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2020-09-13 01:13 22807460 Anonymous (z2.gif 556x740 712kB)
My practice girlfriend is asking when we are going to get married. do I lie to her or is there a way I can convince her to stay my practice girlfriend without us getting married. She wasn't a virgin when we met so there's no way I'm sticking around. I told her that I don't care about her past relationships just to convince her to sleep with me and so I can get more experience with sex for when I get a real woman instead of a whore.

2 min later 22807472 Anonymous
>>22807460 Stop wasting her time retard

6 min later 22807481 Peanut Butter
Tell her if she wants to marry you so badly, then she should buy you a ring. She is not right to prod and annoy you. It's up to the man to ask. Tell her it's unattractive and really embarrass her on this fact.

6 min later 22807483 Anonymous
youre a terrible person anon "let me fuck this girl and then throw her away because shes of less value now that shes fucked someone"

7 min later 22807487 Anonymous (4B3F2B64-9B5D-47EC-B0C8-BA52323B4BB7.jpg 358x392 74kB)
>>22807460 I would say you are feeling pressured and that you need some space to think about things. She will panic and say nvm or some other bullshit and will never bring up the subject again.

12 min later 22807508 Anonymous
>>22807460 >practice gf I recommend you stop dating all together and grow the fuck up or kys

12 min later 22807510 Peanut Butter
>>22807483 >women have no agency The reality is that OP is probably making her very happy. You don't know if he ever lied to her, he probably didn't. He just wants a fun temporary relationship. If she wasn't happy, she wouldn't be with him. You guys will do anything, any stretch of the imagination to keep women secure in their false victim status.

12 min later 22807511 Anonymous
>>22807483 She's a terrible person along with any whore who sleeps around. When a woman gets fucked she's being degraded, defaced.. she is the one who has to spread her buttcheeks and let someone cum on her, not the man. A woman who willingly degrades herself for multiple men is a whore with no self respect. Of course I'm not going to marry a woman who doesn't respect relationships and gladly shares her only value with the whole world. Relationships are a transaction. I marry a bitch if she lets me fuck her. But if a bitch lets me fuck her without marrying, then why would I marry her? Only a virgin woman can appreciate the value of a marriage & relationship. If a woman wants to prove that she loves me, then she needs to save herself for me.

14 min later 22807520 Peanut Butter
>>22807511 Before all the trolls nip you. I'll just say, despite whatever motivation you have, everything you said here does in fact stand to reason. It's the truth

14 min later 22807523 Anonymous
Calling a woman "used" and "dirty" AFTER you have sex with them speaks volumes about you and your cheese-encrusted filthy dick than it does about her. You're the bad guy in this situation for not being honest and misleading her with your intentions. You should have been straight and honest at the beginning. But you're a selfish lying coward and just want poon. You don't deserve a happy relationship. You deserve STDs.

16 min later 22807528 Sage
>>22807511 What about women who were molested or raped but are otherwise trying to save themselves? Where does that fall into your narrative of a woman's worth being tied to their vag?

19 min later 22807545 Peanut Butter
>>22807528 >worth being tied to their vag? Not him, but their worth isn't tied to their vag, it's tied to their behavior and how they respect bearing a womb. That's what he said. Being forcefully raped has nothing to do with how a woman behaves. And needless to say, I don't know how you failed to see this. You're either insufferably stupid, or an ideologue.

21 min later 22807553 Anonymous
You already goofed You NEVER tell a practice girl she’s yours

22 min later 22807561 Anonymous
I’m surprised u even managed to get one gf if this isn’t bait u autistic fuck lmao why do you even think you will find someone else that wants to marry you much less a virgin who meets all your standards. I hope she dumps you and you are lonely forever.

23 min later 22807565 Anonymous
>>22807523 >muh bad guys, muh ur not deserving Grow the fuck up. Undeserving people get good shit all the time, and neither society nor the world cares, at least not enough to do anything about it. The only justice in the world is that which you make yourself. Go out there and do something other than be a keyboard warrior hoping for karma to do the work you refuse to do.

23 min later 22807570 Anonymous
I've posted a rant about this before, but you shouldn't throw away a rusty chevy because you might end up driving a maserati some day. Americans have become so, so fucking stupid. Replace, consume, get it new, do not ask questions, do not look at the numbers in your bank account. All is well. Doesn't matter if you can BARELY afford the payments and insurance, doesn't matter if your big tiddy goth gf can't cook and is pitching "polyamory" at you a week into dating. You're convinced that all you have to do is consume to be happy, have the best everything, the sexiest mate. After 30 she's not going to be much to look at. Sad but true. It's more important to have someone who's >fertile >is easy to be around >doesn't let you shoulder everything on your own Essentially, you're told, by people who are perfectly fine with giving this advice without following it, that YOU have to DO something for some incredibly gorgeous, virgin wife and become a better man for her. There are so many gorgeous women though, and so in the interest of actual romance, of actual sustainability, I say to you, "look at what this woman has done for you. Would any other girl do the same?" If she's an unemployable pig that's probably cheated on you, then by all means, kick her to the curb. I doubt that's the case, though, not when you've been with her for so long, not when she's asking about getting hitched.

26 min later 22807592 Anonymous
>>22807545 >I don't know how you failed to see this. You're either insufferably stupid, or an ideologue. You'd be surprised how many incels think rape victims deserved it and are now used goods. Don't think it's stupid to assume this guy who has practice girlfriends might in fact be a loser of that same caliber.

29 min later 22807606 Anonymous
>>22807528 >>22807545 Unfortunately you’re wrong Child molestation causes puberty to start earlier and usually inappropriate hypersexual behavior follows suit Adult rape victims experience similar There’s a reason rape victims were once called “fallen women” alongside prostitutes and single moms The psychological ramifications make them unfit for any romantic love

30 min later 22807612 Anonymous
>>22807570 Only person itt who has a realistic attitude toward relationships lmao

34 min later 22807630 Peanut Butter
>>22807606 Right, and just like before, you judge the behavior not the fact she was raped.

34 min later 22807631 Anonymous (950981309.jpg 400x328 28kB)
>>22807528 I want a woman who loves me, there's no greater way of showing how much you love a man when you're able to resist temptation, save yourself.. you have countless options and you end up picking me out of all the men? Rape/molestation is not the same thing. I want a woman who stands out from the crowd, a woman that other men couldn't obtain.. a woman that is for ME and only me, I want our relationship to be something that only we are allowed to experience together, exclusive intimacy. You have to consider that with 2020 promiscuity, any of us guys could fuck tons of whores if he wanted to. Women need to convince us men why we should marry them. Now and days women are letting us fuck them without even knowing their names. I will still fuck women, but would I love them or marry them? Nope. There's countless whores out here, and my girlfriend is no different from any of them. Men love women that boost their self-esteem & confidence. And marrying a whore is the exact opposite of what any self-respecting man would do. That's for desperate losers who don't have options.

36 min later 22807645 Anonymous
>>22807565 He’s a typical tradcuck idiot who think real life is a Disney movie where only “bad” people fail sexually

37 min later 22807651 Peanut Butter
>>22807606 >>22807630 I mean I have an absolutely horrible childhood and was abused by my mother. By the statistics, I should be a failure and a terrible person. But I'm not, I'm absolutely great and successful. If a girl judged me by what happened to me, and not my behavior, then she'd be making a mistake. And often, though a minority, the people who escape abuse or trauma are the strongest, most moral and resilient people on earth. They are the ones who are the least likely to cheat or hurt you.

37 min later 22807654 Anonymous
>>22807630 Tattoos and piercings aren’t a guarantee a girl is a despicable human being, but it’s enough of a warning to avoid her entirely unless you want to use her and throw her away

39 min later 22807662 Anonymous
>>22807631 Have you tried growing up and understanding that women DO NOT love men the way men love women? Women are evolved to be opportunistic. Why would they waste precious eggs on a chump like you just because you’re clingy as hell and desperate?

39 min later 22807663 Anonymous
>>22807606 I've read studies that seem to support that incidents of rape/molestation causes women to swing either one of two ways; hypersexualization or a complete shut down towards sex and touch until therapy can ease them into it. I hardly think those type of women, especially the later group are irredeemable.

42 min later 22807669 Anonymous
>>22807663 You’re reading into it what you want to believe. Sexual frigidness is a leading cause of divorce.

42 min later 22807671 Peanut Butter (amazing.jpg 1024x1024 180kB)
>>22807654 uh no, that's simply wrong and not logical. I already answered that point here >>22807651 But I can think of one girl with tats who is amazing. Also my ex. Come to think of it, I know a lot. >>22807663 That's not the only two options for outcome. You are basing your judgments on probability. Your relationship is not a dice roll. A bad woman will always hurt you, a good one will never. You need to focus on who they are, rather than what they are.

44 min later 22807678 Anonymous
>>22807631 No one can love you before they meet you. You're asking for a woman who's planning her wedding before she even gets a boyfriend. You think that when she meets a guy and presses for marriage it's because she loves him so much, or because she wants to have her dream wedding? If you want a woman who loves you don't look to how she behaved "for you" before she was ever aware you existed.

44 min later 22807679 Anonymous
>>22807662 I'm successful, I'm intelligent, I'm good looking, I go to the gym, I take care of my appearance, I pay for these women. Even having 2 of these things is enough to fuck tons of women. You are either a delusional woman or an incel if you think people can't get laid if they got money. Practically any college girl will swoon over an attractive guy who pays for shit. Broke chicks will instantly become obsessed if you start buying them stuff. Heck, black chicks will even brag to all their friends about you if you bought them something. I'm not clingy or desperate, I'm content with just having sex and if I never find a virgin woman I won't lose any sleep over it.

45 min later 22807684 Peanut Butter
>>22807679 You are so much more level headed than I was at your age.

46 min later 22807686 Anonymous
>>22807678 most useful advice on this thread.

54 min later 22807711 Anonymous
>>22807612 I think living on my own without roomates and just working and watching people has just given me a more solid grasp on what's going on. I'm turning 27 in December, so maybe I'm just an early blooming old man. Calling it "realistic" makes it sound like I'm being pessimistic and practical. It's more than that though. Work places work to bilk guys especially out of every drop of blood they have, and then that money gets swindled out of them downtown and at the autopark. So it's important to both be wary with your choices and also, above all, have SOMEONE you can rely on, and maybe that's what actual love is, and maybe people can actually be happy if they avoid suffering that way for long enough.

1 hours later 22807736 Anonymous
>>22807711 Maybe realistic is pessimistic but I agree with you.

1 hours later 22807739 Anonymous
>>22807662 I think what's happening here is with how much society has advanced we're reaching some massive breakthrough in mentality where we're starting to realize that our idea of love does not match up with the actual reality. What I mean is, the type of woman that men on here would love to be with does not actually exist. and we are slowly reaching a point of self-awareness and it's a very conflicting realization. Does this mean that we should not love any woman? Should we stop looking for love? If we do this, then isn't the natural answer to start looking at women objectively? Like what does a woman add to your life if you're not an insecure loser? If you are an insecure loser, they can bring comfort and cheer you up. But if you're a man, then they can bring you down and get in the way of your goals. The only positive I can think of is sex. And that means objectively a man should only use a woman for sex. It's the most logical conclusion imo, if love isn't real then there's no reason to date people? Only have sex with them. Relationships are just coping mechanisms.

1 hours later 22807753 Anonymous
>>22807460 Quit larping.

1 hours later 22807764 Anonymous
>>22807736 I think it's more pessimistic to say a girl can't do anything to endear herself to a man she fancies outside of her holes and her face.

1 hours later 22807790 Anonymous
>>22807764 Isn't this true for all heterosexual/homosexual people? They won't love someone if their partner does not meet certain sexual requirements. A gay guy can't convince a straight guy to love him. Neither can a whore convince a self-respecting man to love her.

1 hours later 22807811 Anonymous
>>22807460 This guy never had a girlfriend. Pack it up, you baited autists

1 hours later 22807835 Anonymous
>>22807790 I mean there's a difference between not being much to look at and being utterly repugnant. For instance, a fupa isn't much to look at. Being so fat you can't wash properly is repugnant. That's not about not being sexy, that's about not even meeting minimal functionality for healthy intercourse. Men are sexually repugnant to straight men. I will puke all over that asshole, sorry.

1 hours later 22807843 Anonymous
>>22807790 And as for the whore comparison, you say that, but I've seen plenty of hookers quit and find boyfriends. Yeah a lot of them end up failing and going back to where they weren't, but some don't. I've seen way more instances of that than an adult straight man "finding out" he's gay or bi.

1 hours later 22807889 Anonymous
>>22807843 you missed the self-respecting part. There's plenty of desperate losers who will date a whore

1 hours later 22807916 Anonymous
>>22807460 >For when I get a real woman instead of a whore Throwing aside all of the red flags and clear manchild behaviour that your post screams, you realise that you're working against yourself the longer you stay with her if you're seeking a woman that isn't a whore as you put it? The more time passes, the chance of any given woman having slept with someone already infinitely approaches one; it's going to happen sooner or later, and almost always sooner. Do this girl a favour and set her free - she's wasting her good years staying with a loser like you.

1 hours later 22807919 Anonymous
>>22807889 Everyone has their own idea of what "self respecting" is. I think the stupidest definition though is one based on learned rules. It's kinda like how a little girl will GLADLY pick up a worm or a fish, just out of curiosity, but then they learn that they have to freak out at that shit. The fact is, OP doesn't seem that repulsed by hookers, and neither am I. Mudsharks is where "I" draw the line, but that's just because I haven't met a mudshark with anything but air and syphilis between her ears.

2 hours later 22807973 Anonymous
>>22807510 >You don't know if he ever lied to her He literally said in the OP that he lied to her so she would sleep with him dumb tripfag

2 hours later 22807977 Anonymous
>>22807460 Hi Anon, I married my practice girlfriend. I'm kinda happy I did. She's now my practice wife so I can get a real wife later instead of a whore. She's also pregnant with my kids so I can practice being a father to real children too.

2 hours later 22807987 Anonymous
>>22807460 Dude you should dump her. She is unpure. Lots of virgins to lose your virginity too

2 hours later 22808007 Anonymous
Why would a virgin girl fuck a non virgin man? Unless you're fucking underage girls any 21+ virgin is probably going to want the same from you

2 hours later 22808032 Anonymous
>>22807460 I hope karma makes her hit you with a false rape accusation.

2 hours later 22808041 Anonymous
>>22807460 Sounds like you are the whore

2 hours later 22808065 A girl that will break the rules
OP is a little slut that will now never deserve a virgin.

2 hours later 22808151 Anonymous
>>22807481 taming of the shrew

2 hours later 22808166 Anonymous (FUCK OFF TRIP FAG!.jpg 1439x1574 606kB)
>>22808065 fucking trip fag. Go away!

3 hours later 22808212 Anonymous
>>22807460 nobody gets into this situation AND is this honest with themselves about it that's how you can tell it's a troll

3 hours later 22808214 Peanut Butter
>>22807973 No actually he didn't. I just double checked. >>22808065 >deserve I don't think that's a real thing. It's just an emotion. Fairness doesn't exist in reality, the strong always prevail over the weak. Fairness and luck are two coping strategies for the weak. >>22808041 >whore >man yawn >>22808166 That is a very tired argument. The base of the argument is that I'm not anonymous. Well if that's true, tell me please, what is my first name? I'm just as anonymous as you are.

3 hours later 22808290 Anonymous
>>22808214 You're gonna turn this place into reddit. 4chan is an anonymous image board for a reason. This is not a place for glory hunting. People will place value on your name rather than what you say. e.g. > X Tripfag is 90% correct. but 10% incorrect. > X tripfag gets a cult following > X Tripfag is wrong on a point > Y anon corrects X Tripfag > X tripfag's cult following hates Y anon for not agreeing with X Tripfag because X >Tripfag is X Tripfag, not because of what X Tripfag said. This is the type of environment that Reddit, YouTube, Twitter and Facebook have become.

3 hours later 22808322 Peanut Butter
>>22808290 Thank you. I think I needed to hear that. I'll be going away for a while now.

3 hours later 22808377 Anonymous
>>22808322 Thank fuck, your posts fucking suck and you have terrible reading comprehension

3 hours later 22808382 Anonymous
>>22807460 If you absolutely insist on being with a virgin you're going to end up a pedo. Also what the fuck is a practice girlfriend? Sounds evil.

3 hours later 22808410 Anonymous
>>22807631 >exclusive intimacy >when you've fucked other women

4 hours later 22808630 Anonymous
>>22807606 youre a straight up scumbag and i hope you have an accident that permanently disable you, cunt

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