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2018-12-19 12:18 20366296 Anonymous (1543675590900.jpg 472x631 38kB)
Can I win back my man's heart with good food and blowjobs? We're both 8/10 ish and have been in a new city together for a year. He started doing some therapy and stuff months ago and has been working on improving his life overall. He is extremely insecure and would call me 99x any time I used to go out with friends, throw out passive aggressive remarks when I tried to be kind or honest. I figured therapy would help but it wasn't. I lost interest in sex with him the more he pressured me to be around and give him sex. He started to act a little different eventually, no longer eating meat (which I know he knows makes semen less salty), giddy then guilty and buying lots of gifts, as if he'd fucked another woman (which I saw coming but wasn't upset by because loss of love and resentment). We talked and agreed things weren't working, and left it at that, whatever happens happens type thing. For a while he even wasn't interested in sex, though we tried, which ended up making him feel confused? He said he just wants blowjobs the rest of his life, but is also very distant and said he doesn't care what I do anymore, doesn't call if I'm out. I said fuck it and started giving him a BJ every morning, cause while I do resent his behavior, I do care, and we still try to be courteous. Mostly. We joke around. He's still very distant though, and only touches or looks at me during the BJ. It doesn't take him long to cum and I'm fine continuing to give them, however... I'm lonely. When he's done I hop off with a smile and do whatever next because I don't want to pressure him or anything. Today he mumbled asking if I wanted to wash off since we were in shower but I left. Maybe I should hug him after next time? So? Can this be salvaged or...?

2 min later 20366300 Anonymous
Break up idiot

2 min later 20366303 Anonymous
>>20366296 What a trainwreck of a relationship

6 min later 20366318 Anonymous
do you people have nothing to do but LARP all day?

17 min later 20366339 Anonymous
>>20366296 >blowjob every day you can come over to my house and be my new gf you idiot larper

18 min later 20366344 Anonymous
>>20366318 >>20366339 I don't understand. I'm not Larping.

22 min later 20366346 Anonymous
>>20366296 Hmm? Dude married for 20 years here. Recently got a lot of bjs and didn't want to hump. I was hating her. Did not have the emotions to want to do it. In my mind, eventually, she quit making me hate her and now we're cool again. Don't know what the fuck but there are ups and downs in a relationship. One of you are have issues that aren't really related to sex. I can't speak on insecurities. I don't give a fuck if she wants to go to the strip club with the girls (or whatever gals do.) if you want to keep him, you're doing everything right. I'm sorry bitches have to give blow jobs but it is a good way to keep him from going totally dead on you. Yes you can. I could tell you to dump him too but your question is about winning his heart.

22 min later 20366349 Anonymous
>>20366296 Kek, LARP But if he was 8/10 and bettering himself he's 10/10 now and realizes he can do better than a 8/10 LARPER on 4chan

24 min later 20366352 Anonymous
not op but what does larp have to do with this? is it just a convoluted way of calling ops post fake and gay?

36 min later 20366387 Anonymous
>>20366346 Thank you for the encouragement.

13 hours later 20366620 Anonymous
>>20366296 you can't win his heart if he doesnt want to look into his own heart You are a kind person and that's great But look >throw out passive aggressive remarks when I tried to be kind or honest. >I figured therapy would help but it wasn't. that means he doesnt want to work on himself Do you want this for the rest of your life ? If not just leave him after explaining why you do, this is the best thing to do if you care about him actually growing as a person and be honest w/ himself for once

13 hours later 20366759 Anonymous
>>20366318 >>20366339 This is obviously not a LARP and only a genuine female could possibly type this fucking mess.

14 hours later 20366767 Anonymous
>>20366352 Exactly

15 hours later 20366978 Anonymous
>>20366303 dis ... I fucking lost Anyway , do you want a new BF ? Cuz I can do the work ;-)

15 hours later 20367005 Anonymous
>>20366620 Honestly part of the reason he's like this right now is he thinks I cheated. We weren't having sex a while already and I have a lot of what I guess you dicks here call "orbiters," he knows that and also may have been/may be seeing someone else? He's being sketchy so I'm just going to keep blowing him while keeping my options open too at this point.

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