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2013-07-10 06:08 21214283 Anonymous (Screenshot_2013-06-13-12-03-07.png 720x1280 533kB)
So I'm down /fit/, I have no reason to be, I've practically made it. 6'0 8/10 facial aesthetics 3 7.5/10 qt 3.14's whenever I want Bretty good natty physique Nice job, motorcycle, house But I'm not happy. When do I get to enjoy making it..?

1 min later 21214306 Anonymous
when you step out of that closet anon

1 min later 21214308 Anonymous
>>21214283 You have make it when you finally reach happiness and leave 4chan.

2 min later 21214316 Anonymous
>>21214308 This Try leaving 4chump for a couple of months and see how you do

3 min later 21214338 Anonymous
>>21214283 Maybe you need a new goal, something to strive for. Go learn a language or something.

4 min later 21214351 Anonymous
>>21214316 B-but I love you guys...

6 min later 21214381 Anonymous
>>21214338 I speak three mang, I'm constantly learning, took up a biochem class and some art recently. I've even tried going to church, it's like nothing is good enough for me. I've devoted so much time to natty gains and getting 10/10's average koreans that nothing works for me. Anyone else know these feels?

6 min later 21214391 Anonymous
why do you have to leave 4chan? so many people say this but i don't understand the reasoning. i enjoy coming here and dont see how it effects me socially

7 min later 21214402 Anonymous
Stop finding happiness in what you've achieved. Happiness is innate my friend, no amount of external success will bring that warm feeling.

8 min later 21214432 Anonymous
Fall in love

11 min later 21214479 Anonymous
Help others. "There's greater happiness in giving than receiving." That's a biblical proverb, I just can't recall what text it is exactly

12 min later 21214491 Anonymous
>>21214432 Maybe it's this... I mean I'm 24, marriage seems like a possibility, but the women who I'd be interested in a long term relationship don't really want anything to do with me. Take this qt I've been seeing (pic related) she told me "you looked like you'd be an arrogant prick until I got to know you" and I feel like decent women see me this way.

13 min later 21214504 Anonymous
>>21214491 >sends nude photos >tats >marriage material

13 min later 21214507 Anonymous
If you strive to find happiness, you'll find it difficult to do so. You'll become anxious when you find that you do not enjoy something you expected to bring you happiness, likely because you were expecting it to make you happy, ultimately worsening over time if you let yourself continue to worry about this shit. Contentment is your goal, not happiness. Happiness is a fleeting state of mind that often occurs when you're not actively seeking it. When I say contentment is your goal, do not actively seek it out either. Relax and live your life as though you don't particularly care about happiness or contentment (you are likely content right now anyway - not "happy", but definitely not "sad" either). If it happens it happens, if it doesn't well, meh, it's just water off a duck's back. Read about the paradox of hedonism. TL;DR: Don't worry about being happy.

15 min later 21214534 Anonymous
>>21214504 That's what I'm saying man, chicks that are fun to hang with and give me attention like pic related aren't girls I want to end up with.

17 min later 21214555 Anonymous
Start meditating.

17 min later 21214557 Anonymous
>>21214504 >implying not all women are like this >implying tattoos somehow make someone a slut Is this 1940?

18 min later 21214560 Anonymous (image.jpg 400x400 59kB)
Wow, fuck you buddy (OP)

18 min later 21214565 Anonymous
>>21214534 don't know what you tell ya brah. you have made it more than most 24 year olds. I'm 24 and still floundering around trying to figure out what career I want to do. This year I have made a shit ton of changes and keep myself busy studying and working out. I really think you need to be constantly trying to improve yourself in some way to feel satisfied.

19 min later 21214581 Anonymous
>>21214557 Yeah man tattoos are hot I don't get that part, I mean I just want a well rounded girl that's made, the type of girl that's smarter than me but isn't a cunt about it, someone that has hobbies and shit.

22 min later 21214623 Anonymous
I guess I just needed to vent, I'm being a real pussy. thanks for not being assholes about it. We're all gonna make it brahs.

23 min later 21214639 Anonymous
>>21214283 >pls be in london

24 min later 21214653 Anonymous
>>21214623 we as humans always want more. the key to beating this ideology is to meditate. people are like hue meditate for them spritual gains but really it is so boring as fuck that once you're done you're like life isn't os shitty wtf

25 min later 21214669 Anonymous
Find a hobby. Something you want to become amazing at and strive to do that. For me its mountaineering and it makes me happy as fuck. I look forward to every day off I have so I can get in to the mountains.

25 min later 21214672 Anonymous
>>21214557 enjoy getting cheated on

26 min later 21214682 Anonymous
Find something you like, then make sure not to spend too much time doing that, it really improves the time you spend on whatever you enjoy. I personally like to browse 4chan, game and read, but I have so much other bullshit to do, that I roughly only spend 1 - 2 hours on it a day.

27 min later 21214692 Anonymous
OP quit being a fucking queer and post a pic of your facial aesthetics.

27 min later 21214699 Anonymous
>>21214381 travel, nothing compares to experiencing the world

28 min later 21214708 Anonymous
>>21214491 Deal with your insecurities. Why is that you feel the need to post about these things here? Do you want to feel loved? That girl's pic was absolutely unecessary. You are not your face, voice, job, amount of friends, amount of good friends, the love you get from others. No, you exist and you are worthy of unconditional love. So love yourself, and it will reflect back from the world.

29 min later 21214722 Anonymous
>>21214283 When you settle down and have children

29 min later 21214725 Anonymous
>>21214699 I agree, but you can only realistically travel so much due to job time constraints and budget

34 min later 21214780 Anonymous
>>21214708 I'm just being a bitch today man, wondering if people have similar feels.

35 min later 21214795 Anonymous
>>21214725 well finding time and money could be a new pursuit in the meantime. save up. quit eventually. travel third world shitholes and live for nothing while experiencing new cultures and lands. sounds like fun to me.

35 min later 21214796 Anonymous
>>21214381 Iktf dude...

36 min later 21214812 Anonymous
>>21214795 im not OP btw. I plan on doing just that, I want to plan a trip driving from cairo to capetown. Just got back from a trip to japan.

37 min later 21214818 Anonymous
>>21214283 Weight?

41 min later 21214873 Anonymous
>>21214780 That's fine, but there was wisdom in that post. Maybe I'm just assuming you need to learn those lessons because I struggle with looking for external validation every day instead of cultivating real validation from myself.

41 min later 21214878 Anonymous
>>21214812 thats my intent in like two years, just graduating college and have a trip lined up. was thinking of starting in cape town actually and working my way up through egypt into the mid east, kind of funny i had the same/opposite idea.

41 min later 21214882 Anonymous
>>21214818 I was 175 in pic

41 min later 21214889 Anonymous
>>21214878 job lined up*

43 min later 21214905 Anonymous
>>21214873 True man, I lived in south america doing humanitarian for 2 years, I've seen the world. I think my problem is I need validation from others, which is a downfall. I need to be content within myself.

43 min later 21214906 Anonymous
>>21214283 read the sticky

43 min later 21214913 Anonymous
>>21214878 have you been to africa before? I've been to a few countries in the south but the north is a whole different world. A few shady sections in that trip like deciding between sudan/congo. Really want to see egypt and morroco especially, ethiopia is supposed to be amazing for nature.

45 min later 21214943 Anonymous (Screenshot_2013-07-10-10-52-54.png 720x1280 504kB)
>>21214692 K man.

48 min later 21214996 Anonymous
>>21214913 been to morocco when i was a kid, dont remember a lot aside from volcanoes and desert. been to south africa botswana and zimbabwe in the south, pretty chill and super tourist friendly. my parents lived in equatorial guinea (super small island in the armpit) before i was born so i have a general understanding what that area is like. i kind of figured that i would probably ride along the east coast up and try to avoid a lot of the sketch in the center by staying in places that are more used to white people. still a long ways off though. also i want to see egypt so much as well, im a classics major (lolz worthless degree) so ive always been into that tomb and pyramid shit.

51 min later 21215023 Anonymous
>>21214996 awesome, I've been to SA, botswana and zim as well.. mostly botswana. Also zambia (vic falls) and namibia but only for a very short period of time.

52 min later 21215040 Anonymous
>>21214943 8/10 fucking topkek you look like a brick

52 min later 21215043 Anonymous
>>21214913 oh also cape town in south africa is amazing and im sure a great end to your trip but while in south africa dont forget to check out durban on the east coast. seriously such a cool city and has some awesome surfing with giant shark nets. fun fact: there are guys whose job it is to untangle sharks that get caught in the newer nets they put up. the balls on them.

54 min later 21215060 Anonymous
>>21215023 i was on the zimbabwe side of the falls, pretty awesome. in all honesty im more excited to try out the mideast, never experienced it.

1 hours later 21215814 Anonymous
>>21214943 8/10 you say?

1 hours later 21215866 Anonymous
>>21214943 Manuel get back on the set. The women are waiting.

1 hours later 21215913 Anonymous
Struggle is what make us happy. You had too little struggles in your life.

3 hours later 21218045 Anonymous
>>21214283 Create something, OP. Write, compose, paint, sculpt, etc. This is the only thing that made me happy so far. Although I'm a pathetic virgin so I don't what is being loved like. I bet that feels good too.

3 hours later 21218088 Anonymous
>>21215814 >>21215040 he is 8/10 at least lol

3 hours later 21218128 Anonymous
happiness comes from within

3 hours later 21218146 Anonymous
>>21214283 >when gf seriously one night stands are ok at age like 17-20 then it gets boring and nice smart loyal cutie (cooking chicken with brocolli is optional) is so much more than sluts

3 hours later 21218211 Anonymous
>>21215040 >>21215814 Neckbeards detected

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