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2018-03-04 05:31 19320980 Anonymous Dating advice (IMG_4947.jpg 500x500 219kB)
Should I date a girl with whom I didn't have that initial spark of physical attraction? I met up with this girl a couple of days ago for a coffee and we got on really well. She's interesting, funny, intelligent and we talked for hours with no awkward silences. Yet while I'm very much attracted to her personality, I didn't think there was much physical attraction between us. She's not ugly in any sense of the word, just not my usual type. I don't want to appear as shallow, but should I keep dating this girl? Could physical attraction be something that builds over time? While I'd love to get to know her better, there wasn't that initial animalistic desire that I'd had in my past relationships. What do I do? Am I being an asshole?

2 hours later 19321397 Anonymous
>>19320980 Date her for the experience / learning how to date people better. If she tries to get serious and you don't want it, tell her you don't want it and move on. If you're really concerned about how she feels, i'd come clean and tell her you're only interested in her as a friend at that point. If you work out and end up liking it (or having it be tolerable), then no problem!

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