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2019-06-12 09:58 21004997 Anonymous How did you deal with long oneitis? (imaftfges.jpg 188x268 12kB)
Any advice on how to stop thinking about the same girl for over 3 years? For those who overcame this type of thing without becoming a NEET, how did you do it?

8 min later 21005029 Anonymous
>>21004997 Man I don't know, I have the same problem for a year now. Maybe it's forever.

13 min later 21005047 Anonymous
>>21004997 People aren't that special for you to get so hung up on them. Realize that (I mean, genuinely and honestly realize that), and things get much easier.

15 min later 21005056 Anonymous
Literally been thinking about the same girl for over 10 years now. I don’t think it will ever stop. Thing is, even if she was sat in front of me right now I probably wouldn’t talk to her cause I just want to be alone. I fucking hate myself. Here’s your advice, it is what it is, deal with it.

37 min later 21005140 Anonymous
>>21005047 Thanks mate

38 min later 21005144 Anonymous
>>21005056 I kinda realised that. What kills me the most is still having hope

47 min later 21005184 Anonymous
>>21005140 Nah, I mean, it's just the truth. There are many different women you could be happy with, just if you both give yourself and forget about your insecurities. I also have a girl; three, but one really and genuinely; I have for years known I would like to spend the rest of my life with and would never regret the decision, even if it collapsed. But I'm fine without them. It sometimes gets me a bit sad, when I go out with them, but it is nothing decisive for my existence. It just tugs me occasionally.

4 hours later 21005826 Anonymous
>>21005047 This is pretty solid. Looking back I can see the wisdom in these words.

4 hours later 21005847 Anonymous
meet more women i literally dreamed of a girl that rejected me for like 5 years then i met a munch of women through work and that bitch is long gone of my mind

5 hours later 21005977 Anonymous
>>21005144 Never lose hope anon If you're still thinking of her that means the love you felt was strong Stronger than other types of love Keep thinking about her, i know it feels bad now but the next time think about her... please know that she is happy now. Maybe shes having an adventure, visting new places or meeting new people. She is doing fine...

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