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2013-07-01 07:59 21004440 Anonymous (0548133463.jpg 2592x1936 357kB)
>Tfw look in the mirror. See I have amazing proportions. A good hairline. Relatively good looks. Good skin. A sick looking adonis belt, naturally wide shoulders >Realize I haven't really put any of those to use, had 1 gf, been to a few parties >Keep telling myself my "fun" life will start when i get to the next step (School, going to a better school, graduating) >Realize the bulk of those years are already passing me by I'm a 19 year old engineering major (Turning 20 this year). I feel like I'm getting old. I feel like I've missed out on all the fun party life others had the chance to have. How old am I really guys ;_;. I won't be graduating til I'm 23, and even then I'll be going straight for my phD. I just wanna be in my aesthetic prime and have my fashion, looks, social/party life all top notch. so /fit/...w-when is the aesthetic prime of your life? When you look your best, get mad pussy, fuck girls at that age that look better than any other age, have the freedom/money to fucking love every day cuz right now i wake up in da morning n hate living, throw my cps and ilu sweats on and go to my engineering class that smells like piss, then try to work through seas of neckbeards discussing their LoL match over the weekend.

2 min later 21004466 Anonymous
Dude guys have it good. If you end up being successful you will be able to have fun almost your entire life. We have the potential to look good way longer than girls do and even then if you are making the dosh you can get younger girls still. Don't even worry about it, your time will come.

3 min later 21004494 Anonymous
>so /fit/...w-when is the aesthetic prime of your life? when you go out and get it. I'm in a seriously similar situation as you, minus the school and instead work. Turning 20 at the start of August and all I've been doing the past two months is freaking out about how little I've done in my teen years. Co-worker of mine last week said "see your still in that high school mentality of opportunities will present themselves to you, but the moment you get your HS diploma that all goes out the window. no one cares about you except your family, no one is going to sacrifice jack for themselves to further you, it's all on you now" and so now I've been working out and reading everyday for the past week. gonna start school this fall as well.

3 min later 21004495 Anonymous
>>21004440 When you're two >bitches dressing you up and people taking pics like you a celeb >sucking on bitches titties >sleeping whenever the fuck you want to >hitting your macros with apple sauce and mashed peas

4 min later 21004498 Anonymous
First of all, you are not old. I am 29 and I am still having the time of my life. I have been in various stages of fitness and rarely (but not never) has it impacted my fun in life. Second, do not get your PhD wtf are you doing. Unless you're discovering the Higgs Boson, take your talents to the private sector. Cash rules everything around me CREAM get the money dollar dollar bills y'all.

4 min later 21004505 Anonymous (sides.gif 615x413 2069kB)
>>21004495

6 min later 21004552 Anonymous
>>21004440 Lol OP. You do realise /fit/ is 25-30 year old tfw no gf who mostly didn't goto college/uni and just work pleb jobs while lifting and counting calories while having sex with 5/10s on the weekends because most girls are ugly as fuck and it's hard to find anyone above 8/10. If you didn't realise it by now I just described myself. At least you're going to get a good education and get to work some easy mode job for probably 6 digit income working less hours/days with no where near as much physical work as I do.

6 min later 21004553 Anonymous
just graduated high school and i feel the same. it's like i missed out on that time when we're supposed to be able to just "go out and have a good time." The way i see it though, there are people who are naturally of this mindset, and people who are naturally more cautious and stuff. if you're in the latter category, and youre feeling like every time you go out it's forced, then you're probably not doing yourself any favors by being upset. idk. id say try to find hobbies where you're actually doing things you like. hiking or some shit. that's the only way you'll have genuinely memorable experiences and form real relationships

8 min later 21004573 Anonymous
>People are turning 20 and 21 and are feeling old. I'm a 22 year old GED holder with 4 years of IT experience. I missed the "college" experience and the "Highschool" experience and spend the majority of my time around computers. Real life doesn't "Happen" nor does pussy "Make it happen" for you. You have to go out there and just say "fuck it" Vague advice but god damn, I'm trying my hardest to bring fulfillment to myself.

8 min later 21004576 Anonymous
Unlike women, men are always in their prime. Go out and start lifting, and be the man the 7 year old you wanted be.

9 min later 21004616 Anonymous
>>21004495 god damn I wish I could remember the earliest days. Fucking amnesia

11 min later 21004639 Anonymous
>>21004495 >tfw alpha prime passed and I don't even remember it

19 min later 21004775 Anonymous
>>21004440 Once you reach a certain age you realize RL isn't a movie. The people who still party by 22-23 are few in number, most just get on with other things in life.

21 min later 21004817 Anonymous
>>21004495 Based Gerbers

26 min later 21004883 Anonymous
>turn 25 today >moved out when I was 24 >be a recluse most of my 20s >done school never really partied >have sex once my entire college years >just moved out >started going to keggers, bars and clubs >finally learn to socialize and meet women >have the time of my life life isn't some linear progression, its bursts of growth. Do all this shit at your own speed and explore the shit that interests you and gives you a thrill. life isn't about doing what everyone else does.

27 min later 21004906 Anonymous
>>21004440 FUCK dude. Wait for the paris society. All I can say. If your face is actually above average, their shit is made for guys like you and I.

29 min later 21004941 Anonymous
Join a fraternity

30 min later 21004945 Anonymous
>>21004552 It's not like that brah. I don't want easy. I am not an engineer for cash. You know the engineers from prometheus? I'm becoming the IRL version of that motherfucker. Versed in every language Professional pilot Fit as fuck Astronaut' fuck a 9-5 i got galaxies to conquer m80

30 min later 21004951 Anonymous
>>21004906 >I Me.

31 min later 21004977 Anonymous
>>21004440 learn2letgo&havefun its honestly a life skill. start going to bars on friday or saturday. get a few drinks in and socialize. anyone that said highschool/college/20s are the best years of your life an unimaginative fucktards that live in the past

33 min later 21005001 Anonymous
>>21004440 >not realizing that late 20s/early 30s are male prime what is wrong with you. females lives go to shit after 25, they're basically a non factor after 30. males keep gaining social value

33 min later 21005003 Anonymous
Why do you do this OP? I'm 27 and you're bumming me the fuck out

35 min later 21005022 Anonymous
>>21004440 Dude, im the same as you. Eng major, 19 turning 20 this year, wont graduate until 22/23. Never had a qt3.14 gf, or nay girl to talk to because im too shy/shit at socializing. I mean, I wouldnt mind talking, but i just dont know what to talk about. Ive got a wierd accent as well, so a lot of time people dont understand me. Happens rarely now. But maaan, theres never a day where i dont think about how much of a failure I am.

37 min later 21005049 Anonymous
>>21005022 I'm op and if we're similar, you're making excuses just as I was before I got my first gf. I literally just walked up to her on the street on halloween last year and said "you are cute. Hi I'm anon" ofc i couldnt sustain that relationship cause i dont have the lifestyle for it and she wasnt even a student so she partied every day

38 min later 21005053 Anonymous
>>21004440 Bro....you aren't old. I'm 30, most friends are early 20's. we fukn party every weekend. I also look vary young. Had/have a baby face. It is a but more defined now as I get older, but I still look young as fuck. I don't fuck with teen girls, but I could pull them if I wanted . I get approached by 14-18 year olds fairly often. You aren't old at all. Your best days are ahead.

39 min later 21005077 Anonymous
>>21004440 I sometimes think like this OP but only when really depressed and unhappy. Stop this mindset before you hang yourself

39 min later 21005083 Anonymous
>>21005022 you are like me read >>21004883 honestly the "good years" of your life isn't some window of time that you use up or not. YOU decide when you want to do shit in your life. >school >workout >get drunk on weekends what more do you want? drinking a bit won't destroy your life. go out and just have a fun night, then maybe approach a few girls. you can't fail at this shit man. trust me. If a 25 year old aspie recluse can change some shit around in his life. you can too.

41 min later 21005105 Anonymous
>engineering major Get your intern on. Get hired into a company out of bachelors. Get masters on their dime (many, many engineering jobs will have tuition assistance as a benefit). See if you want to continue to PhD after that. If you get a scholarship for your masters, go for it I guess, but no reason to go into debt when you can start earning perfectly good cash with a bachelors >alhEdit Lift

41 min later 21005106 Anonymous
>>21004906 Stop it, man. Not cool.

41 min later 21005115 Anonymous
>>21005083 >He doesnt know what it's like to have 3-4x the credit hours of a regular full course load psychology or biology student Weekends are essential. If I ever wanted free time to go out to a party, it'd have to be friday only, i'd have to be at home in bed by 12 and drinking is a no no because i need to keep my schedule consistent to wake up the next day at 8 to study

42 min later 21005137 Anonymous (What am I Doing with my Life.gif 360x202 164kB)
>>21004440 >tfw was in prime of life >tfw get diagnosed with handicapping disease >tfw feels like I lost 10 years off of my life Fuck this bullshit. I don't have security anymore and all my relatives are overbearing except for my father, who seems to be the only one to understand that I just want my autonomy back and I'd be happy again. >tfw inherit something no one else in your family line has ever had or shown signs of

44 min later 21005150 Anonymous
>>21005049 I dont have a the guts to do that. But I made a bet with my friends, cuz i lost to them in blackjack, that i would go and ask out any girl when we go clubbing. Im planning to do exactly what you did, though ill be a bit drunk. lets see how it goes. Im just scared of what they will say to me. Ive always been fat most of my life, just last year i started get into fitness. Ive changed a lot since then, people sort of comment on how much ive changed etc etc. But I still feel like shit, due to all the bullying I got back in highschool and primary school due to bullying. does help that 2 girls who we used to hang out said that i looked ugly.

44 min later 21005152 Anonymous
>>21004906 What is that?

45 min later 21005178 Anonymous
>>21005106 ? Are you in? >>21005152 Nothing, brah.

47 min later 21005194 Anonymous
>>21005178 You're so special, enjoy your secret club.

47 min later 21005197 Anonymous
>>21004440 damn bro im a 20 and im a senior in college for engineering

49 min later 21005226 Anonymous
I'm majoring in accounting Whenever I see threads where I read about people majoring in Engi or Theoretical Physics I just feel like a total pleb ;_;

50 min later 21005231 Anonymous
>>21004573 I know this feel anon

50 min later 21005242 Anonymous
>>21005226 >tfw in psychology and everyone in these threads laughs because everyone is STEM mustard race

51 min later 21005255 Anonymous
>>21005226 Don't feel bad, imagine how hard they have it lel

52 min later 21005266 Anonymous
>>21005197 I would be graduating next year, had i not partially failed my first 2 year of uni. Realized my mistake, got into another uni. Benn studying like i should have been studying from the start.Will be getting HD's all the way. I promise. not op.

52 min later 21005271 Anonymous
>>21005255 >imagine how hard they have it I'm pretty sure they have a bigger brain than me, so they probably do not have it very hard

53 min later 21005282 Anonymous
>>21005226 I relate with every word in this post

53 min later 21005285 Anonymous
I love it when I hear people talking about how "old" they are. My friend just graduated college at 22 and she was talking about this the other day--shes also probably the stupidest girl I've ever met just so you know who you're on par with. Once you leave college and work with adults for a year you'll gain some perspective on your life. When I was in trade school I studied with 35 year olds who were starting a new careers. When I was living in Asia I met 25 year olds with money than they could spend, at 23 I'm going back to college and I don't even think my life will start until I'm 30 OP theres no point leaving your school now, but holy fuck just put in your hard work and make sure you get a good job when you're outt. I promise you, life doesn't start until you're 30. Meaningful life anyways. You don't get much exposure to adults and the way the world is when you're in high school and college, yet Western media has convinced everyone that adulthood starts at 18, and you should be fully integrated by then. By the time you're 1 year out of college you will be COMPLETELY different from who you are now Also, if you don't want to be a bum dress up. I don't even wear jeans anymore unless I'm going to the grocery store. Wear black khaki's or dress pants

53 min later 21005297 Anonymous
>>21005271 You have better grammar than OP, so there's that

54 min later 21005304 Anonymous
>>21005271 their brains are normal size i assure you, just follow your dreams man and dont worry about other people

54 min later 21005308 Anonymous
>>21005255 imagine how hard it is to choose "Accounting" as your life profession NUMBER CRUNCHAN SUIT WEARAN QUIET OFFICAN DEPRESSED SHITPOSTAN STABLE FINANCIALLYAN KIDS DONT LOOK UP TO YOUAN WIFE LEAVES YOU CAUSE YOURE A PUSSYAN

56 min later 21005329 Anonymous (320166_228948873833518_183365861725153_644344_1161627039_n.jpg 214x236 16kB)
>>21005308 My coffee

56 min later 21005331 Anonymous
bro you can look good and fuck bitches into your 60s keep yourself in shape and increase your wealth as you get older nothing has passed you by unless you're 100 and dying

56 min later 21005344 Anonymous
>>21005308 Everything in this post applies to engineers too fyi It's like nobody on /fit/ has any actual experience with engineering other than what stem trolls like to spout

59 min later 21005385 Anonymous
>>21005344 Sorry brah. Astronautical engineer here. DESIGNING MY OWN PROTOTYPE DRAWUPS TO SCOUT PLANETS AT THE EDGE OF OUR SOLAR SYSTEMAN BECOMING AN ASTRONAUTAN BEING A HERO TO ALL KIDSAN BEING ON DA FOREFRONT OF SPACE EXPLORAN GALAXY CONQUERAN 300K STARTAN-AN damn thank you momma for buyin me legos as a kid and not a fucking typewriter. I almost chose "Accounting" as my life long profession!

1 hours later 21005390 Anonymous
>>21005304 Err... I forgot that size doesn't matter, but neural connections matter or something along those lines. >>21005297 I grammar can be bad too.

1 hours later 21005410 Anonymous
>>21005385 damn 300k starting? wheres this at mate?

1 hours later 21005414 Anonymous
Delusions of a first year "engineer" general?

1 hours later 21005419 Anonymous
>>21005308 >suit wearan badass >quit offican Not bad >depressed shitpostan Possible >kids dont look up to youan Possible unless you do something about it >wife leaves you cause you're a pussyan possible unless you do something about it

1 hours later 21005427 Anonymous
>>21005255 I envy the non stems that have somewhat useful degrees. You guys get to do college right. You see shows you have gf and get married. STEMs are autistic, and self centered and because of lack of social contact have to be treated like children.

1 hours later 21005428 Anonymous
>>21004440 I will start studying only at 23 because I fucked up life and had those "parties" and couldn't wait You're better off continuing like that OP, time will come

1 hours later 21005437 myfitdiary
>Tfw look in the mirror. See I have amazing proportions. A good hairline. Relatively good looks. Good skin. A sick looking adonis belt, naturally wide shoulders >Realize I haven't really put any of those to use, had 1 gf, been to a few parties You can't be that good looking if the party doesn't come to you. Dorian Gray didn't even have to try. What have you got? Nothing.

1 hours later 21005460 Anonymous
>>21005410 M8 u need a 10 inch dick and balls bigger than europa to be an astronautical engineer u gotta be more like this guy http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Story_ Musgrave >Story Musgrave attended Dexter School, Brookline, Massachusetts and St. Mark's School, Southborough, Massachusetts, from 1947 to 1953, but left school shortly before graduation and before receiving his high school diploma. He received a BS degree in mathematics and statistics from Syracuse University in 1958, an MBA degree in operations analysis and computer programming from the University of California, Los Angeles in 1959, a BA degree in chemistry from Marietta College in 1960, an M.D. degree from Columbia University College of Physicians and Surgeons in 1964, an MS in physiology and biophysics from the University of Kentucky in 1966 and a MA in literature from the University of Houston–Clear Lake in 1987.[5] >He is a member of Phi Delta Theta, Alpha Kappa Psi, the American Association for the Advancement of Science, Beta Gamma Sigma, the Civil Aviation Medical Association, the Flying Physicians Association, the International Academy of Astronautics, the Marine Corps Aviation Association, the National Aeronautic Association, the National Aerospace Education Council, the National Geographic Society, the Navy League, the New York Academy of Sciences, Omicron Delta Kappa, the Soaring Club of Houston, the Soaring Society of America and the United States Parachute Association.

1 hours later 21005481 Anonymous
>>21005410 >in his mind

1 hours later 21005495 Anonymous
>>21004440 >cuz right now i wake up in da morning n hate living, throw my cps and ilu sweats on and go to my engineering class that smells like piss, then try to work through seas of neckbeards discussing their LoL match over the weekend. Funny thing is those neckbeards are more than content with their lives while you lack the self respect to accomplish anything notable. sad cunt ---> you ---> hard cunt ---> neckbeards ---> sick cunt

1 hours later 21005526 Anonymous
>tfw 5'6 manlet >tfw majored in Liberal Arts welp time to go swallow a bullet

1 hours later 21005527 Anonymous (qt3.14.jpg 700x960 69kB)
>>21005390 we just work really fucking hard. we live for this shit. that or i'm dumb and i'm not gonna make in my STEM major.

1 hours later 21005543 Anonymous
>>21005495 You don't think I'm jealous of that? I fucking 100% fully respect and approve of people doing whatever it is the fuck they want to do, and getting exactly what they want out of life. They are content and enjoy vidya and soon to be lots of money to fund that vidya. I cannot settle for that.

1 hours later 21005548 Anonymous
>>21005527 But you have to have the brains to do that sort of stuff.

1 hours later 21005666 Anonymous
how the 20's actually feel, you feel "older" at first because the way you spend your time. Its not that you have less fun, it just there are more responsibilities and obligations that you take serious now. Keep in mind you pretty much lost that "young man recovery strength a couple years ago" Its just now your mentality is fighting you. What it actually starts to feel like is straight up monotony. Stuck in a sea of uselessness where most of won't amount to just another blade of grass in ocean of fire. It doesn't get worse, but it doesn't get better either. From what I've seen that the body really starts going down hill no matter how good at being healthy you are after 30. If you got bad genes its not going to be a fun trip, but for most people its something thats manageable. cheer up, have some fun doing things that you enjoy with people you love. Otherwise yes, you might as well die today.

1 hours later 21005697 Anonymous
>>21005390 Somewhat, increased grey matter of the hypothalamus can also improve forms of memory.

1 hours later 21005718 Anonymous
>>21005697 Yea see, I barely have any of this.

1 hours later 21005805 Anonymous
>>21005697 Oh wise one, please tell me how I can improve my cognitive ability and my capacity to memorize things so I won't feel like such a pleb 24/7.

1 hours later 21005925 Anonymous
Shit and I thought I had it bad. Only thing I haven,t experienced was teenage sex >tfw 19 and all your friends have already had sex except you

1 hours later 21006004 Anonymous
>>21005925 I know that feel it's ok

4 hours later 21007804 Anonymous
>>21005427 >STEMs are autistic, and self centered speak for yourself

4 hours later 21007897 Anonymous (flanders.jpg 284x319 29kB)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vhhg I4tSMwc watch this OP it will help

4 hours later 21007948 Anonymous
>>21005226 >Engi or Theoretical Physics It's like chemistry and Physics. Computer science and Maths. The first are already plebs for the others.

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