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2019-06-13 02:39 21005876 Anonymous (anime_girl_drank.png 418x498 207kB)
>talk to someone everday for a week or so straight >we have lots in common, play games together and share music, fun time >goes offline forever >talk to someone everday for a week or so straight >we have lots in common, play games together and share music, fun time >ghosts me How can i tell what im doing wrong? This has really bothered me

9 min later 21005904 Anonymous
Usually people get freaked out at the "talk to this person every day for a week" stage. Most people, unless they are established multi-year friendships, aren't ready for that level of "closeness" that comes with chatting that often.

14 min later 21005916 Anonymous
>>21005904 Hm, thanks. Why would they message me like normal for a week then suddenly ghost me though?

19 min later 21005926 Anonymous
>>21005916 I would request chatlogs or something to try and make some guesses. Sometimes people just go crazy and remove everyone but it can't happen twice in a row with two different people. That's just far too unlikely. Also if you're meeting these people anywhere besides in-game, you should always expect the worst as far as GOOD friends. From my experience (which is a bit, I've been PC gaming for about 12 years), you'll find the good friends from games you've played together and communicated in, and flakey ones anywhere else.

49 min later 21006014 Anonymous
>>21005926 first person I met on omegle and second I met in a [spoiler]minecraft[/spoiler] server our last conversation was just talking about this one band we both like then we both said goodnight. and the other one we were just bantering like we usually did I really have no clue and I understand you cant tell much either, I dont even know why I made this post, just wanted to get this off my chest I guess

1 hours later 21006092 Anonymous
>>21006014 It's somewhat normal depending on the person I guess. Sometimes I feel like shit or I'm just too pressured and I can take a couple days to have the time to answer. But any under normal situations I always try to reply whenever I can. Some people take literal a week to answer and some forget to do. I honestly don't know neither, I think its rude to not reply to people but then again I'm a soft type of person so maybe it's rather normal for some type o folks. But yeah, I get you, I'd say its normal as long as they eventually get back at you.

1 hours later 21006113 Anonymous
>>21006092 >I'd say its normal as long as they eventually get back at you. no anon, these people haven't messaged me for months

1 hours later 21006123 Anonymous
>>21006014 >omegle and second I met in a minecraft server Are you 12?

1 hours later 21006135 Anonymous
>>21006123 no, not 12 minecraft server was a 18+ invite only type of thing

1 hours later 21006152 Anonymous
maybe you are just an asshole

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