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2021-02-16 01:02 28817757 Anonymous (adidasraceIsBestrace.jpg 224x280 30kB)
Anyone here have experience funding a lawyer? Is it worth it? Long story short, a non related family friend raped me when I was young in my own bedroom. I cant wear anything but shitty clothes without extreme anxiety, have to clean my ass to the point i use a pack of baby wipes and a roll of toilet paper each day, it gets expensive, extreme sexual anxiety, trust issues. I now have years of therapy to back up my claim but it was a long time ago, probably 20 years ago. This guy was maybe 16-18 when he did it to me, no one believed me and I had to see and interact with him for 10 years more before my family cut off their family for other reasons. He now lives happily with a daughter and wife while I am working a okay job, cant interact with females even though I look like a chad, cant dress in anything other than sweatpants, and in general have always been socially inept/awkward. He was the type to always be into sports thats all he cared about. Anyway, what is the financial impact of going and getting a lawyer, opening up pandoras box and how to find a decent one and fund him. Loans? I have been buying BTC, REQ, and LTO hoping they take off and I can afford to go after him. Anyone with experience?

1 min later 28817858 Anonymous
anon are you US based? Laws are so different here compared to other countries

1 min later 28817865 Anonymous
>>28817757 >Business and Finance >I have been buying BTC, REQ, and LTO hoping they take off and I can afford to make it. Don't sell

3 min later 28817954 Anonymous
>>28817858 Yeah, I am US based, east coast thats as far as ill go. I have seen just even the retainer for an actual big time lawyer is thousands of dollars. Ive been suicidal on and off since I was under 12 years old. Im not even sure if people believe me today, some say they do

3 min later 28818001 Anonymous
>>28817757 Why do you need a lawyer? There are plenty of ways to ruin them if it is really true.

4 min later 28818031 Anonymous
The case will be thrown out/you wont win it. You'll just be left with hundreds of thousands in debt and much mentally worse off than you are now. I advise you to either forget it or take revenge into your own hands and find him, in minecraft, if you know what I mean. If you can find where he lives in minecraft you could make his life pretty miserable

4 min later 28818080 Anonymous
>>28817954 okay first thing you need to do is look up the laws where you are in terms of how far back they are willing to go back to press charges. Also you need to be ready, the piece of shit defendant will try and make you look stupid, its gonna be rough

5 min later 28818140 Anonymous
>>28818031 This. get creative dont give your money to lawyers who dont care about you

5 min later 28818144 Anonymous
I hired a lawyer and won the case but he got paid by a contingency fee. I only paid him $400 for the initial demand letter then he got like 33% of the reward. This was against a company and not an individual.

8 min later 28818299 Anonymous
Plenty nogs on the East Coast of mine craft that will do illegal shit for monopoly money. Just sayin.

9 min later 28818358 Anonymous
>>28818001 Its not even about money, it sounds like it is. I think thats the best way to hurt him without going to jail myself. I am what youd call an oldfag here and i feel this is the only place where i can fit in and im understood, i fucking HATE normies they always shit on me and dont get why im weird. >>28818001 While that is true, i dont know if i could go that far as beating him up in minecraft. >>28818031 Why would it be thrown out? This is why I need to make some crypto money, between LTO, REQ, and BTC my total assets right now is 0.15 BTC worth. I have been saving for a few years but between therapy, being put in mental hospitals and diagnosed with severe PTSD this is the only place i can even feel safe, i hope this bullrun continues. >>28818080 As far as i remember the law is kindve a grey area on that

11 min later 28818511 Anonymous
>>28818358 Do you know where he lives? Does he have assets that are tangible? A job?

12 min later 28818603 Anonymous
>>28818511 Yeah i think hes an upper manager for verizon, he has 1 kid and lives a town or two over from me.

14 min later 28818720 Anonymous
I was just curious on how financing and paying for a lawyer goes. I would like to think that a lawyer who specializes in this would care, at least to a degree. But like anon said it could cost me hundreds of thousands

17 min later 28818907 Anonymous
>>28818358 That's my point. A lawyer is not going to be of help. Look, if it's actually true and you really want to fuck with him then you would target his work and his social life. You would have to leak it anonymously to them though, but with the full story. He wouldn't even be able to do anything to you if he realises it's you because that would be an admission that it is true.

18 min later 28818968 Anonymous
its weird because some of the websites say for NY its 6 years, another says its 20 years. im tired of being suicidal and not living my life because of this, i just want to hit his pocket and obviously everyone around him will question it too

19 min later 28819045 Anonymous
>>28818907 How could I leak it anonymously?

20 min later 28819116 Anonymous
>>28818907 This would be hard to do, and why would a lawyer not help. An expensive lawyer can do crazy things. Keyword: expensive

21 min later 28819160 Anonymous
>>28818720 I don't know much about it, but like another anon said, you might be able to find a lawyer willing to do contingency. They would likely only do this if they think you can win, as they wouldn't get their payout otherwise. However, if it's been 20 years I would also guess the statute of limitations might have passed. But maybe not. Look up what the statute of limitations is in your state for this.

21 min later 28819173 Anonymous
>>28818968 >>28819045 its innocent until proven guilty and you have no way of proving hes a rapist, especially since its been DECADES, unless he raped multiple people and they join you All he would do is say "no I didnt" and thats the end of the story

22 min later 28819219 Anonymous
>>28819116 Because it's so long ago that it will be words against words. It's doomed from the start unless OP has people he confided in at the time who can attest to it.

23 min later 28819247 Anonymous
>>28819160 anon said hes in NY, checking myself it seems to be a grey area which could be a good or bad thing for him

24 min later 28819345 Anonymous
>>28819219 i told my parents for years and they never believed me or did anything. nothing. i also told therapists and friends about it before Imagine telling your mom immediately after it happened and she doesnt buy it the guy denied it like a snake up and down

24 min later 28819352 Anonymous
>>28817757 You gott rape his ass back.

24 min later 28819362 Anonymous
>>28819045 you could dedicate yourself to being a motivational speaker using him as an example. Get /fit and MTGOW Instead of paying a lawyer spend the money on a multi year seo campaign and use his full name. That way it will be impossible for him to remove "John Doe Raped a little boy" This is probably the best and most economical way possible to hurt his pocket book. No one would want to hire him and he could be charged as a sex offender depending on how good you are.

26 min later 28819432 Anonymous
>>28819345 dude fuck your family and swallow the self improvement pill, literally the only way for you at this point.

26 min later 28819474 Anonymous
>>28817757 You are not going to find happiness by suing him; the legal system is not good for that. You will need to use other routes

26 min later 28819481 Anonymous
Just leave it you faggot.

27 min later 28819542 Anonymous
>>28819362 I have told multiple therapists for years, one therapist i had for years and he shit tested me multiple times. I can answer all questions about it immediately, no thinking or pauses, i remember it clear as day. I have tried getting fit and definitely got healthier, and been MGTOW because women dont give a fuck. I had one chick that knew about this and she fucked my best friend and turned 3 friends against me, they all eventually apologized but fuck them

28 min later 28819595 Anonymous
Some lawyers do free consultation or even if it's not free an initial meeting is worth it to find out if you even have a case. Dont take anyone's word here, a lawyer will tell you if you have no chance or if its worth pursuing

29 min later 28819652 Anonymous
>>28819474 I still think he should sue. It will be expensive but I think even if theres a 1% chance its worth it. His coin selection is solid imo but who knows if that shit will even rise in price in years. Getting a loan for a lawyer is probably not doable

30 min later 28819697 Anonymous
>>28819362 devilish

33 min later 28819877 Anonymous
>>28819542 Anon, whats your hourly wage like, are you buying or doing degenerate shit? Are you investing in proper crypto? Dont lie. Also fuck women. They do not give a FUCK about your struggles, they wait at finish lines and pick the winners

34 min later 28819954 Anonymous
>>28819173 This.

35 min later 28819960 Anonymous
>>28819542 dude heres what you need to do. Trust me on this, this works. 1: You need to do a ritual of some sort to symbolize that you are officially letting go. For me I wore a red and white threaded bracelet that I kept in my favorite book while for the next 60 days "de programming myself"

38 min later 28820197 Anonymous
>>28819877 I make around 18/ hr...i take care of other people for a living, i like what i do but its mostly thankless. i admit i buy a coffee everyday, i have been much better at saving, but sometimes in my depressive stages i cant help i buy food every day most of its junk, i still work out, i dont chase women, i dont consume tv or social media, idgaf about celebrities, i lean MGTOW, i dont watch any porn because of the rape porn does nothing for me. I have a car, a computer with a few vidyas on it, and my cat thats about it i go thru swings where i do good, tell myself to get the fuck up and sometimes i fall i see peoples posts all over here, not just this board, how could a lawyer not go after him what kind of fucking clown world is this? if i was a girl people would be tripping over themselves to sue this guy

39 min later 28820261 Anonymous
The program is similar to the military in that its only goal is to break you down mentally so that you can reprogram yourself with all the good things that you want. Your schedule should be something like this >wake up at 6am >freezing cold shower while repeating some mantra I am cool confident and life is fantastic (can be anything that means something to you) >running sprint drills that will push you towards exhaustion >on your playlist it only needs songs,music with positive subliminal messages like linkin park or eminiems earlier stuff >after daily readings on self improvement.etc etc, it helps to keep a journal >a meal like chicken with no sauce or seasoning just cooked and plain rice. >end the day with readings from some philopsher and another set of grueling workouts

41 min later 28820394 Anonymous
>>28819352 Just tell his wife ?

41 min later 28820415 Anonymous
>>28819481 >t. rapist

41 min later 28820458 Anonymous
>I have been buying BTC, REQ, and LTO Keep accumulating friend, but sadly your revenge wont get you anywhere. It wont make it up for everything that happened, not that Im saying you cant be fucking angry about this but you gotta move on fren. Maybe make it and move to another state/country and make a fresh start. Good luck

42 min later 28820468 Anonymous
>>28820197 at least your honest. I would say go in full hermit mode, just keep saving and putting money in crypto, the RIGHT coins, and if they take off get that lawyer, you may lose, but it will make him sweat, and that's the best thing dude

43 min later 28820547 Anonymous
do this for 60 days, close the ritual by stating to yourself that you are moving on. Then focus on maxing out your stats. Getting a lawyer probably won't help, and getting revegene will make things worst. Also i'd cut ties with your family leave state if you have to they are only holding you back from what your saying. This is your life, and theirs no point in letting some fag live it rent free. No one is gonna give two fucks about what happened to you until you become a top 1% kind of guy. Thats the brutual truth. Your gonna have to find some medium to channel your feelings into be it work, art, story telling, not sex, drugs or alocohol.

44 min later 28820639 Anonymous
You should not have to rely on society for justice to exist in this world, do what you have to do and fuck anyone who dares judge you for it.

44 min later 28820641 Anonymous
>>28820415 yeah i thought the same thing when he posted that. >>28820458 I have been all in REQ lately, i really hope it takes off, my portfolio switched to about 90% REQ, almost no BTC left and a small amount of LTO >>28820468 I am trying i cant do it overnight, i quit smoking, i dont drink, i dont go out to bars or malls, i literally go to work and back, play vidya and sleep, browse biz for hours. Oh yeah and buy food and coffee everyday thats it

45 min later 28820733 Anonymous
>>28817954 Kill him, he's a homosexual pedophile

46 min later 28820752 Anonymous
>>28817757 b a ck to2 reddit k

47 min later 28820856 Anonymous
>>28820752 haha based epic le magalibtard ownejch

48 min later 28820933 Anonymous
>>28820733 When i was younger the thought crossed my mind. But i am clinging to this lawyer idea, make him nervous and his family nervous, hes all happy and well put together on social media. Meanwhile i cant even wear certain fucking clothes or go in public, its called being in fear of being sexualized

48 min later 28820963 Anonymous
>>28817757 >He now lives happily with a daughter and wife It would be shame if...

48 min later 28820968 Anonymous
Parents threw $1.3k at a lawyer so that my live-in gf can't take the house. She has shown no signs of wanting it and signed all the paperwork without so much as batting an eye. Waste of money IMO but maybe they'll stop hating on her

51 min later 28821114 Anonymous
>>28820933 anon im mot rich but post your BTC wallet, i want to believe you and if you do succeed please come back and show us, post the address i can send you 50 bucks of btc good luck fren, reminds me of the old chan

54 min later 28821302 Anonymous
>>28821114 there we go anon, thank you i will post his demise 3PJX5A8F1FWaepZabNpz891tEzFKu8FVCR

54 min later 28821309 Anonymous
>>28820933 Damn man it sucks that happened to you and no one stood up for you. I hope you get the outcome you're looking for.

55 min later 28821383 Anonymous
>>28821302 sending, hope mods dont consider this as begging because it fucking isnt. Not much but good luck fren

55 min later 28821388 Anonymous
>>28820933 Post his address at least. Give him the gift of real terror.

57 min later 28821512 Anonymous (1613308690316.png 820x836 405kB)
>>28820963 Such a shame....

57 min later 28821515 Anonymous
>>28821302 >3PJX5A8F1FWaepZabNpz891tEzFKu8FVCR Kucoin.com deposit address did the trauma make you retarded too? who the fuck uses dogshit hacked exchanges LOL imagine literally entrusting your money to those people

59 min later 28821648 Anonymous
>>28821515 i was just trying to help him faggot why do you have to be this way? i sent him $50 of btc fuck off and kucoin isnt bad

1 hours later 28821684 Anonymous
>>28817757 I’d hate to sound blackpilled anon, but I always thought the courts only help women and rich dudes now. I wasn’t sexually abused thankfully but I was abused and harassed in other ways. DURING the time it was happening I went to the cops, and guess what? They arrested ME. All my abuser had to do was lie to the cops and they took his BS word over mine

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