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2018-03-03 11:59 19320006 Anonymous How should I proceed? (tgg.jpg 701x394 271kB)
So, there's this girl I've recently started talking to and over the past couple of weeks she's been complaining to me about her boyfriend. At the same time she's also wanting to talk more and more, giving me gifts, stuff like that. It got to the point where her friends are telling me they are pretty sure she's after me. This comes to a head about a week ago when a friend and I ended up meeting up with the two (friend and boyfriend hang out a lot) and holy shit. She literally gave me a gift she had intended for him, I was afraid shit was going to hit the fan then and there, and it nearly did, he flat out asked her if she had a thing for me. I would never do anything with somebody in a relationship, but she's made it fairly clear that they won't be for much longer. If they do break up, how long should I wait to ask her out, and should I at all considering she was that brazen in front of her current boyfriend?

2 min later 19320013 Anonymous
She's doing it now to him, later she will do the same thing to you.

8 min later 19320037 Anonymous
>>19320013 That's what I would have thought from the start, but the guy treats her like shit. Who screams at their girlfriend in front of a crowd of people? So I guess a good follow up question would be do you think she's being like this because he's an asshole or that's just what she does?

21 min later 19320081 Anonymous
>>19320037 I'm not one of those hateful incels who'll tell you all women are horrible or plug MGTOW or anything, but she sounds like trouble mate. Go for it if you're cool with her eventually complaining about what a prick you are to the next guy while you're still together. >Who screams at their girlfriend in front of a crowd of people? Someone going through the ordeal of watching their girlfriend lining up the next guy right in front of them. Sure, he should have more self-control and should have bailed already, but don't imagine he doesn't know what's happening or that it feels at all good. >do you think she's being like this because he's an asshole or that's just what she does? It sounds to me more like he's being an arsehole because she does that. He might also just be an arsehole though - you're the only one here who knows the guy.

1 hours later 19320262 Anonymous
>>19320006 >posting pic of Gatsby as you talk about how you're into a taken woman Dont know if you read the book, but Gatsby did what you're doing and that motherfucker wound up dead. Tread lightly

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