this is what I'd do if I ever became homeless

8 hours later 1015731 Anonymous
angry sex?

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