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2019-10-06 03:15 21435418 Anonymous Stress over not being beautiful enough (sad.jpg 225x225 4kB)
I just can't take this shit anymore, guys. Women treat me like ultrasubhuman piece of shit. It's such a fucking joke that, because I was born unattractive, I'm denied any compassion from females(except my family). Yeah, I know that you are thinking right now about some bullshit like: OH JUST FORGET ABOUT WOMEN or JUST HIRE A PROSTITUTE or BECAME GAY/TRANNY or JUST GET A FUCKING SURGERY BRO. I'm sorry but that's all just fucking stupid. So what should I do?

1 hours later 21435682 Anonymous
>>21435418 Grow up. Literally. Young teenage girls judge guys on looks, just as young guys judge girls entirely on breast size. But as they grow up, both genders begin to realize it's the person inside the packaging that matters. Be the kind of guy women like and looks won't be a barrier

1 hours later 21435688 Anonymous
>>21435418 Work out?

1 hours later 21435694 Anonymous
>>21435418 Work with what you got, like the rest of us. It’s not that hard.

1 hours later 21435697 Anonymous
>>21435682 Kek >As they grow up, they begin to realize that personality matters Yeah women realize that when they hit the wall, they are 30 yo or more and they are single mothers that's the time when they realize. I don't think ugly men want a woman who had over 20 dicks inside her and now they are looking for a beta fuck who will pay for her kid.

1 hours later 21435703 Anonymous
>>21435688 Here we go again, workout meme. Working out will solve all your problems. You have autism or down syndrome? Hit the gym.

1 hours later 21435717 Anonymous
>>21435418 Honestly, this happens for everybody. I don’t mean in any way to belittle what you’re feeling when I say this, but I thought it was just worth stating that 90% of people feel this way. Men don’t care for unattractive women in the same sense women don’t care for unattractive men. Unless you are that 10% of noticeably attractive people in a crowd, people don’t care. You just have to rely on the fact that decent people try to look beyond appearance. But, I’m rambling now and not making much sense. Hope it all works out for you~

1 hours later 21435721 Anonymous
>>21435697 Actually, the maturing usually comes in the college years.

1 hours later 21435729 Anonymous
>>21435721 Sorry anon you're wrong. During college years the majority of girls just want to have fun so they ride as many cocks as they can and go to parties.

1 hours later 21435737 Anonymous
>>21435721 Not when i was im college. I hoped that would the case, being surrounded by people becoming adults. But nope, Just dumb kids doing dumb shit.

2 hours later 21435744 Anonymous
>>21435737 Exactly this. People in college are still retarded, especially normies.

2 hours later 21435748 Anonymous
>>21435682 Man, I even predicted an answer like this(OH JUST FORGET ABOUT WOMEN). It's getting harder with every day to see couples walking around, while I have been denied that just because I was born ugly

2 hours later 21435753 Anonymous
>>21435748 Either get money so girls will want you or hire an escort.

2 hours later 21435756 Anonymous
>>21435688 I guess it can boost my looks, but... in order to truly boost my looks by gymmaxing I need to use steroids or some shit like that and I simply refuse to do that

2 hours later 21435760 Anonymous
>>21435756 Good body won't help you if you aren't handsome.

2 hours later 21435761 Anonymous
>>21435753 I will rather die than to give females even a cent. Basically the same goes for escort

2 hours later 21435765 Anonymous
>>21435760 Exactly

2 hours later 21435769 Anonymous
>>21435764 That's exactly what makes my blood boil. This idea that I should die alone just because I got shitty genes. Fuck that's so brutal

2 hours later 21435775 Anonymous
>>21435769 You're not the only one on the world with shitty genes. You can always try to get a girlfriend as ugly as you.

2 hours later 21435777 Anonymous
>>21435748 >while I have been denied that just because I was born ugly this is just bullshit. there are so many straight up dog-looking dudes who have wives and girlfriends. there are many ugly men out there. more often than not the actually hideous men are not going through what you're going through because they learn at an early age to accept their looks and learn to modify their personality accordingly. that's why you see so many threads of dudes complaining that they are ugly and then when they post a pic it's not that bad, because they haven't had to learn to develop the internal as much as an actually ugly person learns that. you don't have a girlfriend because you have low self esteem and low self-confidence, not because of your looks. I was going to say that it's due to having a bad personality but even then plenty of absolute assholes have girlfriends. many of the posters in this thread have hit the issue on the nose, you work with what you got. exercise is one of the best all around ways to change your looks because it's good for you, it can really make a difference, and it'll improve your mood. you need therapy dude.

2 hours later 21435779 Anonymous
>>21435777 This. Working out and witnessing how your body changes boosts your confidence a lot.

2 hours later 21435788 Anonymous
>>21435777 Oh, it's MUH PERSONALITY dude. Listen, I really appreciate you writing that post, but it's so fucking stupid that I'm actually thinking that you are trolling me

2 hours later 21435792 Anonymous
>>21435779 Look above. I already said my opinions on gymmaxing

2 hours later 21435797 Anonymous
>>21435792 You don't have to gymmax, unless you have really shitty genes to gain muscles which is impossible you can achieve good looking body without steroids. I think you are just lazy and you're making excuses to not change your life anon.

2 hours later 21435801 Anonymous
>>21435788 relationships aren't porn. attractiveness is the barrier to entry but if there's nothing behind that attractiveness then you don't have a second date. this happens all the time and it's why hookup culture is so prevalent, there's plenty of attractive and fuckable people out there but fewer good partners specifically for your tastes and needs.

2 hours later 21435820 Anonymous
>>21435797 Look I'm not making excuses believe it or not, but I'm just a realist. It's a fact : in order for my body to become attractive enough to boost my looks level I need steroids, and I will never use them

2 hours later 21435823 Anonymous
>>21435682 Damn nigga, thats a good joke. In today's fling-based short term society it's becoming rarer and rarer for people to date off if the inside until they're literally old and decrepit. The best thing to do if you're ugly is to acquire currency and only pay for sex services sparingly (never marry the gold diggers) until you too are old and decrepit.

2 hours later 21435841 Anonymous (are_you_kidding_me.jpg 600x695 60kB)
>>21435788 What were you expecting to hear when you went on advice? What magical sorcery did you expect an imageboard of strangers to bestow upon you that would make you fuckable? You're acting like a damn a child. I used to be just like you. I'm average-looking, yet most girls would ghost me whenever they saw my pic because I just wasn't good enough in photos. I've had 3 long-term relationships and a few casual flings. Ugly girls will occasionally hit on me, though it's usually when I'm hitting on a girl much more attractive than them for some reason. Point is, you really do learn that personality matters as you grow up. I've become attracted to girls I never thought I would when they demonstrated how not-retarded they were, and became disenchanted with former crushes when I realized how retarded they were. Funny thing is, the most retarded ones tend to lose their looks pretty quick. You shouldn't settle for a girl you're not attracted to - that's bad for you and her. But try to have a normal conversation with girls before deciding whether you want to stick your dick in them first. >>21435820 This is an absolute meme, getting instagram model good-looks to the point where every swipe on tinder is a match is a ludicrous bar to reach. It's more than enough to just be fit. Fitness newbies all seem to have this illusion.

2 hours later 21435869 Anonymous
>>21435841 What was I expecting? I think you understand that after females reject you all your damn life I became a little desperate for human communication, so basically I wanted to share my sadness and stuff. But if I'm being honest I would appreciate some looksmaxxing advice, but I dont anyone can give me any without seeing my photo and I'm not fucking degenerate to post my photo on 4chan

2 hours later 21435877 Anonymous
>>21435869 you need to work on your personality, not looks.

2 hours later 21435888 Anonymous
broke fat fucks are dating hot 10 blondes theyre ugly, fat, and not rich

3 hours later 21435907 Anonymous (eye_rolling_feels.jpg 645x773 36kB)
>>21435869 I mean I get it, being deprived of and getting rejected by girls sucks. The feelings of want and negative emotions of not getting girls are way more powerful than the feelings of pleasure you actually get from fucking some random hot girl. I've had some truly awful sex before, and would much rather have an intimate experience with someone I care about versus fucking some club slut. But since you're deadset on being a retarded clown, then fine, go to the lookism forums, listen to fellow incels parrot exactly what you want to hear on their youtube channels, and go have a miserable life where your self-worth is determined by your ability to get laid. Mew to get a stronger jaw, unrioncally get surgery to get a more chad face (yes, do it you stupid cunt) and work out. Steroids cause long-term problems and aren't advised, but getting SARMS, clenbutrol, or a test boost ain't gonna fuck you up too bad, it's what hollywood people do without problems.

3 hours later 21435909 Anonymous
>>21435869 How do you explain all those guys uglier than you who have gfs?

3 hours later 21435948 Anonymous
>>21435418 Dude even men who are above average 7s and 8s on the rating don't get much attention, be happy you don't have a chronic illness, be healthy, work with what you got, love yourself and screw the rest if they don't like you.

3 hours later 21435967 Anonymous
>>21435418 Post face so maybe we can actually give you some advice, you attention seeking fag

3 hours later 21435969 Anonymous
>>21435907 I don't want to be disrespectful but people who are saying that personality matters are the clowns not me. I'm actually amazed that there are still people like that. I thought that the only people who think that personality matters are retards from reddit or actual fucking chads who think they have a gf because of their goddamn personality

3 hours later 21435982 Anonymous
>>21435909 There are NONE. I don't need to explain anything

3 hours later 21435985 Anonymous
>>21435969 You have literally never had a date or kissed a girl. Why do you think you know about this subject more than guys who attract girls easily? Why do you think that personality does not matter? Do you seriously think that even an angry entitled whiny manchild like you could get girls if he looked good?

3 hours later 21435986 Anonymous
>>21435982 Are you literally the ugliest guy in the world? In human history? Uglier than elephant man?

3 hours later 21435989 Anonymous
>>21435967 I really want to, but I understand that posting your face on 4chan is one of the most insanely fucking stupid things you can do

3 hours later 21436001 Anonymous
>>21435986 I'm sorry, but I'm not a woman, I cant tell if I'am the ugliest man in the history. But let's look at the facts: never had gf, women are fucking disgusted by me, I've been called ugly by women on anonymous chats. Combine all that and we have the verdict: I'am ugly as fuck

3 hours later 21436008 Anonymous
>>21435985 Do I seriously think that if I was attractive enough I could have a gf. Dude, what kind of clown world do you live in? Of fucking course

3 hours later 21436027 Anonymous
>>21435418 Are you skinny or fat? May be easier to lose weight and define hidden muscle than to be thin and put muscle on. Sucks limiting the calorie intake while doing so. The great news, if you’re skinny, you get to carb up and eat lots of protein prior to working out. A lot easier than being hungry but takes a little more work to get muscle. Are there more immediate fixes you can work on? Social skills, appearance, haircut or a shave, clothing? Women don’t just love one quality but several in a guy. Where you lack in one, you get better at another. Women who demand only one quality are either shallow or fetishizing; either way, they’re not worth the time. Likewise, you need to enjoy your partner’s many qualities as well. What features would you sacrifice >>21435888 to maintain a relationship? Some deficits are repairable and as a couple the can be improved on together.

3 hours later 21436036 Anonymous
>>21435682 Uhh no they don’t. Hahaha yeah some fucking hideous skin affliction is not going to be over looked, or brutal disfigurement . You’re the one that needs to grow up. I bet you’re moderately attractive it always these people that say it’s whats on the inside what counts. 99.9% of people are ugly on the inside.

3 hours later 21436044 Anonymous
>>21435418 It sucks anon wait until you get older and find out the amount of money you make and social status is important too.

3 hours later 21436051 Anonymous
>>21435969 Personality Physical attractiveness Income Self assured, confidence, risk taker Humorous Caring, mutually aware, sensitive Talented or skilled Hygiene Openess Motivated These are aspects of being a good partner. Some matter more then others, some less. But taken as a whole, these are a lot of the things we seek in friends and lovers if we want a genuine relationship.

3 hours later 21436054 Anonymous
>>21436027 Okay, so I'm 5'10 tall and my weight is 141 pounds , so I guess I'm skinny. Social skills are retarded. The only thing that all women want is beatiful face and that is what I'm lacking. Also I wear glasses like a nerd, but I refuse to wear lenses, so I don't think I can do something about it.

3 hours later 21436057 Anonymous
>>21435717 It’s not going to work out. Lol how the fuck does one person one to have sex with a person they’re not that physically attracted to. I work with a girl who is great, we get a long well, same interests and sense of humour. We’ll never hook up though because she it seems like she has scoliosis, is 5 feet tall and has disgusting teeth. So yeah I’m definitely going to want to have sex with her based on what’s inside kek

3 hours later 21436063 Anonymous
>>21435721 Yeah after that girls care about one thing - money

3 hours later 21436067 Anonymous
>>21435418 I cannot believe nobody's suggested castration yet. You will literally stop giving a fuck

3 hours later 21436070 Anonymous
>>21436051 Anon, I'm sorry but that's simply wrong. In our world or you can say SOCIETY physical attractiveness = confidence, personality, humor, being talented, openess and so on

3 hours later 21436072 Anonymous
>>21435777 Wrong. Women care about money. A good looking woman is not going out with the guy who works at 7/11 because why? She can get a guy who makes more money. She might fuck the guy who is attractive and works at 7/11 but she is never introducing him to her senpai.

3 hours later 21436073 Anonymous
>>21436008 Your mistake is thinking that attractiveness is only about looks when in fact it is a combination of many things including personality. Your behavior on this thread makes it pretty clear you have an awful shitty personality and that definitely turns off girls.

3 hours later 21436076 Anonymous
>>21436054 So, quit bitching if you have no real intentions to do anything about yourself. Enjoy that self imposed cage. You are currently a lump of clay that- despite the best efforts of skilled artisans around you— would prefer to remain a lump of clay.

3 hours later 21436078 Anonymous
>>21436067 HAHAHAH LOL SO EDGY AND FUNNY HAHAHHAHAHAH BOY THAT 4TH SEASON OF RICK AND MORTY IS COMING SOON YEEEEAAAAAH

3 hours later 21436081 Anonymous
>>21435841 Women are not capable of normal conversation, if a woman is capable of moving past the trivial in conversation

3 hours later 21436083 Anonymous
>>21435888 Prove it

3 hours later 21436085 Anonymous
"Beautiful" is used to describe women, art, or feminine qualities. If someone tells me a man is beautiful I picture a person with well-groomed and androgynous features. Long silky hair, clear skin, skinny, maybe a touch of makeup. Is this your goal?

3 hours later 21436088 Anonymous
>>21436076 Anon, I understand but look: I have bad eyesight so there are 3 solutions to this 1) Glasses, which I'm using right now 2) Lenses, which I'm simply scared of, I believe they cause some damage to your eyes so you eventually need to have surgery( just one thought makes me want to vomit) 3) Surgery, self-explenatory And seriously, SKILLED ARTISANS? hahahHahah that's stupid

4 hours later 21436095 Anonymous
>>21436073 And your mistake is having an ideology of a redditor, still thinking about MUH PERSONALITY meme

4 hours later 21436101 Anonymous
>>21436085 Beauty applies to the aesthetics of an object and not necessarily male or female A car, a building, a landscape, or well written book are things of beauty; none of which have gender. The human body is what is described as beautiful. No need to tenderize it.

4 hours later 21436102 Anonymous
>>21436001 >I'm sorry, but I'm not a woman, I cant tell if I'am the ugliest man in the history. i forgot the part where straight men are vampires so they don't have reflections. makes sense as to why you won't post a picture now, you can't! >>21436072 most people care about their partners finances, yes. and gold diggers exist for both sexes. doesn't change the fact that op needs to work on his internal more than his external.

4 hours later 21436104 Anonymous
>>21436085 Listen, when I say that I want to be attractive(or beautiful) what I actually mean is: I want to be attractive enough so that females would want to be my girlfriends. So, I don't have "goals"

4 hours later 21436106 Anonymous
>>21436088 There are people here who have had actual, real life relationships trying to tell you how things work. Where exactly are you getting your information from? Your hurt feelings? Shitty teenage comedies?

4 hours later 21436123 Anonymous
>>21436106 I have been talking to women A LOT on anonymous chat forums, also though I have never had a relationship it doesn't mean that I never spoke to a woman. I know you will not believe this and think that I'm some kind of super narcissistic idiot, but I actually believe that I understand women and relationships better than most people.

4 hours later 21436130 Anonymous
>>21436088 I’ve worn contacts for quite a while as well as glasses. Learn to put them in, take them out properly, no issues. You have to keep them clean, keep your hands away from your eyes, take a break during allergy season. Find a different set of glasses. Have not tried laser surgery, sort of pricey, and have no issues with glasses or contacts. Taken as a whole, you’re in a room full of mostly people who would like you to succeed. They are offering advice in which you could reshape your life, albeit not literal artisans.

4 hours later 21436136 Anonymous
>>21436123 Talking to anonymous people who may or may not actually be women =/= being in a relationship. How old are you?

4 hours later 21436153 Anonymous
>>21436095 You are beyond hope. Do you seriously think you acting like an angry shithead will help you attract girls? Try being a bit nicer.

4 hours later 21436159 Anonymous
>>21436123 You also understand brain surgery better than most brain surgeons because you have read about it and seen youtube videos of it?

4 hours later 21436160 Anonymous
>>21436104 Start setting goals. You obviously have a minimal bar you’ve set that women will like you: that’s a goal. Now ask yourself honestly about where you are at, and where you want to be; how to achieve that, whether it’s what you believe to be a realistic goal or not. Measure that progress. It’s a fluid process, so the goals might move about as you progress. Sit and do nothing: don’t expect any positive achievements to come about. You’ll get fat, you’ll get uglier on the inside, you’ll be more broken and harder to fix.

4 hours later 21436163 Anonymous
>>21436123 >I actually believe that I understand women and relationships better than most people Where does this knowledge come from and why are you not using it to get women and relationships?

4 hours later 21436172 Anonymous
>>21436102 Caring about finances automatically makes one a gold digger.stop moving the goal posts.

4 hours later 21436182 Anonymous
>>21436160 Achieving goals will not fix anything

4 hours later 21436212 Anonymous
>>21436078 Thank you for the kind words. And don't forget to cut off your moms dick

4 hours later 21436214 Anonymous
>>21436182 It would help you feel better about yourself. Isn't that a good thing?

5 hours later 21436385 Anonymous
>>21436172 Caring only about finances makes You a gold digger. Obviously you don’t want a scrub living off your efforts. You can overlook current financial health if you see potential for growth or that this person makes you happy and money’s not an issue.

5 hours later 21436406 Anonymous
>>21436182 Achieving goals improves self confidence and task mastery. You can focus on the task, set standards, get away from all that bleak shiat clogging up your ability to see things as they really are. That and some stuff needing doing gets done.

10 hours later 21437333 Anonymous
>>21435761 You don't have much of a choice, ugly.

11 hours later 21437449 Anonymous
>>21436163 Oh my god, you don't listen, do you. I cannot use that knowledge because I'm ugly. It's as simple as that

11 hours later 21437452 Anonymous
>>21436153 Anon, the only thing that matters is looks, but don't think that I'm some kind of toxic angry gamer type of person. I'm a normal guy(if we are talking about personality)

11 hours later 21437457 Anonymous
>>21435418 Women not wanting to date you does not equal treating you like a subhuman.

11 hours later 21437462 Anonymous
>>21436136 I know this sounds stupid but you are underestimating the power of this chats. I don't want to go into details but trust me when I say that 95% of women in this chat are in fact women

11 hours later 21437465 Anonymous
>>21435703 You deserve getting rejected

11 hours later 21437468 Anonymous
>>21435418 Define ugly, faggot. Either post your face/body so you can get sensible advice or stop wasting time with your "woe is me" bullshit. If you were that fucking ugly, you'd have already lost hope or grown up. The fact that you feel like you deserve a relationship suggests that your situation isn't entirely hopeless, so quit the pity shit. Either post your actual problem or fuck off.

11 hours later 21437469 Anonymous
>>21436130 The problem is: I WANT to succeed, but I CANT(it's important to understand the meaning of the word cant) there's nothing that I can do, and this is the idea of this thread. Hopelessness

11 hours later 21437471 Anonymous
>>21437465 That was actually not me(op) but... he is right. I just don't like how rude this anon is

11 hours later 21437481 Anonymous
>>21435418 Are you getting denied work in favour of more attractive men because of your looks? Are you putting on makeup (or whatever men put on to make their faces more attractive) everyday and wearing your best clothes so that people will take you seriously when you talk to them? The only “”””subhuman””” treatment you’re getting is not being able to find a date. Grow the fuck up faggot, you’re nothing special. Half the population is as ugly as you and feels the same way you do and yet most ugly people end up reproducing and passing on their ugly genes. Quit being a pissy cunt and maybe improve yourself as a human being.

11 hours later 21437486 Anonymous
>>21435418 get gud BEYTHA!!!!

11 hours later 21437492 Anonymous
>>21437481 God, you are dense. I understand every word that you are saying. Reread my post, I even predicted this bullshit. OH JUST FORGET ABOUT WOMEN.

11 hours later 21437499 Anonymous
>>21437492 If you can’t forget about women and you have no intention of improving yourself, you should just off yourself. Literally this kind of mentality isn’t going to get you anywhere in life.

12 hours later 21437520 Anonymous
>>21437492 You are fucking pathetic, and you will stay that way for the rest of your worthless life, alone and utterly unloved. Good luck with that!

13 hours later 21437681 Anonymous
>>21436406 No it doesn’t, it leaves you empty because you realize achieving goals doesn’t change anything.

13 hours later 21437685 Anonymous
>>21436385 Seeing if there is a potential for future growth makes you a gold digger. If we’re being honest then a rich woman would have no problem dating the guy that works at the pizzeria and doesn’t own a car but this is not happening.

13 hours later 21437696 Anonymous
>>21437481 How do ugly people have sex with ugly people without feeling depressed. I’ve only had sex with pigs and want to kill myself each time I do. Disgusting half women.

13 hours later 21437719 Anonymous (5ABD6D8C-D81C-4017-9819-7D90B7DAD3E7.jpg 1469x1600 618kB)
What is it with men being so god damned obsessed with their looks? It’s so feminine, insecure, and frankly very unattractive. All women want is a good man with a pair of balls. Sure, if their just looking for a hook.-up they’re gonna go for the best looking guy, otherwise they’re gonna go for the best man. Protip: looking at the mirror and going “am I ugly? Am I not” is about the least manly thing you can do. It’s not surprising woman aren’t feeling it for these types.

13 hours later 21437729 Anonymous
>>21435418 It gets worse when you realize it doesn't matter how good you look people will shit on you male or female even if you're a bit off.

13 hours later 21437733 Anonymous
>>21435418 Shut the fuck up you whiny little bitch

13 hours later 21437746 Anonymous
>>21435418 >Stress over not being beautiful enough it's understandable, I was afflicted by a condition that caused my face to be totally asymmetrically. it ruined my self esteem growing up. I have since then had 2 major corrective surgeries to fix it, but I'm not happy with it. And if you are not happy with something you change it, luckily for me I have a whole year off, I plan to just work my ass off to save enough to fix the problem issues. Change it op.

13 hours later 21437758 Anonymous
>>21437719 True

16 hours later 21438225 Anonymous
>>21437499 >>21437520 Well, anons. You just showed what truly scares me about my situation. While, yes, I'm stressed over not getting a gf and stuff but... what truly terrifies is that the only solution I have is killing myself. It's like I'm in some sort of prison and the only solution is suicide

16 hours later 21438232 Anonymous
>>21437746 JUST GET A FUCKING SURGERY BRO. That's ridiculous, anon

16 hours later 21438237 Anonymous
>>21437719 Complete fucking nonsense.Today, manly means handsome. So, even if you are a soldier and fought against ISIS but you are ugly, women will think that you are a complete piece of garbage

16 hours later 21438264 Anonymous
>>21438237 You nasty little autist. Manliness is spirit, manliness is virtue. You clearly lack a masculine spirit (hence your unbearable bitching.) This is why women don’t want you, because you’re an insecure, self-pitying child.

16 hours later 21438276 Anonymous
>>21438264 You don't know me. You are making stupid assumptions plus you have reddit mentality. God, Of course I understand what manliness means, you illiterate stupid shit. I said that WOMEN(!) have a different understanding of manliness

16 hours later 21438298 Anonymous
>>21438276 Yes anon, you clearly have a superior understanding of women on a whole.

17 hours later 21438351 Anonymous
>>21438276 It is so obvious you have literally zero experience with women. Everything you said is just plain wrong and an outright lie. You're doing nothing but repeating incel mantras. >I understand what manliness means Of course you don't. If you did, you wouldn't be whining like an entitled spoiled child. You literally sound like a 12 year old throwing a tantrum about not wanting to eat his veggies.

17 hours later 21438405 Anonymous
>>21438351 >Have literally zero experience with women You stupid cunt. Of course I don't have experience with women, they don't allow me to have that experience >incel mantras Well, if you wouldn't be so damn stupid, you would understand that those INCEL MANTRAS are actually the fucking truth, it's just that you have your own autistic idea of women's mind

17 hours later 21438414 Anonymous
>>21438405 >the absolute lack of self-awareness

17 hours later 21438416 Anonymous
>>21438276 every bitch loves a man in uniform unless you are deformed stfu kid

18 hours later 21438466 Anonymous
>>21438405 You cultists are beyond redemption. You so badly want to avoid women, you are so afraid of doing anything that would get you a girl, that you do everything possible to actively avoid doing anything that would get you a gf. This is a tenet of your religion. One of the cores of incelism.

18 hours later 21438520 Anonymous
>>21438466 >Incels >Want to avoid women Either you are trolling or you are just a fucking degenerate. Like seriously, you can check the person's intelligence by asking: do you believe in MUH PERSONALITY meme?

18 hours later 21438546 Anonymous
>>21438520 When has an incel ever done anything that would get him a gf? Answer: never. When you tell an incel how he would get a gf he will angrily come up with excuses for not trying. Also funny you would bring up intelligence when you clearly are showing here the fact that incels, including you, have very low intelligence.

18 hours later 21438555 Anonymous
>>21437449 >because I'm ugly on the inside and have a super shitty personality and am an awful person to be around Fixed that for you.

18 hours later 21438562 Anonymous
>>21435869 You're a petty person. Accept your downsides, and begin working on them. If you actually want help and wish to improve yourself, then listen to the advice given to you. But you refuse to listen, and you refuse to let go from your insecurities, which cause you to willingly not consider the advice given here, and to instead just make up excuses. It's easiest to make up excuses. It's easiest to play as a victim of conditions outside of our control. Well guess what, we're all subjects to such conditions. Playing victim is a loser's position, literally. It's much harder to take responsibility. Either listen to the advice given here, and start to actually work on improving yourself, or stop wasting others' time.

18 hours later 21438566 Anonymous
>>21438555 Checked.

19 hours later 21438575 Anonymous
>>21435682 But his personality is shit too. He's a whiny piece of shit looking for anything to blame but himself. That's a huge red flag that he has a shit ugly personality and he is to be avoided or he will make your life shit too. A man with a good personality does not whine, rant or hold grudges (and baseless ones at at that) against women.

19 hours later 21438586 Anonymous
>>21438405 >they don't allow me Why should they "allow you" when you're a creepy, whiny, unbearable, selfish piece of crap who only thinks about himself and doesn't care that he's inflicting his shitty disgusting horrible unbearable self on others? If you had any consideration for women you would stop whining, stop blaming others for your failures, accept that it's your fault you're so annoying nobody wants to be around you, stop being such a piece of shit and become a good positive person. But no, you're like a toxic shitty smelly hobo and you want to rub your smell onto everyone else so they smell bad too. Fuck off you toxic waste dump.

19 hours later 21438600 Anonymous
>>21438562 >Advice given here Maybe I missed it, but I don't see any advice that I can use. All I see is: OH JUST HAVE A BETTER PERSONALITY BRO(you pieces of shit don't know me, you have no idea of my actual personality), OH JUST GO WORKOUT BRO(I already said my opinions on gymmaxing above), OH JUST GO HAVE A SURGERY BRO(abysmal levels of IQ) and finally OH JUST GO KILL YOURSELF BRO(self explanatory). So, which of these "advices" should I use, anon?

19 hours later 21438607 Anonymous
>>21438600 And when you say that you've tried everything they've suggested, they call you a liar, lmao.

19 hours later 21438624 Anonymous
>>21438600 What's wrong with all the advice that tells you to stop behaving like an angry spoiled manchild jerk? This is the core of why girls don't want you. Be more positive, stop being so angry, stop thinking you are too good to make an effort, stop thinking you are a special snowflake who deserves everything given to you for free while everyone else has to work for it.

19 hours later 21438625 Anonymous
>>21438607 Because you are a liar.

20 hours later 21438635 Anonymous
>>21438600 The last one.

20 hours later 21438790 Anonymous
>>21438624 Jesus fucking Christ, I will repeat myself once more. You have no idea of how I interact with others(especially women). It should be obvious but for illiterate, mentally handicapped people like you I will explain that: no, I dont behave like an angry spoiled manchild jerk

20 hours later 21438797 Anonymous
>>21438790 You behave like an angry spoiled manchild jerk on a Sri Lankan tea brewing forum. There is no way you behave like a nice, mature, kind guy in real life despite what you tell yourself. Your desperation and anger shines through. Question: when is the last time you talked to a girl and asked her out?

21 hours later 21438810 Anonymous
>>21438797 >Sri Lankan tea brewing forum I'm sorry but is this some kind of meme. I cant understand it but I guess it's funny >when is the last time you talked to a girl Online - yesterday, in real life like 5 days ago >asked her out If asking her out means "I want you to be my gf" kind of stuff then never for no girl has ever shown me any kind of kindness. If you mean asking her out for a walk then 5 days ago

21 hours later 21438812 Anonymous
>>21438809 That's funny, anon, but you can't solve all your problems with beating people up

21 hours later 21438837 Anonymous
>>21438810 What online medium was this and how did you ask her? How did she react?

21 hours later 21438844 Anonymous
>>21438837 Okay, I don't live in the US, so you don't know this soc. network, but I guess it's something like Facebook. I literally asked: "will you go for a walk?", she said yes

21 hours later 21438856 Anonymous (1556700691375.jpg 640x480 106kB)
>>21435418 Stop taking advice from ultra faggots that lurk here because they have no idea what they're talking about , most of them are turbo orbiters or womenlets that read something on some leddit thread and started spewin their bullshit here, the first thing is to work on yourself for yourself, the second you start to do stuff for someone else especially women it's over, you have no idea how many of them told me that my 6'4 friend reeks of desperation, with his clothing, etc whilst the other 5'6 friend slays more puss on a weekly basis than me and a few other friends combined, why, because he doesn't give a single fuck, learn to not give on as well, and you'll see how everything changes, the second you stop putting them on a pedestal, even the 10s are insecure as fuck , they expect everyone to kiss their ass and to intimidate everyone in the room, when someone doesn't give them the attention they want , that's when the fun starts, because they start trying to figure out why, and you'll see how their mood change, for example, the 5'6 friend dragged the 6'4 one near him and started making the 5'11 vs 6ft fit meme, he used his manletism to his advantage.

21 hours later 21438879 Anonymous
>>21438844 And then what? Did you go on a walk?

21 hours later 21438880 Anonymous
>>21438856 That would be a good post if it were readable, could you learn about punctuation and paragraphs and then get back to us?

21 hours later 21438881 Anonymous
>>21438879 Yes. I think you could've guessed it from one of my earlier posts

22 hours later 21438891 Anonymous
>>21438844 >>21438881 She's graceful enough to keep you company and you whine that "no girl has ever shown me any kind of kindness"? Kill yourself you lying hypocrite piece of shit.

22 hours later 21438892 Anonymous
>>21438881 And then what happened? Did you enjoy each other's company, did you ask her out on a date?

22 hours later 21438909 Anonymous
>>21438891 >>21438892 Okay, it does seem like I'm lying about women hating me, but it's just what you see on a surface. Listen, this girl is about 7/10 lookswise. It was our third walk(if we are talking about combined time of our walks, I guess it's about three hours). So the first time we walked and, at the end, I asked her could she hug me, she refused saying shit like: OH I DONT LIKE BEING TOUCHED AND SO ON. We had a short a walk after that, where I simply gave her a little pat on the back you can say, she just ignored it, I guess. The last time we went out, I literally just tried to hug her myself, because she wouldnt let me, and... here is the moment you stupid motherfuckers will understand what I meant when I said that females think that I am subhuman... she fucking pushed me away. It fucking hurts, man(((

22 hours later 21438913 Anonymous
>>21435775 Ugly girls still date up

22 hours later 21438917 Anonymous
>>21438909 Damn you must be really revolting. Try dating some turbo ugly butterface chicks instead of going after 7/10s. 7/10s go after 10/10s Chads. Women date up. So you need to find yourself a girl who is uglier and more obnoxious to be around than you.

22 hours later 21438920 Anonymous
>>21438917 >Women date up And also down. Not uncommon to see an ugly guy with a hot girl. And no, not because they are rich.

22 hours later 21438931 Anonymous
>>21438920 Yeah, but anon doesn't strike me as someone who is worth dating down, if you know what I mean.

22 hours later 21438936 Anonymous
>>21438909 >I didn't respect her will and tried to force myself on her and she DARED defend herself against me!! She has every right to push you away when she doesn't want to be touched you keep trying to force her to what she DOESN'T WANT TO DO. You ARE a subhuman. For not respecting her when she told you NO. Kill yourself.

22 hours later 21438951 Anonymous
>>21438936 Oh my god, you actually are fucking insane here. So what the fuck do you want me to do? Just give up? Like: well she told to go fuck myself, so I should totally do it. I swear to God, If I was an 8+/10 guy, she would totaly hug me back and say: OH anon you are so selfconfident, I'm in love with you. But, since I'm ugly, thing aren't going this way, what a shame

22 hours later 21438954 Anonymous
>>21438951 Do you have any diagnosed mental illnesses or developmental issues?

22 hours later 21438956 Anonymous
>>21438954 Very funny. No

22 hours later 21438957 Anonymous
>>21438951 >So what the fuck do you want me to do? Just give up? Yes. She doesn't want you. Stop acting like a rapist and move on. >well she told to go fuck myself You're such a piece of shit you think you are entitled to sex and affection from women, you think it's something they owe you and when they don't you think it's a offense against you. That's how much of a piece of shit you are. You are not entitled to sex nor affection from anyone. She is entitled to not be raped nor harassed by creeps like you. She choose whom to give her affection to and you have no right to force her. You need to kill yourself if you don't accept this because it means you have the same mentality of a rapist and need to be locked up before you hurt someone. >If I was an 8+/10 guy Would change nothing. You're a creep and a wannabe rapist. Kill yourself.

22 hours later 21438961 Anonymous
>>21438931 Well that much is obvious.

22 hours later 21438963 Anonymous
>>21438951 Not sure if this is a troll or you truly are mentally ill. Seriously, go get a diagnosis for autism.

22 hours later 21438979 Anonymous
>>21438957 I hate violence, so you shouldn't be worrying about rape and stuff. What I was trying to say is that people, who say things like: OH JUST BE CONFIDENT BRO are stupid(you can actually see those people above in this thread). Also, these "hugging" thing is the only creepy thing that I did with her. We actuaaly have nice conversations about stuff that interest both of us. If she said: NO, I DONT WANT TO SEE YOU EVER AGAIN, I would instantly forget about her, but she still talks to me online. Please, don't say that I'm rapist wannabe, I'm just a little sad over not having a gf for so long, but I would rather kill myself, than to do something violent

22 hours later 21438985 Anonymous
>>21438979 You have a massive ego problem. You keep calling people stupid because they say things you don't like hearing, especially when they are true but you angrily deny them. If you are so smart and others so stupid, how come they know to get girls but you don't?

23 hours later 21438995 Anonymous
>>21438985 You are overestimating my ego. I guess you can say that I do call people stupid here, but you miss very important detail... I ALWAYS have an argument as to why that person( or more importantly his statement) is false/stupid. By the way, I actually never said that I'm smart, it's you projecting the idea, that I think so. >how come they know how to get girls but you don't? I'm tired of saying this already, but they are simply more attractive than me, It's that simple

23 hours later 21439014 Anonymous
>>21438995 What is your argument against "don't have such a shitty personality, having a good personality makes you more attractive"? All you have done is reeee angrily at this, despite it being true. You have convinced yourself that personality doesn't matter because that gives you an excuse to act like an angry shithead. Once again, look at what guys uglier than you who get girls do differently from you. Hint: they don't angrily screech at everyone with autistic rage. Nor do they forcibly attempt to hug someone when she clearly is not interested.

23 hours later 21439035 Anonymous
OP you sound exactly like Elliot Rodger. Did it ever occur to you that you are probably an average looking guy but it's your whiny, shitty personality that is putting people off?

23 hours later 21439049 Anonymous
>>21439014 I have already said this a million times: I(like any other normal person) don't act in real life the same way I act on fucking 4CHAN, is this so hard to understand? I don't like to talk about how I act in real life, because that sounds too egotistical and I don't like that. But, I guess, you can say I'm the quiet kind of guy, I'm always polite, really hate conflicts with other people, I guess you can say that I'm a little nerdy because of the things that interest me(also I wear glasses), but I talk about those things only with people, who are interested in them. I actually remember when my friend( who was a total chad) said to me that he envies me for my intelligence, so I guess you can call me smart. What I'm trying to say is: if personality mattered, then I wouldn't be writing all of this

23 hours later 21439075 Anonymous
>>21439049 Why do you keep saying personality doesn't matter? Why do guys uglier than you get girls? You even admitted earlier you practically assaulted a girl because she wasn't interested in you.

23 hours later 21439076 Anonymous
>>21438979 >I hate violence >I literally just tried to hug her myself, because she wouldnt let me You claim to hate violence but you show you don't hate forcing yourself on unwilling people. I think you're lying when you claim to hate violence. >she still talks to me Telling you to fuck off and leave her alone because you won't fuck off and leave her alone?

23 hours later 21439080 Anonymous
>>21439035 Okay, I've actually read the entirety of his manifesto(by the way, I think, if you separate it from his person, then his manifesto is 9/10 masterpiece, very underrated). And I do relate to him, although there are many differences between us: 1) I don't see myself as the greatest person ever 2) I hate violence 3) I'm not as good looking as him 4) I don't like first episodes of Star Wars

23 hours later 21439086 Anonymous
>>21439080 Why do you relate to him? Because he too whined about not having a gf while making absolutely zero effort to get one?

23 hours later 21439092 Anonymous
Feeling that you're too ugly is a tough barrier to overcome. Stop seeing people as someone to mate with, talk to people, build something meaningful with them, and then instead of getting upset when they don't like you back value them as your friend. There's no magic spell to love but there is a very forced view that we need to find love. Start finding people to value, spend time on them. Soon enough you'll find someone that keeps talking to you, and then talks to you some more, and so on. My only advice really is don't set the vapid goal of getting someone to fuck. Start by finding people who will make you happy even just as friends. Maybe im just a basedboy fag cuck tho

23 hours later 21439098 Anonymous
>>21439076 No, she just talks to me like nothing happened, I'm actually surprised by this, I thought she was going to block me I understand that what I have done is bad, but saying that I "assaulted" her is overreaction. In my opinion "violence" is something that you do to hurt people, but I, of course, didn't want to hurt her. I perfectly understand that I still did the wrong thing and I will never do something like this ever again

23 hours later 21439109 Anonymous
>>21439075 Because personality doesn't matter. I don't know anyone uglier than me who has a gf

23 hours later 21439111 Anonymous
>>21439086 Well, I guess you are right about relating to not having a gf, but I'm actually trying to get one. I have actually went for a few walks with a girl, it's a shame that she doesn't like me

23 hours later 21439118 Anonymous
>>21439098 >she just talks to me like nothing happened Screenshots then. You incels have a distorted view of reality and women all too often try to dump you subtly because they're afraid of men like you chimping out if they reject you bluntly. >saying that I "assaulted" her is overreaction Forcing someone to unwanted contact is assault. You minimizing it shows you don't care about her. >I, of course, didn't want to hurt her But you still did. You care more about yourself than her.

23 hours later 21439120 Anonymous
>>21439118 Whatever you say, anon.

24 hours later 21439130 Anonymous (all the same.jpg 640x1138 64kB)
>>21439120 No screenshots, eh? Learn from what this woman has to say to another incel who is just like you.

24 hours later 21439136 Anonymous
>>21439130 First of all, if you didn't get this already I don't live in an English speaking country, which means I talk with people on my own language, which means that you wouldn't understand it Second, I won't post screenshots of my chats to 4chan, that's retarded Third, I don't think you would be interested in a chat about the new Joker movie

24 hours later 21439182 Anonymous
>>21439136 >I'm full of bullshit There, tl;dr your post.

24 hours later 21439184 Anonymous
>>21439182 Um, no. This post has no lies. Why do you think otherwise?

24 hours later 21439201 Anonymous
>>21439109 You don't know many people then. I can 100% guarantee you that I know people uglier than you who have gfs or wives. This is not even up for debate. But you will still continue to refuse to accept reality and claim you are literally the ugliest man in the history of humankind.

24 hours later 21439207 Anonymous
>>21439111 If you were actually trying to get a gf you would listen to people who have managed to get gfs rather than repeat toxic rhetoric and lies of incels. Why do you listen to people who have never had any success with girls for girl advice?

24 hours later 21439213 Anonymous
>>21439201 I've never said that I'm the ugliest man in the history of mankind. I said that I don't know anyone uglier than me, who has a gf. Big difference

24 hours later 21439225 Anonymous
>>21439207 Look, I'm trying to be as polite as I can. It's just that i can't find the flaw in logic of incels, you can laugh as much as you want, but it's just true. While, on this site we have 160+ posts by now(by the way I actually cannot believe this post got so much attention, it's my second time making threads on 4chan and the first one got just 2 replies) and ZERO good advice. You can say: NO YOU HAVE IT ALL WRONG, HERE IS GOOD ADVICE, but I probably already debunked it's usefulness

24 hours later 21439233 Anonymous
I guess you should listen to some Phantom of the Opera.

25 hours later 21439246 Anonymous
>>21435418 Just live your life, my dude. You have to live for you. Do something you enjoy and get good at it, and go to the gym a few times a week. Take walks on the regular, and make time to have a cup of tea now and then.

25 hours later 21439272 Anonymous
>>21439184 You can censor any potential doxxing information like names and still leave up your chats to show us what you really are doing. 4chan is a global site, other languages are not a problem. Show us your texts if you have nothing to hide.

25 hours later 21439282 Anonymous
>>21439213 Then you know very few people. Everyone knows ugly men with gfs. Everyone. Except you. Literally the only man who doesn't. What a special snowflake you are.

25 hours later 21439284 Anonymous
>>21439225 >logic of incels There is no such thing, incels have no logic, only lies and fabrications

25 hours later 21439296 Anonymous
>>21439272 NO, anon, that's completely ridiculous, you can not believe me all you want(which I don't know why would I do that) but I want do something like this. It's true. You can simply believe it or not. If you dont believe me, that's fine, I don't care, I got nothing to prove. This thread is literally me talking about my problems in life, so why would I lie? Please, don't ask me about this anymore

25 hours later 21439301 Anonymous
>>21435682 ALPHA FUCKS BETA BUCKS

25 hours later 21439302 Anonymous
>>21439296 This thread is literally you whining and raging autistically while ignoring all advice. It's more than clear why you're not getting girls. It's obvious to everyone but you.

25 hours later 21439306 Anonymous
>>21435769 Read Ping Pong by Taiyo Matsumoto I know it's weebshit, but it's about the idea the genetic lottery determining your life rather than effort

25 hours later 21439316 Anonymous
>>21439306 The only time I read something by a japanese dude was when I read "Kafka On The Shore". I don't know if you read it, but...I will never read anything by japanese guys(except for manga, of course)

25 hours later 21439323 Anonymous
>>21439302 Okay, relax. Stop accusing me of "whining" and "raging". I never ignore advices, that I CAN use. C'mon, anon, if you are so good at this advice stuff, then give me some really good advice. I swear, that I will take it very seriously

25 hours later 21439333 Anonymous
>>21439323 Doubt it. But in any case. You managed to get a "date" so try again with another girl. This time don't force yourself physically on her. And just going for a walk is lame, at least meet her for drinks or coffee or lunch.

25 hours later 21439335 Anonymous
>>21439284 I don't know about this, but funny thing is... when I said on incel forum that I went for a walk with a 7/10 girl they all literally flipped their shit, screaming things like: YOU MOTHERFUCKER YOU SHOULD JUST KILL YOURSELF YOU FAKECEL CHAD PIECE OF SHIT. So, the funny thing is: I'm hated by both incels and people like here

25 hours later 21439350 Anonymous
>>21439333 Well, holy shit, after 180 posts, somebody actually posted something "okay", I guess. The problem is: your advice is like bashing your head against a wall, while not fixing what made you bash your head. So, I have to ask all girls that I know out on a "date" and hope that I find the one. Okay, I appreciate the effort anon, it's much better then OH JUST CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY BRO

25 hours later 21439366 Anonymous
>>21439350 And try to analyze objectively what you did wrong and should improve on. In addition to not forcing yourself on a girl ever again.

26 hours later 21439390 Anonymous (download.png 244x206 8kB)
>I feel like trash everyday. No matter what I do, I constantly think I am disappointing someone. >I have constant head pains >I don't find anything funny anymore. >I am slowly becoming number to social interaction HELP

26 hours later 21439395 Anonymous
>>21439366 Well, here is the problem: I don't think that I actually did anything wrong. About this whole forcing myself on her thing. Look, please, believe me, when I say, that I'm ashamed of what I did, but at the same time it was the only way to safely(!) know if she likes me or not, because the only other way is literally asking her to be my gf, but I don't think that I can do that, because I'm afraid of being rejected. Again, I'm not trying to say that what I did was right, but I just had to do this.

26 hours later 21439452 Anonymous
>>21439395 Before anyone gets confused, when I said: I don't think I actually did anything wrong, i meant BEFORE I tried to hug her

27 hours later 21439527 Anonymous
>>21435418 You've said it, " not beautiful enough" that means you are beautiful as everyone is, and the “ not enough” part is just a matter of preference trust me.

27 hours later 21439565 Anonymous
>>21439395 >I had to hug her against her will to protect my ego from getting verbally rejected after asking her to be my gf Yeah, no. You honestly sound like a troubled person, I would seriously advise seeing a shrink before going after chicks. On top of that, you sound desperate and pushy. Very unattractive. I'm not sure if I buy that you are too ugly to date... How would you rate yourself on 1-10 scale?

27 hours later 21439618 Anonymous
>>21439565 Once again, please don't say that I'm some kind of psychopath, it really fucking hurts, I have never wanted conflict with others and I hate violence. I have said in older post that I cant rate myself for I'm not a woman, but judging by how women react to me, I guess I could say I'm around 3/10

27 hours later 21439621 Anonymous
Why are you not seeking therapy? You clearly have issues.

27 hours later 21439624 Anonymous
>>21439306 Your effort is a result of the genetic lottery

27 hours later 21439627 Anonymous
>>21439618 >I guess I could say I'm around 3/10 Can you tell me why did you try to hit on a 7/10? Stay in your lane, dumbass.

27 hours later 21439633 Anonymous
>>21439621 What issues? I do have them, but I don't think therapy could fix them, but another therapy or you can say surgey could

27 hours later 21439647 Anonymous
>>21439627 Well, this is something that I haven't told, but... I have never approached her. See, the thing is, she came and started to talk to me, at that moment I thought that this was my chance and so I have offered her to be my friend and she agreed

27 hours later 21439652 Anonymous
>>21439647 Then you offered to be her friend and then you proceeded to hit on her? wtf fool

28 hours later 21439673 Anonymous
>>21439633 Massive insecurity. Special snowflake syndrome. Autism. All typical incel traits.

28 hours later 21439684 Anonymous
>>21439673 I know you are just making fun of me, because you are a bully, but I will take the bait. So, I obviously don't have autism, insecurity is completely normal, special snoflake syndrome... have no idea what you are talking about

28 hours later 21439697 Anonymous
>>21435697 >>WAHHHH women just judge me superficially I'm actually so awesome >>Proceeds to judge 30yo women superficially Every single time. These entitled sacks of shit complain about their hypothetical barely-legal virgin beauty rejecting them based on their looks and life circumstances then turn right around and say the exact same thing about women in their late 20's or thirties. Incels are literally the ISIS of the West.

28 hours later 21439700 Anonymous
>>21439684 Another anon here. I think you have some serious issues, but as I'm not a mental health specialist, I don't want to diagnose. What I can see though is that you are desperate, narcissistic and very whiny. The whole thing with unwanted hug is also disturbing, and so your admiration towards Elliot Rodger. I think you would benefit from a chat with a therapist.

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