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2019-06-12 11:22 21005322 Anonymous Jealousy (2D3C5AF5-9FA3-431A-BAC7-50F427BAB1EF.png 1243x1243 1052kB)
I’m so jealous of my boyfriend’s exes I want to cry. lol. Like I don’t talk to ANY of my exes, or anyone at all for that matter.. One of his exes worries me because she seems to still like him, i’m not sure but.. fuck they’re going to school together this year, and I’m nervous.. This isn’t my only issue with Jealousy I get so jealous of characters in books or television shows that I don’t even want to partake and right now I’m having a heart attack because he’s allowing this girl to talk to him. But that’s obviously extremely unhealthy right? HELP I can’t control myself my jealousy or envy and I just want it to stop.

3 min later 21005330 Anonymous
>>21005322 >getting into a relationship with someone who is still in touch with their ex, nevermind exes you honestly deserve to get cheated on if you do this

4 min later 21005336 Anonymous
(cont.) I have a sick feeling in my throat and tears in my eyes as well as an adrenaline rush or some sort of buzz rush to my brain, it’s an overtaking feeling but i KNOW i cant freak out or act irrationally I just want to get the FEELING out of my head and body and the anxiety I want it to go away, I figure if I can calm my jealous tendencies then this feeling will go away It hurts so bad and I get this way so often.. Am I focusing attention in the wrong places? What do I practice in order to fix myself??!

5 min later 21005342 Anonymous
>>21005330 still in touch? that seems a bit excessive.. i don’t deserve to get cheated on. they’re still in school together and she doesn’t have any friends.

1 hours later 21005634 Anonymous
>>21005322 <3<3<3<3 you're right femanon, contact me and we'll have fuck

2 hours later 21005654 Anonymous
dawg me too jealousy is really an awful feeling

2 hours later 21005665 Anonymous
Why do you believe in yourself so little that you feel he will leave you? Why are you relying on him for your self fulfillment instead of making yourself a full realized individual. If he cheats on you just leave him its that easy. Your a grown woman aren't you?

2 hours later 21005707 Anonymous
OP's bf here. <3 I love you, I blocked my ex right after lmao. She just said she saw me pick up some textbooks. <3 <3 I understand that your jealous, but trust me, I'm not going to leave you nor cheat on you because I dated this bitch waaaay back and it was only for a couple months aswell.

2 hours later 21005715 Anonymous
>>21005665 SJW alert.

2 hours later 21005724 Anonymous
>>21005707 OP Here, I love you more. Text me on insta, not fucking 4chan loser.

2 hours later 21005730 Anonymous
>>21005715 How am I a SJW?

2 hours later 21005740 Anonymous
>>21005730 op says ur not and thanks for the advice ma’am

6 hours later 21006329 Anonymous
>>21005724 so did you just admit to meeting your bf on 4chan? does he even use this board or are you taking a random anon's bait?

6 hours later 21006387 Anonymous
>>21006329 No this is my boyfriend lol we met in real life but he found the thread i made on him cuz that’s how we do I guess

6 hours later 21006390 Anonymous
>>21006329 he can’t fix my jealousy problems, hoping someone else could lol :,) so give advice please

7 hours later 21006408 Anonymous
>>21006387 i doubt that's him. anon's love to bait and pretend to be others all the time. >>21006390 it's pretty strange that he's still friends with his ex. they're exes for a reason. regardless, your jealousy is a mask for your obvious insecurity. he's with you for a reason, not his ex. this was the past and you have to try to let things go, think positively for what the future could be. i am in the process of doing this myself actually. this jealousy could be detrimental to what your relationship is and what it could be. maybe this isn't my place but i'll bite; if he can't reassure you he doesn't seem to be that great of a boyfriend.

7 hours later 21006414 Anonymous
>>21006408 op's bf here again. I'm checking up on this thread with her. She's in a video call with me :) so not bait. thank you for helping her with this, appreciate it. I try, but fail.

7 hours later 21006417 Anonymous
>>21006408 welly welly welly welly welly welly well it was my boyfriend we’re on the phone now, also thanks for the insight, he is reassuring but i guess i’m always looking for fast solutions, they aren’t friends but it bothers me that she reaches out to him, like I mentioned above, we’re in school so it’s hard to avoid certain peers especially with social pressure, i do trust him, it just seems to be the feeling of intense jealousy in general? yeah!! but any and all insight is appreciated :)

7 hours later 21006420 Anonymous
>>21006408 sorry i keep replying in different posts, but people keep saying it’s odd for people to be in touch with their ex etc, i wasn’t aware that it wasn’t normal.. although i monitor the situation, i will probably keep this in mind for some reason

7 hours later 21006561 CuddlesfromIllinois
>>21005322 Wife material.

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