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2018-12-19 11:58 20366512 Anonymous (20181219_115724.png 582x893 571kB)
My friend and his girlfriend are always trying to set me up with a girl. I like their efforts but they are aiming way to high, they arange dates with girls that are way out of my league. First time I dodged, second girl didn't work out and now they are setting me up with an almost model tier girl. Are they trying to embarrass me? Getting laughs at my expense? Pic not related

18 min later 20366527 Anonymous
>>20366512 Accept the help man! It is up to the girl if she wants to date you, not up to you. Looks aren't everything you know

24 min later 20366531 Anonymous
>>20366527 True, but lets not kid ourselfs and say that it doesn't play a major role. The difference between our looks is just too much I feel like.

27 min later 20366537 Anonymous
>>20366512 Imagine being THIS dense

36 min later 20366541 H.J
>>20366531 Maybe you're just prettier than you think you are

48 min later 20366556 Anonymous
>>20366512 Go on a date with this kind of attitude and you will ALWAYS get fucked up. Even If the bitch is ugly. Pretty or ugly doesn't mean nothing. It's the ability to love yourself that will make the difference. What If you don't like yourself ? Just improve skills/body and shit.

54 min later 20366569 Anonymous
>>20366512 Same but they keep trying to set me up with fat chicks.

1 hours later 20366577 Anonymous
>>20366569 Kek Atleast you know they are within your reach, I guess..

1 hours later 20366592 Anonymous
>>20366577 I don't even know desu. I told them to stop doing that. So I just sperg out at them about anime and stuff and they leave. They've failed the test. One of them told me she's tired of being someone's mom kek.

1 hours later 20366602 Anonymous
>>20366512 Damn OP go. If other girls see you out with a model tier woman thats a good thing.

1 hours later 20366633 Anonymous
Problem is I'm 19 but still have so little experience dating. I shouldn't be aiming too high right now. I'm a fun guy but things fall flat when alone with girls I like.

3 hours later 20366910 Anonymous
>>20366512 What does she even look like, you are probably overestimating her looks

3 hours later 20366924 Anonymous (20181219_151222.png 714x714 732kB)
>>20366910 I mean she is not a model but very good looking non the less

3 hours later 20366935 Anonymous
>>20366924 I like her face and the fact she didn’t pose and dress like today’s common whore. Give it a shot.

3 hours later 20366955 Anonymous
>>20366935 Yes I will give it a shot, but I can't help but think she won't be attracted

4 hours later 20367061 Anonymous
>>20366955 Who cares man. You are putting too much focus on your looks , its the womans job to be the pretty one in the relationship.

4 hours later 20367104 Anonymous
>>20366955 >>20367061 She isnt even insanely hot or anything, and I don't mean that in a condescending or rude way. She seems like a sweetheart, literally just forget about looks and you'll be fine. I doubt you are as ugly as you think you are.

4 hours later 20367117 Anonymous (jim carrey.gif 250x250 417kB)
Your friends wouldn't try if they didn't think it had potential and every single date you will ever go on will fail with that shitty attitude, yes, even with those you perceive to be "in your league", that defeatist, self sabotaging attitude is pure cancer to you as an individual. >Are they trying to embarrass me? Getting laughs at my expense? Are you a high schooler, an autist or both? Who fucking does that outside of those trashy teenage romance movies? Give it a shot, worst case scenario the date won't work out, what's the worst that could happen? You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. >>20366633 What could possibly happen if you 'aim too high'? what could possibly be so dangerous about giving it a shot? I'll tell you what, the worst thing that could happen is that you don't click and it doesn't go anywhere, I'll say that again, you stand to gain everything and lose nothing. >I'm 19 but still have so little experience dating. Correction, you're ONLY 19, you're a 19 year old virgin, whoopdy doo, who gives a rat's ass. Your problem isn't a lack of experience but this self deprecating attitude, in your mind you'll be laughed at by the popular kids for trying and that you'll never recover from it because ???. Stop with this embarrassing self pity and just give it a shot, you don't need to start off with a practice girlfriend to be worth the attention of pretty girls, that's a retarded delusion created in the mind of a person with no experience. A relationship is just that, a relationship, the same way you don't need to have several crappy friends to have a good friend, you don't need to go through several mediocre girls to have enough street cred to go out with a good looking girl. If you click, you're good to go, if not, it's just spilt milk, don't cry over it. I should also point out girls don't care about looks in the same way a guy does, just have decent hygiene, don't be too over/underweight and don't be literally deformed and you stand a chance.

4 hours later 20367150 Anonymous
>>20367104 No you are right, I just think she is very cute. >>20367117 This is probably the wall of text I needed, thanks anon. I should probably try getting of this site aswell

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