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2018-12-19 03:29 20366956 Help me Depression (sad shit.jpg 260x194 4kB)
Hello! In short, my friend needs help with depression and I wanna help her. She tells all of her friends how she wants to kill her self and there's no meaning to life. I wanna help her get over that feeling. Thanks Any good advice?

9 min later 20366979 Help me
Any advice at all?

15 min later 20367000 Anonymous (84c8d9403499df4ef2ec70fa66214ed2_zpspr8hchdl.jpg 564x375 121kB)
>>20366956 > She tells all of her friends how she wants to kill her self and there's no meaning to life There's two types of nihilists; the ones who are depressed by nihilism and the ones who are happy because nothing matters. Just try to steer her towards the other kind of nihilism.

19 min later 20367011 Help me
Thanks! Any other thoughts or ideas on how I can do that?

26 min later 20367020 Anonymous
>>20367011 Need more details

30 min later 20367025 Help me
She told that taste of blood is good and when shes bleeding it is fun or gives good feeling

32 min later 20367030 Help me
I want her to live life and enjoy what she loves. She has told me things she loves to do etc. But she doesn't want to work with/for them.

50 min later 20367059 Anonymous
She needs professional help. Any way you can do some research and find a good therapist for her?

1 hours later 20367093 Help me
I could do that but the help she already has got hasn't worked, she got help from doctors and she takes medication but she says it doesn't help. Any thoughts?

1 hours later 20367119 Help me
and she is the second type nihilism

1 hours later 20367120 Anonymous
>>20367093 Could it be that she's just going through a goth phase?

1 hours later 20367140 Help me
Not sure, it has been her problem for 3 years or so

1 hours later 20367167 Anonymous
>>20367140 if she's been saying she's gonna off herself for years she's not gonna do it.

1 hours later 20367180 ...
Sure thing, but she doesn't get over it as well. Any tips for getting over depression in her case?

1 hours later 20367212 ...
I can see her trying to kill her self and it's not nice. I try to stop her and talk to her but it is not that easy.

1 hours later 20367256 Anonymous
My advice is that you stop trying to be Captain Save a Hoe and worry about your own problems. If you become an amazing person then she will be drawn to you and probably feel better from your positivity. Stop giving her attention when she acts depressed because you are creating a perpetual cycle of depression when you do this.

2 hours later 20367272 ...
Thanks but is it a good idea to try and be with her if she and I enjoy it?

2 hours later 20367294 ...
I mean in rs /love

2 hours later 20367344 Anonymous
any advice?

3 hours later 20367410 ano
Any tips from anyone?

3 hours later 20367414 Anonymous
>>20366956 She's attention whoring, drop her and forget her

3 hours later 20367470 Anonymous
>>20367454 > You sure? > Mostly I can tell when she wants attention and tries some suicidal things to me stop her but that's just some bs what I can pass by if she is an overall good person What does this sentence even mean? If she is going around telling people she's going to kill herself but does nothing to actually do it, she's just wanting attention. Cutting your self is not suicidal, it's a cry for attention. How many suicides do you know where the person talked about it openly with others before going through with it? Robin Williams? Kurt Cobain? Literally anyone?

3 hours later 20367496 ano
Sure thing, Thanks I quess

3 hours later 20367506 Anonymous
You would need to learn this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Lu PCAh9FCc

3 hours later 20367522 Anonymous
Valerian before bed. It works and it's natural.

3 hours later 20367554 .
>>20367522 What do you mean by that?

4 hours later 20367561 Anonymous
>>20367554 It's a really nice movie with beautiful visuals, leads to a nice sleep and good morning.

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