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2020-02-25 03:47 21934826 Anonymous (GMHe742.jpg 1080x1350 136kB)
How do you find a girlfriend if you're physically deformed? I've more or less given up at this point. Not sure what I hope to get out of this. Anyway, I've never had a girlfriend or any interest from women because I'm deformed obvs.
I've known girls whose condition was more severe than mine but they still attracted boyfriends. Different rules for women, I guess *shrug*
6 min later 21934836 Anonymous
>>21934826
Not true. If the woman finds value in you, she may consider. Realistically though, should deformed people even have kids? I mean what kind of life would your children be having. Imagine the wife having more workload. Is that really a virtuous thing to do?
7 min later 21934841 Anonymous
>>21934836
I never mentioned having kids but you're right, disgusting freaks like me should never have been born.
12 min later 21934849 Anonymous
>>21934841
That's not the case. Everyone has something to offer. Some, procreation isn't ideal.
Take me for example. 6ft2+, decent looking, blessed genetics to some degree as well as intellectual capabilities. I could get married and have kids right now, or I could affect a greater amount of people in a more positive way by giving that up. My efforts could be more focused.
We all have great possibility within us. That doesn't make you less important just because you'd fit better elsewhere.
20 min later 21934866 Anonymous
>>21934826
This guy had no limbs, stood less than three feet tall, and probably had the plague or something. He had 14 kids by 8 women, maybe more.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mat thias_Buchinger
I don't know how he did it. But he developed talents and popularity and was interesting and didn't despair at his circumstances.
22 min later 21934870 Anonymous (warren-buffett.jpg 1200x900 151kB)
>>21934858
Lol that type of attitude isn't going to get you far. Sounds like you've let your exterior determine the interior, your personality, or lack there of. Your problem now.
24 min later 21934874 Anonymous
>>21934866
Hundreds of years ago. Stories are often exaggerated if not completely fabricated.
>>21934870
Fuck off shitposter
27 min later 21934881 Anonymous
>>21934874
Yes, so much easier for a deformed limbless person to rise above his circumstances and reach stardom and popularity in the year 1700 than 2020.
34 min later 21934901 Anonymous
>>21934881
Tales like this are always exaggerated.
47 min later 21934945 Anonymous
What's your deformity?
49 min later 21934952 Anonymous
>>21934945
Scheuermann's kyphosis and pectus carinatum
55 min later 21934971 Anonymous
>>21934901
Your story is exaggerated. You're not even that deformed, you're just looking to justify giving up completely. Because inside your flawed but adequate body is the heart of a coward.
59 min later 21934981 Anonymous
>>21934971
You know nothing about it, so why would I care what you have to say?
1 hours later 21935019 Anonymous
>>21934981
But I do. I know everything about it. You have the same fears as anyone. I've hidden behind my own flaws and told myself why bother.
I fooled myself into thinking this was some kind of brave acceptance. It was the opposite. It was cowardly denial, a flat rejection of the evidence provided by the world around me.
That fear you feel, of trying to approach women and failing and being humiliated and feeling inadequate, everyone has it. Depending on your traumas, the fear might even be so strong that you'd prefer to never face it ever again, even if it means being alone for the rest of your life.
Which you can do, if you want. It's your life. But you're fooling yourself if you think you have no agency in life and that failure is predetermined.
1 hours later 21935030 Anonymous
>>21934952
In english tho
1 hours later 21935046 Anonymous
>>21935030
Hunchback and pigeon chest.
1 hours later 21935127 Anonymous
>>21935019
Yes women see value in a deformed sperg from 4chan, right
1 hours later 21935158 Anonymous
>>21935046
This doesn’t sound terrible to me. I know it’s different when you’re the one affected by it but there are people with much worse who found love. I’m sorry this has damaged your self esteem so much. Have you been rejected a lot?
2 hours later 21935178 Anonymous
>>21935158
>there are people with much worse who found love.
Are there? I mean, genuine love and not some girl milking social media credit.
2 hours later 21935195 Anonymous
>>21934826
Become rich and find a gold digger
2 hours later 21935220 Anonymous
>>21935046
It doesn't sound awful. It really comes down to how you perceive it. Yeah sounds shitty but it's true
If it makes you feel better my bf has a slight disability and when I was in school I had a crush on a boy who was pretty badly physically disabled.
2 hours later 21935267 Anonymous
>>21935220
>I had a crush on a boy who was pretty badly physically disabled
Why?
2 hours later 21935278 Anonymous
>>21935267
Because he was a very smart and funny guy, had a personality I liked. Plus I liked his hair.
2 hours later 21935280 Anonymous
>>21934826
just be yourself
2 hours later 21935300 Anonymous
>>21935278
How bad was his disability?
2 hours later 21935309 Anonymous
>>21934826
>deformed
How deformed?
That is always the question
Are you like Crouzon Sydrome tier or what?
And of course no pics.
Great thread, OP.
2 hours later 21935329 Anonymous
>>21935300
he had some cancer on his back or something when he was a kid so most of his spine was metal parts so he remained short and thin, he could walk but difficult, also idk how it was connected but his voice was fucked
Still he had such a strong character, it impressed me when I met him when I was like 15.
2 hours later 21935358 Anonymous
>>21935309
I already answered this >>21934952 >>21935046
2 hours later 21935359 Anonymous
>>21935178
>genuine love
Not the Anon. Genuine love is fairy tailish.
2 hours later 21935360 Anonymous
>>21935329
Ah ok. Thanks for answering. I'm not sure what to take from that as you were only 15.
3 hours later 21935380 Anonymous
You again? Quit posting this same thread every few days, you never follow any advice.
Why post if you’re just going to ignore everyone and keep your toxic mindset
3 hours later 21935391 Anonymous
>>21935358
It's all about face retard, where the fuck have you been for the past 5 years
3 hours later 21935400 Anonymous
You generally don't
3 hours later 21935403 Anonymous
>>21935380
We don't all live here. Seems, you may. This is the first time I have seen a thread like this. Still "no gf" thread but, this one is more legitimate than the legion of whining incels and their dime a dozen threads.
3 hours later 21935414 Anonymous
>>21935400
That was I thought... but I figured it was worth a punt.
3 hours later 21935432 Anonymous
>>21935403
Not really I log in maybe once a week, but last thread I was there trying to support OP, make him realize there are other people with far more challenging disadvantages than just “being deformed” and he wouldn’t listen, there as other dude who posted a friend of his, no limbs and he had a gf, but OP wouldn’t listen, and other advices, in the end people just got tired of his pessimism and left, he’s just too far gone
3 hours later 21935439 Anonymous
>>21934826
You don't. Learn to cope.
3 hours later 21935441 Anonymous
>>21935439
How do I learn to cope?
3 hours later 21935462 Anonymous
>>21935441
Photography, Cinema, Animation, Music, Comics, Comedy, Video Games, Books, Traveling, Food, Politics, Sports, Martial Arts, etc.
There is a hole in your life... You think you can fill it with pussy but you can't.
3 hours later 21935473 Anonymous
>>21935462
There will still be a woman-sized hole even if I did all of those things.
3 hours later 21935483 Anonymous
>>21935473
That's because you define your happiness over the things you don't have instead of what you do have.
3 hours later 21935487 Anonymous
>>21935483
Everyone needs someone.
3 hours later 21935488 Anonymous
>>21935432
Probably good that you get tough but, don't wanna completely run him off. Sometimes, you gotta tell a nigga ten thousand times before it is drilled in. And yes, a lot of naysayers are just strengthening their resolve to criticism immunity.
Yin yang we are. Keep up the good work. Really, I'm just pitty bumping this flotsam.
3 hours later 21935499 Anonymous
>>21935487
Do you have friends? Close family members? Because that's far more important than pussy.
3 hours later 21935500 Anonymous
>>21934826
Mac on a fat chick. They need loving like you. Wtf man? Solutions abound. Pussy is pussy. Fat girls can be more loyal, as they haven't much choice. They can be great people. You can think of whoever while you hump her.
5 hours later 21935837 Anonymous
>>21935500
How "fat" are we talking? Post pic for rererence
5 hours later 21935861 Anonymous
Date a tranny.
5 hours later 21935874 Anonymous
>>21935837
Dont be a fucking idiot. I'm not going shopping for fat chicks for you. Find a cute that's unacceptable for the average chad. Work up to fatter qt3.14 if required. Some of them have good face and fine personality. Can cook, (obviously) and suck a mean dick. A sexy woman has no motivation to learn how to suck a good dick or cook and clean.
5 hours later 21935876 Anonymous
If ricky berwick can find a gf, so can you
You really just gotta work on 2 things
>personality
>not being picky
Also join groups pertaining to disabled and deformed people there has to be groups like this
5 hours later 21935893 Anonymous
>>21935837
Dude you are deformed, beggars can’t be choosers, if someone is going to settle with you you must be open to do the same or start being used to be alone.
5 hours later 21935913 Anonymous
>>21934826
>How do you find a girlfriend if you're physically deformed?
By realizing the only reason your deformity is holding you back is because you refuse to try because of it.
6 hours later 21935915 Anonymous
You get a GF by having value. I was a typical nice guy when I was younger, a real "m'lady" type. I complained about feminism and shit all the time. Then I started to get into my hobbies. When I started to get really good at that, I started to see that people liked being around me a bit more and for a while my entire personality was that hobby. Then I got even better at it and it made me feel like I had value, so I started to take care of myself because I thought "Maybe I can get even more attention then?" and I did. I looked cringy as fuck at first, but I shaped the fuck up. Soon I was really fucking proficient at it and all the practice I got at socializing by my hobby made me use my hobby as a crutch less and less. My current GF constantly refers to me as a high value BF and I really REALLY think that is the difference. If you look at the average incel that just sits and whines and have nothing to add anywhere, who the fuck would want to be with that person? Learn how to cook, learn how to dress, learn how to socialize, take care of your home, take pride in literally anything. If I'm being honest I think you have about the same chance as anyone else. Because people will constantly underestimate you, They will assume that you can't do shit and when you perform at the same level as anyone else people will think "oh my, he is the same as everyone else!" but they won't really categorize you like that, you will look like a fighter in their eyes.
>Stop feeling sorry about yourself
>Get some skills
>Try socializing because it's fun to meet people, not to get pussy.
6 hours later 21935990 Anonymous
>>21935876
>If ricky berwick can find a gf, so can you
I'm guessing that's some guy on youtube who only has a girlfriend after e-fame.
6 hours later 21936029 Anonymous
>>21935990
Answer your own dilemma much? Get some fame! Idk who that is either.
6 hours later 21936072 Anonymous
>>21935127
just stop posting then retard, give up and kill yourself. Fucking idiot
7 hours later 21936086 Anonymous
>>21936029
"Dude just get famous"
Anyway, I'm not quite deformed enough to have my own freakshow channel.
7 hours later 21936096 Anonymous
>>21936086
You have a doomsayer's answer for everything. Have you noticed that about yourself?
7 hours later 21936100 Anonymous
>>21936096
I'm just saying there's trend for these version. It's like that other crippled guy on youtube with the cute gf. You have to be a certain kind of deformed for one of these fame-hungry whores to take pity on you.
7 hours later 21936103 Anonymous
>>21936086
Why do you keep ignoring advice that would actually help you? If you had a friend who acted like you, would you hang out with them?
7 hours later 21936107 Anonymous (nuzpnxm1wl921.jpg 472x609 42kB)
>>21936096
>>21936100
Meant to post pic-related.
7 hours later 21936121 Anonymous
>>21936103
By "advice that would help me" do you mean?
>fat chicks
>dude just be famous
7 hours later 21936123 Anonymous
>>21935380
Huh, this fucking guy was right, you’re too far gone asshole
>>21936107
Careful, he will say there’s no actual proof they’re a couple, and if they are, she’s a gold digger, poor soul OP won’t find anyone
This Mofo has to deflect every single advice given to him
7 hours later 21936126 Anonymous
>>21936121
No, I wrote a rather long post about "try to be more than just "Pity me"
>>21935915
Would you want to hang out with a person that replies with "what's the point?!" whenever they opened their mouths? No, you would stop hanging out with them because you'd get sick of their fucking shit. I know that it is hard, I really do. But you can't be your disability. Be something more. Everyone suffers from these issues. If you have no personality and just whines, no one wants to be with you.
7 hours later 21936134 Anonymous (IMG_0594.jpg 355x473 36kB)
>>21936121
What's wrong with fat chicks?
7 hours later 21936142 Anonymous
>>21936134
He has standards and he’s hoping that “Hot Chicks” randomly notice him
7 hours later 21936147 Anonymous
>>21936134
Nothing per se. Although there's fat chicks and there's FAT chicks. But "lower your standards" is lazy ass advice. It also doesn't factor that a lot of fat chicks feel entitled to chad cock because they got pumped and dumped once.
7 hours later 21936152 Anonymous
>>21936147
Well, "hot girls should just like me" is a lazy ass approach
7 hours later 21936153 Anonymous
>>21936123
>Huh, this fucking guy was right, you’re too far gone asshole
You are that guy, samefag.
I think pic-related likes the attention and virtue points for being his girlfriend. That's the foundation of their relationship. There's no sane reason she would be attracted to him.
7 hours later 21936160 Anonymous
>>21936153
why? Because she couldn't like his personality? Still, why are you avoiding good advice that requires you to put in the slightest of efforts?
7 hours later 21936166 Anonymous
>>21936160
>personality meme
Ok dude
>Still, why are you avoiding good advice that requires you to put in the slightest of efforts?
Point me to the good advice.
7 hours later 21936175 Anonymous (IMG_0595.jpg 1024x768 117kB)
>>21936142
Hmm. A lot of hot chicks are looking for something more unobtainable also. Like a steady government check from a disabilities trust fund and lifelong security. Maybe someone who will stick with thim when youth has faded.
7 hours later 21936176 Anonymous
>>21936153
Dude, you’ve got some issues if you think everyone is just one guy. Case in point, if you’re not going to try to change, why even ask for advice? You’ve got a response to everyone and everything, you feel entitled to be loved, but guess what? You receive what you give and clearly since you’re unable to give anything you’ll never receive shit. Good bye OP
7 hours later 21936179 Anonymous
>>21936166
I wrote it once, and showed you once. You haven't even addressed it yet.
7 hours later 21936183 Anonymous (IMG_0596.jpg 640x460 40kB)
>>21936166
Man, this whole thread is some of the best advice I've ever seen.
7 hours later 21936189 Anonymous
>>21934826
Your problem is not your physical handicap your problem is that you have a shit personality.
Not even gonna bother trying to comb through this thread trying to differentiate your posts from other people's, this one post is enough. You type like a sarcastic 14 year old teenaged girl obvs *shrug*
and then that little bit of subtle misogyny at the end is just the cherry on the cake.
7 hours later 21936190 Anonymous
>>21936179
Where?
7 hours later 21936196 Anonymous
>>21936190
Here, you illiterate dumbass. Before you start to whine about it. Please refute the points I've made rather than making some blanket statement like "It's a meme" or "It won't work" tell me why and we can actually figure out how to help you.
>>21935915
7 hours later 21936204 Anonymous (IMG_0597.jpg 302x400 38kB)
7 hours later 21936205 Anonymous
>>21936189
Why should I be expected to have a good personality when I've been dealt the short end of the stick all my life? Don't judge me by normie standards.
7 hours later 21936216 Anonymous
>>21936205
Then don't expect to get a girlfriend by normie standards
7 hours later 21936219 Anonymous
>>21935380
Im sorry. You were right.
7 hours later 21936220 Anonymous
>>21936216
Okay. I give up.
7 hours later 21936223 Anonymous
>>21936205
because of how human psychology works. But you want to be able to be a fucking tissue paper of a person and demand the attention of others?
7 hours later 21936225 Anonymous
>>21936205
Why would you want to have a shit personality? It's obviously pushing people away, you're actively pushing anyone and everyone in this thread and you push girls away probably just staring daggers at them in silence being mad that they won't come over and give you free pussy on a platter because you deserve it somehow.
7 hours later 21936229 Anonymous
>>21936225
I never said I WANT to have a shit personality but it's a consequence of my life and my deformity. Not quite deformed enough to milk sympathy points like those guys on youtube but deformed enough to feel like a freak every waking moment of your life. And then people wonder why I have such a negative, embittered attitude.
7 hours later 21936239 Anonymous
>>21936229
Yet you do nothing to change, interesting
8 hours later 21936248 Anonymous
>>21936239
What's the point? It doesn't work.
8 hours later 21936272 Anonymous
>>21936229
You went from saying that you were too disfigured to get girl's attention and blaming them, to now not being deformed -enough-
okay goldilocks, bounce the blame around some more.
There's millions and millions of people out there born with deformities and they don't sit there blaming everyone else for it and also blaming everything on it. That's your problem.
Even if you were physically fit you'd be blaming uh dating websites and social media and feminism and some other bullshit as to why you're an incel. excuses after excuses. That's all you people are good for.
8 hours later 21936274 Anonymous
>>21936248
Yes it does, plenty of people change all the time. The question is "Do you want to live like this?" If yes, then why whine, if no, then try. If you don't you're just pathetic.
and again, you haven't read the post I made or even tried to refute it.
8 hours later 21936279 Anonymous
>>21936272
>You went from saying that you were too disfigured to get girl's attention and blaming them, to now not being deformed -enough-
Like I said, the guys on youtube are so deformed that some girls will hitch onto them for the virtue points on social media. I'm not deformed enough to fit that criteria.
>>21936274
In general, I don't think your advice was bad but the normie standards don't apply to me. None of that would make me more attractive in a woman's eyes.
8 hours later 21936296 Anonymous
>>21936279
You want that? You want people to leech off you? Then become rich, you'll have gold digging leeches all around you.
If becoming rich is too complicated or impossible, then try being someone with a personality that isn't like wet sandpaper.
8 hours later 21936310 Anonymous (99A5F33E-676D-4C71-B0F8-BE08A6BFADD3.png 500x566 22kB)
>>21936248
>>21936279
Then why would you make a thread if you already lost all hope, it just puzzles me, you ask for help but refuse to do anything
8 hours later 21936321 Anonymous
>>21936310
Not OP, but it's really amazing how we get threads like this literally all the time. Again, all these other anons that make "wah, females don't pay attention to me" aren't disabled (at least physically) or deformed or anything.
8 hours later 21936332 Anonymous
>>21936321
I just got here, but yeah I agree with you
8 hours later 21936339 Anonymous
>>21936296
>You want that? You want people to leech off you?
Of course not. I'm just explaining that some women will hook up with severely deformed guys for virtue points, not out of genuine attraction.
> try being someone with a personality that isn't like wet sandpaper.
personality meme
8 hours later 21936342 Anonymous
>>21936310
He needs constant reminders of how fucked he is, lest he try to do things to fix his life. He does this by asking the same vague questions around the internet, and getting the same generic advice, advice that he's already disregarded with a variety of excuses, defense mechanisms, and copes.
8 hours later 21936352 Anonymous
>>21936339
>personality meme
why do you keep saying that
8 hours later 21936361 Anonymous
>>21936352
Personality is a meme. Notice how it's always the good-looking/rich guys who have great personalities? Funny how that works, huh?
8 hours later 21936375 Anonymous (440AB726-E87A-456F-B263-4C4B70C1E6E8.jpg 828x796 588kB)
Basically OP.
8 hours later 21936386 Anonymous
>>21936361
>Personality is a meme.
Okay I still don't understand what you're saying. A meme is something that gets repeated via word of mouth and then pop culture, a personality can't be meme. Use actual words if you want us to understand you.
>Notice how it's always the good-looking/rich guys who have great personalities?
It's not. As a quick example I can tell you that Bob who works in accounting is a great guy but he looks like 250 lbs of bird shit and he's certainly not rich.
You're asking who the fuck Bob from accountings is supposed to be, and it's just some guy I know from work. If I gave you the name of someone you'd know it would of course have to be some sort of celebrity and then of course you would be "ahah! Checkmate!"
anyways what's your next excuse
8 hours later 21936401 Anonymous
>>21936386
"Have a good personality" is a meme when it comes to attraction.
>I can tell you that Bob who works in accounting is a great guy but he looks like 250 lbs of bird shit and he's certainly not rich.
Yeah, doesn't make him attractive though.
8 hours later 21936419 Anonymous
>>21936401
>"Have a good personality" is a meme when it comes to attraction.
It does you absolute brainded autistic double retard holy shit I'm actually mad now good job
Explain to me how you think that a personality doesn't matter when using social skills to charm someone.
Have you ever heard of "social skills"? Or are those just a fucking epic kek blue pill meme as well
8 hours later 21936427 Anonymous
>>21936401
Someone who isn't conventionally attractive but whose personality I enjoy is more attractive than someone who is good looking but a cunt.
8 hours later 21936439 Anonymous
Hey jeez what do people do on dates? Do they use talk to each other using things like humor and listening to what the other has to say and replying with appropriate statements and anecdotes and observations and use their personality to charm the other person?
No?
People who go on dates just stare at each other in complete silence because personalities and social skills don't matter in the dating world? oh okay then.
8 hours later 21936441 Anonymous
>>21934826
How about you turn workaholic and be so good autistically good in what you do you attract girls?
8 hours later 21936449 Anonymous
>>21936279
Normie standards are a bullshit excuse. Why even make this thread? You're ignoring the fact that people don't work the way you say you think. You say it does, because if you didn't say that, you would have to accept that you're just a shitty person.
8 hours later 21936454 Anonymous
>>21936419
Plenty of guys are superficially charming. Doesn't mean they have good personalities. It just means they know how to seduce women. A lot of them turn out to be psychopaths.
While some guys are so goodlooking or rich that women are prepared to accept their lack of social skills.
So yeah, spare me your Care Bears personality meme.
8 hours later 21936463 Anonymous
>>21936454
how would you know? You have literally no social skills. You saying that "a lot of guys are superficially charming" is like a pre-schooler berating the scientists at CERN for their work. You're out of your element, Donny!
8 hours later 21936467 Anonymous
>>21934952
Post pics OP
8 hours later 21936476 Anonymous
>>21936463
>You saying that "a lot of guys are superficially charming" is like a pre-schooler berating the scientists at CERN for their work.
Dude, look at the number of women who end up in abusive relationships. "Omg he was so charming and lovely when we first met" etc. Personality is a total meme.
9 hours later 21936481 Anonymous (giphy.gif 336x154 1481kB)
>>21936467
9 hours later 21936489 Anonymous
>>21936454
>Plenty of guys are superficially charming. Doesn't mean they have good personalities. It just means they know how to seduce women.
Okay so why can't you be superficially charming as well why do you have to sit here and be a bitch
9 hours later 21936500 Anonymous
>>21936489
Superficial charm is associated with sociopaths. It's not something you really 'learn'. Sociopaths are unfeeling, have no anxiety or self-consciousness. It's what makes them so adept at manipulating others. I'm a self-loathing, deformed shutin.
9 hours later 21936516 Anonymous
>>21936463
Dude stop, you know that old saying?
>Stupid is knowing the truth, seeing the truth, but still believing the lies.
OP isn’t gonna change, because he’s unable, easy as that. Because it’s too hard, because what’s the point, because there’s always someone who must be cheating the system
9 hours later 21936582 Anonymous
>>21936516
Most of the advice is trash, that's why
>be urself bro
>fuck fat chicks
>just be famous
>clean ur room
And I never had any intention of taking it anyway. I was just using this thread to vent. I know there is no hope for people like me.
9 hours later 21936651 Anonymous
>>21936582
and the good advice is met with "It doesn't apply to me". You literally ignore good advice instead of trying. What do you want to hear? "here's three weird tricks!" or what? I would literally never ever want to spend a minute with you and I haven't even seen your ugly ass. You do realize that? Here looks doesn't matter and still you come off as the most pathetic and useless person ever.
I've read plenty of posts on 4chan about people who seem like really awesome people, you're not one of them. Your disability isn't a factor here and still you suck. You do realize that, right? You as a person must change, You're the second most infuriating person I've replied to here in my 12 years of 4chan browsing. The worst one was a flat earther that was just retarded. Reflect on that.
9 hours later 21936664 Anonymous
>>21936582
You've got to work on your self-confidence, brother. It's eating at you and turning you into a cunt. I don't think this is really who you are as a person but your opinion on yourself is causing you to lash out at others.
9 hours later 21936697 Anonymous
>>21936582
Imagine Steve Buscemi "But he's famous!!!" Yes, but there was a time when he wasn't. Then he was just a googly-eyed dude that wanted to act. He must have convinced people that they should give him a chance. He probably followed the list I gave you. He could probably dress somewhat, he was probably really nice, he was probably at least a decent actor and pleasant to be around. It didn't stop him that he looked like that. Same with Willem Dafoe or Peter Fucking Dinklage. Imagine being fucking Peter Dinklage, do you think he acted like you and was thrown acting jobs? No, he fucking worked for it, despite being a fucking dwarf!
9 hours later 21936703 Anonymous
>>21936500
>It's not something you really 'learn'
Social skills ARE learned, it's not that difficult to look at someone when they're talking and smile and nod and occasionally go "haha wow that's crazy no way then what happened"
>>21936454
>Plenty of guys are superficially charming. Doesn't mean they have good personalities.
They're good enough personalities.
9 hours later 21936706 Anonymous
>>21936582
>>be urself bro
>>fuck fat chicks
>>just be famous
>>clean ur room
Literally no one said this. Good job being upset at stuff you make up as you go along.
10 hours later 21936740 Anonymous
>has never tried
>only makes excuses
>actively avoids doing anything that would get him a gf
Sure, you have tried everything.
10 hours later 21936752 Anonymous
>>21936706
I'm sorry you're illiterate.
10 hours later 21936760 Anonymous
>>21936651
There's no sdvice here. Only garbage memes. But like I said, there's no help for people like me anyway. Not deformed enough to get special treatment but too deformed to live by normie standards.
10 hours later 21936775 Anonymous
>>21936752
You're not quoting anyone in this thread in those greentext meme arrows my dude
quit acting like a fat blogger lady on twitter who gets upset at things she makes up and imagines other people might be saying
10 hours later 21936776 Anonymous
>>21936760
So what’s your “deformity” anyways?
10 hours later 21936781 Anonymous
>>21936775
Okay
>>21935500
Literal "fuck fat chicks"
10 hours later 21936785 Anonymous
>>21936776
Asked and answered TWICE
10 hours later 21936789 Anonymous
>>21936781
Someone also recommended dating trannies.
10 hours later 21936792 Anonymous
>>21934826
I know a guy who's mostly blind, and yet he's the most charming person I know and very popular among women. Why?
>ambitious not hopeless
>listens to every conversation very attentively
>exercises and has good haircut
Not sure what else- great guy. Keep improving yourself anon, never stop and maximize your enjoyment.
10 hours later 21936793 Anonymous
>>21936781
>>21936789
Okay now look at the other 125 posts that aren't saying that.
I mean, yes, about 100 of those are just you complaining some more but still
and hey, fat chicks aren't a bad idea. I'm not down with trannies though.
10 hours later 21936803 Anonymous (B27BDB73-EB7A-482D-B230-8DCF6E73C720.jpg 452x678 31kB)
>>21936785
>Scheuermann's kyphosis and pectus carinatum
Aren’t there surgeries to help you with that?
The only thing that apparently you can’t change is your bitch ass attitude
10 hours later 21936804 Anonymous
>>21936792
Does he have a girlfriend? Does he go on dates? Anyway blindness is quite romantic to some women for obvious reasons
10 hours later 21936807 Anonymous
>>21936803
I've seen several consultants. They won't operate on me. Said my condition isn't severe enough. The surgery would be too risky for minimal improvement.
10 hours later 21936822 Anonymous
>>21936807
>Said my condition isn't severe enough.
so how are you blaming your condition for being an incel
10 hours later 21936824 Anonymous (Elon-musk-blunt.jpg 1000x541 57kB)
>>21936804
>Anyway blindness is quite romantic to some women for obvious reasons
where are you going with this, what's supposed to be obvious reasons?
10 hours later 21936829 Anonymous
>>21936822
I'm still deformed even if I'm not AS bad as pic-related >>21936803
10 hours later 21936832 Anonymous
>>21936824
They have a guy who value her inner-beauty.
10 hours later 21936840 Anonymous
>>21936829
>I'm still deformed
You notice how there's like at least 8 or 9 people in this thread telling you that your mild "deformity" is not the problem it's the fact that you've got a bag of sour milk instead of a personality.
10 hours later 21936846 Anonymous
>>21936840
I don't give a shit. They have no idea what it's like to live with this.
10 hours later 21936848 Anonymous
>>21936832
You do know that blind people read people's faces and bodies by touching them, right
10 hours later 21936853 Anonymous
>>21936846
>I don't give a shit.
If you didn't give a shit, this thread wouldn't exist you wouldn't have posted anything like this in the first place. You'd instead be playing video games or eating a sandwich or jerking off instead
11 hours later 21936867 Anonymous
>>21936848
Women are stupid
11 hours later 21936878 Anonymous
>>21936846
Exactly, you want to be miserable and alone. You do not want a gf.
11 hours later 21936890 Anonymous
>>21936878
Nah, I already told ya, people like me are too deformed to be normal but not deformed enough to get special treatment. We're stuck in limbo
11 hours later 21936893 Anonymous
>>21936867
So when were women the subject of this lame ass thread. I literally went to the gym and returned and there’s like +100 replies
11 hours later 21936912 Anonymous
>>21936893
>So when were women the subject of this lame ass thread.
not him but wasn't that always the point of the thread, first sentence is asking how to find a girlfriend
11 hours later 21936918 Anonymous
>>21936912
Yeah, but at what point did he just lost it and ended things with a
>Women are stupid
Not saying they’re not, but I’m just curious
11 hours later 21936929 Anonymous
>>21936918
>at what point did he just lost it
I don't think he had it to begin with
11 hours later 21937014 Anonymous
>>21936890
No you're not. You literally do everything possible to avoid getting a gf. You obviously do not want one or else you would be talking to girls and asking them out instead of whining on a malaysian rice harvesting forum.
Why are you lying and saying you want a gf?
16 hours later 21937655 Anonymous
>>21937014
You know, you're probably right. I don't want one. So why do I feel depressed that I'm without one?
16 hours later 21937659 Anonymous
>>21937655
It's shame
16 hours later 21937695 Anonymous
>>21937655
You feel sad for a multitude of reasons. Saying that it's all because of no gf is escapism, letting you forget about the other reasons, ones you could work on.
16 hours later 21937732 Anonymous
>>21937695
I never said it's all because that, I'm just sick of being lonely and single.
16 hours later 21937733 Anonymous
>>21934952
Knew it the second I read OP. These are not severe deformities. What you need is confidence and to find whatever your actual issues are. Your deformity is not your problem.
Also, go to the gym and consider surgery. Do everything you can to help your deformity.
t. Pectus excavatum
16 hours later 21937736 Anonymous
>>21937732
Then go out and get girls. It's easier than ever these days. What prevents you? Answer: nothing.
17 hours later 21937801 Anonymous
>>21937736
>It's easier than ever these days
Lies. Even for normies it's a ballache.
17 hours later 21937833 Anonymous
>>21937801
You lie. Thanks to internet finding potential partners and hookups is easier than ever for everyone.
17 hours later 21937837 Anonymous
>>21937833
Online dating has only made it easier for women to find chads.
17 hours later 21937859 Anonymous
>>21937837
Online dating has made it easier for everyone to find everyone. Stop believing in incel memes such as chad, it's not good for you. Incel ideology is strongly supported by gay psyops.
18 hours later 21937865 Anonymous
>>21937801
>>21937833
Hold up! Old fag here. What the motherfuckingfuck did you think we did to "hook?" I know right? Nofuckingthing.
18 hours later 21937874 Anonymous
>>21937859
You really need to get a fucking job, you retarded troll cunt. Kill yourself.
18 hours later 21937898 Anonymous
>>21937859
Nah the bigger psyop is convincing incels they actually stand a chance.
18 hours later 21937911 Anonymous
>>21934826
Could a stranger tell you're deformed when you're wearing clothes?
18 hours later 21937916 Anonymous
>>21937911
Yes. That's why I was bullied in school
18 hours later 21937918 Anonymous
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=K5kr2 OBhh4c
18 hours later 21937926 Anonymous
>>21937916
I have pectus carinatum, but if someone didn't know me they would just think it was a ripple in my shirt. It's only on one side and sticks out about the thickness of my thumb.
18 hours later 21937928 Anonymous
>>21934826
Truthfully women are not into physical appearance as much as men. It’s not like no women care, most do; it’s just less than men.
What they do care about is confidence. No need to be open about “deformities”, these sound like mild physical issues but nothing severe at all.
You’re being too hard on yourself anon, you have to bootstrap confidence but just fake confidence till you make it
18 hours later 21937935 Anonymous
>>21937926
Well I've had plenty of people make comments about it.
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