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2013-08-18 06:56 22039031 Anonymous (hope-dworaczyk-photoshoot-for-playboy-store-collection-981449077.jpg 1024x1296 203kB)
Does /fit/ go for personality or looks in a girl ? Also has becoming /fit/ changed your expectations ? When I was young and beta I used to really go for personality (probably because I couldn't get a girl who was hot) however since I've started lifting I've become much more shallow. Recently had a thing with a girl who was hot and nice but not that interesting. However I stayed with her purely because I liked sleeping with a genuine hot girl. Since then I've only really cared about looks ? What's your opinion anon ?

2 min later 22039080 Anonymous
>>22039031 both. a girl that likes self-improvement won't let herself go, and be at least a 6/10, if not more. a good body (lifting), makeup, hair, dress... voilà, there's a good looking girl. a sloppy natural beauty won't have the right personality for me, she's stagnating.

8 min later 22039180 Anonymous
>>22039031 Definitely go for pretty, artsy kind of girl. Currently dating a girl studying at a conservatoire and seriously compared to the guys she is used too I feel alpha. All the guys at these conservatoires are skinny hipster guys. Some are pretty cool but when I visit her I get a lot of attention from her and her friends. Pro tip: Conservatoire have great female potential.

12 min later 22039246 Anonymous
>>22039031 Depends what you are looking for. Looking for something serious ? -Go for a good personality, seriously personality is needed if you intend to spend a lot of time with someone. Young and just looking for sex ? - Dont be afraid of being shallow, if you are only looking for a frequent lay then you want someone who looks great. Also doesnt hurt being able to brag to your friends.

12 min later 22039254 Anonymous
>2013 >people still believe in girl's personality wake up brah all sluts are the same

14 min later 22039292 Anonymous
>>22039254 this.

18 min later 22039363 Anonymous
>tfw new qt3.14 gf >really fucking hot norwegian brunette >she's semi-dumb but I find it cute, just want to protect her >lel

30 min later 22039556 Anonymous
>>22039363 >Semi dumb Preach it. >be me with semi dumb gf (not dumb enough to be annoying, just ditzy >"oh anon you're so clever" >"anon I feel so protected when I'm with you >friend with really smart hot gf >"your university is not good enough" >"You need to try harder to impress my parents" >"Why do you spend so much time in the gym, you look like an idiot" >he has no confidence anymore His gf is hotter but I praise the lord I am not with her

35 min later 22039647 Anonymous
>>22039254 I can see your fedora from here. >There's nothing wrong with me all women are just whores So edgy

36 min later 22039658 Anonymous
>looks >personality >only picking one I sure hope you guys don't do this. >>22039246 is right though. Serious relationships mean personality > looks. I can't get hard if she's a massive cunt and I can't wait to get her out of my sight. sex only? get the hottest you can find. nothing quite like pulling a bateman while hearing her moan on your cock.

37 min later 22039687 Anonymous
If gf needs a good personality and to be atleast cute, for a shag looks obviously, hard to spend time with a girl you don't have anything in common with

37 min later 22039697 Anonymous
>>22039031 /fit/ has for sure changed my expectations. i used to be into chubby chicks, now i just think they're unhealthy and unmotivated.

38 min later 22039719 Anonymous
>>22039647 how old are you? you'll probably learn when you grow up. until then go out more and contact with more girls

40 min later 22039745 Anonymous
>>22039647 It's called life experience. You should get some.

40 min later 22039747 Anonymous
>>22039556 damn bro, I feel bad for your friend. Your gf sounds like mine, maybe y-y-you are m-me?

41 min later 22039763 Anonymous
imo the better the personality, the better she fucks. and a lot of "hot" girls I don't find that attractive. like OP's picture. Yeah she is hot but she seems so bland and shooped that I can't really imagine a connection to her.

41 min later 22039767 Anonymous
Get interested because of looks. Stay with her because of personality. Thread.

42 min later 22039783 Anonymous
Personality. I don't think it's changed with being /fit/, just with getting older and going through different relationships and realising what I like. I can deal with physical imperfections, I can't deal with the monotony of being in a relationship with someone who does nothing but stand there and look pretty, or someone who has an outright shitty personality and will fill my life with petty drama. Looks do matter a bit, there's got to be some attraction there, but I'd much rather be out having adventures and shit with a fun plain girl who keeps me interested and has things to talk about.

43 min later 22039804 Anonymous
>>22039031 i don't care even half as much about looks as my appeareance and training regime would make it appear. mostly because i can't stand stupid people, they drive me fucking nuts.

44 min later 22039827 Anonymous
Both, of course. But whereas I might let some personality flaws slide as long as the chick is beautiful, I just can't become interested/attracted to a woman with physical flaws...

47 min later 22039891 Anonymous
>>22039747 I could rant on and on about her. Really nice to everyone else but she has unrealistic expectations of people she dates. Also in my experience relationships work when the guy is the more dominant partner. So being the smarter one definitely helps. Is this just an ego boost or do you guys like being the smarter one ?

48 min later 22039901 Anonymous
>>22039745 >>22039719 >all this life experience in my 20s

50 min later 22039939 Anonymous
>>22039891 >tfw when got qt 3.14 gf >tfw when I am much taller >tfw when I am much bigger (cuz of dem gains) >tfw I am smarter >Makes me feel alpha as fuck and she seems to like dating someone superior

52 min later 22039983 Anonymous
Both. I can't stand one without the other really, my last Gf had it all except the personality, so I chucked her. Not worth it if you don't like talking to/doing stuff other than sex with them.

53 min later 22040023 Anonymous
>>22039763 lol that was a lot quicker than any homo picture i've seen on /fit/ mods = fags

55 min later 22040059 Anonymous
>>22039745 >>22039719 >I got dumped/cheated on/rejected so now all women are whores! Just get some life experience once you've been dumped/cheated on/rejected once you'll think all women are sluts too!

55 min later 22040068 Anonymous
I really like personality over looks. I don't think I even want a hot girl. Just a relatively pretty one because of cuteness. I also like a natural look because I know they can be prettier with make up on anyway. It's much better to judge them and not wearing make up or w/e also says something about them. I'm more attracted by how a girl moves, behaves than how she looks. Looks obviously matter and sometimes a certain look implies something I find attractive. Looks matters a fuck ton, especially in the face. But it's kind of like black and white. Either it works or it doesn't. My focus for the other stuff is because that stuff is hidden, harder to find out and arguably the most important for assigning value to them as a person. Just want to make that clear. Not my expectations but it has changed my demands. Not sure if I would force someone to change (why would I even be together with that person in the first place) but see it as me being able to back up my idea of I need at least this with action. I don't think it's ok to actually date a girl just to fuck her. You should make it clear and just make it more of a FWB type relationship instead.

55 min later 22040080 Anonymous
>>22039246 This.

56 min later 22040098 Anonymous
>>22039763 dem big ass, it was random chick or model?

58 min later 22040133 Anonymous
>>22040023 u mad the mods recognize men are more aesthetic?

1 hours later 22040190 Anonymous
>>22039363 pls be in Oslo

1 hours later 22040207 Anonymous
>>22039891 It's not an ego boost for me, I just like being the smarter one I presume

1 hours later 22040275 Anonymous
>>22039891 Whether I want to be or not, I am always the smarter one. It has drawbacks sometimes.

1 hours later 22040366 Anonymous
>>22040133 no it is humorous

1 hours later 22040418 Anonymous (Protips.jpg 925x3026 1524kB)
>>22040059 Pic very related. You should read it carefully /fit/.

1 hours later 22040419 Anonymous
>>22040190 north norway, sadly

1 hours later 22040421 Anonymous
>>22040207 >>22040275 I have always thought thought that intelligence in relationships is like height in that girls prefer guys have more of it than them. Also how much more depends on the girl. So a 5'1 fairly intelligent girl would go for a 5'7 very intelligent guy whereas a 5'8 girl dumb girl would go for a 6'2 guy who is averagely intelligent. From the outside it seems like these girls want different things. It looks like the first girl cares about intelliengce and not so much physcial factors whilst the second girl would seem to only care about physical factors. However in reality they both want the exact same thing: for the guy to have more than they do. Just my 2 cents.

1 hours later 22040423 Anonymous
>>22040366 Yes, it is. Touche.

1 hours later 22040459 Anonymous
>>22040418 >how to manipulate dumb whores you probably don't even want to stick your dick in to open their legs - the screencapped series

1 hours later 22040521 Anonymous
I think I'm becoming asexual. I can find people attractive but I don't have the desire to fuck them. I'm more interested in looking better and having good friends. I don't like ugly people or sluts.

1 hours later 22040536 Anonymous
>>22039556 >>"your university is not good enough" >>"You need to try harder to impress my parents" >>"Why do you spend so much time in the gym, you look like an idiot" "who are you to say if it's good enough?" "I don't have to impress anyone" "Because i like taking care of my body and i enjoy it...you bitch" seriously brah, your friend needs to get a backbone and tell that cow to shut up every now and then

1 hours later 22040547 Anonymous
>>22040521 It's weird, I feel similarly but I didn't become asexual. I fooled around with a dude for this first time because I got sick of women and their shit Wasn't really into it but dudes give good bjs in comparison to women, I can venture that much And sucking a dick isn't as disgusting as it sounds (no homo)

1 hours later 22040553 Anonymous (Tokuten_p4_0510.png 288x513 329kB)
Le feel when no ripped gf.

1 hours later 22040594 Some Goddamn Loser
>>22039031 The prettiest bitch is still a bitch. Just saying, man.

1 hours later 22040612 Anonymous
I've come to the conclusion that a first date should be a heavy drinking session. If a girl is cool and enjoyable to be around when she is drunk as fuck, then she is probably worth your time. If she changes into a different or generally undesirable person when drunk, then stay away.

1 hours later 22040623 Anonymous
For dating, 60% personality, 40% looks I will date down to 6/10 if personality is 100% because 100% personality will usually want to improve and 100% personality is worth sub-par sex anyways because they enhance life generally. For hook-ups, it's 70 - 80% looks depending on how drunk I am. I don't really like to fuck people I don't like if they're not in the "hot" range.

1 hours later 22040657 Anonymous
my criteria before I lifted was had to be cute not fat and not be a bitch. Now my criteria is either be not fat, or have a cute face. So I am a lot less picky now than before.

1 hours later 22040689 Anonymous
>>22039556 Smarts and looks, but so much insecurity? Sounds a bit like some of /fit/

1 hours later 22040706 Anonymous
>>22040536 Tell me about it. She is out of his league so he is stuck in the "Oh shit I cant fuck this up I need to do what she says phase". Fucking hard to convince your friend to break free from that.

1 hours later 22040733 Anonymous
>>22040459 >Dumb whores Read it next time. Every woman can cheat if she mets a guy who knows what he's doing. Women have no concept of honor, unlike men. They just rationalize everything after to put the blame on someone else. But whatever, if you choose to stay blind it's up to you. I'll let you all go back to your feels and loneliness now.

1 hours later 22040736 Anonymous (1069830_170097443169636_1214878927_n.jpg 480x640 71kB)
I used to be chubby and shit. But now I'm a hungry skellington digging trenches for a tower company for about another 8 months and then after the 8 months I have to climb 1500 feet up. My job is making /fit/. Functional strength is fucking awesome. Ever since I started getting /fit/ from this job I have started to look more and more towards personalities in women. Looks don't really matter that much to me any more. I wont go for a whale but a woman with a little thickness is okay to me. My current girlfriend and I are actually moving in together soon. I'm going to just say that since I started getting /fit/ and getting more money than what I know what to do with I've been going more towards the personality side in women. The more attractive sexy women just have that snide mindset to leech off of you for your cash and looks. The less attractive women tend to take care of you and cherish you for who you are because it seems like they know they wont be able to get anything better any time soon. Ontop of that, the more time you spend with a girl for her personality the quicker you tend to "fall" for her. Looks are only good for a one night stand honestly. >picture related, my job.

1 hours later 22040831 Anonymous
>>22039031 Personality and emotional/mental attributes go into whether I will form a positive or negative relationship with a person. Looks and physical attributes will determine whether or not I would entertain a sexual/romantic relationship with a person. If I get along well with someone but I'm not attracted to them, I'd be their friend but I wouldn't fuck/date them. If I find someone attractive but we don't really enjoy each other's company... might be open to casual sex if we got along okay as acquaintances but wouldn't have a long term emotional connection, but probably that wouldn't work out. Obviously any meaningful relationship is going to require both personal and physical attraction, so... yeah. In the long run it's not a meaningful question. Frankly, though, attractive people generally are kinder, smarter, more interesting, and so forth than unattractive people. This goes triple (as with most things) with fatties.

1 hours later 22040951 sumobrah
>>22039031 >personality >top lel http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxAD bp606xE

1 hours later 22040997 Anonymous
>>22039031 When I was fat I only cared about looks, now I'm looking for a woman that it's not only kinda cute but has a great personality and most important, I like spending time with her. Looks come and go.

1 hours later 22041012 Anonymous
>>22040736 It looks like your job is staring at another man's ass in dangerous situations.

1 hours later 22041053 Anonymous
>>22040736 >looks are only good for a one night stand what.

1 hours later 22041176 Anonymous
>>22040418 The anon who wrote this basically admits that it is all bullshit in the last paragraph, intentionally or not. The Desparation DOMS are just that, DOMS. They pass and you get gains on motivation and self-respect.

1 hours later 22041215 Anonymous
grill here why would i settle for one if their personality sucks our relationship will suck if they arent attractive then i'll eventually build resentment towards them or sex will not be good i wouldn't get in a relationship unless they are 100% perfect for me, sure my exes had flaws but its always been shit i didnt care about

1 hours later 22041257 Anonymous
need a mix of both. If a girl is hot as fuck with no personality then I'd just bang her and that's it; couldn't date her. If the girl is ugly and has an amazing personality, then all I think to myself is "what a shame." I'm sure there's a graph that would outline the hotness to personality curve where being so hot makes up for not having a personality (to a point) and having such a good personality makes up for not being hot (to a point).

1 hours later 22041280 Anonymous
>>22039031 > Does /fit/ go for personality or looks in a girl ? Both. However, personality has to be 9/10, looks only 8/10. I'm a choosy fucker. I'm also lonely. > Also has becoming /fit/ changed your expectations ? > implying I'm /fit/

1 hours later 22041301 Anonymous
>>22041215 >my exes had flaws but its always been shit i didnt care about. So why did you split with them? >i wouldn't get in a relationship unless they are 100% perfect for me At the time. People change over time, therefore they will become different. Then you split. People don't know what they want for all time. Long-term relationships that actually succeed often include loyalty in the face of this.

1 hours later 22041306 Anonymous (2202369_f496.jpg 496x605 47kB)
Get two. One for personality and one for looks just to fuck occasionally.

1 hours later 22041367 Anonymous
>>22041301 the first I fucked up with, didn't know what I wasted and accidentally the whole relationship by breaking up. will never forgive myself. the other one moved away, i deserved it for fucking up so badly with the first. ok and? even more reason for them to be perfect at the start since shit only goes down from there

2 hours later 22041422 Anonymous
>>22041215 >exes had flaws >shit i didnt care about Obviously you did, if you consider them "flaws", you stupid bitch.

2 hours later 22041448 Anonymous
>>22041301 not the grill, but I'll generally start dating someone I really click with and am obviously physically attracted to. If I get to know them and just keep falling for them, then awesome, we continue dating. Eventually, everyone changes, and it's just being able to deal with those changes, being accepting of them or whatever that keeps the relationship alive long term. my most recent ex didn't like the fact that I was constantly doing different things, and eventually when I pledged a frat (inb4 some faggot shit) we broke up because she was too insecure to deal with it.

2 hours later 22041486 Anonymous
>>22041448 >joining a frat fucking white people. Also, what's with the "people change" bullshit. The fuck is dramatically changing about you over time ?

2 hours later 22041487 Anonymous
>>22041306 Just be careful not to let them get too attached if you keep the same two for a while.

2 hours later 22041495 Anonymous
>>22041422 not the grill here, but really? you guys are turning into fucking R9K here, fucking resenting all women and being a bunch of faggots. My ex's had flaws too, even when we started dating. They're small flaws that you don't give a shit about. >small mole on my ex's ass, ended up becoming kinda cute when we were fucking doggy style >small personality defect, if it doesn't bother you then whatever it's not a big deal you clearly haven't been in a relationship man

2 hours later 22041519 Anonymous
>>22041486 >implying I'm white Well it's a bit of a long story with this ex. My grandmother died like 2 months before we broke up, and I was really reevaluating life (she pretty much raised me since both my parents were working) and I had some realizations, and sort of embraced my life a bit more and just thought that I want to meet more people and all that shit

2 hours later 22041529 Anonymous
Loyalty and dedication. I'm not looking at the moment, but some things I have learned. 1. Concentrate on developing yourself. Many people on /fit/ already know the value of this. Making gains, physical/mental/emotional. Building the person you want to be. 2. Don't go looking for companionship, sex, etc because you are lonely/horny/lacking status. These all mean you are just insecurities, they are obvious to others too. 3. Learn to distinguish between lust and attraction. It can happen when you meet someone with a compelling body or a compelling personality. You desire them in part. 4. For men: If she comes after you, gives a damn and actually cares as much as you do for her. Then let her come at you. Don't change, and she will know you are valuable. For women: Don't fear the boogeyman of a player or a cheat. In the end, you will soon become what you thought he would become, and all that hate you will direct outward, will be against yourself. Show commitment, don't fear rejection and roll with the punches.

2 hours later 22041555 Anonymous
>>22041422 >>22041422 broken noses and minor quirks are general flaws but they arent to me

2 hours later 22041569 Anonymous
>>22041486 >The fuck is dramatically changing about you over time Not having mutable characteristics is a literal case of retardation anon.

2 hours later 22041585 Anonymous
>>22041495 >implying I resent women >implying I haven't been in a relationship You obviously give some shit about them if you consider them flaws, dick fingers.

2 hours later 22041606 Anonymous
>>22041448 you are not changing that much over time but believe that almost everyone you meet will want to change you, and if you hold to your true self (if you have anything like it) then either they will accept it, or they won't be able to exist with you anymore this go for friends but also for girls, I have only few friends, but relationship with every one of them is several years long, we know each other well and just click together same with women, I don't like being changed and I am not afraid to let go of someone, who wants to change me. Obviously I'm not talking about positive things, like, change your laziness and go to school, but more in a way to slightly drag you down, even in subtle ways - cmon baby, have a cake with me. Well, I taste it a bit, compliment her on making it and say I will have more when I come back. You need to hold your ground.

2 hours later 22041629 Anonymous
>>22041555 >broken noses >injury >minor quirks >individual differences What kind of homogenous bullshit really exists?

2 hours later 22041678 Anonymous
>>22041495 Girls are pieces of shit

2 hours later 22041858 Anonymous
>>22041367 Well, to put it plainly then: There is no perfect. It feels like it is, but it isn't really. What you have is loyalty, love and dedication. DOMS and Gainz.

2 hours later 22041897 Anonymous
>>22039031 >dem chubby girls I just dont know. help

2 hours later 22041914 Anonymous
>>22041367 I know that feel. Miss her. Hope my Elise is doing good in life.

2 hours later 22041965 Anonymous
>being so beta you associate with women

2 hours later 22041971 Anonymous
>>22041914 Wait John is that you?

2 hours later 22042015 Anonymous
>>22041971 No.

2 hours later 22042032 Anonymous
>>22039031 Its sort of 50/50 for me. I date girls that alot of people tell me are below where I should be dating physically, But i actually look forward to hanging out with. as long as they are not repulsive (read as: as long as they can get my dick up) then they meet my standards physically. If i cant stand to be around them when they arent slapping my dick around, then i dont really care how hot they are.

2 hours later 22042088 Anonymous
>>22042015 Well fuck. Anyway Hi I'm Elise :)

2 hours later 22042132 Anonymous
>>22042088 Elise was her nickname. Cure fans, go figure. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cU6b Z6NtJCs

2 hours later 22042135 Anonymous (1375813839197.jpg 194x260 6kB)
>>22042088 i'm a grill btw

2 hours later 22042145 Anonymous
>>22039254 my nigga you just gave me the motivation to get up out of bed at 3:30 in the afternoon. I'm pretty depressed but those words are somehow meaningful to me. Thx anon. I was just having this convo with a friend (who's a grill) at the bar on Thursday. I was like "looks are everything to me" but I amended my statement with "also the attitude behind the looks." A 6/10 who is maximizing her potential is more impressive to me than a 8/10 natural beauty who doesn't work to improve herself because she is good enough already. My friend couldn't really seem to grasp that concept and kept going on about "chemistry." Like I give a fuck - bitch if you are good-looking enough, I will MAKE chemistry.

2 hours later 22042288 Anonymous
> gf is a little bit taller than me 5'8 > a little bit turn off > skinnyfat > isn't dumb, but also not that smart ( hard to explain ) > 10/10 face > personality as it best. She does all for me, always tries to help where she can and always surprises me with small things. First of all look is surely the most important thing in a relationship. afters weeks and and months it changes to personality. Its like 60/40.

2 hours later 22042318 stephen (IMG_5081.png 780x1041 1661kB)
why pick? mine has both

2 hours later 22042340 Anonymous
The girl I'm hung up on is not the most beautiful (6.5/10 although she has dem tits and dat ass), but she makes it for it personality wise. She studies biotechnology, PC gamer (not gamer gurrl type), enjoys long walks and has this mild awkwardness that is really endearing. I want to get her out of her mind seeing as though we live in different countries (and I sort of fucked up when I had the chance to hook up with her), but I guess it's the fact that I rarely ever stumble upon that type of girl that makes it hard to forget her. I guess I should man up or just move to Eastern Europe and hope I can find another qt 3.14 like her.

2 hours later 22042455 Anonymous
>>22042318 Well that's the true prize, of course. We all want a girl who was born with natural beauty but also works to improve upon herself instead of coasting through life.

2 hours later 22042472 Fox
>>22042318 I'll tell you what she doesn't have: an ass.

2 hours later 22042492 Anonymous
>>22039031 Why do people still think that having standards that you yourself have met of other people is being shallow? Having standards is not the same as being shallow.

2 hours later 22042502 Anonymous
>>22042472 i think that's almost enough ass but then again i don't like big ass anyway

3 hours later 22042511 stephen
>>22042455 she was actually a chubaroo when we first started dating, but I turned her into a cardiobunny.

3 hours later 22042523 stephen
>>22042472 we're working on it

3 hours later 22042575 Anonymous
>>22042511 Yeah you saw the potential in her, thats good bro.

3 hours later 22042658 Fox
>>22042523 lol good. I wish you the best.

3 hours later 22042691 Anonymous
>>22039031 Looks, they draw me in, that chemistry. Need that shit man or there just isn't a point. But fuck em if they're dense and act retarded, fuck around with them and then fuck off, stay the fuck away from sluts. Hot, mature, intelligent women are fucking rare. Marry the first one that swallows and keep her happy, hope she doesn't fuck around on your stupid ass. Leave her and never look back the moment she does.

3 hours later 22042863 Anonymous
>>22042318 all we can tell from this picture is that she's (if it's a female) not fat, and doesn't see the sun often.

3 hours later 22042944 stephen (IMG_3925.jpg 1936x1936 552kB)
>>22042863 from last summer, dropped ~30lbs

3 hours later 22043105 Anonymous
>>22042944 Doesn't even hoist brah.

3 hours later 22043207 Anonymous
>>22042944 Your my inspiration now.. Femanon admirer.

3 hours later 22043373 Anonymous
>>22039031 don't ever fall for that "personality only counts, looks are shallow" dogma that people (mainly womyn) like to throw these days. Looks are really important and it's our biological imperative to seek out the healthiest looking females that'd produce healthy offspring to ensure a high rate of survival. Sure, personality is desirable but no matter how good it is, I just can't do repulsive looking fat women whatsoever.

3 hours later 22043563 Anonymous
>>22043373 This. People don't ever really fall for the "personality only counts" thing either. In the back of their mind they know who is qt and who us ugly, they have that 1-10 scale. Like you said, people only push that when they are ugly or with someone ugly to rationalize it to themselves and stay comfy in their mind.

3 hours later 22043595 Anonymous
>>22042944 does she like getting DP'ed?

4 hours later 22043680 Anonymous
>>22043563 The thing that pisses me off is that womyn are allowed to shun betas who exhibit low confidence, charisma, below-par social skills, no car or high-profile jobs, high amount of intelligence, social value and the list goes on. Men on the other hand don't hold out such standards for women but since we just expect them to be fairly pretty and in healthy shape, we're suddenly the shallow assholes. I may be a bit of beta but I'm in good shape, physically fit and expect my women to at least uphold a minimal of those bodily standards as well. Everyone is this world has to prove their god damn worth like everyone else.

4 hours later 22043773 Anonymous
>>22043680 >Men on the other hand don't hold out such standards for women No shit, that doesn't really affect physical/emotional attractiveness of a female to a male at all. If anything, it can make them more endearing (besides the intelligence part). I'd take a shy aspie 7/10 grill any day.

4 hours later 22044002 Anonymous
Before I got /fit/, I had sex three times in the five years after I lost my virginity to a fat chick. One was a second round with the fat chick, but the other two were with a girl way, way beyond my league. She was hot, but thanks to a long string of hookups followed by a cheating boyfriend, she was desperate to prove to herself that she could be a long-term relationship girl again, and that's when she met me. Chick was dumb as shit, a major-league cunt, and her friends were worse. But I was a lonely, horny beta. So I dated her for six months, and we had sex twice during that time. In hindsight, I would seriously be surprised if she wasn't fucking ten other dudes behind my back. Six months I put up with that shit, the last three of those just for the memory of sex. When I finally got tired of it, sacked up and dumped her, I basically swore off dumb girls forever. Then I turned my life around. Got /fit/, transferred to a much better school, got my grades up, got a job, a car, and an apartment with no roommates. Started going out and being less of a sperg. Now I haven't seen her in years, but I'm thankful for the motivation. I made it, brahs. I was fucking girls hotter than her (though just as dumb) on a regular basis, for virtually zero effort, for about a year before I met my gf (who is hotter, smarter, and not a cunt). Being /fit/ was the first and most important step to thinking of myself as a man worthy of good things. /fit/ helped me get there. It's not being "shallow" or not, it's having the option to be shallow that matters; without that option we're not choosing good women, we're just taking what's given us.

4 hours later 22044068 Anonymous (1330062330881.jpg 518x364 63kB)
>>22044002 >So I dated her for six months, and we had sex twice during that time Oh my fuck, that's... jesus

4 hours later 22044081 Anonymous
>>22044002 Thanks for the motivation man. Maybe not so much about the dating dumb cunts but about becoming /fit/ as a first step out of spergtopia , I sense dumb cunts in my future, may zyzz give me the wisdom to see them when they arise

4 hours later 22044099 Anonymous (1376720974389.jpg 251x241 8kB)
>>22044002 Grats on the GF though brah, how big is your dick bt dubs? >tfw 5"x4" babby dick

4 hours later 22044109 Anonymous (1374189590469.jpg 1280x1707 454kB)
>>22044002 Keep it up bro. You started out beta as fuck, but you're gonna make it. Pic for your motivation

4 hours later 22044116 Anonymous (1364699036387.jpg 320x300 24kB)
>>22044099 >bt dubs

4 hours later 22044184 Anonymous
>>22043680 It's shallow because it's a lot harder to find a girl who is fit and hot than it is to find a girl who has a nice personality. anyone can smile and pretend to be a decent human being. but having a tight ass and slim waist is out of the comprehension of most females. and of course fat girls are going to complain that you're shallow because they're lonely and wanting.

4 hours later 22044192 Anonymous
>>22044099 Six inches (a little longer right now because I'm at the end of a cut, but that shouldn't count because I'm below my target weight). Nothing to brag about. Try putting the girl on her back and pushing her legs up to her ears - you should be able to pound cervix with a 5" dick if you go hard. >>22044068 Worse than that - sex twice in six months, AND this with a "reformed" slut who had fucked nameless dudes in bar bathrooms. Yeah, beta as fuck.

4 hours later 22044219 Anonymous (1354089055775.jpg 720x576 79kB)
>>22044192 >ex twice in six months, AND this with a "reformed" slut who had fucked nameless dudes in bar bathrooms That's fucking terrifying, did she go clubbing all the time when she was going out with you? Fucking hell, that's, jesus, shit.

4 hours later 22044257 Anonymous
>>22044192 Bro, she was totally cheating on you...sorry.

4 hours later 22044265 Anonymous
>>22044192 Also, where did you meet your girlfriend? I mean, when I don't look like shit I'll probably go clubbing just to get over my spergers, but I don't know if I really want to GF a club slut.

4 hours later 22044289 Anonymous
>>22044184 ermmm it's called making the god damn effort. From my personal experience, it's a lot easier to improve on your looks than it is to improve on your innate personality. It's not like I can suddenly snap out of being an aspie or overcome any obstacles of somesort related to my social skills. I have a raspy highpitched voice which women don't find attractive, especially when I stutter sometimes and I can't fucking change that!

4 hours later 22044322 Anonymous (rock_cooking.gif 300x141 2041kB)
> tfw never dated it sounds cosy

4 hours later 22044340 Anonymous
>>22044289 if you think its easy for women to get to the gym and work out then you really don't understand women at all. which sucks for you because you probably want to get laid a lot.

4 hours later 22044389 Anonymous
>>22044322 is that from Pain and Gain?

4 hours later 22044430 Anonymous
>>22044389 yes

4 hours later 22044454 Anonymous
>>22039031 I srs don't prioritize looks. As long as she is average, not ugly, it's cool. protip: don't seek relationships with hot ones.

4 hours later 22044462 Anonymous
I have 2 choices /fit/ need opinion girl 1 >lifts >squats >dat ass >small tits >8/10 >husky deep voice for a chick still looks cute as fuck though >5'6 girl 2 >pixy girl >90lbs 5'1 >all cardio ..light weights >feminine voice both can be ditzy but they seem normal enough..around the same age.

4 hours later 22044497 Anonymous
>>22044462 girl 2. i like girls i can toss around in the bedroom. i think just outed myself as dyel but whatever.

4 hours later 22044509 Anonymous
>used to fuck any girl that wasn't disgusting who would have sex with me >working toward /fit/hood >implying most girls even make me hard anymore

4 hours later 22044541 Anonymous
>>22044462 Girl two and get her to start squatting, then she'll be fucking perfect

4 hours later 22044548 Anonymous (hell+yea+fuck+women+right+_3d0f039197774fe991fc5dd0c5c3c982.png 1063x191 24kB)
>>22044340 You're just as pathetic as those self-entitled, whiny betas who complain about the friendzones and expect the world to be handed to them on a silver platter just because they're 'nice'. No, it doesn't work like that. Everyone's gotta make the god damn effort to prove their worth. For those who aren't lucky in the gene lottery: "working out is too hard", "healthy eating is too boring"- well tough shit. You have to go through the grind of things in life whether you like it or not.

4 hours later 22044774 Anonymous
>>22044548 how am i pathetic? i'm not looking for a gf. i'm not involved in this. i have no dog in this fight. i'm just delivering real talk. if you're on here and you're a self described "beta" an attractive girl who seriously works out is out of your league. sorry if that's not what you want to hear but it's the truth.

4 hours later 22044792 Anonymous
>>22040733 I feel fucking sorry for you. I know of happy couples and families where the wife/mother is the glue holding everything together. i'm not saying that's the norm, but it exists. Your head is a fucking fantasy land.

4 hours later 22044793 Anonymous
>>22044462 i don't get it. the only difference is the voice? but girl 1 is way better? girl 1 4 sho your subconscious out her at 1 for a reason

5 hours later 22045414 Anonymous
Theres not a single woman on earth i'd trust so i just have sex, due to this i only go for looks

6 hours later 22045884 Anonymous
>>22040418 After reading the first paragraph i can tell he's trying waaaaaaay too hard. Maybe the middle has some decent advice but i don't feel like reading it after that.

6 hours later 22045997 Anonymous
personally i'd love good looks on any girl i'm with, short or long term but really it's more important to me to have a girl who can actually think and have logical thoughts for themselves. airheaded 7-8/10s piss me the fuck off

6 hours later 22046156 Anonymous
I'm 6'1" 220 lbs (fat) I started bulking a couple months ago and I'm seeing the results. My ideal women changes from time to time, But I've always wanted them to be shorter than men. I've never been violent, but the idea of dominating a petite qt is a fantasy of mine. I's suppose that you could read into it and say that I'd want a grill with a submissive personality. I certainly wouldn't be interested in a womyn with strong independence. I kinda just want to be able to treat my qt and protect her... Want to hold her and take her places that she'd enjoy.

9 hours later 22048683 Anonymous
>>22044265 I met current gf at a party. Not a big frat party with eighty people or anything, just a smaller one with about 20 or so, most of whom I already knew. She was a friend of a friend, I literally bumped into her, refused to apologize for stepping on her feet, and we hit it off from there.

9 hours later 22048908 Anonymous
>>22041486 >Not joining a frat Fucking GDI virgin.

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